Why We Deny Ourselves Pleasure and Help

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2 жыл бұрын

Why we deny ourselves pleasure and help? You would think we would all jump at the chance to experience pleasure and help. In fact, most of us avoid it. In todays video I am going to share with you 5 reasons why that is.
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@Jacparas 2 жыл бұрын

I've been a people pleaser all my life. I give almost everything I have in my pocket. But when I hear there's still a bad thing with me, I cursed and get rage 😐 I realized getting older you need to know to say No and put yourself first.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said yes. The inability to say no has catastrophic consequences intellectually, emotionally, relationally, physically, there’s a direct correlation to our health and the inability to say no. It’s a key skill we all need to develop

@annadonahue3134 2 жыл бұрын

Well, thanks for the spinach waterboarding 💚 Mom always took care of everyone and everything before taking care of my brother and I, never mind herself. I used to feel as tho she didn’t love us, as we were so far down her list of priorities. But that actually wasn’t the truth. I have learned that she loved us so much that she had us on her list right where she placed herself. She felt guilty if she gave in to her wish to spend her time on us or herself instead of keeping her nose to the grindstone of the extended family/farm for which she found herself responsible. I learned this when I found myself doing exactly as she had. So much sorting out to be done in our lives to be able to heal. And actually accept the healing, take the lesson, forgive others and yourself, and finally let it all be done with... and move forward toward developing our gifts and living free.

@leeboriack8054 Жыл бұрын

Victimhood is a form of power that Keeps the “victim” from discovering and developing their potential. Even worse this dynamic damages the “victim’s” target distracts them from their potential.

@lydiaeichiner8289 Жыл бұрын

I had to think many times "I am the Narcisist", but the answer was always, no the Narcisist would never admit or even think this. But for me that was not possible, I have my part too, I love the idea how you explain it, to do it from the low place ... THANKS I can accept that and I think it is simply more onest!, thank you. It will take me a while to see it right away, but I am on the way. I love peace and have read everything (more or less) about it, I found out for myself that we all, especially people in important possisions (teacher and politiks ecc) should do Shadow work, to eneable themself to be onest, at least to themselfs, instead of reacting from an unconscious place and do unsane actions. GREAT EXPLANATION

@hyperboreanmustache 2 жыл бұрын

Very insightful. I'm pretty amazed by how you managed to get through that delicate theme with such lightness and optimistic take. Thanks a lot for that, God bless you

@javadhamedan 8 ай бұрын

thanks for being true to everyone, keep up the good work, some people wake up late, like me. thanks, thanks 🙏

@leeboriack8054 Жыл бұрын

Giving with expectations for a certain response is a premeditated resentment in the making.

@gwendolinehughes3355 Жыл бұрын

Wow I love this! Only just found you but will definitely be listening to all I can find. This all reminds me of the Is book 'A Course In Miricles ' to which I try to conduct my life but you put it so much more simply. I've tried so hard to forgive my narcissist ex partner over the years. And I've always known I've had a role to play in our relationship but complete forgiveness was still beyond me. Yes I tried to fix him but I just got messed up in the process. Thank you for helping me...appreciated so much

@smartypants6198 2 жыл бұрын

But if no one is asking, stop.

@waterchilde Жыл бұрын

OMG this video. Knocking it out of the park! Seriously, this is a home run truth bomb right here.

@DjDiLaRa Жыл бұрын

I agree completely!! I think believe we should not resist or deny negative but embrace it. With this perspective I have realized that all my life problems are solved!

@eleonortiger27 4 ай бұрын

My pleasure nowadays is to listen to you 😆

@conniebaker403 Жыл бұрын

Another great insight, Kenny! ❤️ Thank you ‼️ Such GOOD STUFF HERE ☺️☺️

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@Gigiyoungerme Жыл бұрын

01:01:23 Releasing striving boundage from the worse day cycle To start thriving healing the hurt process Blame Shame avoiding help &/or pleasure Codependency as we learn in childhood to depend on our parents for help &/or pleasure We learn we give in society without question We end up feeling resentful/power struggles/ bitter /angry /losing our authenticity No wonder the importance of being honest about our own personal thoughts/feelings To begin the healing process from our own victimhood striving to thriving Awesome Thank you Kenny Weiss Enjoy the journey Again Happy 2023 all 365 days

@elkepool3861 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!!!!👏

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

I hope it helped you😁

@frankmazzie4855 2 жыл бұрын

Just ordered your book Mr. Weiss

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Woohoo 👏👏🎉

@frankmazzie4855 2 жыл бұрын

@@kennyweiss finally..i had a question if i may

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

@@frankmazzie4855 I will do my best to answer your question. :-)

@frankmazzie4855 2 жыл бұрын

@@kennyweiss im an recovering addict working a 12 step program 8yrs now ..alot of writing involved i use what we call a flat book..i notice alot of similar correspondence in your work,have you ever used this book..Its an N/A BOOK..I also like to say your videos knowledge plus the inside work i do in my writing has been a tremendous eye opener and help thank you...Onward on the Journey.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

@@frankmazzie4855 I’m not familiar with a flat book? I have been sober from many addictions for a long time. I have done a lot of twelve-step work in the past but none of my material consciously is inspired by 12 step programs. I’m sure it has influenced aspects of it.