People can have friendships across the gender divide, but most of these people just don't want to admit they are already in relationships.

Hi Jubilee.. could you do a middle ground featuring intersex individuals and cis people (whose sex or gender aligns with what they were born as)??

‼️💯

Literally they’re horrible examples of actual friendships

I mean most male and female friendships are failed situationships or people who got friendzoned😂

@@trxgon Couldn’t be less true

That’s most opposite sex friendships

People literally have zero respect for committed relationships nowadays 😭

Now fiance 🤔🧐👀

i'm glad other people picked up on this. i was so confused when they didn't address that further, like hold on: you were in a relationship, misrepresenting the situation to your partner (meaning you knew they may not be happy with it being just the two of you) and something almost happened?? and this is the partner you're now engaged to?? I'm wondering if this is something her and her partner have since talked about and worked through; it would be wild of them to find out through a jubilee video otherwise also lmao at him talking about this in the middle of how great she was at setting boundaries 😭

@@elizacrepesdeadass, great at setting up boundaries that support him 😭

No I thought this at first too but he actually said a past girl friend didn’t bring her boyfriend (now fiance), he said Mary Anne always did and always set that boundary.

fr 😭 i wish my best friend and i could’ve been on this

Ikr not everyone is like that 😭

Some stigmas are just observations of the reality

@@kurtholus yuppp

😽🙏me and my pookies break the stigma

LETS SEE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS

​@@Sukinero I would say they're pretty healthy and normal

@@SukineroI’m going to assume that they are talking about the friends IN the video?

@@pinklypinkly2220 yeah

Normal? Is there a new definition or something? Uncommon is the word.

seriously, even with their body language.

Honestly, I low key think that Nick has feelings for her. Notice the amount of times he keeps saying "I love you", but she doesn't say it back to him.

@@Ghostrider-ul7xnhe means it platonically, I say I love you a lot to my friends

@@Gatozparty i doubt it.

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn you can love someone platonically and not be IN love with them

That’s the way to do it. Have her come to you. There’s a reason Ari is the only one who could have a chance with their “best friend”

They hooked up twice and have been “best friends for 8 months” lol they just wanted to be on Jubilee

I feel like it’s not friendship. If he made a move on her, she would take it.

Truuuuu

"I wrote a song for you... well, actually it's about me for you... well it's for me and I want you to listen to it, but I also won't say any of this" *fuckboi laugh*

so much, it's wild

How? People get angry…it’s a normal emotion.

@@Shavings_of_eraser I'm not talking about someone getting angry.

Welcome to life, a lot of people have toxicity

There’s toxicity within everyone. The whole point of a friendship is to accept the other persons and move on

the HEELS

If he can get laid anyone can.

Yeah, Ari has a douchey vibe

He’s giving Danny Masterson vibes

With the 70s manipulator vibes too

So true

He literally does what women do, pretend they have no idea so they don't have an awkward conversation. If women can do it, so can men.

@@hislord1 Ah yes, "women". Anybody who makes such a braindead blanket statement is hard to take seriously. He's doing a terrible thing, that some women also do. Women can't do it, nobody said it was ok, and it similarly isn't ok for him. You're actually the only one normalising it to push your "women bad" narrative. Stop.

Nina

@@hislord1Since it’s an unhealthy manipulation tactic how about nobody does it? 😭 I don’t see how you went “well women do it so we can too!”

And I can’t get one..

She's a bit naive herself to stay with the dude for so long.

low self worth @@fahrenheit2101

​@@Sukinero womp womp

Yeah I was like Nina girl STAND UP

Who tf are you to say that?

​​@@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat A guy having PDF file facial hair, without regs forcing it, is pretty sketchy. Just noticed he's wearing womens shoes and earrings too. But on the other hand, she admitted she doesn't regulate her emotions and is getting run through. They're both equally awful, but in different ways.

​@@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat why are u hate commenting on all the comments??? stfu.

that is a an insane thing to say as a stranger that just watched a video on youtube

That guy is a psycho future serial killer. Jeffrey Dahmer type of freak.

Women mindset is it’s entertainment (drama)

@@sadscientist9995Stop generalization.

@@sadscientist9995That’s clearly not what she meant, don’t be weird

@@sadscientist9995 No lol

virgin alert@@sadscientist9995

Nah I get it. I could be around a loved one and not speak, but we are happy to be in each other's presence

I totally hear that. It’s more of that in combination with everything that he had said up to that point. Plus, he comes off as someone very self-centered. He literally ruined his supposed bff’s beach day so she could listen to a song he wrote about himself.

Yeah he kept it P

oh for sure

Ari had a lot of red flags throughout this vid but this specific quote wasn't one of them IMO, I feel the same way sometimes. it can take a lot out of me to respond to texts and call people back and arrange plans. sometimes, me just being there is the best I can offer, and even tho I wish I was capable of more, I can can only hope the ppl in my life will see that I'm trying and giving them the most I can because I love them.

Tryer😂😂

Exaaactly

couldnt have said it better myself

Damn 💀

Like the 70s fit that she's dressing to match. Just to start conversation, I doubt it's because of real interest

Situationship central

Apart from nick and Lexi

Lexi and Nick were the only friends on here. The others were all situationships.

Are you sure he doesn't like you at all ?

Your "male best friend" will hit as soon as you give him the chance.

Honestly same the only ones that are actually best friends in this videos

And I like how straightforward snd comfortable they are

@@memesucuklu what 💀

@@Butterflyonlife I agree

@@memesucuklu I would say your nipples are really dark and you look a bit yerllow

He seems like a douche

Honestly, how?

Nina is the toxic one

@@danielrandon3177 How is Nina toxic? She was lead on and is continuing to be lead on by Ari.

And females love toxic

The classic bro being oblivious to a girl's signs of liking him taken to an extreme

no he knows, but he dont wanna have a RS with her because she is recreational use only for him, she is getting used. sad

Of course not. She could just be really sex positive. He had to make sure

love and sex are two separate things, it can be both or not

!! although he denied this in the video, i feel like he already knew she had a thing for him and just pretended to be oblivious to take advantage of her feelings and fjkc around..

Bros on a mission 💀

Omg literally!!

Try it out bro.

I legit was like, WHY NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS? Start out toxic!

​@@haleycarson4129seriouslyy!!!

Fr..

It actually happens way often tho..

Why is it a big deal ?let them do what they wanna do

Because it's not

​@@DGen7Tell me if your partner had a best friend they liked before and the past and fucked multiple times would you have the same opinion..

It's representative, I'm sure. People just tend to suck more often than not, simple as that. Also, the sorts of people signing up for this are at least partially the attention seeking sort, which can skew things.

jubilee casting representative people is a joke.

Fr oml

​I think under regular circumstances people are more cool/chill than not

I know for real 😂 every single one of these videos I’m like how are these people real?!?

i giggled! and yes lol 😭 he’s gonna get worst with time

Lame

remember you have those three letters in your name and more

He made her miss her beach day so she could listen to a song about himself

The way he literally said he would sleep with her if she's down lmao I can see why

I spot a South African🇿🇦

Sa ungenaphi e america

Nina really said that she had to lie to her boyfriend about Ari and said he was gay when he wasn’t..

@@thulanimbatha5458 😭🤣

A lot of people are fine with this kind of thing with friends

My wife kissed her female friends a million times

​@@duanen2337You ok with her kissing her male friends too though? And how do you feel about kissing your Male friends? 🤔

@@RainbowFlowerCrowright. He thought he did something with that.

Why wouldn't close friends give a peck now and again, similar to a parent to a child or relatives between one another?

Why?

no! 😱

exactly, you don't value the friendship if you can't separate your love for someone and your apparent urge to posssess them

Yeah, you eaither immediately talk about those feelings or force yourself to move on. You can't be a supportive unconditional friend if you can't cheer them on in life including their romantic relationships.

No! Who are you to make rules? The best relationships start from friendships because you've already established a strong emotional connection with that person. This component is what's lacking in many modern relationships today leading to breakups and divorces.

That was crazy😭

OMG I was looking for this comment!! Body language tells everything 🥲

I felt like that was the perfect representation of their relationship. Like that relationship exists because of her

and her running up to him. that's exactly what i noticed too

Some people aren't comfortable hugging in camera

Just from the short bits I saw from him I feel like I know this personality type. He probably trashes and of his "friends" boyfriends but he doesn't have the balls to make a move so he just kind of sits on the sidelines and seethes. As the women get older and start dating more mature men the guys are gonna force him out of the picture because dudes with life experience know his type.

NJ is delusional 💀

He is such a creep after saying that I'm sorry but dude shouldn't have any female friends

I am what we call a hypocrite.

type A personality ;) @@Aaron-kj8dv

We really are 🩵 grateful for his friendship

Literally it’s the only acc real friends

@@sumaiya-ey5zc they're all "real friends". sex is human, the mindset that sex devalues their friendship is the mindset that is behind so many bad relationships, breakups, divorces.

@@JackInABeanstalk98 you’re missing the point 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s not about sex it’s just not normal to admit that you had attraction to a friend and then you ended up settling because they didn’t feel that way/ they were already in a relationship????

@@sumaiya-ey5zc completely healthy reaction respectful of your boy’s boundaries, far more mature than arbitrarily dropping off because he or she doesn’t want you back. Learn to manage it

Jubilee always seems to bring immature and toxic people on the show!

!! although he denied this in the video, i feel like he already knew she had a thing for him and just pretended to be oblivious to take advantage of her feelings and fjck around..

Yup! Most ppl can't state/maintain boundaries smh

The nj penthouse thing has been cleared up by mary, she said that jubilee edited the video to look like she was the friend nj was talking about but she wasn’t

any partner saying who I can and can't be friends with will get the boot.

Well, it's just that the guy-Nick- didn't really find her attractive 😂 But, one day, things could change! I don't trust STRAIGHT guys who have many close female friends instead of male friends, these guys surely like all the attention the girls give them, even though they're not interested in them. Let's get real!

And Ari still sticks around for the off chance of sleeping with her. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.

@@fahrenheit2101 No, she is an ego boost + attention provider to him.

She 100% only said no to hooking up again because she thought he would say no..the way she ran to him at the end and he was standing still 😖

Best comment

he could def be clinically diagnosed as a narcissist

But women go for that.

I wouldn't want to surround myself with someone like that, ever.

Or he trying to scrape her off his back, but she just keeps attaching harder🤷🏿‍♂️ You can’t make something more obvious than he did.

why?

@@_leivo have you even watched the video dawg

@@PyrosharkYeahp, so, why?

There's two type of people in this world people who see sex as whatever and some that think it's this spiritual thing. Type B usually judges type A like crazy. I agree I don't see any toxic traits from him so far. He seems straightforward.

Some friends just like to fool around

you can think of it as helping each other out but I suppose it really doesn’t work out, as I did this with a girl friend of mine and she went crazy saying I was hers and only hers.. 😳

easily

Personally I believe with enough time apart/not hooking up setting that boundary it's possible to continue as friends

cuz they’re simply repressing their feelings and lying to themselves

Yes, she is talking and putting herself down too much, I think in large part bc of this relationship..... She can and will learn to do better!!

I agree. It sounds like he is doing it to other women too. It was revealed he is now with someone who he won't discuss feelings with and she adviced him it would get 'messy'. She should take her own advice and run. He is emotionally void and looking for narcissistic supply

Which is also a typical so-called female-male close friendship 😂

Maybe he is gay and was jealous cuz he wanted his bestfriend's dating partners😂

hes literally gay

@@charky6683 I think it too

He's definitely gay....

Plus he's got a conservative family so he cannot take a stance either. He had his chance with her but he hesitates due to that as well. Overall just a confused guy.

@@memesucukluWTF ARE U ON ABOUT 😭😭

This is sooo true omfg

In short, Nick and Lexi are perfect, Abdullah and Kendall need work, NJ and Mary-Anne moreso, and Ari's irredeemable and it's insane that Nina hasn't totally ditched the mf, almost entirely because he makes music.

It sounds like she feels dependent on him for a job or smth... They mentioned playing on stage together??? Weird.@@fahrenheit2101

The women that go for him are scary too.

Women love men like him until they realize their cooked. That’s why Nina stays around him. He could have her.

@@PROVOCATEURSK Nah we just have trauma (most likely childhood) so don't see it until we get burned enough that we reach a point that we can smell it a mile away. Manipulative, trauma bonding, keeping her on standby, on edge, waiting for him... He clearly has very high ego + attention needs. His behavior screams histrionic/narcissistic!

In studies people who have been traumatized are less able to see risky situations clearly, usually because everything feels like the same current level of “this is risky”

NJ too with his anger issues

Ari really have high level of dark triad traits.

@@ChrisPTY507What does that mean?

@@PrincessLioness The term “Dark Triad” refers to a trio of negative personality traits-narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy-which share some common malevolent features. The construct was coined by researchers Delroy L. Paulhus and Kevin M. Williams in 2002.

the jonkler

fr i caught the joker mannerisms as well

Thank you!! 🥹🤍

You don't know them.

Same except I don’t hurt anyone

nina sucks too. she confirmed she uses guys and dumps them

Do you ever see them still? Or are they completely not in your life? One of my closest friends - I used to have feelings for him or I wonder if I sometimes do. I don't think we would work out in a relationship, I could say for a few reasons but also I think probably because maybe I have stronger feelings for him than he does about me (platonic and romantic feelings). I resonate with what you said - there was a time where we were in a complicated situation, we both got hurt (though it was also partially an outside person messing with and lying about stuff that caused it) but I still came back to him - and thinking about it now, if he something happened again, my instinct would be to try and repair things because I think I just care about/love him that much. I think he loves and cares about me too, but in a different way and on a different level. I don't want to cut him out of my life because him being in my life brings me happiness, also because he's kind of at the center of a loose group of friends we're in. I have wondered if it would be for the best though, maybe not now bur after I graduate college or down the line, to distance myself from him. Do you have any advice - seems like you might've been in a similar situation?

⁠@@annaburgooohey girl I’ve been busy with exams but yeah I see him. I see him a lot. We have the same friend group so I have to see him when we r all hanging out together. He’s also class president so I see him in meetings. It used to hurt so much because being around him made me so so happy but I had to take this step. I had to confront him and I had to cut him off because I realised I loved him too much and he loved me too less. For him the friendship was convenient and to me it was everything. I wasn’t ready to believe it till I cut him off and when I did I was terrified that all the things that we did together I would have no one to do with. I made peace with it I decided my dignity was more important than my happiness and honestly it all fell into place. I found new people I started doing the things I was so afraid of doing alone. I have a chance to other people. I still miss him sometimes and I wonder if he does too. I don’t know if he does but I also don’t think how he could not. Id be lying if I said I don’t hope that he does. I don’t understand how he could not listen to Noah kahan and not think about me, how he could read Cat and not think about me, how he could look at the drawing I made him for his 17th and not think about me ? But life’s been better and brighter ever since. It’s fresh. I broke it off in feb but it hurts a lot sometimes. I hâte who i was around him. I hate how pathetic he made me. I never want to be that again. And if the cost of not hating myself is not being his best friend then I’ve made my choice. My instagrams @shanzayy_shah if you want to talk I’m always here ❤

She said it’s false editing, apparently she wasn’t the friend nj was talking about. She commented on this video

@@Planck944omg

⁠@@Planck944 thanks for speaking factsss ❤ appreciate you!

YES

Fr he’s so sweet

fr, Ari is the master gaslighter, Abdullah just lying 😂😂

I was waiting for the example of gaslighting and it never came

Idk, they seemed mutually caring, even if it's a bit of a situationship...

I'm actually confused why he's still trying, do they not know he's on the flamboyant side ? Maybe she does, that would explain why she's not attracted. Dude has got to at least present masculine enough not to confuse people on whether or not he's gay, let alone get to the point where she could be attracted to him.

😂😂🤣

ABDULLAH Wallahi YOU'RE GAYY! WALLAHI 💀

He seems a little gay to me😂

My best friend is my wife, is there something wrong in that?

@@darkkforest Your SO is obvs your best friend but also more, if it’s just a best friend then it’s weird if you’re blurring those lines

i also think it works a lot better if you feel almost like siblings, but friendships can take multiple form and i think there is not just one answer to what friendship look like

​@@darkkforest no, there's nothing wrong if you combine the 2, actually it's perfect that way, it just feels wrong if you have a WIFE, AND then you have another FEMALE BEST FRIEND, got it?

​@@tr4sh.doll_ well, I think it's just the matter if you're a considerate and decent person or not: knowing enough is enough, and treat others the way you want to be treated! Our greedy human tendency is that we always want more if we can, whether it's materials, friendship, people we find attractive to and want to partner with etc.., I'm sure everyone of us find MORE THAN ONE person on Earth attractive. But, should we involve with both or more of them romantically? If yes, would we feel comfortable having them also involve with other people at the same time? If you look at the whole picture, it's nothing more than a pigsty where everyone entangles like a messy cobweb! I respect/value my PRIVACY and don't want to become a pig, so I only allow myself to involve with only 1 person and learn to be loyal and respectful to that special person, becoz I love her but also becoz I want to be treated (respected) the same way! Having more experiences (be with more than one) isn't actually better than having LESS but QUALIFIED experience! That's just how I see it, if you're gonna have ambiguous relationship, expect your spouse to also have ambiguous ones, and a messy web of relationship more than dramatic!

Yeah I guess it's hard to find women and men best friends😳

Kendall and Abdullah have been best friends for 7 years lol. It said in the video

@@futuswag593 it can't be that hard

@@maxikhani235 yeah I seen that but they were the only two all I was saying was they could have found people who were best friends for longer

@@futuswag593I don’t think it’s that hard. I’m a female and i have 2 male bestfriends that I’ve been friends with for 12-15 years and nothing ever happened. They just chose people in weird situationships that have only known eachother a couple years and probably never had a relationship and always had an attraction from the start.

damn ya got me.

@@njyazon7300since you were there I’d like to ask you this question: what did you think of ari and his personality? Also your thoughts on Abdullah’s situation🤔.

Toxic vibes off the chart

Its a shame those are rare nowadays Eh mate ?

like 1% of people

hes not rude. Hes narcissistic.

@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973he’s both

well sadly for you im a clinical psychologist. And saying he is a narcissistic is not diagnosing him, its merely pointing to his alarming behavior. I didnt say he had NPD.@@soandso5058

@@soandso5058fr dude, people be throwing around the word narcissist like crazy. It’s lost it’s original meaning, now it just means “person I don’t like” lmao

@@Luke_2828 he literally has traits of a narcissist. how else would you describe someone whos self-centred, emotionally unavailable, has difficulty considering the other person's side of things, weaponises obliviousness and takes advantage of someone elses feelings for them? Saying someone is narcissistic isn't a diagnosis, theres a difference between someone having narcissistic traits like Ari so obviously does and having a narcissistic personality disorder

Thankfully and hopefully

You've put my thoughts into words perfectly lmao

I felt kind of the same way with female friends. We just operate differently I suppose

Even today , if youre gonna ask guys if a straight guy and girl can be just friends , they'd say no , but ask any girl and she'd say it's defo possible to be just friends

People are going to develop feelings for each other. Its natural. Why do ya'll want to repress them?

Instead of chastising men and women for developing feelings, understand that this is how many people are wired. They are called demisexuals and demiromantics. So again, why try to stop it? The attitude that developing feelings for friends is somehow wrong or something to be avoided is allonormativity. It is normal and healthy for demisexuals and demiromantics, because this is how we are naturally wired. The issue is ignorant, bigoted attitudes on the part of allonormative society.

​@@Ghostrider-ul7xnFeelings are natural, but some don't want to feel those feelings 😂 Others know that logically those feelings don't make sense or would not work realistically

It’s not adding up lmao

thisss he just stepped on yes at the sex question bcz he knows she still likes him, did it just to keep a false hope so she'll stick around more to boost his ego

He treats her like a groupie

Facts

I THOUGHT THE SAME 😂😂😂

My brain immediately went "My friends call me Gay Nick"

😭😭😭

Hope he reacts ! He skipped the last one

True, he has a weird creepy vibe

Lmao

Stop projecting

your suppose to marry your best friend.....many relationships fail because people dont marry their best friend

@@musselmanmedia5236 Exactly. Lot of people enter into marriages purely out of raw attraction (which they confuse with love) without any strong emotional connection, which should be the foundation for any long lasting relationship.

its super common and really not a big deal for most people im used to being around but everyone's different

@@Ghostrider-ul7xnI agree

No I mean same sex of course you can be just friends, but different sex is a whole another story

Are you ok?

@@futuswag593I get what you’re saying, but I’m just talking about friendships in general, regardless of gender, as in this day and age feels like friendships are like untangling a mess of wires than a simple connection where societal pressures, heavy reliance on digital communications, and evolving dynamics are making friendships more complicated.

@@elatafalandoYes. Why you ask?

What are you talking about?? This has to be the most autistic comment ive seen in a while. Go out an touch some grass.

yeah but in the worst way possible

@@gojogeto2840 😭😭😭😭

It really isn’t, I completely understand his ex partners view of the situation..

so true I would be mad too

His ex was actually in a relationship with someone else and didn’t let nich know in the beginning! It was a really messy situation that nich has learned from. She was always very rude and played with his feelings a lot. I didn’t know it was her pillow and it was me that posted a pic of all of us hanging out. I didn’t know it was her pillow and at the time she was following me bc we all worked together. It was definitely a horrible and toxic situation that I’m glad everyone is out of

@@lexiuy ah yeah there's always more to it than what we see on this video!! I'm glad both of you are away from the toxicity since then

LMAO with the added context it makes sense why they viewed her as crazy but the scenario by itself really isn't