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Irony ?

Aeon Bloodchild how so?

It is biblical

Rahsaan Brown Yes, indeed

Bingo!

How LONG at a time should you sit in that silence when with another person? Like an employee asking for a raise...

I Like to point out awkward silence moments. It breaks the silence at the same time makes it funny Most giggle

Depends on if the employee deserves a raise. If he does you pause longer. If he doesn’t you don’t pause that long

Big facts

Jesus Christ himself said that.

@@thecowboy9698 proverbs. King Solomon.

yep, "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"

@Asa Olsen Indeed

@Asa Olsen been my experience..no matter how "eloquent" or "tactfully" spoken...the TRUTH is a foreign language to most..so may as well STFU and listen...then move on..

Mean what you say, and say what you mean!

“Being honest may not get you a lot of friends but it'll always get you the right ones.” ― John Lennon.

I sing like a wild bird and waste time you know

Truth same here.

Best thing is to keep personal life private. Never share your problems with co-workers. Only share it with people you know for a fact you can absolutely trust. And if they want to get you to say something so they can fuck you over, by getting you to engage in drama, just respectfully say either you have no opinion, or better still; just politely excuse yourself.

This is why I really stay quiet in the workplace. Learned my lesson.

If you can truly distinguish that it was attributed to saying less than necessary than well done you executed this law very well.

There once was a man who stood before me and held his tongue. A few weeks later I rewarded him with respect and fortune.

I once stood before a powerful man and held my tongue. A day later, i was rewarded with a lawyer and a court date

@@rustyray420 Lol...Very Nice!

There once was a man who held his tongue, his wife lays with me now!

+Not My Name Usually most people do feel that way. That's a great way to become a good listener and conversationalist among them. You were executing the principle in How To Win Friends and Influence People of Be A Good Listener if you've seen it.

+Not My Name Usually most people do feel that way. That's a great way to become a good listener and conversationalist among them. You were executing the principle in How To Win Friends and Influence People of Be A Good Listener if you've seen it.

+Alex Sandalis Oh yeah i remember that book! Damn its like 4 years ago that i have read it. Dale Carnegie is in my top 10

+Not My Name You seen my animated video series on it? If you want a summary recap I really think you'll take a lot of value from it.

+Alex Sandalis dude you are awesome i did not know you have so much content! Got yourself a new fan ;)

Not necessarily. Meaningless small talk can be useful in the right situations.

I never understood this saying because if I’m going to speak that would mean I have something to say.

@@DarinSane Yes, to ease the tension. I'm normally confident and relaxed around other people and don't need to say anything, but most people are so caught up in the moment, living day by day - they often feel like they HAVE to say something. Help them out then :)

@@darrencavanagh2008 Read the reversal... And please don't take everything literally. This book is quite dangerous when I come to think about it, having studying it for years, months and days. Once you read this book, there is no turning back. The knowledge itself is so powerful. Sometimes I think I must scare a hell of a lot of people using these tactics, lol.

@@True38 I would have agree with you. This is book is very dangerous

I’m definitely learning to control my tongue

Thanks for the references!!!!

It is

No seriously, remember it!

I’m going to try this tomorrow morning. Wish me luck 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

@@User-ek5yg update?

@@MarcusRoy No response? Must have mastered Law #4... ;-)

Sometimes you gotta prove a point tho...

Poetic edda.

What movie was that from.

How old? Im in tbe market for a cougar....

Then im the fool right lol

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whew

I'm thankful to even have 1.

If wisdom was for all there would be more fools...

Only the few listen.

"Sometimes I do it deliberately because I like that people are uncomfortable around me, makes me feel well. ....powerful." I know your not asking for advice but to me this sounds like a dangerous line to tread. Sometimes you have to go against your nature to play smart and appease those your around.

You have to accept me as I am. I cant go against my nature just as a lion or a turtle cant go against theirs. Plus people know thats how I am and get used to it. Iam happily married with kids so as long as my wife is happy, naw iam cool. Thanks for your advice though.

Take this with a grain of salt because you say what your doing is working for you and you and your family are happy: but "you have to accept me as I am." is a cop out line equivalent to the classic Tinder bio "if you cant handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best". Law 48: Assume Formlessness. Always adapt and grow. (My opinion and perspective)

I respect your opinion and perspective wholeheartedly. But for me to change my nature, as if there is something wrong with me being reserved and taciturn I dont understand the logic in that. For me to periodically change my nature and adapt a personality thats not me is exactly whats wrong with society. Its a facade, its a social mask. There is nothing mischievous in me getting a kick out of seeing how uncomfortable people are around quiet people and it does make one feel in control which is (power).......My perspective.

Respect.

Everything is powerful when used correctly.

The law doesn't say to remain quiet, just don't say more than necessary.

@@BeautifulLuxury You are correct, thank you for your insight.

+Vittorio Vičević thank you Vittorio

Michael TYS same thing I was thinking moving forward

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You're very welcome. The creative production get's better the videos go on.

Appreciate it :)

Pity about the cursing. It narrows the audience. I can't play this to my mom. Try not cursing. It served no purpose. It makes a classy presentation tacky.

TheQueenScorpionOshun you're a libra

You are very welcome.

Hey Anna, that's a good question. If you wanted to have a back and forth conversation its a little easier on my page here: facebook.com/alexandersandalis But I will still answer the best I can. You are right in saying "if you don't talk at all, people will find you weird" because talking less or not at all can make people suspicious about your motives and intentions. So sometimes words are needed to comfort others. Even though you may find them pointless, they have a place in maintaining balance within a social group. I would would only be guessing as to why your friends are backing away slowly and making it awkward. But my educated guess would say people find 'black sheep' uncomfortable. Meaning when your behaviour is vastly different from the majority, you increase the potential to be ostracized. They are going to others to talk because that's what they want to do - talk. High school is a time when fickleness and superficiality is at an all time high. Generally speaking high schoolers / teenagers care more about what type of image you display, than what type of person you actually are. I would say a "a load of bullshit" makes them happy because it's easy and comforting to talk about the little things, the fun things, the things that don't have much substance as opposed to the reality we live in. People are comforted by the bullshit because it makes them forget about their own bullshit life. You ask what you should do. I would ask yourself, is the circle you surround yourself a group of people you look up to? Do those people make you better? Do those people make you want to be better? Do the uplift you and your state? If you really wanted to take this seriously. Write it down. Write those answers down and evaluate whether you need to slowly start cutting ties with certain people and surrounding yourself with the people you are inspired by. Now I completely understand this is a very challenging thing to do because it is 'high school' and everyone wants to make you believe like there's nothing more important than high school, when you're in high school. But I promise you if you have the courage to take action against self destructive people that don't uplift you, than you will go far.

It depends what the context is. Generally you'd use this in sales or negotiation of some sort, not in casual conversation with friends or normal people. You can't just not say anything and expect people to like you because there has to be a flow of communication because generally people like to make sure the people they're friends with have things in common with them or things they can learn from them. If you say nothing or just the minimum, they won't be able to tell and might make you appear untrustworthy or weird.

True. There has to be a flow of conversation. Even if you're a good listener, people will find you weird and off putting if you seldom say anything. The king could get away with it well because he was the king. It 's like when I am the boss, I am listened to much more and my jokes are much funnier. :) I've found that revealing nothing personal about myself, works well but participating in banter about sport, tv shows, etc. makes you likable.

Get new friends..

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The perfect way to say it

Yep

Exactly , imaging everyone trying to speak less . Boring bums

Aa fuck my humanity. Humans use power dynamics for everything. If you don’t protect yourself, people will eat you.

And it teaches you how not to be victimized by others in society as well. Knowledge is power. You can be an example of a person who uses these laws as a defense mechanism and for good.

The entire book is manipulative, at least for me. Proceed with caution when following

ckryegrass11 you can be open to others while saying less than necessary. In fact this law makes you become a better listener because it reminds you to keep your words vague and open ended which makes for better conversations.

David Agbani I fully understand not dominating a conversation.

Officially smooth 😃tell em U got a headache& smile quietly to UrSELF😁😇

Not a about what you do but how you do it. Never involve yourself gossip or never speak from an emotional standpoint such as, I like, I dislike, I love, I hate. Think before u speak. Always express anything as a thought with I think. And always respect your mind giving it a chance to observe your surroundings.

I pretend that a camera is filming me and everything I say and do can't be erased.

Your real friends will like who you are for real. This video is if you want to be cool or fuck people phycoligicly or in a gang seaking to control or intimidate. If your a bible man this is reversed. Look at jesus every one hated him. For telling the truth. He had power influins in the truth they were afraid he would rise an army. The masses wanted him to be king . You dont have to gosip . Thats what gets you into trouble. Let them talk and hait you they haited jesus first .

Robert Howell " Your real friends will like who you are for real"" .. I like this part, can you explained it more?

Yes.

Hell no.. we are here for the fuckery

Yes :)

Obviously not 🤫

And you made a comment. We all contradict the laws.

@@AlexanderEmmanual agreed.

Alexander Sandalis this came up in my feed. I’ve been listening to a lot more law of attraction stuff lately so maybe that’s why. Glad it did. Thanks.

@@ms.voicer3214 Same

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this seems awfully relevant considering who is the POTUS atm. Of course the Roman leader you note in your video wasn't able to weaponize bullshit like 45 has been able to.