you are very correct as i also watch it to learn lessons.

So the father is around and allow someone to molest his daughter... who wnt to be with a weak man like that, who cannot protect his family. Weak an pathetic

I swear.. the man is so calm .. just 4 month. ... Of no job.. hmmmm

same here, my advice to single is try and married right, divorce no be bean o!

Thank you for understanding this woman point of view. I don't know why this generation thinks that when a woman leaves, it is all about money .

its judge funmi that caused it. she tries but she is of the generation that sweeps things under the carpet. its appalling. though she condemned the molestation and told the mother to not wait for validation before pushing for justice for her daughter,she now diverted everyones attention summing everything under money..

@@ogomailechukwu9422so true, it obvious she is tired of pushing her husband to be active, dnt mistake me , some people needs to be pushed to get off their comfort zone and he is one of them, am glad she left because there energy do not match at all

God bless you

At least this is a sensible comment

na lie oo

Na crase dey worry som men ! Money dem no dey bring, oya care & help nkó, no way ! Woman go do her duty as a wife, com still do d duty of d man. Haba !

You re indeed very angry now and will not dare let the man chop.., the truth is not all men is actionist and he looks like one of them.😅

No money no love

No money no love woman

Women love living on their own now after having children, most especially if they hv money

You gerrit

100% bro, a man is dead when his money starts to run out!!!

Beats my imagination. A lot of people need orientation. A 10year old has just being victimized and the parent chose to re-victimize her. So sad😢

Exactly 😢😢...

So that she can speak up next time

After the beating, the daughter told the guy my mum will beat me... When he asked her to come to him again, remember?

You are right

Amen thank you so much

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Are you sure this is the full story or u are just trying to gain sympathy

Please what is the name of the church

I love you the way you are does not mean you shouldn't stand and Hussle. When you are not disabled.

Very True

Na lie! I will rather give ashawo money

@@toksjones7214 😅😅

​@@toksjones7214hahahahaha😅😅

@@toksjones7214 lol

Please can you think before you write, a man that can’t fight for his family and dwells on past glory is a useless man. If you want your wife to take care of finances then you should do her duties

With all due respect I hope that you didn’t missed ur meds. Bcuz right now it’s seems like you are commenting from ur ass not ur brain… if nah so ur papa Dey irresponsible you think say ur mama for marry am??

Exactly!

She did......multiple times

You just heard her perspective. She is prone to exaggerations based on her testimonies

@@chineduokoli1 As the poster pointed, he didn't deny her narrative of his role in that event. It's important he understands that he should champion that cause as protector of his home. The woman should have gone all the way as the judge pointed, but that advice seemed to be directed at her.

Are you sure you followed the session? Do you assume that everyone should take the same approach to issues? You think that because the topic is child molestation so much noise and pointing of hands must be done? I just see that most of you in Nigeria aren't intelligent you just want to follow trend. Wetin concern judge funmi with a situation she doesn't fully understand.

Very true

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It shall be well with you, you just get that point right.

Thank you so much for not joining other ladies who took side on this Case men dey suffer for marriage but can't speak out

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lets wait till you marry a man like him or your husband becomes one

Because she IS outspoken and knows her rights!..... African ppl need mental renovation

Is it because he is quiet here u think he is humble? It's just because he can't speak English well to express himself

Typical orientation of nigeria lady

Who else notice its not our children by my children.

She is horrible and only for her survival

A very terrible spouse.

@@olabanjiosundosumu39 it's only "our children" if they totally depend on you financially. If anything happens, it becomes her children alone, they go with the children and deny you access to the said children. I wonder how it was sold to men that these people are mild and tender.

Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Amen x21

Absolutely

Na the female specie's dey make am oo ..run ooo Hmmmm😢

Some wife/mother are useless

like! dyg?? I honestly dislike how the judge waters down women's complaint of DV too! she clearly was supposed to be hard on the man for taunting the wife about leaving an unsafe space where his children could have been traumatized for life! she is sometimes biased jare

Apologies to you all! Lets be objective here. Judge Funmi saw beyond what you both saw..."traces of emotional blackmail" from the wife. The wife and husband must have documented their complaints and judge Funmi will read ahead of court sessions. The wife may not have written about their daughter's molestation issues at all. Bringing it up at the middle of the court session may be a popular strategy used to curry the judge's favour to her side. That's why she asked the wife.."Did you report officially?" The response is No, with excuses. The judges are trained not to use emotions to judge cases before them.

This is a silly comment smh 🤦

Men if this generation after the woman will suffer with them,they will abandon her when they make money

It’s just so sad tbh and embarrassing this country doesn’t take it serious

@@Dee.Viewxoxo they never do. When it happens they blame the poor little girl and the 17 year old goes Scott free. Can you imagine how this affect her psychologically. Being a female in Africa is nasty work. It’s either you marry a polygamous person or fear sexual abuse.

@@sekinatuonanuga-olalekan1247 I was so disappointed when the mother said she punished her like she is literally 10? A child how was that her fault

They are crazy. Then they want their daughters to luv them in old age after putting them thru trauma.

​@sekinatuonanuga-olalekan1247 not all part of Africa,but you can say your part of Africa..

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😂😂, unveiling the real issue after 20mins

Does me look like he is hard working? Moreover her name is not endurance. There is an age a man will get to a fool at 40 will apply

@@chinonyevivian1112 I only aired my opinion and that's yours. You can opt out of your marriage if you think your man is not doing you justice financially.

😂😂😂u think it's everyone it favors, there are still women that have suffered with a man and when the man got money he abandoned her because "she is no longer his class" Everyone should just pray to marry the right person If this woman saw that her husband was at least putting in effort to bring something to the table I don't believe she would have left

@@emirowland-douglas4006 off course, you are right. Just do your part.

Its not all about reporting your husband, are you sure he is financially ok?not every man wish to see his children miserable

​​@@adamsulaiman7720what do you mean are you sure he is financially ok?? He should go and look for how he will be financially ok if he is not. You can't have kids and say you will not care for them just because you are not financially ok. Then don't have kids then, it's not compulsory to have kids, if anyone knows they are not financially ok, they shouldn't have kids. A man should just not make kids and leave the responsibility for the woman alone, that's absolutely nonsense and irresponsibility.

Some of you are kind of wife that can force the husband to the ritualist, and next your womb will be disappearing and you will be complaining. If the husband is not financially OK, that doesn't mean he should find it by fire by force, no man is happy not doing anything or not being financially OK

No,No,No she moved out 2022, their daughter was molested in the old compound in 2020 the months when the government opened up the economy but she couldn't take the children with her to the shop because the health inspectors asked her to reduce the number of people in her workspace...she makes and sells snacks. Go watch and listen again.

@@freshfishstall9083 am not arguing with you when she moved, but the effect of covid reach 2022 as importation concern. Women should learn how to support family if the man is down

Bills don’t stop coming. He has been eating and is not held back by house chores or kids. She cannot do it all alone. Anyone would be frustrated.

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I will be authoritative over any man I have to take over his responsibilities. Such men should just avoid me

@@chinonyevivian1112 exactly sis

Make I come dey suffer for man bcuz of say nah goat 🐐 give my mama belle Abi?? I can’t marry a man who’s jobless when I know that you’re not a cripple

I pray you don't find urself in a situation where people u called ur own will not ignore u completely.

You get uncommon sense. Age gap in marriage is crucial

The youger ones are not ready to get married

@@lifezoe2899no it’s not it makes them not understand themselves because they have not much in common marry your age mate you’ll get along well

She married him when he had money and didn't mind his age. Now, there is no money and she is seeing the man as too old for her. Do any of you think that Regina will remain with Ned if he doesn't have money tomorrow?

​@@TDenen2Ned is a predator, he has to pay for young beautiful women. He is definitely not handsome and has weird looking features.

jobless man! you're just everywhere! go and work so that your children will not drag you to justice court soon! oponu apoda