Guys okay so let me tell you all what i learned. I learned that Dylan is right. We need to be fucking honest with what happened. Don’t worry about your sp or anyone else in your reality. What i have learned to do to really shift myself is to tell myself “disengage” disengage from the bs disengage from the thoughts disengage from the negativity in your life and realllly grasp that YOU played a part in this. It takes TWO to tango. When Dylan said “you guys need to be honest about what you did to the relationship to cause it to fail” it hit me so hard man. I recognized i was doing surface level shit. I was out here just kinda telling myself “ugh imma believe in myself but i just wish i had my gf back” not even realizing that I literally destroyed that relationship and every relationship i was ever in because for so long i was unwilling to actually deal with MYSELF. Like Dylan says “wherever you go YOU GO” getting honest is this: 1. What am I currently thinking and entertaining in my mind? 2. What am i avoiding within myself that i know i need to change that I’m either unwilling too or afraid to change or avoiding. 3. What behaviors do i have that are destructive and create negativity within my reality? 4. What old stories do i need to let go of? 5. Am I ACTUALLY prioritizing myself or am i just tricking myself and lying to myself? 6. How am i spending my time? Am I constantly talking about my problems to everyone? Am i stalking my person? Am I listening to music that triggers my sadness and depression? Am i reading text messages from the past over and over again? Am i not taking care of my responsibilities? 7. Am i spiraling out and not doing anything about it? 8. Am i waiting for another video from dylan instead of taking what he has said in previous videos and actually applying it? 9. Am i finding excuses for why things wont change? 10. Am I actually working on my self concept? All these things matter. Dylan is a COACH he can give us the play but he can’t play the game for us it’s up to us to actually to do what he says. Remember when thoughts pop up ir behaviors or even if your sp does something remember “disengage” take a step back check yourself and go do something empowering. Ik how you guys feels its kinda like “damn i wanna kinda just go peak and check or i kinda wanna just think about my problems” and it’s tempting but realize thats not gonna get you anywhere. If we focus on those ten questions and get completely caught up in doing those then changes will occur. Disengage guys!! Focus on you!!! Bc you guys matter be the change fuck anything that is not what you want. And also sometimes you gotta be like “shit this feels difficult this feels hard but ik if i can break through this then its smooth sailing from here” Change yourself stop trying to change anyone else. Why do you think we all love dylan and respect dylan so much? It’s bc he fucking loves and respects himself its a feeling state that effortlessly manifest through him and we all pick up on it. So imagine if you did the same thing actually became a completely new person completely disengaged with the old you think about that for a second. You guys got this and shout out to the ones growing from this content and for the ones who are new or are still struggling YOU CAN DO IT!!!! TRUST TRUST TRUST BELIEVE FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAYS!!!

"And maybe you forgot who I was but I'm gonna remind you by not giving a fuck" YESSSSSSSS 😩👏🏾👏🏾❤

Work on yourself. Every SP will reflect your SC. You create the emotion of love, no one can just reach in their pocket and hand u some love lol it’s all you!

Hey Dylan, we had coaching back in January and I just wanted to let you know SP and I are back in contact and he's really changed. You helped me let go of the old story. I still want to watch all of your videos to support you haha. Thank you so much 💕🌷

I attracted my SP back, got rid of third party & we spent Valentines weekend together. However, he has since gone cold but tbh I don’t want that version of him anyways.. who is uncertain about me & our relationship & so I’m back to focusing on my self concept to get the change/person that I deserve to show up for me in my life. I won’t lie, some days I struggle more with this, but I am persisting in my knowing that I’m worthy of a healthy, loving relationship & to be chosen without hesitation every time ❤️

I can’t make this up I was spiraling out of control watching zodiac videos trying to figure my Scorpio out and your video pops up as if you were talking to me directly you’re my Guardian Angel this has stamped it. I’m going clean my bathroom and then workout and. Love on me

This is f*cking amazing! Since I am watching Dylan I stopped stalking my ex bf on social media, he has a new girlfriend but I just stopped and I am feeling so good about myself. I do not even care about them. I completely ignore him and he can do whatever he wants to, I am not bothered by his actions anymore. I finally feel like I am being my "old self" again, focusing on college and manifesting stuff which I really desire. I made 280 dollars in two days with my new job and even received some extra money for New Years from my client. I came to realization that my main manifestation was to "stop wanting to manifest my ex" and to feel like I did before meeting him, so here I am, manifested exactly what I wanted to! But I am also pretty shocked by how many years I wasted on my ex!! It had to happen so I can be free.

Just last night I sat and really got to the bottom of my patterns of behavior. I triggered the hell out of myself. I realized that my entire life I’ve felt a deep need to “prove” that I’m worth the trouble of sticking around. So, I’d go above and beyond and give beyond my means and ultimately end up resentful which obviously created a terrible relationship (s) Where I go from this, I don’t know, but now that it’s identified a change can be made.

" oh u not ready for a relationship right now? That's funny, cuz anyone who hangs out long enough with me asks me for a relationship". 😭💀 FACTSZ! And u can use the word "karen". I'm down for itt!!!

🗣THE DADDY HAT STAYS ON

Karen, I don’t care. 😂😂😂 I love it!!!

“I don’t care. This is a brand new moment.” Absolutely love this approach ❤️ I feel like one major thing I’ve learnt from you is to lovingly hold myself accountable. Videos like this feel like being lovingly held accountable and I really appreciate it.

I’ve found that these pep talks are really helpful when you get passionate, Dylan that passion helps fuel and let things sink in. I feel fucking awesome. I feel rich. I feel powerful. This is exactly what I needed, thank you. Love you!

I had a lot of 'hate' towards all men because of a lifetime of abuse and obviously shit tons of negative beliefs from my experiences and society etc. With all the work I've been doing and reprogramming those beliefs I realized that when you start affirming the opposite of the old negative beliefs my subconscious will actually come up of examples of the positive whether in relation to me or others. We just need to shift focus and do a lot of letting go and forgiveness. I trust this helps someone. 🙏✨🤗💖

oh, i get it now. the strongest version of me. become obsessed with the best version of me.

SP gave me some news that didn’t align with my end. I let myself cry for half a day… I did some chores between. Very few victimhood statements came up-and I pushed those out; nope. I knew it was old stuff but that my body needed to express it-so I honored my emotions. It was SP related. I’m done but I know it’s okay because it’s done. I have a new SP that showed up too and I’m so open to that and so is he. I’m making a ton of plans with friends and they also reached out to me to make plans. This weekend is going to be lit. I have a hot new red top and mama is ready to dance in red. New SP and I are going slow but at our pace. I love this so much. One thing that has helped has to make a list of positive things others have said. I check that when I’m in a slump.

Arguably the best 28 minutes on youtube.

Woke up from a awful nightmare where SP cheated on me and left me for someone else. Woke up upset for literally 5 seconds and could feel a downward spiral coming on, then I remembered all of Dylan's teachings and I was like ohh hell no my man doesn't cheat on me and I laughed to myself and I wrote out a list of affirmations about how good he treats me and how he shows up for me everyday. Here we are all good and happy today. In the past if that had of happened I'd of acted weird, started arguments and been a big drama queen towards my man. Here I am living the best version of myself, knowing my worth and telling the BS thoughts ohhh no I think not!! Thank you so much Dylan you angel!! 💖💖💖

Ever since I took my power back as a conscious creator. I can’t remember the last time I cried. And I know it’s normal but to me it’s like WOW because I was a very emotional person. But now I know better. I don’t let things trigger me and I don’t take things personally at all. I know my worth and value in all places of life … SP, health and Money.

I’ve been listening to your self-concept: limiting belief tape every night for 2 weeks, dropping all of my focus & energy on my SP, focusing on me & for the first time “letting go” and being unbothered finally clicked 💡last week I had the most fun I’ve had in a WHILE I’m talking day after day with friends, I just had fun, was invited & included and was so confident in myself. I didn’t shy away or hide like I usually do. I can’t wait for what’s to come because I know it’ll just get better & better! Thank you 💕

Feeling amazing yet getting triggered because reality isn't what you want is a thing I have been moving through, also. I would literally say "What would Dylan tell me?" And I would hear you say "You're triggered, STOP GIVING AF and go feel better!" 😂 I love that you addressed this directly, thank you!

This is sooo True!ive been doing what u say Dylan and its like magic, from booty call to spending quality time and consistency in communication! Im soo happy to see that i can actualy change my own reality

When I started eating enough meat every day I don't even remember what anxiety feels like. The tapes helped a lot too as it makes being healthy more effortless.

I’m in a happy relationship thanks to your videos Dylan. I keep doubting myself however and I’ve come back to regain my confidence

Honestly this man is helping me so much rn - I literally binge watched so many of his videos yesterday and the penny FINALLY dropped - and I just started listening to the limitless love overnight meditation 🧘‍♀️ already this morning I feel so much happier, stable and optimistic - definitely continuing for 21 days 🙏❤

Fuckkkk mate that was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 my favourite video of yours to date and the wake up call I’ve bloody needed. I’ve been SO low since Sunday and now feel completely revitalised. What a gem 💎

I’m the image of Pinhead right now. You have literally hit the nail on the head with everything Dylan. The wake up call a lot of us needed 👸🏻

Been really taking this self concept seriously not just for sp but mainly for me it will make the ride of life more smooth learning so much more everyday this is so fun and exciting for me! I love learning and love learning how to love me and find my own worth feels so good!!

This was an amazing video! I really needed that direct talking to! Thank you so much Dylan

Your consistency is giving me so much life #purrrr I’m oiled up!!😅

dylan ur literally so fun i love this needed to hear this so much

I've listened to this video twice today, really needed and thank you 😊

EXCELLENT!! You've outdone yourself here!! I'll be listening to this multiple times. Thank you!!!

D!! SETTIN it right with this!!! So on point.. literally the way you Dylan, explain this is so perfectly

How do you always deliver the perfect content at the right time !❤️❤️❤️

I'm here for all of it! I needed this thank you so much. I appreciate the honesty and bluntness...

I just found your channel from a discussion on another channel about self concept coaching. I realized I still have some old story lines. Will be working through that and listen to you preach! I love your personality

I just love listening to you… I listen to you every day ❤️🙏🏼

You are the best dylan! The absolute best. I am so grateful that I came across your channel because It is so life changing❤ I genuinely feel like you are my gaurdian angel❤❤❤

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate Dylan’s savage attitude lately!!! Yes king 👑

Thank you 🙏 Dylan I recently let go of people because they didn’t recognized my worth but in the end it wasn’t about them, it was about me not recognizing my worth. I’m happy that I’m not wasting time and was able to walk away and love myself. Btw, this video came just in time and I know I am loved, beautiful and worth so much in life.

I honestly love your delivery of your messages. you are truly saving lives and def improving the quality of all who listen to you I'm improving my life and mindset one vid at a time. Happy Easter to all ❤🎉

LOVE U!!!GM SWEETIE ,totally replaying this. If you forget THIS IS a perfect reminder. LOVR LOVE LOVE YESSSSS

Oh my God how I needed you today. And don’t worry about the roasting sometimes we need to hear that it may not be fun or cool at the moment but it sinks in all day and it makes you think what you are worth and what you will put up with in your life. I love you Dylan

Massive hell yeah to this vid- thanks Dylan!

Thank you so much Dylan for all your work. This is what I needed to hear right now 💕💕

And what you say is always said with love you can feel that that’s my fav part of listening to you

I totally feel you when you said you didn’t even like saying you’re a failure for example sake. Our words are powerful. I am so careful too.

Yes! God Bless You 🙌 Thank you 🙏 You are VERY GOOD, and I appreciate you sharing your wisdom

Love you so much, Dylan! Keep up the good work! Love and light little brother (I’m old) 💕

Omg I really needed to see this like this was amazing it was like a light bulb just turned on for me wow!!! Thank you for this video!!

Dylan you are such a light! 💖 Keep shining ✨💫✨💫

You know ever since I've found your channel a week ago. My mindset has been slowly changing every day. I'm focusing on improving self-care and making sure that my mental and spiritual body is feeling up to bat. I'm slowly starting to understand more things that are happening within my life. No longer allowing stress to burden me, thank you so much for posting these videos and allowing people to change themselves for the better.

The best teaching approach ever to ourselves ! The best coach ever! 🙏✨❤️ thank you Dylan

PERIODDDDDD hold us accountable !!! Slay

This hit me like a ton of bricks. Everything you said is true. It was so hard for me to stop focusing on the thing! Thank you I am going to listen to it over and over again.

Dylan... loving your wisdom! This message was meant for me!

You’ve changed my life 😍😍😍

I appreciate your roastings! Sometimes we really need that tough love to make us snap tf out of the negative thoughts and focus on ourselves and self love. Thank you so much, love your videos ❤️

Definitely needed this video and this roasting! Please never stop roasting us out of love! 💞✨ We've got this guys! xx

Hi Dylan, I’m kind of new to your Channel , and really resonate with your approach of creating our desired relationships& reality. That you emphasize a lot on self concept, self value, confidence, inner stability, which is really the sustainable way to live the life we want. When it comes to self-value, worth and confidence in manifesting a relationship, I really hope you could share more of the fundamental ways and perceptions on building that strong sense of self value/worth and confidence. How we are able to believe in ourselves fearlessly and shamelessly regardless everything the world has told us. I think this will be really helpful for so many people if you could share that. You are really the kindest and most genuine coach. Thank you very much for your content.

So glad I found your channel. It's like you talking to me and I like the way you communicate! Keep going🙂

Wonderful words of empowerment and encouragement, thank you 🙏🏽

Lot’s of love and gratitude to you Dylan ❤️ ❤️ from Finland & Holland 🇫🇮🇳🇱

Thank you! I’m building up myself again after going through my depression and be accountable for myself. ❤

Whoa. Another video?You are killin it this week😀. Thank you Dylan

I have only reached that first part where u were warning us n just thought of commenting becos obe other video I saw u were hesitant in making available since u thought it had cussing in it but I didn't notice any at all. Maybe the content was soooo good that I was totally invested in it or the way u speak is very sweet n that cuss word got drowned in ur sweetness. Eitherway thank u soooo very much for ur videos. I looooove listening to them n I xan feel the shift in my thoughts

Dylan is our most trusted and loving friend and family member. I just don't need anybody else I have Dylan's pep talk.

Amazing video. Really helpful. Really hit home. Thank you.

He's caffeinated tonight! On fire! This lecture is badass!

SO HERE FOR THIS!! the energy we need dylan when u come for our necks like this it’s amazing you knock so much damn sense into us!!! periodtttt 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

“General sense of stability”, most important message I ever heard regarding feeling good within myself👏

22:32 Gosh, this video kept popping up in my recommendations and I was busy doing other stuff but when I noticed that I just keep seeing it every time, finally clicked on it and took the time to watch it, and gosh, I mean, I already knew this, that my thoughts bring up my reality, but I had gone down a spiral today. It was nice to listen to Dylan talk about this again. He's really like your best friend giving you the reminders and pep talk you need! Taking notes for me to go back to: 18:35 - 20:08 Exactly what I needed to hear today

Just want to say thank you, this spoke to deep. Really appreciate you!!!!!!

I will be the change, cuz Sp won’t change it’s the only way. Thanks Dylan!

Thank you Dylan, Love you so much!!! I think I kind of shifting from obsessing with my SP to you, I literally watched your video several times a day even when I am running on treadmill I watch your videos.

I love this video Dylan!!!! It really clicked today. I've heard these concepts before but listening you I felt the change in my self concept. I get it!!! Thank you.

This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Word for word. I’m almost two weeks into your affirmation tapes. I watch your videos everyday. Everything was going great until yesterday night, which was when everything started to make sense with regards to my low self-concept, high resistance and overall bad attitude towards receiving the things I actually want from life. It’s definitely gonna be challenging to overcome these beliefs which I have conditioned myself to believe for 20 years of my life, but I’m fully committed to changing myself and holding myself completely accountable to give myself the life that I deserve- filled with love, happiness and joy.

Great video and advice. Thanks @DylanJames. Keep them coming. Bc u really are helping. ♥️. Back to my comment... "Why are we getting so mentally fd up about someone not knowing our worth in our life" Right that part. !!! 💅🏽.

I love how you just say exactly what it is and it can tend to sound mean , but you back it up with its ok it's human nature so kindly 😆

a techniques video from you would be highly appreciated. yeah, sure some creators have videos on that specific topic but i can't sit there, hold onto every word they say AND apply it like i can with you lmao. everything about you and your energy keeps me accountable, relaxed and motivated. nobody, and i mean nobody is doing it like you. best in the game period.

I love listening to your Affirmation Rampage while I'm out driving doing Door Dash. Also theres another short one you have I forget what its called that I also listen to and repeat as I am driving.

I love this energyyyyy! I felt like I was at my lowest point the beginning of this week and your daily videos have comfort me soo much. The way you hold us accountable is A1

saving this when I need to remind myself who tf I am haha.. love you dylan! 👏 Bravo to you for having the patience to address ppl still stuck in the lower vibrations when you’re delivering such life changing advice. PS you never need to justify your choice of language etc.. this is YOUR channel & we’re lucky to have you 💯

I mean I can’t even speak I M so floored of your words!!! You’re a damn genius beautifully manifested by all of us to help us be the most amazing strong confident secure versions of ourselves!❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼 I am everything I want! Love you Dylan!

Thankyou. It has taken a fair few vids to start to get this. As my self concept is changing I have come up the the notion that, in quiet times, I can choose between. beautiful memories of the past or finding something nice to wonderful in the moment or plans for my future. Always in the positive. Picking one of these seems to place me back into pleasantly enjoying my life. Life is such a gift, thankyou for helping me get back there. 💗

This is my prep talk before I start my day. ✅

Awww..i love ur hoodie..❤️ U look even more glowed up..😍 Love this video..it came up at midnight as per our timezone..so it's the 1st thing i watched in the morning.. Such an amazing start for the day with this one! 😇❤️

Wow, your intention for this video really worked because you have awoken something deep within and slapped me back into reality! Thank you! I really needed that!

You are changing my wholeeeeee mood. I was so depressed this week due to circumstances with SP’S and jumping back to my old shitty self concept but now I feel sooooo excited and at peace with myself. Can’t wait for all I will create 😍

Omg this is one of my favorite videos that you have ever posted! I am so so so glad you are posting this much! :) Watched it twice back to back -____-

so love this...i am glad i switched this on this morning...:)

Beyond external movement that I've seen incrementally, the very best is actually feeling the shift in me!! I am actually becoming the woman in the "end state." I see it and feel it! This has been the most exciting, powerful, and freeing feeling I've experienced. Thanks Dylan! 🥰💖😝

Thank you!! 👏 I don't like that narrative is out there. There are good people seeking what you seek. The negative mindset gets you no where. I know that I am stable (I do get triggered but I persist) and I will get everything I desire ✨

I literally cried I wish I could hug u ......this vdo is spot on and I really needed it at this very moment....weekends are so damn triggering but I end up doing the same mistake over and over I.e chasing someone who's not worth my love and attention....ur are so right dylan that we need to stop accepting less than we deserved and now I feel so much better .....I was really thrown off with whatever I experienced in 3d and rolled back into the old story but this vdo came as an eye opener....Dylan never ever think that your vdos are repeatative because every time u release a new vdo it does help someone in some or the other way regardless of the fact u have repeated the same stuff millions of times in your old vdos.....thank you so much...keep helping people....you're a gem 💎 and a great human being 🙏

Getting roasted / being scolded by Zaddy Dylan is kinda something we are all beginning to love and wish for!!!! 🖤⚡️

Thank you so much for making this video!!!

I think this was your best video yet

I’m going to be so selfish but I need a daily dose of Dylan er’ day!! Although I know you knew to replenish yourself 💙 and you need time to yourself. I appreciate you @ Dylan 💙

I didn’t find this harsh at all. It’s absolutely true. It took me months to truly understand this all. I’m still learning but it’s enjoyable and results happen in so many different ways through other people. Just recognizing that. Takes focus ❤️ what I want/desire will materialize.