I'm so sorry that you are going through this. You just need to know that astrological placements do not justify toxic behavior. I have many clients who have this positions and they do not cheat or abuse others. Your husband's behavior is his choice. He could also choose to confront his own issues and insecurities and learn how to love. If he doesn't, you deserve better.

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 Thank you. -Goodness, I honestly was hoping for a reason other than willfulness. -I don’t know how you popped up on my feed but, I’m glad. I’ll schedule a session for myself. I think I might have some sort of issue…by allowing this. Ugh… Thanks again 💖💫💖

thank Spirulina! Happy to make this videos exactly for people like you!

Thanks for the comment. I understand that in theory it should be there. But I base my videos a lot on all the experience I have with clients. And I have never noticed that Venus conj Saturn creates karmic dynamics. On the contrary, it makes the person very stable and mature in romantic pursuits.

Hello Lola! That is super interesting questions. My first astrology teacher told me that when Venus is retrograde it almost acts as a deletion of the sign it is in and gives the Venus a Piscean, nostalgic, melancholic vibe. I have never heard or read that except from her, but I do find it very accurate and therefore would answer your first question with: If it is retrograde, the sign it is in doesnt matter as much. Two Venus retrograde people together is an absolute dream! Sadly it is very unlikely, as only ~8% of people have a retro Venus. But when they meet it feels like finally someone can love the same way they do, it is an absolutely amazing feeling of recognition and osmosis. However sometimes it is hard to move on past issues, because both people tend to get hung up on the past. Venus Retrograde conjunct the North Node- very interesting since it is two opposing energies. Venus conj NN doesnt really know how to love, how to be a partner and is only learning that in this life, while Venus retro has loved a lot for many lives. Venus retro's relationships scared them in the past and they are back in the game to finally resolve all the past pain and find the real love. Which takes a while. And that's the one point where Venus retro and Venus NN intersect: For both it takes a long time to find a healthy relationship. On top on having to resolve past pain the Venus retro & NN person also doesn't really know well how to love, and that might have been the issue that caused their relationships to fail. But they havent been able to recognize that it was them and that they got something to learn. If a Venus is only retrograde, I would not necessarily say that it was their fault that their relationships failed. Mostly they have been wronged, had low self esteem and need to learn how to choose their partner better.

Hehe you exposed me....I actually have ALL of the karmic Venus placements. Retrograde, 29°, conj Chiron, and square Nodes....Maybe that's why I understand it so well :)

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 wow do you feel like it's possible to have a long term relationship with venus having all those placements? I too have venus retrograde, venus conjunct north node and venus in detriment in scorpio and fear I may never have a lasting relationship

@@tenneshaskyers ngl there is a lot of work to be done on ourselves in order to build proper self worth and choose loving, appreciative partners. And also learn to recognize karmic connections not as "the real thing" but as a detrimental pull towards devolution. We need to completely undo and reframe our understanding of what love is in order to find peace.

Was this any good for you?

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 yes thank you 🙏🏻

Ohhh you dooo?!? I had no idea you're a karmic venus- but ofc, it totally makes sense!!!

The composite is different as it merges two people, so it means you have the karmic tone ONLY with this specific person. Whereas with other relationships you will not. But people who have the karmic aspects in their natal chart, will have the karmic vibe in ALL their relationships, no matter how the composite looks like.

Sadly it is often the case that people with Venus conj Chiron tolerate a lot of hurt from their partner before they walk away :(

No, 12th house and 29° degree are not the same. It is a different kind of energy.

Not exactly. If Venus is square the NN, she is automatically also square the SN, so she is basically trapped between the two nodes. Squares to the nodes usually symbolize a lesson we have not succeeded in learning in a past life. We failed in that area. So in this life it becomes ever more so difficult and important to manage that lesson. Venus conj NN means we haven't ever done it before. It's a different vibe.

Hey dear, don't ever look at yourself as if you are in some way "damned"...that's not the case, believe me, your position is mild in comparison to what I've seen. And even the worst positions can change their life if they decide to step out of their conditioning and reprogram their mind and emotions. You have the power over your own life!

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 I also have Saturn retrograde in 8th house Pisces - Suicidal!

We don't need cures for our chart 😊 we just need to understand how to use it in the best way. So much scorpio energy is incredibly powerful!

That depends a lot on other placements in your chart. But with Venus on 29° Leo be careful not to get attracted by someone who is all glitter on the outside, maybe even someone famous. Because you tend to pay too much attention to the looks, charm or fame someone has and therefore can end up with Narcissists

Thanks Steph! Please let me know which aspects didn't resonate, as that's great feedback for me!

I think you will find your one true soulmate, and if you didnt, dont give up, because people like you have a very deep soul connection to a special other person through many lifetimes.

Someone who doesn't want to offend gives constructive feedback ("this statement is wrong","this could be improved"). And someone who just wants to rid their frustration on random strangers on the Internet writes stuff like you. Maybe getting a punching bag would help?

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 I'm sorry I offended you. I found your description of one of the critical degrees to be "offensive" to 29°ers and bizarrely random 💭 considering the actual significance of the anaretic degree, after studying it. Passively aggressively "suggesting" I should get a punch bag...*sigh*🙄 I mean, maybe you should turn off the comment section if you're expecting/wanting only praise, flowery admiration or maybe a badge or something? I'm not a flowery person, I use abbreviations like BS. I guess I just have thicker skin than most of this generation. Again I'm sorry that I offended.

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 you're right, it wasn't a *nice* comment and I'll remove it from your video as I see how it's upset you, I'm sorry. Although, if everything in this experience was nice, there would be no growth or appreciation. I really enjoy most of your videos🖤

@@natgeox now you're trying to make a point how I'm "all love and light" and not being able to handle negative experiences, which is a manipulative abstraction of the point I made. The point is: Your comment was not meant to help me improve as it doesnt even contain any valuable information (only your subjective emotion). Feel free to change it to some actual feedback that contains information about what you would like to see improved. A lot of listeners do that in a respectful way without being insulting, and I really appreciate them.

@@zoemercuryastrology7931 🤦🏻‍♀️ the bottom line here is you're unable to deal with anything other than complimentary, pleasant reactions or opinions. I don't have to supply you with any constructive feedback, you're not entitled to it. If I felt like the definition you came up with for anaretic degrees was BS, that's my opinion, whether its pleasant or not. There is no law in which people have to censor what they say to Zoe on KZfaq, it's the bi-product of having a public platform - you might sometimes face things that don't bolster your ego. Otherwise there is the option of turning comments off. The fact you're trying to school me on how I should live my life in the way you think life should be lived is an extraordinarily entitled mentality. Perhaps you should take your own advice and purchase that punch bag, considering there is a part of you that is incapable of dealing with the disapproval of others without retaliation. Be like water, let it flow, let it go. As I said, I like the majority of your videos, keep it up. All press is good press.