Everyone has to understand that the older hmong generation lives this way so the younger generation have to understand listening to these story's if u dont like it you younger generations can send in your story than and maybe she have somthing new to tell, but may is doing a great job telling each and everyone's story .

yog lawm lau tu me viv ncau aw ua li koj ua ko ce yog kawg nkau lawm os koj yog tug poj niam muaj peev xwm kawg li ua tau li koj ua ko ma yog hauj lawm os 👍👍👍👍😁😁😁😁

Koi Lub tswv yim zoo kawg thiab mas viv ncaus ua siab ntev ntxias nws nyiaj txhawb cov me nyuam kawm ntawv kom tag tso mam ua siab tso nws mus ces thaum ntawd koj tsis muaj kev nyuab siab Lawm,

Koj ua raug kuv siab tshaj plaws thiab ua yog lawm

Never chase after your adult kids. Let them work and make money to pay for the stuff they need themselves. It's how we as parents teach our kids to be responsible adults. Don't chase after your husband either. Make him chase after you. Dress nice and sexy, wear makeup if you have to, flirt with other guys if you have to but don't take it too far and only do it in front of your hubby to get his emotions rolling. Lol. You have to prove to him that you are still desirable. That if he dumps you, there are lots of other guys that will take you.

Any good person would never cheat on their children and spouse. Cheating is the ultimate crime of a loser only.

Tu me viv ncaus aw koj ma hais yog tshaj plaw li os mog.

koj keej kawg ua tau siab ntev uv nws thiab ho ua tau nws liam txwv kiag zoo kawg cov txiv neej no pleev thiab liam dhau lawm

Leejtwg hloov siab xav mus noj sab nrauv ces kawg lwj liam mus li txhob tig los khuv xim thiab teem txim rau lwm leej lwm tus

Mloog nej tej neej neeg no txaus luag kawg..txiv los txiv ua..niam los niam ua xu siab tiag tiag..lub neej no ces liam ib yam xwb os

Peb ua neej nyob mas yus txhob qhuas yus cia lwm tus qhuas xwb tsis muaj neeg qhuas koj koj rov qhuas koj xwb koj yog neeg dag xwb

Txoj kev ua sib xws ua sib pauj tsis yog kev tsim txiaj thiab yeej tsis txog twg li os

Ca tu siab rau peb lub neej Hmoob ua luaj, peb lub neej Hmoob e peb cov poj niam yog tu uv yog tu mob tag li xwb lawv aw yuav yog hnub twg e peb poj niam Mhoob nplog thiaj yuav muaj ib txoj cai thiab os, thov muab txoj kev ncaj ncees rau peb poj niam hmoob nplog thiab os.

Everyone around you is using you or don’t even love you enough to help you and you think you’re winning lol

Are you here to show the world about how smart your family is??

Nope. Not gonna fly with me. Rather carry the divorcee title than sacrifice my sanity. I grew up with 2 moms, I see the life first hand. It’s a no for me.

Does this suppose to make you a better person?

Cov txiv neej no mas vam2 mloog kev zoo nyob tabsis txoj kev zoo nyob ntawd nws tsis kav ntev nawb thaum kawg yeej xaus rau yus tus laus xwb

Zaj no thaum pib mloog kuj ok tab sis mloog mus ces txaus luag xwb os nej

Peb cov pojniam yuav tsum so kua muag ua siab tawv li ko. peb nplooj siab thiaj tsis mob loog tag, coob tus tseem mob tuag kiag. Thaum tsis quaj, tsis khuvxim, tsis txhawj ces nws kawg swb txhua yam.

Cov niag txiv neej tuag aws quav dev aw cas ntxim ntxub ntxim tuag ua luaj li os thiab cov niag poj nrauj poj poob mas ntxim ncaws taw ntxim tsuj tshaj li nawb cov pog liam nyiam nyiag tham luag tej txiv mas xav muab tsuj faus ploj av xwb os

Tus niam tsev ko cov lus yog kev khib thiab nws khav nws tus kheej xwb

Hahaha tu me viv ncaus aw koj hai yog lawm os

Koj haib tiag tiag love your kids and yourself……so happy for you sister

The doctor daughter seems very manipulative too and not very supportive of her moms happiness. She encourages her mom to keep "supporting" her education and focus on the kids so they don't become "Liam liam" and then they will "poob npe" 🙄🙄 That's very manipulative of her to say. She's making herself out to be more important than her mom this is a very pathetic story. No point. just goes on and on about "life lessons" and bragging about herself.

Once they are over eighteen don’t worry about ur kids they can take care of themselves lady

The common theme in these cheating stories is the woman always say "I gave him the best food, the best clothes, put money in his wallet, etc etc".. maybe the solution is women need to STOP catering and babying their GROWN husbands? 🙄 and women need to work harder and not depend on the guys money! that's why you're mistreated and can't go anywhere!

I realize that most of the stories sent to May are in the third person. I find it so annoying that I can’t finish the rest of the story. Just tell your story and stop giving life lessons. Anyways, sister, great that you’ve learned to love yourself.

Txob yuav lawm os mog txhim txhub dau lawm os

Cheaters will cheat.....one time or another they will cheat again and again. Cheating is a choice. It's not a mistake.

Sib pab txhawb nqa os phooj ywg

Xav tias tsov tsis tom tsov. Tab sis zaj no, zoo li tsov ho tsis txawj sib hlub

Tsi yog tim koj.tim koj tus txiv liam xw os viv ncaus aw

Tus viv ncaus qhov koj khoo tau koj tus txiv pob nyiaj los nws yeej zoo thiab cov txiv neej phem mas yeej phem liam hiam tiag 3 li nws tsi yooj yim li ko.

Great job sister, I well know your guys

How embarrassing. These kind of people take their marital issues/dramas all the way to Laos.

Zaj no tim 2 leeg 100% tus niam los yeej tawv txaus, tus txiv liam txaus.

Your children can take a loan!

Me niam tsev yog pebpojniam ua taus li koj mas thiaj chim los tseg ib txhia thiab...... Zoo kawg ua taus niam mas zoo li koj ntag... Txhob mus yuav dua ibtug txiv mas thiaj tsis nyuaj siab lawm peb yuav tsum tseg lub siab uas tseem xav kheem niag thaub laus ntawd kavtsij nyob tus me muajj nyiaj tsawv hos tsim txiaj ncus nrog yus covmenyuam yus twb tau nws ntu zoo tag lawn

Hab yau nej cov pog laus ces kuv nyoo qhov tuaj piav pem ces nej pheej qhuas nej tus kheej 🤭🤭🤭

Glad you love you brothers..not your husband side

Yep!! Have monies have friends have relatives no monies no friends no relatives. This is truth l agree with her.

Yog hais tias yus ua phim nws ces tsis txhob qhuas tias yus yog tus zoo yus tseem yog tus phem tshaj cas tsis txaj muag li os

Vuag npaum li thiab ? Kawg tuag tag lau zaum no os!!!😊

Tsi tsaug tseeg os iv ncaug.

Zaj no nws khav nws dhau lawm mloog tsis zom zem li as nej puas ntseeg kuv tsis ntseeg nws

In my book, a strong woman is someone who drops the loser, cheating husband the moment you know he's cheating on you, not someone who hangs around just so she can continue to use his money. There are marital laws that will help you win some of his money (child support and alimony, even some of his retirement money), and your grown ass daughter can take out loans like most students. There's no lesson to be learned from this story of two people mistreating and using each other.

This is a story of a very toxic couple that ua sib twm xwb. Nothing to learn here.

Koj keej tiag li os

These cheaters will always find a reason to cheat🙄 he needs 24/7 attention and you don't? These cheaters 🤬

Yes, when you have enough, he doesn't see or understand. You're feeling just faded. You don't care anymore.

These OG's are funny as hell lmao

Tus niam tsev you're a intelligent woman, I wish we have more woman like you. Sujsum rau koj niag ex-txiv qhovqyav...

Good for you sister! Love yourself and take care of your own being. In the end nobody’s there to love you but your children or yourself. That poor miserable bastard Is only digging his own grave.

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Damm your dad was pretty busy lol 17 kids

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Koj yeem tsi zoo npauj twg tiab nas. Koj tsi muaj nyiaj os cov nyiaj kos yog koj tug Txiv lis xwb nas. Every thing you said we not believe.

Hello 👋!

Niam tais aw...tos koj tus txiv hais li rau koj os, koj twb tsis take care of koj tus txiv nev. Vim li cas koj thiaj tsis cia koj tus txiv ua ib tus txiv tsev es koj hos cia nws mus us txiv dev xwb. Nws cia koj take care txhua yam ib leeg xwb...koj kuj hais kom nws sib koom take care txhua yam mas? 2 wrongs dont make it right..just divorce the txiv dev kom nws kob huam kiag mas!

Hoho yo ua cas yuav liam li os

Not to make excuses for your husbands cheating but Ur children are adults and in college you don’t need to follow them or take them every where.

Quav dev ua plaub ua cai hmoob quav dev nej os

Tus sister ntawm this story. Its not you, yug Menyuam es xoob. Its him got shrunk

Txhob khav2 mas. Nyiaj ces yog hmoob nplog tus phoojywg #1 nas. Tsis tas koj nim yuav khoom npaum ko rau koj cov neeg ko koj tus txiv khib os. Nyiaj tag ces hmoob nplog yeej tsis k koj tib yam thiab os.

Koj tseem nrog Thaublaus dev nov thiab? Kuv mas kuv twb tsis xiam ib nasthis rau.

Ua pauj es ua ruam luaj ko cav khav thiab tsi ntev ces yuav mag thaub muab koj xa mus cuag poj cuag yawm lo ma. Li koj xwb txhob maj khav os me muam aw...

Niam laug thov kj tug fev kv xa ib zaj rau kj pab tham og🙏

I'm sorry but I'm lost in your story. Your point is he cheated on you end it there but don't talk about how poor and icky he is no matter what he's still the father of your kids. Respect your kids too that's how I see it.

Poj ruam khav theeb, koj twb pib tias yog thaum twg koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj lawm ces koj nws hais zoo zoo xwb ces koj yuav nrauj. Ua cas nws hais zoo los koj tsis kam nrauj hais phem los koj tskam nrauj. Koj yog poj ruam tsab ntse xwb

I see a lot of comments saying the adult kids can support themselves, especially the Doctor daughter. As a parent and if you’re able to, you have some responsibility to support your kids’ education whatever that is. Medical school is expensive so I’m sure she didn’t pay for the whole dollar amount but rather help with a few expenses. This lady sacrificed her happiness temporarily to help her daughter through school which was her choice. In the end, she still came out winning so no big deal! And she didn’t take his money, he willingly gave it to her so she can pay the bills and raise their kids while he goes around lollygagging with other women 😒

So you’re bragging much money you have to blow in Laos?

Ntuj os teb aw ! nim no muaj KZfaq thiab fb mam li hnov thiab paub txog nej hmoob mékas tej niag neej mas quav dev tshaj plaws, tej txij nkawm ib tug liam xws nkaus ib tug, tos nej ib txhia niam txiv cia li tau noj cov mos txwv tua nas lawm los yog zaj no tiag ! koj tus niam tsev los peb yeej tsis qhuas koj, koj tsis txhob khav tias koj tus txiv nqa 5 phav hos koj mas nim nqa 10 phav tab sis cov nyiaj koj khuj ntawm koj tus txiv los ua koj tug xwb paub txaj muag thiab ma ?

Koj yeej muaj pov thawj lo mas...koj qhov pov thawj yog kwv tij twb tso lu rau koj lawm ne

WAY to go sister love it. You diffinately did everything right and you are an amazing woman, a mother. You played him like a fiddle and no one is more a fool than him. So proud of your smartness and reasoning. I totally agreed with you. Hmong women needs to love themselves and stop catering and giving their all to their husband. Stop accepting the doormat.

These infidelity stories are getting so repetitive. Why do the story owners feel the need to share these stories? You’ve moved on, great. These lessons have been told over 100 times already. May, we need new content please.

You should love your brother...not your husband side it 👎 bad

Live for yourself. Your daughter is selfish to ask you to stay for the money.

Another cheating story. Glad you loved your children enough and take what you can get from your cheating husband.

Yog hais tias kuv yog koj tus nus ces kuv yuav advice koj hais tias yawmyij ua hluas ces ua hluas pauj kom nws khib ntag nws thiaj li kawm tau, dhau li ntawd yog nws tso tseg es rov los hlub koj lawm ces yuav li ntawd thiab. Ua li koj ua ces suav tau hais tias koj kuj yog tus phem thiab.

I hope your Dr. Daughter is so proud of you.

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Koj phem tshaj koj tus txiv. Mean and evil

Why you bragging about how rich you are when 70% of the money you received was your husband's?

The title is very confusing!

It’s not because we women have big hole not satisfied men, its bcuz Asian all have a small hot dog lol..😂

Whats wrong with the older hmong people.

This story makes no sense, are you justifying that cheating is ok cause you got his money? Ain’t no money worth this headache. Your kids need to be able to help themselves too, they seem selfish to not work and help pay for it themselves.

Lol😂ooooo so funny I get a good kick out of it 😂

Too much lecturing and boasting. I don't know if you realized it but you followed your mother's footsteps... you couldn't leave your cheating husband either so you use excuses like telling how smart you are like how you take his money, helped yourself and your relatives in Laos, etc. That's all good for you but we just want to know what happened, not lectures and boasting about how educated and rich you, your kids and brothers are. Your doctor daughter will likely marry a Caucasian (like yesterday's story) so you helping her is not helping her for me or for Hmong... just for you, herself, her immediate family and her Caucasian husband. So, I don't care about all those things... I only want to know what happened.

Koj lub neej zoo tas li no lawm xwb, tsis muaj qhov zoo ntxiv. Koj tus txiv tau 2 tug hluas nkaus, tab sis koj tau 3 tug hluas nraug. Qhov no koj xav tias koj yeej nws tab sis koj tab tom ua tsuas koj lub neej yuav nrhiav tus zoo txiv yuav tom ntej xwb. Tus zoo txiv tsis lam khaws tus neeg liam li koj no yuav ib zaug li lawm.

Boring have to skip

I don’t like this story!! She brags too much!!!

Another dumb man story. He thought he is on top of the world n kav txhua tus pojniam...trash xwb

I’m sorry but this story is cringy

Zajac dab neeg no zoo li koj yog ib tub poj niam kav teeb koj nim hais cuag li koj yog ib tug strong woman qho no peb tsis paub koj mas tab kav koj tus ntxhais medical doctor koj tej dag laug los doctors lawers my gosh koj cov neeg tid nplog mas nim hlub2 koj yog koj tsis muaj $ ces cov niag neeg tid nplog koj nim yuav care koj thiab os la

I get that you are supporting your daughter while in college, but damn.. that adult ass daughter need to somehow financially be able to figure this out herself. Leave your husband and enjoy life already.

You people got what you deserved. 😊😊

I don't know why you give so much excuses why he cheated. No matter what happens. If he was a good man he would never cheat. Please, no excuses for him. He just doesn't love you anymore