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“Keys to Attracting Men You Can Trust”
This is part 2 of the interview series I did with Antia Boyd.
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QUESTION:
What can a woman do to now shift that, maybe not necessarily for this particular man, but to start attracting man that not only she can trust but also who trusts themselves?
KEY POINTS:
*** Here are three categories, and we can touch on each one and hopefully point in the direction that can get people to begin moving towards this on the path. It’s just something to begin contemplating looking at in your own life just perhaps beginning to open some of these distinctions and notice what you can start to live in to more fully.
Point 1: being able to trust in yourself
Point 2: being able to start to trust men
Point 3: being able to trust in life
* All of these happen concurrently but we can talk about each one of them and what that begins to look like because when you're able to trust himself you're able to trust in him and you're able to trust in life, a relationship has oil on it at that point things start to move into place.
* It STARTS in being able to trust yourself.
One way that women and men don't actually trust themselves is that the first thing they do - the first way that they actually betray themselves and break trust with themselves - is by trying to be what someone else wants.
Because they're not actually trusting themselves that they are good enough to be good enough for the other person.
They are not trusting their value if they were to show up fully which say their needs, their wants, their boundaries, or the things that they really want, and what ends up happening is because they're not voicing those things is they may start to contort who they are and notice how the other person responds and try to be in chameleon whatever it is they think the other person wants so they can be that.
And right there, they've created the first violation in themselves which is they're not trusting in themselves now.
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