Leading Psychologist: How To Finally Overcome Stress & Anxiety

Leading Psychologist: How To Finally Overcome Stress & Anxiety - Dr Julie Smith

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Have you ever struggled with stress and anxiety? Maybe you’ve been feeling overwhelmed at work or school, or things have been difficult at home and you’re having a hard time. You might find yourself overthinking for hours, or panicking, or struggling to sleep, which only makes you feel worse. Or, maybe a friend or a loved one is struggling with their mental health and you’re not sure how to help. In this episode of, I speak to Dr Julie Smith, a psychologist with 4.6 million followers on TikTok who shares brilliant mental health advice. Her book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ is a Sunday Times Bestseller and is full of simple, actionable insights to help you take control of your wellbeing. While Dr Julie's expertise cover a whole range of topics, in this conversation we focus on how to manage stress and anxiety, overthinking, and burnout. Enjoy :)
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Season 7 Episode 3
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00:00 Intro
06:28 What's changed since we last spoke?
10:52 Why has nobody told me this before
13:48 The feelings wheel (the balance between feelings and facts)
25:53 What’s a physiological sigh?
28:10 Dealing with other people's emotions
32:48 Should you go to bed angry?
37:01 What is overthinking and how do we manage it?
45:41 Being in the right state for decision making
47:50 What’s “distancing language?”
51:49 Challenging your thoughts and beliefs
59:14 Would this stand up in court?
01:02:29 What is positive thinking?
01:04:59 What is personalising? (Dealing with catastrophizing)
01:08:03 What is a mental filter?
01:10:38 The difference between stress and anxiety
01:17:01 Avoiding burnout with balance
01:23:13 How do you detach yourself from numbers as a measure of success?
01:33:15 Emotion coping skills (Dialectical behaviour therapy)
01:35:26 The 3 types of burnout
01:36:42 Values check-ins are life changing
01:41:33 The ideal day and week
01:43:29 Treating work like a marathon - keeping it sustainable
01:46:40 Focusing on the basics and rules that force balance
01:50:30 How to approach a person with mental health issues in a tactful way?
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@DeepDivewithAliAbdaal 7 ай бұрын

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@kefyalewgirma9195 7 ай бұрын

😢r

@thomasm2683 Ай бұрын

Wow! What camera do you use?

@Ak_bauri_777 7 ай бұрын

Podcast start at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="388">06:28</a>

@hassanomer22 8 ай бұрын

I read Dr Julie Smith book last month, and it was truly outstanding and incredibly helpful.

@RobinMWaite 8 ай бұрын

What a brilliant interview, I’ve always found Dr Julie’s feels so helpful, the metaphors she uses are utterly brilliant and simple. And even got my wife into following her too, so it’s lovely to hear such a down to earth interview. The real Dr Julie behind the social media and brand too. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻

@Bookinista08 8 ай бұрын

This is going to take a while for me to watch in full, but YASS, thank you for inviting Dr. Julie Smith!! I always have small revelations when I watch her videos and I truly believe she can help a lot of people with her advice.

@maggiekao4464 8 ай бұрын

Really appreciate for all tips and pieces of advice Dr. Julie has imparted. One time encountering her books, it just gave me a hunch to invest on it value since this should be my life guidebook within my reach. I feel heard and understood whenever she puts an emphasis on giving yourself enough time to notice and make adjustment while not conveying any harsh suggestions to beat one down in the face of tough moments.

@ahmedsabry3909 7 ай бұрын

I love dr, Julie, thx for inviting her , thank you both

@edupowerchannel9977 5 ай бұрын

I am kind of fascinated seeing your deeper discussion presentation.

@GaryFerrao 8 ай бұрын

i don’t know how to comment in Apple Podcasts. but i just want to say thank you, for bringing such talented people in this podcast!~ after your podcast on the procrastination with Professor Fuschia, i’ve been wanting to know how to deal with those stress emotions that cause the procrastination.

@ShortcastoverCoffee 8 ай бұрын

What a fantastic and insightful conversation! I really appreciated hearing Dr. Julie's wisdom and experience around managing stress, anxiety, overthinking, and burnout. The discussion on mindfulness and living in the present moment was so helpful - I loved the analogy of it being like "going to the gym for your mind." Building that mental muscle of noticing your thoughts and then choosing where to place your attention is such an empowering skill. I also found the tips on self-soothing, balancing your values, and treating work like a marathon to be extremely useful. The idea of having an "ideal day" or "ideal week" calendar to aim towards, while being flexible, is genius. Dr. Julie seems like such a warm, genuine person who truly cares about helping others. I'm grateful that she shares her knowledge in such an engaging way. Ali did a wonderful job hosting and asking thoughtful questions too. This was a fantastic reminder to take care of myself and pay attention to the basics like sleep, nutrition, exercise and connection. Thank you both! Looking forward to the next episode.

@aagy 7 ай бұрын

💯

@learn.spanish.podcast 8 ай бұрын

Nice one! Thank you for the amazing content!

@dolugarg1609 8 ай бұрын

My two favorite youtubers in one frame❤

@fire-wn6dj 8 ай бұрын

two beautiful souls

@TheZGALa 8 ай бұрын

Quality therapy is not available for so many of us who might benefit from it. I appreciate any resources which help us navigate life and acknowledge that we have the ability to heal even if we are not priveledged enough to 'have a therapist'.

@ClayRosco 8 ай бұрын

I manage stress and anxiety with exercise, eating healthy and also stopping for a while and having a break. I also use Dihexa from Swisschems as it further helps me concentrate and improve my mood. I take dihexa about half an hour before I start my day. I also take deep breaths and count to 10 when I'm feeling overwhelmed. Finally, I focus on the present moment and take one step at a time.

@EC-lu5gs 4 ай бұрын

The comment about breaking a prisoner of war was so simple and so mind-blowing

@selviani100 7 ай бұрын

It seems that Dr. Julie was a lil bit nervous in this podcast, or it's just hard to explain the content parts of her book. Nice to hear you (Dr Julie) mention Bali (Indonesia)👏.

@nikosschoolofMentalHealth 8 ай бұрын

Wonderful video there with soo nice content and tips thanks

@knishkasood2089 8 ай бұрын

A podcast on social anxiety plz

@DeepDivewithAliAbdaal 8 ай бұрын

Stay tuned, there's one coming this season 👀

@ashwinikumarprasad1444 8 ай бұрын

I have severe social anxiety

@Hello2u3582mypincode 8 ай бұрын

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="3344">55:44</a> I like that part about ('the') truth

@hichipoky Ай бұрын

Very helpful

@knowledgeseeker5499 8 ай бұрын

I been listening their conversation and fall asleep 😅 well my mental health felt better after waking up when last 3 minutes left of video. It proof I was lacking lots of sleep 💤😀

@user-nl7cl1ox2e 7 ай бұрын

i love her

@kinolima235 8 ай бұрын

❣️❤️ Love Love ✨️ Thank you very much ❤️❣️

@tvgoku2 7 ай бұрын

Could you repeat the name of the book, please? i want to read that book.

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WOW congratulations 🇧🇩

@taebum5069 8 ай бұрын

❤

@zjnaj470 8 ай бұрын

Why so many adds ? How are we supposed to take any information in if every 5 minutes there’s a random add

@younesab991 2 ай бұрын

its not open in Spotify

@the_artisan 8 ай бұрын

Ali you've misspelt 'defuse' on the thumbnail - BTW I'm a proofreader if you need me to look through stuff before you post lmk

@onetwo4833 8 ай бұрын

Fantastic video. The text highlighting animation is good, but a little too quick. It would be easier to refocus your visual attention to the beginning of the text if the animation was quicker, because you wouldn't feel like you have to till animation to ends before beginning to read it. It's especially true if you're reading the sentence with a more distributed focus where you glance at the whole sentence to process it, rather than if you read from left to right ~word by word. It's not that it's impossible to read mid animation, but obviously, it's easier once the animation is complete, which means the quicker it's completed, the sooner you can start to easily read it. And that means there's no potential for worrying about not being able to finish reading the sentence before it disappears. I hope that jumbled mess makes sense haha.

@SirFarsalott 8 ай бұрын

Haha saw the bts on the appendix

@rinathama 8 ай бұрын

I just wanted to be the first comment. I will watch the video later.😄

@GaryFerrao 8 ай бұрын

congratulations 🎉

@rascalap2968 8 ай бұрын

FFS, Defuse or diffuse, take your pick! 🤔

@cantbendknee 8 ай бұрын

I find it strange that stoicism and CBT aren't referenced and those sources are where the bulk of the ideas come from.

@khansvirtualdiary 8 ай бұрын

in queue

@Hayat_Yildiz_805 8 ай бұрын

First comment 🖐🤞😏

@tonimull4488 8 ай бұрын

Ali can you invite Dan Koe

@rakeshkangsiya5569 8 ай бұрын

Bhai English nahi ati mere ko 😢

@rickgut2004 8 ай бұрын

I think Ali is actually traveling for a while right now. These may be pre-recorded videos. 🤷‍♂️

@user-ul9um2yv9o 7 ай бұрын

I'm depression special. Sell the treatment formula.

@_Nour_333 8 ай бұрын

Read : the leader who has no title Why hasn't sbtold me this b4 ?

@boomandbellepunzalan8972 6 ай бұрын

Such an interview to listen to but ciuldn't help saying to the TV it's Beyonce and not Adele 😂😂

@hollyhayes110 8 ай бұрын

*defuse

@pawelewicki8432 7 ай бұрын

Jesus those adverts ftom host... i thought they would never finish...

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@kinolima235 8 ай бұрын

❣️❤️🌏 Love Forever 🎡❤️❣️

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People prefer to spend money on liabilities, Rather than investing in assets and be very profitable.

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The crypto market has been unfavorable for months and i keep losing my money selling off during dips, i'm very scared of holding right now. how do you guys still make so much?*

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