Ladies Need To Stop These 10 Things

Ladies Need To Stop These 10 Things | Kingsley Okonkwo

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10 ай бұрын

Join Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo as he speaks to the ladies, he is talking about 10 Right Things Ladies Do At The Wrong TIme.
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@mojiradeaderibigbe7213 10 ай бұрын

Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.

@Dee.nmaaaa 10 ай бұрын

Gloryeee🙌🏽🎊🎉

@Ayimifaithful 10 ай бұрын

Amen

@eunice9574 10 ай бұрын

I hear you sis, we're going to be alright ❤

@adegokeoluwaferanmi1776 10 ай бұрын

@@eunice9574Amen

@dzahbertha9573 10 ай бұрын

Sometimes being single @ 34 seem scary and disappointing but trust me we will be fine. Our most concern should be that we will be focus and dependent on God that we may not loose ourself worths and become miserable at @60 , but rather we put ourselves together in the word and do exploit in other areas of life and at 60 we will not look back and regret 360. At least something to be grateful for and something to be known for. A lasting impact on others. It’s overwhelming sometimes trust me but we should not regret 360.

@ajayitolulope3534 10 ай бұрын

No real MAN that loves you in relationship or courtship will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand

@Ayimifaithful 10 ай бұрын

The Holy Spirit thought me this somedays ago

@pagieshalom5551 10 ай бұрын

This is so true😅

@uzoma_may 10 ай бұрын

Exactly

@ewurabynahowusuah986 10 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@gertrudemensah2607 9 ай бұрын

😂 very true the part that weak me more was when he said you will be fighting and fighting till they pour acid on you and disfigure you. A man that never loved you even when your face was intact how much more when you are disfigured? 😅 am happy I watched the video to the end tho full of wisdom.

@Dee.nmaaaa 10 ай бұрын

I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤

@ahoneveda2191 10 ай бұрын

😂

@vuyokazindungane4270 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂most of us women believe that we can make a man love us with prayers

@lilianifebueme2171 10 ай бұрын

😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃

@FavourChidinma1 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@eunice9574 10 ай бұрын

😂 the biggest testimony is "what I used today I don't do it again"

@paulzerina 9 ай бұрын

SUMMARY: 1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change. 2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality). 3. Wild sex (sex before marriage). 4. Leaving your church for his. 5. Changing your career path or location because of him. 6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy. 7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage. 8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself. 9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage. 10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship. Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤

@virginiechristinemangaonan3012 9 ай бұрын

Thanks to you

@aoiaaon 10 ай бұрын

Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂

@ChefPrudy 10 ай бұрын

Pk destroyed all tables 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@nwaokikegrace 10 ай бұрын

😂

@helenfanuku9112 10 ай бұрын

You're right

@nca4794 10 ай бұрын

I would say homeless, not hopeless.

@AnnieKatenje 10 ай бұрын

Words🔥

@bvgreyseun3347 10 ай бұрын

I'm almost 40 yet single and significant. Hopefully I'll get married according to God's original plan soon🙏 Thanks Ps Kingsley

@eunice9574 10 ай бұрын

Soon, God is faithful my sister

@ogeobianuju 10 ай бұрын

AMEN

@Canie-chronicle24 10 ай бұрын

Amen this year will not come to an end without us meeting our significant others in Jesus name amen

@SandraOkafor-rc6xh 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@BashB_1 10 ай бұрын

I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 10 ай бұрын

Some virgins were foolish

@chiamakaobodozie2741 10 ай бұрын

Thank you, sir. I've added to my knowledge bank. I now have things to what out for. God bless you, sir. I'll be expecting the next video.

@jeniffernjerinjoroge1261 10 ай бұрын

This is an eye opener...much love from Kenya

@helenfanuku9112 10 ай бұрын

Asked that again

@gabriellaagyarko4154 10 ай бұрын

This hits so hard yet so factual. The good people in life seem to get the short end of the stick often than not but I guess life isn’t created for us to be sorrowful all time

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 10 ай бұрын

Women who married good men are still struggling, yet some women want to marry a man who doesnt want them. 😢😢😢😢😢

@carolinenjoroge1195 10 ай бұрын

Imagine that

@utibe-chantal 10 ай бұрын

That's so sad May God help us ladies and give us wisdom

@ghanaina12 10 ай бұрын

May the Lord dorect our paths!

@paulzerina 9 ай бұрын

It's a serious matter!

@ghanaina12 10 ай бұрын

Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.

@oluwatobiayomide389 8 ай бұрын

LADIES SHOULD STOP BEING NAIVE TOO. CHOOSE TO HONOUR GOD!

@everything_sports_highlight 10 ай бұрын

10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO) 1) Praying for a man that is not interested you, doesn't know you or praying for God to change their will for you. 2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship or courtship or dating. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Do or die is not in relationship but in marriage. 3) Wild sex or sex in relationship or before marriage 4) Following him to his church while dating 5) Giving him your money or buying properties together while dating 6) Changing your career path or location for a man you not yet married to 7) Submitting your life to him when you are not yet married to him. wife should submit to husband and not men 8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating 9) Accepting every bad things while dating or ignoring the red flags or making excuses for him while in relationship 10) Fighting for love in dating or relationship

@everything_sports_highlight 10 ай бұрын

SUMMARY 10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO) 1) Praying for a man that is not interested you 2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship 3) Having sex in relationship or before marriage 4) Following him to his church while dating 5) Buying properties together while dating 6) Changing your career path or location for him while dating 7) Submitting your life to him while dating 8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating 9) Accepting every bad things while dating 10)Fighting for love in dating or relationship

@VeeveeK 10 ай бұрын

Nice of you to share.

@ifylovelyn9869 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

@engelnkosi7002 9 ай бұрын

Thank you

@abigailojieh 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing again.

@paulineelotowa5791 8 ай бұрын

I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K

@michaelaudioh4659 10 ай бұрын

I can't even pray for any guy. God thank you for not answering my prayer and opening my eyes quite early, I for don see shege by now

@chelseamawusi6415 10 ай бұрын

PK really be making me laugh today 😂......... "now you're jobless, loveless and hopeless"😂😂......Deep, real stuff here. Thank you Pastor

@Dee.nmaaaa 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 she lost on every side😂😭

@Beautebysb 10 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@oyinao3600 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@OUMOUKONE-kg9in 10 ай бұрын

I learnt this one with you, sir. Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.

@Tomiwa101 9 ай бұрын

Same thing goes for men who spend on their girlfriends.

@chiomamadueke5618 8 ай бұрын

🤣I'm speechless@@Tomiwa101 .

@Gadgetibles 10 ай бұрын

It means see finish 😁 oyinbo is familiarity breeds contempt

@Ebeauty57 10 ай бұрын

I really couldn’t keep a straight face while watching this video. Pastor Kingsley is too funny 😂

@user-ow4fu4cg3z 7 ай бұрын

Wow this is awesome I'm a victim of almost all but with this now I must be a change person God bless you man of God 🙏

@crissoa 10 ай бұрын

I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life. You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?

@abigailojieh 9 ай бұрын

No real man that loves you will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand. Absolutely true👌 So insightful and informative. Thank you PK sir. I enjoy listening to you and I have learnt so so much from your teachings. I know better, thanks to your so many teachings I have listened to.

@lucialulembo8973 10 ай бұрын

This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship

@GiftyDavid-vs9vf 10 ай бұрын

God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele

@utibe-chantal 10 ай бұрын

I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check. And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions

@ijenkem7222 10 ай бұрын

Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .

@KimG777 10 ай бұрын

Yes sir. If there are women who are fighting for their man before marriage, then the winner is still the loser 🙌🏽

@samuelgodbless9310 10 ай бұрын

When you have an IDOL in your heart you already set yourself up for disaster

@business-clinicafrica 6 ай бұрын

A powerful marriage lesson for all indeed.

@princessmazumba9047 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this !!!

@sarahjoseph2747 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

@bariwudumloore7918 10 ай бұрын

Thank you PK

@imuetinyanosayande924 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..."what can separate me from the love of Bode" 😂😂😂😂😂😂....my ribs

@emareesther3341 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@zinnyafams7938 9 ай бұрын

Pastor K 😂😂😂 Thank you for always giving value and making it very fun at the same time🙌

@adejumoadebisi5567 10 ай бұрын

Thanks pastor

@anietieesema1002 10 ай бұрын

This blessed me even as a guy. Thank you for sharing sir. More grace and glory.

@onaziijosi2102 10 ай бұрын

Very beautiful piece thanks sir

@EkezieLucaschiamaka 10 ай бұрын

You are a blessing sir 🙏

@ritakane2010 10 ай бұрын

Great job PK👍, more grace 🙏

@Susanna_Adeyemi 10 ай бұрын

God bless you Sir 🙏

@gabrielchristiana7031 10 ай бұрын

Thank you sir

@DeborahUbeng 10 ай бұрын

God bless you pastor k...

@dsocialchanger 10 ай бұрын

thank you PK

@joyonyejebolise9319 10 ай бұрын

Thank you pastor k

@Miz_Gentle_Concepts 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much sir... God bless you 💯

@kekeretrixie4419 10 ай бұрын

All of these point seems to be too late already in my life....I am already a victim of all the points...I am heart broken and depressed...my family has talked to move on but everyday is a nightmare even as I pretend to be moving on......😪😪I don't even know what to do. But thank you sir....for these points.

@maryamkazy2896 10 ай бұрын

Take your pains and heart break to the Lord, He will help you, He will carry you, support you and nurture you back to life, He’ll take away your shame and cloth you with a double portion of honor ❤

@ella_chysom 10 ай бұрын

You will heal….you will, Abba takes care of His Baby girls

@business-clinicafrica 6 ай бұрын

@@maryamkazy2896 It is never too late when there is life

@precious4370 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor 🙏

@FavourChidinma1 9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for this Pastor K ❤

@pricakebaabetswe6500 9 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this! Thank you

@veraobafemi1235 9 ай бұрын

Thank you sir for this

@nzimayenguelandrydubois4858 10 ай бұрын

Thank GOD for your life Pastor K

@siphathiswendlovu 10 ай бұрын

Wow informative indeed.Thank you pastor K

@teminiobe4163 9 ай бұрын

This blessed me! Thank you sir!

@happinesschidinma641 9 ай бұрын

Thanks pastor K for this insight

@preciousglory6735 10 ай бұрын

Thank you sir ✍️

@user-lj1bx4lc1h 9 ай бұрын

Thanks pastor k

@aninjanet9024 9 ай бұрын

God bless you pastor

@oyekunleoyeyinka7470 10 ай бұрын

Great points. Thank you sir. All points are correct.

@ajibadedorcas6968 3 күн бұрын

Thank you, Sir

@promisechinecherem-dz4lx 10 ай бұрын

Thank you sir ✨🙏

@mary-theresaogbuakanne7787 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, PK for this timely information.

@mandynwosu1328 10 ай бұрын

Powerful message!!! Thank you sir.

@PhiriPortia04 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much pastor🙏

@ajayitolulope3534 10 ай бұрын

Many thanks for sharing Pastor

@aluboflorence9294 10 ай бұрын

Wowwww I'm humbled

@florencekumah6203 9 ай бұрын

God richly bless you PK🎉

@blessing2457 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor

@joygifty8450 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley😊

@maureentina5425 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. This came at the right time . This was tailored for me

@nehemilia5033 10 ай бұрын

Very powerful message. Thank you

@wilhelminaasumah9597 10 ай бұрын

God help us to love ourselves enough, to allow ourselves to be loved 🤍🙏🏼

@omobudeprecious1075 10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊 so much sir I really enjoy this teaching

@belindahmuripu7565 10 ай бұрын

Thank you PK,very informative & insightful... awesome 👏

@lovethobinauju-lh3fk 6 ай бұрын

Thanks sir,i have learn alot

@VivianFosuaAntwi-Mensah-bc9xx 10 ай бұрын

Pastor K. Thank you for this ❤️

@celinepresh 8 ай бұрын

Thank you sir 🙌😢❤

@georginaanum7612 10 ай бұрын

Thank God i chanced on this at the right time. God bless you for letting me know

@milisweetie9238 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so very much,, for this talk Following for more enlightenment 🎉

@princessazuka5603 10 ай бұрын

I so wish they would hear!! these points are so valid and realistic in our society now.

@mborongbrendajaibe2884 10 ай бұрын

Timely message for us young ladies. Thank you Sir

@nhouston7 10 ай бұрын

Excellent teaching. Thank you!

@Lola-anointed 9 ай бұрын

Thank youbso much.🔥🔥🔥🔥

@nokwethembanxumalo910 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Holy Spirit

@livebyGodslove123 9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much sir, may God bless you

@kode577 9 ай бұрын

Thanks to God for this message I come across

@user-sr3qc3wp6u 2 ай бұрын

Thank you sire for the teachings 🙏

@Ifenkilipro 9 ай бұрын

Thank you sir 🙏 I actually needed this

@FavourChidinma1 10 ай бұрын

Thanks God for ur life PK 🙏

@Ayimifaithful 10 ай бұрын

This is for me right there

@chiamakaenansofor4660 10 ай бұрын

I learnt frrom this. Thank you Pastor

@felnluvwithyou505 10 ай бұрын

10 solid points.

@Debbie-speaks-value 9 ай бұрын

I am super blessed by this words

@Arialoveth 10 ай бұрын

Thank you pastor k. You are indeed the best

@jules1307 9 ай бұрын

Thank you very much Pastor Kingsley for this teaching!

@edidiongbassey9165 10 ай бұрын

I need to save this

@sunshinechannel1992 9 ай бұрын

Im whole with this topic

@michelleadebiyi2341 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely loved these points😂👏🏾👏🏾

@emefactorhonu5544 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Daddy, we are grateful please

@atoneesther8321 9 ай бұрын

Very great points there. Thank you so much pastor K. I've learned a lot 🎉

@blessinglufras7260 10 ай бұрын

Powerful ❤❤❤❤

@user-kk2cj2hk9p 9 ай бұрын

Wow!!! This blessed me a whole lot. God bless you,Sir.

@chiiinazaa 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 Your sense of humor is top notch sir

@abimboladara1005 10 ай бұрын

Hmmmm I totally agree even though I did not even consider them before. Interesting perspective. Thank you