“Every child deserves a parent,but not every parent deserves a child”

@@ikiasoul exactly

this comment right here!!! i cannot stress how much I agree with this, because where I live, kids are taught at a young age to ALWAYS respect your parents solely just because they gave birth to you, and no matter what they do, even if they abandon you, because they had their “reasons” to abandon you.

@@seoshi8755 Know you deserve better.

Atleast one person (her brother) stood up for her. i see all the family wants all everything, now things change

Exactly!! he did better then me.. if it was me my mom would be dead.

We make Testaments before Hand to not get into a situation like this with wishes how to have a urne or grave

But no one knows than they die im sad for everyone children young adults teens older once who die younger than 98 or 100

I really hope her brother is okay after that. Or will be okay. I can't imagine how exhausting this must have been. It would suck all the life out of me for yeaaaars. (or even decades)

her brother is a real one.

Exactly how I feel this whole time. It's frustrating. Loosing all innocent and talented women.

Agreed! There is so much trouble because depression and mental health is ignored or not treated with caution much sometimes.

I agree and their sacrifices will not be in vain.

I'M STILL CRYING FOR THEM 😭💜.

@@piyushyadav2829 We all do and i won't ever get silenced

sulli act situation proves dying ain't enough

I know right. AND THEY STILL HAVEN’T EVEN DONE ANYTHING! None of the laws that would and should have protected them were passed. It’s just a publicity stunt to them to make it seem like they care and they are doing something but in reality, it’s disappointing to say, those government officials probably agreed with the haters about these girls. It’s really embarrassing. The girls are gone and they STILL aren’t doing anything about it. Absolutely shocking 😡😡😡

The government usually just does this for face, but unless they execute the law, it's practically meaningless

And korean netizens are still very toxic and rude up to this day

Unfortunately that is one of humanity's biggest flaws in my opinion: we are not proactive, but reactive.

agreed

Even after death, haters couldn’t let her be. I hate how the industry killed them

@@sexyangel072 yea your right

@@sexyangel072 Not to mention how someone broke in her backyard

Hara always has a special place in my heart...I listened to Kara ever since they came out in Japan because I was walking past Shibuya tower records & saw this amazing album cover that made me buy it. Rest in peace Hara my dear xx

He wants his sister rest in peace

But Media or Sole family members he has no contact with dont get it they see not the person who died but the money Dollar eyes money pioson the personality

Sorry but that last part is to far.

@@est727xx5 No it's not too far. In the US, in some states one can be convicted of manslaughter if one knows that they can push someone to kill themselves. www.cga.ct.gov/2020/rpt/pdf/2020-R-0197.pdf I think honestly that it's not just the words, but the on-line stalking. I do see it as manslaughter/murder if the end goal of the netizen is to kill. No different from pulling a trigger.

I would just blocked and deleted the comments or not even read what strangers write to me bullying gets dangerous if you get physical attacked than its a crime körperverletzung in germany

@@jasminkrieger8228 girl.... not you belittling mental health when the people mentioned in the video literally suffered & committed suicide.

@@cassiel_07 i dont be little nothing suicide and mental heath struggle are serious matter i was once depressive with anti deeprisiva pills Tabletten its a headache and feeling empty Down a sadness without Bottom im thankfully better now

I know this is old but you have a share link for it.thank you.

meh, sounds like the sulli law is just an attack on their free speech.

I feel the same. Sulli was my 1st bias when she was in FX. When I hear the update on her, I was shocked it was her comminting suicide. I still can't get over it & GooHara was her best friend & died just weeks later. So sad.

Same, I know her through hara through her friendship with jackson wang in show roommate 8 years ago. I fell in love with her and her personality. I watch over her through over years with little time I have since I was a kid with limited screen time. Just to be told she died. I wish I gathered all the money I have, learn Korean language and go to her and say " everyone loves you, everyone wish foe your happiness, you deserve it. You are the most beautiful, unique and funny person in the world. No one can replace you. No one but you. Love you".

people that commit suiside are going to hell

Tell me why these change has come now ?? ls your President Mr moon still there or do you have a new president in South Korea?? Just ask what took so long on these changes??

@@hyacinthmcdonald3706 if you know what happen to Kim Garam these past few months, you will realize that Sulli law is useless..What happened to Hara and Sulli did not change anything on koreans cancel culture and mass bullying attitude..

@@allenk6373 You can’t even spell.

like come on why koreans are so weak? and they cant handle stress ? like even a celebrities the professor that requires some kind of thick skeen like most koreans are not confident in themselves and do not have mental toughness imagine someone started sanding this messages to Bella Hadid or dua lipa they would probable just ignored maybe its about idols start ignoring hate comments?

for some reason Koreans have this national victim mentality

@@allenk6373 Saying other people that you dont know weak for finally lost in the battle of their own minds is not a wise thing to say and is very insensitive; not just for the Koreans that you mentioned but for all those people in the world who struggled mentally. Just because you dont know the live that they lived along with the "stress" they been enduring, doesn't give you the rights to call them weak. If those people finally lost to depression and decided to take such extreme decision, the most we can do as a decent human being is just pray or wish that they'll find their peace; not calling them weak. What is even the definition of 'weak' ? I hate that word so much because a lot of people always call others that they dont even know with "weak" as if they're the strongest and unbeatable in this world and everyone else is the weakest and not capable of handling "stress". "Oh stress is not a big deal, is it? It's just stress~ it'll pass. Duh!" You won't ever know what's going on in other people's lives, what kind of "stress" and troubles they face each day, what are the situations they're in that make them unable to find ways to cope and help themselves; heck, you dont even know that they had probably been strong, fighting and seeking for help; seeking for ways to get out from the "hell" they had been living in but they unfortunately couldn't find the ways. so just be nice and be a decent human being; i believe you're a strong person yourself, and a strong person shouldn't have called others weak for failing to save themselves out of their ""stress"".

@@marriageisaslowdeath well a week ago I was watching a interview of Graig Harrison he is a British sniper that was serving in afganistan and I think I dont need to tell you that p=being in places like afganistan will ruing your mental state forever but he told that he trying to live again and be happy despite how much blood and death he saw in afganistan so if person like these that survived hell can be happy why the hell these idols cant? thy live in supper safe country yes they have haters, but so many people who love them and will kiss their feets if they ask them they never been in places like Craig did so they need to reflect on certan things

@@allenk6373 sigh. you don't compare people's lives with each other's. just don't. we shouldn't do that. you dont need to put so much 'care' into "why these idols cant survive their stress" then draw conclusion that they're so weak. whatever decisions they took, whatever those people (idols and those people you mentioned above) went through; we dont have anything to do with it. its their own lives. just be sympathetic to everyone. its really easy. even if you cant be sympathetic, then ignore it. focus on yourself, be thankful about things in your own life and be mindful. my point is not to defend those idols from your opinions, but to tell you that we cant try to be "smart" about someone else's life and judge them. you cannot, i cannot. we dont live their lives. be kind.

It is written for them :))

@@jisooturtlerabbitkim8699 no its not

@@kittenyuuuu How you know

@@gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 bc I know the lyrics and it's not

@@kittenyuuuu yess it's for them.

Their Lives

Their own lives

Thank you ☺️ 😊

okay, but, Heechul is not that type of person it seemed. js

I love Heechul, he’s protective of the ones he cares about and fiercely loyal. I’m proud to be an ELF with him watching over his members and juniors.

You are really dedicated to your user 😭

And ppl are querying EXO-M's lawsuit against SM, Burning Sun scandal, etc. Korean entertainment industry is really dark & dirty.

Except in 2017, declassified Court Documents showed JYJ was exposed as being liars, and that SM's Contracts were not unfair, and TVXQ was paid really well, which is why the other 2 stayed. And Investigations show that SM has not "blacklisted" JYJ at all. These Court Documents turned Public Perception upside down. JYJ's Case did change Contract lengths forever, thats true.

@@lunarsoulz The source for your information comes from TVXQ's DC Inside gallery. SM was absolutely caught going to broadcasting stations behind the scenes, preventing JYJ from appearing on broadcasts. It was in the news, and the Fair Trade Commission had to be involved. If SM's contracts were not unfair, there would be no reason to cut them to the standard of 7 now, from the 13 that it used to be, nor invalidate their contracts at the time. The amount TVXQ was paid has also improved over the years. Even after improvements, SM remains one of the lowest paying companies within the Big 4. The other 2 stayed because they wanted to.

@@predatorontheprey6275 SMs contracts were completely legal at the time, however they felt that 13 years was too long and they changed future contracts for Kpop Trainees to be 7 years. Kpop Artists, especially SM Artists (SUJU, SNSD, f(x)), signed pre-2010 have confirmed their Contracts were still the standard 10 years, because they were still legally binding contracts. The reason why they nicknamed the rule change to the "JYJ Law" because they didnt want to name it the "Hangeng Law" and name it after a Foreigner as Hangeng rightfully won his lawsuit and the actual stipulations in that Law Change were for helping Foreigners in Kpop. JYJ had to pay SM $2 Million in damages just to get out of their deal. Years later JYJ was formally banned by the High Court because they tried to pull this Contract stunt on their current Agencies, eventually proving SM's "innocence" those years ago, and that TVXQ OT2 were the "victims" who did the honorable thing all along by staying and respecting their Contracts. SM is not an innocent company at all, but they have only truly lost 1 actual lawsuit in the eyes of the Court and the Public, and that was against Hangeng, which is why Hangeng was never "punished" in any way, and respectfully still has allies within SUJU, and SM. The rest tried to go "scorched earth" against SM and their own groups, and failed, because they had no legal ground to stand on. All SM really ever cared about is Artists respecting their Contracts once signed, like any real Corporation. SM had many Artists who quietly did their thing and respectfully bowed out once their Contracts was up, and moved on in good faith. SM is the only one in the Big 4, who has Artists who are still with them after 12+ years. But no one likes talking about those Artists. People just like focusing on the negatives.

You're right - SM's contracts were considered legal, and the norm at the time. And SHINee, Suju, SNSD etc had those long contracts too. But like you said, the court did agree 13 (10 + 3) years was too long, and their contracts were then ruled to be valid up until the lawsuit was filed - this would not have happened without JYJ and Hangeng's lawsuits. JYJ had to pay damages for the losses SM suffered when they refused to do activities during the lawsuit, not because SM won. Iirc, no side "won". Jaejoong and Junsu have good relations with their current agencies. The other member I do not follow anymore, after finding out the things he has done. It is not dishonourable to want to get out of a 13 year contract that they signed as teenagers - this is something we would never accept in a normal workplace setting, and seeking to change that is not dishonourable. The fact that they were eventually changed - whether you believe it is due to Hangeng, or otherwise, is proof enough of it being too much, despite being legal at the time. Jaejoong and Junsu too, are on friendly terms with some Suju members. Jaejoong specifically over the years has also been in contact with members of Red Velvet, SNSD, and recently NCT. SM has had most of their early artists leave - H.O.T, Shinhwa, S.E.S, Fly To The Sky, most of TVXQ. It is very telling that they all left, and some have gone on record to say it was specifically because of their disagreements with SM that they disbanded, split, or left . It is the later artists that have stayed, and I can only hope it's because SM has started to learn their lesson, after their earlier artists chose to leave. JYP and YG both have artists (2PM and Bigbang) that have stayed with them for 12+ years. That's all I'll be saying on this for now, as while we do not entirely disagree, I see we will not see eye to eye. Have a good day!

Yeah and Jay park kinda blacklisted too by jyp. I mean he did appear on music shows nyt never at the same time as 2pm and rarely.

Jessy is anyway a nasty woman.

Thank you! SM stans are weirdoes

SM did not ban JYJ or Jessica. The kpop entertainment industry chose not to work with them because they felt it would interfere with their business with SM. SM did not go around telling businesses or channels (some of them bigger and more successful than them) not to work with JYJ or Jessica. Its was/is about money and these companies don't want to lose money working with people that have problems with their business partners. This sort of thing happens across all industries not just in the entertainment industry around the world.

@@Siimwe Of course they didn't literally go around telling businesses or channels not to work with JYJ and Jessica. They were more discreet and sneaky about applying pressure. You don't seem to understand the relationship between SM and the 3 major channels here in Korea then, SM had the upper hand. The way they boycotted Music Bank for a month for wanting to do the performance lineup by chart rankings, but SM would not have that their artists always had to take the finale.

I DISAGREE WITH YOU.

Not to forget jTl, the group that broke off from H.O.T, and Shinhwa too, both of whom suffered because of SM. They had a terrible record of retaining artists early on - H.O.T, S.E.S, Shinhwa, most of TVXQ. Those are all legendary groups that SM screwed up. They have gotten a little better now, as more artists choose to stay. Not to mention the treatment of foreign idols, which forced Hangeng, Tao, Luhan, etc to leave.

Sm makes me sick to the stomach, and I want nothing but misery for the ceos of the company. I can't stress enough how disgusted I am that they dont give a shit about their idols mental or physical health. I miss jjong daily. Hes one of the only people who provides real comfort to me. Onew is being so mistreated. This year, he literally paid by himself for editors to edit his "behind" videos, Dice release was supposed to be out last year, and now he said that he HIMSELF is looking for stadiums to celebrate his birthday with fans bc sm doesn't wana help him. And I've gone mentally insane with this lucas scandal. Sasaengs are clearly an advantage to sm somehow bc they dont want to help lucas clear his name. Now that ot6 wayv are having a comeback, they're not getting their teasers out (and ot22 still blame lucas for this long hiatus as if sm hasn't been mistreating them this whole time)

The members have made it very well know that will be serving in the military, even if they get waived

they only changed it to age 30, so bts are still going to the military

@@Oliviakhouk yesss and that's what I love about them! They think of the nation first!

@@Mmjj07 Hero complex so weird

@@gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 u done? 😒