Your channel is saving my life. Thank you for that.
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
love you! 💜
@mw23912 жыл бұрын
Mine too ..Thank you Aileen♥️🥰
@typhaniford78122 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@justineleconte7 жыл бұрын
Great points... I keep a list of little things I love to do (e.g. walking barefoot in the grass, making a snowball...) & when need a kick, I pick one item from that list and I do it. It solves many problems 😊
@kateconcepcion79567 жыл бұрын
Justine Leconte officiel Amazing practice! ☺
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
love that idea! :D
@yumnaamjad26374 жыл бұрын
1.human connection 2.following ur passion 3.enganging five senses 4.exercise 5.humor focus on little joys in life
@jamiejensen24037 жыл бұрын
Another category for me is nature. I find the purest moments can be when it's quiet and you can really take in the colors around you and breathe fresh air
@blankpaperstudios7 жыл бұрын
btw I love your hair, makeup, and outfit in this vid Aileen! You are seriously so pretty!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
aww thank you love 😘
@tami3707 жыл бұрын
so happy i've found your channel. it is helping me from getting out of my depression. love you. ❤
@lourdesbarquin97087 жыл бұрын
You're literally my psychologist. Thank you, muchas gracias! Greatings from Spain xx
@hoaithuongvodo26727 жыл бұрын
Your back to basics series just come as a coincidence to me because I've been suffering from depression. Thanks so much for reminding me that happiness can come from very simple things around us. Love ya!
@InspiredLifeChannel5 жыл бұрын
Keeping a journal of grateful moments is a great way to enjoy life
@alexandralegrand13487 жыл бұрын
Your videos are a limitless source of happiness.
@marissabranson65153 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I love the idea of writing a list of things that make me feel alive and then seeking those things.
@whitecloudov9687 жыл бұрын
One of my resolutions is to do more things that make me happy. Which got me to ask myself well, what makes me happy? So I started paying attention and writing a list when something made me smile or laugh. Now even the list makes me smile. Joy can be found all around you. You just have to train yourself to look for it and when some days it is harder than others, you can go to your list. At least it's what I do. :)
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
:) that's beautiful! agreed
@rekhalahkardeka49897 жыл бұрын
You spread joy,Lav and I seriously mean it.I love you very much.😘😘😘😘
@alyssawolfe28797 жыл бұрын
I recently found your channel through a suggestion from shameless maya and I'm so thankful that I did! I'm going through postpartum depression and I'm binge watching all of your videos. They are really boosting my mood and helping tremendously. You're such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for creating such positive content 💖
@enialb7 жыл бұрын
I needed this today. Thank you! Off to my journal right now!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
:D
@KatieFilms7 жыл бұрын
I love this series!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
😊 so glad you do!
@Emma-mn1nw7 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire This series is just soooooo cool😍
@livingunjaded7 жыл бұрын
I had a coach who said "Enthusiasm is contagious" all the time! I think what you said about joy being contagious is so true and another reason why surrounding yourself with people who share their joys and passions with you is so important :)
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
yes!
@rozenerucita66437 жыл бұрын
im thankful that i found this channel, so that everytime i feel down, i can watch her video and feel great again abt my self, bless you aileen😭 u r so inspiring
@whatlauralikes.7 жыл бұрын
My most recent pure joy moment was last Friday night when I went on stage for the first time of my life to sing and dance. It was the final show of a one-week Glee bootcamp where we learned the songs and dancing moves. I had hesitated a lot before signing up because I was scared and I've never sung in public but my beautiful person encouraged me + you guys on the Lavendaire Facebook Page helped me make up my mind as well. I've rarely ever felt this happy, I didn't expect to feel so much excitement and happiness, I couldn't stop smiling during the whole thing. It was PURE JOY.
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
that's amazing!! omg i'm so proud and happy for you! I can totally feel your joy just reading this comment. that show sounds so fun!! 😍✨
@josefine6357 жыл бұрын
whatlauralikes. ☽ Laura! I remember we talked about it in the Lavi Lifestyles group under your post about it! I'm so glad it made you so happy!
@whatlauralikes.7 жыл бұрын
♥♥
@loona57957 жыл бұрын
I'm so inspired with your channel. It really helps me a lot. It helps me handle my depression and anxiety because of your videos. Keep on inspiring others
@crazybitchinblue5 жыл бұрын
another category i think is nature, it is so beneficial and makes me feel so safe and secure
@DoctorNikkiP7 жыл бұрын
Joy is such a wonderful fruit of the Spirit! Love this episode and series ☺️
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
yes!
@noelle7117 жыл бұрын
you're so beautiful inside and out and ahhh I love your videos so much. they make me so very happy. I'm always in such a better mood after watching them and I just wanted you to know that your positivity makes me really happy and at peace :)
@Splitleaf7 жыл бұрын
Aileen! You should read "Happy at Last" by Richard O'Connor. It's mainly for recovering from depression, but it has some amazing tips and techniques I think you'd really dig!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
thanks for the rec!
@ddmariz7 жыл бұрын
Love this series! It's nice to be reminded of simple things.
@InlinewithTima7 жыл бұрын
i love ur videos you are such an inspiration.. a fan from Morocco
@minajelenic44856 жыл бұрын
Dear Aileen, you are such an inspiration 🍀
@choosehappy5765 жыл бұрын
Watching your videos gives me joy🙂
@thisismedarsh69705 жыл бұрын
YES same!! :)
@sbegum294 жыл бұрын
Choose Happy SAME🤩
@julia_122 Жыл бұрын
adding something to the list : your vedios bring so much joy to my life love you
@sunynasaun77464 жыл бұрын
1. Human Connection 2. Passion 3. Engaging all senses 4. Physical movement 5. Humour and comedy
@RhaizaRobles7 жыл бұрын
You inspire me so much and I want to thank you because lately I've been listening to everything that you always talk about and I'm so thankful for the small things. I started morning pages and it's so amazing. So I decided to move on with starting a blog and that's exactly what I wrote about last night. Being thankful with what with have. Last night I was just thankful for being able to watch tv with my husband and children.
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
@katiethomas58897 жыл бұрын
Such a helpful video. We rarely (we as in adults) rarely celebrate what brings us joy because we often get so busy.
@PrincessImaani7 жыл бұрын
Hiya lovely, I feel joy when I see your new videos:) sounds weird but true. I have found myself through your videos. You are such an inspiration and I wish you only the best:) thank you for all you do for us people. Huge hug from us all:)
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
aww thank you! hugs!
@DarleneSterling7 жыл бұрын
I always look forward from a post from you. Great video!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
💜
@pragyasingh79063 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that you are in my life
@valeriemaldonado17586 жыл бұрын
Your videos bring me joy and make me smile. I find encouragement in everything about them. Thank you.
@lisaladenburger7887 жыл бұрын
So much more people should whatch your videos, you're amazing, what you say is so right, and inspiring! Thank you for that.
@QuanTripp7 жыл бұрын
Hey Lavendaire, thank you for the inspiration. It's amazing how we can find joy from the simple things in life. :)
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
so true :)
@priscillajimenez274 жыл бұрын
"Happiness, ain't something you sit back and you wait for"- Dance Again, Rare Album, Selena Gomez 😊
@blankpaperstudios7 жыл бұрын
I totally second what you said about humor! I have the worst PMS and during that time I like to watch stand up comedy, cause it really helps with my moodiness and takes my mind off the cramps.
@whatlauralikes.7 жыл бұрын
blankpaper I totally agree ! I was having a very sad day today and I watched that viral video of a cook frying gnocchis (look it up!) and it cracked me up to the point it made my stomach hurt hahaha
@blankpaperstudios7 жыл бұрын
OMG I looked it up! 😂😂
@whatlauralikes.7 жыл бұрын
blankpaper just thinking about it makes me crap up omg I hope it made your day!
@blankpaperstudios7 жыл бұрын
OMG yes! I'm still laughing. Thank you for that! 😄
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
i love stand up comedy! watch it with my boyfriend all the time ^_^ Some faves are Ali Wong & Trevor Noah 😊
@TheArjun1167 жыл бұрын
Aileen Xu, I really wanna appreciate ur intention and effort to make our world more beautiful. Your videos are fuel to the soul☺
@xJacquelineBx7 жыл бұрын
god aileen, your videos literally always make my day. this message was so beautiful, thank you, thank you, thank you!
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
aww so sweet 💜💜💜
@CarinaandZara7 жыл бұрын
Ah this is amazing i need to do this and understand what brings me joy! :) Thank you aileen!
@m1kamikachu7 жыл бұрын
Your videos completely help me so much, you are so bright and positive and you influence me in so many good ways. Love your content ♥
@jennymay47206 жыл бұрын
You are just so right!
@whataimeewants7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing joy to all of us Aileen. 😘
@angelagrimes82373 жыл бұрын
Perfect! Thank you!
@Emma-mn1nw7 жыл бұрын
I look up, to hearing you, always!!!
@charlotteelizabethdalzells5064 жыл бұрын
Thank you this such a helpful and relevant video 🤗💕
@robinc26517 жыл бұрын
My joy comes from Jesus Christ!! Tfs!
@celestinedass59473 жыл бұрын
I feel amazing listening to u
@mimibatman27877 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for your post!!! I love your channel so much!
@malisatep90087 жыл бұрын
I am loving this Back to Basics series! :)
@Riema5057 жыл бұрын
so graceful ... also I wanted to add that gratitude leads to finding joy but I'm guessing you have a whole video coming for that 😉❤❤❤
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
ah i agree! should add that to the list :) and yes you're right - i was planning to do a separate video on Gratitude in this series since it's such an important foundation too
@Riema5057 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire I really love this back to basics series.. thank you for reminding us all about it .. I wanted to say that one of the things that help me to stay connected to the basics of life is to grow a plant .. the way they grow and the way the need your attention and constant care helps a lot .. I wish you do a video about plants I've noticed you love them too . .❤🌱🌱
@nadyarizkizahrani80516 жыл бұрын
Thankyouu
@paulterl45637 жыл бұрын
Seen it since 2:33... but thinking at the list... at those passed moments of joy. And you know? ...I have not one of them...for the list. Well, nevermind, just to share. p.x.: maybe in the (I hope near) future something joyous will come.Anyway, thanx for you for sharing this.Ciao
@kristinaparis63657 жыл бұрын
🌸✨🙏🏼I think that you have the most beautiful and true channel of youtube ... thank you for everything you share with us 🌸✨🙏🏼
@happinesss26 жыл бұрын
Love this! And your choker!
@roncarp Жыл бұрын
Amazing uplift
@Librocubicularists7 жыл бұрын
This video was something I really needed today. Thank you :)
@susanwesley54096 жыл бұрын
I love ur thoughts and insights.... Glad to know about u... Usually I never comment on any KZfaq videos.. this is first time .. u r just amazing.. way to go 😘👏👏😘
@BeJoyfulBeWell7 жыл бұрын
Great video! It motivates me to live more in the moment, great reminder.
@farianuroboni58277 жыл бұрын
I am falling in love with you.😍 You're a goddess. Your videos are so inspirational. Now-a-days, I start my day by watching your videos and end my day with it. Keep it up.💞
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
+faria nur oboni aw love you!
@Lumary7 жыл бұрын
Great video and you are looking flawless! :-)
@user-vp7le8el8n7 жыл бұрын
thank you for this !
@SanaShaikh-xb5mt6 жыл бұрын
Keep making such videos 💖 Such a good content
@davidmichael29787 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say I loveeeee your videos and your channel.😍 You and your videos are just so motivational and I love it like go you
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
thank you love!! xx
@chvp46056 жыл бұрын
Quite helpful,thank you💕💙🌸
@missmobley5 жыл бұрын
Your makeup is so gorgeous
@divyam17416 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful video.
@munibaahmad33892 жыл бұрын
Love u sooo much Ailen❤️🥰😘😘😘
@kristina_pls7 жыл бұрын
i totally love your channel. it's so inspiring ❤
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
tysm!
@fabulousjenny176 жыл бұрын
when people eat my food and genuinely like it I feel so joyful
@kuinimeritalo15667 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much
@maleahyee37797 жыл бұрын
How do you not have a million subscriptions?!
@shawneewind40827 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this
@user-yi1sm2lt6v3 жыл бұрын
thank u
@LeylaJhangVlog7 жыл бұрын
Love it🌟🌟🌟
@graciekerr31377 жыл бұрын
Aww such a beautiful dog
@DigitalBeautyVault7 жыл бұрын
Hi Aileen, all that you said makes perfect sense. :) Thank you for sharing your positiveness. I'm just wondering, what are you doing for a living? Are you a full time youtuber or do you have a business? Also, can you recommend a youtube channel that is also as inspiring as yours? Thanks a lot. You always save my day.
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
so glad it helped! yes i full time content create (youtube videos + podcast) and have a business selling my Artist of Life Workbook (lavendaire.com/2017workbook). Another great channel you'd like is MuchelleB. Tell her I sent you! 😊
@DigitalBeautyVault7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Aileen. I'll sure do check her out. Kudos*! :)
@Holmes9949-x5n7 жыл бұрын
This was so inspiring❤
@typhaniford78122 жыл бұрын
hahaha this video brought me joy!!!!1
@tralinhhoang22562 жыл бұрын
Love U so much❤️
@cheexiong85227 жыл бұрын
love ur videos!!!
@lobsangchoetso53186 жыл бұрын
You look so pretty and your tips are my joy.😍
@0oumaima4867 жыл бұрын
hy i love you, you are such an inspiration
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
✨
@ikigaiharmony43493 жыл бұрын
Your channel is a blessing. I want to have a friend like you Lavandaire. Hello from Philippines!
@lesliechavez52506 жыл бұрын
Your amazing. I look up to you. Thank you for what you do. Id like to meet you. You ever come to western ma ? Thx xoxo
@issy06137 жыл бұрын
Should pure joy also come from your career? How do you decide whether to make your passion your career or instead opt for/stick to a financially stable, job secure career and keeping that passion a hobby?
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
yes i can also come from your career :) i don't think it's one or the other, and it also depends on what your passion is & how it can translate into a career. you can find a career that you love that is financially stable. maybe it won't be your "passion" but it can be related, where your skills cross over. it really is up to you how you want to make it work!
@user-gl5dy2ms6c7 жыл бұрын
My name is farah (arabic name)and it's means joy 👍🏻😂just saying
@Riema5057 жыл бұрын
Farah فروحة 😍😍🌹
@riasb7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! :)
@haanhtran25247 жыл бұрын
I wonder why TED didn't upload it : (
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
tech issues i think! they didn't upload more than half of the speakers at my event
@dentellefleurs7 жыл бұрын
This was very inspiring for when your feeling down. I feel like for me cuddling with my cat always makes me feel better ! Also love the aesthetic of your videos :)
@JudyNepune7 жыл бұрын
hi aileen!! i am watching your videos consistently and love them and have now decided to create something! i am a writer and want to self publish my fantasy book, but for that i have to build an audience. but now comes my question, which I can't answer. I live in germany and write in german, (i also could write in english but never as good as in german). should i focus my youtube videos, blogposts etc on the "world" audience with english or on the german audience? i know a lot of booktubers who are from america, but none from germany. is this a niche or should i go broad? i am so confused! i would love to hear your answer aileen :)
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
that's something you need to decide on your own! do you dream of having a "world" audience or a german one? you can go both ways, it's up to you!
@betulaka53435 жыл бұрын
💓💓💓🌸🌸🌸
@GCO-hv5yd7 жыл бұрын
👌💚
@Don-se5mx7 жыл бұрын
How are you this happy
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
😊 years of learning & gratitude for a beautiful life
@paradisecolors7 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. You always have great points, and you organize and communicate them really well :) But joy is cheap? just kidding. I know what you meant ;)
@isabellabornberg21537 жыл бұрын
i don't like life very much, it's just not very enjoyable
@priyankashete82327 жыл бұрын
Isabella Bornberg I feel you!
@cherst10317 жыл бұрын
If that is the case, then try to find at least one small thing to feel joyful about each day, even if it's the sun shining or a pretty flower or your favorite song on the radio. Sometimes life is hard, but there is always something good if you are looking for it. Also, sometimes finding joy in the small things can spread to the way you feel about life and you might like it a bit more.
@lavendaire7 жыл бұрын
agree with cherst1031! 💜 there is joy in being able to wake up, breathe, walk, enjoy music, spend time with your loved ones, etc. be grateful for what you have in front of you. there really is so much if you just open up it!
@fabulousjenny176 жыл бұрын
there's some good stuff out there, you just need to discover them :)
@joannasisonn7 жыл бұрын
Hope I can be as beautiful and worry less like you. :(