This is one of the reasons why l am always a nice person when l meet people. Some people are dealing with real life problems and we deny them of a smile, a decent conversation or grab a bite and separate without asking anything from them. That gesture on its own consoles hearts be it they show appreciation or not you would have done your part
@jaftammalegodipilusa42535 жыл бұрын
No sign of remorse of this woman on this first episode😢😢😢 and the mama with red cap is good mediator 🙌🙌🙌 God bless you
@noziphokhumalo38264 жыл бұрын
The second family made me cry... I'm happy that tamkhulu found his brother and you can tell they really love each other.
@bekezelanyathi25504 жыл бұрын
Mxxxm akaphelelanga
@mrcusmarcuship-hop485 жыл бұрын
First family the girls are better off without the mother she's rude and the husband it's so painful girl's be strong and forget about her 🙏
@zulujanet60904 жыл бұрын
Seems she is mentally disturbed
@patiencechivunge85154 жыл бұрын
Akekho mama onje mara uhamba ezala ayi ezinyen ihlanya god have fovour on them
@siphokazimpofu19904 жыл бұрын
@@zulujanet6090 shes not usile qha .....ungcolile lo mama skaa
@zetmbonambi44252 жыл бұрын
Ist episode, the hate the mother have for her ex prevent her to even pretend to love her kids. Men abuse ruin people's hearts and brain.But this woman usile cos she continued making kids for other man while she abandoned elder ones. She is now comfortable with a new man in better environment so she see her kids as threath to her new family. So heartless 💔😪
@vusumuzivolly2 ай бұрын
Baza khawula , ufune umama kho noma ubaba wakho yena ukube akaku funi - then uthole onunye ubuhlungu Nabo labantwana baza khawula ....
@vuyomajoba17924 жыл бұрын
Wow so heartless, she doesn't regret, what picture is she painting for women who have sacrifice for their kids. Very sad moment indeed, khumbulekhaya thank to the field team, camera crews and top management, thumbs up
@joyceskosana50482 жыл бұрын
What kind of a mother is this just rubbish heartles kind of a person nonses mother 💔💔🙊🙊🙆🙆😭😭👊
@nokwazidlamini94515 жыл бұрын
The lady in red cap. Thanks for trying 💖
@lufhunoconversationpodcast3354 жыл бұрын
I love the way they welcomed the old man in the second family..They do not have much but they are a very big, loving and caring family .. They've just made me to notice how much I miss my late grandfather ..NdingumXhosakazi nam, ndiyawuthandwa lomzi mkhulu wakwa Xhosa ..asilahlani thina ..I soooo love this family ..especially the younger brother Tatu Makwedini yuuuh uthando lwenu bethunani
@Duma_Mphondi4 жыл бұрын
Beauty ❤️❤️💖her approach is 👌enjoyed watching this episode
@XITSONGABombaMugaza4 жыл бұрын
2ND Story, God really kept this people for him. The whole family are senior citizens.
@fatnesstofitness54835 жыл бұрын
Nombulelo’s husband is not better either, very unwelcoming to his wife’s children up until Dudu intervened...The daughters are so mature
@LethoHali5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing 2nd family 😭😭😭😭🙏🏾. No questions asked, just a warm welcome home! Awhhh he still sees his siblings as they were in the 80’s when he left! So cute at his surprise that they’re now grannies as he is💕💕💕. This made me cry. Truly beautiful.
@orapelengtawana32875 жыл бұрын
hebanna uthi why they didnt call her first!!!!??????????? or ugogo Dlamini???????? uRight upstairs lo mama???? me I would have turn back and left....tsek
@daphneymbombi5094 жыл бұрын
1st story, heart breaking 💔 de girls ar better off without de so called mother. 2nd story ✊brothers for life, I luv it👏
@veronicalinda59295 жыл бұрын
Girls forgive and forget and move on girls.thank you for sharing this khumbulekhaya, love it from Botswana
@Hlelokuhle.D5 жыл бұрын
So the husband went to change clothes for the camera,😅 anyway this first lady is hurt deep down naye ulimele lo mama
@mbulazindabezitha33164 жыл бұрын
Sinazo Dlanjwa Ayi wena🤣🤣🤣 maybe ubesebenza then wayogeza after.
@thembimoyo20285 жыл бұрын
Happy for the second family ,God is great 🙏🙏🙏
@tumisanglets58695 жыл бұрын
i loved that "That's good!"...from the old man
@LethoHali5 жыл бұрын
Nombulelo hates her abuser and everything from him (ie ‘his’ kids). She’s dead inside in relation to anything that has to do with him. I mean from first words out of her mouth my jaw dropped! “Why didn’t you tell me ur coming?” Seriously!!?? 😳😳😳😳😲🙊
@pamelazingisa444811 ай бұрын
She likes abuse ngoba the new husband as well he seems abusive he was so rude
@thabangshibambu88155 жыл бұрын
Am hurt😭😢😭 how can a whole Mother say such things to her daughters
@pumla7manclcebza735 жыл бұрын
She' s a disgrace Thabang trust me
@sehliseloqueenmthomben8225 жыл бұрын
I don't think she is normal
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
@@pumla7manclcebza73 big one she doesn't deserve these girls akahlale nje lePantyhose alisentanyeni
@mpongokazingelwayo35745 жыл бұрын
I sense depression kulomama
@busiejabu34434 жыл бұрын
Ey abanye abazali yoo andaz nokba ndingathin nje kungowam lomama
@dremgetjani18525 жыл бұрын
This woman first story is so cold Honestly some women don’t deserve to be mothers Sad part is so many would love to be called mom but they can’t Then you get this It’s too upsetting
@tebogomolalathoko19133 жыл бұрын
she's irresponsible and not ready to be a mother
@dumako80855 жыл бұрын
That mother is not mentally stable 🤞🏾🤞🏾
@ngasiwauamusse75993 жыл бұрын
I really need a neighbor like Dudu. The 1st story is really sad. Some mothers shame
@nomxhosapekani79663 жыл бұрын
Eish it's sad neh, maybe is PTSD- who know what kind of abuse she endured from their father, shame.
@pamelazingisa444811 ай бұрын
@@nomxhosapekani7966akekho right umama Lona but she should have tried to make abantwana to feel better yoh
@gingerwingerful5 жыл бұрын
Second family they are very kind loving family the brother welcomed his long lost brother with open arms I wish my family are as loving as that family
I won't even hug her sis 😭 She was forced to apologise
@vusumuzivolly2 ай бұрын
Thats why l say everytime , don't waist your time to want or to check your beloved wants stay home safe your energy If you forced you will going to be heart broken
@lloydlloyds70173 жыл бұрын
That woman in the first case is just something else. No remorse, no regret..... Sending those girls hugs! God's got you. Leave it to Him.
@petermncobinkambule37935 жыл бұрын
Its so sad to see your parent not welcoming you with excitement after such a long time. Those girls are traumatised and they need counselling after what their mother told them she doesn't regret leaving them with their grandmother. On the second episode, it was so good to see the younger brother welcoming his elder brother with love and so much happiness. I really applaud the family for accepting the old man and how i wish i had such a family. I miss my late brother when i see such love and its so emotional. Big up Khumbulekhaya for a job well done.
@igletmolatudi33215 жыл бұрын
The second family, when the brother cried, I cried along with him 😪😪😪😪😪
@martinmogotsi3394 Жыл бұрын
I smiled the whole second story... Uncle is still full of jokes..😊😊😊
@mltshehla98675 жыл бұрын
Lyf is difficult we need family when we are old, please Lord shows us the right way,be with us all da way,We worship You, thank You Lord for everything,we need you Jesus
@nkolopk2 жыл бұрын
Yoh this Nombulelo women is heartless💔🥺😭 shuuu..... Sies.
@ndumisosibiya65945 жыл бұрын
akekho right lomama 1st episode
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them
@ziningimazeka37365 жыл бұрын
First episode Cha Shem umama onjan lo uthwale ingane izinyanga eziw 9 kodwa ungazisoli ngokuyshiya ikhule ingakwaz unesibindi mama ndin
@ramoshabaramoshaba95615 жыл бұрын
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I agree. I also feel like the world shames women for leaving their kids with father's. Father's are parents too, if she's incapable of raising them the father should. I don't understand why they had to make her feel like she wasn't supposed to leave them behind only because she's a mother.
@funohsummer72615 жыл бұрын
Struu uyagula shame angisadiniwe
@mopeeportia30185 жыл бұрын
makhelwane of dis family she is has gud heart
@rhungulanielisa63915 жыл бұрын
i think nombulelo she's got mental disturbance a biological mother won't talk like that
@lilobhunge3564 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣easy tiger
@djakbw.official22765 жыл бұрын
The second story made me so emotional I cried throughout. Wish them all the best As for the first story I realy dont think the mother meant what she said. Maybe she s one of these people who cant express their feelings well. And I think she shoved off the feelings for her kids for a long time as a way of Dealing with the pain.
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
Severe trauma will make you do that.
@djakbw.official22765 жыл бұрын
Thats very true.
@wushemxmakanjana30373 жыл бұрын
Uyinja lomama
@masimbonemtshotshisa28015 жыл бұрын
Tjoo first episode the step father is vomiting fire ey mamelani yekelani shooter la and lento yenu niyenze le emgaqweni.
@Theodora8225 жыл бұрын
The husband seems to have a good heart. He was ambushed by strangers with cameras, maybe that's why he reacted the way he did.
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
Dudu is adding fuel to the fire 😂😂😂😂stepfather fanele kuthi umphethe kabi lomama sengathi she is so scared of him.It's painful to be rejected by your parent especially a umama twice😢😢😢
@unboundedinc74464 жыл бұрын
The old fella has a very good memory.
@jackmabitsela35635 жыл бұрын
Wow, brothers for life. We salute them
@martinmogotsi3394 Жыл бұрын
I can watch the second families story over and over again
@SthembisoBhengu-d1bАй бұрын
Wahlukumezeka kakhulu lo mama walabantwana... nasekhanda ngat alisebenzi
@nkosinathimfeketo865 жыл бұрын
The first family broke my heart, It is clear that these girls are deeply hurt, to add on that I believe the mother could have handled the situation much better so as not to add on the pain her kids have endured for all these years of her absence. i trust the Lord to grant these girls strength and power to forgive for their own benefit ... kuzolunga guys.
@keneilwemontjane3325 жыл бұрын
The first mechanic guy, I think he has stolen cars in his yard! The way he chased the cameras away!!!!!!!!!!!! Hai
@nothandongubo54695 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@mogaletilly74155 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Samkeli_siweMАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@nonhlemkhize97725 жыл бұрын
Mam Dudu in the first story :"-( I wish she was their mom
@sivevuza59395 жыл бұрын
The brothers 😭😭❤❤
@sandilekheswa53325 жыл бұрын
This woman is saying she is not even remorseful for leaving her children behind 🤔 They are better off without her.
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
@thandoc39345 жыл бұрын
she used distancing as a healing strategies i guess....
@blessed16095 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! I also think she reacted that way because the kids resemble their father aswell
@response72965 жыл бұрын
I see mental disorder here. How v Can she be so conformable to say she doesn't regret what she did to her children. She is insane
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
That's very true, she would've been a horrible mother
@ndumndum10005 жыл бұрын
trust a woman to support and justify amanyala enziwa abanye besifazane.... abekho abantu ababole njengani
@karaboanswer7575 жыл бұрын
I love you guys from Easter cape they did welcome there brother in warm hands realeboga yoooooohhh
The lady in the 1st story i don't think she's 100% ok upstairs.
@NomfundoV85 жыл бұрын
Somethings wrong
@pearlmagwaza77485 жыл бұрын
BIG- MIKE I think she’s detached herself from her kids emotionally dats why there’s no remorse on her side
@patrickphokoane6413 жыл бұрын
Ya true... but i think by the time she left them she got new love that was driving her crazy
@lightkheswa66005 жыл бұрын
Kuthiwa nanku untodo.... Subtitle: This is Ndondo😂😂😂😂.... Elixhego lithetha ingathi nguPhekeza weTyala lamawele. Ngutsotsi wetshipha.
@theannabelleskhosana19985 жыл бұрын
wow the second story😍 shame💞
@wenya225 жыл бұрын
Nombulelo might be needing psychological evaluation, she could have suffered too much abuse & she doesn’t look normal or act it , people are harsh on her behaviour but she could be mentally challenged
@NomfundoV85 жыл бұрын
I agree, something is off with her.
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
Exactly. She could be severely traumatized or this could be the results of untreated post natal depression.
@NomfundoV85 жыл бұрын
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 This woman has a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact that the current partner seems abusive as well.
@mirriamsofe60715 жыл бұрын
My dearest sister,spot on!!!Even the current one,to me is WORSE although I don't have enough details!!! Having her exposed with raw and inappropriate reaction, I'm tented not to use hard language like RUDE,many will disagree with me BUT she is still in an abusive relationship. You know in this case the song" Mam to man "" applies like a glove. Dress code and conduct should be taken into consideration!! She is yearning for something we may take for granted, it may not have been given to her, " LOVE " Apartheid was a psychological practice and to the weak meant to control,remove you're self love ( selfesteem)But its not the appropriate term I was looking for!!!Bloodline cannot be removed because of anger,a century from now ,one of her grandchildren might be caught in this raw,needing to trace bloodline and DNA will unfortunately revert to her!!!I respect the view's of everybody, through shock for some,anger,disgust for some BUT the eldest daughter is determined to see it work.
@merryzvi4 жыл бұрын
@@NomfundoV8 l agree. the current partner wants to appear good but why on earth would he say the girls see the mother outside. The mother is not in her right mind.
@preciousshabangu35295 жыл бұрын
THIS MOTHER IS HEARTLESS
@tebogomolalathoko19133 жыл бұрын
and they forced her to apologise and i was hurt by those words , it was like your mother saying she regrets giving birth to you
@mlungisinonkonyana10914 жыл бұрын
We worked from farm to farm no property no land nothing😢😢😢
@lotliseloane625011 сағат бұрын
Dude salvaged the situation
@lebohangmphaphuli84555 жыл бұрын
To c Mdala met his br0ther,how they greeted each other.make me cry😭😭💕
@KayKudiwa3 жыл бұрын
Wow this made me cry!!! Tjo! That’s just sad. Okay let’s say Dudu didn’t show up...she wouldn’t have apologized or hugged them!! Shu!!! No matter what a man does to you, don’t reject the fruit of your womb. I think it happened according to God’s will that they grew up with their Grandmother.
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
Nombulelo is hurt shame, she hasn't healed. She's taken out her anger on her kids
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
& her 2nd daughter will be emotionally disturbed like her becoz of what she said
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
@@anniendhluli2790 Both of them will be. I feel like what she said jeopardized their relationship, it created a lot of anger and trust issues. Khumbulakhaya should get a psychologist for these people, some of they need help shame
@gladysmmamankwe33745 жыл бұрын
Ke nagana gore mme yo breng ke Dudu o hlakahlakane, ebileo kare ba mo jesetse korobela ,ka gore le go nyalwa aowa ke vat and sit jooowee.
@abigailmaite97252 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 nkosi yam. This is heartbreaking
@uviwentsevu20915 жыл бұрын
The second family. 😢When the brother was crying. I couldn't yho...!! But thank God they found one another 🙏
The effects of the apartheid's forced removals on the second part
@gardeningwithpuleng75004 жыл бұрын
Dudu is sick guys She doesn't show any remorse at all ☹️ She's not normal at all
@michaelmdluli4127 Жыл бұрын
Mmmmmm what a welcome home,is so nice to see the whole family's gather together and welcome one of their members,that last seen 40 years ago,and he came back empty handed,and they still accept and welcome him
@chimayonnaisetv3055 Жыл бұрын
that woman is just crazy... kudoz to the neighbor... she should've been the mother🎉
Ndiyavuya ukubona utamkhulu eyifumene ifamily yakhe yonke. Wafika no brother wakhe esaphila. GOD is good. Siyabulela.. Camagu!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@zinhlexaba51495 жыл бұрын
Yoh UYANYANYISA LOMAMA AKAXOLISE NGOBA KUSUKA KUYE USEGCINA ICALA NJE AKANAMAHLONI SHAME ON HER.
@lindokuhlemkhwanazi56344 жыл бұрын
khumbulekhaya team we love you
@pinkyhantibi12535 жыл бұрын
Ipart ka tamkhulu 😭😭😭 tearing apart. Inene ukhululekile mkhulu. And the warm welcome at home
@66TT885 жыл бұрын
So admin is taking forever to upload last Wednesday episode.
@wandisabangela62595 жыл бұрын
Tamkhulu 😍❤ 2nd family
@mzuvukilevuke72935 жыл бұрын
The first part of the show😢may the children forgive their mother for what she did and also said when they met💔
@stephaniebowens99583 жыл бұрын
I can understand the pain growing up without a mother.......but she only gave birth.....she is far from a mother. Young ladies you have each other you've learned how to love your birth mother is a selfish rude woman. Go and be glad she didn't raise you. I am a mother I could never speak to my children in the way she did.....what a sorry excuse of a mother. God bless you girls. God have mercy on your sorry mothers life.
@mirriamsofe60715 жыл бұрын
Joooooo,1st story, what can we say💔💔💔💔💔💔,is this what trauma is like?Jaaaaaaaa,sorry babies,we don't choose our families BUT hei the elder daughter is convinced they will fix it in her own words!May God change their mother for the better. Even the current relationship is still abusive!!! I feel sorry for the heartless mother anyway!!! He I,jaaa,maybe with a little education things might have been different!!!
@danielmashitoa47883 ай бұрын
Guy's mosadi yowe gana nnete ebile gake tsholi e bile o re wayi le sa mphoune Mola Basa motsebe batla go tseba bjang Basa go tsebe
@mariaelizabeth94515 жыл бұрын
Dudu you the boss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nokwandamhlanga3 жыл бұрын
Dudu libhoza
@quietidio3 жыл бұрын
Geez 2nd fam is blessed so many family members in one place alive 🤗😊
Well done to SANCO for taking care of their community members, well done to Khumbulekhaya for serving the nation in such a powerful way, God bless you always. Just a little correction: Makwedini and not makhwedini, also Tshawe and not Chawe. I also think that Baloi is spelt as "Baloyi" though not 100% sure (I'm not Tsonga but I have a Tsonga best friend here on Campus). Sorry for correction just thought I should try and voice it out, hope no one will get offended, Otherwise good job, I highly appreciate Khumbulekhaya and the Team. Lots of blessings!
@calebdlamini89005 жыл бұрын
Ewu, sishi lomfati who abandoned her children for so many years. I'm pretty sure they are better off without her😞
@mamawegirlz43095 жыл бұрын
Mhmmm"naba bezondithwalisa lomthwalo besendisithi ndiwohlule" sad
@elisamuleya Жыл бұрын
I cried 😢 out cos wow the pain of child to force Love from a mother I know it cos I know the pain as for me I think I'm much batter on my own God will comfort me How can a mother fail to love your children because of their fathers behaviour 😢
@mabuevolter49524 жыл бұрын
The mother needs help, shes stressed, i can see through her... she never boiled out i think, please help her...do not be quick to judge.
@nicolelight39534 жыл бұрын
Yooh was in abusive relationship but wen i decided to leave i never thot of going without them let alone leave them with that abusive man. Extraodinary love, steadfastness , perservearance and being burden bearers is wat defines a mother. This 1 i surrender.
@misstinathehelper26065 жыл бұрын
The first family the step father makes them meet their mother outside as if he doesn't want to be on camera so was surprised seeing him showing himself again,looks like he didn't want the kids in his compound also but the wife told him about them,I just wish the girls can move on without their mother am so pissed with the way she welcomed them and her feels no regret at all on why she did to her kids.wish you all the best girls 🙏
@molebogengprecious38845 жыл бұрын
first episode.. the lady aint normal shem.. n the stepdad shuuu rude
@venoliankanyani99225 жыл бұрын
True that, she seems to be mentally disturbed
@violetnkanyane47185 жыл бұрын
@@venoliankanyani9922 it's true
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
Kusemahlanyeni
@tshdys49755 жыл бұрын
i think she needs help,shes been abused
@traceymandloe11945 жыл бұрын
Bekuzoba ngcono ngabe bamthole ebhubhile umama lo , ku first story
@tendaibeverly55255 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Dudu
@portiasithole48455 жыл бұрын
I don't think this mother is well, hope they forgive her.
@noziphontini18214 жыл бұрын
Nami ngibona kanjalo yaz
@mcsiemtetua10373 жыл бұрын
Mnxm ukuzalisa isiphukuphuku kunje in 1rst story Nalomakhelwane weRed cap uthanda izindaba
There is seriously something wrong with Nombulelo. I feel sorry for the girls
@mandisimelaneschaal98234 жыл бұрын
Ubaba yena who couldn't see well, that story made me realize ukuthi sociopaths don't only exist in American movies. I'm happy he found his family
@kgothatsobeauty80955 жыл бұрын
The first family, i did not like the way their mother welcome them...she was so rude..please mother learn love your children, they are in this world because of you..you gave birth to them..u are boring, do not hold grudges of their their father to them
@user-fj1bm2dq3p6 ай бұрын
Iyhoo this woman she doesn't even care about her kids iyhoo 😭😭😭😭
@vusumuzivolly2 ай бұрын
-ku useless uma ngabe kuzo loko kubuzwa imibuzo ....
@thapelooageng74104 жыл бұрын
true love between those brthers..i pray God him sight
@tebellorankadi5 жыл бұрын
1st story, women empowerment should start by empowering such
@mafokopako5 жыл бұрын
Mosadi o wa tsenwa
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
@@mafokopako O dira ke trauma.
@tumelonamane17254 жыл бұрын
Guys uagrown.......if she behaves and respond like a nyaope girl....leave her
@rossykoko1755 жыл бұрын
i swear i wudnt have forgiven this lady....how cud she say all this bathong.....the kids seem more mature than her,she shud have looked for them ba tle ba mo fe di advice.....not them looking for her her because they need motherly advices.....am sooooo hurt
@mphomkhalipi65375 жыл бұрын
rossy koko It’s years of alcohol abuse
@oabitsadorothykgetse26234 жыл бұрын
First episode is very painful. In Setswana we say " Mmangwana o tshwara thipa ka ha bogaleng" But the lady is not that kind of woman. She need counselling she never thought her girls will ever make an effort to look for her. "Girls you need to be still, the Lord will fight fo you" Exodus 14:14. From Gaborone. Botswana
@tyrodepoetry92535 жыл бұрын
First girl is beautiful I hope i can get her contact