Lately I got upset with a co-worker and how she treats everyone like garbage, doesn't do her job and acts hypocritical. She's been like this for half a year. I finally snapped, cursing and yelling because I was done dealing with it all. The point: You helped me realize that although I did yell, curse, made myself a fool, I stood up for myself in the end. Thank you for your wisdom, and thank you for spreading said wisdom through a noble character

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" 🔥 Thats a fuckin bar

"people who love themselves don't hurt other people"

He is like a father to us all.

Joshua Graham is "mostly" what I wished my dad was like, personality-wise

I like to think all of these are JG teaching all of the Dead Horses/Sorrows about Christ around a campfire

Why are these helping me more than any self help influencer and pod cast alpha dog bull shit. I know Joshua Graham never said this, but I feel a soul in it. thanks man

Having read the description, I must admit that I admire your writing. It's nice to know that your script wasn't written by a soulless AI but instead by a living person.

So far all the Joshua Graham ai/scripts/voicelines is the best use of ai 'generators'. Also its very interesting to see, that people who play crpgs more often than not are heavy thinkers :) Huge thumbs up, please deliver more

Genuinely great life advice. Great video you made, Graham's voice is so damn soothing on top of it too

If you can’t treat me like im someone important. Then please, don’t disrespect me. Love that line 5:31

Joshua is the dad most of us never had or so I've heard

Really good taste on quotes sir

*WE CANT EXPECT GOD TO DO ALL THE WORK*

Well, this popped up at the perfect time for me, as I'm struggling to respect myself... Sorry to vent, but this whole thing, ESPECIALLY 1:05 , 5:42 - 5:55 and 7:50 spoke to me. I liked a girl, we'd spend a lot of time together talking about personal stuff, supporting each other as best we could, bonding over a shared hobby. It started out platonic, but my feelings began to change and I was thinking of how to approach the situation. So, she spends time alone in a place with a "friend" and frames it as such... I trusted her to tell the truth. Turns out it was her boyfriend, that she had never mentioned to me and I only figured this out because she had a slip up while venting to me. I wasn't mad about her having a boyfriend, I was more mad that she was comfortable lying to me for such a period of time... She said she NEVER lied about it. When I asked, "Does your boyfriend know you're going around telling people he's just a friend?" She said I was taking her words out of context... So I copy and pasted her words exactly where she said she was meeting up with a "friend", and she asked why I even still had those (apparently she expects me to delete all traces of our conversations). She then said it was "none of my business", and she swears that she still never told a lie, she was just being vague (pretty big difference between, "I'm meeting up with a friend" vs "I'm meeting up with a boyfriend.") I got angry, I fully admit that and told her, somewhere along the way, she'd gotten used to disrespecting and lying to me... Which she claims I was just putting words into her mouth. The boyfriend stuff was mostly secondary, it was mainly the sheer level of disrespect and refusal to accept that she was lying to me that angered me. She said the positive parts of her life were none of my business, but she felt comfortable venting about the negatives... What? lol Based on context of her hiding his existence from me, lying to me about it, refusing to admit it was a lie and apparently scrubbing traces of my existence from her devices (since I doubt most men would be ok with their girlfriends spending hours alone with another guy, talking about their emotions, I doubt he knows I exist either)... I strongly believe she was using me to have an emotional affair (no one in their right mind would willingly agree to be The Other Man/Other Woman), and to make matters worse, she asked me to help lift her spirits for the meeting... So all that trust I had in her was used to help her get her back blown out by another man. I'm fairly certain she knew how I felt, as she went to quite a few extremes to hide his existence from me (and probably mine from him if she regularly scrubs our chats) and wanted to keep us both for her convenience. She told me she had boyfriends before (and told me about them, which I was fine with), but she only NOW decided to start hiding it? Yeah... I'm not an idiot lol. ... While the knowledge my trusting nature was abused and made me resentful of people, this video helped me remind myself that I deserve better than being disrespected in such a way (not being anyone's emotional side piece, being lied to, gaslighted, etc.). If she'd just been honest with me from the start, I probably wouldn't have cared that much... Now she apparently wants to talk to me but is apparently annoyed as to why I no longer want to speak to her about her "personal life" since... Well, according to her that's none of my business so I just stopped lol. I lost pretty much all interest in her as a friend, let alone a woman, as... Without trust and respect, I just don't see a point in being around people and she will lie to me and not see it as a big deal. I strongly suspect a lot of what she told me about herself was a lie now. She claimed she respected me but... Actions speak louder than words. I may not have much, but I have my self-respect and the peace of mind being away from her negativity.

i take these joshua graham videos to heart and ever since my life has been better and more positive, thank you for this.

Great vid. It just needs a few little breaks of silence, giving the listener a moment to consider what JG just said.

Such beautiful words. Needs millions of views, but the people who see this are blessed, so thank you ❤️

I'm sorry for disrespecting any person on my path in life.

I'm so glad we have all realized the inspiring potential of Joshua Graham's voice, but I'm also just amazed that the lessons people have chosen to teach using it are extremely wise and well written. I hope that these help as many as possible

This video came in the right moment of my life, so did all the joshua videos, thank you man.

What a fascinating mix of misguided yet well-meaning advice, paired with sound and rational advice

Thank you for having Joshua speak about God and the devil. I've seen people having Joshua speak in a very secular way, which is a perversion of his character imo. My only complaint is his mention of karma. He does not believe in karma. He is a follower of our Lord God, Jesus Christ first and foremost.

Let God deal with the things they do, because hate in your heart will consume you too. He was cooking with that.

Thank you so much for this video . I needed to hear this

Where’s more of this been when, I actually needed it 😂 hope someone gets this message in time and find clarity

The part about the insults really hit me hard. Got out of bed at 2am to write it down

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. I love that.

I have been so unmotivated and lost in life. This is something that I NEEDED to hear and listen to. Thank you for such a beautiful video form such a legendary character

We are all the same under god. Also, tolerance is a contract- you break it, you will be broken.

This man quoted Will Smith. There is no damn way lmao.

Words to live by

Man I love you're channel 😊

Truly amazing

Great content , just subbed to the channel keep it up 🔥

You’re amazing

Learned much of this the hard way as I'm closing in my 20s. Choice picks 👍

This is the truth top g

Great video! I just couldn't understand what to do when disrespected. Top it, ignore and don't respond? Or stand up for yourself and respond in a ferm but not with insults?

Nearly every Joshua Graham video leaves me self reflecting.

Am only a minuet in, but this is some beautiful stuff.

I love it

Can I have a Mini-Joshua Graham on my shoulder at all times?

*Laughs* Amen!

Real.

The first quote, "don't lie to yourself," is said by Father Zosima from The Brothers Karamazov, probably the greatest novel written.

Coming from a man who preaches righteousness, respect and moral vengeance; this couldn't have been a better topic to collect and voice with AI.

wow

0:31 powerful

If NV were a movie id nominate Bruce Campbell to play Joshua

I like to think this was the conversation that convinced my junkie do gooder, talk hot shit to anything mildly antagonizing courier to not just murder Ulysses. This was the moment my boy decided on getting speech to 100

"Hate in your heart will consume you too" don't go thinking we missed that Will Smith quote

I had a few people disrespect me. It was online but I just laughed it off. I try not to take things personally. If it’s criticism, then I listen, if it’s blatant disrespect, then I shoot back or laugh. But with two groups of people, who disrespected me. But, after some time, we became friends. All I did was laugh and stayed with them. I never yelled or cursed at them, I was calm and gave them some respect. Whenever they insulted me I just kinda made fun of it, because it was poorly crafted.

IF THE FALLOUT SHOW DOES NOT HAVE GRAHAM IN IT I AINT WATCHING IT

Wise words, I shall remind myself of this in times of disrecpect and hate. By the way, what does it mean to "top it"? I'm not a native speaker and internet gives me weird results for my native language

Do you have a written document of this? this was very influential and I would like to read it myself time to time.

It's like Jordan Peterson got covered in pitch and tossed in a canyon aflame, bucko.

Karma is not real

What if I have respected all but myself while having bowls of disrespect poured upon you like the bowls of rath to be poured out at the end of days? Would you still say never disrespect? If yes you know not the true meaning of turning the cheek.

You lost me at "man, woman, chick, or child. " I can't imagine him referring to any female as a chick. Knocked me right out of the immersion. 😂

Mr Graham as a tribal I gotta ask what is a restaurant?

1:16

I would love to have the full script in text, please!

What does it mean with "if you can't ignore an insult, top it", what does it mean to "top it"?

I’ve been doing a lot wrong. Where do I start

3:12

Lemme get that .45

Why is there a spike in the audio at around 1:25? Feels jarring.

Source of the reading?

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I disagree with the getting angry part

Can we get one of Joshua Graham talking on Bigotry, and that it's okay to be transgender? I think that'd be perfect

if you accept disrespect from others youre disrespecting yourself. go tell that to an 18 year old black kid in chicago and see how holy you become

a couple good points but failed one using the word chick, and then repeating the words a 2nd time did a edgelord write this?

Shame is only an effective tactic with which other people can manipulate you if you agree with their evaluation of you. If you let other people decide your value or lack of value, instead of simply believing that you have it, you are all but guaranteed to be miserable. No other person will ever be as invested in your happiness, fulfillment or contentment as you. Expecting otherwise is foolishness.

Damn this is good