Learn Self Acceptance Self Confidence By Letting Go Of Ego & Being Yourself

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The Futur

The Futur

6 жыл бұрын

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The weight of carrying a false identity, constructed from insecurity and ego can be overwhelming. Everyone already sees you for who you are and has chosen to accept or reject you. Show up as who you are. You have nothing to prove. This is the path to true self confidence. Love yourself and accept that you are perfectly imperfect.
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@IRTECCENTRIC
@IRTECCENTRIC 6 жыл бұрын
I don't know about all people but this thing is deep and if you understand and master it. You can be the best version of yourself for rest of the life.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
wow. thanks for the words.
@ayushrajpal6116
@ayushrajpal6116 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you !!
@dee-tx5jd
@dee-tx5jd 3 жыл бұрын
This "thing" is ascension and you have 222 likes.
@arktos298
@arktos298 3 жыл бұрын
False ego?
@michaelwhite2823
@michaelwhite2823 2 жыл бұрын
@@thefutur you look fine. I wish I was as slim as you! There is nothing wrong with your voice. You come across as highly intelligent and likeable. You proved some of us are harder on ourselves than anyone.
@callumgriffith
@callumgriffith 6 жыл бұрын
Why does it always feel like these videos are tailor-made for where I am in life.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Callum Griffith we feel the pain through the ethos.
@kailalee5918
@kailalee5918 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@woodylee4924
@woodylee4924 5 жыл бұрын
They're spying on us creatives o.o
@alexhartan
@alexhartan 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@graphiczonestudio
@graphiczonestudio 3 жыл бұрын
@@woodylee4924 I would have sworn that too haha just kidding XD
@rahulbhogal1336
@rahulbhogal1336 6 жыл бұрын
This is soul cleansing! Man I can't tell you how many times I avoid speaking or engaging with people because I have this self built fear of saying something invaluable. I feel like this is still a work in progress for me, so thank you for this. Jordan Peterson said something amazing in one of his videos, "the willingness to being a fool is a precursor to transformation".
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
that jordan peterson guy knows a thing or tow NDS. glad to help.
@BenjaminIMeszaros
@BenjaminIMeszaros 6 жыл бұрын
Caring more about other people is the easiest way to gain confidence
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Have you experienced this?
@BenjaminIMeszaros
@BenjaminIMeszaros 6 жыл бұрын
The Futur definitely!
@jackhays1246
@jackhays1246 4 жыл бұрын
As long as you let go of your ego...!!!!
@silviuandreiiacoban3962
@silviuandreiiacoban3962 4 жыл бұрын
Just the oposite in my opinion
@shxdo3712
@shxdo3712 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin I Meszaros it is true as long as you dont help for validation
@jdt8983
@jdt8983 3 жыл бұрын
That and it's always comforting to know nobody cares about the things you're insecure about but you. Everyone else is absorbed into their own realities
@tekua19
@tekua19 3 жыл бұрын
That line "Everybody is already okay with who you are" was great and made so much sense. Like, duh, any "mask" or front I put up isn't fooling people. Same way I can tell when others are putting on a "mask". Awesome strategy to just focus on how to serve the person or people you're interacting with rather than focusing on our egos. Great video.
@cath1589
@cath1589 4 жыл бұрын
Have hit a total crisis with ego and insecurity at the moment - I needed to hear this. (It's been a bad day) And I myself have often felt I needed to leave ego behind as I've been aware for some time now that humility/selflessness and true confidence go hand-in-hand. I am really struggling with a sense of failure in my life, feel I have a lot to prove, and need to let it go. You broke it down so well, thank you.
@thefutur
@thefutur 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Here for you.
@mirelacotaga7203
@mirelacotaga7203 8 ай бұрын
"I do sound terrible, but I already sound terrible to everybody, and they're okay with that" this is what did it for me
@Shinobi_xx
@Shinobi_xx 5 жыл бұрын
after a year, I'm crying again while watching this video, feeling better again about myself and rembering that I'm more important to the world than my ego. Thank you, Chris. Thank you so much!
@thefutur
@thefutur 5 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome. Take care of yourself.
@ashrock1990
@ashrock1990 6 жыл бұрын
You can’t change your external factors always but can mould your inner self and be content with what you are. Love these type of videos from you Chris.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
thanks buddy.
@mfeagirlxx
@mfeagirlxx 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed at this moment. Your channel has been a game changer for me ever since I discovered it!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
thanks. consider becoming a sustaining member if you're not one already. Appreciate it!
@ArchieDeZ
@ArchieDeZ 6 жыл бұрын
this is something i can relate to. i'm introvert and i do have same problem, just i'm still studying. but i know i'm always be myself, though more likely "my own pace". and to know that "Everyone already sees you for who you are" really open something new for me today.
@ALGOChannel
@ALGOChannel 2 жыл бұрын
0:40 I genuinely thought this was an among us joke and then realized this video was published in 2018
@YogiLab
@YogiLab 3 жыл бұрын
When the people that matters accepts you for who you are, it will help you find your way to self-acceptance
@abdxyz8534
@abdxyz8534 2 жыл бұрын
0:40 IMPOSTER AMONG US 😳
@ayushrajpal6116
@ayushrajpal6116 3 жыл бұрын
This is literally one of the best advice I've heard untill now... It's simple but genius - “Be of service to people whilst being who you already are.” Thank you so much for this. You're great !! 😍💜
@hannahbautista1327
@hannahbautista1327 4 жыл бұрын
I love how you make the contents of your videos so honest and concise that they pierce through the minds and hearts of your viewers---somehow in some ways rekindle this "fire" within them.
@emmanuelukanwoke8669
@emmanuelukanwoke8669 3 жыл бұрын
I can literally feel the sincerity in his words. Thank you for the inspiration, Chris. This came timely for me,
@c.s.70
@c.s.70 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chris for sharing so bravely and vulnerably THE big key that can potentially change everything in a person’s life. Understanding that the Ego is not us but a false construct arising from deep insecurity to protect us from rejection, self and others, due to our subconsciously perceived inadequacies or the learned notion that we are somehow not enough innately. It’s a very heavy, stressful, painful way to live.Thank you for bravely putting yourself out here vulnerably, man, just to help us understand this. That took heart and guts.
@aaron_reina
@aaron_reina 5 жыл бұрын
You can’t have victory without vulnerability. Thank you Chris!
@effvc
@effvc 6 жыл бұрын
Looking back on it, how much you have been able to transform, that is what is so inspirational to me and so many others. Makes me feel like I can do that. If it came naturally to you like it did for Jose, I don't think you'd have as powerful of a story or connect as deeply with many of us here. That in and of itself is incredibly motivating.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
thanks Alex. I hope by sharing the struggle, work and transformation of my own story that it will empower and encourage others to believe anything is possible. just watch the old videos if you don't believe me.
@RhoJae
@RhoJae 3 жыл бұрын
The world already sees you for who you are Go out with the mindset of "I want to help people" and boom with confidence. Amazing video
@heidigfx
@heidigfx 6 жыл бұрын
once you are comfortable with who you are, you start to attract the right crowd for you. on a less related topic, I was just reading about the Dunning-Kruger effect... also about self-image and performance.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
do you recommend?
@heidigfx
@heidigfx 6 жыл бұрын
the Dunning-Kruger effect? yes of course! Once applied to our field, it basically explains why beginners can overestimate the quality of their work, while experts can underestimate theirs.
@heidigfx
@heidigfx 6 жыл бұрын
for example with typography: someone buys a pen and starts writing with absolutely no clue about the anatomy of letters. He's so happy with the result and can't see mistakes because he doesn't know the basics. On the other hand, an expert who knows a lot more than the basics may think the basics are so easy and everyone knows them. it's a matter of cognition or perception..not of ego.
@Jun90721
@Jun90721 2 жыл бұрын
Accept that nobody’s perfect and so am I. Yeah people can judge me or look down on me or do/talk whatever about me. I’m the one who always scared people judges me so what people talks about me really matters to me. I’ve used the “Observe Thoughts” technique and I realize most of my thoughts in day just about caring about what people will think/talk about me. I knew I just don’t need to care those things but I don’t know how to do that. But since now, just by watching your video I just know what I need to learn rn is Self-acceptance. Thank you so much!
@EPHONIC
@EPHONIC 4 жыл бұрын
White and Christian here, Chris. I will say you are more motivating and encouraging than a lot of the preachers/pastors I have heard. It’s your heart, Chris. That’s what we see and feel through what you provide others. Service!
@thefutur
@thefutur 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@ForeverDansky
@ForeverDansky 6 жыл бұрын
Great video Chris! Thanks for sharing, really resonated with me and it’s good to know it’s totally normal to feel like that 🤟
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Dansky thanks Dan.
@Valleystick
@Valleystick 3 жыл бұрын
Two legends in the same room! Big inpiration!!!
@kaltrinaferizi6318
@kaltrinaferizi6318 6 жыл бұрын
I love that this channel has turned into much more than design, deliverables and pixels. Thanks Chris!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
one day you wake up and we evolve. it happens right?
@snor-clips
@snor-clips 6 жыл бұрын
❤️ I love you for doing this! Chris Do & Thefutur = Best thing I could have ever come across.
@makebelieverOrBeliev
@makebelieverOrBeliev 3 жыл бұрын
Chris I don't know you personally but I am going to be forever grateful that I have stumbled across your content.
@chadus9939
@chadus9939 2 жыл бұрын
This is such an amazing thing to tell to people. I can't thank you enough Chris!
@jaychristteves
@jaychristteves 6 жыл бұрын
The best talk I've ever watched. It's so deep and genuine. Chris do really doing it big time! ☇
@heenaverma2895
@heenaverma2895 3 жыл бұрын
This video is a pure gem. I can feel that anxiety of being in such rooms filled with talented people and have absolutely nothing to share. Being an introvert it's hard to find voice in writing as well. So one can imagine how worse things can be when you have to phase something physically. But I keep boosting myself and practicing such good suggestions. 🙏
@manuels8138
@manuels8138 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Chris, this channel is what I and other creatives needed. This video is really powerful , I struggled with this a lot and finally breaking through this year. A audiobook that really helped was “the courage to be disliked” . Highly recommend it. It can be a tough listen but it’s worth looking into. It might hit others different depending where your at.
@mofarba
@mofarba 3 жыл бұрын
Ah man, this is so relatable to me, and im sure with many others. Thank you, Chris, every time I listen to you it feels so awesome.
@CodeKwento
@CodeKwento 6 жыл бұрын
Two things.. Self-awareness and self-acceptance. Master that and you can face the world.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Code@Kwento perfect.
@stratospheric-tv
@stratospheric-tv 6 жыл бұрын
Man that was powerful. Thank you for being open and sharing this!
@lifeofquanameditationmusic4311
@lifeofquanameditationmusic4311 5 ай бұрын
Real happiness comes into your life when you accept yourself as you are x
@andreclark2087
@andreclark2087 6 жыл бұрын
I have been stuck in my own head and stressing about how to act and what to say for a preflight/portfolio review event tomorrow. As a first year Graphic design student who stutters, this video was exactly what I needed to hear at the right time. Thank you Chris Do. This helped bring me peace.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
so glad to hear.
@joysamudrala7184
@joysamudrala7184 4 жыл бұрын
Andre Clark How has it helped you? What did you change?
@hitokeke
@hitokeke 4 жыл бұрын
This 2 year old video just popped up on as a recommended video & it was something I truly needed to hear. Just wanted to thank Chris Do for sharing that personal story like this & for you guys continuing to make such powerful content right now during this time.
@thefutur
@thefutur 4 жыл бұрын
we got some stuff on the back shelf. ;)
@romarbetc123
@romarbetc123 5 жыл бұрын
This really resonated with me. Thank you for being so open Chris! thats no easy task.
@matiaspitters6058
@matiaspitters6058 6 жыл бұрын
Great video Chris. Thank you for sharing those stories. It is so connecting to see other people allowing themselves to be human.
@AnaMarcu
@AnaMarcu 6 жыл бұрын
It must take a lot of courage to go so deep inside you and bring these vulnerable stories to the surface and share them with everyone. Thank you.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Ana Marcu hi Ana.
@tylerwinters2578
@tylerwinters2578 4 жыл бұрын
I've also come to this realization naturally, however this also helps explain the concept to me. Very good talk.
@beeyourselfcounselling6748
@beeyourselfcounselling6748 3 жыл бұрын
Humility is what jumps out at me, so beautiful.
@sumeetgupta77
@sumeetgupta77 6 жыл бұрын
Things use to scare me too before but after watching your videos Chris I have changed a lot and its amazing feeling. I love it. I am more confident and more relaxed while meeting people now. Thank you so much.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Sumeet Gupta you bet.
@aspiringentrepreneur1542
@aspiringentrepreneur1542 5 жыл бұрын
Wow...this sounds precisely like me...I struggled with this every single day of my life and i have been lost for so long😔.almost all of my life I suffered keeping myself back in life, being highly interverted in an mainly extroverted world was always a challenge.....I thought I was the only person in the world that I had this issue. Thank you Chris, I love you man.
@rigvedsathe
@rigvedsathe 6 жыл бұрын
absolutely love the content you guys put on this channel! :D
@natha_ow
@natha_ow 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! It’s one of the best videos, if not the best video, I’ve seen in the last weeks and months.Thanks so much!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@yaksjain
@yaksjain 6 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Thanks Chris.
@BartzITA95
@BartzITA95 6 жыл бұрын
Describing yourself during your first videos, you described a good part of my life. I avoid thinking about it as much as possible, but hearing about it certainly did me good. Thank you
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
BartzITA95 glad I told that story.
@Abhishek.Saini28
@Abhishek.Saini28 5 жыл бұрын
This channel is uploading exactly what I need to do in my life. Thanks, Master Do and team. Love from India.
@martawysokinska8467
@martawysokinska8467 6 жыл бұрын
Perfect! Good job, super inspiring. Thank you for this video ❤️🙏
@kingdumb9692
@kingdumb9692 6 жыл бұрын
Incredible message. Thank you, Chris!
@jovan1220
@jovan1220 4 жыл бұрын
This was very impactful for me thank you Chris it helped me because I struggle with this throughout my life ✊🏾✊🏾
@rebeccamclaren97
@rebeccamclaren97 Жыл бұрын
My mind has been officially blown. This is a truly incredible revelation, and you have just helped a fellow jaw-clencher out big time !!
@ChuangJoey
@ChuangJoey 4 жыл бұрын
This is really inspired me ! I’ve been follow the stoicism for awhile and it give me so much confidence in front of people no matter who that was . I originally from Taiwan 🇹🇼 started learning English when I turned 24 years old . At the time I was a single mom just got divorced.. I have no where to go . So I moved from Taiwan to NYC with my baby .. since then my English still isn’t great , but now I work at design agency in Norway and I’m comfortable to talk to client and handle design project with so different culture perspective. I just wanted to thanks Chris and Jose , I watched your video around 3-4 years ago till now and I have grown so so much and become more and more confident with my design . 😍
@josetrave
@josetrave 6 жыл бұрын
The Futur of Design. The Futur of education. The truth of life. Thank you Chris and The Futurers for the value given. LOVED IT. Proud to be a sustaining member and part of the Community!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you Jose! you make the dream possible.
@ThatCrookedMind
@ThatCrookedMind 6 жыл бұрын
Its really valuable to know you were going through that stuff even after years of experience. Definitely opened my eyes to how i look at myself Thanks
@jephtheferdilus
@jephtheferdilus 6 жыл бұрын
This video was beautiful. I love how thefutur doesn't only deal with design, but with personal development and mindfulness. Beautiful talk Chris, your growth is an inspiration to us all.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Jephthe Ferdilus Thank you so much.
@GeorgeKishe
@GeorgeKishe 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk Chris.
@tahmid8918
@tahmid8918 Жыл бұрын
This video showed up on my recommendation exactly the time I needed this video the most.
@olgaserova4943
@olgaserova4943 6 жыл бұрын
Chris, thank you for sharing, it was very important to me to know that you felt the same in the past and overcame it! very inspirational! thank you again!
@TheEmafrost
@TheEmafrost 6 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos you guys ever made. Really really inspiring. Hope you get this message, it helped me a lot to understand so much things i´ve been doing with my clients and the people around me.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
I read all the comments Ema.
@KingTorres96
@KingTorres96 6 жыл бұрын
You're such an inspiring and wise man, Chris. You help me improve myself with each video, thank you for everything.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Pablo Torres happy to share.
@JohnBeatty
@JohnBeatty 6 жыл бұрын
Happy the be #500 to like this teaching by Chris. Between all the selling and false people on the internets, it's refreshing to know that Chris in his heart is just "one" of many, but will open his heart and mind to his audience and not speak words he doesn't believe in. Hopefully, this will be a "good" reference, but he's the new "Mr. Rogers" in the neighborhood of the web. Because he cares about his neighbors and his community. - I really appreciate an honest man in this day. May you continue to be blessed, Mr. Do! Love you, man!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
John Beatty thank you sir.
@thechisensei
@thechisensei 6 жыл бұрын
one of the best videos ive seen by Chris! :) short but POWERFUL! :) TNX CHRIS and The Futur :)
@vastvoids
@vastvoids 2 жыл бұрын
3 years later and it's still so powerful to hear
@CosminSerbanDesign
@CosminSerbanDesign 6 жыл бұрын
Honestly one of the best videos I saw. Thank you Chris!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it.
@vishal.jadhav
@vishal.jadhav 6 жыл бұрын
Chris, day by day your videos are covering the whole inside out and outside in. Just not the Design, Business but Life. I feel very much connected to this video. Keep doing great work! May thanks.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
thanks so much. we are going to open up the mindset stuff a little more.
@jarroddowalter
@jarroddowalter 6 жыл бұрын
This might be one of the most important videos you have made so far. Amazing advice that we all need to hear. Thanks!!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Jarrod Dowalter thanks Jarrod. Going deeper on this video. Glad to see that you also recognize it.
@kd_ss
@kd_ss Жыл бұрын
beautiful, thank you. this is so helpful for someone that constantly puts on that mirror mask that is recently trying to get better physically and emotionally by trying to add on pounds and have the body i want on top of trying to get my mental right by attempting to gain self-acceptance. this video helped a lot and im a person who sees vids like this sneak on my recommended all the time, and i'd shoo passed them instead of just giving my brain a chance, but no more of that now
@yipsiuhay
@yipsiuhay 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still working on accepting who I'm. Thanks for sharing your story Chris!
@jessicacecilia2588
@jessicacecilia2588 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so inspiring. You've helped us a lot.
@felipesilva5228
@felipesilva5228 6 жыл бұрын
This simply resonates a lot in me. I have tried my whole life to be something I'm not, and that does take a lot of energy that hardly gets paid back. It's simply not worth trying to fake it.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
Felipe Silva it’s what I learned.
@Copernicus222
@Copernicus222 6 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Thanks Chris!!!
@ka1Zhi
@ka1Zhi 3 жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY! THANK YOU!
@jaylenny62
@jaylenny62 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm so scared to step out and start doing videos about something that has being on my heart for months now because I don't feel confident enough behind camera. This helps.❤
@jane8735
@jane8735 3 жыл бұрын
I have really liked their videos. But this one is the best so far. I really needed this because I really have an ego of what things should look like or who I am. This is so freeing that my ego doesn't define me because I have never measured up.
@daanjansen8199
@daanjansen8199 6 жыл бұрын
This is so well said, thanks Chris!
@Mujcanal
@Mujcanal 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice Chris, thank you for being so open 👍
@mahlawat12
@mahlawat12 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best video. I play football and have problems with some of my teammates. They don't accept me. i m good player still not accepting it n pass me ball. And after the match I can't stop thinking about it .. can't sleep because of a 90 minutes match. But now i realized that i should let it go. My ego. That i will prove to them that i m better. I should spend my energy n time on me. N let go of my ego. N focus on me. N accept me.
@deeman2200
@deeman2200 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing. I accept myself as I am and I accept everyone else as they are :)
@DarrenbyDesign
@DarrenbyDesign 6 жыл бұрын
This is the most relatable video I've actually seen of you Chris I can relate to a lot of those fears and problems although I'm not as influential as you so thank you for sharing
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
thanks Darren. i will make a great effort to share some of struggles.
@madiselbeato9806
@madiselbeato9806 3 жыл бұрын
THIS LECTURE WAS AND IS ONE OF THE BEST. IT TOUCHED ME CLEARLY . THANK YOU. THANK YOU
@Laquia
@Laquia 6 жыл бұрын
I swear to God, I feel like its self-awareness day for me (first an article on human flaws and then this video comes in a moment later) but I really needed this video. Regardless how crucial It is, it hits home. Hard. But it helps me open my eyes and open my mind and makes me be quiet and think what's important because there are times I feel like I'm going through an existential crisis not too long ago. But now, I know what i need to face and finally accept. Thank you so much for this video The Futur. I appreciate it. A whole lot.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
you're welcome. hope you are okay. 🙏
@Laquia
@Laquia 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you (btw no offense but Chris looked awkward in that first video sorry please don't be mad I said that lol)
@winkingowl1913
@winkingowl1913 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed that because I’m always changing my hair Color and style. It’s frustrating because I can only change so much about myself without feeling fake. 🙏🙏🙏
@kishanshetty17
@kishanshetty17 3 жыл бұрын
This just completely healed a part of me. Thank you Chris
@daskhux6604
@daskhux6604 6 жыл бұрын
That is some solid advice. Thank you so much for sharing that!
@AD-Dom
@AD-Dom 6 жыл бұрын
Great lecture. Battling this crap my entire life.
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
sorry to hear. hope this helps.
@gianfrancogrimaldi6669
@gianfrancogrimaldi6669 5 жыл бұрын
I feel a lot of respect for you Chris! Your videos are amazing.
@thefutur
@thefutur 5 жыл бұрын
thanks Gianfranco
@denisdekor3470
@denisdekor3470 6 жыл бұрын
Chris you are amazing. Thank you so much!
@medupemokone8503
@medupemokone8503 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much Chris, the other day I looked at you and I looked at myself and realised that of many people out there you are just a normal person doing great things. I am African but I saw myself in you in sense that I am a simple guy who just speaks his mind, loves to speak power in other people's lives. I am not the ideal model but I'm just me and that just fine, my job is just to serve. Thanks again
@thefutur
@thefutur 4 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome. we are just humans.
@conner1014
@conner1014 14 күн бұрын
That ego portion is something I truly wish to internalize. I want to kill my ego and truly just be of service to others. I have such a big ego about myself sometimes and it makes me feel disgusted with my ability to belittle others in my mind just to reinforce my fragile self image. I also completely agree about a video of yourself being taken. You have so many misconceptions about how you sound, look, and just your presence as a whole. That it’s almost uncomfortable or repulsive to sit and think about how you’re trapped in that physical being. Then it hits you, that people have already accepted you, they’re okay with you. They still smile at you, they still laugh with you, they want to help you. It’s a terrible feeling to digest, you almost feel unworthy in a sense and a ting of paranoia kicks in and makes you feel like others will soon agree with your insecurity and your perceived lesser value of yourself. It takes a lot of patience with yourself to accept your own acceptance. Thank you for this video.
@BK-iy4jj
@BK-iy4jj 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, I really needed it
@sangngo4497
@sangngo4497 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I really needed this now in my life.
@siRodnus
@siRodnus 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this was timely for me. I appreciate this and what you put in the world
@crewzta
@crewzta 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Chris. 🙏
@chancenorris8854
@chancenorris8854 6 жыл бұрын
Chris your awesome! Those first videos with Jose were the reason I got interested in your channel. Thanks for what you do!
@thefutur
@thefutur 6 жыл бұрын
you bet! thanks for sticking w/ us all these years.
@SeazyYT
@SeazyYT 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing words! You guys definitely motivate me to do the exact same everyday. I really appreciate all the things you do for the Creative community Chris! I’ve been actually thinking of starting a podcast with a bunch of designers from my school, all thanks to the Futur’s education and motivation :)
@Lillyggggggg
@Lillyggggggg 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this mans voice. And the way he carries himself. So this is very funny. Because I feel the same way about myself. This is beautiful
@thefutur
@thefutur 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
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