How Society Creates Codependency & Relationship Struggles

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2 жыл бұрын

How society creates codependency.
In today's video, I am going to share the 3 ways our society plays an active role in creating codependency.
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@vickibellanova397 2 жыл бұрын

That whole statement of honoring our Mother and Father..... the left out part was.. if they are honorable. Knowing that has always eased my guilt and anger towards them both. Thank you, Kenny for all of your videos!!

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said

@kathyalex778 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, although it may sound crazy, I find that listening to songs that sing “I’ll never get over you”, “I can’t get you out of my head”, “you were the only one for me” subconsciously cause me to be stuck in a codependent downward spiral as well. The media we consume has a HUGE effect on how we perceive and act, but we don’t want to admit it because it feels so harmless to consume these pieces of art. But they in fact do sway the way we think.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You’re exactly right. All of those love songs and the romance movies teach us something that is called love addiction. That’s why so few relationships work. We have all been raised to be either a love addict or a love avoidant. Both dynamics are codependent. We have never taught what true love looks like, feels like or acts like. That’s why I’m doing all of this. I’m trying to provide people with the knowledge, skills, and tools we never received so that we can actually experience love without codependence or addiction.

@Arven8 Жыл бұрын

There was a lot of blossoming awareness about codependence, the inner child, childhood wounds, and dysfunctional family dynamics back in the late 80s and 90s. That's when I tapped into it, through Bradshaw and ACA groups. There were 12 step groups for everything, all over the place. It seemed like everyone was talking about their difficult childhoods. Then, gradually, it faded. Books were written criticizing the movements, and people ridiculed its excesses (e.g., people carrying around teddybears, or getting stuck in victimhood). It didn't go away completely, but it sure faded from the limelight and public consciousness -- for decades. Now it seems to be making a return, at least in a small way. Maybe these things go in cycles. ... In any case, I appreciate your videos. In my eyes, you embody the spirit of the old recovery movement.

@alyserhyne9336 2 жыл бұрын

I took your advice and read Facing Love Addiction. It was like swimming with jelly fish. 😂 I think I’ll need to read it a few more times to let it really sink in. Good medicine 👍

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Yes as with many of the things I talk about, it takes a while for us to except truth. That’s how the shame and denial portions of the worst day cycle work. They put us in a place where we really want to hold onto our old beliefs and false persona and addressing that can take time

@jess3591 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing video! Thank you so much ❤️🕊️🙏

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome I’m happy that it helped you😁

@deborahotto3179 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your courage to speak boldly and with love and maturity. Too much denial and cover-up. Tough solutions that work! Finally!!

@kennyweiss Ай бұрын

You're welcome!

@nicudetailer4352 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Kenny

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

You bet!

@through.a.barrel.she.breathes 6 ай бұрын

I have a lot of serious physical health issues and wonder now from your videos I wonder if it is my trauma I buried and then was used and discarded by as narc as soon as I was too sick to be a useful commodity after decades and alienation from my kids has caused me to be stuck in a codependent downward spiral as well but I know I have to take responsibility and I know now from you to hold myself accountable and responsible and let the ex do that to me and I was an adult and even though it was initially hard to swallow it is empowering as it means I am not powerless and I can change my life myself. Thanks.

@kennyweiss 6 ай бұрын

Beautifully said. That is exactly how the Authentic Self Cycle of Truth, Responsibility, Healing, and Forgiveness works. As soon as we stop blaming and playing the victim and get into truth and take responsibility that we played a part, we initiate the healing process so we instantly feel lighter, empowered, free, and excited because, for the first time, we have taken control of our outcome and we now know that we can heal and forgive ourselves and them. Well done!!!

@Heyokasireniei468sxso Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this nobody wants to look in the home , and nor does anyone want to have empathy for the monsters that used to be children who were victimized themselves, Buffy and Angel had a okay relationship but perhaps just not one that stands the test of time due to different desires, stop giving them power mirror them show them their reflection heal them where you can and accept your role in things or move on and accept the role you played without blame and shame because the game started in the home and no one walks away without wounds or fleas

@Gigiyoungerme 2 жыл бұрын

So true about our internal battle that is purgatory that is hell separation of self and disconnected with self to hide the truth Thank you Kenny for your clarity 😃

@emilyvay6369 Жыл бұрын

I feel like I look at my past counselors that I had before this one and I wonder why they were a problem and I was like because we didn’t even talk about what happened in my childhood and I always wondered why does it feel like the feelings I have a anxiety depression Don’t just like pop out of nowhere