“How to keep a man?” This is a question I get often and listen to my response.

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Konscious Kirk Hazell

3 ай бұрын

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@singerspeak1 3 ай бұрын

You can only keep a man who wants to be kept.

@danaglover6801 3 ай бұрын

Ha! That part💯

@user-by4sd2jy2c 3 ай бұрын

That’s what I said when I saw the title. 😊

@LBSquare6909 3 ай бұрын

Sooooo true...a man who doesn't want to remain committed solely to you, cannot be kept.

@cayennesinivassinel6977 2 ай бұрын

Lmao...are you a slave owner too?😅

@tiffanyscookingismyhobby64 2 ай бұрын

Thats the same thing that I said

@juanitagonzalez8333 3 ай бұрын

I think the only man that wants to be kept,is one that wants to be kept.

@Abbie-ri5pv 3 ай бұрын

You are right! We kept our marriage playful he never gave me a reason to doubt him. When he got cancer things got serious when he passed things got really serious, I'm just coming back alive again 5 yrs later. God how I miss him! He was the best. It's so hard. At least I had him for 10 years.

@alexatoure3407 3 ай бұрын

An honorable man of character commands respect without asking for it. He is his own peace and a blessing to women.

@sandrabendt3691 3 ай бұрын

So true! Keep yourself looking good and on point! I really appreciate the things you say

@MerelynMontheith 3 ай бұрын

free people have peace and give peace. A man can change and will change but for one woman if he doesn't change for you he is not your man let him go. Work on your self don't waste your time ❤🇯🇲

@LBSquare6909 3 ай бұрын

That means, I am not the one..

@joy6742 Ай бұрын

I absolutely love this!

@zeentusi9339 3 ай бұрын

Keep yourself, be the best version of yourself, pay attention to yourself, keep a positive mindset( don't use your emotions to keep a man, it's a turn-off). Keep the same energy that you want around you. Set the man free, let people do what they want to do, allow them to be themselves, they mustn't be kept imprisoned by you! Otherwise they will set themselves free and it won't feel good/ nice.

@MegaRose1958 2 ай бұрын

Great points Kirk. Thank you.😊 Yes and looking your best goes both ways. 😊

@cayennesinivassinel6977 2 ай бұрын

Keep a man? For what? Let people live their life. Now I will check to make sure they are ok, but I will open the door and help him pack. Im not a slave owner😅

@elizabethbeth-davidysrael1623 Ай бұрын

Facts! Have A Fruitful Day Filled With: Joy,Inspiration ,Love & Shalom/Peace👑🤗❤🙏🏾

@SR77736 3 ай бұрын

Ive done all of these and some still left even claiming they love me. The only way WANT TO STAY/BE KEPT/LOVE YOU ENOUGH. For some all this is still not enough and they will meet another woman whi doesn't do half of this and will still stay.

@elizamoore4535 3 ай бұрын

Then the answer is to do less

@LBSquare6909 3 ай бұрын

Summary Points from KK. (My interpretation) 1. Keep yourself...don't loose self. Don't let your energy change. 2. Keep a positive mindset...keep a good personality...remain fun loving...be happy. 3. Set them free....allow people to be ...no restrictions...allow them to enjoy themselves. 4. Control your mind...create positive and loving thoughts...energy is transferable. 5. Appreciate your man...express it...be sincere. When you show appreciation to a man, he changes for the better. 6. Be submissive....be a team-mate...will show him that you got his back. 7. Respect...show that you respect him. 8. Sex/intimacy.....this is important for a man..do not use it as a tool and deny him...when you remove this from your relationship, it does not help....the man may step out.

@konsciousKirk 3 ай бұрын

I love this summary 🥰

@saffylllama5609 2 ай бұрын

@@konsciousKirk How to manage this situation?? Regarding # 8. If a man is not acting right then there will be zero attraction for me to want to fulfill this. So it's a catch 22 because if there are problems in the relationship sexual attraction bottoms out yet a man who is not meeting the womans needs will still expect to get it. 🥴

@tiffurr 3 ай бұрын

Kirk you explain these videos so well. Appreciate what you’re doing for us women. God bless you & your family. 🙏✨

@user-qw9ge7jg1z 2 ай бұрын

Your advice is so accurate.

@Jasminepsalm 3 ай бұрын

Your straightforward explanations have been instrumental in helping me understand and release the deep pain and bitterness stored in my body from mistreatment by a family I worked for, particularly due to their discomfort with the bond between me and their son. Through consistent practices like nostril breathing, stretching, and meditation, I am gradually but surely experiencing a release of this stored pain. This journey of healing has empowered me, and I now feel prepared for transformation, symbolized by the upcoming solar eclipse. Thank you for your profound guidance and wisdom.

@tawandahaulcy8700 3 ай бұрын

Thank you very informative 🙌 It sounds like to be in a healthy relationship you have to be the best version of yourself and so must your partner. What a high calling.

@vnosike 2 ай бұрын

Your videos are so good!! We can’t keep anyone because people aren’t meant to be kept. Good video… I’m 21 I haven’t dated much my dad doesn’t help me with any advice so your videos are great thank you

@curiouscancer8522 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for this message yes give to self

@preyonce 3 ай бұрын

This is actually really good advice. Thanks!

@user-wd3ou1ru5hlionessoflove22 2 ай бұрын

Just the subject is more than enough. Why should any1 have to keep a man? If hes gonna leave, he will, just the same as if he wants to stay he will. Not a thing is guaranteed. Your own Innerwork is key.❤

@kaysoltero7990 2 ай бұрын

You’re good. 👍 I appreciate your candor.

@brianalewis6981 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. I needed this video today.

@kareemtheartist2234 3 ай бұрын

Very helpful! Thank you for sharing

@originalmix2546 3 ай бұрын

Yessss, so so true!!!!!! this message is for me! 💯

@lindabutler793 2 ай бұрын

Thank You very informed!

@ebony2413 3 ай бұрын

Profound and priceless advice! Thank you

@cmoe6697 3 ай бұрын

Very informative thanks!

@jasminsantiago1390 3 ай бұрын

Thank u on point truth be told

@YolandaRivera285 3 ай бұрын

Love your honesty

@user-ch3qk9qf5n 2 ай бұрын

Very good advice thank you ❤

@tiffany8957 9 күн бұрын

Great !!!

@angelaharry3814 15 күн бұрын

We become so uptight..

@speakyourtruth4978 3 ай бұрын

Always be the best version of yourself

@spice174 3 ай бұрын

Kirk where u walking mind BIG FOOT don’t come get you 🤣🤣🤣 oh Kirk your like a big brother, your right 💯Staying positive and not thinking negative, yeap having your partner back that is definitely true words.💯Respect 💯on both parties

@konsciousKirk 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 hilarious

@adriannegreene1697 3 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉good Teaching

@maycambridge9481 3 ай бұрын

So on point

@yasould1517 3 ай бұрын

Konscious!🎉❤

@Difficult000 2 ай бұрын

A Grown BOY can't be kept A fully developed and mature MAN will stay for LOVE and out of LOVE.

@EternalflameC.L. 3 ай бұрын

He is not a pet so chill out ,nobody will stay and have acvountability unless they are ready!

@Yulondia5225 3 ай бұрын

I think we set our relationships up for failure when we focus on things, beings outside ourselves…. Especially our kids.. Your insights are so impactful and consequential, Sir…

@sunshine2343able 3 ай бұрын

Thanks!🙏🏽🙏🏽

@konsciousKirk 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾

@Touchedmymouthministriesint 3 ай бұрын

A man got to keep you; Good talk though! Submission is love, just love

@saratalibi2935 3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@lisawilliams8183 25 күн бұрын

Thanks!

@konsciousKirk 25 күн бұрын

Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

@desrinesimpson561 3 ай бұрын

I agree 💯

@enlightenedone7083 3 ай бұрын

New subbie, good content!🌺

@susanjack7478 3 ай бұрын

So true

@cherihopkins9278 3 ай бұрын

👏👏👏

@valerieobryan4810 27 күн бұрын

'Keep a man' !! Only animals are kept....human beings remain where they are committed....those reasons might surprise us. It's not always about love

@darlenewilson3188 3 ай бұрын

You can't keep anyone who doesn't want tobe kept Respect is very important if there isn't none move on women take of yourself MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY SOME MEN ARE CONFUSE AND GREADDY U CAN'T HELP HIM LEAVE HIM ON THE ROADSIDE OR THE CURB MARRIED MEN STOP BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND GET GOD IN YOUR LIFE

@sandrathornton2286 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for being the dad i didnt have. Im working on my father wound

@user-wy8tm9jk9w 3 ай бұрын

💪💯💯💯💯💯💯.

@TheMallyjoe 3 ай бұрын

How about a story about how to keep a woman which most men don’t seem to think about.

@konsciousKirk 3 ай бұрын

You can tell that story since you’re the woman. How can a man keep you?

@TheMallyjoe 3 ай бұрын

@@konsciousKirk I could but that’s just for me I guess . Everyone is different.

@user-su1kj6bh3x 3 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@angelalynn4225 3 ай бұрын

Hello friend!!!!

@Manuella966 3 ай бұрын

Kirk, I am dating a very nice masculine guy its long distance who's gone through a divorce for the very exact reasons u mentioned here. Due to a failed marriage, being disrespected and denied sex he doesn't want to consider marriage again but would love to have children with me. How do I get to change his mind?

@kidchocolate9253 3 ай бұрын

He doesn't want to be married again but would love to have a child with you?🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@alicegathuku2122 3 ай бұрын

Is he even divorced?

@konsciousKirk 3 ай бұрын

I’m about to go live on this question right now

@goddessblack8787 3 ай бұрын

Oh hell nawwww your going to be a baby mama in this deal no ma’am a baby is what your supposed to give your husband!!Your good enough to have his baby but not be his wife gtfo I would tell him no sir but nice try.

@weddingplanner1998 2 ай бұрын

NO MARRIAGE, NO CHILD!!! The last thing that you want to do is place yourself in BABY MAMA status! Next thing is, he gets visitation every other weekend! That AIN’T being a damn Daddy, that’s a donor….