Its okay to use social media, but dont let it take over your life. Also just be present and be a real genuine person. You can basically do anything when you put your mind to it. You can have emotions, but just be aware of them, and make sure they don't go all over the place and dictate your every action. Also don't be an NPC.
@ferringsylveon2199 ай бұрын
@@suspectdominick9326No Problem
@TaeWrld3339 ай бұрын
Thanks man!!
@ferringsylveon2199 ай бұрын
@@TaeWrld333 NP
@jadams64199 ай бұрын
I feel lonely since I graduated hs
@umarzulfikar30327 ай бұрын
Same
@Maximus57756 ай бұрын
Yep same
@Go_Out_Touch_Grass5 ай бұрын
Bro i feel exactly the same, i miss my old hs days 😢
@davante12865 ай бұрын
I'm in my 40s lonely no kids and no wife
@coyote914275 ай бұрын
I feel u man. I always feel sad and lonely when I see other people happy in a relationship but it’s not something to be ashamed of.
@brutal1tyy9 ай бұрын
Damn bro, thanks for this vid. I’m a 24 year old dude, hit the gym every day eat right, sleep right etc. I got a good body and a lot of female attention, but I’m autistic with depression. I feel like nobody understands me, and I just can’t connect with any females it seems. Since the lockdowns I’ve been closing myself off a lot too, just got so much anxiety every day and especially around people, it’s hard to let anyone in my life because the trust is low seeing how people treat each other etc. Ur vids keep me going though, thanks.
@lfy249648 ай бұрын
Same bro I’m austistic too I’m 20 years old
@ferrous32627 ай бұрын
How can people understand you when they don't even know themselves
@davante12865 ай бұрын
I'm 43
@Im-lost-pleaese-help4 күн бұрын
Ive NEVER read a more relatable comment, im 16, i wouldnt say depressed but i still got time to grow.
@pooder16169 ай бұрын
College is tearing me up bro this helps a lot
@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName3 ай бұрын
Same man, freshman year kicking my ass
@bojannovakovic13759 ай бұрын
Im single 27, my whole life, exactly my love life, but im have plenty of friends male and female, so many and I feel great, I love my time spend alone writing songs and other stuff
@zekko6009 ай бұрын
Samo napred brate
@haroonp88422 ай бұрын
Im 26 and been alone and single my whole and ive been feeling miserable but been a bit better recently
@bxau5169 ай бұрын
Hey bro I just wanted to thank you for making this video. As a 18 year old that’s been out of school for nearly a year has made me realise that not everyone will stick around. You made me realise instead of hanging out with friends and just doing general things with other people, most of the time I wouldn’t be honest with myself as who I am as a person, therefore when I am by myself, I would always feel lost/alone. So again I just wanted to thank you for being real and genuine as I’ve needed this 🙏🏽❤️
@skeletor3258 ай бұрын
Same man 👍🏻
@MatthewRumble9 ай бұрын
This is one of the most raw videos Kam has made. I could really feel him speaking to me on this. Im so thankful to have found his channel way back
@Madchris88289 ай бұрын
I had a very similar conversation with myself recently. Great video, spitting facts
@martez31009 ай бұрын
Thank you Kam I needed to hear this . Im 31 and I been saying I’m a Lamar and be feeling like I have no place in this world .
@RDR123449 ай бұрын
And this message really hits home another good video man keep it up
@jaelinjordan11049 ай бұрын
A few seconds in. Kam I just turned 27 and I'm glad you sharing on this situation. I be feeling like its the same no after no. Its getting frustrating but I know there success in anything from relationships to business. Stay putting out good content man!
@gaelgomez44889 ай бұрын
for everyone watching take notes this man is spitting honestly kam i hear your vids all the time and its a good way to keep my mind clear and focused your purpose is truly to change ppls life bro cuz rs u done that for me and i appreciate it brodie
@pbd56269 ай бұрын
ngl i talk to myself everyday it's calming no lie i thought i was crazy for doing it but sometimes it's better than talking to others
@debabr4t9 ай бұрын
i started talking to a girl like 4 days ago man and she friendzoned me. She was so like me, i thought i found the loml. Sad as fuck. I feel rejected and i feel like I'm never going to be loved. All my friends got girls, just me who's left
@vektor77809 ай бұрын
Bro it doesn't matter, don't blame it on yourself. Just move on and try again with another girl after some tjme
@debabr4t9 ай бұрын
@@vektor7780 thanks man rn i just feel like i'll stop caring about them girls and focus on getting my shit together. By that i mean I'm legit gonna ignore girls on spot, no female friends anymore cause i ended up getting attached to this girl. Now i blocked her and even deleted her number. I was crying myself to sleep and waking up at 1 pm the next day. It's been tuff
@swgskool.9 ай бұрын
@@debabr4tget over it bro, not everything is meant to be
@iryangamez9 ай бұрын
Bless kam, realist video yet thank you
@israelgaskin66169 ай бұрын
Freeforms is really lockin togethor Kam. Kepp it up.
@Ty-os9wk9 ай бұрын
I need more vids like this I'm 17 and feel like there really isn't any reason for my existence, i mean apart for my family i feel like there's nothing My close homies don't relate or try to understand what i go through They just see it as me being me or some shit Due to some life circumstances i feel like ive been living a life too fake so from now imma keep it 💯 all the way
@nd16759 ай бұрын
I’m 21, never been in an actual relationship I hangout with quite a few women, recently I was in a talking stage w a 29 year old single mom. Things felt right but We had sex and things ended. Feels like I can get laid easy but finding my soulmate is impossible, it feels like, it’s a shitty feeling makes me think something’s wrong with me. I talk to women frequent yet im so lonely. Don’t know if I go for the wrong women or what’s the problem. I live in a small county, I’d say I’m above average looking I have a nice physique and I’m 6’0 so looks couldn’t be the issue I tell myself, I’m just lost as to the issue of struggling to find love. All my cousins, friends, have girlfriends and a kid or kids and then there’s me lol struggling a loner. Your vids help me out tho forsure bro you say some real shit
@user-sn4qf1hz2e5 ай бұрын
kam you hit the spot in my heart in what happened to being your inner child you know you inspire me I wish I knew you thanks anyway God bless you
@TheSnoozeFox9 ай бұрын
Yep, 30, been single since I was 16, every girl I meet thinks they are better than me. It sucks but it is what it is.
@haroonp88422 ай бұрын
Im in same situation, sad but got to find a way to keep holding on
@Im-lost-pleaese-help4 күн бұрын
No, that isnt how it is, be real with yourself, is the problem you? Imma guess it is and you make them feel like they are better than you. Grow up and stop lying to yourself 🙏
@__Shun9 ай бұрын
i respect u so much bro
@Trackhawks20029 ай бұрын
W video bro I'm a single male 21 yr old with small group of friends
@losskamp3 ай бұрын
Ngl dis might be kam best video he done dropped shi open my eyes to alot of things
@Quinton-vr5lh7 ай бұрын
Something that tends to happen that's easy to overlook is that we grow up. I'm no longer who I was in High school or college, nor are there people who were my friends, but we hold on to who we were more than who we are. So you end up trying too hard to be the old you or expect the old them and at the end we feel empty cause we poured out of cups that had little to give. Embrace your growth and other people's then reevaluate where you stand. You will be less disappointed and feel less empty after interacting with them. Come into your growth and find new people who will welcome it or shift people's positions accordingly. To add to the women issue, try to have women as friends first and in general. Your understanding of them will help you with people in general. Thanks for the vid Cam.
@jubearoo69289 ай бұрын
Great video this is just facts thats how it is for us homies
@ARSHXVN9 ай бұрын
The realest video youve ever made . You are a blessing kam. Never stop
@intuitivelymagician20769 ай бұрын
thank you for the reupload, i was going a rough day yesterday and this video came up yesterday, it got me through it
@prod.bigbrankar9 ай бұрын
praying everything gets better for everyone 💯
@dalitsobanda82959 ай бұрын
Just watched your video at the middle of the night couldn't sleep coz am just stressed out aside with some girl who made me feel a certain way giving me butterflies then all of a sudden just drifted away and left me hanging for no good reason honestly i did feel depressed to some extent i guess i needed this video thank you 🙏🥺
@jb8948 ай бұрын
I feel you bro. Same thing happened to me with a her. Talked all the time then went on date it went well then she takes a day, two days to reply to my messages...
@TikyeWilliams9 ай бұрын
This kid is wiser beyond his years
@mateomontiel4916 ай бұрын
Thx for this vid man ❤️
@Zzzzzzz5438 ай бұрын
Thanks Kam for your videos it really does help me and inspires me to start making similar videos
@koridust9 ай бұрын
the realest video i've ever watched on youtube. you're blessing from God to watch.
@Apostle1.9 ай бұрын
Kam always gonna keep it real thas why I mess with bro
@Ichisblackcloak8 ай бұрын
Hey bro I definitely understand what you're going through and I'm like literally the first person, to understand and I truly thankful for your past videos and giving you a bit of likes and I will share more of them so I do appreciate I will look at more of your videos but I do really appreciate it and I hope your life goes well for you as well bro
@keenzyyyy9 ай бұрын
Great Videos bro im happy seeing someone real
@anonnnnnnnnnnnn9 ай бұрын
love this style of video kam.
@zesebi9 ай бұрын
Ur chill asf bro thanks for the advice
@brainmuncher3009 ай бұрын
thanks man i needed to hear this. had to break up with gf and man ive felt so lonely ever since. but its gonna be ok.
@Mario-yk9pp9 ай бұрын
Kam do not delete this vid like you do with others. People need this. This is straight fax
@MatthewRumble9 ай бұрын
These videos getting a little too real Kam 😳 my standards are through the roof because I've spent so much time building my own body in the gym and my social skills I won't accept anything less than a 10
@alfonzoworldleader9 ай бұрын
BRUH on my life bruh ts was hella real like this like the 10th time lol
@coldheartedchris2569 ай бұрын
Ofc u gone want sum1 attractive but don’t forget looks ain’t everything focus who she is as a person n the typa connection y’all got just cause she look better don’t mean she better
@BagChazeR8 ай бұрын
But that could push a lot away because it's going to come off like you think you're that sht and feel like you're entitled to have that that's a rough road
@Idkmynamuh9 ай бұрын
Thats how uno a nigga real bro be loaded off his ass yet still spitting game😂🤝🏾💯
@AnthonyShipp-je1rd8 ай бұрын
God bless you in Jesus name amen ❤️❤️
@ApertureGaming9 ай бұрын
most relatable vid i have seen till date
@Lijsavv5 ай бұрын
It actually got to point in life after a while where i actually love and enjoy being alone
@Cashmoneylj9 ай бұрын
“I’ll rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies”
@CarloLanezzz9 ай бұрын
I’m 26 been single most of my life had a thing going on in hs she stayed a couple towns away never seen her tho then I met a girl who was younger than me I liked her from the jump but then I moved away and we slowly started to loose contact at my new school I was senior tried to make friends I found one but after graduating we slowly lost communication ever since then I’ve been working I don’t blame no one or hang out on the what ifs shit happens for a reason I had crushes on a couple of girls at work but it’s semi my fault for not approaching but like the movie the Mack players get choose and my point of all this is too make your “loneliness “ your best friend and work on yourself not what’s tangible but most importantly inside mentally/spiritually I met guys older than me way worst than me (internally) and I appreciate every bit of my life and try improve it
@CarloLanezzz9 ай бұрын
No (friends ) I just know ppl I clicked with and want to see them thrive but most importantly like j.Cole said LOVE YOURZ
@sethrec62719 ай бұрын
Geeked Kam, best Kam
@nismoz34842 ай бұрын
After breaking up with my gf i was completely lost for 2 months, just now i started picking up some of my old hobbies again, collecting yugioh cards, collectibles, fixing my car, going to the gym and its starting to feel good alone and at peace with my hobbies and doing shii i like. Im slowly building myself back up cause i was broken asf
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
No I'm lonely. Everyone in my life abandoned me. Most friends and family and neighbors.
@spanchoblu9668 ай бұрын
Facts, social media is the devils playworld… ppl don’t even see how lame they really look..
@Ge.no.va139 ай бұрын
14:00 is true. I got a “good” life yet my brain is always negative
@bigjoe16419 ай бұрын
damn, you keep it real
@officialzgang9 ай бұрын
Yo Kam can you make some videos for 8th grade based advice I don't know how I found out about your channel but I been watching for like 11 months so I just need some advice for what I do now because I just started automatically started getting confident in talking to girls a couple weeks ago because of this one thing that happened in my gym class but I think she cute and damn she feel the same so any advice on what my next move should be without making her uncomfortable and/or being awkward/weird
@FreeFlocka-pk6hv9 ай бұрын
Gem as always
@vampireradio949 ай бұрын
Real spill !
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
I'm a Millennial so I used to apply for work in the 2000's and 2010's that way in my teens and twenties.
@Jstinbsbll9 ай бұрын
Bro i am so glad you know Jesus alot of these alpha reds dont know the one ☝️
@jjgameshow26829 ай бұрын
I'm almost 20 years old and I don't have a girlfriend or any real friends with no work experience, I missed out in life knowing my cousins have girlfriends etc. I'm gods lonely man.
@jjgameshow26829 ай бұрын
@@darker2920 no i'm not even in college but at least i graduated, thanks for your advice though.
@user-me5jp9gn2i9 ай бұрын
Facts..🙏✅️
@zeknight43529 ай бұрын
You could say i “glowed up” recently at 16. There was like 3ish girls that liked me but I always mess up and fumble on them 🤦♂️ (Especially the second one she was interested in me until I told my friend to help me but he just made it worse)
@yf.lightskin9 ай бұрын
w vid realist shit ive heard in a while
@Swirvio9 ай бұрын
Bro so Relatable .
@ttamcc.46749 ай бұрын
Love this video, this spoke
@metaldude10859 ай бұрын
Kam I do pretty much everything by myself, If I don't think about friends but mainly girls what do you think I should do to improve my life?
@jacobjoseph10109 ай бұрын
Yo kam you should talk about that sexy red situation
@ObiwanKenobi-xg1mc7 ай бұрын
Felt lonely ever since i could remember shi and ever since my fam split it only getting worse
@Ackkmed4 ай бұрын
What’s up guys, I’m a muslim so we have this thing where we can’t like talk to the opposite gender (females) until marriage, it’s kinda complicated but the deal is that I used to talk to a lot of girls a while back when I wasn’t so religious but because of my religion and out of fear for god I stopped talking to them but for a long time now I’ve just been crying almost every night because of how lonely I feel at the end of the day because I don’t have any girl to spend time with at the end of the day. And it’s just an innate desire to want to date and not be lonely but I don’t know what to do.
@mronewallahbinmeer15679 ай бұрын
Im grateful for my 2 relationships i learned alot of shit from it to the point where im single
@AABlair9549 ай бұрын
Hey, kam from another black brother, hear man the reason why I'm alone. I tried getting a relationship, but I have been hurt to many times that's why I'm lonely nowadays.
@FreeFlocka-pk6hv9 ай бұрын
Don't be scared of failure, put your anxiety with god and go find that woman
@Matthewaqua9 ай бұрын
Ik no1 cares but im gonna say it anyways im currently in my freshman year of highschool and in 6th and 7th Grade I got taken into a foster home. I wonder where God will take me after High school... apparently us kids have no future 😭
@natehiggers139 ай бұрын
u gon do great stuff bro ❤
@alexsaa21169 ай бұрын
God bless you buddy
@Jstinbsbll9 ай бұрын
Dang bro im almost in the same spot but not my freshman yet. Im not that young bless you bro
@emilkostadinov23699 ай бұрын
It's hard when you're attractive and have options but you know God did not send those women for you and you're waiting on the right one
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
From my health care providers. Two weeks ago. Or my hair stylist 3 months ago.
@TikyeWilliams9 ай бұрын
My loneliness began after dropping out of high school in the 9th grade
@JonahFinch-li7zn7 ай бұрын
I’ve always been alone I keep my emotions barried deep and I try and be someone I’m not like a player because my dad is one and I might not be cut out for that
@bro21989 ай бұрын
Respect
@IsraelCruz-xy3gv8 ай бұрын
This video just reminds me to be me thanks
@talktalk24124 ай бұрын
I met this girl at open mic night, we were going to start dating but then I fucked it up, now she's with somone else and I can't bear to see them togeather
@Z.man6ixx9 ай бұрын
Nah to be honest im not that desperate to look for women i just be me in my life and they wouldnt matter any more as soon as you die so i dont really care even if i found a girl i love i mean yeah sure but im not that desperate for love i just let the universe control what my life means or have to do
@slomotionproductions80059 ай бұрын
I talk to myself all the time. Maybe I'm "weird" but it's cool. Lol
@y_b_c_g_m95596 күн бұрын
Bad luck with females is my biggest struggle. These chick's will just ghost you like it's nothing.
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
Vincent Van Goh was very lonely. He only painted a self portrait in a mirror and a portrait of his doctor.
@GodlysRebirth8 ай бұрын
I’m 16 and this really hit close to home dam
@dynassclapz50459 ай бұрын
Typical W kam
@bro21989 ай бұрын
Facts
@deankobryn28139 ай бұрын
Im going through it .
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
You look like the super hero Static Shock.
@DenshaOtoko26 күн бұрын
Ok sounds good. Discord is nice.
@Christianswrld9999 ай бұрын
Beat vide i seenn in a wile
@kennyyoung69559 ай бұрын
Don't be afraid of women. Ask the woman you like if she's interested in you.
@Mahmoud-bl3hp9 ай бұрын
Im talking to a girl rn and idk if she really feels me and it’s bothering me. Idk what to do about it cuz I don’t want to seem insecure about it and I don’t want to miss my opportunity with her. She never tried to contact me but she threw me a lot of signals that she’s interested.
@garyytp18919 ай бұрын
If she was interested you would know, if a girl likes you she WILL let you know, if you not sure she probably don’t like you, that’s my experience
@HairlineStudios9 ай бұрын
I am 16 and I am one of the only virgins in my friend group. It be getting to me and I’m tranna lose my card what do I do
@swgskool.9 ай бұрын
bro chill u young asl
@prod.bigbrankar9 ай бұрын
clicked so fast KZfaq didn't even process the video lmao😂
@davante12865 ай бұрын
I feel like something wrong with me smh
@goodbyekitty66349 ай бұрын
🖤
@isdatpluggg9 ай бұрын
W
@user-ni9st6uf5e9 ай бұрын
whats the discord bruh
@spanchoblu9668 ай бұрын
It’s funny when ppl struggling through the llillest smallest things but they don’t see you with the whole ocean on your back, like gtFoh with that…. You don’t even see me barely getting no sleep body aching… all king stress but they comin to cry on your shoulder…
@Trisof887 ай бұрын
Respect everybody's struggles, big or small. Because what's tiny for you is big to them. I wish more people did that
@spanchoblu9667 ай бұрын
@@Trisof88 naaaa… if a nigga struggling to pay my rent idgaF about another nigga feenin for a jack or can’t get weed because they spend they money on designer… everyone need to learn to take care of themselves unless under age.. period
@exthezolo246 ай бұрын
until today i've been single, i just got a gf and tbh idk if its gonna work out, its my first one.
@yugiiuk6 ай бұрын
yes i been single my whole life and i don't like it
@OfficiallRomeyo9 ай бұрын
Can you stop uploading and deleting. Figure out a system. Also ILY keep it up!