Your channel is saving my life. Thank you for that.

Great points... I keep a list of little things I love to do (e.g. walking barefoot in the grass, making a snowball...) & when need a kick, I pick one item from that list and I do it. It solves many problems 😊

1.human connection 2.following ur passion 3.enganging five senses 4.exercise 5.humor focus on little joys in life

Another category for me is nature. I find the purest moments can be when it's quiet and you can really take in the colors around you and breathe fresh air

btw I love your hair, makeup, and outfit in this vid Aileen! You are seriously so pretty!

so happy i've found your channel. it is helping me from getting out of my depression. love you. ❤

You're literally my psychologist. Thank you, muchas gracias! Greatings from Spain xx

Your back to basics series just come as a coincidence to me because I've been suffering from depression. Thanks so much for reminding me that happiness can come from very simple things around us. Love ya!

Keeping a journal of grateful moments is a great way to enjoy life

Your videos are a limitless source of happiness.

Thank you. I love the idea of writing a list of things that make me feel alive and then seeking those things.

One of my resolutions is to do more things that make me happy. Which got me to ask myself well, what makes me happy? So I started paying attention and writing a list when something made me smile or laugh. Now even the list makes me smile. Joy can be found all around you. You just have to train yourself to look for it and when some days it is harder than others, you can go to your list. At least it's what I do. :)

You spread joy,Lav and I seriously mean it.I love you very much.😘😘😘😘

I recently found your channel through a suggestion from shameless maya and I'm so thankful that I did! I'm going through postpartum depression and I'm binge watching all of your videos. They are really boosting my mood and helping tremendously. You're such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for creating such positive content 💖

I needed this today. Thank you! Off to my journal right now!

I love this series!

I had a coach who said "Enthusiasm is contagious" all the time! I think what you said about joy being contagious is so true and another reason why surrounding yourself with people who share their joys and passions with you is so important :)

im thankful that i found this channel, so that everytime i feel down, i can watch her video and feel great again abt my self, bless you aileen😭 u r so inspiring

My most recent pure joy moment was last Friday night when I went on stage for the first time of my life to sing and dance. It was the final show of a one-week Glee bootcamp where we learned the songs and dancing moves. I had hesitated a lot before signing up because I was scared and I've never sung in public but my beautiful person encouraged me + you guys on the Lavendaire Facebook Page helped me make up my mind as well. I've rarely ever felt this happy, I didn't expect to feel so much excitement and happiness, I couldn't stop smiling during the whole thing. It was PURE JOY.

I'm so inspired with your channel. It really helps me a lot. It helps me handle my depression and anxiety because of your videos. Keep on inspiring others

another category i think is nature, it is so beneficial and makes me feel so safe and secure

Joy is such a wonderful fruit of the Spirit! Love this episode and series ☺️

you're so beautiful inside and out and ahhh I love your videos so much. they make me so very happy. I'm always in such a better mood after watching them and I just wanted you to know that your positivity makes me really happy and at peace :)

Aileen! You should read "Happy at Last" by Richard O'Connor. It's mainly for recovering from depression, but it has some amazing tips and techniques I think you'd really dig!

Love this series! It's nice to be reminded of simple things.

i love ur videos you are such an inspiration.. a fan from Morocco

Dear Aileen, you are such an inspiration 🍀

Watching your videos gives me joy🙂

adding something to the list : your vedios bring so much joy to my life love you

1. Human Connection 2. Passion 3. Engaging all senses 4. Physical movement 5. Humour and comedy

You inspire me so much and I want to thank you because lately I've been listening to everything that you always talk about and I'm so thankful for the small things. I started morning pages and it's so amazing. So I decided to move on with starting a blog and that's exactly what I wrote about last night. Being thankful with what with have. Last night I was just thankful for being able to watch tv with my husband and children.

Such a helpful video. We rarely (we as in adults) rarely celebrate what brings us joy because we often get so busy.

Hiya lovely, I feel joy when I see your new videos:) sounds weird but true. I have found myself through your videos. You are such an inspiration and I wish you only the best:) thank you for all you do for us people. Huge hug from us all:)

I always look forward from a post from you. Great video!

I am so grateful that you are in my life

Your videos bring me joy and make me smile. I find encouragement in everything about them. Thank you.

So much more people should whatch your videos, you're amazing, what you say is so right, and inspiring! Thank you for that.

Hey Lavendaire, thank you for the inspiration. It's amazing how we can find joy from the simple things in life. :)

"Happiness, ain't something you sit back and you wait for"- Dance Again, Rare Album, Selena Gomez 😊

I totally second what you said about humor! I have the worst PMS and during that time I like to watch stand up comedy, cause it really helps with my moodiness and takes my mind off the cramps.

Aileen Xu, I really wanna appreciate ur intention and effort to make our world more beautiful. Your videos are fuel to the soul☺

god aileen, your videos literally always make my day. this message was so beautiful, thank you, thank you, thank you!

Ah this is amazing i need to do this and understand what brings me joy! :) Thank you aileen!

Your videos completely help me so much, you are so bright and positive and you influence me in so many good ways. Love your content ♥

You are just so right!

Thanks for bringing joy to all of us Aileen. 😘

Perfect! Thank you!

I look up, to hearing you, always!!!

Thank you this such a helpful and relevant video 🤗💕

My joy comes from Jesus Christ!! Tfs!

I feel amazing listening to u

thank you so much for your post!!! I love your channel so much!

I am loving this Back to Basics series! :)

so graceful ... also I wanted to add that gratitude leads to finding joy but I'm guessing you have a whole video coming for that 😉❤❤❤

Thankyouu

Seen it since 2:33... but thinking at the list... at those passed moments of joy. And you know? ...I have not one of them...for the list. Well, nevermind, just to share. p.x.: maybe in the (I hope near) future something joyous will come.Anyway, thanx for you for sharing this.Ciao

🌸✨🙏🏼I think that you have the most beautiful and true channel of youtube ... thank you for everything you share with us 🌸✨🙏🏼

Love this! And your choker!

Amazing uplift

This video was something I really needed today. Thank you :)

I love ur thoughts and insights.... Glad to know about u... Usually I never comment on any KZfaq videos.. this is first time .. u r just amazing.. way to go 😘👏👏😘

Great video! It motivates me to live more in the moment, great reminder.

I am falling in love with you.😍 You're a goddess. Your videos are so inspirational. Now-a-days, I start my day by watching your videos and end my day with it. Keep it up.💞

Great video and you are looking flawless! :-)

thank you for this !

Keep making such videos 💖 Such a good content

I just wanted to say I loveeeee your videos and your channel.😍 You and your videos are just so motivational and I love it like go you

Quite helpful,thank you💕💙🌸

Your makeup is so gorgeous

Thank you for your wonderful video.

Love u sooo much Ailen❤️🥰😘😘😘

i totally love your channel. it's so inspiring ❤

when people eat my food and genuinely like it I feel so joyful

Thank u so much

How do you not have a million subscriptions?!

Thank you for sharing this

thank u

Love it🌟🌟🌟

Aww such a beautiful dog

Hi Aileen, all that you said makes perfect sense. :) Thank you for sharing your positiveness. I'm just wondering, what are you doing for a living? Are you a full time youtuber or do you have a business? Also, can you recommend a youtube channel that is also as inspiring as yours? Thanks a lot. You always save my day.

This was so inspiring❤

hahaha this video brought me joy!!!!1

Love U so much❤️

love ur videos!!!

You look so pretty and your tips are my joy.😍

hy i love you, you are such an inspiration

Your channel is a blessing. I want to have a friend like you Lavandaire. Hello from Philippines!

Your amazing. I look up to you. Thank you for what you do. Id like to meet you. You ever come to western ma ? Thx xoxo

Should pure joy also come from your career? How do you decide whether to make your passion your career or instead opt for/stick to a financially stable, job secure career and keeping that passion a hobby?

My name is farah (arabic name)and it's means joy 👍🏻😂just saying

I wonder why TED didn't upload it : (

This was very inspiring for when your feeling down. I feel like for me cuddling with my cat always makes me feel better ! Also love the aesthetic of your videos :)

hi aileen!! i am watching your videos consistently and love them and have now decided to create something! i am a writer and want to self publish my fantasy book, but for that i have to build an audience. but now comes my question, which I can't answer. I live in germany and write in german, (i also could write in english but never as good as in german). should i focus my youtube videos, blogposts etc on the "world" audience with english or on the german audience? i know a lot of booktubers who are from america, but none from germany. is this a niche or should i go broad? i am so confused! i would love to hear your answer aileen :)

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How are you this happy

I love your videos. You always have great points, and you organize and communicate them really well :) But joy is cheap? just kidding. I know what you meant ;)

i don't like life very much, it's just not very enjoyable

Hope I can be as beautiful and worry less like you. :(

Do you have a goodread ?