25 Ways to Improve Your Life Without Really Trying

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Julia Kristina Counselling

Julia Kristina Counselling

2 жыл бұрын

Improving your life and feeling better on a daily basis doesn’t have to only involve major life changes. It can happen with small, intentional shifts in your daily choices and habits. You can be happier - and it doesn’t have to be hard. Here are 25 simple ways to improve your life without really trying.
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@salina2497
@salina2497 2 жыл бұрын
1. Listen to classical music 2. Drink more water 3. Learn to deep breathe 4. Assume the best in others 5. Let yourself play 6. Spend more time with people you love 7. Send a text to someone 8. Listen to uplifting music 9. Watch a funny movie 10. Laugh at your own jokes 11. Turn notifications off on your phone 12. Put your phone in another room 13. Say "Hello" or smile to strangers 14. Send a card and put $20 in it 15. Stand in a cold shower for 30 seconds 16. Get rid of things you don't use 17. Stuff is meant to be used 18. Volunteer 19. Got get a hug 20. Do the thing you've been avoiding 21. Plan something to look forward to 22. Name 3 of your strengths 23. Give less "hoots" 24. Don't believe everything you think 25. Guided Mindfulness exercise
@DashingPartyCrasher
@DashingPartyCrasher 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I watched the whole video, but wasn't able to write all of those down. You're a life saver!
@serenarobak3640
@serenarobak3640 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@OXSkuldream
@OXSkuldream 2 жыл бұрын
35 minute video speedrun
@jmsl910
@jmsl910 Жыл бұрын
thanks, you're a doll for doing this!
@jmsl910
@jmsl910 Жыл бұрын
@@OXSkuldreamspeedrun?
@alicejordan152
@alicejordan152 Жыл бұрын
Kindness never goes out of style
@lesliengo8347
@lesliengo8347 2 жыл бұрын
My top 3 traits are I am unique, creative, and willing to learn. There is also a quote implanted on a rock by a playground not far from where I live that says, "we don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing." - George Bernard Shaw.
@chrisdigitalartist
@chrisdigitalartist 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Julia!! Shifter here! Great video! I love these tips! Come to think of it, I am surprised you didn't mention exercise or get out in nature. It could be a simple 5-minute walk. So that's one I would add! I think I am going to work on managing my phone usage and turning off notifications. 1. Make sure we are not discounting the small stuff. 2. Listen to classical Music ( I LOVE Classical music too - especially film scores.) 3. drink more water 4. learn to deep breath 5. Assume the best in others 6. Let yourself play 7. To spend more time with people you love 8. Send a text to someone and tell them that you are thinking about them. 9. To listen to uplifting music 10. To watch a funny movie (TV show, video, listen to something funny, memes, cartoons) 11. Laugh at your own jokes 12. Turn notifications off on your phone. 13. Put your phone in another room. 14. Smile at the people you pass on the street (Or say Hello) 15. Send a card with money in it 16. To stand in a cold shower for 30 seconds 17. Get rid of things you don't use 18. Use your best things now 19. To volunteer 20. Go get a hug 21. To the darn thing you have been avoiding 22. Plan something you can look forward to 23. Name 3 of your strengths (I am a good listener; I have art and computer skills) 24. To give less hoots 25. Don't believe everything you think (Your thoughts aren't always truths or facts) 26. Hold the door open. (*Bonus*) And to anyone who read this - remember always that you are worthy and valued. Sending a virtual hug to anyone who needs one! ❤
@rongike
@rongike 2 жыл бұрын
probably bc to many people that takes great [mental] effort, so it doesn't fall under without really trying.
@melyndafrazer1962
@melyndafrazer1962 2 жыл бұрын
Shifter Here! Thank you Julia! 💜
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I like that I’m intelligent, articulate, and loving Julia.
@cpruns4501
@cpruns4501 2 жыл бұрын
Really well done! The cold Shower is one I recently started doing and it really works. The one I would add to this list (and maybe it's not small) is "Find your passion". You MUST have a passion. You can't cop out and say "My kids" or "my family" or "hanging out with friends". Those are all of our passions. I mean a REAL passion that you could do alone. Here is the trick. Often people get confused about what is or is not a passion. They think it's a passion but here is how you know something is a true passion. Does your excitement to do this thing (alone) increase at the thought of plastering it all over social media? If the answer is yes, then this may not be a true passion. A true passion is something you love to do and could care less if you can post it on social media or not. All of us have to find that thing! When the wife and kids are out of town visiting their parents you can't wait to get into "your thing". That right there is the key to a happy life:)
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 2 жыл бұрын
I actually disagree with "find your passion". The pursuit of a passion causes misery.
@cpruns4501
@cpruns4501 2 жыл бұрын
@@JaysonT1 I would love for you to elaborate on that. I always value hearing the other side of my views. You are the first person I have ever heard this from so again, I would love to understand that perspective.
@nathanharris7815
@nathanharris7815 2 жыл бұрын
I do cold showers but I keep getting pneumonia. Twice this year. Once with covid. Once in 2020. My wife thinks its doing more harm.
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 2 жыл бұрын
@@cpruns4501 The philosopher Alan Watts coined the phase, "The Backwards Law". The concept is that that in which you chase eludes you; The prettier you try to be, the uglier you feel, the more you want to be rich, the poorer you feel, despite the amount of money in your bank account, the focus on being happy, brings suffering and unhappiness. There is quite a few places to find this information. A few would be author Mark Manson and pretty much any of the eastern philosophies.
@cpruns4501
@cpruns4501 2 жыл бұрын
@@JaysonT1 I see where you are coming from here. Interesting. Thanks for the response. I will check this out.
@Ry_ooK
@Ry_ooK 2 жыл бұрын
I love eveything you have to say in every single video you make. I wonder if the classical music made you a great speaker :).
@patriciasantiago8357
@patriciasantiago8357 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Julia from Zapopan, Jal Mexico.
@houdini2022
@houdini2022 2 жыл бұрын
Totally needed this .... I need to do the simple little things and forgo the heavy deep work for a while. One thing that has helped me a lot more is "Say "Hello" or smile to strangers". It helps!
@stevenholland6452
@stevenholland6452 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the interaction. I hope you have a great weekend.
@dianelamorticella6053
@dianelamorticella6053 2 жыл бұрын
I like all kinds of music! My oldest got me listening to 21 pilots!! Woot woot!!!!!
@metalciti
@metalciti 5 ай бұрын
you shine sooooooooo bright. you are awesome. truly grateful to you.
@NaturalHealingAlchemist
@NaturalHealingAlchemist 2 жыл бұрын
My phone 📱 permanently stays on silent & “Do not disturb “ 🙌🏻
@captaindan1000
@captaindan1000 2 жыл бұрын
There was mention of classical music, Megadeth, being cheesy, and going on vacation. This is the good stuff!
@jojogorecki7405
@jojogorecki7405 2 жыл бұрын
"What are we trying to prove? That we are too cool to embody joy?"🤯 Had to listen to that twice! Thanks, Julia for all you do and the wisdom you share!
@GadgetsGearCoffee
@GadgetsGearCoffee 2 жыл бұрын
starts @3:12
@HEROHCR2YT
@HEROHCR2YT 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you again. It feels so comforting when I see that you uploaded. 🙏🏼
@christinemariequigless
@christinemariequigless 2 жыл бұрын
micro-habits yes!!! I love how holistically focused these tips are, beautiful!
@anbathanga4660
@anbathanga4660 Жыл бұрын
These 25 ways to make one's life happy will certainly go a long way for anyone. Full of wisdom! Thank you, Julia.
@danielquinonez4673
@danielquinonez4673 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you. I’ve been watching so many of your videos lately and they are really helpful. It’s helping me see more clearly the areas of my life that could use improvement. You have such a wholesome and kind energy to you. Thank you for what you do.
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 2 жыл бұрын
Many thanks for another great video. Most of our well-being comes from within. 8:33 - So true... You have a great speaking voice.
@sarahsinger4095
@sarahsinger4095 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Julia I'm finding your videos so very helpful!❤️🙏❤️
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I just gave you a virtual hug Julia.
@coreycorbett5648
@coreycorbett5648 2 жыл бұрын
I love it …. Send yourself a card!! 😊
@poison_plays
@poison_plays 10 ай бұрын
I have a lot of compassionate empathy. I don’t give up, no matter how badly I want to (and I often want to lately). I take people at face value and try to see the best in them.
@jilldickson4352
@jilldickson4352 2 жыл бұрын
I have finally managed to achieve a more peaceful frame of mind and with immense elation I love to have something go right however small. ❤️❤️
@denisesmith6563
@denisesmith6563 4 ай бұрын
So awesome & helpful ... I'm definitely saving this video ❣️
@sstpersonal
@sstpersonal 2 жыл бұрын
This is amazing!!!
@lylahboling6383
@lylahboling6383 2 жыл бұрын
As always thank you so much for your helpful information
@hopediamond2902
@hopediamond2902 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Julia! These were great. The ones I will implement/continue to implement are drinking water, listening to classical music, and reminding myself things I like about myself. Also, the guy thing is important, but I feel uncomfortable asking for that in my life.
@bethyoung3654
@bethyoung3654 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video! Thank you!
@tanishapetertv2298
@tanishapetertv2298 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooooo much, you are truly a treasure, thank you for helping me over the years 😍😍😍
@Costhinyo
@Costhinyo 2 жыл бұрын
I usually don't let comments on KZfaq video but you definitely deserve. Thank you for your amazing effort to put all your knowledge in thys videos for us for free. God bless you all.
@womanclothedinthesunq7574
@womanclothedinthesunq7574 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💝 love from Albuquerque.
@MariaSantos-gm7ps
@MariaSantos-gm7ps 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cathrynnicholls8161
@cathrynnicholls8161 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you Julia, you are funny! Great list. I need a hug! Fellow shifter.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I let myself be myself Julia and enjoy myself I let myself play.
@jcmaurico9667
@jcmaurico9667 Жыл бұрын
10mins Mindfulness is helpful I do it everyday before sleep.. thank you 😊 and 👋 share it guys.
@ivanmorales9119
@ivanmorales9119 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words 🙏 I got your book 📖 I love it
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I’m going to start practicing not sweating the small stuff Julia.
@Jeanneblush
@Jeanneblush 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video! ❤️
@victoriastallard
@victoriastallard 2 жыл бұрын
As always a wonderful video with great help and ideas along with inspiration which I really enjoy when I am here on your channel Julia 😊 one thing I have been trying to get into because it lifts my mood is mindfulness meditation 😊 Thank you Julia looking forward to when I am here on your channel 😊 have a great week & love you and appreciate you so much Julia 💕 ❤❤
@stephaniedavid8820
@stephaniedavid8820 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so right Thanks you very much
@user-sp5pq8fb1s
@user-sp5pq8fb1s Жыл бұрын
🤙I'm an ENFP and I love everything about it!
@abdulazizalzhranai3046
@abdulazizalzhranai3046 Жыл бұрын
Julia you are right.. you r hilarious.. just to let you know you make me smile behind the screen. Thx
@myworldofketo5384
@myworldofketo5384 5 ай бұрын
If I assume the best, I get screwed, if I assume the worse, I’ll be prepared
@karivi8827
@karivi8827 2 жыл бұрын
Julia … I love you so much 😃
@TheEstherBabs
@TheEstherBabs 2 жыл бұрын
the part where you said you are hilarious and thats all that matters....got to me 😂😂...i love it...
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love to volunteer Julia.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love Michael Buble Julia his song Home is my favorite song.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love cold water and straws too Julia.
@change4me
@change4me 2 жыл бұрын
I’m kind to everyone, even strangers..I’m organized, and I’m a good mom ❤️
@christinemariequigless
@christinemariequigless 2 жыл бұрын
your kids are lucky to learn by your example re: strangers, the world gets bigger and hugs you more easily when we let ourselves be kind to strangers ❤
@susancunningham60
@susancunningham60 2 жыл бұрын
You're so awesome! I think I am hilarious too! 😁😁
@kerricoplin948
@kerricoplin948 Жыл бұрын
My name is Kerri andi ready to change my life for the better Jennifer I watched a lot of you videos and I know it you will be able to help me?!thank you forgiving me that attention its my intention to be a better version of myself everyday ,stay positive, and grounded again thank you for helping me achieve this❤
@oliviajorda2454
@oliviajorda2454 5 ай бұрын
I enjoy listening to you. Every time I do, I feel so good. Thank you. I think you are hilarious by the way.
@victoriastallard
@victoriastallard 2 жыл бұрын
I am giving, I am loving, and I am a good hard worker. & yes, Julia your are funny because you always make me laugh and smile when I listen to you 😊
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I like classical music too Julia especially Beethoven.
@pawsome-pooch
@pawsome-pooch Жыл бұрын
Great tips! I love giving away good clothes and items I no longer use to charity. Makes me feel great! So nice to not have clutter
@robertgrace6182
@robertgrace6182 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Assuming the best of people has caused me so many issues over the years I’m not sure I can go forward with that. In an ideal world, sure that’s fine. But evidentially it is inadvisable. For me.
@DrPatrickKingsep
@DrPatrickKingsep 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Patrick from Mind Life FLow here - great advice...this will help so many people! I am a Clinical Psychologist in Australia. I agree that daily routine changes - mindfulness practices - can be life changing. Which one do you find is the most helpful for others?
@WarriorWidower
@WarriorWidower 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video as always. I’m not a shifter, want to be…but just an idea. A Shifter double walled steel water bottle with your logo? LOL.
@kimorsler5794
@kimorsler5794 11 ай бұрын
Hi love your videos 🙏
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
Hello again Julia.
@neychachi
@neychachi 2 жыл бұрын
Starts at 4:12
@serenarobak3640
@serenarobak3640 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I think you’re hilarious Julia and you have a good sense of humor.
@dl5054
@dl5054 2 жыл бұрын
Hey just want you to know your awesome and I love you, enjoy your weekend 👉🥂😁. Take care all
@user-lz2nr8qw4z
@user-lz2nr8qw4z 2 жыл бұрын
Hello from New Hampshire
@womanclothedinthesunq7574
@womanclothedinthesunq7574 2 жыл бұрын
And a smoothie 🥤
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I like to think I assume the best in others Julia.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I would smile at you Julia and say hello if I saw you.
@sabrinaa4872
@sabrinaa4872 2 жыл бұрын
Omg Julia you crack me up 😂 "dont drink four gallons of water and DIE" On the note of music - it's interesting how calming and peaceful spa music is, yet I never listen to it outside of getting a facial. I think I'll have to try that today!
@mcmurmies
@mcmurmies Жыл бұрын
Hi from Reno NV 👍🏽🥰
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I’m very engaging too Julia just like you. I’m funny too Julia just like you.
@AnHourOfWolves
@AnHourOfWolves 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your videos, I always find them helpful and inspiring. The water thing isn't supported by the science tho; drink if you're thirsty, that's all you need to know. Most of the research that promotes drinking more than that was published by Gatorade to sell more junk 😁
@elin_
@elin_ 2 жыл бұрын
Cold water shower is nice
@patsysullivan1529
@patsysullivan1529 2 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@Sir_Ken179
@Sir_Ken179 2 жыл бұрын
I can't believe you listen to Megadeth! 😎
@jmsl910
@jmsl910 Жыл бұрын
i'd like to hear more about play. i'm not athletic, artistic or musical. i'm very bookish--and with that intense.
@timothystone3726
@timothystone3726 Жыл бұрын
Luv ya julia
@womanclothedinthesunq7574
@womanclothedinthesunq7574 2 жыл бұрын
I think your very intelligent funny and adorable and just what me and my 32 year old daughter needed right now. Love from Albuquerque. 😘 She destroyed straws at 4 just like her 4 year old today. 😁
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love going for ice cream Julia.
@rongike
@rongike 2 жыл бұрын
use the stuff 😁
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love to drink water Julia.
@michelleharris9992
@michelleharris9992 Жыл бұрын
I’m back! I have social anxiety to the highest
@rongike
@rongike 2 жыл бұрын
I also think you're really funny Julia 😊 and I think I am too 😅
@Chris-tj4eo
@Chris-tj4eo 10 ай бұрын
love # 14m lol-- 3 things I like about myself? I can have fun and I am funny, I'm smart, I can take care of myself.
@geoffreycarlson9925
@geoffreycarlson9925 2 жыл бұрын
How do you move forward after a therapist ghosts you?
@danjohnson8138
@danjohnson8138 Жыл бұрын
Loyal Ethical Empathetic
@TG-nh6ni
@TG-nh6ni Жыл бұрын
Just got reconnected with the pre-covid BFF via text. 😀😀😀
@alicejordan152
@alicejordan152 Жыл бұрын
@tamarafox429
@tamarafox429 2 жыл бұрын
Hi sweetie 😘
@charlottesmolnik7581
@charlottesmolnik7581 Жыл бұрын
Talk about how to egnore rude mean people ..
@khadijahyahya-uj6pm
@khadijahyahya-uj6pm 9 ай бұрын
Helo
@joeoluwa6532
@joeoluwa6532 6 ай бұрын
i have interpersonal skill, love to chat &
@AnHourOfWolves
@AnHourOfWolves 2 жыл бұрын
Lol Mozart 😁😂🤣
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love you Julia Kristina I think you’re really beautiful.
@CedrickBagley
@CedrickBagley Жыл бұрын
It's Ok to smile at everyone when you're a pretty girl. When you're a big guy, people call the cops and say that you're crazy.
@reynarossell8651
@reynarossell8651 Жыл бұрын
Can you speak up a little more
@johnfarago3363
@johnfarago3363 2 жыл бұрын
Are you kidding! I woke up to the exact concern you describe in your intro. Incredible timing. I journaled "Woke up feeling anxious and prizeless. Damage happens so quickly and heals so slowly, if ever. Gain reduces so easily and increases so painfully. Is it even true that I can be rewarded? Can anything in life bring lasting joy?" Julia you can really make (help) me smile. Thanks😁 Follow up. Ironically, I did let myself play yesterday and stubbed my big toe really badly.. and got to have one of my favorite people give me a bandaid and offer an advil. So here's to looking at the bright side. 😂 Proof this works kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJqbhax8spmyhnU.html Remember this one?
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