I also had this problem but once I found out what kind of men I attract (liars, cheaters, men who are taken, con artist and don't want to commit) I just set boundaries and let them know this is how I am and this is what I'm looking for. If you're not with it goodbye. Just as simple as that. Twelfth house have no restrictions that's why it's important to set limits and see situations for how they really are before getting deeply involved with someone.

My BF has Venus Taurus in 12th. Is a musician with many artistic talents - writing poetry, color, a good sense of fashion, interior decorating, etc. Forbidden affairs -for sure. Part of the lure of that is if u love someone u can't have you do not risk direct rejections, abandonment or heartache. They just aren't available. Its the flip side of the issue. You are quite right about their not declaring their deep feelings first. They lure u in and wait for you to say u love them first. Also, in searching for a soul mate these people tend to put the object of their desire on a pedestal when they wish from afar. They can be let down when the reality doesn't live up to the illusion. Complicated placement but I agree are very loyal, deeply committed and passionate once they find someone to love them back. Thanks for this video. It is RIGHT ON!

this is a painful position for me , all my relationship have been painful I try my best to love regardless of the situation and gets hurt so badly the men's lie nonstop and iam forgiving person , but emotional release is important for us Venus in 12th house, I will be honest and say mostly all the men's I attract are unavailable men's like married, commitment issues,abusers, lier's, cheaters ,men's who bring nothing but troubles and I finally understand this placement now I will rather be alone then be in an relationship with any man , and I told people this ,people who I don't want always try to convince me to date them ,iam shy,introverted person who never will have the guts to openly express how I feel to consider to date a man , I do daydream alot and not accept the reality of the situation which is so so painful .may God bless us Venus in 12th , thank you so much for this upload this resonate 100% and more. Blessing to you

this is my Vedic natal placement and i am a woman sub here first time. This placement has me feeling doomed and hopeless. My self love is more important to me than looking for something outside myself. Ive suffered many many heartbreaks and now enough is enough. Its now time for a relationship with and for myself by myself. I dont believe in 'soulmates, twin flames' and i am now happy being alone, single & celibate by choice forever. Rx Venus Pisces 12H

Interesting video. I have Venus in Taurus in 12th. I was very shy when I was younger and I avoided love relationships with people even though I liked them.

I always feel like I'll never be able to find love with this placement. That I'll never be with my soulmate or twin flame because I'm just cursed.

Many celebrities have this placement because they have no other choice but to have secret relationships hidden form the public. Those who have this placement are not doomed in relationships. They can find love but it can be hidden or secret relationships. For example, in some cases someone who is in love with a person of different religion may have to hide. Someone who is homosexual may want to hide his/her relationships from the family, etc. Someone can be in love with a person who lives far away, etc. So, it does not prevent love. It makes it a little more challenging but not impossible. Also it depends on the sign where Venus is in and aspects. Having Venus in other houses is not always better. Some aspects are really a pain in the butt. Like Venus conjunction Saturn, etc. I have Venus conjunct Saturn and I can tell you that it is not pleasant either. So, for anyone with Venus in 12th house, there is hope!

All through high-school, I've had these 'secret ' somethings. Where it was all in for the time it was but won't let anyone or anybody know about it. So when it ended..there's no 'evidence ' or any sort of history except the one in memories.

So true! I have Venus conjunct my AC in Taurus/12th and have always been in love with LOVE! I am a singer, violinist, actress, dancer, and visual artist too!! Once, when I was in my bedroom practicing my singing (age 18-ish), I stopped in the middle of a song and exclaimed to the Universe that the ONLY thing I wanted from this life was to find my one true love!!! My third boyfriend became my now husband of 30-years...he is my soulmate! 💗💗💗

true im very understanding of other peoples pain and loyal.

i have my sun and venus in the 12th house. my venus is pisces. this is very true. i fell in love with this girl at work who loved me too, we had an emotional affair for 3 years and she was engaged and couldn't tell me. her parents arranged it before she met me. it was awful. she denied everything seeing as we never dated. i still feel like we are twin flames. i've had so many psychic moments. it's unbelievable.

Venus in the 12th and Venus in Pisces here. The thing that have always interested me is this aspect that I have: Venus conjunct the ascendant. I would love a video about it.

Your voice....is sooo calming and relaxing that it made me sleepy😊👌🏻✨ You're like my ASMR without even trying :D lol. But yes! I AGREEE! Venus in 12th does well and need a spiritual partner. I loved someone that was pisces sun and Venus and he was so wise, intellectual and spiritual. We agreed on a lot and thinked the same way to a degree, I miss him all the time, and I doubt I'll meet someone like him again :/I've secretly had crushes on people from my past, but never told them, cuz I was super shy. I'm still shy but not like my past. My Venus is in libra in the 12th house but also on the 1st house cusp! 😊 Loved the video, I saw nothing negative that was said about this placement, like no anger from me. You're just speaking the truth, so it was fine and fair 😊❤️

I have my venus in the 12th house (Virgo here). My first kiss was with a guy I met that already had a girlfriend. That was years ago. Now I think I love a friend but he also already has a girlfriend. And I've realized through out my life I've always love guys but in secret, never have I manifest my love, I've always loved them in some kind of fantasy of mine. So I truly connect with my venus in the 12th. Hopefully, one day I'll be able to love someone loudly and rightfully.

Omg it's so true. I've been bed ridden the past week my chest hurts so bad from the past ten years physically. I have got the biggest walls up. You described this so well

Sounds like I'm doomed

Yep...it's true and I'm doomed. Everything that's been mentioned is true for me...feminity, fragility, creativity, emotional, lots of self-examination and spirituality...secrecy, self- delusion. I have also had more love than most (sane) women would ever dream of. I am Taurus with Cancer rising, with Venus conjunct North node in the 12 house of Gemini...opposite moon in Sagittarius...and loving seems to be very easy for me, but for a relationship to last, I need a deep spiritual connection to maintain any emotional closeness. I was married for 31 years and during that time I was broken hearted. I needed a soulmate, but my husband couldn't be that for me. Early on, I had one secret affair of the heart with my Sunday School teacher/employer which nearly drove me crazy...and later I had four real affairs which broke my heart, too. I have been told, and it seems to be true, there is something about me that attracts men like a magnet... something unconscious...like openess, sweetness and kindness, all tied together with sensuality (aka, no boundaries)...which seems like a 12th house Venutian curse to me. Since my divorce I've been working on healing a very traumatic childhood and the resulting poor emotional regulation I have (C-PSTD) from those relationships. Does anyone know if Bipolar and BPD are common with this Venutian aspect?

Spot on! Everything you said. Venus in 12th in Pisces. Artistic in many ways, but struggled with expressing it until now, secretive in love, loving and suffering in secret, not revealing myself before the other does, spiritual. Forever searching for a spiritual kind of connection. I feel people's emotions deeply, when I was younger I often absorbed someone else's pain and thought that it was my own. In particular I suffered in a silent connection with a classmate, it sounds silly, but I knew/felt his emotions, there was some kind of block between us, and when we were close to meeting again years later and discussing it, he never made it to the meeting, he committed suicide, I found out later that he was bipolar, and all those emotions I got from him were connected to his illness. My emotions used to unimaginably confuse me, but I think I know myself better now and I can finally use all that creatively. I see it as a gift now and not as a curse. I would also add that apart from my partners being somehow unavailable due to different kind of reasons, that is the way I like it and I can deal with, closeness pushes me away and I don't want to reveal myself to anyone completely, I need to keep a little of myself private. Lots of contradictions... I want to be with someone so badly, and if it does happen I do not want to be with them any more or I do, but I don't. I also want to help other people/animals, I love them, I can't bear any suffering, I try not to imagine someone's suffering, because the images cause me despair, so a block it. My partners are usually from different countries or are unusual somehow, and I myself moved to another country twice. Thank you for your video. Gia xx

Leo Venus in 12th house , I always think that I probably will never have that "true love" or will never meet them in my life 😔😂

I absolutely love your explanation of 12th and 8th house. I have 12th house in Sun, Venus, and Mercury. 8th house in Mars, Pluto, Saturn, and Jupiter (although it’s on a cusp so sometimes it reads as 9th house). I find you assessment of Venus in 12th house to be completely accurate, I have only been in love with men I couldn’t have, emotionally unavailable, or relationship had to be secret in some way. My heart has been broken by all of them. I’m currently with someone now and I feel like he is not permanent although I want him to be. I want to be in love! And being creative, attractive, or protected doesn’t seem to be a fair exchange when you constantly are being broken. I’m trying to find the positive in a love aspect with this house and Learning to accept my fate.

I too have venus conjunct mars in the 12th house on ascendant ....I have loved people that have not been free to love me..

So true! I have Venus in Aquarius in the 12th house.

Venus in 12th house gemini and i found my twinflame during my spiritual awakening and married him in 3 years after dating and now expecting a baby boy and also he is an artist and musician...don't worry i found one and happily living with him now doing charity works and all...

12th house sun conj ven, both in Aq both trine Ur. Same-sex married to Virgo Sun 12th house husband 13 years. Noone gets us but I would (cue Meatloaf) do anything for love. Tempted to cheat during a crisis and did not do so even though he would have never known; I would have. Tempted several other times but praise God I never gave in. My husband is kind and honorable (and gorgeous !) and I just ultimately couldn't betray him for any reason . Needed to be able to look him in the eyes and have truth.

Aries Sun and Mercury, Taurus Venus all in the 12th. You nailed it. People with these placements fail into denial about how it can manifest.

So nobody will commit to us? We'll be searching and searching?

Carmen, u have shared my life, whether some see as postive or negative. I am restless and exhausted from seeking the Spiritual partner. I start to shut my heart and yes I have enough of pain and heartaches not only Venus in 12th. I am losing hope in life too.

Howard Sasportos as written abrilliant book about this called ..The twelve houses ..hes goes into depth of all the houses

Cancer Sun in 2nd House Sagittarius Moon in 7th House Gemini Rising Venus in Taurus in 12th House Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn in the 8th House. I'll be 26 this year and never have I been in a relationship. It's so painful to be alone, but I've found a peace at being alone as it puts my mind to ease. I just hope I find that guy or even girl who knows my mind and can gauge me beyond the surface to stop me dead in my tracks on my journey of being alone. 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

Yes I have creative abilities and many heartbreaks.

Everything you said about Venus and 12 house and sun omg it’s all 💯 true I love how you explain things

This has happened to me more times than I can remember.

This makes me so sad that I can no longerbe with the person I love. The more I look into astrology the more knowledge I gain and I know it's not meant to last, he was that "one secret love". It's bittersweet because I know there is someone out there that could love me better but it sucks cuz I know it's best not to work on things but to just move on 😞

I loved how you discussed this topic you have fulfilled my curiosity.

Okay, you have just said my whole life.

Venus in the 12th with Scorpio has not been easy :’)

Fabulous explanation with deep logic ,it truly resonates all that you have said as I have experienced with a 12th ven in gemini

I really like a guy with Venus, Mercury, And Sun in the 12th but I feel like maybe he is dating other people which is fine because we never had that convo and it’s also very early. I like him sooo much already and it’s only been two weeks I feel like a crazy person! My moon is in 12th

Thanks for your interpretation, I have the Sun Venus Chiron & Lilith in Scorpio 12th house with Pluto in the 1st house 😅

oh dear Lord.. when will this mess end..!! such an amazing video so true.

Thanks for the video. I have Venus in Pisces 12th House at 26 degrees very close to the highest exaltation point of 27 degrees, and it's also in the first house cusp. You are quite accurate with your description :)

Thank you my dear. You have a such a loving voice. Yes i have debilitated saturn venus and rahu in 12 house.

Libra sun and rising with Mercury and Venus in Virgo in 12th house dealing with a Capricorn sun who is already in a long term committed relationship with somebody else. It's an affair. Everything you said truly resonated with me.

I was blessed with talents venus conjunct with asc and mercury.

My Venus in the 12th house trines my Uranus in the 8th house... everything you said and more...

So true! Beautifully said. Loving self and having divine connection is most important 🙏

Never had a secret love affair but mostly in love with people from afar. Venus in Aqua in the 12th, ascendant in Aqua. Mars in Virgo in 7th… I’ve given up on being in love in the 3rd dimension. Mostly struggle with boundaries and giving too much love. To me Venus in 12th is boundless love but not being reciprocated; too high standards and completely rejected being loved at some point after a multitude of disappointments.

Yup. Ouch. Almost 60years old. Still nobody for me. 2 devastating short relationships many years ago. And 1 horribly unrequited one before that. I had resigned myself to bachelorhood, and have been looking to learn to truly love myself. It's been a long self relationship, and though it's been on the rocks recently, I know it's a lifetime commitment. Divorce is not in the cards. Conjunct ASC (-6°) in Sagittarius. Near Antares. My Mars in Cancer doesn't help.

My husband has a virgo venus in the 12th he also has several different personality disorders. Because of the personality disorders and maybe the fact that I have my sun and several other planets in the 8th. I can see right through his " secret loves". However I think it's more because of his personality disorders and all his projections. I know when he has "secret" yearnings because he usually accuses me of " falling in love, having secret affairs etc.." Probably doesn't help that his aries mars is in the 8th. So he is definitely on the aggressive side when projecting. My venus in libra 9th is square his mars and we have alot of saturn and uranus square everything. It's a marriage from hell that Thanks to saturn I'm having a hell of time getting out of.

Yes, there was 1 secret love affair, but with that said, I hated every aspect of it, the behind the scenes, the meeting places..........................ugh. It will never happen again.

Please, tell me some day we can finally find mutual and approachable love😢

Best explanation ever. Thanks.

Spot on. Sooo accurate, it's uncanny.

Is there something good about this house? Is there any hope for being loved with a Venus in the 12th house?

I don't think that you all not ready when you have Moon involved and conjunct Venus in the 12th house Cancer closed to the ascendant Cancer. Its so bad that it's destroying my life.

FYI: Really want to listen to your videos but the sound quality is so low as to be inaudible.

I have sun, moon, venus, and mercury in the 12th house.

💛💙💚❤💟 Regardless of color, The feelings are real.... Through life and its horror, Love anchors its seal....

venus in capricorn in 12th house here

Amazing and very perfect prediction

I am dating someone with Venus in the 12th. He is a coworker. We have been dating for a couple months. Due to work circumstances, it isnt allowed. So our dating life is a secret. This obviously fits with his placement. Does this mean we are not meant to be?

Is there ANYTHING positive with having Venus/12th house?!? I totally hate it. Totally.

Then the Soul with Venus in H12 should recognize they are with someone who is capable of loving them deeply or their wouldn’t have been attracted to them initially instead of being “ addicted “ to clandestine affairs which gives them an adrenaline rush and continues their delusions. In addition, many addictions are seen in this house placement with Venus desiring the senses to be filled for self gratification and selfish reasons, rather than understanding giving selflessly to a partner who desires the same is exalting the marriage or relationship. Venus in house 12 creates Karma and destroys the partner through betrayal: addictions sexual and drugs, porn addiction,

That was spot on 😳

I love your videos, now I understand my love to God and Universe. Hm, that about soulmate is so true, actually everything you said is spot on... North node, Jupiter, Moon, Pluto in the 7th in scorpio, I hope that I'll find mine... Btw I'm also crystal child! Greetings :)

I have sun in the 12th house, and fallen to this energy many many times

Well... That was so accurate it hurts! I'm 24 now and I have been in 4 romantic relationships, all of them ended because one of is was moving away, sometime me, sometimes my companion. I never had the experience of breaking up because love was over, it is always an inevitable choice, where we just have to let go. );

nice voice Carmen

FWIW, a few caveats. I have my Ascendant lord (Saturn) right on my 12th house cusp (late Sagittarius) in opposition to my 7th lord (Moon) in the 6th in late Gemini. While my natal Venus does have a positive aspect to my natal Mars (sextile), my natal Venus is also in my 12th house (in Capricorn) while my natal Mars is in my 10th in Scorpio. You'd think w/ the strong Mars placement by sign and house as well as the positive aspect between it and Venus it'd make for an easier time. It doesn't. It amps this shit up to 11. Every single relationship I have been in I get stuck with one of two outcomes : A)the woman doesn't actually have sexual feelings for me and just wants to milk me for money OR B)the woman ONLY has sexual feelings for me and just wants to use me to cheat on her current significant other. And she usually has some pretty aggressive fantasies to put it lightly that could put me in jail if she ever "regretted" it after the fact. Because of this insane bipolar attitude towards sex I get from every woman I've ever had the misfortune of interacting with, I've sadly had to keep my notch count fairly low (albeit still non-zero) out of fear for where it could land me. Short and sweet : there is no good point to this placement. Anyone telling you otherwise is just trying to fill your head with feel good bullshit. I have no idea what the hell I did in past lives, but I guarantee you whatever gods may be are doing their damnedest to punish me for it in this one. I feel like the dog who gets the shit kicked out of him by his owner for tearing up a couch cushion 10 hours after the fact when they've already forgotten what they did and don't even know why they're being punished. And I promise you as much as I admire good art, I'm absolutely shit terrible at making it however much I've actually read, tried, and failed at doing so.

This is very true, i always find myself liking people that are already married :/ I'm a girl and almost 19 years old and i always liked older guys, even around 40. This sounds weird to most people and i don't have any father issues at all, but since i was little i always liked older guys then myself and of course they were married and probably had children. My venus is in virgo in 12th house, does this have anything to do with it?

Seems pretty accurate Venus in Scorpio 12 house

Hi Carmen, You have got a lovely and soft voice however is it possible for you to keep the mic nearer as you speak bcoz the audio volume is very low

v beautifully told. Thankyou.

Fantastic reading

You are awesome! Thank you

Venus in Virgo in 12th house🌺❤

Venus in virgo in the 12th square jupiter and pluto at 0° ...how bad can it get.

Can you attach a "link" to the article in the description of this video?

My Cousin has this placement and his has had his fair share of hidden affairs with men.

I can barely hear you.

Scorpio Venus 12th house

I have Venus in Sagittarius in 12th house.

I hate the 12th house 😢😐 but your review is spot on. For me it's worse cause my venus is in Leo in the 12th house..... I need love and I can't get it 😕

I want to get married and have kids so how do I fix this

Thank you for this information. I am looking for information on venus conjunct pluto on the 12th house

Venus in Leo,in the 12 house... Someone has any tips?

If you have Venus in 12th you need to travel your husband or wife is in another country.

Hello ma'am, I have Venus and Jupiter conjunction in 12th house ( Pisces ). What kind of results it will give?

I am confused wth my placements since I don't know the exact time of my birth my Venus was either in the 11th or 12th since my parents inky remember some few hints of my birth time.... I don't hide my relationships but I am lucky I meet partners who are loving and kind I just pushed them away before coz I had trust issues towards them since I meet my partners mostly through Social Media, I did met some partner back then because of friends, and sometimes people misjudged my loving nature in a bad way and I just get SURPRISE when I am kind and loving yet others comments bad on me which happens a lot, but in romance I mostly never had a private one I even post about my relationships a lot and write poets about it I'm Venus in Libra. I only had one bad relationship with a narcissistic Taurus, I was kind and loving with him but he really doesn't changed I left him and found a better man.

I have 0 Degrees Venus in The Twelfth House .. My Great Karmic Love .. 💔

Amazing

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I wonder if it translates to a moon in 12th

Is this Vedic?

And what about if the venus in 12th house and the 12th house is Scorpio??

Venus in libra in 12, virgo sun, Taurus moon in 7, and libra rising. Sucks

I can't hear anything.

Shit.... Well, all I can really do is make good art then.

Sooo ... does this person who has venus in the 12th cheats or something?

Sad that one has to sacrifice one’s love.