What To Wear To A Funeral

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8 жыл бұрын

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What To Wear To A Funeral
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@alvadans235 4 жыл бұрын

It's unbelievable that I watch this, I never thought I had to, but now iam here cause my gran grandma past away, I miss her so much♥♥

@briyarnawhite5759 2 жыл бұрын

Mines passed this morning at 1:11 am .. never thought i’d be here either. I’m hoping all is well 💕

@kaylinaE 2 жыл бұрын

Praying for you guys❤️❤️

@briyarnawhite5759 2 жыл бұрын

@@kaylinaE Thank you! I really appreciate it.

@crystal-angel1410 2 жыл бұрын

Im so, so, sorry 😞 You and your fanily are in my thoughts 🌺

@ladybugbee 2 жыл бұрын

Bruuuhhh- sammee

@captainsaucypants1476 7 жыл бұрын

It's sad that i actually had to look this up for a funeral tomorrow, I want to be respectful that's why I'm watching this. On top of that my grandpa recently died, and i can't even attend his funeral because he's so far away.

@coolvloger1239 6 жыл бұрын

Captain Saucy Pants same I’m going to a funeral

@masonmccune4622 6 жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your loss Captain Saucy Pants also CoolVloger 123.

@unwantedd.y3862 6 жыл бұрын

Same I'm going to a funeral tomorrow of this little girl I knew. She got ran over and passed away in route 😭. She was only 8 years old

@sheilaconnolly344 5 жыл бұрын

Me to I'm going tmrw

@lifeline4925 5 жыл бұрын

Captain Saucy Pants you poor boo

@jodeemathews6352 8 жыл бұрын

I thought the dog was clothes lol

@LaurenMessiah 8 жыл бұрын

LOL!

@imaweird001 5 жыл бұрын

Jodee Mathews Same

@goutamsardar8364 3 жыл бұрын

lol same

@virginiablodgett4328 6 жыл бұрын

Yes it's about the person who passed away but I think funerals are for the family.

@enlightenedact 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you, my husband just passed and I need to hear this from an expert. I have many options in my wardrobe so your overall philosophy was great!!!

@allanduff6903 6 жыл бұрын

Yoly Denson I'm really sorry for your loss xx

@mileytaylor1304 6 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend was shot in the head and his funeral is today I’ve worried for days about what to wear because I don’t have dressy clothes this was really helpful

@dtredeagle6311 5 жыл бұрын

my bro passed the same way. some of us didn't have formal things to wear so we wore jeans and a hoodie.

@koormie 5 жыл бұрын

My condolences

@mileytaylor1304 5 жыл бұрын

Judy the Mortician thank you been almost a year now

@mileytaylor1304 5 жыл бұрын

DT RedEagle we did the same actually

@eva9728 3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope your doing alright.🤍

@Curvycurlygurly 8 жыл бұрын

I just stared at the dog the entire time.

@koormie 5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@freja3150 5 жыл бұрын

i thought it was a pillow

@kaileysmith364 5 жыл бұрын

Same

@caleighhughes4646 3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t even notice that omg wow xx

@vo7724 3 жыл бұрын

I didn't notice the dog till I read this comment

@kalxndi 6 жыл бұрын

I looked this up because my uncle passed away last Saturday. It hurts so bad and I wasn’t sure what to wear. Thank you.

@blinkblang2132 4 жыл бұрын

hi i’m rabbit same expect last friday :/

@cutieray6968 3 жыл бұрын

My brother recently passed a couple days ago 😞 and my style is very much not ok for a funeral, this helped so much thank you.

@szqsk8 6 жыл бұрын

It's a shame that people need to be reminded that someone else's funeral is not their moment.

@sadfurby2376 5 жыл бұрын

It’s also a shame that while people are mourning there’s such a focus on dress code. That should be the last thing people have to worry about

@bittersweetti3351 4 жыл бұрын

szqsk8 but if you’re Anne Boleyn, feel free to wear yellow.

@butterflygirl01 2 жыл бұрын

@@sadfurby2376 right Guess I’ll have to go find something to wear at the store

@andreapatane4204 5 жыл бұрын

My mom lent me a black tank top and a black sweater for me to wear back when my great grandmother died from Alzheimer’s disease complications. It fits me just fine. 🙌🏻

@char6081 3 жыл бұрын

I’m going to my first funeral. I love u forever grandpa 🥺❤️ rest easy in heaven 🕊✝️

@eva9728 3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandpa as well and I know how it feels. My condolences 🤍

@sarahferrell8636 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Finally someone who understands the importance of being there for that person and family l. Not over dressing because you want to be there to show off, that’s a lack of respect and love.❤

@bluefoxy7852 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for those tips. I'm going to my very first funeral today.

@SteviiLove 7 жыл бұрын

this makes my outfit choice for tomorrow all the more safe... my grandma passed away and tomorrow is the funeral/memorial service. I've got a nice simple black shirt that's not too form fitting and very minute lace at the bottom, black skinny jeans that are matte and a pair of black heals. my only problem is the shirt is short sleeve but it's very warm, so I think because I'll only be showing my arms it should be okay... it's the best I've got that doesn't scream look at me without me looking like a complete slob

@Itz_Arip 7 жыл бұрын

SteviiLove I am so sorry for your lost

@user-kw8go6ok5g 5 жыл бұрын

I lost one of my friends to suicide nine days ago, his funeral is today.

@siep6537 5 жыл бұрын

wow.. that's so sad :( sorry for your loss.

@lauralouden2521 5 жыл бұрын

I just saw ur comment am so sorry

@jenniferbrown-zf8gw 4 жыл бұрын

I lost my brother Thursday night to suicide. His wake is today. Im so sad. And im sorry for your loss.

@malgrosskreuz01 4 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry :(

@toxicsugarart2103 3 жыл бұрын

@Nuva•Nephri•Hezzu people are allowed to be sad on their phones lol

@christinaschillemans9436 7 жыл бұрын

My grandma wants me to wear colors for her funeral, if I don't wear colors then I'm not welcome.

@allanduff6903 6 жыл бұрын

Christina Schillemans tell her black is a colour 😂

@yemaya7778 5 жыл бұрын

Nerderer same!!

@bittersweetti3351 4 жыл бұрын

Christina Schillemans for my funeral I want everyone to wear yellow! I want them to remember that my life was happy and that I lived a good life. Unless I get murdered, or die young.

@mindyn9651 3 жыл бұрын

Allan Duff black is a shade, not a color

@melhattan_ 8 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!!! ROCK STAR.

@GreenstoneRussell 7 жыл бұрын

I recently lost my Auntie last year and I don't know what to wear at the memorial.

@emilyscamera2920 2 жыл бұрын

one of my friends died a few days ago because of a car accident 😔 he was only 16 the funeral is friday 😔🕊 may he rest peacefully

@GMAILISKOOL 2 жыл бұрын

thank you for this video i lost my grandma and have no idea what to where or even the make up

@elektras6325 5 жыл бұрын

I’m wearing black to grandmas funeral but at my funeral I want people to either dress in my favorite color or their favorite color. I think the girl asked the question, not because she wants to draw attention to herself or be a fashionista, instead she wants to not break the dress code.

@keyvonnaarline3466 5 жыл бұрын

Sally M we are dressing in my grandmas favorite color, hot pink and black 💖

@Scorpio12348 2 жыл бұрын

@chiranjeevsarkar9957 4 жыл бұрын

Is it ok if I wear a black dress with a bow on its back

@tiapitt7022 4 жыл бұрын

i have a funeral in a few hours and i just don’t know what to wear, someone around my age (i’m 14) died last week and at his funeral i’m pretty sure they want no black, so i have no clue what to wear

@ANNSHEARD 5 жыл бұрын

Thank You

@yungurl2312 4 жыл бұрын

my pop never liked black at funerals but I wanna wear a blue faded flower top is really lovely with black jeans and boots.. I dunno if your country is different to Australia but we can wear whatever colour we want

@toiynhac 5 жыл бұрын

hi Ms. Messier it is a very nice video thank you

@annabanana9019 2 жыл бұрын

Never knew i would be searching this up but my dad passed away 3 days ago on his bday and i really miss him

@catty_5656 4 жыл бұрын

I know this is kinda dark but... Why am I worrying about what to wear to my great-uncle's funeral? I'm used to going to them by now

@Tandbtv1 4 ай бұрын

Great tips

@andrealorenzana9313 2 жыл бұрын

My grandmother passed away yesterday and I want wear something that honor's her memory

@laurayoung2293 5 жыл бұрын

What about pencil skirt go with flat boots? Im only 5ft 3/4.. do you think would look ok?

@hugettnunez176 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks...

@Melly241000 3 жыл бұрын

I say wear the deceased person favorite color or something that represents them like for my dad's funeral i wore turquoise because he loved that color and and i will be going to a friends funeral tomorrow and she loved sun flowers, Disney and was part of the lgbtq community so i will be wearing a blouse with sunflowers on it with black pants and black blazer some will probably be wearing rainbows or Disney but formal as well :)

@darlenebordelon9168 Жыл бұрын

Cute dog!

@LydiannaBella 7 жыл бұрын

Omg cute dog 🐶

@dalaraman2096 7 жыл бұрын

Black is great

@lemonadestandman169 3 жыл бұрын

My grandfather passed away and the funeral is tomorrow, gosh I really never thought I was gonna be here

@coolerthenyou2377 6 жыл бұрын

is it ok to wear ankle high heel boots? im not sure! pls answer! i have a funeral in 3 days!

@weewoo3314 3 жыл бұрын

yes.

@tessat338 2 жыл бұрын

I tend to wear black, grey, white and a subdued mauve or purple to funerals.

@luzceballos7104 3 жыл бұрын

What about office dress pants ?

@lmao00o 2 жыл бұрын

Um- is it ok to wear gray?

@tony8loko548 5 жыл бұрын

I'm native American so I have to do it traditional

@GoddesssofMind Жыл бұрын

I needed this, I'm going back to my very conservative family for a funeral, anxiety on 100 bc I'm tatted and alt ,thanks for this

@Therealsasuke 4 жыл бұрын

What if your the person the funerals being held for

@Therealsasuke 2 жыл бұрын

@yaskween I forgot ,I even watched this video,why was I even here?

@claudiarose9148 6 жыл бұрын

later today i have a funeral

@BeautyQueenFL 2 жыл бұрын

What about a celebration of life party? There aren’t any videos on that 🤔

@user-qn6xn5kp5m 3 жыл бұрын

I lost my grandpa today and his funeral is on Wednesday

@showstopperdesigns9190 6 жыл бұрын

What about calling attention to yourself and over dressing? A family member attended a viewing and showed up in a mink coat, which offended some of the family.

@HarrisPilton789 4 жыл бұрын

Wearing a mink during cold weather is not considered over- dressing. It sounds like some of your family members are haters.

@mariamzakari1698 5 ай бұрын

Égyptienne women ❤

@sylvestertirkey9480 2 жыл бұрын

Wearing Black Describe as it Attracts negative energy as black absorb whereas white reflects. So how truth is it to wear black during Funeral. Or did bible says to wear black during Funeral. Mam I really need the answer. Thank you

@unknownwatcher3734 2 жыл бұрын

I never thought I'd be looking for this, untill my BFF's baby brother died from an accident last week.

@taytaythegreat5348 3 жыл бұрын

I googled this video because my dad wants to wear sweatpants to my ....... funeral and I was like nope nope or Google in a video

@rmlopez0495 2 жыл бұрын

Is purple suit acceptable for funeral? Her favorite color is purple. Asking for a friend..

@Tomato-ig7ub 4 жыл бұрын

Ummm I’m pretty sure when I was 9, I wore a bright and happy dress. Definitely wasn’t fit for the funeral. It was a dress I would wear for church yikes

@melaninduh7962 3 жыл бұрын

Can't Believe I'm Watching This🥺😥

@kellysutton2780 3 жыл бұрын

Black or navy

@afsalpcafu4343 Жыл бұрын

Hlo

@jeromesmartt3178 7 жыл бұрын

do u wear a slip

@caycieannalise7158 5 жыл бұрын

I’m wearing a dark blue dress with a black jacket

@iiiiiccccc 3 жыл бұрын

Grandma passed away today :(

@6567733 3 жыл бұрын

Next funeral i will wear over size black jacket without anything under it.. then i will put on a mesh corset, the jacket must be hips length so i can stiff the jacket and the corset hems under my black hot short... I will wear mesh gloves and will put on my head a big piece of black mesh just like a ghost. With a black fur jacket Ohhhh tulle socks and and formal shoe I will decorate myself with tight pearl neckless. Cause no bling at funeral. Its great to be famous you can be artist in any situation

@guiltyavocado 2 жыл бұрын

i’ve been to 3 funerals before, but i’m going to one tomorrow and have no clue what to wear. and since everyone is saying who’s they’re going to, i’m going to a literal stranger’s funeral. yes.

@kandy1643 2 жыл бұрын

Same in a way. I’m going to my cousins husbands, and I never really knew him

@guiltyavocado 2 жыл бұрын

@@kandy1643 i went with my sister. it was someone she kinda knew. i knew no one there except my sister lol

@claudiakurtzuba5324 7 жыл бұрын

my grandma has to days to live she will probobly die on my bday

@CaseyMiller134 7 жыл бұрын

what should you wear to a Halloween party

@kiaradp82 4 жыл бұрын

going to my mums funeral tomorrow what is conservative

@jazminebrooks927 7 жыл бұрын

I recently lost my grandpa what do I wear

@devilmaster5586 4 жыл бұрын

man i fu*cked up the funeral is in two days and i purchesd jeans fu*k ಠ︵ಠಠ︵ಠ😞😞

@queenjillian3995 3 жыл бұрын

Black Formal Clothes At Funerals Is Always Important

@bubblesawesome3284 4 жыл бұрын

I looked it up because I don’t know what to wear....

@chuckyd0ll214 5 жыл бұрын

My grandma died from Alzheimer’s today

@fartydog1 6 жыл бұрын

todays day and age people dont need to wear all black lol

@tristalopes1188 6 жыл бұрын

My uncle dided

@Hailey-xc8be 6 жыл бұрын

Lynette Lopes you mean uncle

@sexydudeuk2172 2 жыл бұрын

Well whatever you wear to a funeral please dont dress up what one of my cousins wore to my grandads funeral... a Tracksuit!!! I couldnt believe he turned up to the funeral wearing that