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@ianbarbizaniransoli Жыл бұрын
Could you return the title to the original one? Can’t deny it would catch and captivate a new niche market 😂 Heck, i was drawn to it while looking for Rome related stuff
I think the most important point here is the parenting yourself part. When you learn to look at yourself from a third person view, you will be able to clearly see your flaws, or make the right decision for yourself. 🙌🏼😊
@badreddine.elfejer Жыл бұрын
self-authority, pretty challenging without morals
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
True😊😊😊
@vooodka_5256 Жыл бұрын
In what way can i look myself from a third person view? Please enlighten me, i don't understand it. Thank you in advance
@jamierobb6354 Жыл бұрын
Meditation is a good way to gain some distance and pause to observe your inner machinery at work.
@itswyke Жыл бұрын
@@vooodka_5256 Treat yourself like someone you're responsible for helping. Whenever you consider a relatively important decision, think to yourself : what would I recommend in this situation to the person I love most in the world (your child, a parent, your best friend...)
@coffeetea8577 Жыл бұрын
Self care means accountability. It means forcing yourself to do your laundry, setting your alarm to wake up in time for school/work, to workout after a long shift, to do the weekly shop and cook your own meals. It’s budgeting your wages, maintaining a regular study routine, knowing that you and only you knows how you spend every 24 hours. It’s messy, scary, lonely. But it’s also empowering, liberating and happiness, because it’s about doing the right thing for you and your future.
@MeditateTogether Жыл бұрын
Can you please tell who's future it is, when someone says they are working for it? What is it in future out there going on for every step that you make?
@coffeetea8577 Жыл бұрын
@@SiimKoger Of course. I should clarify that "self care" is doing the best thing FOR YOU, carrying out tasks and responsibilities that guarantees YOUR happiness and security, whatever that looks like for you. For me, working out is important, so it means holding myself accountable to it during the times I feel like just chilling out after a long day. Everyone has different ideas of what's important to them, so self care means being accountable and responsible for those priorities that ensures they have a good life
@BGirl_Leeanne Жыл бұрын
I agree. Self-care is not an aesthetic like people on social media make it out to be. It’s deeper than the superficial things.
@killianmccluff36 Жыл бұрын
This applies to a lot of things like self destruction too. There’s a romanticised idea of being broken and resorting to substances to quell your pain.
@MayZoe Жыл бұрын
yes to all of this. the willingness to doing the work while being kind and gentle to yourself. less aesthetics, more listening to the wisdom of the soul
@evlinboghozians3695 Жыл бұрын
The entire 11min of this video is more effective and raw than any other self love talks ❤ beautifully pointed out all aspects, Can’t appreciate it enough.
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥹❤
@darkpaladin9982 Жыл бұрын
I finally understand why I find you so glamorous. You are rationalizing your emotional feeling, your intuition. Not just intelligent, but elegant. Serious Libra energy. You care about people so much and want them to be their better selves. Thanks for helping me, Lana. I have learned so much.
@aimeejane_writings Жыл бұрын
She isn’t Libra, is she?
@indigo_diary Жыл бұрын
She is an Aquarius tho
@eon_mp4 Жыл бұрын
Your comment was incredibly valid until u mentioned being a Libra. Lol
@Bharatultra Жыл бұрын
@@eon_mp4 FOR REAL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Vivi_9 Жыл бұрын
@@eon_mp4 what a Sagittarius thing to say
@jaetrnn6000 Жыл бұрын
I think that a big part of self care is self compassion. Being able to acknowledge your humanity and knowing that you're never going to be perfect, but that doesn't mean you're not amazing. Sometimes it's about finding out how you are amazing, and also finding out how you're not. Knowing your likes and dislikes. Knowing your needs. Being able to listen to yourself. Your emotions. Your internal state. Having a good relationship with yourself. Being in a position where you understand your tendencies, and being able to react from a place where you understand what you're feeling, and whether or not those feelings serve you or if in following them, will lead you to suffering. Learning about yourself. You only know how to decide what to do with yourself once you really know who you are. What you are. Etc. Listen to yourself, don't avoid yourself. Don't neglect yourself. At times, that will mean tolerating yourself. When you are able to begin to have that sort of relationship with yourself, you will find that your relationships with others will also blossom. Because you have the confidence and security of your own emotional wellbeing being within your own hands. And you have the empathy and compassion to live with others.
@bhsprinkle Жыл бұрын
This is such a valuable perspective. "Selfcare" shouldn't be a way to neglect responsibilities or be used as a reason to make poor choices.
@RealJamieBarclay Жыл бұрын
I guess it depends how you define self care, some people get it twisted and use it as an excuse to always indulge in instant gratification activities. To me, self care is always trying to do what's best for you in the long term, without making the short term miserable.
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@Catthepunk Жыл бұрын
Same
@isaiahnedd434 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jamie your a cool dude
@ohpinkiepie Жыл бұрын
Wow, this video was like a cold shower for me, Lana. Recently I've lost a loved one and I think as a means to grieve I turned into self-pity and self-neglect too much. It feels like I have decided to punish myself for the fact that this person does not have any life to live anymore... I have always been A+ student, and people admired me for my discipline, I would always make goals for myself and stick to healthy habits like proper diet, exercise, mindfulness, studying, blah blah. At this point, my life took a 180 degree turn and I've done everything just to numb the pain, calling it "self-care". But how on earth do you care for yourself by binging, skipping any form of movement, scrolling through social media and pretending it's ok to give up on your hobbies that make you happy and fulfilled because you're grieving? Even the therapy sessions I am taking feel hopeless right now because I don't believe I can "simply" be okay and a fully functioning adult after what has happened. Today you have helped me realize everything I do is contrary to what I want to achieve - being healthy and strong for the people I love, so that we can enjoy the rest of our precious lives together, and honor the memory of a person who left this earth way too early. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Lana. I hope you do not mind this emotional dump.
@RENX5 Жыл бұрын
Having ADHD, this twisted definition of self care can be super destructive, we thrive on instant gratification and tend to avoid activities that are actually beneficial for us. So yes, it's a dangerous message to throw just like that especially for people with certain mental conditions (even more so if they're undiagnosed), but it's cool to have people like you that can see through the bs. Thank you
@Ninjaair64 Жыл бұрын
This is such a great perspective, for me self care is improving areas where I may be lacking. So for like skin care, instead of buying just some product, I look for something that will actually help. Also going to the gym regular, I may not always want to go, but it helps with my mental health.
@kasey_068 Жыл бұрын
I definitely see the truth in what you've said- I always find myself scrolling on social media as a form of 'self care' (so I have more energy later on) when in actual fact I'm almost always avoiding a deadline or using it to escape the stress of some decision. And since it affects my time management so much, it leads to me using feeling empty and disappointed in myself.... reigniting a not so good cycle. I've been learning what I like and how best to create a lifestyle that balances life and uni and this is a good reminder that self care is a long term thing, and that it is not synonymous with self-indulgence
@ellazevodrog1985 Жыл бұрын
I think this is my most favorite video from you so far after years of being your subscriber. Very straightforward and radical to how social media or other influencers let us think what should be self care, which can be a really harmful mindset for most people especially the younger ones. Good job, Lana.
@saint_xxx Жыл бұрын
The disposability called me out. I am so quick to cut off people especially when they don't have the same core values as mine. Watching you explain that part made me think in a whole new perspective.
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Жыл бұрын
Self care is so important! To me long-term goals usually trump instant gratification, but you do have to treat yourself once in awhile as long as it is once in awhile. Awesome video, Lana! Once again you put out an inspirational video. You are wise beyond your years!
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
❤️👍❤️👍
@Aarony0929 Жыл бұрын
As a Chinese,Your video is so gooooooooood,helps me conquer my life hardship!
@Moshm4n Жыл бұрын
Two things can be true at once: (1); You "deserve" to indulge, (2); you "deserve" to be healthy physically and mentally. When taken by themselves, these two things are adversarial-but with balance, they can help you be the best version of yourself while preserving your sanity and not feeling deprived. Yeah, you should have "me time"-but if it turns into a complex, your relationships will suffer
@HannahMarieee Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@mehditate Жыл бұрын
The self parenting has been big for me. I had to unlearn a lot. I recently moved to a cabin here in the north of Sweden from Miami and post about self improvement on KZfaq. Self love is something big for me and I am just starting especially since the winters here are a bit of a channel (this is my second one).
@JamieAsareZiegler Жыл бұрын
I like to take a dialectical approach to this kind of thing: hiding behind any idea is its antithesis, and both of those ideas give each other balance. So once I've identified an idea and the counter-idea hiding behind it, the real challenge is where in between the two is the synthesis? And that balance is often contextual or subjective. (Edit: Your last point is the best. It's so, so important. I wrote my graduate thesis on it. The intermediary concept that I think gives all of this perspective is the idea that we’re all here to serve and assist one another. Is the way we’re pursuing our individual health and growth allowing us to better contribute to the community? If those two moral imperatives-our responsibility to ourselves and our duty to society-are in balance with one another, I’ve got to assume life takes on a sort of inner-coherence that is hard to find without those reference points.)
@indigo_diary Жыл бұрын
In which field did you do your thesis?
@JamieAsareZiegler Жыл бұрын
@@indigo_diary My degree was in Human Rights. Now my job is trying to figure out what I can do with it!
@thompson3787 Жыл бұрын
Relatable! I find Jocko’s “discipline = freedom” way of living to be quite insightful. Though he wakes up early everyday consistently to start his day, once in a while he does bless himself with smtg nice n he will say this the “freedom” part of his motto jokingly..
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev Жыл бұрын
Self love is so important ❤ I feel it’s human nature to chase after comfort , in its chase we tend to forget about right and wrong..so for me it’s “there’s comfort in mistakes “ 🌹 you are my inspiration and my reason for being alive like you make life so easy to understand
@taekookielover1985 Жыл бұрын
this video really opened my eyes. ofc i am always stressed - my time management or rather what i give my time to in certain moments definitely has rather a negative effect lol. and as you said correctly its not real self care bc it gives me even more stress afterwards.. kind of a bad copying mechanism
@rian5574 Жыл бұрын
You’re the only person on whose channel I have notifications 💓
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥹❤️
@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын
It is so nice to listen to your thoughts, Lana on self-care, from the mindful perspective. What I can say is that society might see putting ourselves first as a selfish act whereas social media doesn't see it as selfish. Recently, I have read a lot of information online about putting ourselves first because I want to let my curiosity understand if self-care is actually good or bad. But your point of view is better and more cohesive. Congratulations on launching your Skillshare class.
@nourake341 Жыл бұрын
My fav KZfaqr the only one that’s not talking bs ❤
@lunabear2171 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that someone put that into words! VI and VII were what I've been thinking for quite some time and there's a fine line in such kind of things. Being Selfish, Labelling everyone into "toxic" for a minuscule mistake or a behavior without reflecting themselves or Genuinely giving yourself a break and taking care of yourself and reconsidering things. Even if you ever ignore someone because you're having a me-time, just letting them know or say sorry after that would be so much more better.
@fredrikdahl1230 Жыл бұрын
I think both, like some other person commented , seeing yourself from the outside looking in and being true to yourself is the most important thing in life. That is my belief at least.
@sayyourthing Жыл бұрын
This is so spot on. I've been thinking all of these things lately and didn't know how to articulate it, thought I was the only one thinking them. Thank you Lana ❤
@hushasmrchannel Жыл бұрын
I came across your website and your book recommendations on there, and omg I. Can’t. Stop. Reading. Best recommendations!!!
@eon_mp4 Жыл бұрын
It's CRAZY cuz I'm literally working on a video addressing the exact same thing! Your vid just accelerated my writing process and inspired me. Been thinking for a while on the same thing and came to basically the same conclusion. Self-indulgence can be acceptable every so often as long as one isn't deluding themselves into thinking it's "self-care". True self-care is just doing what is best for your long-term well-being such that your well-being is also best for the community around you. Dk if that came out right, but yeah. Great vid!
@amiya51 Жыл бұрын
She is so beautiful that I can't take my eye off from her ! 🥺❤️
@sofiesandrini7017 Жыл бұрын
the chapter where u talked about disposability, is so true. A lot of people on tik Tok thinks everyone is in the same situation and everyone is the same and no one can change... but then makes another video saying, "u can change ur life!" its really exhausting
@marcusstrymon693 Жыл бұрын
Self indulgence for me is when I go out at the crack and go climbing hard. The phenomenon you described especially hits hard when I am allready done and I know that not going into another hard route might be better for my body but I still go in and climb it because the experience of rock climbing just brings me so much joy and is the highest of highs a hardcore ADHD person can experience.... It is really not that healthy some times and you gotta watch out for not getting injured but its also probably more healthy than eating a lot of sweets (which at times I am also guilty) or taking drugs, drinking, ...
@suzannemayo8369 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Someone finally said it. I’m not perfect as I am. I’m a work in process. I don’t need your validation and if I want your advice, I’ll ask for it. As far as indulging goes, there seem to be those who can in moderation, or if you can’t it’s all or nothing. Moderators and Abstainers. Personally I know. when I can have an occasional treat without societal pressure and I’m grateful to know this about myself.
@aKm057 Жыл бұрын
This person is beauty and brains. ^^ She is an admirable personality.
@keitaterasaki9432 Жыл бұрын
Something I learned about self-indulgence was to pay attention to how it makes you feel afterwards. I used to constantly eat out, but I wanted to cook to eat healthier and save money. After a while though, I realized how low-energy and brainless I become after eating out for a couple of days, and how much more alive and active I feel when I cook for myself. (It also goes for what kinds of food I ate as well.) Since then my self-indulgence was automatically curbed and I simply don't feel like it as much. I still do once in a while which is great, but it hasn't become an uncontrollable addiction. Honestly I think it's the same for a lot of indulgences/addictions/etc. It's tiring to constantly "fight against yourself". Instead, it's more efficient to utilize your body's urges to your advantage. It feels good to be healthy after all, it just takes a bit of attention to that feeling.
@hananemouna673 Жыл бұрын
Like i have always said to my friends .."I have a parent in my head XD" ..seeing yourself form this perspective as a kid who needs a good education, a healthy body , and beautiful futur will change everything when it comes to your relationship with yourself..kids tend to live only in present and not caring about the consequences,as a good parent , it's your job to guide them and do everything to not spoil them , and be doomed in their whims ..of course kids need to play from time to time but surely not risky games .. Well doing the right thing is caring and it's the most important ACT of love towards yourself
@rhealynyarn Жыл бұрын
omggg lanaaaaaaaaa road to million subscribers omggggg I am so proud and happy for you. you really deserve itt! ❤️❤️❤️
@UnJadedJade Жыл бұрын
I love this Lana! So well said 👏👏🤍
@jooniexim Жыл бұрын
your videos have helped me so much lana and im sure many other people too. literally love your work, your aura, your words and everything about you thank you so much ❤️💟
@asadumarshorts Жыл бұрын
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@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥹❤
@atishya3259 Жыл бұрын
As a single child, you surely give off big sister vibes! Thankyou💗
@truesithempire9386 Жыл бұрын
Hey sister!!! Always glad to see you good and peaceful..
@robloxangels6110 Жыл бұрын
Her videos always inspire me so much to change myself to be the better version of myself.. thank you so much Lana srsly u have helped me through my hard times so much 🥺❤️
@hobsyllwin2562 Жыл бұрын
So true. Thank you for this video. Funny, because just the past few months I thought about why as children we are so much happier and everything is so special. As grown ups we have so much more freedom and we are bored and unhappy or at least life often feels … flat? And no, it is not the responsibility. As kids we had the pressure of making friend, getting good grades and other things that seemed important at that time. And every day we had to get up to go to school. Do homework. Study etc. so why were we so much more excited much more often? And i am pretty sure it has to do with the children thing you just described. We were excited to get ice cream or candy BECAUSE we had to ask for it and were not allowed to have it all the time. We were excited about having a friend over or OMG SLEEPOVERS!!! Because we were ALLOWED to do so once in a while. No we just can have all of that whenever we want to…. So it becomes normal. And some time boring. Nothing to bet excited about. Pretty sad to think about, but I think it is true….
@Adi-tm7ng Жыл бұрын
I’m very excited and happy for you to hit 1m subs❤
@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on reaching 1 million subscribers Lana!!! 🎊 I have always believed that you will get to this point and you did this. I am so happy for you! ❤️
@lily8261 Жыл бұрын
The idea of treating yourself needs to be shifted from things like eating chocolate and watching movies to exercising, eating right and learning. Imagine if eating chocolate was perceived as a punishment
@Dinkysweg Жыл бұрын
Lana the GOAT of youtube!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥹❤️
@azertyssement1 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah! I am truly happy you mentioned the IV point about individualism. I have never seen any video about self-care or productivity talking about our need, as human creatures, for relationships with others. That is a main point that should be noted as you did. We need a balance btw being through others and by ourselves. We shouldn't completely need others to be but we need them to be bc they are the reflect of what we are.
@captain1432 Жыл бұрын
I know, but it's so hard to push myself to the right things for my future self. I've sunken so deep already.
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev Жыл бұрын
I’m not going to write so much cuz you get so many comments here and If I start writing for sure there won’t be enough to write all day and all night but here it is …when I first saw you I just like liked you for your glamour and beauty but the more I got to know about you …I knew your way of being …you are precious both inside and outside ❤️…I just want to thank you . Thank you for all the love , the au you make us feel and making our lives more beautiful but above all that you are being yourself and for being close to your fans ❤️❤️for being natural and making us happy or smile even if I’m sick , or I’m in my saddest , or on the hardest days ❤️I know I’ll be one more follower but if you have only 10 followers (touch wood) that day won’t come , but I’ll be one of them for sure and I’ll support you each and every day till end of time …your videos bring a sense of calm to my life ..they give me safe vibes I can resonate with every piece of your work lana
@LilliesforSeverus Жыл бұрын
Very well thought out & well said. Your posts are always like a breath of fresh air.
@TheREALHugo4 Жыл бұрын
There is pretty much one thing that i can't change, it is the past when i was just an idiot. Now, as a young adult, this year was definitely helpful for me and for me, it was self-improvement and learning things that could help. Now, i feel proud of myself, little by little, i feel like i'm being closer to be what i strive to be. Also thanks to your videos, Lana. I've learned so much.
@itspersonalchannel Жыл бұрын
I don’t see self care as watching Netflix I see self care as going to therapy, doing skincare, journaling, reading or doing my hair 😂
@openhearts.raymond Жыл бұрын
noticed your british accent right at the moment you pulled it, so it's on point
@BiscoffBabe Жыл бұрын
i needed this so much today, thank you
@simonnmorgan Жыл бұрын
Really great topic, Lana. I think, self care in itself isn’t problematic. But it’s so easily confused with mindless distraction that gets in the way of pursueing that which gives meaning to our lives. Purposefully engaging in an activity because we value self-care is good. Aimlessly giving into momentary desires not so much.
@Ruffian1790 Жыл бұрын
This is a lovely meditation, and hit everything that doesn't seem to ring quite true in the saccharine admonitions to see to "self care," in the form of cutting away anything that isn't comforting and soothing in the moment. There is a tiny nugget of truth in that sort of self care; sometimes the point comes (especially as an introvert) when a moment of solitude is needed before one can be any further good to the surrounding community. And on individualism and self-reliance, it is empowering and worthwhile to know the depths and limits of one's capacities, which can only be found through practice and trying things solo. But the essence that the instagrammable form misses is the balance. You've nailed it that defaulting to self-soothing is rarely actually useful to "future you," and I cringe at "validating" messages that glorify high time preference and present comfort as self-care. The ultimate self-care looks a lot more like buckling down, even when you "don't feel like it" or "don't have the energy;" clean your habitat, get what needs done on the schedule and follow through, etc. I can only imagine the mental state I'd be in if I lived on my favorite "guilty pleasure" foods and let my least favorite chores build up in the name of "self care."
@HBQ Жыл бұрын
i've been feeling all these things you mentioned lately... thank you so much for putting it into words
@OumaYma.E.B Жыл бұрын
I've been checking if there's a notification on a daily basis, I'm ecstatic that u uploaded, love u lana 💜❤️.
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
This is so sweet!!
@wagner9972 Жыл бұрын
am i in love for the way you talk? wow
@yohaizilber Жыл бұрын
Self care is actually the more loving version of self discipline 😉
@marcpadilla1094 Жыл бұрын
Very insightful. Self awareness is important. Improves relationships. When you're tired, or stressed,you're more impulsive,for sure.
@Adi-tm7ng Жыл бұрын
Congratulations for almost hitting 1 million subs🎉
@lorlor2141 Жыл бұрын
Lmaoo the disclaimer about not having beef with facemaks😭. Also this video has been very eye opening for me as I have recently hopped on the self care trend, but this perspective on it makes me really think about how I indulge in these trends. I will be revisiting this video multiple times to remind myself. Thank you so much for your unbiased wonderful insight.
@NateshasAmbience Жыл бұрын
Thanks for dropping these beautiful, sparkling gems! 💎💎💎
@HannahMarieee Жыл бұрын
This is a very wise view on self-care, thank you so much for this 💗
@annaz3266 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this was said
@minaal2142 Жыл бұрын
You're a literal angel
@sutapajana9987 Жыл бұрын
I think most people cannot avoid these day to day responsibilities in the name of self care. No matter whether I want to watch Netflix and avoid the important emails i need to get to, I'd always HAVE TO choose the latter or else I may lose my job. Only the highly privileged can do these indulgent activities on a frequent basis- and imo to them it probably doesn't matter if daily self-care is not doing them much help
@merkisruiz3120 Жыл бұрын
I'd say that I don't really care about 'self-care' as it's conceived of these days as much as I do about honoring yourself, or in other words, self-respect. I think self-respect is the right way forward because it encapsulates many actions and habits that the popular concept of self-care aims at establishing(in a way), along with those that are necessarily painful. Respect or honor in relationship to the self makes it possible to treat oneself as a multifaceted being that deserves love, is capable of enduring hardship and of growing exponentially. It also necessarily raises the question: What do I truly want and value? Being incapable of acknowledging those inner forces and drives is not only tantamount to disrespect(and blind action), but will make it so that any future action be sabotaged by these. Thanks for uploading, Lana B!
@shanzaysikandar5448 Жыл бұрын
This is your best video so far , the advices are so on point especially the last one that if we crave for community and love than we must not be loving ourself enough and all bullshit like this we keep seeing on Instagram and ticktock , love your mindset , I know the experiences you must have gone through to finally have a right mindset like this , because Im on the same level now as you are thinking , cheers to the growth 🙌💗💗
@baum8456 Жыл бұрын
You really opened my eyes, I just realized how dump I was all along... thank u
@ananyasunar4198 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Lana.
@slusam1000 Жыл бұрын
You know what, Lana - kudos to you! ♡ For everything.
@stories-of-elle Жыл бұрын
self improvement queen
@albaantoli7861 Жыл бұрын
I love to see how you've been evolving, it's amazing. Thanks for your advices 💕💕💕
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥰☺️
@marccolomayt82094 Жыл бұрын
best self-care content ever!!!
@amethystap5053 Жыл бұрын
learning to redirect, making choices for your future self, parenting yourself and not overindulging, doing the boring but necessary stuff, yes. Self care is not about neglecting your duties, overindulging, accepting things about yourself that doesn't make you happy. Self care should be loving yourself and learning what needs to be met and actually meeting them, not just treating the symptoms of that unmet need and sometimes that isn't glamorous.
@sajjusardar4288 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations for 1 million my favorite...🔥🔥
@knightsatin Жыл бұрын
self love is so important in determining what is best for you in any given circumstance. I think that this needs to be considered when making decisions, especially if those decisions give rise to long term changes. Thank you Lana for another inspirational video 👍
@artusfarfalla Жыл бұрын
Love the aesthetics of your videos. 😌
@ritchiewong16 Жыл бұрын
Hi Lana 👋, I love the way you talk about every point addressed in this video. I’m looking forward to the day you reach 1 million subscribers!!! 😆 Sending you lots of love!!! ❤❤❤🤗
@Sandiile Жыл бұрын
Lana what’s your top 5 books that you would recommend?
@meherjanurmee9566 Жыл бұрын
1 M subscribers! Congratulations Lana!
@natemarx4999 Жыл бұрын
I am a simple man, i see Lana on my notifications, and i click.
@lovedaisy_0728 Жыл бұрын
This video is so inspiring to me!! I love this video. Thank you Lana. ☺️
@bayanbishara6666 Жыл бұрын
8:46 EXACTLYYYY
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev Жыл бұрын
Just love and power to you wish you reach 1 million subs soon and it’s not far away love from India 🇮🇳 you are a blessing ❤to humanity
@chinyererachel Жыл бұрын
Wow! A partner is not wrong for you because they don't compliment you every day... this is so true. Let's all allow people to be themselves.
@michaelbrito8349 Жыл бұрын
When she said "quality" in British accent I was like "did Lana say it in British accent"?
@NFSMAN50 Жыл бұрын
True words said Lana! Happy Sunday friend, I appreciate you lots!!!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
Happy Sunday!! ☺️
@bolangbo02 Жыл бұрын
I just waited for a lana video ❤️❤️
@oleksybabansky Жыл бұрын
Seeing a wide generalisation like that never fails to put a smile on my face)))
@anuragmahajan5919 Жыл бұрын
I have exactly the same questions. This video is extremely relatable. Thank you
@Icarostarkiller Жыл бұрын
I've been thinking the same points about tiktok and how distorts our mind by fostering dysfunctional thoughts that don't help us achieve our goals and only create an ideal of the perfect modern person.
@BrownieEXE Жыл бұрын
Luckily, i know myself pretty well to know when to put limits. I've experienced moments where buying something when i felt sad didn't actually made me happy. Stopping to think what is troubling you helps in the long run