2:51 what makes you feel confident? 3:29 what’s some advice you’d give to a person who doesn’t like the way they look? 4:08 what are some tips for stepping outside your comfort zone? 4:30 how do you figure out what your style is vs what fits? 5:08 what are some misconceptions about things fat people should or should not wear? 6:10 is it bad to hold onto things you don’t feel comfortable in? 6:54 where do you find your clothes? 7:27 sustainable recommendations 7:41 how do you find your own personal style? 8:07 tips for determining accurate sizes when ordering online? 8:36 favorite tights? 8:45 favorite swimsuits? 9:29 favorite lingerie? 10:10 where do you find basics? 10:28 where do you find your jeans? 10:50 thrift store recommendations 10:57 what are things you look for in plus size clothing? 12:12 how do you deal with sizes being different in different stores? 12:19 if you could ask a manager of a company to make changes to include plus size people, what would you recommend? 12:51 any chain stores recommendations besides Torrid? 14:19 how do you find structured pieces that fit? 14:52 how do you plan shopping trips when you know you might get triggered? 15:24 how do you find clothing without spending a lot? 15:40 where do you find bras? 15:56 where to find boots to fit over large calves 16:07 try before you buy brands 16:44 where can you find fun prints and bright colors? 16:51 where to find decent dress pants? 17:16 suggestions for petite plus size clothing? 17:26 when you went abroad, did you find differences in sizes compared to america? 17:39 where do you find arm coverage that isn’t a wrap or cardigan? 17:57 any suggestions for comfy shoes for wide feet? 18:06 what online sites fit “true to size?” 18:17 how do you feel about old navy’s new size policies? 18:38 how do you dress when you’re not a natural hourglass shape? 19:02 what’s the best dress shape for apple, pear, and rectangle bodies? 19:30 how do you figure out the best patterns for different figures? 19:43 what styles do you recommend if you don’t want things to be too tight or too loose? 20:14 what can i do to help muffin top? 20:31 how can you take an outfit to the next level and make it fashion? 21:07 what are some basic must haves? 21:39 under boob sweat solutions? 21:52 comfy athleisure look? 22:12 how do you do a masc look?

"I just do things anyway" is probably one of the most underrated expressions of resilience I've heard in a long time, tbh.

the energy they bring alone is like top notch and I vibe hard with it, ALSO KITCHEN IS REALLY HOT AND BRIE IS A LUCKY GAL

"Personally I think the best part of the muffin is the top." That is the most wholesome relatable body/ food quote ever.

“Dresses are a whole outfit like no is a whole sentence” is my new motto! As with all their videos, they nailed it all these suggestions!

As someone who is learning to be comfortable with getting fatter (bye-bye ED!) there was a *lot* of stuff here I'm grateful to have heard from you. I especially find that wearing lots of fun, bright, unusual stuff helps because it tricks my anxiety-brain into assuming people are going to be too busy saying "wow look how cool/confident/different they are!" instead of "oh look at their muffin top" y'know? Love to you and jorn and brie

"Don't give into the tent. You're not spraying for bugs, you don't need to throw a whole sheet over your body and abandon ship for three days." Funny and wise, perfect Kitchen. Thank you for pushing through and doing this video.

“You asked a lot of them, and I got very overwhelmed and then didn’t make the video til now” 😂😂😂 alarmingly relatable statement

Please don't yell at me I'm trying my best lmaooooooo, also all the links to plus thrift places are in description box ALSO I just gave like 50+ pieces to the plus bus in LA if you wanna shop my closet!!! --kitchen

As a European, I totally agree with Kitchen, they are right about it being difficult to find plus sizes here.

I know it's a plus-size video, but a good portion of the tips are fantastic for any size person. Thank you for your unique blend of positivity and no-nonsense when it comes to body acceptance. It was great to see Brie, too!

Kristen, I know that you may never read this, but hopefully, this gets to you somehow. At the beginning of this video, I was terrified. I am in long-term recovery from an eating disorder and was terrified that this video was going to be triggering. However, I was pleasantly surprised. Thank you so much for empowering me. You have no idea what it means to me right now. Wishing you the best!

Another tip for fit: tailors! They're really not that expensive and they can make a world of a difference in how comfortably something fits. If you have someone in your life who sews, ask them too!

Hope Jorn is taking care of themselves! Love you guys

I just discovered Torrid and literally cried in the fitting room because the first pair of jeans I tried on fit perfectly! Love them!

I am *realistically* a 36H and I have exclusively worn Torrid's Push-Up Plunge bras for YEARS. Everyone who I tell that to is completely baffled. Why would I need a pushup bra when I already have huge boobs?! For me, it's both comfort and aesthetic. It keeps them up, it keeps them strapped in place, and makes it clear where my boobs end and my belly begins. So, even though I've always been confident about my love of these push-up bras it's super refreshing to see another large chested plus-size person also endorse them. I suddenly feel way less alone. I think a lot of your takes here are right on point. Thanks for this!

THANK YOU! I’ve been mid/plus size for years. Then pandemic- I got covid, now long haul, & gained 20 pounds. You’re framing of how to let go of the clothes that don’t fit anymore is so helpful for me right now

I’d love to see Jorn do a video talking about dressing more masculine as an AFAB human. I’ve followed y’all for awhile and seeing Jen just be themselves has helped me feel more comfortable exploring myself and why I wanna dress more masculine (I’m NB AFAB thanks for helping me out with that one unintentionally lol) I know it sounds cheesy but thank you guys for just making videos and being yourselves it’s helped me learn a lot about myself. I’m even considering wearing a suit to my wedding instead of a dress and I don’t think I’d be confident enough to consider that without your influence 💜

Hi Kitchen! I wanna say that thanks to you and your empty suitcase videos, my bestie and I are starting the FIRST plus size only thrift shop here in Edmonton! We need more of them in Canada and it really was your influence and inspiration that helped push this through xoxo

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for reminding people with a history of eating disorders to not measure themselves. It's a huge trigger. My mom or my husband measure me, look at the size chart, and then tell me what size to put in my cart. It's very helpful.

see, I’m not even plus size and this was still GREAT advice! you are such an impressive person and this is a great video ❤️

Kristen constantly inspires me to feel comfortable in my own body, just seeing her talk so casually about her body and it’s shape in a positive and normal way while being beautiful and wearing things that make her look more confident and stunning reminds me that I am as beautiful outside as I am inside when I manifest that energy like she does. Presentation, baby! I’ve been on a complete fashion journey that started with watching the Empty Suitcase show and has led me to wearing all the things I always wanted to but never felt I could. And I look amazing 🤩

I feel like Kristen would really like this shop called Torrid.Hopefully someone can tell them about it.

As someone with long torso/big belly I buy dresses and wear them as shirts.. make the clothes work for you folks!

I've been in therapy for body stuff and when you said the thing about breaking down why you want an hourglass, I screamed. Thank you so much! You are an inspiration whether you want to be or not.

Hi Kitchen! I recently came out to myself and my closest friends as bisexual... at 32. I go in and out of pride vs. shame. I'm unfortunately in a shame cycle now. I'm a gay virgin and also demisexual, and I'm afraid that I'll always be afraid to have sexual and romantic experiences with women and non binary people- because of the shame I have. If this isn't too personal, would you mind speaking on your queer journey? I've always admired you and when I learned that you're queer it made me feel warm and fuzzy about being in this community.

coming back to this vid to say i tracked down the emerald velvet unique vintage dress from this video and bought one for myself and literally it is the most perfect dress. SO comfy, sexy, effortlessly gorgeous. can’t wait to wear it to a wedding next month and actually feel confident in my skin. THANKS FOR THE TIPS AND HOT CLOTHES KITCHEN 🙏💜

As soon as I was done watching this I logged into torrid and bought a few things for myself. I spent more money than I should hav, but it's been a long time since I've bought myself nice clothing. Since the pandemic I've hovered around the same 5ish outfits out of comfort. I guess I felt like I didn't deserve nice things. Thank you Kristen for helping inspire me, and reminding myself that I deserve to feel pretty.

That bathing suit skirt combo is lowkey everything 😍

"Hey, you do not look like a fruit and you make the clothes do what you want" When I say I needed this, I NEEDED this!! Thank you!!

I just want to say that you're actually the reason why I started exploring plus-size options for myself instead of wearing the same black clothes all the time, you've changed my life Kitchen!! Thank you for all your advice

Plus size shopping is so hard for me as someone who leans masc at times, and also lives in a country where there like almost no plus size specific clothing brands (and definitely none for masculine people with more traditionally feminine bodies). This video might not be helpful to my specific situation, but i'll always love seeing Kitchen just being themselves and giving people advice that will help them! Don't understand why people would yell at her, she's extremely delightful and we love her!

I really love Old Navy for leggings, softer denim jeans, and basic tees. I struggle with sensory issues when it comes to clothing. I love that they are now including sizes up to 28 in store AND at “regular” price too. It’s a step in the right direction. I ONLY buy during 40% or up sales though because I feel like it’s overpriced. 😂

Ok, so underboob sweat, they make liners that go underneath (no amount of pushup means I wont have skin touching skin). They are bamboo and very comfortable. I got them on Amazon. Also, in a pinch the brown paper towels that are in dispensers. It doesn’t break down that fast and keeps things comfy. Both keep sweat and therefore irritation in check.

As an insecure teenager, I thank you for the outfit advice! Although I’m not plus sized, I’m currently in between sizes and have been disappointed for so long about clothes not fitting me right. I’m definitely looking into getting clothes adjusted to fit me.

"There is no amount of clothing on your body that will make you be a better or worse person" - as a woman who was raised in a religious fundamentalist community, I needed to hear this. Fantastic video! Looking forward to part 2 :)

Proud of youuuuu, and thank you because I need periodic reminders that clothes are supposed to serve the body not the other way around

Some more tips for you plus size babes; Tights: Snag tights Bras: Elomi or Goddess are amazing brands! Sustainable: Loud Bodies (not cheap though) I wish more US brands were available in the EU, I can only sometimes get my hands on an Eloquii piece. And yes! A dress is a whole outfit :)

"I just do things anyway." This. This is absolutely life goals. You keep doing you, sweetie. We see you and we love you and you help some of us realize we're pretty dang ok just being ourselves. ❤

Take a shot every time they say Torrid... But actually don't, because you'll die! Lmao, but thanks for making this Kristen, the struggle is real, and I really appreciate your style!

As someone who isn't plus-sized and just watched this for fun, I found a lot of these tips helpful anyway (especially since mostly all women's clothes are designed to fit an hourglass shape, which I certainly am not *eye roll*). What you said about things fitting "true to size" is so relatable, women's sizing is literally just fake

I have had a hard week during my ED recovery, and this video was literally what I needed. I love fashion, I love dressing up just to binge Netflix and order in, but have been so hard on my body this week. Thank you for helping me be like take the oversized t off and put on what you really want bc you're the boss of these clothes

One important thing when it comes to fast fashion stores, and this pertains to all sizes, is that since they die cut their fabrics in large stacks the further you get towards the bottom of the stack the more skewed the size becomes. That's why you can try on three identical pairs of jeans in a store and each one fits slightly differently. So even if you know your usual size in a store or it's a new place and you're taking your measurements in preparation I highly recommend trying on a variety of sizes. I shop at some places where I can range across three different sizes on the same day. Also the style of an item can determine what size you may need to try on. I'm always a different size if something is high waisted versus mid-rise. Shop for fit, not the sizing.

i am carrying your "height of my power" concept with me everywhere from now on

Flannel + masc looks giving me inspiration! Kristen, to those of us plus size or not, you’re a style icon full stop.

TYSM FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!!! Also, the underboob sweat question was *real.* Although I totally agree with you Kitchen, I wanted to offer some alternative options from a certified Big Tiddie Goth™️: 1. Baby powder. (I am baby.) 2. Jock itch (NOT ATHLETES FOOT) spray/cream. Listen, I know it seems gross, but it works. 3. Wear cotton/super-duper-breathable fabrics-I've found this decreases boob sweat a whole bunch I hope this helps my fellow tig ol biddie humans!

I didn't need any reminders that I'm queer, but if I had, Tuxedo Kitchen was there for me on this day

Not only are you ~trying~ to do your best, you just ARE doing amazing! Your stuff is so cute & this is so fun & informative!

I'd love to hear more about how you handle sensitivity to certain textures. Usually when I see something I like but say 'it's not for me' it's because of the texture, like lace or sequins

I actually have a thrift recommendation! threadUp! It's not only plus size but they carry up to a size 32 and have a massive selection (in my experience from sizes 12-20). You can pre-set your sizes to tailor your search results. I've had good luck, especially since their restocking fee ($1.99) is per order, not per item, and they provide super easy free returns. I treat the purchase as a dressing room situation.

I'm in Canada and my favourite plus sized store is Reitmans! Its pretty affordable and you can get work clothes, casual clothes, or lounge clothes. I also think that the right bra is a huge thing because everything feels better then

Oh my gosh, I was plus sized my entire life (until this year, I and I have really mixed feelings about it, not the point). I have a very strong opinion where they're clothes, wear them. If you like it, especially if you like you in it, wear them. You deserve space, you deserve to wear what you want, period (just make sure the required by law bits are covered.) I hate the lack of options, but at least there are increasing options. Everyone deserves to be seen and wear clothes! I was asked about bigger brands offering more sizes, it's great! Not truly size inclusive, but it's something.

“If I missed one I’m sorry life is long” me when I don’t remember what I was doing around this same time last year who knows lost to the void.

I've only really gotten into Torrid in the past year, and honestly it's been wonderful! It definitely is a bit more than I used to spend on clothes and shoes (which was basically nothing anyway, haha) but it's been sooooo worth it. I like... finally have clothes and shoes that fit me and are comfortable and better quality than what I had before. Which has made SUCH a difference in my life. I've gotten some great basics there for sure. But also some more fun/colorful/patterend pieces that were instantly my favorite. NO SHAME IN THE TORRID GAME.

Oh! A measurement tip I learned from the fat sewing community! Measure your waist/tummy/hips sitting down as well as standing up! Otherwise you might order things that aren't comfy to sit in.

In reference to plus size shopping in person (brick and mortar store), I suggest: Torrid, Ashley Stewart, Simply Fashion, Avenue, Forever 21.... YES, they are probably heavy on the "fast fashion", so I DON'T recommend for those who have the privilege of not having as much trouble finding affordable plus size clothing. Also, I don't know how to say this appropriately, but as a black woman I can attest that the clothing options for curvy and plus women have always been more abundant (and stylish) in more "urban" neighborhoods. More random shops that aren't the usual chains.

this honestly doubles as a great video for people in recovery from ED. thank you kitchen, you're just the best 🥰

I also love the Torrid push up plunge bras! They work great with low cut dresses/shirts and some of them clasp in the front, which is so much easier and faster than a normal bra

Dear Kitchen (Kristin) I somehow missed this even though I’ve been following you since before this show existed. IDK why, but I’m seeing this today. When I first followed you I was a plus size gal and was so happy to find a beautiful woman who identified with my fashion struggles. Now, I had weight loss surgery and I weigh 120lbs less than when I first followed you. I joke that I have “reverse” body dysmorphia. The person I see in the mirror is the same, modesty overweight, person I’ve always seen. Literally ALL of your advice still applies and I appreciate it so much. Anyone who passes by your advice because they see “plus size” in the title is missing out. I think anyone who has ever had an insecurity about their body, founded or not, could benefit from what you have to say. Thanks for being just who you are, always. I sincerely appreciate it.

As a person recovering from an eating disorder, a great shopping tip for this full figured gal, is to not face the mirror as you get undressed and dressed. Only turn around once you’ve put the garment on, and if it feels good on, you can turn around and take a gander at the color and flow. Remember, “you don’t have to fit the clothes, it’s the clothes job to fit you, and if they don’t, it’s not for you. It’s the clothing’s fault not yours. Just like romantic partners. Not working for me? Thank you, next.”

I'm really surprised hearing Kristin doesn't feel confident ! I remember a video they did years ago where they wore sheer outfits for a whole week and they were ... Beautiful, the most good-looking a person can be, the clothes weren't that "provocative" but the way they wore them, just perfect. I don't know I'm the exact opposite of a plus-size body, I don't even wear bras because I don't need them I'm nearly completely flat chested, but I feel that age brings you the confidence that youth didn't, I've just begun to feel good and happy at 30 and now that I'm 35 for nothing I would change anything about my body, and for nothing I would go back to my twenties.

You are me! I mean, your body is mine! no wait this sounds awful! Your body, and my body, are extremely similar! There it is :) SO many of the plus size fashi-tubers are plus, but (somehow) with flat lower tummies, and a tiny waist, etc etc. This feels SO good to be seen ^_^.

I love the disclaimer about not measuring if you have a history of eating disorders. Ive struggled with anorexia and bulimia since I was 12 and I was obsessed with measuring and weighing myself and one of the best things that have helped me recover was throwing away my measuring tape and scales. It’s nice to Have ppl bring awareness to that♥️

Growing up, you and Jazzmyne were basically the only plus-size people I saw in the public sphere who talked about fashion and style, and in a world that behaves like the best thing plus-size people can hope for is just clothes that fit, you and Jazzmyne and your amazing style were really important to me. So thank you both for that.

this is such good fucking advice, thank you for doing this! And I totally agree about measuring (also for anyone with a history of eating disorders, totally shop with a friend not just on your own. Your friend can measure and purchase with your money or whatever works for you and your friend will tell you you look good and fight off any "ew I'm ugly" feelings coming up while shopping. I NEVER go bra shopping alone anymore because I once tried on like 20 bras and couldn't find one that fit and had a panic attack and had to leave the store so yeah bring a friend friends are great). Also totally bring a tape measure with you when you're shopping in person so you can measure things that aren't marked beyond saying "xxl" or whatever

Your energy is so positive! I love your message. Also, totally agree about shopping in Europe. I’m quite tall, which can make shopping hard anywhere, but wear mostly straight sizes in America. In Europe, I topped out the sizes in many stores and can’t think of one plus sized shop in the city where I lived. The mentality around different bodies in the states is a lot more open than I found abroad.

Just met Kristin and the wifey at Disneyland this weekend and they're the NICEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD! I'm so thankful to have met you guys, thank you for making my trip magical!

Small tip: I make “necklace extenders” with thin elastic after literally breaking a few chokers on my neck whoops lol. Just tied some thin elastic to extend the chain and it worked amazingly well.

One of my goals is to learn to sew so I can tailor clothes for myself and my daughters. I'm petite and my kids are various sizes, not to mention they're changing all the time. I want them to be confident in their bodies and clothing without being preoccupied with having to fit into clothing off the rack.

Omg I couldn’t take my eyes off you in that lavender dress you look incredible! I would kill to find a dress that have a top that fits as well as that one. You are a gorgeous woman and thank you for showing woman we can be too. ❤️

"I just do things anyway" is THE definition of confidence, girl!

For plus size tights- highly recommend snag tights! They don't rip and they come in so many sizes and colors.

I am absolutely loving this video. As someone constantly struggling with loving themselves, I needed this today! Kitchen’s advice about operating at the height of your power, whatever that means for you, was 🤯

I love that you are being so truthful in this, as someone that is plus sized it's nice to know that I'm not alone thank you 💜

I laughed out loud when you essentially shouted your goodbye: "Anyway. THAT'S MY PLUS SIZED FASHION QUESTIONS VIDEO." Also I loved that pencil skirt outfit! A tip on finding a good fit while shopping online: It's great to know your measurements, but, at least in my experience, sizing charts online are rarely accurate, so I try to read through all of the reviews to see what people are saying about the fit. Sometimes reviews are contradictory, but a lot of the times you can pick out trends in the comments and make a better choice (ie, size up, size down, more cropped than it looks, tight in the sleeves or chest, etc).

OMG that green-patterned pencil skirt is freekin adorable!!!!!

This needs to be a whole ass series!! So informative for all sizes!!

I recommend Joanie clothing its really well made clothes which fit a variety of shapes- they also use different size models and show pictures of them in the clothing you are looking at so you can see how someone with your build will look! They also offer measurement guides so you can be specific with your size ❤

You might also like eShakti! IIRC it's $10 to tailor it to your size/preferences. You give them a bajillion measurements and select stuff like neckline, sleeve length, skirt length, etc. I usually get basics in any fabric with polyester and spandex - nice and stretchy.

I love the "⌛ from the front, 🍎 from the side" definition

Loved the video! Since Kristin doesn't really wear tights and I will never miss an opportunity to gush about them, I recommend Snag Tights! Super soft, super comfy, and has a great size range. They're comparable to Torrid as far as price goes but they have so many more styles and colors plus seasonal releases. Honestly I have like 15 pairs which some might say is a problem, but I say is a solid indicator of quality. :) And if you'd like some tall socks (like over the knee or thigh highs) to layer over your comfy new tights, I'd say either Sock Dreams or ThundaThighs. Sock Dreams has more styles, but can be a bit hit or miss with the sizing. Even if it's listed in their plus size category, always check the sizing info! They give super detailed measurements. So as Kristin says, measure with a tape measure before you buy! Hope this helps someone!

That "unless you WANT to wear all black forever" was for me, don't mind if I do 😂

If you haven't tried True & Co for bras...you're doing a diverse to yourself. They are super awesome, comfy, and support without hurting.

For tights - SNAG TIGHTS - I cannot recommend them enough!

That holiday dress is EVERYTHING. I need my own. My jaw immediately dropped

I love how fat positive this video is! Also, that green holiday dress looks amazing on you!

I also reccomend Hot Topic! They're made by the same manurfacturer as Torrid but have a wider variety of styles. I also find that their clothes are VERY comfortable to wear and aren't too expensive, and there's almost always a sale or deal online

I love hearing about your fashion journey! Lots of great advice, especially about making clothes work for you instead of trying to change yourself to suit the clothes! Always love seeing a video from Kitchen and/or Jorn ❤️

I cannot explain how awesome you are, and how much you have helped me embrace my own style and gain my own confidence love you really, and you keep rocking on

I love you so much! You are honest and real about everything!!

I love when you do these heart to hearts. You are a good friend to tell these things to us. I really appreciate you

I absolutely love this video! My first foray into like, fashion I actually loved, was honestly just copying outfits whole cloth from you. You would tag where you got stuff and I would just go there and buy the entire outfit and I would love it so much on you it made me love it on me too. It was such a huge step for me. Thank you for continuing to do work like this, it means a lot. It changed my life.

This is refreshingly honest. I really appreciate this video ❤️

This is the video I needed. So much of what you’ve said here is relatable to me. I’m plus size myself and I’m not fashionable. My style is late 90s to early 2000s I’m still trying to figure out it out 😊

I LOVE these tips and store recommendations - thank you!! All the women in my family struggle to find clothes that they like the fit of. We alter almost all of our clothes at home with a sewing machine or just a needle and thread. It's way easier than you might think (and there's no 'wrong' way to sew 😘). Keep up the good work, theydies ❤️

The best advice I have personally as a tall, larger end of mid-size, person specifically revolves around the idea of having a “goal weight” or “dream body”. To put it in the most frank way possible, even if you end up finding yourself in that dream body, you’re likely not going to feel any better about yourself than you did before. I had to learn that the hard way.

I love when Brie pops in!!!!! ♥️ thank you for making this video!!!

First of all, WHO in the hell doesn't like Kristin?!?!? What is there not to like??? You're hilarious, relatable, intelligent, sarcastic, super fun, creative, logistic, stylish, sweet, caring, a great friend, competent, and all of the above. I just can't imagine why somebody wouldn't like you. And for anybody who has anything negative to say about what anyone else looks like and whether you think somebody is attractive or not, you can fuck right off. I get so sick of cookie cutter everything in life, especially beauty. Please don't overthink what dumbasses on the internet say...people have no lives or brains for that matter. We love you Kristin!

I will always be thankful for Kristin and her fashion videos. They helped me gain the confidence to start experimenting with my style

Love love the torrid super soft line. If your body shape doesnt change much it can help to take note of what are your current favorite pieces and keep looking for items with similar cuts.