We all know they are bias.

I am really sorry about what you have been through.. it's a tough situation to be in. But the signs were there from the onset and you still went on to keep giving birth for an irresponsible man. The first and second should have been enough for you to stop. Learn to also love yourself more.. if you had, you wouldn't have gone back to him in the first place.. unfortunately, Nigeria isnt a country that where people get justice. Another thing to do is to write to his place of work!! They may compel him to pay or better still deduct a certain amount from his salary. The ministry of women affairs in Lagos is also there, maybe they can be of help. God strengthen you.

Am sorry for what u went through but u caused it after ur first surgery for the etopic pregnancy u shouldn't have allowed him back into ur life and u wouldn't have had any child for him not to talk of 3kids

It is well with you! 🙏

To begin with there is a lot of deception around this program. This is NOT a court of law but Alternative Dispute Resolution which can be compared to a Council of Elders resolving a dispute in the village. Parties to a dispute must agree to partake in this process and the enforcement mechanisms are generally very weak. It seems that this is hardly truly explained to the parties, who are surprised with how the enforcement can become challenging and frustrating once the " judgment is passed.

Yes second part is coming

Yep...wonder what kept him from coming into the court to clear his name..then secondly came with lawyer. The girl has not exaggerated anything. Ask the man straight was was it about the girl and you getting mad and saying the door should be open. Let him explain himself. Abi na the only bathroom for house? Is there a shower curtain. You can't dismiss it let's wait for the second part. B

It is the police that must do this. This is ADR and its jurisdiction does not cover criminal matters.

The judge is only trying and wishing that the mother can prove the allegation. She knows how such laws work. There is no need going there if you cannot prove it. Courts are not places for making a case without evidence. Please note this does not mean the mother or the children is lying.

@@cco7174 Right. Bless Up🙏 Let's pls wait for next episode or d conclusion of dis case 1st.

Seemed like the Judge was even intimidating the plaintiff by her line of questioning! Unfortunate!

@@adstix That is not true. Her question is helping the plaintiff.

This is ADR and its jurisdiction does not cover criminal matters.

The judge did what she had to do

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

No not lawyer intimidation unless she is not a real judge. It is our naija culture of her claim being a taboo not putting into consideration their are sick people out there. As a mother am my child's number 1 advocate I can't open my mouth to talk such rubbish no need to tell me implications of law. Yes I know both the implications of law and culture. I wish the young lady spoke up more about her concerns. What do you want I want supervised visitation for a while....matter of fact that is my number 1 concern before upkeep money of the children.

I thought so too, this is actually the most disappointing episode, I don’t even know how to feel, judge Funmi dint do well on this case

You are right. First time that Judge Funmi will judge unrightly. I cry for this innocent woman 😢.

When he appeared with a Lawyer, I knew something was deep. Small claims courts people do not lawyer up

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

Such a sensitive case belong to criminal court and not civil court. The plaintiff can sue him to criminal court on the allegation and be ready to prove it. She made a mistake of not reporting the case to the police immediately it happened, now it will seem as a motive just to defame him cos afterwards, she still got pregnant for d 3rd child to a child molester.

@@kuteallets Exactly! I only wish she reported to the police or even his family. But she said she's not in good terms with his family, maybe she felt if she reports to them, they'll shut her up. But that could've been her evidence now. This is just so sad!

Always takes up for the man it's sickening. Even go back behind the chambers call the little girl and mom to sit bck in the room and ask her questions. That is what she should have done

Judge Funmi sounds more like defends attorney than Judge on this one, I feel so sad, the man (dad) should be prosecuted and should never allowed to be alone with the children during visitation especially the 3 years old. The lady can do better without him.

I thought same too

What are you talking about? The defense lawyer should be present unless not required

It's a constitutional provision to be represented by a lawyer in any court of law in Nigeria.

You have not even heard from the lawyer you are already judging.

To help him talk his way out of the molestation aligation against him. What the judge needs to ask him is did the incident in the house happen that day. What happened after she walked into to bedroom and to my disappointment the judge didn't ask the woman what her little daughter was screaming about rather she shut her up with do you know the implications smh naija is so backwards still. Lady should go to child welfare and report as well. They will take the case more seriously.

He brought the lawyer bc he is so so GUILTY. I believe this woman 100%

You’re right. His hiding something

The lady protect her kid 😂😂😂 as man send them to family but she don't like the place for her kids, tomorrow flod can come to the house tomorrow, and this man not legal marry the woman no no much right on her ,let him take care of kid and have good relationships with them

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

I understand ur pain madam.but u cost dis urself how can u be giving birth to children for a man u know is irresponsible on ur own words.u were going and coming, going ND coming back wat re u looking for actually.

Exactly

When she started, don't start condemning where he was raised. I was shocked as well. Judge Funmi has been disregarding claims of violence and abuse alleged by women. Just ask for proof and not disregard or relegate it to being scorned. I was a tad disappointed

No judge acts on story. Judge Funmi has been educating you people that criminal matters MUST be reported to the Police for investigation before it is charged to the court, that is the procedure. None of you is encouraging others to follow due process but you are castigating the judge for asking for evidence before making judgement. Judgement is not based on emotion but on evidence. I watch many ladies will come to court for civil matter (child support) and start to narrate criminal story. Judge cannot help such ladies. Encourage peolpe to follow due process to get justice.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 so sorry

@@wunmiakinade3391 Heyah! I feel your pain Madam and i am glad i can send you this comment directly. Although i have only listen to your submission through the posted video, i hope your babies father response and defense will be posted soon. My candid advise is that you should go and report the matter of Child molestation at the Police station, you don't need a lawyer to do that. When Police is through with their investigation, the matter will be charged to the court by the Police. That is the right process for criminal matter. Judge Funmi was trying to educate you so that you don't expose yourself to litigation on defamation of Character. If you want the baby daddy to be paying child support and school fees without seeing his children, you will have to get court injunction to prohibit him from seeing them if what you are alleging is established by the court. You will need to follow all these very well to get justice. There are lots of emotional comments here that you made and many people on this platform show sympathy, but what all those will earn you is just pity party but what you need is justice. I will have to listen to your baby daddy's side of the story when it is posted to know if he is the victim or the guilty.

Based on traditional....molested means words...molested is words not actions....so that they only needs to talks to guys to respect kids..not buyllied adults women Molested someone needs warning and told to be stopped Only with evidence can end up to police officers station 🚉

The children's molestation should not be taken lightly. I had been a victim. Even without legitimate proofs, the children can still be brought to testify.

“Guilty”

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

This is ADR and its jurisdiction does not cover criminal matters.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391

exactly!!! I am so disappointed.. I was literally screaming.. she was kinda bullying her into silence. This is why some victims do not want to come out. Coming out of a judge's mouth is appalling..

You have not listened to the husband's response or heard the judgment, yet you have taken such a position 😂😂😂😂. Thanks for your remarks anyway, but ensure you continue to watch till the end.

Stop being emotional. You haven't heard the man's side of the story. Judge funmi would definitely will ask the man of it's true but already the woman doesn't have sufficient proof to back that accusation. Judges don't use emotions to judge, the use proof. JF even noted that many women have the tendency of trying to implicate their partners due to bitterness which is true, I've seen it severally in many episodes. You also did not understand that the judge was actually advising her. She's simply saying if you have a more damning accusation that goes beyond a civil case, you better have evidence. Judge funmi was simply advising her to make sure she has proof if she's going to also accuse him of child sexual abuse because it's a CAPITAL OFFENSE. This court is only for civil matters. If the woman could present proof, judge funmi would swiftly transfer the case to a court that has jurisdiction to try a capital offense. Nigerians are too emotional sha. Judge funmi was 100% spot on jare, listen to her very well.

I agree with you. I have been watching this show from America. I love this show. But for the first time. I disagree with the judge. This needs to be investigated ASAP. This will affect the daughters for thier lifetimes also affect her children in the future. Because the fear of this happened to her children. This is my opinion of this episode. I will hear his side next week to make my final decision.

​​@@okwunnandudi7085she ask her to have proof. What proof? photos, witness statements. She is lucky to have her daughter as a witness. We all know these things that she is alleging happens in the dark or when no one is around. I truly don't think she was lying. It was to many details in that part of the story. The judge shut her up in the middle of the story.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391so sorry about your predicament. It will be extremely hard to compel that man for child support because as you and l know, anything goes in Nigeria and we do not have a proper child and welfare support system to hold accountable men that impregnated and abandoned women. It would have been easier if you married him legally then you can seek for divorce in a proper law court and have him pay for child support and maintenance . Sadly this is not the case.

Judge Funmi did right in this matter. It will be irresponsible to allow anyone come on National TV to destroy another person with criminal allegation that was not reported to the Police and investigated. Put yourself in the position of the man. As the Judge you need to balance the matter. Criminal matters MUST be reported to the Police for investigation, you cannot bring it through back door into the court. No judge will allow it. Especially when what you filled before the court is civil matter: Child Support, the procedure is different. I guess you made your comment because you don't know how the court system works.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 I am deeply pained by your story, I wouldn't wish anyone that. All I can say is that you try and stay strong and stay close and connected to your family, hopefully they will stand by your side through it all. Good luck ma.

I sayyy I don’t know what her qualms are

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 Do you have instagram?

The judge has seen thousands of bitter souls that want to destroy other humans, probably like you. You just got to check them. If this thing gets to trial, the gist will change, and this storyteller would be doing the crocodile shit. I've seen plenty of shit like this. Fumi, the judge doesn't, as a super woman, is just neutral

I think the judge is trying to protect the husband against capital offence

The Lord will be on your side and send help you from above.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful

Judge funmi was very dismissive of the complaint!!! I am so, So, disappointed. Even as a woman to another woman, she let the a child abuse matter just go off like that!!

@@wunmiakinade3391 quite unfortunate to be into such issues. The judge did no wrong my dear. The Court is not a CONVENTIONAL nor Criminal Court, where such allegations can be heard. It is an ARBITRATION Justice Court. It lacks jurisdiction to entertain such issues outside the scope allowed it. Rules of professional conduct demands she caution you on your rights and liabilities, of which she did. In the Nigerian legal system, MATRIMONIAL CAUSES, CRIMINAL OFFENCES, CHILD CUSTODY etc, are not Arbitrable for now. If you want the court to entertain the claims and allegations you raised, kindly take the matter to a COURT OF COMPETENT JURISDICTION.. where rules of Evidence shall apply. I understand your Emotions and sentiments, but unfortunately LAW HAS NO NEXUS WITH EMOTION and SENTIMENTS. I wish you well.

​@@wunmiakinade3391I see your pain as a fellow woman. God will see you through. You need a lawyer

@@louisanthony9441you are right

Me too

And should be reported properly to the police. Not on national TV

Because he has a lawyer. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Why do d judge not support her

Bcus he came with his lawyer, Knowing too well he is guilty

Let us hear d guy's side of d story before jumping into conclusions.

I am disappointed in the judge, too. It is a shame that she shut down the issue of attempted molestation.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@Fitmom4 She is the judge. She needs to hear from both sides.

​@@wunmiakinade3391hmmm

Burden of proof lies with the who alleges, no proof no crime. Devoid of sentiments ooo. Let's just imagine she s lying, that's how an innocent person would go to jail. Dats y it's good to prove what you allege.

Very Ignorant remark. No judge will allow you destroy someone else on National TV with ordinary story that can be false. That is why all criminal allegations must first be reported to the police and be investigated before they are charged to the court. You cannot bring a child support case which is civil matter to the court and begin to make unreported criminal allegation in the middle of that. If you have a criminal case, go to the Police and report it. The Judge is very wise in her counsel to the Plaintiff. You need to learn from this too.

@@patiencebello5552 You that is very wise, where in this remark did you read the Judge should allow her express herself on national television? There are ways to listen to both parties sides of the story & ways to go about proofing what is truly going on even without a report made to the police. Read to understand, not just to respond. Hope you learn from this & please be guided...

@@nwanzeemmanuella5302 You may not know, Justice Court is shown on several National TV stations. The way to listen to criminal allegation is not on National TV, the Judge knows that. The lady did not file a criminal case if you listened to the matter. She cannot in the middle of civil matter start alleging criminal offence. The procedures are different. Imagine the defendant is your blood brother, would you encourage his accuser to carry on with accusation on social media and national TV without any proof. Criminal matters MUST be reported to the Police and investigated before it is charged to court. There is a reason for that procedure. I am only trying to educate you and others that are emotional with their remarks. I hope you learn from this.

@@patiencebello5552 all I can say to you is read to understand people post before you comment. When you don't understand, then ask questions before making rude comments. It's not today I started following the Honourable Judge & her cases...

Yes you're right

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YOU ARE VERY RIGHT. THIS WOMAN IS QUITE GULLIBLE.

Absolutely agree. This was a sad watch. How do you "prove" such things? Is it when the child becomes pregnant or the molester is caught in the act??? Either way (if the allegations are true) immeasurable psychological damage would have been visited on the child. And when the child's begins to act this out, the very same society that had this swept under the carpet would roundly condemn her. It is a shame.....

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

Plintiff's sister, the defendant has not presented his defense, wait till next week. It seems you are just hasty to make accusations and judgements.

@@patiencebello5552you are so full of it, you can call me whatever you want, it tells on YOUR character and not mine. Before you insult, check out whom you are insulting.

@@Westgirl277 Heyah! there is no single insult in my remark, but you are entitled to your opinion. I was only trying to point you in the right direction.

@@patiencebello5552 you should only point someone who is lost and asking you for directions to whatever you consider the "right direction".

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 hey I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm South African woman, How can I contact you privately ?

As in ehn, too bad. I think Lagos state government should do something about it.

The woman in question is in the comment box , kindly scroll down and read

No, the lady is lying .

Don’t critics Judge Asaolu yet. Let’s get the end of the judgement.

@@muchychipo5676 Do you stay with them?

My thoughts exactly!

You people have no idea of the law. You think it is just because someone is unhappy and says terrible things, the judge should just accept it?

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 I am not surprised at all. The judge was once a lawyer once a lawyer wallks into court with your opponent forget it. He lawyered up because he is a criminal. and wore dark glasses so no one can recognize him but his day will come. His neighbors & family members better watch their children around him. He is sick, why would you want to see the nakedness of a 13 year old, especially insisting on it. One thing is that lawyers always support each other. If your opponent lawyers up you better do too, because the jjudge was once a lawyer and they have a professional code of support " awo ni gbawo ni gbowo" Take your children and run. It will be rough but you and your children are better off without him. All the people that participated in this injustice will get their own day too. I dont care how many women they say have lied, it shouldn't make the judge stop another from speaking out. I was so disgusted by how she quickly shut you down talking about it;'s a criminal thing, the hell it is. So disappointing. Nigeria is one biug disappointment. If the Judge wants to clear herself she needs tpo do another episode where there is openess. In this case no Justice. Unfortunately you allowed him to string you along, you ahd a good man who wanted you, he would ahve been the best father to your daughter. Nigerian women need to egt away from thsi societal pressure of staying with abusive men. To make it worse he didnt amrry you in any way. Women always at the losing end at the end of the day. They can block me if they want. I ahve no respect for any of them.

@@wunmiakinade3391 I came back here to respond to you because I just watched the 3rd episode. You're making your case bad by saying in that 3rd episode that he led you on and didn't marry you. I'm not sure if you're just not wise or yo u just love this guy because I do not understand how you want to be married to someone who you said tried to molest your children. I'm really confused about that. I dont know if youre just being emotional and compartmentalizing bec ausse /I/ wouldnt want to be 50 feet near a pedophile. Your utterance concerning that is what ,made people in the court turn against you because you were joining issues and making the matter on ground about you while the Judge was trying to make you understand the case is not about that? Sorry o but I tell it like it is you cheapen yourself when you make a man feel like you can exist without them. He married someone else, get over it cause you allowed him to string you along. You are the mule that bore him children so move on, not even his money should make you want to be with him with the way you've allowed yourself to be hauled around. Common now you went to College. I graduated from that same OSU in 1987, yes I was in the 2nd set, you should be smarter than this. Anyway , if the issue of molestation is true, stand your ground. Shikena.

Please tag them, I am also very interested in this case but I am not based in Nigeria hence my ability to raise help locally is limited.

The judge was obviously talking from experience where in people come with fake allegations against the other party to prove a point! I am sure that justice will be served in this matter.

Pls do and other international organisations need to come in. I dnt understand what Justice Funmi is doing again. Amnesty international should be bombarded with this case, this woman and her children need to be relocated out of this country for safety sake Aaaaahhh Detola, God would continue to increase the punishment, u haven't seen anything. What u have shukad, u would doka. Hmmmmmm

This woman is dishonest. I think she loved that guy like Romeo and Juliet. The moral lesson here is never to date or accept a woman who is still talking to her ex. Once u know, quit.

She was just served her own medicine. Foolish woman paying good with evil.

I don't think that is the case here, although she has lots of blame her reason for going back to him seems valid, wanting to have one father for all her children instead of different fathers, however, she should have seen the red light and walk away and since the first is a girl, she should have just walked away from him and start on a different profile with another man.

exactly

dat is wy She ask her if any evidence abou what she is saying..just try understand dat point ok

Nobody moderating a TV program will allow someone to come on TV to allege a criminal offence without evidence. It is not fair on the defendant. Imagine you or your dad is the defendant and a lady just go on National TV to allege a rape case, not reported to the Police, no evidence and more especially when the case she brought to court is not about the rape. I am sure if what she originally filed in her case is on Child Molestation, she would have been well guided on the procedure for criminal matter. But her claim is Child Support not Child Molestation, i believe she just wanted to destroy the guy using the opportunity of the Justice Court TV and social media.

You cannot discuss children in public. She needed to caution her

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

She only advised her that the defendant could sue her for character defamation if she cannot provide evidence of the accusation. I don't see that as a shutdown. Unfortunately for her, she does not have the evidence.

I followed her allegation well. He’s a predator!

@@maxyllus772 I'm sorry that's not good enough, such a accusation should be immediately flagged for investigation. Someone tells you they saw an adult man with a hardon messing with a child and you just cut it short with nir evidence move on, sorry not good enough at all. This is the same with domestic abuse, many many cases where even the husband has admitted beating his wife and she just says counselling and that's it. And that's how many people are shut down in Nigeria and things swept under the carpet. Such an accusation must be investigated by the right authrotire, she can't just say oh you don't have evidence and pretend she didn't hear it. That's now how it should work.

Dat is the reason she told her if she have any evidence about what she saying

@@ambroseambrose641 really that's how you investigate claims of child abuse? You're kidding right? How is she going to have evidence there? Let me spell it out to you, in the event there is ANY accusation of such a situation it has to be investigated thoroughly not just well you don't have evidence so sweep and move on. That is a disgrace. And we all know nothing will be done about it. How many times have there been accusations of domestic violence on this show and what has she done about it?? Even when the husband admits it what has she done????

She does this all the time when it comes to abuse.

Happy to see this comment from a man.

I'm so glad this is coming from a man.

​@@HeyMe75thanks so much , this is not her first time being biased on her judgement, it was before she handled case properly, but now I don't know what happened.

Exactly, I am furious with the justice court right now. I will be putting this on tweeter soon. We cannot sit here and allow that guy and rhe justice court to treat survivors like this. Child molestation is so rampant in Nigeria and judgements and treatments like this is why victims do not report.

@JumokeAyomide-jm6hq Unfortunately the plaintiff did not do the right thing. Criminal offence must be reported to the Police. She has to do that first for investigation. What she is just doing at the Justice Court is telling story which does not count in any court.

The judge gave her the best advice related to child molestation, kids are unreliable witness, if she should lose the molestation case and the husband counter sue, she may be in trouble without money for lawyer.

​@@patiencebello5552 hoe many people will go to court in Nigeria to report that to police. Pls be realistic even nigeria police will castigate her just like this judge.she told her family..judge should have asked who in your family did you tell and what day... call that person and inquire if she did indeed tell them and in what capacity.

​@@lanre3767your wrong kids are not unreliable witnesses. She too according to her story witnesses it when she opened the door. It's all weird.

@@cco7174 At least, she should hv gone to d police or human rights for d records even if they dismiss her. The lady has also not presented her case well.Remember,that he who alleges must prove beyond reasonable doubts. How can d Judge pass judgment without sufficient evidence @ d end of this proceeding?The lady can go back & do proper assignment which I think she has missed by not being able to hv at least hv one evidence that would nail d guy.

She was naive

even when the man is a pedophile? so the child will end up with a miserable life?

There is no way kids will be with their dad at that age..is the law..

@@gracelove7009 seems you don't understand what the woman said

@@gracelove7009she didn’t know he was a pedophile.

Just like some typical Nigerians, you just want to hear stories. The judge already explained why she should not narrate stories she can't prove.

@@kemigold1860 Very ignorant remark. Ask a lawyer how court system works

@@patiencebello5552 please tell me how they operate.

@@kemigold1860 Good ask. When you file a civil case you stick to the civil case, if you have a criminal allegation, that needs to be reported to the Police, they will investigate and charge it to court. That is how it works. The procedure for civil and criminal matters are different. The plaintiff's claim which is Child Support is purely civil but on National TV she started alleging criminal matters that she claimed occurred years back, which she did not report to the police, to me that sounds like a hurting lady that just wants to use media to destroy the man. It is not fair on the defendant. There is a procedure on criminal matters. The judge cannot make judgement on the story she was telling without any proof. That is why Police is involved on all criminal matters.

The judge is bias. Very poor interrogation.

You truly did not hear the Judge ask if the matter was reported? Watch the video again. Criminal matters must be reported to the Police for investigation and the burden of proof is on the lady, she needs to make the evidence available to the police during their investigation so that the police can charge the matter to court. The Judge's caution to the lady is appropriate because making unsubstantiated criminal allegation on national TV can earn her a deformation of character charge from the defendant.

@@patiencebello5552 I heard it well. She asked the if it was reported and lady said No… My point is this…The judge in cautioning her practically silenced her. The burden of proof in an alleged sexual assault lies with the prosecution and in this case it lies with the state (law enforcement) not that the lady should not make accusation because she can’t prove it. How else do you expect her to prove it? The only thing she has to do is to report the alleged crime to the police. There’s a witness who also happens to be a minor that had almost similar experience. It is statements like this that makes it difficult for people to actually present their case.

@@waleolaboboye3944 I get your point. But note that the Judge is aware that this matter is on national TV channels and social media. No TV program anchor will allow you to freely make criminal allegation on other people on TV without proofs. I believe the lady landed her story anyway because we all understand what she was talking about. I believe what she said if not true is still very damaging and unfair to the defendant (that can be you tomorrow). The judge did the right thing by throwing in that word of caution. Any criminal allegation not already reported to the Police and investigated SHOULD not be allowed to be allowed on air. The lady's case and claim, which is Child Support is civil, i beleive if her claim is criminal she would have been advised on the procedure to that but she got on air and started telling story on criminal matters, that MUST be reported to the Police.

@@patiencebello5552 I agree with you ooo. I am not saying she was right bringing up a criminal complaint in a civil jurisdiction… My point is that the judge should have simply told her that “that allegation is beyond the jurisdiction of her court” and that she can take that to the police… My point also is that the Judge is not right as to be asking her if she had evidence to prove alleged assault on a minor… Simply signposting her to the right place is enough… Anyway…I hope you understand my grouse. Simply cautioning her to go to the

@@patiencebello5552You are all over trying to defend a criminal 😮,you must be the sister...that man watch out and old days are coming..God is watching and he will not leave any stone unturned.

The judge always says it’s about the welfare of the children! The attorney is either her acquaintance or she was paid off!! This is some kangaroo court BS! I have lost all decent respect for the judge!

Honestly, I am so sad and could not even finish watching the harassment of the plattif by the court.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

​@@wunmiakinade3391 Don't lie, before God and man! Did he molest your daughter or you just cooked up the story to tarnish his image? I'm not supporting either of you, I only want the best for the children.

O ga, indeed o. I just tire!

Its sad because the kids will end up being pedos when they get older. It’s genetics.

Take him to ordinary president in brekete family Abuja will will solve this problem for you.

Yep! She is in trouble. Court na palliative… this is life long problem

its sad that the Judge silenced this woman. I hope some NGO would take this up.

@@temiloluwaolanrewaju2168please do

Thanks so much, what kind of useless proof, something that she did not expect it would happen at that moment, that was how children get raped and start looking for useless proof.

Exactly, reason why some guys dnt want to have anything to do with single mothers.

Don't too much blame her we have a culture. Judge was a Big disappointment in this case talking about proof. What bigger proof that the child and her? I really tire oo

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 take it up with child welfare

So because the woman said it's true right.

@@ojonimiabdullahi8919 yes! No one will come to the court and the media to make such claims. A 13yo is no baby…..what she saw, she saw.

@@flakkie6711 can you be logical for once so because the woman said it's true. Recently in Nigeria when a young girl forged a result you all tore JAMB apart till the truth came out. You have no idea of the law and you are biased towards the man. A woman says something and you have concluded on it. The 13 year old hasn't said anything yet. Then tomorrow you people will say there is no justice in Nigeria. You can never I repeat never convict anyone without proof. The Judge did nothing wrong.

Asin ehhhh I am so disappointed

Even without listening to him? You already condemned him. That's not the way the law works

I am American and I am sitting here watching this very angry with the parent for not going to the police on that disgusting monster. He wants control of her.

@@saturnladee110 well africa is a bit different, in aMERICA WE HAVE MORE RIGHTS

@@asatakromah9001 I wouldn't care if I were in Asia, nobody is touching my child without ending up in an RIP T-shirt

I guess your disappointment is reason why you're not a judge and she is. Just shut up and follow through everything. I also hope you realize this is a summary video

Absolutely. Terrible judgement that put the kids at risk

Don't mind the judge speaking English she wants video proof before she takes it serious. That's how must are being molested in their homes by " auntys, uncles, house boy,house girl, cousins, siblings and yes parents. Sick world.

Abi o! Why didn't the man work too in Itire if the Judge is going by that!

Folks like you into the same shit stories to destroy others would call the judge biased. If the story makes sense to you, then you need to get checked. The judge has been super neutral because if it goes to trial, you won't lose the outcome. I've seen plenty of your types thinking this story would fly.

Very true she’s so biased I guess she’s intimidated with the fact that the guy came with a lawyer. This particular case the judge very wrong with the way she’s constantly belittle her arguments

Don't know about this particular woman but Sadly too many married women do this unfortunately because of the social degrading and financial loss from loosing a husband. Some mothers are on private facebook pages discussing how they caught their husbands with their children or even underage house girl and they consistently get advised to stay-put and not loose their home, they will say the daughter will go to her own home one day and then she as mother would have no home herself. There is a lot happening in Nigeria that is unspeakable, and if according to this episode you cannot even report abuse unless you have evidence, imagine how many children cannot speak-up as they are being abused by anybody from family to neighbors to even teachers and pastors, when it's not like the child will be videoing it as it happens, or maybe the abuser is so rough that it causes obvious damage but it will not always be like that. Who really knows what actually happened in this case? Also, that thing about insisting on having all children in one place even when the relationship is nasty and bad has put plenty women and children in so much danger

Seems like a guy being controlled by family. That the paternity test was done was because of family. He is quite mean to know she lost one of her tubes the first time she got pregnant for him then the second time he had the nerve to tell her to go for abortion? That man is wicked. She really should have ran from him but with Nigerian culture and home pressure I understand.

True 👍 very bad

Exactly

Exactly my point, and this is her first time, have been noticing her. She should have allow the man to defend himself. Am waiting to hear the other part then I can say what is on my mind.

@@kemigold1860you know before hearing them out the judge would have already read all thier narratives on paper sent earlier to the court

@@chuchu7710 I know , but she shouldn't have tackle the lady immediately, who knows if the allegations is true. What proof the guy also have that he did not do it. Did she do a proper investigation also to know if the lady is telling lies.

Yes ooooh you be correct mugu

The judge is trying to help the plaintiff oo. The defendant already got a lawyer, the plaintiff might be heading towards defamation of character if she had no proof especially since she didn’t act and report to the police immediately the case happened but just saying it now that they have issues. In law that seems like she had a motive.

I appreciate that you were able to see the light and critical concerns about this matter. I am the mother of the 3children. The manipulations, emotional traumas, mental tortures that this man put me and my kids through,and still going through is beyond words. Many was edited out of the video,the talk in the courtroom took more than two hours. It been six months after the court and not a penny still from him to the children,no upkeep ,no sch fees, absolutely zero. When the children school contact him,he told the sch owner to chase the children away from school that he will not pay the school. I have an audio backup for that. It was quite obvious that there was also some kind of manipulations he and the sister did with the lawyers, because even after the judgement,the results were still manipulated right in my front. I am happy, people just watch the small video and still see it.there was just a lot of struggles,I have no doubt that he paid them behind. I called the lawyers back for next steps and they are not even picking my calls anymore,they told me not to come to their office,also not to call them anymore. I have stop calling them. No justice in Nigeria. many offenders like him knows they can get away with whatever crimes. I wanted to get justice and especially child support upkeep for the children. I can not afford a lawyer or children lawyer, in this terrible economy in Nigeria. Day to day expenses with 3kids alone is tight,not to mention sch fees,house rent,medicals,but God has been faithful.

@@wunmiakinade3391 am short of words at the injustice if all what u narrated is true, you can either leave him to God or madam write gistlover they will drag him with his money

The judge never cares about abuse. She is a representation of Nigerian society.

@@HeyMe75 so sad. Integrity is disappearing from every sphere of society in my dear Nigeria.

Y'all are being so emotional that you aren't using your head. First she hasn't judged the case yet. Imagine I go around telling people that you're a thief and police just come and jail you without investigation or questioning. She still has to hear the man and because she said he did something does it mean he did? If he comes and say another story different from what she says y'all will say he's lying because you've heard a touching story from her. Think with your head and not your heart. If the judge let her continue on that allegation part it can ruin the family for good even money for upkeep that she want from him now will be gone for good

@@laleyerinsola9569 leave them....na typical example of Nigerians you see so... thinking with their mouth instead of brain....you only heard one side of story and you judgemental already....o ga oooo

She's trying to let the girl know what should be. She's not been partial