Neil Strauss: The Uncomfortable Truth About Relationships

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8 жыл бұрын

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Neil Strauss is the author of the New York Times bestsellersThe Game, Rules of the Game, Emergency, and Everyone Loves You When You’re Dead and The Truth, An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships
He is also the co-author of three other New York Times bestsellers - Jenna Jameson’s How to Make Love Like a Porn Star, Mötley Crüe’s The Dirt and Marilyn Manson’s The Long Hard Road out of Hell. A writer for Rolling Stone, Strauss lives in Los Angeles.
Key Points
1. Understand how to Gauge Feedback
Life will often give you feedback about how you are doing across various areas. You may find yourself repeating the same patterns, getting into the same type of relationships, or making the same mistakes. Whatever the case, if you want to make a change you have to gauge feedback.
You have to look at the patterns in your life and discover what lesson they are trying to teach you. What does it say about you and your life that you are constantly dating the same type of girl and falling into the traps of “project dating”? What can you learn from the fact that you are constantly losing jobs after a few months?
Take a cold hard, honest look at your life and look at what the feedback is telling you and then change accordingly.
2. Your Level of Self Esteem will Equal the Level of Your Relationships
Have you ever heard the phrase opposites attract?
Well that’s bull shit. Like attracts like, and if you are finding yourself getting into relationships with women where you are both in an unhealthy emotional relationship, odds are, your own self esteem is lacking.
If you want to attract better women, first become better yourself and change what you accept from others and from yourself. If you have low self esteem you will never be able to attract a woman with high self esteem, and if you have high self esteem, you will never get sucked into a toxic relationships with a woman who has low self esteem.
3. Finding Your Passion is Simple
If you want to find your purpose, and passion, do stuff you love.
That’s it. If you love doing something, then keep doing it, don’t worry about whether it’s your real purpose or whether you should change careers to follow the money, simply do things that you love doing and you will never fail.
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@drmedwuast
@drmedwuast 7 жыл бұрын
starts at 1:15
@loannassibou5687
@loannassibou5687 6 жыл бұрын
drmedwuast i
@LyubomirLalovMulti
@LyubomirLalovMulti 6 жыл бұрын
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@maryelincatire
@maryelincatire 6 жыл бұрын
Neil strauss the truth an uncomfortable book about relationships.This was great, I have been researching "pick up any girl book" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Diyamma Magnify Manukau - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my brother in law got cool success with it.
@ABoyCalledRic
@ABoyCalledRic 8 жыл бұрын
So many gems in this, thank you!
@flygirl2172
@flygirl2172 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for interviewing Neil Strauss...
@hansolzy
@hansolzy 7 жыл бұрын
Great interview!! I'm loving the book lol
@RayRed28
@RayRed28 7 жыл бұрын
wow! Too many gems!!
@theredninja2817
@theredninja2817 4 жыл бұрын
I love studying stuff like this
@josevela2943
@josevela2943 Жыл бұрын
Great interview. Being 50 and hearing this makes me reflect hard. Woe
@francoishamel327
@francoishamel327 7 жыл бұрын
My chilhood was the complete opposite of neediness. My sister was sick so my parents took care of her and I learned to take care of myself. That made me an avoidant personnality type in Relationships. Basically, instead of needing someone, as soon as I get too close to a girl, I find a random reason to stop seeing her (ie, shes not the one)
@LouStoriale
@LouStoriale 7 жыл бұрын
Like a Seinfeld episode.
@MarkKap
@MarkKap 8 жыл бұрын
Neil is awesome, thanks
@johannschwarzbach1425
@johannschwarzbach1425 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! Great Podcast. You gained another subscriber. Q: What are these "deep intenses" Niels talk about? When Niels talk about crying on the floor, how does he recommend to solve deep inner blocks? (Besides group therapie)
@skadvm1
@skadvm1 7 жыл бұрын
he offers intensives to people who are a part of his stylelife community
@dvmn1
@dvmn1 8 жыл бұрын
Wow, Neil Strauss. Cool.
@lawrencemckeon6802
@lawrencemckeon6802 3 жыл бұрын
"Do shit you enjoy." Yup. And so true, what you did when you were 12 was uncorrupted. Me, it was tennis and classical guitar. Swimming and biking. Climbing shit, trees and hills.
@brianmayer8415
@brianmayer8415 8 жыл бұрын
Holy Shit Neil. I've always enjoyed all of Neil Strauss's stuff because he thinks so much more above more than just dating and I'm getting through a very tough breakup recently. All I have to say after listening to this is WOW. I feel so much better. No way to even describe how helpful this talk was and the angles he looks at the world and the way it completely connects and hits home. Thanks for posting the content!
@abemurray2407
@abemurray2407 3 жыл бұрын
Neil is one of the people I'd like to sit down and have a conversation with.
@eklctc1Kng1arrw
@eklctc1Kng1arrw 7 жыл бұрын
@KnowledgeforMen this interviewer is badass. Great questions!
@lawrencemckeon6802
@lawrencemckeon6802 3 жыл бұрын
The Alchemist is an excellent book. Also 100 Years of Solitude. And Don Quixote.
@dlaczego009
@dlaczego009 8 жыл бұрын
I wish Neil Strauss was my Psychology teacher
@MattSmith-iq1ld
@MattSmith-iq1ld 6 жыл бұрын
The problem with all this is that you can say "I love me, I love me, I love me" all you want, but it is scientifically proven that our sense of self and self image is largely formed by our relationship with others - ESPECIALLY as kid. And most of what our brains are and who we are is determined by the age of 5. Yes, you can do counseling and attend seminars to smooth out the edges and make some positive changes, but there is only so much can do without the assistance of others. Human beings are social creatures. We don't exist in a vacuum. I have never known a single heterosexual man who has ever truly felt he was attractive unless a girl or woman has told him so at some point. That must come first. Why? He's not female! A heterosexual guy's sense of himself is hugely impacted by women, whether it's his mom, his sister, the barista he has a crush on, an old g/f. It has to come from someone else, outside of him, from the opposite gender. Sure, some of it can come from dad and good male buddies, but again, this whole look at yourself in the mirror and you can transform your life stuff is so tired when it is so scientifically proven to be wrong. If you socially isolate a kid, it never forms a personality.
@abemurray2407
@abemurray2407 3 жыл бұрын
Gladly, these things aren't as rigidly fixed as you suggest. As a hypnotist, I've seen a lot of deep level transformations to the subconscious mind. I've benefitted from them myself. Yes, we largely run on autopilot based on programming in our formative years or later traumas, but happily we can install and run new programs that serve us better. www.abemurrayhypnotist.com
@bengans2406
@bengans2406 4 жыл бұрын
Im also a sexaddicted. Neil! Thank you. I have survived a traumatic childhood.
@camden9589
@camden9589 8 жыл бұрын
Andrew!!!!!!!
@vonq9831
@vonq9831 5 жыл бұрын
It Is Rude If Only One person Is waiting for you ....!
@mactireliath2356
@mactireliath2356 7 жыл бұрын
The level of my self esteem is-OhSHIT
@TwitTwooFilmsUK
@TwitTwooFilmsUK 8 жыл бұрын
Intro is appalling just start the interview
@davidruiz3003
@davidruiz3003 4 жыл бұрын
5:30
@camden9589
@camden9589 8 жыл бұрын
I've been hunting you down brother. anyway we can chat privately on fb tomorrow?
@KnowledgeforMen
@KnowledgeforMen 8 жыл бұрын
+Camden McInnis Message me on facebook
@CamdenMcInnis
@CamdenMcInnis 8 жыл бұрын
+KnowledgeforMen hey Andrew I just sent you a voice message
@joshpetersen2278
@joshpetersen2278 7 жыл бұрын
27:25 "super deep emotional therapeutic stuff that shifts stuff around" 28:49 "deep, deep trance work and intensive experiences" Why not just say the word, Neil.... HYPNOSIS
@charleswood1703
@charleswood1703 7 жыл бұрын
not necessarily, at least not in a traditionnal structured way. What I do is I just listen of what is inside me, and often there is strong sensation that come up and I just accept to feel those sensation, wich alow the body to heal them. That mean sometime I will cry, sometime get really angry, etc.
@chrysantus
@chrysantus 5 жыл бұрын
Umm, just because it isn't what he wanted to say?
@musical_lolu4811
@musical_lolu4811 4 жыл бұрын
Because it's corny.
@dannyboythelastman1944
@dannyboythelastman1944 8 жыл бұрын
yahoooo!
@chillosophy2886
@chillosophy2886 3 жыл бұрын
Animated summary of Neil's incredible book and link to find it here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sJySadKiybiRcoU.html
@KnowledgeforMen
@KnowledgeforMen 4 жыл бұрын
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@thomasmoncrief26
@thomasmoncrief26 7 жыл бұрын
"That’s it. If you love doing something, then keep doing it, don’t worry about whether it’s your real purpose or whether you should change careers to follow the money, simply do things that you love doing and you will never fail." How can someone write such utter horse shit and not realize that it's such a lie?
@dog69420
@dog69420 6 жыл бұрын
lmao
@lenzotrumpet
@lenzotrumpet 6 жыл бұрын
The guy is so full of himself
@andreaskarlsson6352
@andreaskarlsson6352 7 жыл бұрын
Freaking bs Neil
@ekoone8544
@ekoone8544 2 жыл бұрын
Note that Neil Strauss had to act like somebody and not his real self to attract women. How do we know he didn’t lose himself in that process. In all reality he’s a bullshitter and if you take his advice guess what that makes you 😉
@king-nick2023
@king-nick2023 8 жыл бұрын
His book was one of the worst books I ever read. 😵🔫
@king-nick2023
@king-nick2023 8 жыл бұрын
This interview however was amazing
@Jason-bg7jc
@Jason-bg7jc 8 жыл бұрын
+king nick Why? I personally got a lot out of it.
@king-nick2023
@king-nick2023 8 жыл бұрын
+Jason Rumley it just did nothing for me. It was long boring and had to many stories
@L33PL4Y
@L33PL4Y 6 жыл бұрын
It's a memoir...that's the POINT of a memoir...fool.
@king-nick2023
@king-nick2023 4 жыл бұрын
Chillin' Like a Villain Killin' Krillin yeah I feel it. However I like when people are direct and straight to the point
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