Not Those Kind of Toys

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Not Those Kind of Toys

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2 жыл бұрын

The plaintiff brings her son-in-law to court. She says her daughter and the defendant were high school sweethearts and got married. The daughter says her husband became very depressed and his behavior ultimately led to their divorce. The mother says the defendant asked for money to pay for rent, but he ended up paying for other items instead. She’s suing for an unpaid loan. The defendant says he paid for other debts first.
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@rechena1000 2 жыл бұрын

The mother was way too involved in their relationship..

@deejai1173 2 жыл бұрын

There’s a lot of mothers that are like that; I know one. They need their own lives…

@omegarussell4017 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with the two of 100%.#OBP Bluesman

@Tree372000 2 жыл бұрын

Facts way too damn involve her mama should had fall back let them two work it out instead they are calling quits SMDH

@shelocsher2396 2 жыл бұрын

A min in, I agree. The way she’s speaking for her I would think her daughter was a young child.

@brackenrobertson799 2 жыл бұрын

The mother understood the defendant. She helped the relationship if anything, there's a difference between an involved parent to a meddling one. This is an involved one.

@chick-fil-agal2264 Жыл бұрын

Dang waiting for the daughter to finish answering a question is like watching paint dry. 🎨

@momoni368 Жыл бұрын

🤣

@fazekatrinaroberts3911 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@candicemahase3822 Жыл бұрын

🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣

@BudgetLove Жыл бұрын

Lol 😆 🤣 😂

@Melc850 Жыл бұрын

I think the mom stay in their business so much(,I'm not being mean) is because the both of them are kinda touch.i couldn't even finish the episode because The girl took forever to get her point across and the dude was fast talking and said umm a good 20 times and I just couldn't. Please dont come for me because that's MY OPINION

@evangeline6 2 жыл бұрын

They needed a relationship outside of parental guidance. Its a strange dynamic that mom knows and understands more than his actual wife

@ammietitmore9326 2 жыл бұрын

The daughter seems a lil slow, nerve wrecking waiting on her to get a word out. The mom might as well be married to the son in law she know more about the marriage then the daughter do...smh🙄🙄

@zee.234 2 жыл бұрын

I think she is slow too.. might be some neurological condition.. bless her

@ReignThePain_ 2 жыл бұрын

@ammie titmore I agree. Mom was most likely was pulling the strings throughout the marriage.

@Beautiful56664 2 жыл бұрын

The husband sounds off too 😩

@SamuelsReview 2 жыл бұрын

The daughter probably knows because she told her mom what's going on, but she can't articulate as well as her mother.

@shelocsher2396 2 жыл бұрын

Both of em. I think they were walking home from a special school/program.

@MeaganThorpe 2 жыл бұрын

The girl can’t speak or articulate answers to his questions, because I feel her mother has been speaking for her her whole life.

@rosieclarke4073 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed 💯

@HP-rp5nn 2 жыл бұрын

She is a bit slow.

@cassondrajune3742 2 жыл бұрын

I believe he has a lot of anxiety and should get help for that as well❤️

@mjsteelersnation 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to both of them is irritating.

@wagonstation3709 Жыл бұрын

The mom talks more normally than either one of them.

@ChloeAlexandraOfficial 5 ай бұрын

then dont watch it? k 😂😂

@omegarussell4017 2 жыл бұрын

This is the perfect example of how some marriages fail, because they were to young to realize that you need to keep your mother in law out of your marriage business.#OBP Bluesman

@TeeBradd 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t want to ever hear the word “Uh” again lol omg sheesh

@sharonsmalls6846 2 жыл бұрын

Well, there is certainly someone for everyone. The plaintiff's (daughter) and defendant's communication styles are unique.

@lovelace4512 2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the daughter talks really slow and drags her words. Then he started talking and he’s loud and said Uh and umm 500 times. They do have very distinct speech patterns

@sharonsmalls6846 2 жыл бұрын

@@lovelace4512 She also has a sing-song lilt to her speech. I believe that many people would find their speech somewhat of an irritant. I thought it was good that they had found one another because other people might view them as irritating. Sadly, there were other issues.

@pay_attn 2 жыл бұрын

I think there’s some slight disability there

@sharonsmalls6846 2 жыл бұрын

@@pay_attn I agree.

@lailanimessina1473 2 жыл бұрын

@@pay_attn on both sides for sure lol

@crystalturner152 Жыл бұрын

This is a sad situation. I can tell the mother in law really cared because she was choking up. I don't think she was overstepping in their relationship. It sounds like they mentally& physically needed help to survive. I pray he gets the mental health he desperately needs 🙏

@tomswill9189 Жыл бұрын

Ole Richie said at the end. I have nothing to say. I just wanna get the hell outta here. 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 lmao.

@selectamark Жыл бұрын

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife." Judge Mathis could not resist the 'toy' joke! 🤣

@deshonebonyrowland-ward4552 2 жыл бұрын

This whole set up is strange... The vibe.. The way the mom is all IN the marriage... They act way younger than they are. Like teenagers and the mom is running stuff.. The daughter acts like a little kid and the mom treats her like one 😕 The mom needs a LIFE.

@lawill3559 2 жыл бұрын

Mom looks like she could be both of their parents.

@beverlyvantull8452 2 жыл бұрын

She is both their parents. Her daughter married him. Sadly her daughter couldn't be faithfully committed thru his depression. He's hurting.

@lawill3559 2 жыл бұрын

@@beverlyvantull8452 Ms. Beverly, I’m speaking in terms of her being both of their biological mother.

@thedopemom7697 2 жыл бұрын

The mother is way too involved. However, I agree with the husband. It is totally ok to not take pills because you are afraid of the side effects! JM approach to that was not right.

@drayuh192 Жыл бұрын

Facts! As a person who was on antipsychotics on and off for 10 years. I have permanent side effects, also my diagnosis was wrong. After 10 years of "trying to find" the right medication to work for me. The problem with that kind of medication it's a let's try this and see what happens type of thing. I'm not saying everyone doesn't need medication , but it's a struggle for people with mental health problems.

@ultimatecouponlady 2 жыл бұрын

Now WHICH one was actually married to the defendant; the mother or the daughter? 🤔🤭

@danielleb9375 Жыл бұрын

@BudgetLove Жыл бұрын

Lol i guess both

@maxxpopp2373 Жыл бұрын

Both. All the stuff that didn't work in her marriage she trying it on her dtrs husband which is why he is now the EX HUSBAND. I already know what kind of husband she has based on JM repeatedly telling her to "stay in her lane" so to speak. Her man/hubby is or was a pushover.

@chad77657 2 жыл бұрын

He felt so shameful at the end couldn't even lay eyes on the lady.

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

Even after she still cares and shows love he has nothing to say. He needs help.

@charcoalcowboy Жыл бұрын

Bc they had a real relationship

@stevepuy1510 2 жыл бұрын

Fooling around with an online dungeons and dragon player 😂🤣😂

@Fourlittlefurpeople 2 жыл бұрын

That mother is too involved in their business.

@icetrain11 2 жыл бұрын

Though it’s not justifiable for his actions I really feel bad for him and hopes that he gets the help he needs.

@richielopez2897 Жыл бұрын

Umm, none of what linda said was true. She physically and emotionally abused me. Maybe get both sides before you assume

@lovec1993 2 жыл бұрын

poor guy he was married to the mother as well !!

@charlessantee8329 2 жыл бұрын

If he owes her for a loan he should repay her.

@chansophonlong 2 жыл бұрын

If their married it's joint debt

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.......

@charlessantee8329 2 жыл бұрын

@@misterbee66 💯

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

@@chansophonlong True, so she could have sued both.

@sarahrean7174 9 ай бұрын

@@chansophonlongno he buy a toy for him with the money

@yolandajones6789 Жыл бұрын

I know JM likes to joke and make light of things but sometimes I feel bad for the people who are socially awkward, nervous, or don't get that he's joking. They look so uncomfortable/ confused and coming to court is already uncomfortable.

@leggs4113 2 жыл бұрын

Despite all the shenanigans and meddling she sounds like a good mother in law. He will hit rock bottom and be looking for her. He couldn’t even look at her at the end because of all the guilt and shame.

@richielopez2897 Жыл бұрын

Nope. Linda is a cheating skank. She was the one who screwed me over. Unless you know Linda and her mom, you really don't understand my side.

@pablocastillo6248 Жыл бұрын

Trust me, he’s fine 😂

@MuddaSikIt 2 жыл бұрын

The wife talks tooooooo slow she's sending me crazy can the mom speak for her since she's deep in this marriage too

@wagonstation3709 Жыл бұрын

If there was any doubt about whether or not the mother is too involved, when she tried to guide the judge, you *know* she's too controlling. Maybe his mother and father are gone..... Added: oh, his father is alive.

@Iamcherese 2 жыл бұрын

The daughter is speaking too slow for JM🤣😩

@mariobelcher5077 2 жыл бұрын

To slow for me and him lol I had to fast forward through her talking Jesus Christ lol

@MuddaSikIt 2 жыл бұрын

For me too I hadda put the speed on 1.5 😣

@reptilemetaljen 2 жыл бұрын

Right she was being too careful lol 😂

@Megan-fg4rd 2 жыл бұрын

Hell me too!!! Like girl! Just talk!

@kayshawnsimmons5585 Жыл бұрын

He will get frustrated and dismiss they case

@reptilemetaljen 2 жыл бұрын

OMG they cannot answer a question at all lol the mom could but the husband and wife lord “uh uh basically uh and uh” spit it out! Judge is being patient as hell I couldn’t lol I’m sure they’re nervous but damn lol 😂 Judge Judy would say “uh isn’t an answer” 🤣

@Author_SoftwareDesigner 2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking that, too. Unfortunately, everyone isn’t blessed with a sharp mind. I’m thankful I can communicate well.

@intensepassion3382 2 жыл бұрын

Judge can so annoying, barely follow the case without his constant interruptions. This was just one of those cases. But the Mother is more annoying, and she really needs to find some business.

@nolanpaul1371 Жыл бұрын

Way to go Juan Jeremy!

@chad77657 2 жыл бұрын

I already have a million problems of my own and I feel sorry for these people.

@sarahrean7174 9 ай бұрын

for real 😊

@Bx10473 2 жыл бұрын

The daughter is never going To be in a successful marriage, as long as the mother involved!

@mmmfun77 2 жыл бұрын

That’s too bad. He shouldn’t have been rude to his ex mother in law. The whole thing kinda makes me sad

@CierraSmyles Жыл бұрын

I dont agree with JM about the defendant NEEDING to be medicated. My brother was medicated for ADHD and bipolar throughout his childhood/adolescent years which led to traumatic events involving drug use in his adult years. I don’t believe that medication is the primary treatment for mental health issues.

@thtsnotmia Жыл бұрын

especially not for depression

@kivy1984 Жыл бұрын

Right, it has nothing to do with “being scared, or machoism”. Some people don’t like the idea of having to take “mind altering” medication.

@claudette8458 2 жыл бұрын

I think any Grown Men who will pout over losing a job driving a forklift and out her playing with Power Ranger toys shouldn't be borrowing $2,000 dollars for rent.... 😑 😒

@malitucker13 Жыл бұрын

“I have nothing to say I just want to get out of here” 😂😂😂😂

@aprilshines9521 2 жыл бұрын

It was so difficult listening to him! He ughh ughhh ughh ughh too much! 🤦🏾‍♀️

@wizardofahhhhhhz 2 жыл бұрын

He said “uhhhhhh” at least 100 times during his testimony. It just doesn’t feel uhhhhhhhh honest lol

@SammySam316 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a French person would do. Say uhhhhh every few seconds

@reptilemetaljen 2 жыл бұрын

Drove me crazy! lol 😂

@miasakii4287 Жыл бұрын

i say uhh alot to when im pausing to think about my responses to people and im not usually being dishonest

@fundifferent1 Жыл бұрын

This is a good example of the crisis men are facing in this county. Judge said "particularly black men" but it's ALL men. Everyone's anxiety and depressions are at all time high in this crazed world and too many "macho men" think they can fix themselves with video games, beer and weed, meanwhile they are taking it out on their family. We need to stop stigmatizing therapy.

@flobarcelos1279 Жыл бұрын

100 % AGREE 💯💯💯

@FukcAUsername Жыл бұрын

Very true. I was diagnosed with bi polar depression as a young man. Ive struggled with MDD all my life and have always been afraid to try antidepressants and mess up my brain's chemical balances even worse. I have a psychiatrist appointment next month and I'm actually excited and hopeful that maybe the medicine will finally make me feel normal again.

@demelferguson9848 2 жыл бұрын

tbh, JM saying he should've took anti depressants is not the cure for anything... because you can come addicted really fast

@britneybunch6235 2 жыл бұрын

have you ever taken them?

@deejai1173 2 жыл бұрын

I think that pertains to those that have addictive personalities though.

@demelferguson9848 2 жыл бұрын

@@britneybunch6235 Yes, I've been prescribed anti depressants before.. while the work, your body starts to become dependent on them to function what you think is "normal" - instead I tried the psychedelic route

@demelferguson9848 2 жыл бұрын

@@deejai1173 Not true. Just like anyone, you don't need to have an addictive personality to be addicted to something.. especially when you're body starts to depend on it. But hey, I'm just 1 in a billion

@tishaclark5269 2 жыл бұрын

It hurt to watch this, they can't just answer a question clearly🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@SamuelsReview 2 жыл бұрын

In this case, they might not understand the questions... 🙃

@jilldambrosio4273 2 жыл бұрын

I understand he's suffering from depression and anxiety, but the way he ignored this woman when the show ended and stated he has nothing to say to her and just wants to leave is extremely selfish and disrespectful. We cannot blame everything on depression.

@lawill3559 2 жыл бұрын

Well she’s talking about his forklift dismissal it’s like she’s hiding something but she doesn’t want to fully go into detail and she’s using his forklift dismissal as an excuse of whatever she’s hiding

@ultimatecouponlady 2 жыл бұрын

Umm... couldn't he just have driven a forklift at another job?

@sweetsweet81 2 жыл бұрын

I'm with the defendant about that medication. I don't trust that ALL medication for mental illness is safe. He can go to therapy without being medicated. I do. I was diagnosed with anxiety with PTSD, and I do not take medication. They needed to keep mom out of their relationship, and the daughter kept beating around the bush about why he was upset with her, so that makes me believe she was having sexual conversations with the other guy.

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

I agree wholeheartedly. The plaintiff's daughter is hiding something and not all mental illness requires medication.

@brettsfav4 2 жыл бұрын

Medication does help, sometimes it takes a while to find the right one or the right combination.

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

@@brettsfav4 It may help but it is not always required.

@ToiTois 2 жыл бұрын

The medication I took for depression made me numb & emotionless, I've found better help with meditation & Aromatherapy then I did with medicine so I agree with you.

@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын

@@ToiTois Exactly.

@candacetyndall6142 2 жыл бұрын

"The one i used to run and tslk to when me and my girl were having problems" Usher - "You Make Me Wanna"

@blackwolforder23 2 жыл бұрын

More school…less dating…I hope they don’t have children…

@BeautyisHerName692 Жыл бұрын

Judge Mathis irritates me sometimes. He’s not a mental health professionals so he cannot dictate who needs medication 💊 or not. Not going for help doesn’t make you a punk, it makes you reluctant and possibly afraid. He was very insensitive, he’s not someone to go to if you are having a hard time. He was acting a fool on this episode from beginning to End. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤡🤡💯

@DeeRawb Жыл бұрын

Very true.

@raquelh8791 Жыл бұрын

Hes not a mental health professional explains it all. And mental health professionals sometimes take the same approach.....spoken from a mental health professional. Clearly something is amiss with this man

@BeautyisHerName692 Жыл бұрын

@@raquelh8791 Very true something is. But judge Mathis was very insensitive with his approach.

@theredwhoop9372 Жыл бұрын

@@BeautyisHerName692 hell you probably should be on antidepressants especially with all those demons you have

@aydinsha Жыл бұрын

He literally said what you just said. He said people (often men) don't go to therapy or take meds because they're afraid or think it makes them less "manly".

@moneka1030 2 жыл бұрын

Mom is in their business a little too much if you ask me.

@user-qs6km9ue9g Жыл бұрын

“Well it was a 12-inch” KILLED ME 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@2BOLD4U Жыл бұрын

Not JM giving his future son-in-law a lie detector test. 🤣🤣🤣

@SamuelsReview 2 жыл бұрын

Is the daughter's affect off or is it just me? The timing and the cadence of her words is unique.

@Vanessa_Martinez 2 жыл бұрын

Daughter act slow. She talk so slow lord have mercy.

@aangie7881 2 жыл бұрын

He has discord written all over him lol

@lindamiller5626 2 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah, mom is in all their business

@jadeacampbell5206 2 жыл бұрын

His nervousness made me feel bad.

@iamocube 2 жыл бұрын

JM had a lie detector test on his SIL Fathers and their daughters 😊

@susanpurvis3541 Жыл бұрын

I’m a mother in law to a wonderful son in law but gosh. This woman has crossed so many boundaries! She was way too involved in their relationship. These young people still act like kids because she is still taking care of them and meddling. Get out of their business.

@lawill3559 2 жыл бұрын

Her and this singing speaking singing out her words is driving me up the wall. spit it out……why are you talking so slow?!?!! And for him: let’s play the don’t say auhu game….

@The_Semonalisa 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, it was driving me crazy as well

@cece5464 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@merlinamorris67 Жыл бұрын

Love it when doyle has an input on the matter

@amaliomar 2 жыл бұрын

Some dudes are mad fragile. Minor wrongs will break them.

@jahsmain5279 2 жыл бұрын

Darn they grazed in bad pastures.....

@crymeariver2122 Жыл бұрын

Omg the defendant said "UH" at least 200 times.

@SamaraSewellTV Жыл бұрын

Sounds like the wife is waiting for mom to cut in and talk for her

@ebonyfoxy86 2 жыл бұрын

The daughter is on the spectrum for sure.

@iatdtv4996 2 жыл бұрын

They were all just slow enough for the first 15 mins of this video is JM just straight clowning on them all.

@krystaperry288 Жыл бұрын

6:17 she knew she was talking to other men, she just had to give a reaction because her mom did lol....

@Mr1and14orth Жыл бұрын

Hearing all the right things from the wrong person 🤦🏾

@danielle7725 2 жыл бұрын

What are these people talking about ?? Lol

@Proverbspsalms 2 жыл бұрын

🤷🏽‍♀️

@tinapeterson-tatman9013 Жыл бұрын

Perfect example of a “man child”.. he grew in age.. his looks.. but he still thinks and acts like a bratty child that throws a temper tantrum when things don’t go his way.. still playing games and playing with toys! Grow up! And to the mother in law, don’t beg for anyone’s friendship and stop being so involved in your daughters relationships!

@anonymousadult 2 жыл бұрын

The rolling plexiglass are cracking me up! 😆 And they even stained the wood to make it look like mahogany! 🤣

@WarGrowlmon18 2 жыл бұрын

As soon as I read that title, I had some pretty dirty thoughts about what those toys were.😬😬😬😬😬

@myragrapa5169 Жыл бұрын

I took over 4 different CLASSES of antidepressant medicine and NONE of them worked. I asked my doctor if there was anything else I could try but the only other class of medicine left had a high chance of very serious side effects. I had 80% of all listed common side effects with the other medication and several of the rare side effects so that's a no for me! The judge is not a doctor and has no basis for talking like that! 😒 😕

@wilmanchrty3406 Жыл бұрын

You actually dodged a bullet Bro. Sign the paoers.

@KihkishiyGroup 2 жыл бұрын

Parents know Better. Salvation, Protection and Light

@BronzedbyGod Жыл бұрын

It’s cool for your parents to like your spouse and consider them family but trying to take care of him like a son is way too much.

@BlkMagickGaia3 Жыл бұрын

He's emotionally immature. People that do dumb ish at work and are punished for it, then refuse to take accountability because " oThEr pEoPLe diD iT aNd tHeY dOn'T gEt iN tRoUbLE."

@theheadhonchoxo37 Жыл бұрын

I’m gone need this…………lady to ………….talk…………..a sentence……………..all the way through 🤬🤬🤬🤬

@the4cqueen148 Жыл бұрын

The defendant and the plaintiff are both socially awkward. The mother in law actually has to speak for the plaintiff because she's too shy to speak for herself. The nosy mother in law would depress any man who marries to her daughter. Defendant should Get a divorce and his depression will go away immediately.

@edwinalane9548 Жыл бұрын

The husband can't complete a whole sentence without saying "Uh"......every 3 words is "Uh"

@showienelson9163 Жыл бұрын

“ITS A 12 inch 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣 IM CRYING” 😭😭😭😭

@tricem7400 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. He needs some medicines.

@Jasmine-et4zm Жыл бұрын

I was not expecting his voice to sound like that! Lol

@moneymovesnaz2741 Жыл бұрын

He should have bought the mother and law a ring aswell she more in the relationship then her daughter 💯

@nycmamii 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t like his unnecessary push for anti-depressants…. Speaking as someone who suffered from severe postpartum and had ppl trying to push them on me… it’s not about being macho at all.

@whitneyray6004 2 жыл бұрын

Uh uhhhh and uhhh …lawwddddd have mercy.

@Cloudiroth123 6 ай бұрын

Drug companies don’t create cures they create customers. I’m not a fan of prescription drugs and all their negative side effects.

@drippedtipz 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhh ….. And Ahhhhh ….. ummm 🙄. It’s killing me I can’t finish

@neffybaby2273 2 жыл бұрын

After that 12inch comment the judge had me dying 🤣 😂 💀 😭 😆 😅 🤣 😂

@leighphotographystudios1132 Жыл бұрын

She was way too painful to listen to

@bruh3401 2 жыл бұрын

lmao the embarrassment i felt when he said 12 inch

@melyndaduh3501 2 жыл бұрын

🤣 JM couldn't even go on. Had to change subject. 🤣🤣🤣

@BudgetLove Жыл бұрын

Lol 😆 🤣

@nicki8520 Жыл бұрын

I couldn't stop concentrating on the "uh" every other word from the defendant... painful...

@hateisforlosers6116 Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣judge mathis 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 got the toys mixed up!!

@leannbuggs888 2 жыл бұрын

The mother is annoying. She feels the need to keep speaking for them

@latoyaboston3845 Жыл бұрын

I’m not leaving my husband because he’s depressed…. It’s like leaving them because they have cancer…. “Sickness and in health”

@Lurkaround Жыл бұрын

Exactly you don't leave someone for being depressed you be there for them and help them I don't get her logic there I actually know both of them in rl she used to be my best friend

@marilynmiller9730 2 жыл бұрын

Huh????? Is all I can muster up to say! Are these adults 🤔? Where is his parents?

@jay-qy7dv Жыл бұрын

Never get involved with a woman that her mama's too involved in her life or get involved with a man and his mama and dad is too involved in intimate parts of your relationship

@celinesbubyvelez761 Жыл бұрын

It seems neither could expressed their feelings but momma was like 💁🏼‍♀️ on it lol she was answering faster and better than the daughter, the relationship probably would of lasted longer if they went to someone to speak with someone beside the mom it’s hard to go to a parent because it’s to close to home