Many men reference having daughters or mothers when discussing domestic violence, but this isn't necessary. You don't need daughters to empathize with victims; simply being human should be enough. Needing familial proximity to understand domestic violence reflects a patriarchal mindset. To truly help, decolonize this mindset. Additionally, remember that sons are equally at risk from patriarchal attitudes. Be concerned for your sons as much as for your daughters and mothers.

The first thing you are taught as a child is to keep your hands and feet to yourself

The death of Kim Porter needs to be rexamined

Slim thug wasn’t undecided, he condemned Cassie

As a woman who was abused. I cringe and cry when I see this video. I was able to get free with the help of the LAW. I encourage woman to leave and insulate yourselves. My abuser also knew the law and was able to evade for some time. I went through 9 police officers before 1 believed me. I had to record my abuser to free myself. Much prayer to all abused woman. My family whom I was isolated from was right there waiting for my healing journey. You are not alone. We are out here praying and rooting for you. It’s ok to leave! Joy comes in the morning.

Luenell spoke nothing but facts. Sad, but true.

So what about the survivors who aren’t able to get their abuse on camera to prove to y’all that they were abused? Y’all won’t believe them because there’s no video evidence??

Excellent coverage considering the previous association with Diddy. Very proud of all three of you guys. God bless.

What do y’all mean just because “she didn’t publicly pray for Cassie” doesn’t mean she didn’t. If you are going to “publicly” pray for a monster, then “publicly” pray for his victim.

Dr Umar was saying Cassie was only extorting Diddy for money when she made those allegations, now he’s saying there’s more serious things to deal with lol

Katt sais 2024 is the year of truth.

Let's talk about the hotel security who saw and held the video. Talk about how the video was leaked. Everyone from the makeup artist to the bodyguard knew and did nothing.

Dr Umar needs to learn that sometimes better to remain silent on certain issues. Why put out silly conspiracy theories? SMH

Too much prayer, not enough accountability.

It's not even a generational thing because dudes STILL putting they hands on women. I'm just more disgusted with all the dudes that just stood by claiming they were "powerless". You can literally go put hands on him, so miss me with all that.

It’s ALOT of DIDDYS OUT HERE In This World In REAL LIFE ‼️‼️💯💯Sadly Like Katt Williams Said The Year Of Exposure💣

This is not only about a woman it's about human beings.

1:30 It's important to note that Cassie was much younger than JLo was when she started dating Diddy. Also at that point, Diddy was also much older (richer, and more powerful) than when he was with JLo. And Cassie was signed to Diddy. All of these things play into the amount of power and control an abuser has over victims, emotionally/psychologically, financially, and systematically. Also, Slim Thug was not wrong for being skeptical, he was wrong for being dismissive. Saying that you're not sure and waiting on evidence is very different from accusing someone of flat out lying without any evidence and that's what he did. Support is something that should be earned on both sides, for the accusers and the accused. The way we support our community isn't just blindly riding for everyone who appears to be black, it's also raising the bar holding ourselves to a higher standard so that we can collectively be better and do better.

TD jakes tryna get his name clear from diddy lol. Erbody cleaning house😅

I CALL CAP ON TD JAKES!!!!! He allowed Combs to use him for public image!!!! He has to be complicit in some way!

Sidenote, that Scripture was right. ‭Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV‬ - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths."

I don't believe it has nothing to do with whether she's black or not

Lunell is right

Slim thug is a clown for that video defending him in the first place, Peter gunz too smh

Kelly Price (in her own way) was siding with Diddy, at NO POINT did she send out prayer's for Cassie then or in her response. Girl gone! Prayer for the abuser AND NOT THE VICTIM.

Sounds like Umar's sarcasm went right over their heads.

We need to pray for everyone in this situation

Why is nobody having the same issue with Dr Dre … cancel one then you must cancel them all

Don’t act like T.D Jake isn’t trying to separate himself from Diddy! But his time coming to an end also. 👊🏾

Domestic violence doesn’t have a race or gender

As for Kelly Price praying for Diddy, JESUS PRAYED FOR THOSE WHO PERSECUTED HIM WHILE HANGING ON THE CROSS. WHEN YOU FOLLOW CHRIST , YOU DO LIKE HE DID.🙏🏾

Jess saying she'd part blk is just so not needed

Kelly Price didn't mess up, she was quoting King James version, lol😂

1 in 3 women are assaulted in a relationship, and 1 in 4 men are as well. Domestic Violence is beyond common, but people on the internet acting like they've never heard of it before. 😂😂😂😂. Wait until y'all examine Dr. Dre.

I really love how you all are really taking a stand for what’s right. Even if he is a friend of the show

I was very triggered by the video because I am a survivor of being violently attacked by an ex. I almost broke down and cried watching it and had to turn it off. And just listening to the clip played of Bishop Jakes made me tear up. ❤

Random: I hate when people who had made careers off of the “internet” then claim the internet to be a problem once they’ve feel they’ve made it?????

I really hate that people are bringing up how it would be different for Jlo because she's Hispanic like how do you know he didn't assault her but he kept her quiet all these years?

Wasn't Diddy on the wall behind Charla.... good move on putting the book shelf there and/or new camera angle lol. Updated: Oh No my bad... you can see it when yall do interviews... call the painters lol

Katt Williams put out prophecy on these ninjas and we're watching in real time

Kelly quoted the scripture correctly. “Lean not unto thine own understanding…” 2Timothy 2:15 Jess tried it.

The Breakfast Club also needs to take some responsibility for enabling cats like Diddy and may others. I pretty sure they know more than they are letting on . The whole industry needs to be held accountable. Not only hip hop! Starting at the top with the likes of CLIVE DAVIS

Im not surprised that DJ Envy has nothing to contribute to this conversation.

Bout time Breakfast Club speak on Diddy evil ass!!!

Jonathan Majors Was Prosecuted for running Away from a snow bunny, and Cassie's issue will go under rugs..?

Sending everyone healing energy

People don’t seem to understand what “not taking sides” means. “I’m gonna ride with Diddy until I see proof” is NOT not taking sides. That is literally taking Diddy’s side. Not taking sides = “I don’t know what happened so I’m gonna shut up until proof comes out”.

Like Katt Williams said in January......this has been a year of truth

Anyone who read Cassie’s lawsuit and didn’t believe at least part of it is kinda slow. Stephen King and James Patterson could make that shit up. Way too specific. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Slim Thug showed all he needed to show on that college hill program.

The problem is that Kelly spoke publicly in understanding for diddy. She's experienced dv, and was on mute for cassie. She could've reached out to diddy in person. She's definitely clout chasing.

"Power Bottom Jakes had something to say"??

I love the title of your book.

All i can hear is TD Jakes saying, "Have you ever been swallowed up?" lmao he knows just how dirty Diddy is 🙄

So we go forget about t d jakes allegations 😂😂😂

Jakes need to sit down and pray Like for real

Will definitely be watching The View Wednesday

Somebody tell Jess that is actually how that verse actually is. She just reads papers put in front of her without researching what she’s talking about. That goes for the news too. Familiarize yourself with what you’re about to read before you read! You’ll look like a learned individual. 🤦🏾‍♂️

I definitely respect Charlamagne on multiple levels! Given that, I find it so odd that even though Diddy once 'owned' or ran TBC (The Breakfast Club) that Bro Charlamagne remains open and transparent about the wrong of Fluffy-Diddy!! Much Respect to him on that!! He even did Donkey of the Day on Fluffy.... I haven't heard one that poignant since he went in on Derrick Jxsn.

" this not me yall this is her" jess got me rollin 🤣

Cha Tha God that lie was too slick but acceptance was tooo funny lol

Katt Williams looking more and more like Nostradamus Jr.

If they think Diddy didn't hit j-lo they fooling themselves. She jus got up out there!

I believe many artists like Kelly didn't see this side of Diddy when they're professional relationships begun. Unfortunately, the money and the devil swaaallloweed him up!

If you're waiting on proof you also need to wait on issuing a statement.

No, Jess, you must not know that scripture, for it _is_ "Lean not into your own understanding...". It's okay to make mistakes. Don't be so quick to call someone else out or wrong, simply to save face. Doing so made _you_ look worse. No biggie. Learn from this. Keep growing. Be well.

Thank you all for covering and being honest and not half stepping

Charlamagne that’s my hokie pokie joke!!!!!!😂

Did Bishop Jakes pray for the lady who's baby was stolen by his daughter???? Asking for myself?

Need to stop making it about race he beat a woman

Salute to Kelly price for not letting internet nerds get underneath her skin.

It’s very traumatic you never recover trust me I know!

Dr. Umar is WAY off on that one. TD Jakes is not starting a church with Diddy.

He can do soul searching in prison

Well, considering the TD Jakes does not speak up on any subject. And I mean any subject he has never addressed anything whether that be politically or personally, especially having to do with his family issues. The fact that he now comes out and has so much to say about this… Is telling for me. First of all I think it is good to address it but then at the same time happened you stay quiet. So what I feel is going on it may be a stretch for anyone to believe but it’s the distancing himself from at this point, and whatever he had going on. But keep in mind he was a part of whatever was going on at those parties.

It wasn’t just a blog post… they were actual court documents.

She can pray for him. All these people mad at her for praying for that man, need prayer themselves, to stop being so hateful. Ain’t nobody job to condemn that man. Only God can do that, truthfully.

Yo Charla when you go on the view please address when they said they don't need men

Hmm 🤔💭 Sending Cassie Healing And Positive Energy. Sending DIDDY Healing And Positive Energy. I hope he use his funds to get real mental help and assistance.

KP looks like Gloria Gaynor on that thumb.

Yall do a great job

Kelly Price always inserting herself in some mess SMH!

Diddy had the perfect life. Rich asf ,dated J-Lo , put biggie on.. and still wasn’t happy with himself.

I think i wanna buy your book charlmane

JESS you need to guest host on THE VIEW

The fact jess had to look up her ethnicity tells you how much of a reach that was. Lmao abuse not funny but trying to make it racial with 25% of the race is wild

Family Matters in the background 🫡

@Breakfast Whose voice is it on the "It's time to set it off" if it's Diddy, well 🤧

But td Jake's was caught at diddy party plus he got allegations on him to

full sprint with a towel on to give a Popeyes 2 piece and a stone cold stunner with one hand is crayyyyyzie 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥

Pray for all parties...🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Breakfast Club How about you acknowledge how much you stood with Diddy when this scandal originally broke?

bishop td jakes is crooked too

Ya'll also owe her an apology for siding with Diddy for months

Bishop TD Jakes and Diddy are not friends, they’re business partners. Friends don’t have their hands in each other‘s pockets.

Slim thug wrong for making a 10 gallon hat look like 5 gallons.

🙄 This is NOT about race smh. 100% about domestic violence & the power of rich men!

"Do the soul work"?!? Fuk that! Do the time!!

I love you guys voices together! I say only your voices, because...... I am blind! 🦮

We not done with TD Jake’s either 😂