Summary 1. By their fruits 2. By their words 3. By their dressing 4. By the kind of friends they keep 5. By praying especially praying in the Holy Ghost 6. By how they relate with other people especially people under them and people who may not have anything to give them. Remember, people are usually nice to those who pay them. * Watch out how they relate with their bosses, Pastors, leaders etc 7. Time: time also reveals the true character of people

"When you jump up you come down, when you grow up you stay up"- PK

"When you jump up you'll come down but when you grow up you'll stay up". What an intelligent man of God! I thank God for your life Sir.

I love how this is scripturally backed, it shows that truly the Bible is life's manual. God bless you Pastor Kingsley 🙌🏼

Watch out for the following; 1) Their actions 2) Their words 3) Their friends 4) Their dressing 5) Pray 6) Their relationship with others 7) Time... let time tell.

Hmmmm! So profound. Every relationship impacts you, don't just jump in and out of relationships. Give It Time!!!!

Time is the master of deception.... Powerful

God bless you pastor Kingsley.listening to your teaching has been transforming me.Ever since I started keying into your messages,my eyes have been opened to what marriage is.

"when the person eats their meat first..." Pastor talk to me directly 😂😂

Hi Mr & Mrs Kingsley, I have been following you for the past three years and I must confess that your messages are powerful and blessing my marriage.

Thank you pastor for the teaching

Prayer🙏 for me is the highest cos they might pretend in other ways but by prayer your eyes will be open to see who they really are, your spirit will come alive. That's when you will say I feel there's something bad about this person😖 I need to keep off. That's also when you can say I feel there's something good about this person that I can't let go🤭

He that walks with the wise shall be wise. Amen.

Wow👏👏👏 Such a powerful video!!! TIME. -Most people can pretend for a short time but they can't pretend forever. -Time has a way of forcing out people's real intentions. - Time is the master of deception. Thank you so much pastor Kingsley and your wife for continuously labouring to break the relational ignorance of our times. I look forward to meeting you guys one day. You've surely become my parents. So knowledgeable. May GOD continue to enlarge your influence and grow your ministry.

Thank you Pastor!!! You always drop Gems💎💎💎.

“I‘ll die without you.” PK: “You’re not oxygen”😂😂

Thank you God bless you truly helpful

I like ur teaching, I am becoming an addict to this teaching, God bless you sir

I am really impressed

Thanks!

God bless you pastor k for constantly serving us with the best relationship and marriage meal which are mind blowing. I must say that your teaching has always compel me to strive for a Godly live and marriage. Thanks a bunch pastor k

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼we praise God for you Pastor. Very good and clear advice shared, thank you. All the points made were very relevant; tested and proven correct through my personal life experience, even though I was not aware when they were happening. One point I would like to add to is the Time point, in terms of spending time with the person, in person. There are those men who are filled with lust, you would know them by the second point Pastor made, their words. If whilst talking from a distance his talks are mainly based on your looks, your body structure, body parts, e.g. your lips, your curves. Sis, don’t even take it to the level of meeting in person, run right there. As Pastor said, don’t rely on your own understanding and think you can manage the lust of this guy when you are now in front of him. You would be just playing with fire, and that is not what we want as an outcome here, for you to get burnt. Use wisdom all the time. Amen? Thank you Pastor the platform is handed back to you 😂😂🙏🏽

Great revelations. Bread for the eater and seed for the sower. Thanks

Thank you Pastor Kingsley… God always blesses me through your messages❤❤

Oh wow this video is full of wisdom as always. I thank God for people like you in this present age and time. God bless you sir

Thank PK, you are a blessing to this generation. Praying and Time are two factors that has helped me greatly. Praying cannot be overemphasized. God is a lovely father and is invested in our lives.

I am greatful for all this teaching because I was aware of all these things as a younger woman, I have experience alot of experience because I couldn't see what was important. Thank you again your all the wisdom and teaching. Blessings to you and your family.

Thanks so much sir. Great insight

Pastor kay your message was so timely and your wisdom is so profound thank you sir!

I love too much this pastor, he is really committed to his assignment. So much blessed with his preachings. God increaces your knowledges Sir

So profound. Going by these steps, I believe divorce/heartbreaks will be avoided alot. God bless you Sir

Thank you for this message pastor. I appreciate.

@pastor Kingsley. Well taught, thanks pastor for your words of wisdom...may Lord Almighty continually use you in this generation for his honor and glory as you minister to the family

Thank you so much Pastor K,. Great message as always. I always take out alot from you. I wish i heard this 15, 16yrs ago. It is well😊

Pk God bless you for your teachings

THANK YOU SIR YOUR CONTENT IS VERY TIMELY AND TRUTHFUL

😂😂😂 The twerking family got me

For sure all youths should learn b4 pressing the start key.... waaao am30 and know I fill n learned.... motives is my draw linr

This is one of the most important messages I have listened to from PK. It is crucial and precise. If we all embrace the 7 points our relationships & marriages will be very successful!

I'm so blessed by this message 🙏

Thank you so much Pst K, I learnt a lot from this video.

Thanks so much Pastor K, this tips also apply to relationships with people or making friends.

Thank you for teaching, thank you for breaking down God bless you 🙏

Lord help me to do things right. Thank you PK and PM for your teachings. God bless you always with His wisdom.

Prayer work especial praying in the Spirit - even when you are afraid, HS help you out

I will definitely watch this again. It's very helpful.

Thanks

Wow am really bless thank u so much Sir,this will really help me.

Pk everything you said made sense to me. God bless you sir

Thanks sir 🙏 am so blessed today beyond measures this my generation we need help oooo thanks p k

Awesome. Thank you sir. But there is usually no perfect person. What do you say about that sir??

So much wisdom👏🏾🔥

God bless you for this wonderful message sir I have a question pls In a case of distance barrier how will one go about knowing people better I mean two party who wants to starts to date

Wow thank you so much pastor k

Thank you Pastor K

I plan on attending your seminar in Chicago. Looking forward to it

Wonderful teaching God bless you sir

Amazing Content, its truly Blessed Me

whooshhhhh!!!!! Pastor Kingsley. This is so prompt in my life

Am so blessed by this teaching sir..... It's an eye opener... I HV known better now.....

Thank you so much pastor K for this wonderful message.

Thank you Pastor K❤

Thank you PK,

God bless this ministry

Thank you pastor, I am blessed

This is a great teaching. U are forever worth hearing. God bless u real good. 🥰

Always blessed by your messages,thank you very much.

You are very wise Pastor, Wow thank you.

Amazing, Thank you for this Video Pastor K !

I love the 7th point sir "Time". I'm just 2months old in my new place of work and suddenly one of my colleague is already saying he is in love with me and has told his elder brother he has found the one for him and he told me the brother wants to see me. I told him he must be joking in just 2months when I don't even know anything about him, I can't get him to even talk bcos he is so quiet and reserved. I told him I still need some time, Sir pls still advise me on more actions to take thank you.

Good bless you sir

Wow thank you very much Daddy... perfectly said. More Grace Daddy 🔥✨

God bless you sir

This is natural reality, may God bless Pastor K abundantly.

Thank you Sir for this teaching!

It makes sense I learnt a lot

Thanks Daddy. I was blessed.

Thank you ...am really blessed by this.

Thank you very much PK. Great words of advice.

I was so blessed by this teaching. Thank you Pastor K

Thank you pastor K Such a gift to our generation

I have learned from number 7 very well. Time revealed what my mind could never have imagined. Thank you for this , Pastor Kingsley.

this is also applies to all types of relationships.

This is amazing sir, thank you so much for these insights 🙏

God bless you 🙏🏾

I personally can attest to one of these things. I have a female friend who doesn’t like taking corrections even when she’s wrong at the things she says. And when you correct her, she will be squeezing her face. But the worst thing is that she will keep insisting that when she’s doing it saying is „right „ .

Thank you Pst.your teachings are insightful.

This video is so powerful

This is lovely

Love that intro music

Enjoyed every part of this video 🥺thank you,sir.

God bless you Pastor K, u r really a God sent

Amazing. Thanks

Was so blessed..Thank you Pastor k.

wonderful message.i feel blessed

Pk, you are just nailng it. God bless you sir.

I am Blessed. Thank you sir.

Thank you sir 🙏 beautiful content

Plz Pastor, how would one try these points in a distance rlshp? Especially when you’re getting to know someone newly but both of you are in diff states?

Thank you pastor ,... All things I can relate with