If your parents does everything for you and is there..your suppose to be there for them..PERIODT

@@rachelhouse9187ikr! The kids today are so entitled!

@@rachelhouse9187 you do not have to be there for your parents tf we didn't ask to be here XD we don't owe our parents SHIT it would be nice to do that for our parents if they DESERVE it.

Yeah you right but as a parent we ain’t obligated to take care of a disrespectful grown ass child that lady raised her sheltered her she can’t get the same you know she had them kids you put them out that’s not right kids disrespectful period honor your mother and father

@@user-fz9em2dy3g😂 yes you do, its the whole point of being family. I understand if you had toxic relationships with your parent but if they did right by you, then theres no reason you shouldn’t do right by them. Its plain selfishness atp

She wanted her husband she wants a man support if that man was alive her daughter wouldn’t even mean anything to her

I think she just wanted family. It's not uncommon for people to want support from the family they have when they are very sick.

@@carrotsandpotatoes5019 Exactly the daughter should've left her siblings homeless and went on to get a house and car. When you love your family your actions should show it.

for sure!! was expecting too much from her daughter

I’m 20 years old and if I seen my mother like that something would kick in and make me a top hustler I’m not gon lie I would neverrrr leave my mama and siblings like that everrr

If the daughter love her mother, she would have helped her mother. It's not the daughters' responsibility, but love should have made her do it. What if it was you.

@@ursulaporche529 if there’s no money and she has one income. What is the daughter supposed to do ? Start prostituting to pay her moms bills ? Black folks need to get their life and retirement insurance game together like other cultures do. Insurance is the one thing that would have helped this family

@@lizf77 Ame LK Frazier, so true.

I could not deal with her trust me she is too much for a mother..

@@ursulaporche529 unrealistic and not loving on the money’s end to have illogical expectations thats she doesn’t even hold herself to.

yeah and did you notice that the the mother and her mother had that same kind of codependent relationship.

And narcissistic

God gave this young lady a job to do which was, to honor her. Why? So that it will be well with her and that she would live long on the face of the earth. Reprobate ungrateful people in this comment is unbelievable. There is nothing that daughter can do for her mother that can compensate for her risking life to give birth to her. PERIOD!

@@1talldaddy these stupid words that the colonizers make up. Is not real!! Where in Africa did the word codependent come from before you all were brought here in chains?

@@ththim7785 well the mother needs to take a one way trip to Africa and let them deal with her bull.so the daughter can be at peace and be happy without her.

I can relate 😢

absolutely the truth.

As she should! Her mother sacrificed all her life for her, so now your mom is out of her death bed you need to PULL UP!!! That girl gone grow old one day and wish she never treated her mom that way, period!!!

You are soooo right sis! It's most definitely a generational curse which unfortunately a lot of us black daughters are dealing with when it comes to a narcissistic black mother! 🙄😒👎🏾

This sounds like my mom

Preach. You're right. it's definitely a generational thing. Sadly, it's expected to run yourself into the ground. That generation of black mothers never knew the importance of self-preservation/selfcare. I watched my mother ignore her own health caring for everyone but herself.

You have hit the nail on the right spot babe😮I had to move away from AFRICA TO UK as I had to learn to love my own MOTHER from far.

Wow from this comment alone 😢...my mom used that scripture too...and I told her to keep reading where it says "Parents don't go bruising your children in the head" ...I remember I would explain to people how my mother was and everyone told me that I was lying and I was crazy cuz my mother is so sweet...I said yea she's sweet to everyone but me..it's just an act ..she treated me horribly and I'm still affected by it at 42 years old.... calling me evil...the Devi...a liar...I told her about being molested by my sister and her friends... I was ignored and married someone that treated me like how my mom treated me. Undiagnosed scoliosis living with extreme pain all of my life being told that nothing's wrong with me ..and just trying to force herself into my adult life when I no longer have a desire or need for her to be in it ..I accepted that she'll never be a real person...it's too much

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Everyone's situation is not the same. She should have been there for her mom out of that hospital!

Gorl, you seem like a strong woman that rly went throught some stuff. As an only child, i didn't have do that and and I respect you for being able to do that for your siblings, you really are a strong person.

Boooo is Rightfully owed to her cause her siblings come first

No, but the daughter could have asked for help she is not 5 yrs old, parents need their children when their health fails them and get older, who else will help them. They just need to apologize to each other and move forward in love. I know it can be done I took care of both my parents I left my home and move in their house to maintain it and care for my disabled Dad while my Mom was hospitalized. Servanthood takes dropping your ego and thinking of someone else. When your selfish you say who cares I need to live my life

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Maybe living check to check! Some car places take it after a week.

@@sweetismami28 all the more reason to stay on your ish and put that same pressure on the children’s father

@@altinawashington-key5211 I agree!

I know you didn't post this to be funny but sometimes the truth is hilarious 😂

That’s not all mothers. I admit when I’m wrong. I feel terrible when something I did hurt my child. Of course it wasn’t intentional. But we all make mistakes. Children don’t see their parents as humans who make mistakes. I did the same think when I was younger. Once I got older I could see my parents as just human. They didn’t have all the answers. They were just as lost as I was, just trying to figure things out as they went along. Now I give them grace. They still do things and I just have to separate them as a person from the behavior I didn’t like. I love them even when I don’t like something they do. I hope my daughter will give me the same grace because I love her no matter what. I’m not perfect. I’m gonna mess up or have quirks she doesn’t like. All I can do is try to be better. I’d like to apologize to you as a mom, for all the times your mother didn’t. I don’t know why she didn’t but it’s not all moms.

Thank god I’m not that mom. My kids know I apologize any time I am wrong. ❤ I learned from my moms mistakes. She never apologized for her wrongdoings so I make sure I do.

@@user-hd4qo3eb2d I feel like it’s common

Some mothers!

@@peacefreedom4930 ofc they don't mean all mothers big head

It’s hard to want to do something for someone that keeps insulting you and blaming you

These were my thoughts. I'm the oldest and I do a lot but my Mom is so grateful for everything I do and if she wasn't it would all stop right then and there.

That's what I said she must wasn't paying her bills before that all happen to her, the repo man not going to take your car after 1.month they Mail you letters an stalk your phone for months. She was already struggling to pay her bills

because her daughter didn't handle her financial affairs.

@@jahdestamuzik9145 she obviously is not being truthful even going through eviction you have 90 days to pay or get out . Bills can go delinquent for a month and be paid after with a few late fees at the most even internet stays on for two months without payment moms story is bogus

@@jaymemullins4760 exactly, she wasnt handling her own business even before that accident and expected her daughter to pickup the pieces

That part didn't make sense to me either. Most financial institutions give you a 10 day grace period monthly on your car loan, and then they simply add on a late fee. You normally have to be at least 3 months behind for them to consider a repo.

How and she was in coma for a month. Yall sick asf omm

@@allaboutshanel6676 At 22, my daughter doesn’t make enough money to cover my rent. I make enough to cover rent for a 4 bedroom/3 bathroom house. My daughter makes enough to barely pay for a 1 bedroom. As a parent, we still helping to finance them at 22. I don’t expect my 22 year daughter to PAY my weekly child care fee of $300 for twins. After you have a kid, they ask you in the hospital, do you have a will, a power of attorney, financial power of attorney. You know this going into a hospital for the first time. Her mom has several kids. She knew legally what she was supposed to do. That’s not her daughter’s fault, that she didn’t handle that. They provide temporary disability insurance that you pay on monthly, in situations like this. So if my stuff isn’t together, it’s not my daughter fault. The only thing I expect for my daughters to do, is go to my closet, pull out my brown envelope & follow instructions because when I come home, I want to be comfortable, not angry!! It time to start taking accountability. However, I am sorry they are passing through this tough time. You can tell they love each other deeply, but she has to get off that babies back & let her help her the best way she can.❤️❤️I love black women and from a Black woman, it’s time for us to take accountability across the board & not when it benefits us….

@@TrinaWitDaRedLips very well said 👏🏽

@@allaboutshanel6676 this girl was 22 how was she going to pay rent, pay her car, be a mother to her siblings and provide food. This girl was barely an adult. She did the best she could an her mom is blaming her for everything

Have a dear friend that lost his mom, has to take care of his lil sister. Dude is depressed as fuck and he's mentally 40 from this but it comes with a cost.

No...she was correct 💯 she did it to make her daughter strong n depend on herself is correct...

Because they’re ignorant to having children and ended up unloading the traumas of their own raising without even realizing

@@kierradockery4958 Say that 🗣🗣🗣 for the dummies in the back.She(mom) opened her legs and had them.*She* needs to care after them.They are her children.Why unload all that responsibility on her daughter when she made those decisions and then get mad because the daughter chose to live her own life.Those mothers are selfish and self conseited.Thats really called emotional enslavement.It"s wrong.

As the oldest this is definitely true. It's like we're supposed to carry the weight of the family on our shoulders.

Not just the eldest, even only child kids who have aged parents

​@@AngelzBloomzWinx451 😢

poor mama, your own kids will treat you like this , shameful!

@@jahdestamuzik9145 your young children who don’t even have life figured out are not obligated to keep u in care yes it’s great to care for ur mother but their 22 still young she’s cared for her other kids and was there so please .

​@@sexcdoll I disagree, mom is on her dying bed, you do what you have to do period!

@@jahdestamuzik9145 she is the mother regardless. She should have taught her daughter the skills to keep the house going. She is 22. and in this economy things arent cheap. realistically she cant pay the car, house, and kid bills. The mom wanted a MAN not a daughter. Sad reality is that the mother failed before she even got sick and it is not the child responsibility regardless of the situation.

Narcs gonna narc

I had to distance myself from my family too, yet, if someone needs me, I will try to help the best I can. Just don't want the disrespect that comes with my decision to help or not. Sometimes prayer is all I can offer

JUST DO IT. LOVE THEM IF POSSIBLE FROM A DISTANCE. PEOPLE EXPECT YOU TO RAISE KIDS THEY LAY DOWN & HAVE. LEAVE YOU WITH THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF MOTHERHOOD WHILE THEY DRINK & PARTY "FAMILY" "FRIENDS" YA' WONT BE SORRY, THANK GOD YOU WE THERE TO "HELP" ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT MAY HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU WEREN'T. YA' WONT REGRET THE BONDAGE & MENTAL HOLD THAT WILL BE CARRIED INTO GENERATIONS TO COME !

As the oldest I felt this also! I had a handicapped sister, I found my parents will and they had left everything to her. I was heartbroken and betrayed by them knowing that they raised me as “the caretaker”

Same here

Same here, never want to see or speak to anyone of them again. I surrounded myself with a solid foundation if friends who have become my family in every sense of the word. This woman will drain her daughter until she does not even recognize herself. Girl RUNNNNNN as fast as you can.

👏🏾👏🏾YESS and is why she has all kind of resentment! She was just able to start legally drinking and being an adult then boom instant mom and caretaker 🤯

@@neeta_jenks she was in coma what was the mom supposed to do but the mom.help her out with bbl that woman self and only thing of her self please dont it's mf taken care they parents at teenagers and the teenager was me please stop talking let this been on IG everybody would said that lady wrong

@@allaboutshanel6676📢 having a place to stay and a car don't make you a parent 🤷🏾‍♀️🤭. The girl didn't take her siblings simply cause she wasn't EQUIPPED to do so 🤦🏾‍♀️. You don't know the full circumstances and neither do I .. the girl was 22 years old! She did what she could do. She could have done nothing at all! The mom should have had a will drawn then proper decisions could have been made. 🤷🏾‍♀️

My own ppl NEVER prepaired but will to point the blame at ANYONE when things go down. 😩😑Self accountability is a MF! The sooner you acknowledge it, the better you will be🤞🏾

@@neeta_jenks shut up u don't know what u is talking bout she was obligated to do so cause she was in coma but mother just said she hellped her with her bbl please don't speaking I'm.not saying don't make her mom I said mom already had everything and she lost it probably on purpose had lie say lady pass so she would lose everything stop defending this lady that lady have. O kids it's no excuses barely a life u don't turn ur back on ur family idc what none y'all people are saying if u can leave ur mom after coma that's y'all omm

Exactly!

12:06…the comparison

You said it. A lot of single mothers can be toxic. They love to re- write history.

Fr this woman is acting like she’s 86, she was sick but she does seem capable she wants her daughter to be a mother to her and that’s not even fair being that she’s still very young and has a life of her own to live.

Daaaamn… you ain’t wrong. That’s spouse duties

I was thinking the same thing. The daughter has been with mom the longest which means she had a lot of responsibility forced upon her.

Yes she is still a child , I'm sure she didn't know what to do , oh my goodness God bless her for trying.

These people expect you to provide for them financially for the rest of their lives when they were never willing to do it for themselves. They require less from the men they lie with than their own children. It's sickening. I'm still trying to find a way to abandon my mother after all she's done.

Mom said she was helping everyone else. Probably giving her very last and sacrificing her own before she became ill. Woke up and folks didn't feel the same way about her back... that has to hurt!

@@2ndedition766 I'm too flabbergasted to find the words...but you summed up many people's lives with their moms. Hell, you nailed mine at least. Wow!

You are so right. They did for us, we should do for them When needed🤷🏽‍♀️

I agree with you guys. My mom has always looked out for me. The daughter clearly said it's not my job to take care of you. How is it not??? At 17 yrs old my mom was diagnosed with cancer and given 6 months to live. Being the oldest with 3 younger siblings it was hard but it was DEFINITELY my responsibility..

@@markeyshacarreker5651 you missed the part where she did go to the hospital and take care of her mother. In 30 days her mom lost her place to stay and her car. Things had to be out of order already. We have no idea what that young lady has gone through up until the coma. We shouldn't expect ourselves out of others. It doesn't make her wrong We don't know her life from this small snippet.

Thank God finally someone who gets the hint! Keep up the great work and be blessed!

I agree. I gave up everything to care for my mom after she rendered paralyzed. I would do it again because of all she sacrificed for me.

Imagine being 4 years younger than your older sibling having to take care of them. So, it's not always the older sibling stepping up as the parent.

I've been doing this for years and honestly it draining and exhausting, truth is I don't have the heart to look away, I just can't. I really feel for this girl and I am happy for her that she could make herself come first before everyone else,which must be difficult,but the mom is expecting too much.

Always be grateful for the life they contributed to you. Keep an ear out to make sure they're alive & healthy, whilst maintaining your SANITY SPACE 😇

I totally get that.The life my mother had for me was not the life I wanted,I simply chose mines and that made me the Blacksheep.So be it.But I don"t do that to my own kids.I let them be free to live their lifes.Why is that so hard for people to get.I didn't put my own personal designs on them,and I didn't let her do that to me.Today my adult children and I have a beautiful relationship with mutual understanding.It"s actually healthy.I let them live their lifes without manipulation. Love my Grand kids.

Blessings to you mother and God speed for your recovery 💕💕💪

Bless you in recovery and moving toward remission and being cancer free! Thank you for your gracious perspective, and for showing appreciation for your children. They will thank you so much.

I don’t feel like her big as worries it was the materialistic stuff. Her biggest worries was if anything happened to her would you be able to care for your sisters and brothers your siblings? and that was even proven not to be true based on the fact that her mother literally went to a traumatic situation, almost losing her life came out of the hospital and she didn’t have anywhere to turn to, but her daughter and her daughter shut her out my mother would never go through some stuff like that and I’m the only one to be financially able to help my siblings and my mother and I turned my back on them and then state the reason I did that was because I want it to go on and leave my regular life

Exactly how is it someone's fault they were in a coma?!

@@holycannoli9744 that’s what I’m trying to figure out

@@holycannoli9744she should have had her bills paid. No one takes away your home and your car after 30 days or less. Her bills should have been in autopay like a responsible adult.

@@jessn5677if her lease had just ended like the daughter clearly said, then yes they would!!!! The mom is the only person who could resign that lease!!!

People shouldn’t have kids until they are ready to do 100% what it takes to be a parent to allowed to be a child until they’re not a child and even when they’re in adult the child as the parents nothing other than to create their own lives, all these people that have sex, and then expect their children to serve them is so evil

You know she did

She is just selfish! Sad excuse of a mother.... She never asked to be born for fucks sake, her daughter had an accident also! Whose looking out for her daughter? Shameless woman.... Ungrateful to booth am vessed😡🤬

Same here, this mother has been in a coma and the daughter should have known better to take care of her siblings no matter what

@@bernadettejackson6177 Exactly, idc about the material things but at least keep your siblings indoors, fed and find them relatives that’ll take good care of them. Don’t just abandon your siblings while u got a house, they could’ve all slept on air mattresses in the living room smh

I totally agree with this!!!

@@gtfoh1802 she kept them fed. She fully said that she made sure they were eating and had groceries, lights were on

You guys are also forgetting about that fact that she was also recovering from a bad car accident. At the end of the day she was not obligated

It’s not that she doesn’t love her daughter she does . She has that old school mindset that your child is supposed to do every thing for you and it’s just not healthy . She learned it from her mom and expected the same for her daughter. It’s not a lack of love .. it’s a lack of knowing how to parent differently than what’s been passed down.

@@ramonahamm6292 exactly! generational trauma.

Personality disorders 😢 my mother acts identical to her. Entitled and grandiose. She has to be loved, accepted, and respected and she's above us always. It's so damaging...

Something is wrong with the daughter!

The mom is under obligation to take care of her children. So is the father! She has more smoke for a young woman who is in college/university years, than the man/men she procreated with. 22yr olds across the world barely have anything to their name, especially in this climate. This girl had to raise her siblings, provide for them, take care of her mom & try to take care of herself. That is not something Alexis or any daughter should have to deal with, since they're always made deputy parent. The mom has a right to be upset about certain things, however none of them fall on her daughter who had to lose out on a childhood because her mother kept having more kids. Now she must lose out on doing being a self sufficient adult? When the siblings do well & Alexis has nothing, the same family will look down on her & she'll be resentful... Rightly so. You can't deprive your kids of a good/decent life & expect them to play the role of the men who left you & you don't hold accountable.

Lol you are putting daughter in to a mother role. That's wrong.

Then still going on about it an running her in the mud

Bingo, Narc mom.

Same happend to me an still is

The mama should’ve had her moment saved, disability insurance etc! The hell shebthink

The comment I was looking for 👏🏽💯

Alexus need to look at who cared for her when she was in that car accident. Love is nowhere in this picture. Atleast the mother know what's going to happen to her other children when she die. This gives her time to make preparations. I wonder how Alexus siblings look at her now?

It takes money to pay bills she kept the kids feed her mom shouldn't have expect anything else

Exactly I agree with you 💯 the daughter is wrong she probably was worrying about these youngs mens she did her mom wrong

​@@kingpete3160Pete go have several seats,she did the best she could at 22.

@@ms.p5183 yeah but I still don’t do that to your mother u only get one God said praise your mother and honor that wasn’t honor at all so u can say what u want u ain’t higher than God so why should I care about what U say I ain’t the only one who knows she’s is very selfish ass hell to her mother me and my siblings want let our mother lose her home with my little brothers and sisters living there nah not at all sorry

@@ms.p5183 she ain’t did no best she could’ve u can see the flaws right through her lol 😂

she didn’t kick me out, i graduated and joined active duty army and left

Even though you know you were taking care of your whole life by your mom 🤦 Some love and loyalty right there.

@@jeannietimberger2556 how the fuck would she be able to pay 2 rents…… literally pay things with no paperwork no money 22 years old. you’re delusional

@@kaelchipz7252 no you've musta been sheltered. I'm being real AF 🤦 FOH

@@jeannietimberger2556it’s their job and responsibility…. Why do y’all act like y’all kids owe y’all and it’s the other way around…. And do you understand that some parents do not take care of you and think they’re obligated to what u have when THE PARENT HAS THE OBLIGATION

Facts

Sad is hell why her daughter disrespect her own mother you only got one mom that person bring you to the world and she can take you out

I hope the both of you are doing well

Hello , I am the daughter and I have been in counseling for years I actually want to do spoke out video on me and my moms relationship . My uncle passed away when I was younger so as for me im expected to step up to the plate and provide for my family at all costs and don’t get me wrong I’ve done so much but it never gets recognized . I told Karamo that I didn’t want to just down my mom I just felt like she been through trauma causing her to be like this .

@@jusstlexy I'm so glad to hear you are in counseling. Sounds like you did the best you could & that's all that can be expected. Hopefully your mom gets counseling, starts to heal and you all can be closer. Good luck to you.

She not just talking about only bills she talking about being there when she come home from the hospital a mother wanna see their oldest child to be there besides them the daughter is wrong I ain’t bias ima tell it like it is

22 is old enough. She knew how to get her a place.

@@boobadee04 exactly!

She took advantage and looked out for herself. She's selfish, in this whole thing all she took care of was herself not even her siblings. They were left homeless while she had her own place? That makes no sense.

@@boobadee04 I feel what u saying for sure which why I get both sides cause I heard what the mother was saying I believe her truth as well wat was my biggest issue her not even having her siblings with her was a tell tell sign cuz I'm the oldest of 10 and I would've had every single sibling in my house but I can say some 22 year old aren't that mature enough

@@Drawingboredi They weren’t left homeless my mom choose to move in with one of her boyfriends even though I offered to take them in and let my family live with me they eventually came and instead of being grateful my mom routed back to her old ways drinking and coming home making me feel very much not appreciated she quickly turned my household to a toxic place where I no longer felt comfortable. I even offered to give her my entire crib and i move into a new one .

Same. mother or sisters, ill do everything I can to make things happen. My sisters, nieces, or nephews not getting taken by the state. Lastly, she was only out for a month. that's a short amount of time to let everything go.

That part

I never seen so many self people, so it’s okay for her siblings to be homeless too

The love and respect you have for your mother is so beautiful and she is so blessed to have you for a daughter. That mother was sick and almost died but still apologized to her daughter and I think that daughter should have apologized as well. Young people today are lazy and inconsiderate.

​@@maryj4595 don't have kids expecting them to be your free caretakers then you won't have any problems 🤷‍♀️

@@maryj4595 The daughter did everything she could how was she supposed to support her and her mother, she knew she couldn’t so she what she could like the u-haul nd making sure her siblings were straight

@Tay Triggs❤️❤️❤️

So sorry 😞

I'm so sorry that,you had to endure this evilness. Blessings to you.

When my mother was here on this earth.....Me 2!!!

Say that!!!!

This isn't the same she tired but taking care of everyone but not yourself doesn't work the mother should be glad she did her best

yes and I definitely wouldn't have my brothers and sisters living house to house when I have a home .....

I am yet to hear those who criticism the mom say that when the daughter was in her accident, it was the mom who was there for her. Yet the daughter now boldly say the mom is not her responsible, neither the lil siblings. She said she had her own life to live....selfish girl. I could never b living my life while my lil siblings b homeless n not even one or all I take in....shame.

you can love someone without the expectation they will take care of you. She even says it at the end that she loves her but she is *all* she has, that she raised her to be independent to do for *herself*. I think she loves her, but she shouldn't be asking for her eldest to be her provider, that's not her job.

@@MaiBoricuaTai Sio she should leave her mom out in the streets coming from the darn hospital?? Ya'll are all sick!!

@@jahdestamuzik9145 Naw fam, but there is taking advantage of someone and genuinely needing their help. Her momma didn't *want* to do for herself, she put it all on her and that ain't fair. It's okay to help out but you should never be the sole provider when there are OTHER options and her momma clearly decided she was going to put the burden on her daughter instead of making moves herself to care for her OWN children. That's not sick, that's expecting another adult to do the RIGHT thing on their own. Sorry not sorry.

@@MaiBoricuaTai How did the momma "decide" to put it on her?? Did her mom "decide" to fall into a coma and almost die? In life there are unforeseen circumstances. Her mom didn't expect to come out and be homeless. She almost died and came out and her daughter let her and her siblings stay out of her home because "she wanted to be on her own" I pray to God the daughter or none of ya'll ever get deathly sick cause karma is a serious one. Turn my back on my momma, I could NEVERRR!!!! I don't care if I was working 3 jobs, mamma gone heal comfortably right in my home!!

@@jahdestamuzik9145 Sounds good for you but clearly we are not hearing the same situation in all of this. If my mother acted like this woman? We would have a problem. Period. But that's you and clearly having a *good* relationship with your mother. Not everyone else does and not everyone else will see eye to eye with another's plight. I will leave it at that cause arguing is silly. I respect your outlook and im glad to hear your moms can count on you and you guys have a good relationship. Keep being the good person to her you are.

Hey , I am the daughter and I am the oldest out of my mother children. Im 23 , my brother is 20, other brother is 18, and little sister is 16

@@Margaux639 No child is asked to be born, a parent is SUPPOSED to take care of the child, it’s their obligation, no child of their parent should feel to take care of their parent as a job

@@amediasres No one said that

I’m with you, I was that same age taking care of my demented father. I didn’t know I had an option NOT TO.. or that I could have said I’m to young to do this.. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@@amediasres family takes care of each other.

Helping someone when they can't help themselves is the greatest act of LOVE. Be happy you could do this for her. She knowingly feel bad for you.

Literally I basically raised my little brother

I agree with you chinyere 💯.

This is a good perspective. My mom treats my like crap and her mom treated her like crap. She was the only child that was there for her mom and I’m the only one that’s there for her. This perspective sheds a different light on things for me.

Chinyere God bless you Jare my sister All these small girls wey no understand wetin dia mama be to them. No matter wetin the mama talk or do Chai my own mama I go do anything for am. That girl no know anything wait make the woman die that time she go know say kaki no bi leather. Chukwu gozie gi

@@sandrabonsu5926 etisen

The best comment ever you'r very wise

Something is not right in this mother daughter relationship. From experience mother might pay more attention to the other children left the older one to fend for herself but expect her to be there for everyone 🤷just saying. I did not get any support from parents and was left with my grandmother who did all she could for me and I returned the favour and was there for her until she died. My mother and father would want me to be there for them now, I will help IF I CAN, but not making any sacrifices.

Thank you girl !!🤍

@@jusstlexy You did great and the best you could ! You were young with so many responsibilities!!! You have to live your life; your mother has her own. God bless you❤️