an HONEST chat about parenthood & why we stopped youtube

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In this video we get real about stepping into our new roles as first-time parents. In this candid Q&A, my husband and I open up about the whirlwind of adjusting to parenthood. We're answering your questions, sharing our experiences, and learning as we go. Whether you're a new parent, expecting, or just curious about this life-changing journey, we're here to share the raw and beautiful truth of it all. So, grab a cup of coffee (you'll probably need it), and let's dive in! ☕️
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💌 CHAPTERS
0:00 a slow morning
0:57 what does kyle do for work
2:20 why my husband travels so much
4:00 morning coffee run
5:20 advice for marriage after first baby
8:30 first nap
9:10 why we switched baby monitors
10:20 this always calms our baby down
11:30 PIXSEE features we LOVE
12:30 my new favorite video
13:56 how I feel about social media right now
14:47 do you feel like yourself yet?
16:30 do dad's lose their self in parenthood?
19:00 we almost had a fight today
21:17 a little sermon
22:40 a rainy afternoon
23:16 is kyle annoying?
23:50 are we starting a podcast
24:20 how to balance work and having a baby
26:15 why we stopped youtube
26:50 what is one thing you would do differently as new parents?
28:18 having sleep resentment
31:50 fighting against social media distraction
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12:21
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@alaskaminnie644 3 ай бұрын

Kian, I just wanted to say I can (and I’m sure your other subscribers can too!) tell that you and Kyle have grown soooo much in your marriage and it has been such a joy to see the way you both have grown closer in Christ. Praise God for that! I’m only a distant viewer from CA but am praising Him for His undeniable sanctifying work in your marriage and especially in this chapter of parenthood! (Also Legend reminds me of my son Elliot! I had twins and they are the same age as Legend so I also love seeing all the new milestones he reaches since my babies reach them at the same time! But Legend looks and acts JUST like my twin boy 😊) love and grace, sister!

@marykatherinemorris5048 3 ай бұрын

Dude… Kyle is such a good husband.

@StrongerThanStroke 3 ай бұрын

Kyle, please do a fasting video. Thank you for being a supportive husband. I asked my husband (many years ago), if he could get up one day a week to take our baby to daycare so I’d have one morning to only get myself ready and he refused. You all are blessed to have each other so you both can be great ✨

@marykatherinemorris5048 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been saying that ever since you married him- seriously, he never ceases to impress

@StrongerThanStroke 3 ай бұрын

** Preacher Mode Activated ** loved that part!! “Outside in the rain, picking up rocks”, there really is a message in that. We grow stronger in the storm 🙏🏽❤️ May the Lord continue to bless your family.

@iveelovee 3 ай бұрын

Ouuuu that “not when you feel called to fast, but when you fast”. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@Kian_Wolfgang 3 ай бұрын

such a good word!!

@hopeolivia590 3 ай бұрын

I would love to hear more about prayer and fasting !!!x@@Kian_Wolfgang

@molly_frances 3 ай бұрын

The podcast style suits you guys so well!! I would *definitely* listen to a podcast of you two! This whole video was so beautiful and soul nourishing. Your content lately is 😘 chefs kiss

@Heavenly.Minded 3 ай бұрын

I watched this whole video in one sitting & i loved it. I loved the rawness of y’all communicating that little issue at the end. I also loved that y’all didn’t edit out the mess ups or frustrations but put them in there because it feels more relatable.

@user-zh7hk7xf3v 3 ай бұрын

You guys are light years beyond your early years together. You're so exciting and honest and GOOD together!!

@shealovesfashio 3 ай бұрын

I agree! They really love each other and it shows. Such a beautiful witness to the sacrament of marriage. Their growth is incredible I can only pray the Holy Spirit will bless my marriage in a similar way.

@canalawrence9878 3 ай бұрын

I love everything about your videos, but by far, my favorite parts are when you and Kyle just talk together. Whether it's about trial (like this one) or trying to cook together (like in a different vid) it's just hilarious and wholesome! Truly brings a smile because you guys are so funny together! 😂

@hannahann6219 3 ай бұрын

The Spirit speaks through Kyle! He has such a gift for speaking, it’s a gift to see it!❤

@suewolfgang5130 3 ай бұрын

Kyle and Kian, I love how real you are with all of us, sharing daily special moments and little mishaps throughout your day!We can definitely all relate! Wise words from Pastor Kyle! 🙌❤️ Sending love and hugs to all three of you!!! 🥰

@teresak9454 3 ай бұрын

Kyle's message on prayer and fasting was such a good reminder and inspiration. Thank you so much!

@sydneyinnature 3 ай бұрын

I’ve had some of the darkest times these past few months and this video hit me hard for so many different reasons. Thank you guys for being so awesome❤️

@zareakirby7991 3 ай бұрын

I love the ending podcast style chat to see you navigate through a topic. I’m in my first several months of marriage and i want to be able to communicate with my husband this way. Thank you for sharing this light and inspiration definitely helps me with good prayer points. Love you guys let your light shine and salt be flavorful 💕

@kevinjroyal 3 ай бұрын

Happy for you guys, love the vulnerable moment about fighting and sleep resentment, you guys are amazing; blessings!

@mrsdaisymama 3 ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree more about sleep comparison with your husband. We now have 2 under 2 and I’m also guilty of getting annoyed when my husband complains about being tired when I breastfeed through the night. That conversation was refreshing. Love that Kyle offers to wake up early and you accepted his help. It is definitely hard to *ask* for help VS accepting it.

@stephjacksonmusic 3 ай бұрын

I love your content so much Kian, it's become such a safe space for me

@LoveeeeelyM 3 ай бұрын

You guys made a gorgeous baby! Legend is soooo gorgeous 😻😍🫶🏻 happy to see all three of you! 🌸🙏🏻

@nancydroge7682 3 ай бұрын

~LOVED this! ~FULL of treasure; wisdom & joy! Thank you, Kian, Kyle, & Legend! Thank you for showing us all how to navigate when things don’t go ‘our way’ & for reminding us that it is often through trials that our faith is refined, if our hearts are open to this process! You are irreplaceable, absolutely amazing & delightful people! JOYful Easter! ✝️🌺

@miaroman9320 3 ай бұрын

Your advice on new parenthood and marriage is SO WISE! Love y’all! 🤟🏼💛🙌🏼

@aureecee3781 3 ай бұрын

I have no children and I loved the ad couldn’t even tell it was refilmed 😂 so thankful for y’all’s transparency it’s hard to come by these days.

@LoveeeeelyM 3 ай бұрын

I laughed and cried with you guys. Thank you for being you 🫶🏻

@elianamankel4573 3 ай бұрын

You guys are a blessing!! 🧡💕

@user-mv2tg8hc8c 3 ай бұрын

It’s true! “if you’re a follower of mine, pick up your cross and follow me”. I tell myself, “Worse things happen”. What you said about trials was helpful Kyle!

@soniaalexa2195 3 ай бұрын

I always keep coming back to you guys! Love all the chapters I've seen along the way. Keep on living the way God keeps on calling you guys to live ☺️

@angelconiglio6496 3 ай бұрын

I love the Bethkes!! That’s awesome. So beautiful to see how you’ve grown as a fam. Y’all are precious

@Ms_808 3 ай бұрын

I wish you both would do a podcast. I would listen, even if it was just once a week. Unedited just real and raw. Love your channel! Your son is the cutest little man!!❤❤

@yuggoof Ай бұрын

Beautiful family, Kyle is such an inspiration! May the Lord bless all of you.

@kaylanfomby7506 3 ай бұрын

Was this video sped up a bit? I slowed it down to .75 and it felt more like their talking pace, but maybe I just haven’t seen a vid in a while and they just talk faster, idk!

@katiehoward7242 3 ай бұрын

I love your marriage! So sweet! 💛

@KyrahStewart 3 ай бұрын

loved this!!! 🥺

@vonawwest 3 ай бұрын

amen loved the realness and rawness of this in every single way God bless y'all

@kathrynmartin8224 3 ай бұрын

Legend is the most beautiful wee baby, he was so good during that video, not a squeak out of him.. God Bless you all. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

@therealsubaekhyang 3 ай бұрын

Tbh ive been fasting a bit from youtubers so I hadnt noticed that you havent posted in a while 😅 however nice to see youre back

@belovedinjesuschrist 3 ай бұрын

Prayers for your cute family.

@grace_841 3 ай бұрын

I LOVED this video!!!! It was so funny, sweet, touching! And filled with wisdom from the Holy Spirit

@FreedomINSurrender 3 ай бұрын

Hi, I have been watching since 2021 when my husband and I married and we have a 19-month-old girl now, and it has been an adventure being parents. My husband always sees you and says; "that's my sister." I agree he resembles you; his freckles, nose, and face shape. Anyway God bless you and your family :)

@FreedomINSurrender 3 ай бұрын

I went through the same thing as you when you said; "how dare you." I would cry my eyes out because my husband would knock out and I could not sleep because of my colicky baby. It took a while for him to finally help me. It is different now since our little girl is bigger now but of course, now it's her rolling over me when she sleeps and she hits my face haha.

@LoveeeeelyM 3 ай бұрын

Definitely make a video on fasting & obedience! 🙌🏼

@DejaDossantos 3 ай бұрын

imagine you and kyle started a podcast 👀👀👀 ❤

@StrongerThanStroke 3 ай бұрын

Such a good video 🙏🏽❤️

@annaingold2115 3 ай бұрын

Always love a little impromptu 1 Peter preaching 🤣❤️

@Mamalegendjen 3 ай бұрын

What!! This got recommended! but I have seen youre testimony that I relate to. We have a 4 year old , Legend !!❤ I only heard it one other time so far ! Our sweet boy is , Legend Aritsos Datu . Congrats on youre baby boy!

@FairlightChristianna1Cor318 2 ай бұрын

Loved the moment of you guys in the car just processing your meltdown. 😅

@gabrielatriveno1630 3 ай бұрын

1:30 legend just YEETS himself out 😂🤣🥹😍😍❤️❤️❤️ the cutest!

@miralatik5100 3 ай бұрын

Wow truly kyle’s gift is preaching and teaching and this blessed me, please do a video about getting in the word and fasting. Also the pure messiness and reactions in these videos blessed my heart and shattered this frustration u feel after viewing social media because everyone tries to be so perfect, u gave beauty to mess ups in the schedule that happen every now and then kyle. Love u both and little legend. Thank you for sharing

@dominiqueingle8598 3 ай бұрын

This is the healthiest vlog/q&a I’ve watched thus far. It could be because my little family and I are in the same season as you and Kyle though lol. I follow a few Christian influencers and I always leave feeling a bit agitated. I think there’s a deep discernment that they’re slapping on the “Christian influencer” title but the ideologies they have, statements they make, and lives they lead seem to contradict that. I am in no way here to say that I know what their lives are like behind closed doors, nor am I judging them. But to listen and see how you and Kyle handle conflict, speak to one another, and the advice you are giving to your followers (us) shows that you honor the Lord and that you are actively growing in your walk.. I absolutely love this.

@LynnzeyLynn 3 ай бұрын

“The dang rocks fell over” took me out 😭🤣🤣🤣 I love y’all 🤍

@kaligilday94 3 ай бұрын

Yes Kyle - a whole video on fasting please!!

@laurenvollmer7 3 ай бұрын

Yes came here to say this!!

@everythingalayna 3 ай бұрын

Kian! Where did you get the dress you are wearing in the beginning half! So beautiful ❤️

@itsrubylove 3 ай бұрын

I loved the jumpsuit, what’s the brand?

@dalefiatoa 23 күн бұрын

Maaaan I miss you Kyle 😭

@Inrosegoldeyes 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been considering Christianity and kian watching your videos the last few years has definitely contributed to my decision❤

@scrubsandjesus 3 ай бұрын

♥️ love this! & praying for the ultimate healing of your eyes. I saw some of your vlogs & I’m sure none of that was easy. God will heal you, keep you, & sustain you through all seasons :)

@Inrosegoldeyes 3 ай бұрын

@@scrubsandjesus thanks got so much it meals a lot 🥹🤍

@ThisisAlexaRose 3 ай бұрын

It will be the best decision of your life. Jesus is IT!!!

@Inrosegoldeyes 3 ай бұрын

@@ThisisAlexaRose learning more everyday!

@Kelseybobian 3 ай бұрын

Omg the preacher mode activated had me 😂🤣😭

@kaitlynianni5027 3 ай бұрын

Love the video ❤❤ are you still swaddling him?

@bellavita3097 2 ай бұрын

If you bring toys and chew toys that L can play with especially while teething when you’re out at restaurants/places, to keep him busy. Babes sleep better on their tummy esp when you can watch them during the day naps.

@jesst1306 3 ай бұрын

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@milar792 3 ай бұрын

you can see in this video that the joy of the Lord is your strength!!

@ayah316 3 ай бұрын

Dying to your flesh fasting in the scriptures is food! 1 to 3 days water fast or start with Intermittent fasting or daniel fast introducing yourself to it with prayer !🙌🕊✨️

@bellavita3097 2 ай бұрын

Legend is so sweet! He wants to learn play go momma. Sorry K lost me at the end.

@bellavita3097 2 ай бұрын

Or if you pump you take turns every other night sleeping while the other parent gets up and can feed the baby.

@Mrs.Butterworth 3 ай бұрын

As someone who has been married for 31 years, I know marriage is never going to be 50/50. That being said, it's not a wife's job to wake a husband up to take care of his child. Kyle, set a buzz alarm on your watch that will go off well before you know that your son will wake up. That way Kian isn't woken up in the morning at all.

@sherbetstraw 3 ай бұрын

I agree kinda but maybe he wakes up at different times each morning

@JacquelineServantess 23 күн бұрын

congrats.i hope he is figured out how to set better boundaries regarding time for both himself to take care of his own basic needs like sleep (?!) but also to of course be a dad and husband which imo is his top priority ministry anyways no?🙏20 hour days is not sustainable. and a church should of all places take measures to protect it's employees. in Jesus' Name & by His blood according to His will amen. 👍