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In other words: for those who think they’re prophets, DON’T GIVE YOUR OPINION UNLESS THEY ASK FOR IT!!!

'We are not here to give lessons; we are here to learn lessons'. Now, THAT sums up the one most important message humanity needs these days! Everyone is peddling some brand of 'expertise' online which often amounts to confirmation bias and every other logical fallacy, the comments sections can be an invitation to be eviscerated by anyone who does not agree with someone else and thus places then on 'knowledge trial', and the basic skill of developing judiciousness..... tragically departing. Thank you Dan! Always!

Every morning I start my day with a video of yours. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. You are my people and have a new path since I have started listening, I had given up. Now it’s confirmed it’s those who have chosen me, as an empath, to lift them while they destroy whats offered freely to them. YOU are awesome!! ❤

This is great!! I'm cracking up. I can just see the look on my bully's face.

I started watching this channel to improve at work (call center), but it’s actually helping me become a better mother to my 12 and 13 year old, so thank you a million times ❤

The prophesizing phrase has changed my whole communication game. 😂 Well done!!

3:00 Manner. Expose you or protect you? That cleary defined it. Thank you Dan.

Love your videos and the message of kindness you deliver. I imagine your family dinners are a hoot.

I was literally looking into this topic last week. Just what I needed :) thanks for your work and insights!

This is by far one of the funniest videos I have seen from you (I can’t wait to watch them all.). Thank you so much for giving me gigantic laughs today. Your editing work is so hysterical. I cannot say enough how much I love you coming from a place of white light and your powerful demeanor. Keep up the great work!

I loved your communication tips in relation to family members- please do more in this area. We invest so much effort on communication in work situations and so little on family/ personal relationships

I’m so grateful to you for the kind of communication help I have needed for YEARS and been unable to find. Thank you so much!!

Dan, you have had me in stitches Thank you so much.

My favorite one was a cult member that I argued religion with. I said something to him about how his leader wasn’t of God. He said I should repent or I would be cursed of God. Touch not mine anointed and do my prophets no harm. I told him God does not obligate me to show respect or listen to false prophets.

My mom has always been slightly disappointed that I am not perfect. She keeps giving 'helpful' hints of how I should change to be closer to perfect. I'm nearly 50.

Thank you so much for the good you are bringing în my life through your knowledge! Be blessed Dan and keep up the good work! Greetings from Romania !

You are a masterful orator Dan. You’re gift is truly appreciated. Keep dropping gems 💎 2021.

I react because I don't want to have the engagement with said person as it is. A long pause is best, I wish I could! And I will! Thanks to you Dan!

I have a co worker who is super critical of me at work. And i went to the managers to tell her to slow her roll because I felt that wasn’t a boundary I could cross. And she pulled out all of her stupid “experience” over me even though I’ve been at the company for two years more than her. I’m the one who got the talking too. And she made it worse by hugging me in front of the managers to make herself look good. So thanks for this I’m gonna use the helpful advice thing on her.

I just CANNOT get ENOUGH of your videos! They are simply brilliant - have i said THANK YOU?!!!!😊

This is a super fun demonstration Dan!

Another great video! Thank you, Dan. I especially love learning to "cancel" (false) prophesy by saying "I reject your assessment and I reject your advice." Those words are so freeing and the thunder sounds are marvelous! Your wisdom and humor are a real blessing and encouragement to me.

What a refreshing and fun video! Thank you Marty/Rex.

OMG - We have it backwards - we show our worst side to the ppl closest to us 😩 It's TRUE! Our family unit teaches us how to act towards those we live with... so our unconscious simply continues the pattern & it's very difficult to fight & change.

I listen to one video everyday so I can 😅...These videos are funny. On a serious not you have saved me from sending bad emails and reacting in meetings. Thanks, I still have a job!!

I love Dan For Real u are my best kept secret!!!💯💯💯

Wow u are amazing i can't stop watching I'm so grateful for this channel and youuu

Mr. O’Connor, may I just say that I have had your videos on blast for days since I discovered your channel. I have been searching for someone who could teach me what you are teaching me. I could give you the biggest hug of gratitude right now. Your tactical but compassionate message of how to teach important communication skills from a loving place is a total game changer, and I am both engaged and laugh-out-loud entertained by your delivery. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤🎉❤ So grateful.

I really appreciate you breaking it down into the specifics, especially from an aspie perspective, it really helps. If you did any vids on this stuff it would be awesome for me and I'd be super grateful

He is the best! Love when he talk about his mother 😂😂😂 I can picture my daughter doing the same. 💕🤦🏻‍♀️

It would be nice to see this mysterious brother, so often spoken about.

Once again, you have hit the sweet spot. I used your advice in responding to a backstabbing email, which cc'd the Ueber Boss, so I took the liberty of "replying to all". I'm just a volunteer, so I have nothing to lose other than the principle of a proposed project for a pandemic critique.

Hey, awesome videos from you. Just what I was searching for in youtube. Keep up the great work!

I watch a lot of personal growth and development coaches on KZfaq. Currently yours is my favorite! I’m new to the channel and it’s been so helpful and applicable instantaneously #WhatEveryoneShouldKnow #HelpfulInformation

Missed some of this earlier when it premiered so returned to watch in full, and can see I'll need to revisit. The messages in this video are profound - there's much to digest here, and lots of unlearning/learning to do. And on a practical level, I don't know if indexing your vids is new or it's just that I've missed it before - but I think it's really helpful, & a generous way of addressing the varied needs of your followers. So glad I found your channel. Thanks, as always, both to Dan & TeamDan.

Your videos are not only useful but hilarious, you should do stand up comedy

I've loved your videos for a long time! This ones especially brilliant!

Informative and hilarious. Thanks for the video! 😂😂😂

Excellent video. Full of knowledge and humor. I love the integration of verbal and non-verbal forms of communication to improve efficacy of delivery.

Your videos helped me just today, and I learned something in using this communication strategy about myself. Thank You.

Very strong video again, Dan.

I love this man.

Wow you are good, knowing the Divine and translating the psycho emotionnal extension of our lives, i found some beautiful descriptions in your content, and with fun! Thank you💫

That is interesting, I never thought about that before, but you are right about our family members getting the worst side of us. We do treat acquaintances better than our own family . That is sad because it's always our family members that have our backs when it comes down to needing help and nobody else cares. Family is important. The problem I have with my mom is I don't like her calling my daughter names and I don't like how she mocks my daughter and swears at her too ! My daughter is 11 and my mom can't deal with the teenage attitude. So I have distanced myself from her. We hardly communicate. My daughter does not want to go over to her house anymore on the weekends when I have to go to work. and my mom doesn't really want her over anymore . My daughter is a really good kid and I don't want her around negativity. So when I go to work on the weekends, my daughter stays home alone. I work 12 hour and 16 hour shifts on the weekends. That's a long time for her to be home alone. My mom is 71 and if anything happened to her I know I would have regrets. I want to repair the relationship, but my mom is stubborn. I'm the type of person who doesn't hold grudges. But my mom sure does. I don't foresee my mom treating my daughter any better . She has said some horrible things to my daughter . She called her the B word. Fu__ing brat , and even said , "I'm not your grandma any more ." So the relationship between my mom and I is damaged. But in an emergency I would be there for her, and in an emergency she would be there for me. The reason I work so much is because rent in Arizona is expensive! My rent is 1,400 dollars a month and that is considered cheap. I also have to pay for dance and tumbling, and my daughter is in a private Christian school so I have a monthly payment to the Christian school, that her scholarship didn't cover. Plus other bills. I don't focus on debt because that will attract more debt. I tell myself that I have plenty of money and that I am blessed financially and that I lack nothing. Miraculously with my mind set, everything gets paid and I have the strength and stamina to work 7 days a week and I never get sick. God takes care of me and blesses me and keeps my health so I can keep going and going and going. Once I am a teacher again , instead of a parapro, I should not have to work so much and I will make more money . Plus that is my hearts desire to teach elementary school. Now that I have been through your training, and I put it into practice; along with being mindful of my thoughts and realizing that I am the creator of my life through my thoughts, everything is falling into place. The universe is aligning itself and I am in harmony with it and it almost feels supernatural like I am going through a matrix while my life is unfolding and doors are opening and I never thought I would be HAPPY and EXCITED about life again .I am only choosing to have happy thoughts . if I get sad or start feeling bad I immediately change those feelings and get rid if them. I live my life like I am not missing anything and that I already have everything. I think it and so it will be. It's being mindful. I recently read that we think that we are humans with a spiritual side . But really we are mostly spiritual beings living a human existence. I got side tracked, but I do want a good relationship with my mom . ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

This video had me in hysterics. You're just brilliant!

Oh, I loved this one! Really helpful for me. And the beginning reminded me of ACIM, which I loved. Thank you.😊👍🏻

I thoroughly enjoy youre laugh! This was a fun one to watch!

Dan. You are brilliant.

Dan, I just love yout tactical communication with the right degree of humour! Brilliant! Often effective communication is key, but tactical communication is waaaaaaay beyond that.

Thanks Dan! You're so wise!😸

11:05 “That’s not the kind of help I respond well to.”

You give such great advice & with such humor, thank you! I learned a lot from this video & you made me laugh out loud, which is always a blessing 🙏

You are the most inspirational person! Thanks for everything. ♥️😁👍

Thank you for posting

18:50 Dan'O, I'm 32 and was homeless my entire 20's trying to get out of living in my car. It wasn't drugs. It was a disability diagnosis.

I have been watching these videos to learn how to handle a difficult family member during the holidays. Your videos are by far the best on KZfaq! I felt very prepared by Christmas, and what do you know? The bitch didn't come! But what a relaxing holiday we had. Thanks for the advice. I know it will come in handy.

13:52 Two people walking by in the background. 👀☺️ They were trying to be quiet and respectful.

Well spoken! Hope to see more Good Works in the near future...

This was gold!

I wish you were a boss and I could work for you. My life would be SO much better!

Your advice is much needed!!! Thank you, Dan!

You crack me up preach and teach at the same time

Thank you very very much I love your videos you’re funny! I have learned so much it’s all about the come back! Your videos help me to learn how to respond and not react how to stay in control and take my power back

You turned the bully into a child! Magic! Wow im shook, your good dude... powerful!

One of my top pet peeves and greatest struggles all in one.

I like this great insight ..thank you Dan .your awesome..it sounds like "bullying "...verses sincere love for the well being of others

I absolutely positively 50,000% love your videos this is helping me to grow into respond and not react now I have healthy tools in my toolbox to deal with Internet trolls thank you

I love watching and listening to your information and your videos.

He is fantastic!!!

I can't find the 3rd video about the "Messenger" critics. Can someone link it here?? Thank you

Life is random and things don't happen for a reason. They just happen. We can learn from this chaos or not.

Your advice is great 👍🏽

Well done

I hollered, “…it was really Rex Tillerson” 😭😂😂😂 All jokes aside, I appreciate you so much!

Love it!!!!♡♡♡ Definitely sharing!!!😆😆😆💜💜💜

This video is so sweet!

Thank you for the great videos! This one is perfect!😁

“I reject that bad attitude from my flying unicorn kingdom. Lol.” Say it with a giggle?

Im learning and laughing at the same. You are very informative and hilarious. thanks😂

Helpful! Thank you 🙏

Too right, mum's have the right motive, but typically the wrong manner

Thank you so much - God bless you!!!!!’

love it. Dan you the man!

Thank you Dan!

Thank you so much.

Dan, in your expert opinion, what do you do about people with streams of suggestions about what you should do at the weekend. Bad restaurant recommendations. Patronising day out suggestions, you know really obvious things you've done a million times. All given in a tone of utter confidence and superiority?

The solution is at 13:18

My mother is a prophet. In some instances I don’t like her telling me how I feel. How would one confront a parent when her love is smothering?

"I hate you" "you are the worst mother/father" basically means "I am not feeling love from you right now", dont respond, they are not ready to listen to it.

Loved this episode!!! I laughed so hard I woke my husband. “I reject your....”

I have a friend that speaks with a serious vocal fry accent that makes them sound apathetic and negative. I have tried to communicate to them how this affects their professionalism, but it seems as though they are determined to ignore me. They represent us in meetings and often with people who impact our potential. Others have brought it up to me. Can you make a video about vocal fry? I know this is an accent the person affects on purpose thinking it makes them more interesting to listen to as they don’t do it all the time and when we discussed it they mentioned as much. I love them, but it makes me want to shove ice picks through my ears. Think Paris Hilton as a two pack a day smoker only more jaded and slightly belittling. Any advice appreciated! I tired recording a meeting and having impartial folks give us input and all of them mentioned it in polite ways. After the meeting this person’s take away was, “It made me stand out!” :)

You are the best!

You are great 👍 😊 4:09

This is good. I have a ridiculously rude and hyper critical manager. Cannot wait to break my news to him. Funny how you asked if they are smiling through the nasty statements. I get laughter from my jerk manager.

Damn, you are good.

Most people don't stand there long enough to listen to what you think or want. What do you do when that disrespect happens.

Yeah I got it !😊 12:33

Will every person we meet who is a person we are supposed to meet be a person who is supposed to meet us and we a person who he is supposed to meet when we meet that person we are supposed to meet who is supposed to meet us?

They are actually trying to speak "curses "...in the mask of "prophecy..