Keeping Score Is Ruining Your Relationship

Keeping Score Is Ruining Your Relationship | Relationship Podcast

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Discover the damaging effects of keeping score in your marriage in this episode. We discuss the negative impact of tallying up wins and losses, and how it can erode trust, communication, and intimacy between partners. Gain a fresh perspective on why it's crucial to let go of the scoreboard mentality and embrace a more collaborative approach to resolving conflicts and sharing responsibilities. Don't let keeping score sabotage your relationship - watch this video to learn how to create a harmonious and thriving marriage based on mutual understanding and empathy.

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@mzSholar 9 ай бұрын

This was more than needed sending to my partner now!! Y’all hit everything on the nose that we are battling this was perfect!! Love to know that we’re not alone!! Y’all definitely kept it realer than real 1000% Thank you both

@omarperez1941 11 ай бұрын

Thank you both Asha and Devon for what you do!

@uniquelyblessed7259 Жыл бұрын

I wholeheartedly agree. This is definitely a conversation that needs to be addressed in every relationship. I definitely appreciate your transparency.

@nicholassmith7140 Жыл бұрын

This episode really spoke to me💯 Thank y’all for this‼️

@realationshipsnetwork Жыл бұрын

What’s up Nicholas! Glad this episode resonated with you. Thanks for watching!

@Flipkeyz Жыл бұрын

This has really resonated with me from 34:50 onwards and I really want to be better for the girl that I love. I sometimes have outbursts of stuff I bottle up and I’m not able to express myself or feelings because I have to bury them a lot. And all of the stuff I say when I do say horrible things, has no real meaning. It’s literally like a expelling of my pain from within. I feel like having these in depth discussions would resolve it completely, because I never want for her to feel sad because of things I say. I would love to just be acknowledged for some of the pain that I’ve felt from her, whether it was intentional or not. It would feel like closure and understanding on the matters. She’s such an amazing person and I hold myself completely accountable for saying nasty things and I wish she knew how I really felt, how much I truly love and admire her and how I never meant any of it. She deserves that 😢

@jotheleo6375 10 ай бұрын

I’m so glad I found this channel. Literally just searched relationship podcasts, found this video and it completely mirrored exactly what my husband and I are going thru. Thank you so much for this insight ❤

@shelliannpaul317 Жыл бұрын

Thank you both for being so transparent. Thank you 😊

@realationshipsnetwork Жыл бұрын

You're welcome 🙏🏾 thanks for watching!

@khadrfarah4510 8 ай бұрын

U are doing a huge work.

@hildawatson8020 11 ай бұрын

This episode is all me and my husband and we have been going at this for 15 years!!

@tabathawilliams3495 Жыл бұрын

What happens when you do hold yourself accountable for your actions or something you’ve have said and your significant other still make it seem like your not or you dont care about their feelings. What do you do then?

@derekwilliams8905 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, I’m in a relationship where I feel like my partner doesn’t even want to try anymore . We’ve been on and off for 2 1/2 years . And I wish we would’ve had this knowledge beforehand..