Woman Brutally Strangled, Murdered by Ex Minutes After Cops Left: Family
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23 күн бұрынA California jury convicted Aaron Romo, 36, of killing his ex-girlfriend Mirelle Mateus, 24, after prosecutors say he lured her to his apartment despite a restraining order. Mateus’s mother found her daughter’s body in the bathtub. She had been badly beaten and strangled. Law&Crime’s Jesse Weber spoke with the victim’s sister, Sandy Caceros, who says local law enforcement failed Mirelle and her family.
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@LawAndCrime 21 күн бұрын
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@TaureanTruth 20 күн бұрын
his mugshot said 👁️ 👁️
@VeeAmericanEagle 20 күн бұрын
😂😂
@mobius-1503 20 күн бұрын
😂 wtf man
@youngipman23 20 күн бұрын
⚰️
@ghettogreenbeann 20 күн бұрын
One eye west, one eye east
@littlehorus2327 20 күн бұрын
You’re not wrong I was thinking about how cockeyed he is lol
@Annaberry425 20 күн бұрын
Never go back to a ex no matter what , it’s a ex for. a reason
@KatharinaK117 20 күн бұрын
Amen!
@HKim0072 16 күн бұрын
I hooked up with 3 of my ex’s after we broke up. Avoiding violent people in general might be better advice.
@artetface 8 күн бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@VeeAmericanEagle 20 күн бұрын
DO NOT IGNORE THE WARNING SIGNS!!
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
She knew the warning signs she had a restraining order against him yet went and picked him up. It’s her own fault she’s dead. Why bother going to court wasting the courts time only to go pick up the person you asked the law to protect you from
@AdrianaCowick 6 күн бұрын
@@StonedBarbiee It’s clear that you’re 100% ignorant to trauma bonds and being a human being with a heart. 🤷🏻♀️
@skycloud4802 20 күн бұрын
It seems clear to me that the most dangerous people are the ones close to you.
@DarthKater311 20 күн бұрын
Men
@Biscuit9891 20 күн бұрын
@@DarthKater311 no
@xer0058 20 күн бұрын
She prolly danger his feelings😂 even men don't behave how yall copy bois
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
Yupp
@lorddavidlawrence 20 күн бұрын
Correct. And that's been the case forever.
@Ink_Addict93 20 күн бұрын
Because he “loved her too much” was the defense ??? I swear, when these defenses attorneys have nothing they will pull ANYTHING out of thin air regardless of how ridiculous it is. At this point you mind as well just say “your honor, my client couldn’t have possibly done this because he didn’t do it” then rest your case.
@xxtoxicgodxxthelegand5909 20 күн бұрын
Just look at Alex murdaugh lol. His defense was the same thing 😂
@M0M0NTHECASE 20 күн бұрын
"He didn't do it because he didn't do it" is the most insane defense ever😂😂😂
@mookiess 16 күн бұрын
it's painful to hear the defense at times because it's clear that they too know they have no case to go off on. I mean how are you supposed to defend this and be fair when the crime is so in-the-face? I don't know how but they're able to conjure up the most wild reasons, all the while keeping a straight face. It's impressive.
@kgs2280 11 күн бұрын
That’s because he’s so bad they have absolutely nothing else.
@lamino8-tg6ro 20 күн бұрын
Why pick up a guy who you have restraining order against? Please ladies dont go back to these men
@deescott8312 20 күн бұрын
Leave these men at the first sign of control and abuse
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
Nah, stay and try to fix them instead! 😍🙏❤️
@arnelabih1845 15 күн бұрын
Ameen!
@christinalomeli7024 19 күн бұрын
That guy looks completely vacant and equally unhinged 😮
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
Very attractive man for sure. 🙄
@JamesSylne 5 күн бұрын
Exactly, she don't need to pass no law to know this man wasn't right in the head, lol.
@christinalomeli7024 4 күн бұрын
@@JamesSylne 100% agreed
@dukz-gw1gg 3 күн бұрын
At this point yall probably think that about all men
@starlingswallow 20 күн бұрын
You don't BEAT and KILL a persons you "love so much". What a joke.
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
You also don’t go pick up someone whose beaten you and you’ve gone to court to get a protection order against. This is 💯 her own fault
@Chiccynuggs10 19 күн бұрын
@@StonedBarbieeVictim blaming is a vile trait and I hope you get the help you need. Have the day you deserve.
@carlbiesele1457 17 күн бұрын
That’s what OJ did.
@ashleymcclarren3951 20 күн бұрын
His eyes looking crazy
@reneegardner2286 18 күн бұрын
My first thought too
@mikaylaraehorning 20 күн бұрын
That is honestly such a great idea for a law that needs to be passed nationwide
@-MattMcCauley- 20 күн бұрын
Criminal convictions are already public information, genius. Read her petition, unlike what she said to Jesse about arrests the petition says CONVICTIONS, so it already IS a law under basic existing public information statutes. What's more, the victim KNEW this guy was violent because he had already previously assaulted her, but she CHOSE to go over to his house again. This wonderful proposed new law you foolishly laud would have made ZERO difference.
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- Yeah she wants arrests to be entered into a database. That's not constitutional. The law makes no sense....
@elainesrottenbottom296 20 күн бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- Yea you beat me to it. Wrongful arrests would be on your record? Seems like a great idea, until YOU are the one who has been wrongfully arrested. I feel bad for this family. But just because someone dies doesn't mean that we need a new law.
@-MattMcCauley- 20 күн бұрын
@@elainesrottenbottom296 Exactly and that is particularly true with DV. During divorces, for example, specious accusations are alleged frequently to gain advantage in child custody disputes or property division. The law the sister is advocating would not even have saved this poor woman, she violated her OWN DV order to come to the man she knew as abusive!
@lilianaamaldonado 20 күн бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley-you didn’t watch the full video to listen to the fact that this man sealed his criminal record. Which means some information would not be public knowledge.
@dukengare5354 20 күн бұрын
Some decisions are hard to comprehend!! How do you go to pick someone who you got a restraining order against? Come on!!!
@louniece1650 20 күн бұрын
Uncomfortable truth.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
That's a hard hard truth for many.... but it IS the truth. He didn't come to her.... she went to him.
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
She wasted the courts time tax payers money and her own time as well. It’s her own fault. Hard to feel bad for anyone that does this 🤷🏼♀️
@luzdyrodriguezable 20 күн бұрын
Unfortunately this is common among domestic violence victims, it’s a trauma response. Similar to drug addicts and their relapses.
@denisemezynski8014 20 күн бұрын
And then have nerve to Blame the po-po ......?!!
@eh597 20 күн бұрын
Wow that is a smart idea. We definitely need a national domestic violence database.
@llamamama2910 19 күн бұрын
At this point men need to prove they aren’t jealous crazy murderers and abusers
@reneegardner2286 18 күн бұрын
It's an epidemic. Long over due
@hannahkushan175 12 күн бұрын
Security guard saw her screaming for help, he calls the police, and police didn’t do more bcz the ex didn’t open the door? Police failed this woman
@InspireFreedomForever 10 күн бұрын
Thank you! I commented the same! I am flabbergasted that nobody else is mentioning this! It seems there's a lot of victim blaming here in the comments.
@mariamejiacontreras8688 8 күн бұрын
I’m baffled and can’t believe they just Left 🤦🏻♀️
@cre8v_power 5 күн бұрын
Well, realistically ...it is her fault for picking him up. However, this does not mean it was her fault for being killed. I don't wish this on anyone. The police and this guy screwed her over. This is sad smh @InspireFreedomForever
@emoliver80 20 күн бұрын
Beautiful family. My heart hurts for her mother and sister.
@user-mn6sq3is4t 20 күн бұрын
very sad watching from India
@Fat12219 7 күн бұрын
💔 😢
@JmasterPullmizter 21 күн бұрын
I don’t know of ANYONE that could kill someone cause they love them so much…..😑
@Skitdora2010 20 күн бұрын
Cannibals have said they loved victims so much they ate them to become one with their victims.
@ReginaPhalangee 20 күн бұрын
@@Skitdora2010 Love and obsession are NOT the same thing
@sigmasiren777 20 күн бұрын
@@ReginaPhalangee exactly.
@natenate88 20 күн бұрын
Exactly why the defense attorney said he definitely couldn't have killed her 🤷🏻♂️
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
You must not watch true crime...
@musingsofharmony3159 12 күн бұрын
I really like Jesse. He's so genuine and takes the time to express his thoughts to the victims' family.
@mopes2713 20 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for posting this story, i was just randomly thinking about this case last night! What a crazy coincidence that this was just posted!
@bettinnafitbettinnadance6839 20 күн бұрын
Very tragic…Us Women need to keep choosing the “Bear” they are still safer…
@sarahgomez6740 20 күн бұрын
Really this idea that he loved her so much, so much he'd kill her rather than letting her go on with her life. Obsessed, narcissistic, evil, cowardly man. If he couldn't have her nobody would have her.
@kateyoung7929 20 күн бұрын
Especially because it seems he had a current gf at the time.
@stewartvolk5156 20 күн бұрын
That is an extremely poor excuse
@stewartvolk5156 20 күн бұрын
“If he couldn’t have her nobody would have her” is an extremely poor excuse. I have heard that same damned line so Goddamned many times before.
@sarahgomez6740 20 күн бұрын
@@stewartvolk5156 it's a terrible excuse but some ppl think like that, men & women.
@sherrihurst3142 20 күн бұрын
If you have a restraining order do not cave and see them! You'll more than likely regret it like this young lady...
@DarthKater311 20 күн бұрын
And here we go again. Unstable men
@dorozco8866 20 күн бұрын
No just him being unstable and psychotic probably
@meelahmak 20 күн бұрын
And they are always in a new relationship!
@srccde 20 күн бұрын
No, _an_ unstable man. They exist, just like unstable women exist.
@amateur_ckaiyion5999 20 күн бұрын
@@dorozco8866you know more men DO kill women than women kill men, it's a fact. So yeah, unstable men again.
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
She was equally as unstable. She picked up her abuser. She asked the law to protect her and wasted everyone’s time.
@swiftlyjer-pdf 20 күн бұрын
i GASPED. not this. not this at ALL. that poor girl. i can’t imagine what her family must be feeling.
@vanessamontes1463 20 күн бұрын
Alot of pain n sadness 😞😞😞
@reecebiscuits420 20 күн бұрын
Never gasped at anything calm down
@hallec4618 20 күн бұрын
@@reecebiscuits420you sound like an incel.
@sew_gal7340 20 күн бұрын
@@reecebiscuits420 I felt a shriek ball up in my throat when i saw him and i had to lay down ...so yes gasping is possible
@beatricehart5614 20 күн бұрын
His mugshot is very unsettling
@raeraebadfingers 20 күн бұрын
I think, for me at least, it's that I can't tell which way he is actually looking.
@Calinotch06 19 күн бұрын
Why didn't the police beat down the door with a SECURITY GUARD calling in kidnapping?
@obdanny2000 8 күн бұрын
Why did she go back to give a ride to someone she put a restraining order on and has an upcoming criminal trial against? That's the question you should be asking.
@Calinotch06 8 күн бұрын
@@obdanny2000 yes that is also a valid question.
@AdrianaCowick 6 күн бұрын
@@obdanny2000Ever heard of trauma bonds? There. I answered your silly annoying question.
@obdanny2000 6 күн бұрын
@AdrianaCowick It's not a silly question. She went to court and got a restraining order, and he was on bond for a criminal case about her and she goes to give him a ride? That call from him violated the restraining order, she should have called the police or order an Uber for him. That's simply poor judgement, no excuses. It's sad she lost her life.
@AdrianaCowick 6 күн бұрын
@@obdanny2000 So poor judgement is a reason for someone to be murdered?
@classyjuanito 20 күн бұрын
Why would you go and picked this guy up already having a restraining order on him? I mean, come on! Decisions....
@foxytran6326 20 күн бұрын
Why couldn't he just get an uber? 😑
@srccde 20 күн бұрын
@@foxytran6326 Because he wanted to do this to her? Are you seriously asking that?
@amateur_ckaiyion5999 20 күн бұрын
Still no reason to be MURDERED
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
@@amateur_ckaiyion5999 No. She didn't do anything to deserve what happened to her. But it was HER responsibility to protect her own life. She knew what he could and would do to her. He did not come to her, break into her home. She went to him. Willingly. Cops are not to blame for this. Sometimes you just can't save some people from their own bad decisions.
@swallowedinthesea11 20 күн бұрын
@@foxytran6326 Avoid dating men who look like villains from Deus Ex: Mankind Divided!
@anthonyhayes930 20 күн бұрын
Why would you pick this guy up? If you break up with someone that's violent don't go back. It's why you left in the first place
@priscillapie 19 күн бұрын
The system failed her ??? But she had a restraining order in place why did she still pick him up ? How is that the systems fault ?
@gj5990 17 күн бұрын
He should have been in jail for previous violence
@obdanny2000 8 күн бұрын
@gj5990 He has an upcoming trial for what he did to her in the past , he was out on bond and she went to give him a ride. She failed herself and it's sad, but it's true.
@workingonmyroar7944 19 күн бұрын
This one is tough she already had a restraining order all she had to do was call 911 after he called her repeatedly and he would have been arrested Victim blaming sure but she has a role in her own demise
@CJR-bs7eu 20 күн бұрын
DAMN she really went to pick him up after he beat her? SMH I will NEVER get it!!!!!
@ashleyduckworthyt3224 20 күн бұрын
Look up battered woman syndrome
@Fat12219 7 күн бұрын
She pretty 🎉
@barbmurraybabss 20 күн бұрын
Wouldn't that be a motive? He loved her too much
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
Yuppp. Obsession and infatuation... 💀🌹
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
That's not love. Obsession as the other comment suggests. That poor girl is dead because she confused love with lovebombing, probably him pleading that he loves her, needs her blah blah blah. Please don't make the same mistake. Learn the red flags before it happens to you; learn what healthy normal human relationships are supposed to feel like.
@Confessions089 20 күн бұрын
@MovingAlong742 lovebombing is manipulative. Meaning that it was premeditated. Let it sink in because I know you want to be right, but you're not.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
@@Confessions089 I gave you fare warning. Take the advice, or ignore it at your own risk. You made your choice. Have a great day.
@supriseimblack 19 күн бұрын
@@MovingAlong742 Wait? What's about to happen to Whitney...?? 👀
@marywarrior47 20 күн бұрын
SHE SHOULD OF NEVER WENT TO PICK HIM UP. WHEN YOU LET GO OF AN X ABUSER NEVER NEVER GO BACK YOU NEED TO COMPLETELY CUT ALL TIES. I'M A SURVIVOR MYSELF " I HAD TO MOVE OUT OF TOWN & I STILL LIVED IN FEAR BUT I BEGAN TO HEAL , & I NEVER WENT BACK .
@luzdyrodriguezable 20 күн бұрын
Such a brave soul, those choices are why you are here today. You are right, never go back ❤
@user-cd6xp5lk4c 19 күн бұрын
Especially one you got a restraining order against... both he and she violated that order.. this is not all on hom
@ROBINstrawBERRYwine 18 күн бұрын
Absolutely 1000% agree because I also moved,changed my phone number and Email and got off FB and NEVER looked back,8 years later happy and safe
@vanessamontes1463 20 күн бұрын
She was a beautiful human being , genuinely was
@nialincoln9228 20 күн бұрын
Yes the police failed her, but she also put herself in that situation when she agreed to go pick him up. Not victim blaming, but there are people that you just need to stay away from them. Especially if they've shown you who they are.
@br0th3rb82 20 күн бұрын
Why on earth was she with him to begin with?
@13orrax 20 күн бұрын
obviously because of how much love he had
@kc7886 20 күн бұрын
Stop victim blaming.
@normn2915 20 күн бұрын
@@kc7886lol did you just learn this word?
@DarthKater311 20 күн бұрын
Why are you blaming her?
@ayamystic 20 күн бұрын
Likely bc he put her on a pedestal. Power and control. The men they want don’t want them so they stoop very low.
@sayhi247 20 күн бұрын
Never ignore Red Flags
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
I do wish people would hear that. Everyone is so busy saying "stop victim blaming." Victims always ignore the red flags. Empowered women and men do not.
@swallowedinthesea11 20 күн бұрын
Avoid dating men who look like villains from Deus Ex: Mankind Divided!
@starlingswallow 20 күн бұрын
😳 dudes eyeballs face different directions.
@KourtneeMonroe 19 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful and lovely woman. No idea how she ended up with a clown like this guy.
@shannnonbinford7969 20 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry to the family for the loss of a beautiful and kind person. I signed to help get this law passed. This needs to be a nationwide law!
@SandieBee13 20 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@danacapodarco1363 20 күн бұрын
I’m sorry for your family’s loss.
@coldcaseblogger220 20 күн бұрын
Plot twist… she did light up the room for the people who loved her and cherished her.. 🥴
@xxdanix6213 20 күн бұрын
As someone with a domestic abuser for a father, signed!!
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
Give your daddy a kiss and him tight tonight! ❤️🙏
@paydn202 18 күн бұрын
her sister looks like a real winner
@JOYRIDEUS 20 күн бұрын
Privacy or protection you gotta choose, if that 2022 incident was real and not a lie it was foolish of her to go.
@Prophecyofthedragon93 20 күн бұрын
Who’d go out with a creep like that
@alyssa5669 9 күн бұрын
Thats what I was thinking.
@valerietappin9286 5 күн бұрын
a public register for persons convicted of domestic violence is an excellent idea! Hope it is passed.
@cynthiaconnors183 20 күн бұрын
I like her plans to do the new law. In one of our provinces up here in canada, we have that very thing. It needs to be country wide.
@-MattMcCauley- 20 күн бұрын
Of course, Canada is an authoritarian Socialist country in which citizens lack any meaningful rights--no freedom of speech or religion, no right to self-defense, to assemble--you are as bad as the Eastern Block back in the USSR days. Criminal convictions are already public information in all US states, in virtually all US states arrest records are as well, though some purge them after certain numbers of years, similar to how old i formation drops off credit reports. This girl KNEW he was an abuser because he had seriously assaulted her previously and was subject to a restraining order for it. SHE CHOSE to violate her own order and go to him. This proposed new law would have in no way prevented this murder, it is just silly to pretend one has anything to do with the other.
@lwyrbae 20 күн бұрын
Where people who have not been convicted of a crime are required to register? Bc that is what she just asked for.
@PeterBornAgain 20 күн бұрын
“You shall not murder. ~ Exodus 20:13
@lorraineyanez4301 20 күн бұрын
Day after day, I hear all these tragic cases of women being killed. It needs to stop.
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
I wonder who’s killing them? 🤔
@KCbostons 20 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this story. I am so sorry about what happened to this beautiful woman and keeping the family members in my prayers. A domestic violence incident report being publicly known would be a game changer. I will sign the petition.
@SandieBee13 20 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽💜
@tentrickspony8925 20 күн бұрын
Almost always, your biggest threat is someone you know😢 not the stranger everyone is warned against
@vanessamontes1463 20 күн бұрын
Rest in peace beautiful 🥺🙏....
@TimeaWebster 20 күн бұрын
I feel bad for them, but I don't understand why she went to pick him up, although she had a protection order against him!? How did the law fail her when she literally went to pick this dude up to give him a ride, very well knowing about his abusive nature!?
@ashleyduckworthyt3224 20 күн бұрын
She’s a battered woman. Why do you think Diddy was able to abuse Cassie for so long? It’s emotional abuse and manipulation.
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
She thought he changed
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
@@ashleyduckworthyt3224 Women like guys like Diddy. They don't know why they can't help it...
@louniece1650 20 күн бұрын
@ashleyduckworthyt3224 She should not be dead. It's heartbreaking that she chose to break the restraining order She had against him.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
It didn't. The law did not fail, the cops did not fail.... she failed herself. Not her fault he murdered her but it is her fault she put herself into the situation where he had the opportunity to harm her... knowing full well that he would or could. Such a shame.
@digitalproduction3142 20 күн бұрын
Why did she pick him up? She Violated her own restraining order? and now she's gone.
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
😂
@xxCeCexx14 5 күн бұрын
Stop victim blaming tf
@notoriousosc1669 Күн бұрын
@@xxCeCexx14 how is that victim blaming? Just stating the truth. It’s sad but the reality is that’s what got her killed.
@SHELLEM55 20 күн бұрын
I hate to hear about this type of thing , RIP
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
She should of been smarter 🤷🏼♀️
@typhillips490 13 күн бұрын
Jesse your amazing with your compassion and understanding 🙏🏿.
@piinkxo 20 күн бұрын
it’s always “she literally walked in the room and she lit up the whole room”
@kennaluvschu 20 күн бұрын
you’re weird af for making a comment like that😂
@rakuajolly3845 20 күн бұрын
😂it's cliche
@piinkxo 20 күн бұрын
@@kennaluvschu i don’t care😹
@sew_gal7340 20 күн бұрын
Translation: This person didnt do anything remarkable with her life nor achieved any real milestones. If there were, it would be the first things the anchor talked about: "she spent her time volunteering at a senior center" "she helped orphans in africa" "she did work for the UN"....lighting up a room is the last resort
@alyssa5669 9 күн бұрын
@@sew_gal7340 your are so right.
@TheGreatOne428 19 күн бұрын
what is a 24 year old doing with a 36 year old , Choose better !!
@TheTrueCrimeChannel 20 күн бұрын
Heartbreaking
@possiblyareptile3829 20 күн бұрын
Useless cops
@Ggg496 20 күн бұрын
You are
@stephc3874 20 күн бұрын
How? You do realize that they can’t just break into your home unless someone is screaming for help right?
@wolvesilvia 20 күн бұрын
@@stephc3874 and she was screaming.. they got multiple calls from tenants of screaming and they still didn’t go inside, they’re useless idc
@elainesrottenbottom296 20 күн бұрын
The police have zero duty to protect you. That's nation wide. The Supreme Court has already ruled on this. The police have zero duty to respond to your call. The Supreme Court has already ruled on this. You are your own first responder.
@StonedBarbiee 20 күн бұрын
Useless ? The court gave her a restraining order. SHE went and picked up her abuser. The cops didn’t pick him up and take him over there. SHE DID. this is on her no one else.
@marilynmroe9077 20 күн бұрын
Monsters eat at our tables and sleep in our beds . They are very real!!! They sit on the front row or stand at the podium in church
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
And we date them
@CaliGirlJade 20 күн бұрын
Yes, he shouldn’t have murdered her but at what point are we going to start taking responsibility for our own actions? Lady had a whole restraining order but still thought it was cool to pick him up from a bar or whatever….
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
She knew how dangerous he was. She willingly took a huge risk with her own safety.... and lost. This would not have happened had she simply refused to answer the phone then reported him the following day for breaking the restraining order.
@kathydavenport4422 13 күн бұрын
Rest In Peace beloved daughter sister May her family and friends find healing and peace Blessings Be.
@MrsGator7 19 күн бұрын
Sadly SHE failed herself. Knowingly helping her abuser.
@Fat12219 7 күн бұрын
Poor judgment 😢
@Marc1a2 19 күн бұрын
If you get a restraining order against someone…please change your phone number aswell!
@vikaz3408 20 күн бұрын
I cant believe how this sister is saying the government failed her deceased sister! I i derstand she is hurting but barking at a wrong tree….. her sister was given the restraining order but she herself went to pick him up!!!! Wake up!
@jrodamores87 20 күн бұрын
She’s the victim. A victim of HIS control and abuse. Victims of DV act similarly to those with addictions. These predators PURPOSELY seek out the vulnerable. I wish more people understood 😢 RIP 🙏🏼
@nickatinaaa 20 күн бұрын
So what are you trying to say? Sounds like you’re trying to blame the victim
@truthhurts7889 20 күн бұрын
@@nickatinaaa No - they're not blaming the victim - they're just not allowing the law to be blamed, either. Stating facts. This is not her fault. But it's almost like you want her voluntary involvement with him after receiving the restraining order to be the fault of the police, or to be completely silenced. For what? Because people like you can't differentiate between that being a fact of the case versus that being used as a defense to the crime, or being used to fault the victim? Guess what honey - all of those are completely different matters, and their lines ain't that fine. Just fine tune your logic a bit next time, eh?
@nickatinaaa 20 күн бұрын
@@truthhurts7889damn honey you had time today huh 🤣
@Griftospherequalitycontrol 20 күн бұрын
@@nickatinaaa Like a broken you people are.
@carmiecat 20 күн бұрын
How many more of these situations do we have to go through for law enforcement to take it seriously? You don't know the people going through this; WE do. Listen to us and believe us. These abusers don't care what the law is.
@gingersmith2888 20 күн бұрын
I’m pretty sure that LE takes it seriously. They can’t just go breaking into someone’s home unless they hear or see that someone’s well-being is at risk.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
What was it you think the cops should have done in that situation? They were told that she was saying something to the effect of "I'm too smart to go in there" and resisting him but went inside anyway. Neighbor reporting to 911? Cops arrive, knock repeatedly on the door and no answer. What next? What were they supposed to do? They can't just kick the door in without probable cause. Had they kicked in that door and there was NO DV incident occurring, then you all would be screaming about police brutality! And that they should have had probable cause to enter!
@swallowedinthesea11 20 күн бұрын
@@gingersmith2888 Maybe they should! Ever think of that?
@Confessions089 20 күн бұрын
@gingersmith2888 because coercive control is an invisible abuse. Micas law in South Carolina, look it up.
@dariankranz9594 10 күн бұрын
I don’t understand why the cops just left without figuring this out. Someone literally said she got dragged in and probably could’ve got security video of it and saw she never came out. She sat there thinking they would help and I can’t imagine the feeling hearing them leave without helping her.
@lauralee9694 20 күн бұрын
He has crazy eyes.
@blackcherry6877 20 күн бұрын
How did "the system" fail her when she willingly picked him up after she filed a restraining order on him?🤔
@MoMotivation0304 18 күн бұрын
The family is in denial. She should not have picked him up.
@z-hy8hh 16 күн бұрын
A better statement would be he should not have killed her.
@HandbagDiva 20 күн бұрын
I hope they sue the pants off that police dept ( city ) What a horrible loss of such a beautiful young girl.
@MT-qq6id 20 күн бұрын
For what? She violated her own order of protection when she volunteered to pick him up. He of course should pay the consequences of his actions.
@Perdu... 20 күн бұрын
@@MT-qq6idprobably for something ridiculous like failing to properly conduct a wellness check
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
If they do, they'll lose. The cops were following the law.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
@@Perdu... You can't kick open someone's door during a wellness check. You have to have permission to go inside, or someone who has authority of the home or apartment. You have to hear someone screaming inside or calling for help, or be able to look through a window and see something that gives probable cause. Without that, the cops have no legal right to enter. Worse yet, it wasn't her apartment. It was his. You cannot do a wellness check on someone when they are supposedly inside someone else's home.
@InRediscoveryOfMe 7 күн бұрын
How could the system have failed them when she willingly went to get him WHILE there was an active RO. Exercise common sense and discernment.
@sofiaflor1459 15 күн бұрын
I feel like this could've been me.. i just got out. But he had the exact same pattern, hair pulling, choking, breaking phone... i'm so grateful to be alive.
@SandieBee13 10 күн бұрын
Grateful you’re a survivor too babe 🙏🏽
@MaiMai-ys4yg 20 күн бұрын
Sorry for your loss ❤
@dragonflymagictarot1180 20 күн бұрын
Geez … this is beyond.
@miraa2k16 10 күн бұрын
I was almost killed a few times in dv situations. Please do not ignore the warning signs even if your family tells you to
@Woozlewuzzleable 21 күн бұрын
Does this channel have a person whose only job is to think of the worst possible titles ever?
@davidbanks159 20 күн бұрын
They have a person that knows what titles get clicked on, I don’t think they enjoy making the titles.
@Woozlewuzzleable 20 күн бұрын
@@davidbanks159 I don't think they enjoy it either but hey a job is a job and somebodies got to do it.
@Ironhart 20 күн бұрын
And worst add placement ever! On top of that the way they describe some of the victim
@normn2915 20 күн бұрын
Why? whats wrong with the title? It grabs attention.. isn't what the family wants to spread awareness?
@13orrax 20 күн бұрын
also they will find the worse possible social media pic for the thumbnail
@nettyeats 20 күн бұрын
There’s no excuse for what he did !!! But why would she go and pick him up when you know how he is and you have restraining order against him.
@user-hi5eh3xi7z 17 күн бұрын
Let’s not blame him for this okay? She made her choice now she has to “live” with it. 💁♂️
@notoriousosc1669 Күн бұрын
That’s what I’m thinking myself.
@thoryl7067 20 күн бұрын
Omg she was violently beaten by him and went to the point of getting a restraining order. She then thought it would be a great idea to break her own restraining order and pick up him up while hes drunk.... i swear people dont think with there heads such an angering series of events... i dont understand
@rosemarymwihaki6068 20 күн бұрын
Seems these guys are magnets and will still get women irrespective of law and even while in jail.
@vfrias4039 17 күн бұрын
Wow, the law that she is trying to pass is an absolutely amazing recommendation, I pray and hope it gets passed.
@M-Marie89 20 күн бұрын
Why wasn't what the security guard called in, enough to break through that door when noone answered? They could have possibly saved her life.
@jrelevates1574 20 күн бұрын
Ali Abulaban vibes.
@MaxwellsUnearthly 20 күн бұрын
She had no business picking up her ex especially with a restraining order she herself put on him. All of this could have been avoided, what a shame, she played a dangerous game with a man she knew was not to be trusted. Side note: At min 8:07 you interrupt the flow of the story to advertise food, please do better LAC, you placement game sucks, you interrupted the video at a crucial part of the story, please grow some brain cells and find better placement to the advertisement next time.
@random26788 20 күн бұрын
are you seriously victim blaming right now? you’re disgusting
@sarahgamboa3709 20 күн бұрын
The police could have stopped the murder. They were called to the scene and left because they didn’t hear anything
@sarahgamboa3709 20 күн бұрын
So no matter what the police failed her
@Griftospherequalitycontrol 20 күн бұрын
@@sarahgamboa3709 You need to look out for yourself. Don't rely on the police to compensate for your bad decisions.
@TaureanTruth 20 күн бұрын
it’s on purpose, they get paid more money if they put the ad in an unsuspecting part of the video so people don’t skip it. pretty scummy
@tiannastein7538 20 күн бұрын
Rip beautiful smile and happy person. Hugs and love to family and friends 💛❤️❤️❤️💛 hope she gets justice she deserves.
@SandieBee13 20 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽💜
@January. 20 күн бұрын
*The last time I SAW her... TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF. DON'T ASSOCIATE WITH INHUMANE, CLASSLESS, VIOLENT, DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE WHO DRINK ALCOHOL AND DO DRUGS.
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
Women need to be taught that it is their OWN responsibility, first and foremost, to protect their OWN lives. Period. You cannot count on everyone else showing up for you if you willingly walking into the lion's den.
@andreaskurt5757 20 күн бұрын
There was absolutely probably cause for the police to go in, based on what the security guard said. Police owes the family lots of $.
@MRDIPSET33 7 күн бұрын
Why go pick him up knowing he’s drunk?
@MizzTrinieFyre 8 күн бұрын
So she caused her own death. Smh. When will these desperate women learn to leave these men alone.
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
That's a useless law because DV history is already publicly available...
@llamamama2910 19 күн бұрын
Things get expunged and people don’t know where to get info-so much is not prosecuted-victims withdraw charges or police or judges drop the ball
@jessiekatetheking 16 күн бұрын
Another day of cops not preventing crime or keeping us safe! Acab!
@joleenroth4494 20 күн бұрын
Damn she should have blocked 🚫 his number 😢
@iyaniole6010 20 күн бұрын
Blocking a weirdo’s number does nothing. Any woman (or man) who has dealt with crazy knows this 🙃
@wolvesilvia 20 күн бұрын
he called her from the Uber they ordered’s phone not his
@MovingAlong742 20 күн бұрын
@@iyaniole6010 Not in this situation. He didn't go to her. She went to him. Blocking his phone number would have kept her safe at least for that night. He had no transportation to go to her... until she fixed that problem for him.
@user-cd6xp5lk4c 19 күн бұрын
@@iyaniole6010 in this case tho.... he called she answered then went to see him...
@deborahbaker4770 20 күн бұрын
Wow they just left pretty sad ‼️‼️
@SnakesandDoggies 20 күн бұрын
WHAT a waste. How long will he be out in? Or is he already out on bail?
@Griftospherequalitycontrol 20 күн бұрын
I'm very distressed by this and why they keep picking these guys.
@Fitkid7672 20 күн бұрын
It’s really on them TBH
@thanos34362 20 күн бұрын
woman are always attracted to the bad guy and they see the nice guy as pathetic and refuse to give them a chance
@supriseimblack 20 күн бұрын
Because nice guys don't turn girls on..
@mslfbreezy 20 күн бұрын
Mirelle seemed like she was an awesome person and it’s so sad she lost her life the way she did. Thank you sister of Mirelle for creating the petition. I signed the petition. Hopefully a registry of domestic violence abusers is created and people are aware of these abusers. I signed the petition.
@SandieBee13 20 күн бұрын
Thank you hun we really appreciate your support 🙏🏽💜
@123pinkgumdrops 19 күн бұрын
My sister attended high school with her. This was such a tragic story 💔💔💔
@kellymckendry5181 20 күн бұрын
Obsessed narcissist
@user-zf2vr6rn2i 5 күн бұрын
I would be in prison for life if any man ever touch my Children.
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