Dude I'm 30 and never been in a relationship

Forget about having a girl. Friends are way way way more important.

I love how people are being more transparent on YT these days! This is some RS!!🔥💯

I completely get the overthinking bro, some people seem to just naturally be good with girls, and not being like that makes me feel like I’m not worthy, so I got into a relationship that was never going to last just because I’d never had one before

My two cents: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't walk into a relationship expecting so much: people come, and people go. That's an observable fact. Some people also stay. That's also a fact. Accepting this will create a mindset of abundance. Our culture has instilled within us a Disney-like fantasy about relationships. It's done us more harm than good. Just go with the flow bro. Improve yourself, go on dates, sharpen your social skills, and in the long run you'll be good!

This video deserves to blow up. Bro you are on the Right path. I seen a few of these videos that have that crybaby incel vibe but this is has that “Take control of your life” type of vibe and i love it 🔥

Didn’t have a girlfriend till I was 29. I beat myself up to hell from a teenager till then. When I went to a movie theater I would see a guy with his girlfriend and just watch them, just longing for what he had. 20 years later, I’ve been married for 17 years and I have 5 kids with the second woman I met. Some advice I’d give to you guys, enjoy the seasons of your life, while I do not want to go back to my single years, I wish I would have enjoyed them more instead of constantly beating myself up. Most of you men WILL find a woman and get married if that’s what you want. And as for you B_worm, you are obviously on the right track and will get a girlfriend and married if that’s what you want.

For the most part women didn’t exist in my life until my late 20s. It definitely changes you mentally but you can still end up happy later if you just keep doing you

I feel you bruh. It took me a long time to get a gf too. It's just the way of the world now. It's just harder to find girlfriends. Listen I think you will always feel inadequate but it's best to stay on your grind and money maxx

I needed this wake up call! I am 23 and I need to work on this. God bless!!

Nice self realization dont worry love is coming you way be patient you got this!

Ayo man. This video really hit me on the feels. I felt the exact same way as you b. The feeling of feeling unworthy to have a gf or to get with women. Insecure asl about myself. My fatness, My hair, My face, never liked anything about myself so I never felt worthy to get with a girl. Now I’m trying to change what I don’t like myself and start approaching women. Even if I get rejected it’s better to know I did it instead of running away. I’d regret that more.

Great video and message man

1:10 yup this, even if the girl flat out says she likes you. I always feel this.

Its ok man. I had my gf years before . But then I realised love is something u can’t be forced. I believe most people feel lonely and they want someone which is not wrong but often thinks it’s love. If everyone falls in love there would be no cheating. Love yourself. Work on yourself. Put yourself first, your family and God. If it meant to be then it will happen no matter what. True love is unconditional, no expectations and not conditional.

You need to Read Mode One by Alan Roger Currie. He talks explicitly about fear and what men can do to overcome it. Your authenticity in this video is very refreshing.

Bruh you’re pretty handsome. Definitely more attractive than myself. I’ve had a few girlfriends but how my mind is. I self sabotage myself. Because of my past trauma, it’s pretty fucked honestly. With yourself you need to have more confidence.

I'm 26, and i never had a girlfriend. I've made a cold approach before she took my number down, but never called me eversince at the end regardless at least i had the guts to approach a woman. rejection is motivation. i focus on myself. I'm joining the military best decision ever made.

New Subbie🙋🏾‍♀️ No worries your a very handsome young man, god will be sending you that queen soon, just continue to be patient ❤

Good pillow collection, though

Yeah I'm 31 about to be 32 and I've never had a girlfriend either. Truthfully I've given up, it just feels completely hopeless. Dating apps don't work, I can't even get one match on them, and meeting someone in person isn't exactly easy either. It legit feels hopeless.

I can honestly say at only the age of 25, you have given better advice than 85% of these so called dating coaches and relationship experts.

Plan a vacation somewhere (e.g. Las Vegas, Medellin, Bangkok, Cebu, etc.), budget how much money you would need to save and spend for that vacation, and so on like I have. Based on my experiences, you can meet and bond with amazing people around the world.

Thank you man stay strong im 24 every girl that i approched reject me and others i was AFRAID IM TIRED OF THIS SHIT I WANT A GIRLFRIEND

I’m 25yr old and I’m a dude, I myself and never had a girlfriend. It’s not cause of my looks, it’s just I don’t know how to show feelings in the relationship category. I just don’t see me being in one, I have trust issues to a certain extent. Deep down I’m actually happy with how I am, I feel like I’m still young and maybe one day in the future I’d catch feelings with someone. Only time will tell.

Keep your head up bro

60 years young and I haven't had a real relationship. So I wonder why in the heck it hasn't happened to me, a kind, fun, pretty person who'd give her whole heart for someone deserving of my love and commitment.

You are not alone

Just graduated and I have so many regrets

Ya 25 bro its not over at all. i would say it starts with having confidence in yourself which would mean finding your true self first. Also you shouldn’t be thinking about cold approaches at least rn thats for dudes that are perfectly fine with the wins and losses going back to the confidence thing. Just live ya life and when it comes together try to find genuine relationships. Stay up bro🫡

I know it's hard to believe because I have a family.And I've been married a long time and all that stuff, but I have had so much heartache and so If i can go back I would do it all over again.I would move to hawaii and go surfing

Im the same way. I live in an area in America where people are already 25 years old & married or engaged. Plus, I like being alone, have a creative imagination. Most women dont like guys that way.

Im 20 and never had gf,and reason is that im ugly

For me it’s not really approaching. It’s that it’s always some excuse on their part. Ever since I turned 18, it’s just been years upon years of hearing the same old lame excuses. I’m 26 now and have never had anyone. It just gets old listening to the same bullshit over and over again.

If this is true then this guy is very lucky. It means you've successfully adapted to not needing that type of attention which inevitably comes along with sometimes drama, chaos, disagreements, arguing, pregnancy tests, lying, cheating, and a whole load of things that goes with being in relationships. You don't need none of it!

I could give advice, but I won’t. People usually don’t take advice anyway. Good luck.

26 same here

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Just hit a glo up 2.0

bro just : 1- man up don't be scared 2- find a good girl (you gotta know how to choose) 3- treat her right, just do your best 4- i don't wanna disappoint you bro but most of the relationships ends up with breaking up (in your countries) but where i'm from the "dating" or "having a boyfriend/ girlfriend) is not that common, we have marriage and it last long, so basically you don't have to be afraid from breaking up cuz it depedns on you and the girl, so just find the one and be the one to her, and marry her, u don't want yo kids to be bastards, right?

Being attractive to women is merely a by-product of gaining value as a man, it should never be your first goal. Start with your stile and create a more serious look for yourself. And always keep in mind: Treat her like a celebrity, and she will treat you like a fan. Never lead with your wallet! Never let a woman disrespect you! And cultivate the mindset that women get invited to your life and your activities - not the other way around. Fe. you dont invite a girlfriend to a dinner. YOU go out for dinner, and she is just invited to share this experience.

When I was 25, I didn't have a girlfriend either. Now I'm heading towards 45, and still don't have one. But I'm good, though, cause girlfriends are too expensive. 😂

The same thing, There is a type of girl who loves appearances and money and does not care about the loyal and honest person

You wouldn’t make your toddler start running before they can stand, then be made when they can only hold themselves up for a few seconds. Work on standing. Going up the a cashier and looking them in the eyes when you or they talk. Ask an employee where something is at a grocery store. Eye contact and maybe try to make a joke out of it or make a comment of the price for a quick bond over the hate of inflation. Say thank you for help and continue shopping. Eventually you get to a point where you can grab food at a drive thru or at a checkout counter and make a quick conversation about something that only need a response or two. Then you grab your food or bag from the cashier and just say “hey by the way your lash or eyebrow game is on point” as you smile and walk away. Don’t stay for the thank you, because it’s not about that. Don’t try to make a convo out of it, because it’s not about that. It’s about walking and getting comfortable so you can run. Eventually you get confident in your ability to speak to a lady, rejection becomes less of a worry and weight on your shoulders and you have conversation starters & jokes to create a conversation that’s enjoyable enough for her to give you her number or meet up for food so she can continue having an enjoyable conversation with you. I know this is a novel but I want to help anyone out there that’s struggling with standing up. I know what it’s like to keep falling down while those around me are running off with someone. P.s- You are worthy and deserve love. If you didn’t think you deserved it or thought you weren’t lovable then you wouldn’t be hurting as much as you are now. You know you deserve it and you know you’re capable of giving it more than most people. Work towards self improvement and prove to yourself how much you’re willing to do in order to experience a aspect of life that you’ve dreamt of

Would love to interview you man

“They want a man that has a plan for them.” - B_Worm

I think folks gotta relax, don’t go into every relationship thinking you’re gonna get married to that chick. Allow relationships to run there course naturally, if it don’t work it don’t work it don’t work, don’t destroy yourself because it doesn’t work. Allow relationships to be fun for the moment and allow them to be lessons

Congrats! Trust me it’s… not really worth it anymore

Trust me its not worth it

That might be a good thing

u dont want one bro trust

I never had a boyfriend amd imt 27..

Honestly bro, I was never fearful, but for me it was cause I was solely focused on my education and career up until my age of 23 currently. I just developed a strong passion and interest for what I’m studying and a girlfriend to me at the time now seems to be a distraction. I don’t mind going on dates but a full blown girlfriend just seems like time lost pursuing my interests

Sweetheart you really don’t need one they’ll cause u nothing but heartache and pain and I’m not talking bout all women

bruh this finna be me

Im 17 and never had one either😮

2 times cold approach is good. My # is 0.

Yo, is this just like a new thing with this Information Age generation? I feel like this is more common than any other time in history tbh. I feel like millennials and gen z are dating and having sex like half as much as previous generations

Don’t get one

You could be good looking, have lots of friends and still be single. Getting into a relationship with a woman is a separate skill entirely

What you don’t have one man I’m screwed

Bruh tbh this ain’t even that crazy. You ain’t bad looking and Ik a ton of dudes that look good that never been in a relationship. Dating is just a different game for men.

I’m 37 I gave up I dated 17-27 had 3 bfs terrible long relationships in 10 years it was bad that I have up

cooked

YOu sound like a great guy, so I'm going to give you some really good advice. If you see a young woman who needs help with something, help her. Maybe it's at work, maybe it's in a store on on public transportation -- whatever. Don't say, "Hey, I think you're real cute, would you like to go out with me?" Just approach her and offer to help her. There's nothing like it. A halo will appear over your head. You won't see it but she will. We are living in scary times now. A man who comes across as a protector, with no ulterior motive other than being of help to a woman will have a far better chance of establishing a relationship with the woman than some slick guy who just wants to get into her pants. And by the way, even if she has a boyfriend and she's happy in her relationship with him, she probably has girlfriends who'd like to meet a nice guy like you.

And odds are you'll be married by age 35. It'll happen.

Gotta train, muscles money and charisma , get 1.k rejections 6 pack and 1 million dollars Then you’ll be with a beautiful girl!

Not a bad looking dude. If you drop some lbs you’ll look like a papi chulo but yeah I understand dating is stressful and women these days are tricky

Maybeu dont need a gf nlg get closer to your friends bro

Get a skill that in demand first so you not become homeless

You should have already had a girlfriend by now it should have come naturally to you if not you know what's up

You have more life experience and good better than having bunch bm

try being 39

Ill be ur gf😜

ngl super cooked

Yeah man I’m 23 and never had a girlfriend either. It’s important people like us handle the situation this way Because I honestly believe it’s things like this that lead some men to take their own lives. I think this because I’ve been there too and I get it. Let’s take those steps bro 🦾