This is a miserable life to life honestly…. Without trust and building relationships again… won’t last even if you control everything… one day sooner or later she will eventually be feed up and you are just as miserable having to constantly look after and be cautious of this kind of relationship….I get your situation but it’s a complicated marriage long term and no sort of trust or happiness on both ends. Good luck

Idk how people can ever trust others to hold 100% of their money. I don’t even trust myself 😂

Niam tais txw ntxhais thiab niam pog txw tub ma ntxim ua pog cuag kawg li es nyias ma txw nyias tus.

Yog lawm👍

Totally agree with you.

If you continue to have trust issues and have to babysit your spouse then that’s an unhealthy relationship that will blow up at some point.

Ob yaus back then if ib tug ntxhais 18 xyoo es tsis txawj uas noj haus tus vaj tus tsev cev yog tub kheeg xwb os.

Cov niam tais t txw ntxhais li ko ces yog cov niam tais . Meb cab xwb thiaj xav2 deev hluas

Koj tus pojniam ko tsis tsim nyog yuav lawm. Txog txij tau tuav tes ces sib deev ntau zaus lawm. Koj siab zoo dhau lawm koj thiaj tseem khaws.

Lol....koj paub tsawg. She already had her fun. It wasn't even about the money. The money was used to have her fun with hlub ua zaum kawm kom tsim nyog kav tiam no, but she just used her mom as an excuse.

Muaj ib cov poj niam ces yeej deserves kom yus hlub hlub os.

Kawm tas high school tsis paub say check ntshe ntse zog lawm pob? Zoo saib xwb tsis zoo noj. Poj. I am twb tsis xav kawm ntawv tsis xav ua hauj lwm tab sis xav control nyiaj, that doesn’t fly with me and I’m a woman! I hate lazy, controlling people. You can’t control this type of people. Cov niam tais thiab ntxhais coj li no tseev zoo nkauj los tsis zoo yuav. Niag poj niam tub nkeeg thiab tsis xav khwv noj los tseem siab phem thiab. Twb tsis txawj sau check yuav ua cas pab tau niam tais ua ntaub ntawv xiam hlwb os. Lol lol

Yus twb mus yuav txiv lawm, txhob pheej mus nyob tom niam tais lawm tsheej hli tsis los tsev. Koj los yeej ruam dlhau lawm thiab cas yuav tso mus nrog niam tais nyob ntev npaum ko naj

Cov niam tais uas tus niag ntxhais ruam 2 xwb los xav2 tau vauv ntse thiab muaj pheej cob ntxhais mas Xav ua kom nws fontai xwb . Koj tus poj niam yog neeg ruam thiab tsis puv 100 . Cov neeg zoo nkauj feem coob tsis muaj hlwb .

What a miserable life for the both of you. You are not happy and she is not happy.

Ntuj awnws twb mus roob qaub tag lawm es koj tseem muaj plhus

Koj ho musb koj tus poj niam rau txim tshaj dhau lawm os. Koj txhob zoo siab tias nws mloog koj hais lawm. Tab sis thaum koj twb pom tias nws mluas2 lawm ces txhais tau tiss yog koj tsis hloov ces nws twb yuav ntse rov rau koj os. Hnub nws ntse koj mam paub

Even though your wife agree to have kids, that doesn’t mean that she’s faithful to you. Don’t be too gullible!

I don’t understand how she could add some number to checking account.

No kids please. You'll be paying child support for a long time. She has a plan.

Beginning, she's just crying because she's lazy and material hungry

Ib tus ntxhais es muaj 18 xyoo tsis paub ua noj ces yeej qhia tau tias nws zoo li cas lawm. Ntxhais tubnkeeg xav nyob dawb xwb. Thaum kuv muaj 8 xyoo xwb kuv twb paub ua zaub mov rau kuv niam kuv txiv noj lawm.

Kuv kev xav..... txog txij nws los nyoo koj lo lua lawm mas, nws yeej paub nws tus kheej txhaum loj tshaj qhov koj paub txog. Nws thiaj yuav kam tua nyuj los thov koj. Tsi li ntawv mas koj txhob npau suav nws yuav nyoo koj yooj2 yim.

Your wife is unhappy with you. She is only with you for financial stability, not love. When she finds another man, she will be out the door. She cheated once and she is not afraid to do it again. You said you forgive her but you didn’t because you still control her. Your marriage is doomed.

Me tub koj twb yog ib tus txiv neej yawg uaca koj yuav ruam ualuaj naj kev hlub tsi yog ua lis koj uakos kev hlub yog koj saib tau nws,pab nws,hlub nws, ce yog kev hlub txwjnkawm nawb.tiamsis koj yuavtsum paub txog kev siv nyiaj kom ncajncees rau neb oblees paub,tsi tas lis ntawm koj yauvtsum qhia kom nws paub hlub yus tsev neeg, koj niam koj txiv koj tej kwvtij, tej nkauj muam,hlub koj,saib tau koj ua ncajncee rau koj,tswj nws rau qhov zoo hlub neejtsa raw lis kev hlub uas yus yuav hlub tau ob tog niam txiv kom lawv thiaj tsi tu siab rau neb mas thiaj yog txwj nkawm zoo nawb.

Ob txhiab xwb tseem tsis tau ntau txhob maj nrauj nawb.

She’s so obedient because she did the boom-boom with that guy when she was away from you, and don’t want you to ever find out....but it’s a good thing you are the type of man who doesn’t want to dig too much into the past. Hopefully she stays obedient to you and don’t get smart froM all these hmong stories, or else the next part we are going to hear is “sib nrauj vim kablia niam neej Vam” since so many people have blamed may Vang already LOL

Tus me nuws tsis sawm zoo nes ua li yog tshaj li os.

Qhov ko ces zoo li lawv hais npua xum noj xua ho dog xum noj quav hahaha 😂 😂😂😂

Tsawg tsis sawm os hmoov ges

Mloog kuag

Pojniam tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj niag mebcab no ntag lauj

Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj! Es yus tej qhov ntsej muag dig tag lawm los ua cas yuav mus yuav tej tus poj niam zoo ko es Koj lub yuav mus txog txij twg os moob aw…ua cas nej zaj story no ua cas zoo li hais ruam2 tsi txaus ntseeg li ne….Your check book you can not add number to your check book your story sounds very stupid.

Lomzem heev