This how a respectful person act

I lost a filling too on a cherry stone in a restaurant I wasn't told they hadn't been removed ouch!

6-7 years ago the owner of the Café I always had my lunch in apologized to me, just in case the service was off the day before, because the server (his wife) collapsed because of the heat shortly after I left. In turn I apologized to the both of them for not noticing that something was off and helping, because I had a hard time to keep my mind in the here and now due to the heat as well. Luckily the wife did not get hurt and other guests were able to help her at the time. It was the hottest day of the summer that year and we had a record of people needing medical attention for heat exhaustion.

Awe I love that. ❤️

​@@Bev_Ando ooph, that sounds painful. They probably didn't know, though. It's usually a manufacturing error that happens when the cherries are being processed and jarred.

I’ve refused a table before. It was my exes family and the host thought I was joking but I was like yeah no way in hell. And another time when a man started insinuating that I was racist and ableist. I was trying so hard to get to the table on the time they wanted. I came too early , I just left them out there for too long. His words not mine and he said I came out too early cause he thought I was rushing their ordering when I was just asking if they had any questions about the menu SO far. ( I always say so far so people don’t think I want their order idc take your time) And then after all of this (there was a lot more through out the dinner) he had the audacity to say I was being racist cause he’s Italian (ok so am I , my fathers side of the family is so shove it up your butt) and his wife was in a wheelchair so I was also being “ableist” he said I was treating them differently when I was bending over backwards for them. Luckily his wife felt so bad for me and she took the bill and tipped 22% and I told my manager I will never be taking that table again. They come in pretty often and really funny how he said I was treating him different cause he’s Italian because we have to give them our Hispanic servers because all the “white people are probably offensive to him” It was so ridiculous. Also the managers response to that table is abhorrent. We would’ve never allowed them back in. Or we wouldn’t have comped everything. Luckily I work at a small business so the managers understand if you refuse a table there’s a damn good reason.

ANY SERVICE WORKER; PEOPLE SUCK!

Not just refuse and kick them out trespass them from the restaurant and property you think you can cause a scene because you think the worker ruined your meal of ranch or whatever salad dressing absolutely ridiculous

This is one of the top 3 reasons I will never wait another table. The others include being treated like shit by coworkers & management and shitty / unpredictable hours. The number of times I've been sexually harassed by "chefs" is frankly sky-high; the number of times I've been sexually harassed by someone in a professional job is ZERO. (That's just MY experience)

Mom and Pop restaurants let you do that lol we are the managers of we are on shift

I've done that myself

I once told a rep for a cable/Internet/phone provider that she's very nice and should try to get a job elsewhere because that company will suck out her soul and she deserves to work for a company as nice and respectful as she is.

can we clone that manager and staff every place with the clones?

Wonderful!!! They were there every week for free meals. Disgusting people!!!

Serial moaner 😂😂

Gold star for that manager! Backing up the staff and not taking shite from scamming customers.

Like NOT EVERY CUSTOMER is important.

nah... not a karen. dude was a jerk...""i dontt care what you would do cause , you know why, i am not you" This is why i do prepaid and buy my own cheap unlocked phone.

Yeah that Verizon trade in was a scam. A refused to pay anything and canceled my plan. I reported all of it to every credit bureau and told them all I never made a promise to pay.

I was thinking the dudes more like the Karen 😂 she's definitely not a Karen though.

Good for her for not backing down. There are Karen's out there but shes not one of them. Karen's demand unrealistic and unreasonable things. That's not what she was doing.

Not a Karen at all! Not one bit.

Sounds more like the rep was being told false information by their supervisor. She was in the right but didn’t act right, sounds more like she talked herself in circles and that’s why he abruptly put her on hold.

Whole thing feels like a bait and switch if they didn't fix it.

I'm 100% that random customer that has nothing to do with the situation that will ABSOLUTELY stand up for a server if they are in the right or being abused. (Uh, no mam...it isn't any of my business, but HERE I am anyway.) 😂

Manager has a spine of jelly

That's why I quit my last job. Bad management

An old manager of mine saw that one of my coworkers was crying, found out it was because a customer had been mean to her, then *tracked him down* in the parking lot and made him come back in and apologize. Champion!!! 💪🏆

At my retail job our motto is "the customer is always right" - *none of us adhere to it* 😑

Totally agree, ‘Karen’s’ pitch fits and bully people. This lady just stood up For herself, not the same thing.

This exactly. Karens are unreasonable. The person in the last story was simply standing up for themselves and holding the company to what they promised. Start demanding extras and everything else afterward? THAT would be the Karen behavior, which didn't happen.

When analysing behaviour, I ask myself whether it is 'standing up for yourself' or 'standing on other people'. Whichever the behaviour represents the most, defines if someone is a Karen or not. Phrases such as "I demand" or "I want" are good indicators, trying to be calm and rational is another, as well as if they could walk away but is choosing not to.

@@lucindamakin1262 This is a most excellent method for determining, I think.

Agreed, Karen’s make a beg deal out of nothing while being a b”tch. Being scammed out of $250 is a big deal

The irony is she is probably pro abortion and doesn't care about the life of unborn humans, but fish lives matter!! Lmfao

Well said!

Yes I've noticed a 'stewardship' mindset often in people who hunt. Ducks Unlimited comes to mind. They do a great job of advocating for habitat. (I'm not a hunter, I've just noticed it.) I don't think they're all like that, there seem to be some gun-happy types too, and I don't get trophy hunting at all.

I'm a biologist who did a study on fish (heavy metal concentrations on their gills and livers), and we went to a lake where they did recreational fishing like this. I don't know if it is the same way everywhere, but the people who did this at the lake usually had a bucket of water next to them where they put the fish, so they were out of the water for less than a minute. Then they were thrown back.

No, research shows that a fish hook makes it much harder for that fish to eat. Hunters as conservators is a myth. You can be allowed to kill the invasive species, that’s a win/win for hunters and conservation. But it’s an exception

I mean, a fish’s gills will collapse if they are kept out of the water for too long. It’s kinda like trying to separate the pages of a waterlogged book. Or two same-size wet buckets. Doesn’t really work with all that surface tension. But yeah, I don’t have the context for that yet.

She seems to be mixing up deep sea fish that when they get pulled out, their swim bladder will explode and will die, but I highly doubt you’re getting deep sea fish near the goddamn shore.

It does stress out the fish when they stay out of the water for too long, but as long as there have water droplets on their gills they should breath just fine. If they completely dry out then that's a problem

I was about to say that. I'm a biologist who did a study on fish, and we went to a lake where they did recreational fishing like this. The people who do this usually have a bucket of water next to them where they put the fish, so they're out of the water for less than a minute. Then they're thrown back.

Catfish can be kept out of water quite a long time. Went shopping for a large albino catfish for our pond in China town. We put him in the car with a fabric(breathable) bag. Shopped, went to lunch brought him home and he did great! Lived many long years

God Bless him❤

I'd say even before the burgers. If the manager was around to notice their behaviour as she said, he should have asked them to leave then and there. Afterall the restaurant supposedly was busy.

And by NOT kicking them to the curb, he basically made it to where they said they were going to come back DAILY while they were in town! 😱 No, thanks. No restaurant needs customers like that. Dismiss them.

Yep, as soon as they were being disrespectful, they would have been given a choice - play nice or leave. Once they kicked off about the salads, it would no longer have been their choice. TTFN, don't let the door hit your butt on the way out. This is why I like living and working in the UK. We don't have a tip culture, so people don't feel that they have to put up with BS. Waiters and waitresses aren't reliant on tips. We also aren't afraid to tell people to get out... My cousin runs a very successful pub that is very popular for Sunday lunches. I've helped her out a few times over the years, when I've been off and she's been short staffed. We don't ask much - just that you're respectful to staff and other customers - but zero tolerance stops people trying it on (or coming back and being a repeat offender), and that actually attracts business, because decent people don't want their meal ruined by disrespectful people at another table, and they know they won't get that at my cousin's place.

Before I moved away and left my current job as manager in training for this chain of gas stations, I made it my mission to teach all my cashiers and everyone who came after me that if a customer is treating you like crap you do not have to take it. As a representative of the store you work for you have every right to tell someone to leave and if they do not leave in their own you have every right to have them removed by the police. I received a lot of abuse during covid and frankly it was a lesson I wish I had learned much sooner. Nobody has a right to verbally abuse you, paying customer or not. Their money is not worth it, and while I was fortunate that my employers would rather lose one shitty customer than a hard working employee, I wanted to be the first to give my cashiers and future replacements permission to stand up for themselves, even in an environment where other employers or managers might not be willing to give them the same courtesy.

Every manager I’ve ever worked under would have shown them out

Lol they'd have hated me, because I would have said "Thanks! I really appreciate you compensating me the $150 for the aggravation of having to call in after being billed incorrectly and the credit you agreed to on our contract being taken away. SO, when do you plan on putting the trade in credit back on since it was in the contract?" And then if they tried to dodge it or say can't get both, ask "Do you somehow now feel I am no longer "inconvenienced" by your incorrect billing and spending all day on the phone if you agree to eventually do what you said you would to begin with in the trade credit?" Lol

I disagree. She is a Karen with an exaggerated and made up story. As a consumer, it’s our responsibility to investigate, research, and read before making purchases. That includes promotions. I buy a lot of tech products myself. I also know how to do more then log into an app to pay my bills. Every carrier under “bill” on their app has a section that says, “view billing details.” You click the pdf and boom, you got your full detailed bill. Also on the billing tab for each carrier, it generally shows your promo’s, equipment, and account history. Which has 2 years worth of receipts, documents, promotions they were approved for, and more. It shouldn’t take a person more than 3 months to realize they are paying too much. She said she got her new phone in Sept. the credit was for $800 with trade in. Her instant credit was $285. She most likely got 1 of the new iPhone 15’s. They launched in Sept. depending on plan, the promo credit was up to $800. Her paid off trade in fair market value was $285. Her device had to be paid off in full to trade in as well to qualify for the promo. The promo didn’t give fair market value plus $800. It was up to $800 total. Meaning her device and plan qualified for up to $800, but you can use $285 from the fair market value towards the upfront purchase or as a lump some bill credit. Or pay the $285 extra upfront to make it wash the difference on the bill. I believe Verizon does 36 months of financing. If she got an iOS 15 which full retail is $830. Break $830 over 36 months $23.06. That’s if she was eligible for 100% financing. The stipulation of all promo’s, they require to use your personal available credit line in case the customer breaks the terms of the qualifying promotion. Now the full promo is $800. The promo allowed $285 of the promotion to be used as fair market value towards the upfront purchase, taxes, connection charge, down payment if there was 1, and accessories. What isn’t used is left and added as a lump sum credit or the customer can use it to go towards the device itself to lower the monthly installments, but she didn’t. So $800-$285=$515 is the credit left from the $800. That $515 is broken over 36 monthly credits if $14.31. Her phone costs $830 over 36 months @ $23.06 minus her monthly promo credit. Makes her responsible for $8.75 a month on the difference for her phone installments. She said her Verizon app said 1 thing but the rep told her something else. She said they told her a break down. I believe her story time was embellished, bc what sense does it make for someone who doesn’t know her to tell her that her bill is $800 more then what her app states and that amount is the same price as the promo offering for a series of phones that start at $830 and go up from there? It wasn’t $800 more. They explained the promo break down, the full cost of device broken into payments then whatever plan, features, services, and taxes. Maybe late fee’s or restorable fee’s could have been added. We don’t know her or her payment history. Also all promotions require the devices to be financed for a minimum amount of time before paying off early to be able to keep the promo credits. Promo’s require specific plans and services to stay and if changed at any time, can disqualify you from receiving the remainder of promotion. If you cancel before the end date of the promotional credits, you lose those credits and the remainder of the unpaid device is billed out. She’s left out details intentionally. This information is also on the Verizon app. It’s not a secret. She also signed a minimum of 3 times and clicked a few, “I consent.” If she chose not to read the details of what she signed, legally that’s on her. Not her sales rep at the store. They didn’t hold her hostage and force her to sign anything for a new phone or promotion. Idk how Verizon works but some stipulations of the promo requires a 4 point inspection of the device being traded in. If the 3rd party company receives the device and finds damage, they charge the carrier. The carrier can disqualify the promo. The carrier generally sends a letter in the mail unless that store ate the charge for the customer which is why stores will deny the trade in and auto disqualify you for the promotion.

Btw. There’s more I could type, but it’s past my bedtime. I’m also too lazy to fix auto incorrection where my phone has deceived me, grammatical errors, and spelling. Read and translate the best ya can.

1 last thing before I fall asleep. I’ve read every communications companies terms of network. Every consumer signs an agreement if this terms of network use. It protects the company so each government entity that regulates these laws doesn’t sue the communications company’s. Instead will go after the consumer. So when you send a group text with a hyperlink in the subject of 25 or more with out sending each individual person a text with permission, the frc, fcc, and so many other government entities can go after the consumer for lots of money for spamming the network.

Right, like the inconvenience is of her fault like no, ur system literally messed up she doesn’t have to pay for that

Some places do have signs that say something like "We have the right to refuse service to anyone"

Also add "No refunds" at the end too to really stick it to them.

“If I kick you out it’s your fault, so no refunds!”

I agree, my MIL and FIL’s restaurant has a couple of notices that basically state it’s a zero tolerance policy for any rudeness, abuse etc. toward staff. Also that they have the right to refuse/remove anyone. Their staff are absolutely wonderful people, very happy and efficient. The restaurant is super successful, not just because it’s delicious food, but because it’s a very chilled out and welcoming place to be.

💯 AGREE

Your mom is awesome. ✨

Now that's a true hero!

I love this. We need more Queen behavior like this! 👑💜

I love that your mom did that. She's a very special lady!! ❤🌹💯

That poor child

@@isabelroseman5043yh i guess that saying is right ‘every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child 🥲’

Je me sens mal en point dommage j'ai pas regardée la vidéo

​@@-maryam_-so true!

Dang I just realized

And I will happily design that sign for you😁

when she said "verizon", i had her back LOL

@@thora4041 lol. And my mom wonders why I refuse to switch to them.

As soon as I heard “Verizon”, I knew the answer was no, you did not overreact.

Yes, and would calling CFS in this situation really be petty?

Yep - I’m worried for her… even just being involved in that shit is distressing for kids 😢

Im actually crying thinking about this poor kid.

Coming from a mother like this, that child's safety was my first concern.

​@@JesspyreI totally misunderstood what you meant, I thought you were saying that you are like the mother in the video, that what you are saying is coming from you as a mother like that 🤦🏻‍♀️ now I realize that you literally came from a mother like her

Your dad is my hero.

Did he get in trouble for the punch? I hope not

@@Anime_Lover2203 I think the cops got called but everyone told the cops that the dude punched my dad first, which I don't remember if it's true or not, but knowing my dad he probably let the guy punch first so he could claim self defense, lol.

Please thank him for me??!! 🫶

​@@michi.antxgonistxGood on dad 😂. Exactly what I'd do....claim self defense lol.

Awesome 👏

Yeah in Japan many restraunts guest interact only through buttons or paper and servers bring whats requested, nothing more. Talking to guest isnt a high priority. While in Europe many servers are encouraged to shame idiots. Im American Japanese (but from France, lived in Japan) and when I was a hostess than server in America it was wild how much guest get away with while tips arent mandatory.

@@SaintShion for sure. I am just Autistic and not typically American but American.

@@brianrosenthalbudack oh ya! 2 of my best friends are Autistic and they LOVED Japan's button ordering system. The last friend I went with, it was his first time in Japan, and he actually got teary cause he didnt have to overthink and stress about an interaction with a stranger. Its just easier for everyone alike.

I’m an American but I’m always nice and often times I don’t complain about the food a couple of weeks ago I got a pasta dish that I get at a restaurant I go every Saturday they put too much pepper what did I do I didn’t say anything until I was home and told my dad even he had problem with it I need to learn to speak up if something is wrong but I don’t want to be rude I’m too laid back

@stephanienoblet8503 it's not rude to say something is off with the dish. It's not rude to send back food. Only time it is rude is if you make a big scene of it and embarrass folks.

Under the HMO system the referring physician loses money if referring a patient to a specialist. This is why I always recommend my clients go with a PPO plan whenever possible even if it costs more.

@@serahloeffelroberts9901that’s craaaazy doctors are out here withholding vital treatment for infants for more money. I shouldn’t be surprised but somehow I still am.

I've been a Karen Sometimes rightfully and sometimes just a bad day I'm so glad people haven't ever taped my meltdowns and i have had the opportunity to apologize and grow

Karen's act entitled to something. Being an advocate for yourself or a loved one is not being a Karen

I don't think ppl know what being a karen is anymore.... you weren't being a karen.... you where advocating and being the voice for your child.... you where being a good parent.... a karen is a self entitled person that only care for themselves and thinks they are more important then everyone else...😊

YES ... RIGHT. WTF

Someone at T-Mobile tried this shit on me, for a Moto 5g of all things. Thankfully the lady I got when I called was very helpful, and I kept my slip so I had proof!

Also fuck Verizon.

Sprint accused me of not turning in my old phone and turned me into the creditors, I didn't keep the paper work. I was told that (I) needed to locate the phone. I said that's a YOU problem. Months later they sent a letter that the phone was found No apology. Finally it disappeared off my credit report.

Now I'm glad I didn't send in mine... we have a family plan so my dad pays and he doesn't argue, he is the best customer you could have and would get ripped off just to avoid confrontation, drives me crazy because I want to confront people for him. Like he bought $6,000 in flooring for our house 3 years ago... they said last October he'd have it next week.... then last week they said he'd have it the next day... drives me nuts how he'll just let people rip him off. His car has been in the shop so many times... I'm pretty sure they're ripping him off too but he's too nice to confront people. My mom made up lies about him that could've landed him in jail and he said "if I go, that's where God wants me" I'm like ARE YOU KIDDING ME!! He's too positive and thinks too highly of people.. wish I was that delusional sometimes but I like not being naive and realizing people suck

Always keep your return tracking receipt until you get the return acknowledged from anywhere.

exactly...the managers responnse should have been ..no, you are not welcome back

I agree. Verizon has the worst customer service! They tried to get my husband to pay on a phone that was no longer is use for a year after he discontinued service per Verizon's terms. It was very frustrating and it hurt his credit score until the outstanding balance was finally removed, which only happened after my normally mild-mannered hubbie went full-on male Karen on them. Never again!!!

Agreed. Particularly if the initial person is unable to correct the error. I, on the other hand, might just be a Karen because I would have walked into the store with my paperwork in hand and asked them to explain why my bill wasn't what they said it would be. I would have been nice about it but I wouldn't back down if I know I'm right.

​@@okcdog5439 Standing up for what is right and not being screwed over does not make anyone a Karen. It's HOW you go about it. There are plenty of Karens who are actually right about the issue at hand, but their behavior about it makes them insufferable. It's possible to ask for errors to be corrected while still being a nice about it. Then, of course, there are the ones who are completely in the wrong AND complete asses about it too. Those are the worst😅

I get trying to hold animals to personhood standard for things that actually have a complex mind. For example dolphins or monkeys... But a fish ain't it.

She isn’t though. She wants to mess with people. Period. She has no ethics or morals, just a superiority complex

I'm a animal lover and people like her kill me because they never go at the million dollar corporations that do a hell of a lot worse to sea life and aquatic life Do they really think a random guy taking one fish out of the water is worse than the piece of shit who had an oil spill then cut and ran causing billions of dollars and messing up the ocean's ecosystem???

Yeah but let's not pretend that fish are not physically in pain when they are dragged through the surface into the air. Hooks hurt. Fish fight for their life; they do not know they will be released. I do, in fact, fish myself. For food. I do not pretend it's cool for the fish bc it isn't. I kill them. Such is life, I do not begrudge that. But fishing for sport does seem cruel to me; you are hurting fishes just for funsies. Yes, not all if them DIE but so what? How is that a defence? Besides, some probably will... Not arguing with you, just building on too of your point.

@@annaniskanen2557It seems cruel to me. Just like many who go grouse shooting etc don’t eat the birds they kill and it’s all a waste. However if I disagree strongly enough I can petition for laws to change etc not ambush a single person enjoying their legal leisure. Not the time and place for a discussion on ethics, just spoiling for a fight.

@@akelly4207 Oh yes, my comment was not in any way an endorsement for harassing people who fish for sport. While I do think they are in the wrong, harassing them whould NOT result in any good outcome and would only make me look stupid in comparison. Like is happening in the video. Nobody will just magicly agree with you if you go about harassing them.

​@@annaniskanen2557any kind of hunting for sport is awful imo. But I hate people that try to force their views onto others! If you want to be vegan and vegetarian then okay, do it. But don't shame people for what they choose to eat. Especially when they also kill living things. Plants are also alive, and science has found plants do have feelings and can communicate, it's just different for humans and other animals.

That used to be my favorite part. Cause at some point you start to believe that maybe you WERE in the wrong and having that validation from other people was always golden.

​​@@jacquedenise86 I remember I went to a McDonald's and some guy was losing his shit on a cashier.. I was waiting for my number 4 (The two cheeseburger and fries meal) with a strawberry milkshake and coke (all mediums) with 4 bbq sauces He was pissed because it took more than 4 minutes cause "this should be faster" had the manager come out and she apologized and gave him a free one over a small damn milkshake taking more than 4 minutes when he clearly saw the line was long When I got my order they forgot to put out pickles (I prefer them separate) and so the manager (btw it was multiple complaints that day while I was waiting for all the meals ) walked out as I was getting in the car with my friend (who was with me helping with the meals and drinks) her mom and her son and mother she asked me "Excuse me was your order right ?" Because I did wait about 15 minutes which I had no issue with , I just told her "It's perfect thank you " Like I'm not gonna bitch about them putting pickles in my burgers especially when I ask for them separately to crumble up for my fries and I know how hard fast food customer service is and how many assholes and bitches they deal with

I have literally cried from how wonderful another customer was after an awful one.

Same! I still remember one time after dealing with a horrible customer, after he left, the next lady in line immediately said, "well, besides the asshole, how's your day?" 😅

I had a problem customer that actually changed her behavior after I let her stay behind after we closed (dog grooming) while we waited for an absolute BANGER of a psycho customer to come pick up her dog that we shouldn’t have even had with us. She was pulling some crazy techniques. Anyway, ex-problem saw the entire final encounter and was a dreeeeaaaammm of a client for the rest of my time working there.

You are a beautiful unicorn ☺️ I worked at a grocery store bakery in my 20's, and our department manager would directly contradict us in front of customers! Example: We're told at the beginning of a shift that we put in no more than six cake orders per time slot on a certain day. A customer (usually a woman wanting a celebration cake) demands to place an order for a time we're told we DON'T HAVE OPEN, which I tell her, and suddenly, manager appears and says, "Oh sure, we can put that in for you!" I have many other stories, and have long since moved on from that job, but it still disgusts me how she was so willing to make the rest of us look bad/ incompetent, just so she could get the praise for saving the day and climb the corporate ladder!

Well said

Yup - it hurts the business

I worked as a cook in a super busy restaurant The owner was a total dick but if someone gave the wait staff an unreasonable time hard time he'd turn on his New York charm and throw them right out the door twice with his actual hands

Yup you’re not wrong !

Yeah actually it should be the opposite right…wisdoms should make you kinder

Neither does yoof

​@@dalemevans no one said "yoof' gave anyone a pass.

Implied by the specifying of age in the initial comment

Yes definitely! Exposing a child to this kind of situation is very traumatizing and stressful!

Foster momma here, if police were called they will more than likely also be calling CPS to launch an investigation since there’s a child involved. Sadly, they probably wont take the child into custody unless there’s clear and present risk of danger to the child, but she will at minimum be under CPS involvement for a while and need to work a case plan to prove to rehabilitate herself. Hopefully she’s able to turn her life around and make better choices for the sake of her little one. If she’s unable, then I hope the child goes to a safe and kind home who properly cares for her.

Agreed. Being drunk, violent, and in charge of a child is a very bad combination. It's the sort of thing that kid will be talking to a therapist about in 20 years. And if she can flip on a complete stranger like that, in public, when she knows she's being recorded by multiple people, what on earth is she doing behind closed doors? I shudder to think what that child has seen. The foster system is no picnic, but CPS involvement might at least scare this woman into reevaluating her priorities and putting her child first.

well we dont know anything about them. this might be the first time something like this happened and hopefully it's the last.

@eer6759 I hope so, for the kid's sake more than anything. For her to be so confident in her attack, and for her child to look so defeated by the situation, it does suggest that this isn't her first rodeo, but I hope I'm wrong. I don't think any of us on the thread are interested in ruining the woman's life - we just see a child that needs protection and safety, which is why we are hoping that relevant agencies can assist. CPS involvement doesn't automatically mean the child is removed. In fact, if the mother is only just starting to go down the wrong path, it will give her access to parenting classes and help so that she can be a better parent for her child- which would be the best outcome for them both. (Edited to fix typo)

Ya I felt so bad. Must be so scary to have a mom like that.

As I child of addicts I can confirm that is probably her normal. My parents put me in so many horribly unsafe situations, and I had no clue it wasn't how everyone else lived. I hope that women gets sober, or they get that child help and safe.

So true, the little girl must have to deal with that all the time and it’s so sad 😢

He shouldn't have made it worse; saying nasty things about her near her daughter (even if she deserved it) and following her, while recording her and her girl. The little girl must have been very scared and stressed. He wasn't drunk, he was in his right mind, so he could just walk away, but he chose to escalate it... Very immature and harmful for the kid, but I guess it gave him material for his videos...

@@lisasim he was being harassed by an intoxicated woman with a young child, she should be arrested for having her child near her while she was intoxicated. I wish someone would have called the police on my parents, maybe then I wouldn't have had to endure the trauma of being a child living in a house with two people actively in addiction. It could have saved me a lot of years in therapy if one person had done something about their unacceptable behavior.

Im scared that the lady becomes violent or very aggressive when drunk, the child looked like they were trying to hide in the elevator!

U know if she is acting like that in front of others what the hell she doing to that poor child behind closed doors. Growing up with a drunk isn't easy. Trust me. 😢 hopefully mom gets help before it gives her child life long trauma

I would not call that "parenting". I call that being a drunk idiot, while dragging a child through the messes you're creating, & putting her in potential harm from others, all while harming her, her own damn fool self. There is no actual PARENTING involved in what that skank was doing. 💔

​@@thatonewitch I think your concerns are well founded. 💔

​@@jewels964 I'm so very sorry. Neither that poor child, nor the poor child that _YOU were_ deserved to be treated that way, nor put into those situations-- & the situations that are almost certainly happened/are most certainly happening behind closed doors. 💔 You, she, & all children deserve only safety, security, compassion, care, nurturing, & Love, & all that those things entail. 💗

Absolutely 100% agree. Growing up in alcoholic home, my heart breaks for that child. 💔 Ughhh that was tough watch becayse i was that kid.

I wouldn't give the guy a pass. Social media has made crazy behavior seem sane - he followed her around recording and then goes on social media posting it. Psychotic.

@@mortimerbrewster3671I think he needed to see her face. Also some people deserve to be exposed. She was the psychotic one here lol.

@@mortimerbrewster3671 Yeah, when he said he started following her around, wasn’t he the stalker at that point? Just go home, dude 😂

It's also gross when someone is drinking like that in front of their kid.

@@Llama_Whisperer. If you need to find out where a person lives after they have been abusive, you may need to follow them. It is not stalking

It depends on the restaurant. If it was a chain restaurant like Chili’s or Friday’s, the manager did exactly what he’s supposed to do! My husband runs two Friday’s at the airport, and as much as he hates it, he has to cater to even the worst of customers! Otherwise they complain to corporate and then you lose your job! It sucks out loud!

@@zuzukris4952 House-made sour cream ranch dressing? This was not a Chili's or a Friday's. Likely it wasn't a chain restaurant of any sort.

Yeah, companies have realised that a LOT of people will avoid advocating themselves because they don't want to cause a scene and in this day an age with everyone calling women Karen's on the internet it's really causing women to be taken advantage of more then normal. I've seen so many women belittled and insulting on the internet for advocating for themselves because the A-Holes didn't like how she was acting BUT THEY WERE RIGHT.

One correction in your post. It's not that both parties "should" honor the agreement - they must.

Yes I agree with this. I had to do this recently too, I was politely requesting something to be done - I was the middle man between my bank and my utilities company. (Payment didn’t go through one month and no one could figure out why.) The utilities company wanted written confirmation that I didn’t redact the payment. The bank lady kept telling me the same thing over and over, not validating my request. I had spoken to someone else before her (this was my second call in my back and forth game between the two companies) so I knew what I was asking could be done. She repeated herself so many times I finally stole the words out of her mouth because I had memorized her line and demanded to speak to a supervisor. My favorite is after asking to speak to the supervisor, the same person you were talking to comes back. Like no, I don’t want to hear your voice anymore.

@@katherineclarke9282 I think sometimes the non managerial people don't know the rules so they wing it and get frustrated when they are challenged. Don't try and wing it; ask someone who knows.

The term has gone from "a racist calling the police and making up stories" to "any woman that expresses an opinion or complaint about anything".

lol This comment is 🤌🏻.

I need that book asap

OMG I love it!!! 😂

So true!! You are also basically telling the waitress (or waiter) that her (or his) 'suffering' doesn't matter!!

You realize managers are just that. Most time they don't own the place! They can only difuse the situation the best they can. They are doing a job just like everyone else. Give them a break.

Why would you view a person trying to diffuse and de-escalate a situation with a rude person negatively? Why not just empathize with them for what they had to deal with and shame the rude person instead? If you're such an activist against rude people treating those that can't fight back badly, speak up to the rude person instead of watching the show. Getting verbally abused by one person and then looked down on by the next person for not handling it the way THEY thought you should have (based on their NO knowledge of your workplace) doesn't make for a great day.

@@jfree2737 wow you certainly twisted that. I didn't say that the managers should be shamed...nor did I say the other custo.ers look down on them... what I did say is that Karens ruin the experience for multiple customers not just themselves.

@@Sunshine-uo7um is is just advice...don't be so sensitive, no one is putting down the managers. Just informing them.

Nicely put.

Absolutely this!!

Yep. Congratulations, phone person! You just wasted my time, the company’s time, and the company’s money. Su. Per. Vi. Sor. I will close my account and let the world know how you try to scam customers OOORRRR you can include that 150 credit for the inconvenience AND I would like all of that emailed to me. (My ex wife worked customer service phones & as a result my whole family knows some companies tie the hands of those who answer the calls, and you have to go up the chain & threaten the supervisor or higher, because they’re the ones with the power to actually fix it.

@@nightvalebunny137 Along with the email ask for a second credit - one for the 45 minute wait time and one for the original $285 credit being taken back. And asking to speak to the supervisor themselves, not the call service worker. If they can put her on hold to talk to the supervisor they can also put the supervisor on the line. Sorry, this really grinds my gears. I do give her kudos - she really stuck up for herself though!

i started doing this for several clients at my old job & it legit started to work 🤣🤣

Literally😂 like yes the fish do get hurt from the hook but it heals in less then a week and it’s a very small hole like a ear piercing

And their organs don’t collapse unless you’re somehow fishing for deep sea fish

@@AbeM. or a whale

She couldn't form a coherent sentence

Shes drunk and the men following her are just wanting to screw her or maybe shes been screwed so hard her brain is nothing but mush. FISH dont DIE when you take a FISH out of water, sure HOOKs hurt but fish heal over time when the hooks are taken out, it doesn't interfere with a fish's life. They breath when they swim, their gills are their lungs. I hate when people who are "ALL FOR THE ANIMALS" yet pick the wrong battles to die on.

Liar, you did NOT work at a bar when you were 16-18, that's illegal.

@@My3gifts Illegal stuff still happens...

That's a brilliant idea!

Yes please or absolutely not one please

Or a hoodie!!