you doctor now? talk to me when doctor ok *slams door*

Old Korean hags will immediately point to Plastic Surgery

not only asian aunty , literally any asian lol

Deadass I got the best fashion advice from a Korean man (who cared about fashion of course) But he was honest and didnt sugarcoat things

Head to your nearest Asian barbershop

Exactly the problem is most people place so much worth on beauty, but also beauty is subjective. Like personally I’ve found some pretty “unattractive” people beautiful.

@@Autumn_xx1 exactly, beauty is subjective and that's a fact

@@episode40 but this channel says otherwise, they try to convince their audience that beauty is inherently objective and cross cultural

You don't even have to say you're ugly, like come on. Just give a list of the things.

@@mozorellastick2583 It kinda is lmao. The only difference is when you're in love you overlook these faults.

Or straight up lying and telling you that you're pretty lol it's condescending

I think that "you need to work on your personality" is actually fair kind of. But people need to acknowledge that they need to be more attractive personality-wise because of they suck genetically. I mean they really need to be exposed to this cruel reality shit. Kind of compensation maybe? I personally could easily pull up in long term relationship with someone who doesn't meet my standards (which are not that high already I guess?) if the personality would be beautiful and intriguing. But tbh I've only once met a person who was really interesting and entertaining and was like low tier in terms of beauty. I dunno how does it work, if I was ugly (I consider myself mid but I experienced much problems with being insecure about my attractiveness) I would think first about being the best at everything else to you know make people be genuinely interested in me.

@@Aaron-kj8dv then u ask them if u find them so beatifull would u date him The girl on tiktok said sais well i wouldn't But there is someome out there who would. Like since when do people start saying there is somone out there for everyone??

exactly one of my friend said that to me and now i don't want to be her best friend anymore just normal friends i don't want to be close with people that only have one way to live bec she's average person don't have the same trait to understand how annoying people are n she probably love people bec she have lots of friends opposite of me n i can see she also don't like when people being rude to her for no reason then why should i go on tolerate people find me repulsive merely bec of how i look and it's alot of people almost everywhere i go I'm the crazy yep they will say that about me but i agree i might be crazy cause I'm still polite to these people when they make fun of my looks n call me crazy....i can't be her bestie because she will tell me that I'm beautiful for her n go on tiktok quote what i said to her before n then say her opinion "so stop with the natural thing, i really don't need that when i get so much negative feedback" but she need to know we live in a society i need friends it's easy for her to say that cause she never run out of friends also i have a wider nose than average, people that don't know me completely will make fun of me all the time n it's annoying because basically everywhere i go people have to be extra rude to me... the nicest i hear is people convince another not to judge me and also they talking about future kids bec they worry about it happens to their future kids😂 also she will deny that's a statement against me bec i told her the sentence are something i wrote to her, she will go and change what i said by saying "haha English word is everywhere n why you think only you know how to write" she kind of acting like I'm wrong for saying she use what i wrote by dodging why it's exact same word what i said to her i even have in on the group chat with one of our friend , but at last i knew I'm right about cause she say could be her other friends say that i show her it's same date she still say that n i told her yeah but i remember you told me you were supportive if that's my decision then why talk about it on social media n if you said that's a different friends it's the same thing if you think your friends need that then you think the same about me n i told her if she really seen me as friends dealing with different opinions she should take it or leave it I'm not harming other people she goes hahaha i said take it or leave it n argue with her about that bla bla😁 yeah i know that's how i know she's not a real friend i still remember in highschool when i was eating with her once she told me i would be really pretty if i have a smaller nose👀she probably don't remember that but i will bec i care about her even though back then i will disagree that I'm her bestfriend n i was right we are not a match honestly , i wouldn't judge whether she want to be with her now boyfriend or break up i remember both times when she breaks up with her boy i don't care i just want her to be happy n when she got back together i thought the same what i care about is her being happy n i want myself be happy too n if she really thinks I'm being lunatic yep I'm lunatic for tolerating so many annoying remarks n stay being polite or just totally ignore those people that ever call me crazy bec of how i look , to tell them I'm different from them bec I'm not being a jerk but those being one i will just let them talk bec i believe my actions speaks i don't like them either ew nasty people n that i don't care about anything else i just know that i want to look normal n feel normal like back when i was in primary school I'm happy bec i was cute back then i think I'm at my cuteness peak by 9 yearold if not 6 yearold nose haven't fully developed i remember shocked when there's once i got a nosebleed n get medicine n the doctor said bec I'm younger it's easily tear n don't worry about the nosebleed my nose is still growing i was like no i think it should stop growing👀😳n i was right except i really don't expect to be this repulsive for humans😂

Women love to gaslight. Simple as that. 😂😂

It's because beauty is subjectiv and people are rude and stupid~.

I do say that kind of stuff but because I genuinely don't like some celebrities people find attractive, like for example the Kardashians. I think they look hideous before and after plastic surgery and it didn't work for them imo. Neither their bodies nor their faces are good looking because it looks too exaggerated and unnatural to be attractive to me.

@@user-bx8sj6qm3w idk I guess beauty is subjective because I think at least Kendall and Kim are the attractive ones in the family

But it can be true! Personally, I will never be able to find Bella Hadid beautiful. And it's is not BAD to say you don't understand the appeal if you're not trying to bring that person down and just express your opinion.

@@LadyPrincessDiana I second that and yes, I have my own list of "I don't get why they are thought of as good looking/attractive" people.

Yeeesss,this I swear this happens so much on Facebook makeup and beauty related groups for women, my fav people to get advice from are gay men 😂

So am I unattractive since I received lots of unprovoked compliments from people in real life about my looks? Genuinely someone answer :(

@@celestial6101 That can depend on your country's culture. Living in two countries, the way they react to your looks can be very different. In one, if you were truly beautiful you'd receive compliments all day and people would want to befriend you all the time. In the other, they'd stare at you _a lot_ and be intimidated to actually approach you unless it's a setting where you'd have to often interact with each other OR if you approached them first.

Looking at Twitter, IG & reddit I see hot people getting more compliments all the time

@@celestial6101 pains me to say it but if it was from women, probably yes/a little bit, if from men, then no worries

this is true. It seriously sucks, in fact I've faced this as well myself. Back then my beard was never shaved, my hair looked like a mess, the amount of fat in my face was crazy. Yet, people gave me compliments about my looks. Well I tried dating and NOTHING worked, I couldn't get a single girl to be interested in me. After a while, I hit the gym, got rid of the fat in my face, built muscles and practiced skin care. Around this time I was recovering from a depressive episode so I was committed to change. What really delayed my improvement was the fact that the amount of compliments started going away as I was working on myself so this made me think that maybe I'll never look good. Still a year or two later, my jawlines look much sharper, I have a much lower body fat percentage and now have defined muscles and abs. Almost no compliments, but a much better success in the dating world. It's crazy, how much people lie to your face about something that is so important.

Yeah good luck on getting people to tell you, you're no attractive. Maybe your family do consider you beautiful, this sounds more like a you problem. You seem very depended on what others view you as, to the point that it's toxic. I mean what exactly do you want from your families and these polls? to confirm what you already feel and know? you already said people treat you differently than the conventional pretty people anyways, now you need a poll and validation from your family. Maybe you should find that within yourself, instead of looking outward so much. Nothing is better than self love, and I know that sounds corny but it's true, and a lot of unattractive people that have it stand out, people can feel that you lack confidence and they'll start to believe how you feel too. I've meet girls that I didn't find attractive, but they had so much self love, and carried themselves like a 10, and I subconsciously put them in that category. Anyways not everyone will be attractive and that's okay, that use to be accepted, now everyone feels entitled to it, work with what you have and make the best of it.

@@noneya1238 I don't think you understood what I was saying. I've never done any polls, I just meant the people on Reddit that this video is about probably would have been more honest in such a format. I am also not constantly looking for validation; I already said I'm pretty sure how I rate in general and have been trying to make some improvements. The constant remarks and questions I get on my appearance are unsolicited and without any context and also clash with the message that appearance doesn't matter, which is why I said I'd prefer it if people didn't say anything either way and I'll deal with whatever issues I have with my appearance on my own with professionals.

@@santanacaipirinha9536 Okay.

Are you the person in the roach costume? You look attractive enough to me. You are not ugly. Just average. I think you are saddened you can't move mountains with your looks. Neither can billions of other humans. Maybe you live in a place where there are people who are more attractive than you. I accepted that I won't move mountains with my looks. I exercise because I had back pains, leg mains and neck pains. They all went away when I started exercising. I also want to live at least 85 years. Yes, I could probably have someone give me the features of what is considered attractive. However, just know when everybody starts to go in for those surgeries, it becomes the norm. Then they'll lose any advantage. Now maybe that won't happen over the 30 or 40 year career path. If you want to move up without having to solely care about your looks, become a scientist. Yes attractive scientists are worshiped like they are angels in the field. It just means more people are willing to run and teach them. The truth is the only way scientists will become more attractive is if attractive people who go into it succeed lol. They'll attract attractive people and help them realize that they can do more than just be known for looks. People don't understand that being too attractive is also a curse. There are times when you want to be invisible, and they'll just keep coming non-stop. In fact a company failed somewhere in an asian country when they allowed an attractive woman the funds she needed for an experiment that failed. They gave her the benefit of the doubt...and now she's looked down upon in the scientific field. Haruko Obokata was her name...

Be yourself you ain't your body anyways

Some people feel safer around people they don't see as a "threat".

@@HadesHatredEdge true that's mostly in women

Yep, if ppl of the same sex are meaner to you and ppl of the opposite sex are nicer to you, you know you’re glowing up

TYRANNICAL yep a lot of women become hostile toward prettier women. They like being around “ugly” girls bc it makes them look hotter in comparison. They love competing with each other

Except for the guys that often comment on those subs.

@@Chuck.Mast3r but guys will accept anyone since they don’t get to choose, so that doesn’t count.

@@ZuZu66667 I dont understand doesnt both people have to choose each other? If a girl u dont like comes for u, how u going to accept it if u cant get it up, not only are u lying to yourself now youre wasting everyones time.

@@ZuZu66667 you choose the kind of women you want. She may not be 100% but you'd have to have some sort of attraction towards her. Stop with the lies.

@@novueiro i have to disagree, yes of course guys have preferences and all of that, but you must be handsome too. Evolutionary women will choose the best features since they care the child for 9 months, but men aren’t picky, they want to spread their genes as fast as possible. This is hard wired into our biology, you can’t reason with it. Women will choose the men, unless the guy is very handsome.

People (mostly teenagers) are starting to use the word "mid" as a synonym of ugly

@@sarah.3599 yes, mid actually means average but its used as a synonym to it

@@sarah.3599 it’s not starting, but it do become a criticism somehow, even most of the people using the words “mid” are pretty “mid” themselves, they just want to feel above mid by calling people mid. I just find it very ironic and laughable.

People who are ugly know they are when someone beautiful enters the room. No one has to say a word.

Ugly isn't average though, especially not for women. It's below average.

But what you're saying hasn't been true for humans since ever. It'd be nice if ugly didn't have such a terrible connotation but it's true. Regular people don't want to be friends with ugly people, they don't want to do business with them or hire them. Maybe we shouldn't focus so much on looks in general. Too many people obsessed with beautiful and ugly and to be honest I've been called both of those words many times in my life, not sure which one was true and which one wasn't, so I prefer to base my value and value of others on their actions rather than looks.

I think it wouldn't sting so much if "beautiful" wasn't associated so much with "good" and "ugly" with "bad" in the moral sense. Attractiveness is an amoral quality

@@stab2486 yh it's sad cuz I what I've noticed is that in certain countries( america) ugly ppl are treated like the plague while in my country, yh ok the person is hard to look at but dam they arent treated horribly. Their love lives might be rough but they aren't completely ignored and overlooked💀

@@divx1001 I wouldn't call this behavior a "human" thing... more like a cultural thing that can be learned based on the beauty standards in that culture🤔

but then you have to define what ugly is. and there is no definition for that. Beauty is subjective and if you really wanna tell somebody that their ugly then just tell it yourself.

Seriously it is damaging ! For years I was told I was thick not fat . Well here I am at healthy weight after losing 120 pounds in one year . I went back and looked at my pictures when I would be told this . I was huge , with a big belly and huge thighs . My boobs were smaller than my belly . My ass was wide and not thick . For years I was told I was thick and I believed it. It did me no favor I didn’t change the way I ate. What made me open my eyes ? COVID when I couldn’t breath at 269 pounds . Obesity made COVID that much worse for me . So yeah I wasn’t thick like everyone close to me made me believe , I was fat ! .

@@raquelpk2 120 pounds is an awesome weight loss! And yeah it sucks for those with drive to be better :(

@@jackcranmer4904 thanks never have I ever weight a nórmate weight in my life . Last time I was at this weight was 6th grade and I’m 33 now . Sadly those who wanted to see me at a healthy weight now accuse me of doing drugs to get where I’m at . You can never win . Damn if do damn if I don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️. I’m happy and hot now !!!!! Something I’ve never said before!

@@raquelpk2 ahahaha you know you’re doing something right when you feel good and make fake “friends” jealous!

Oh i have to tell u my experience , it was just observation about people’s psychology. So on insta i have posted reaally ugly, funny , unprofessional art (i mean my art) and it had big reactions: wooow an amazing art, bravooo, it’s very different, interesting , I’m obsessed with it etc. okay after that I deleted it and posted better art, it was much better trust me and 0 reaction and i was like wtf

Maybe they're good looking to the person that is complimenting them.

@@shara5985 yes of course that happens too. Everyone has different ideas of attractiveness for sure.

@Takumi Usui erm no way. Beautiful women get hit on all the time. But not necessarily by the guys they like.

Totally agree!

Yes..

you've never been near actually geuinely """beautiful""" people if you think they dont receive compliments

@@strangeclaims yeah.. actually beautiful people get told they're beautiful to their face extremely often.

@@strangeclaims no thats not true at all, it really depends where you live. Women especially hold back from giving compliments to attractive men to stop them from getting "inflated egos", that seems very common

This is not true

oh man sorry for your experience. its so fucked up at so many levels. to treat people differently merely based on their appearances is just inexcusable :/

Imagine studying for years to get into med school, then studying for years while in med school to become a doctor, dedicating so much time and effort only for people to say that you are looking for ela husband. Kind of tragic honestly

That's a very interesting experience. In some sense the rumours are a compliment because it means people think you're worth gossiping about, and they show that your personal transformation was a success, even if it somehow overshadows your hard work in other areas. It also just goes to show how cheap it is for people to have an opinion, and how the value corresponds with that cheapness. The things you control, and the work you put in to improve yourself as a medical professional and as a person are much more valuable. So please, persist.

damn

I think pretty privilege is more of liability... Like yeah it feels good but this comes with envy and sexual harrasment. Idk what's better being invisible or being attacked?

Y E S. Same here. Unless I'm taking the photo or a professional who tells me how to pose, I look so...like I don't wanna be there. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and it shows up in pictures.

I become too shy for photos and sometimes my expressions don’t come out well. Thanks for sharing your experience

Interesting I would like Qoves make a video about photogenic

Same, I look awful in pictures, my expression and features just seem off

Wouldn't say i'm the prettiest person irl (maybe 3.7-4), but damn do photos paint me 2 ugly sometimes. People also have said that i look much better irl.

"Body positivity"

Its Gen Z and their performative wokeness. They’re so delusional and anyone who challenges their delusion is shunned. They come up with all these new terms like “fat shaming”…like nah being fat is not something to be praised, they’re literally at higher risk of serious diseases, why are we encouraging this?!

No, because without social media our beauty standards were lower. Average people were 10/10 back then.

@@girlthattalkstoomuch9425 Most people wouldn't really think the person asking is super ugly or smtn, but they would rip the shit out of them anyway. I miss the old Internet, before it became a hypersensitive shithole.

That was back when the average person didn't use the internet, and only particular types of people were on those forums. As with most things, it was ruined by too many people getting involved.

UGLY Now have a 2nd glow up. Joking dummy.

Same

Be careful, don't obsess over beauty. Beauty doesn't define your value, at least for normally conscious people

Being attractive is good and useful but let's not confuse glowups with growth and insults with constructive criticism

@@palolo381 it does in this day and age unless ur rich lol

yea i think you shouldnt hate either way

you are so right, this is really well worded

unfortunately this is very true

Well if they're fat/chubby i would also agree that they probably ate and left no crumbs

@@munchmunch5330 yep but if they’re skinny they also ate

The answer is a small town or maybe another country, their beauty standard quite stark actually. For example, you can be an average on big city where your friend aren't jealous of you, buut.. come to asia and bamn! All girl(and men also) starts to complement you.. it's matter of perspective actually!

In all honesty, you have pretty eyes, GREAT eyebrows, a slightly wide nose, good forehead and cheeks but girl that haircut in TERRIBLE 😅 if YOU get called ugly often you must be living among supermodels, and I have no interest in just being nice.

same

Genuinely beautiful people get so over analyzed and criticized while objectively less beautiful people are praised it's just ridiculous xD

Lmaooo

@@SpawnDev probably coz yall treat them different and are rude irl

@@urdadsonic1036 niggi i am scared to be rude to anyone in public

If someone brings up your looks in an unrelated argument.....consider yourself the winner of the argument.

It's always been like that, most people never matured past high school

If you see these types of fallacies in someone's argument. Its always better to stop the debate there.

it's not just only on twitter, but this happen all the time in real life - when somebody can't make logical point they will try to bring down the other person by shaming her or him for their looks. This is how idiots behave when they run out of arguments and often these twats are not any better looking. Usually women are shamed this way in real life in my experience.

As a person who has an anime profile picture, I'm all too used to this

This is so true! The people who are considered ugly are already aware of it because of how they’re treated! But the people who have low self esteem and need reassurance are going to be the ones asking about their appearance

true

Very true. “Average people with low self esteem” sounds right. If you swing between thinking you’re ugly or beautiful and need outside input then you’re average or okay looking. I think people do respond well to pretty yet approachable faces- perfection is daunting and still ultimately different. Pretty features mixed with flaws appeal.

​@@blythetaylor4063 never meet someone who didn't have flaws even extremely attractive people have them, just not as much as average or ugly people , also some people change there appearance expcialy women with all the makeup , makeup can definitely change someone's appearance drastically!!

I wonder if it may be harder to detect how attractive/unattractive other people find you if you're autistic, which I am. Also how generally polite or rude is the circle of people you engage with, I think that can matter a lot. I actually dont know, but think I'm somewhere in the middle. How pretty or ugly I find myself can vary from day to day

Yeah it's called average

Yeah the majority of people are average, nothing bad about that at all

Yeah, i think brutal should be attributed to a roast instead of just saying an honest opinion. Like the difference between, ugly and fckn ugly.

It is, not to mention if they work as models (notorious industry for nitpick basically every features)

It's because when they say they're not pretty, they're fishing for compliments. Those people know what they look like.

@Sad officier K thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard- you can still have a low self esteem and even if you are pretty some people might put you down or make you feel worse about it, or you could just be insecure

@@bendover7841 people are allowed to have insecurities, i know pretty people who think that they aren't pretty. and what you consider pretty might not be what they consider pretty

@@emilyfsdhfbsdjkfsdf6177 The people you just mentioned know they're pretty. Beauty is mostly objective. You don't know what they think. You know what they tell you. And they tell you that to fish for compliments. This is more common in women but happens a lot with men as well. Having insecurities is different. Most people have some degree of body dysmorphia. You can wish to look better despite knowing you look good. This is most common amongst models and bodybuilders.

This is what happen when you're improving yourself they always tell you that you're good when you're at the bottom then when you're reach the peak they throw shits at you

@@hnl5100 Welcome to our hypocritical society.

Yess!!!!!

And If anyone differs from that it’s Atuomatically ‘surgery’

@@bunny.elixir Agreed. When they see a very attractive looking person, they always allege that he/she has plastic surgery.

Exactly because most people find averageness attractive

@@adettessubs444 you confuse being average with being beautiful but with good amount of averageness. People don’t find average People attractive. They find good looking people attractive who also share some more average features. So that basically means most women prefer a good looking actor like Henry Cavill over the slightly odd looking Supermodel Sean O pry. Both are attractive but the latter has less averageness

@@wayne9048 that's literally what I mean.

@@wayne9048 Sean O Pry odd looking???

@Reinhardt88 face is too sharp, its uncanny looking

Yeah surprisingly attractive people get less compliments lmao I used to think the same way you did

I had a very similar life experience in my youth, although for me: the men were intimidated by me and thought I was stuck up, whereas some of the women actually thought I was homely because I didn't wear makeup. The women genuinely just didn't perceive what the men were perceiving about my facial look. I was also perplexed when so-so looking women would get heavily complimented. That's all water under the bridge though; now I'm 50 years old and just trying to hang on to my looks for as long as I can.

@@victorycall that I can somewhat understand. The few interactions with guys who did try and talk with me would tell me I was intimidating also. I always chalked things up to having a strange appearance. I never really saw girls who looked like me growing up (I have large eyes and otherwise small soft features. I used to get picked on for them so I developed a sort of resting B-face as a defense mechanism 😂) but up until maybe 7 years ago I was always very small and soft looking. It was baffling to be told I was intimidating. But more often than not I almost never got compliments or approached by either gender. I've had a few traumatic years and I've responded with "letting myself go" but I realize that's not probably the best response as I'm in my mid 30's. Definitely keep your beauty inside and out! I'm realizing I need to do the same and I'm trying to make changes. So strange though to find out people found me attractive AFTER I stopped being attractive 😕 people are interesting.

@@menak8870 I just want to give you some encouragement on "getting yourself back" (the opposite of letting yourself go). I was overweight during my late 30s and 40s and a few years ago I quit drinking alcohol and stopped eating junk, and I started eating nutrient dense food. I started exercising and now I feel better than I did when I was in my 20s. Feeling great and having the confidence that I'm going into older age in the best shape possible is the payoff; looking good is a bonus.

Well that gives me hope 😭

@@katherynrice1657 Beauty is subjective, and desired features always change with time. Health and wellness should be the focus over beauty any day. Please don’t be hard on yourself. Perfection is overrated anyways.

@@darianwest5760 well it’s very hard based on the other comments and this video 😭 and just my overall experiences I can’t tell what is anymore 😭😭 lol

@@katherynrice1657 Well, the comments are mostly from subscribers to this channel, and this creator is obsessed with current beauty ideals. The comment section on this video do not reflect the real world, or what most people think. Beauty isn’t everything, but if someone can’t see the beauty in you, they are not worth your time.

@@katherynrice1657 something that helps me when I get too obsessed with my appearance is to think that I'm doing exactly what corporations and the patriarchy want. They want you not to love yourself and base your self worth on beauty instead of something more profound. Changing the base of your self worth is hard but worth trying

Well thank you

my classmates told me i'm disgusting and they want to puke when they look at me does that count?🤣 ok i'm just kidding, because they compared me to the other ugly girls in our class, so i understood how i looked in their eyes

Just go to a convention or somewhere with a lot of socially inept strangers. I went to one after getting my final plastic surgeries and I was validated several times. Random girls came up to me to tell me I’m pretty, guys would do very long stares, and the person checking wristbands for 18+ rooms looked really suspicious of me and held me up. I’m almost 30. Ever since then I’ve had strangers recognize me everywhere like I became famous just for being the best looking person there. Random people at my apartment pool going “hey isn’t that the girl….?” Regret because I’m borderline aspergers and don’t want to interact with anyone

Or make an only fans and see how many simps throw money at you 😂

That’s not true. You need better friends.

You're here too?

"Bro you look ugly as fuck"

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@@Kaz-sg1ih I would have hit the gym sooner if someone told me that earlier on in life. I learned that its important to be the best version of yourself, which is different than being someone you're not.

Yes, it's dismissive and it makes the impression that being ugly is the worst thing ever, like "you can't be ugly by any means cause that would be the worst tragedy in history". I think being pretty is a great thing just like having a good singing voice or being a good dancer, writer or cook. All wonderful gifts, but you can't have them all. I mean, I love music but i sound like a frog when I sing and that's OK, is not the end of the world. Why do we make it so when is about beauty?

Okay, but what are the professionals when it just comes down to looks?

@@riuwu2372 QOVES Studio ;)

What your ex-husband said to you is what Barack Obama said to Michelle! It's in his book The Audacity Of Hope.

@@riuwu2372 the only reason I would ask was if I was planning on doing something about it in which the professional would be a plastic surgeon.

@@riuwu2372 a stylist and a good plastic surgeon

Insults always come from a bad place, but you never know where a compliment is really coming from...

I always say if it's coming from a stranger, that owes you nothing or expects anything out of a compliment(maintained friendship, romance, etc) than it's pretty genuine.

Yup, like they want to "knock them down a peg" or something. Stupid.

Bruuuhhhhhhhh

That's what happens when they download tinder. Now every women thinks themselves as 10/10 just because they only attracted a bunch of down bad men.

Men never call ugly women beautiful you on drugs or something.

@@ramenomirice2767 simps do it

If I could offer some perspective… There’s a whole movement of people shaming attractive people for not overly complimenting average or unattractive people enough! Attractive people are literally told to “pay it forward” and that they owe something to people who are less attractive than they are.

😯oh my god, i literally think the same.

Lol if some of your own family members(like cousins, aunts) have crushes on you, chances are that you are attractive.

I also experienced that and tbh most of my boyfriend's friends dont even make eye contact with me or talk to me if I don't talk.. i also don't have many female friends and theg always say yes we will go out someday and never go out with me. Men don't approach me at all my boyfriend was the first guy who approached me irl this is quite funny actually

Mr White

Are you saying you started seeing a doctor to late? Or did you just not know about ways for hair loss reversal?

I was not interested in spending money on this matter. ;) @@NoRockinMansLand

You just accepted being a slaphead. It's sad to see but ultimately it doesnt matter as long as you're satisfied. Fight on soldier.

@@FullMetalPier fair enough, if it was your choice then there's no problem to fix

ikr? I see it in the female hair advice reddit where a woman will post a pic to ask for "hair advice" where you can barely see her hair/it's been affected by a filter or something. Most women not just fishing for "omg ur stunning!1!!" will post clear pics of their natural hair, as well as their unfiltered face to get the best advice. I just find it sad cause I feel like it discourages less attractive women from posting cause they don't want to be compared

Because you just admitted to being conventionally attractive.

@@canesugar911 but either way self improvement isn’t something that should get trashed on whether or not the person is already conventionally attractive.

@@lynooxx her friends are not trashing her for simply stating that she is conventionally attractive. Which she is. As she stated herself. The funny thing is if the friend had mentioned to her to lose 2kg(5pounds, which most people can't even tell) then she'd make a fuss about her friend shaming her.

@@canesugar911 how do you know what I would make a fuss about? My only point was that it seems as if wanting to improve your looks is not met with support regardless of whether or not you’re attractive.

@@user-xb5rl6wt5j from your accusatory tone. That's where. You cannot put yourself in the same category as people who aren't attractive because the whole toxic positivity thing is mainly targeted towards unattractive people. Sooo your point is............

Exactly. You’re dead average, certainly not ugly, but not close to as hot as an above average girl on a college campus. I’m guessing the simps on the internet have convinced you yoi’re attractive since you post your face a lot? It’s just embarrassing. Did you think you weren’t talking about yourself in your comment?

People need to stop lying about important issues period. I‘m so sick of this society dominated by hypocrisy.

Reddit is filled with incels in denial. What a sausage fest lol.

@@gatoloco3949 it really is, reddit is filled with those and they pander more than I have ever seen before. I had to leave most of those subreddite

@@gatoloco3949 when I think of reddit I think of yt male incels aged between 18 and 35 who are secretly planning school shootings

Was the person female?

@@BitchChill yes

Im interested to know, was the person rated a female and why was the person a 4? I’m just curious I’m not trying to judge.

r/Truerateme tells a 4/10 that they are a 4/10

"on 2 legs".. optimistic

That's the problem with having too many people, too many opinions; not all of them valid.

Average is the new ugly

Exactly

💯💯💯

Agreed

But women are more likely to think skinny doesn't automatically equate to pretty

There are definitely some beautiful fat ppl, but it gets obvious when ppl are faking positivity for certain ppl and it's kinda crazy

Facts

Wjat does this low yrust high trust stuff mean?

@@lilypond5158 I think they mean face shape. Like sometimes you can see a person and think "this person looks trustworthy" or "this person looks shady". There was a vid about it on this channel too. Deep set small eyes with little of the whites showing is one of the traits that make me trust people less.

Nah that's just cuz she's lied about having plastic surgery.

@@angelas5099 oh I get it now, thanks

@@RED-my9hl yeah, but ppl hate on everything she says just cuz that one thing, thats jealousy and i think ur part of it.

Because people are simps

@Lalleland who says men arent supposed to be beautiful or good looking?

@Lalleland I honestly would not consider this a thing in the united states but maybe I'd ask my brothers

@@khxliakhxlia3605 I think it's more that it's normal, it's more jarring to see an ugly woman then an ugly man. like people don't mind it that much.

Because there are greater beauty standards for women than men so people empathise with them more because they are likely more insecure

Yes, being good looking and shy/introverted/ have social anxiety is not really a good mix. people assume that you are stuck up OR like you said boys don’t approach you bc they think you are uninterested.

Well. Seems like you have shitty personality....maybe thats why no one ever approach...iyou are so self aware that you are pretty 🥰.and those Facebook girls are ugly too you...maybe they are preetier than you in other aspects

😔 that's a very sad combo. No benefits, just cons

As a guy I can confirm that talking with very pretty girls is scary, unconsciously I feel like I'm grossing them out or wasting their time, I actively avoid them to not feel uncomfortable

That's basically all true. However, even though I wasn't considered gorgeous in school, my fat sister definitely had a better strategy than yours. She reminded me of her bountiful bra size frequently. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages.

Oh my god, my female relatives say the same when they braid my hair, "beauty takes time and pain"

Yeah she was jealous and wanted to hurt you.

@@muhsinashardow998 Yeah they are jealous and wanted to hurt you.

@@owlmaster1528 ? No they just wanted to make my hair really nice. And you can tell, when you squirm, your hair doesn't come out as good.

Opposite of beauty is ugly...

Also if people say 10/10 makes me cringe. It’s all subjectice

Were they Asian?

@@bendover7841 yes an older lady, Chinese.

@@nolungesplease2945 Asians don't give a f*ck.

But then there are people who'd cry at being told anything but sweet lies. Especially fat ppl nowadays.

@@potatowarrior747 oh I am well aware. When I was just talking about how I lost weight and how my health improved. Someone got angry at me. Yeah I should of just stayed fat with hypertension. I knew were my life was headed. Fat activist are going to kill people.

I’m sorry that you went through that. Sometimes I think that exaggerating a child’s greatness is just as harmful to the child as constantly and unjustly putting down the kid. The child ends up acting entitled and conceited, and they’re left bitterly disappointed when the real world tells them the truth. I’ve seen people take a mighty big fall when the real world reminds them that they’re not “special” and they’re like 99% of the people in this world - “regular”.

69% of Americans are fat

I don't think it's mean sprited; I think they just feel pity. They know they perceive the person as unattractive and they feel bad that they thought that. So, they virtue signal and give a compliment to make themselves feel better, to get rid of that uncomfortable feeling. Little do they know that it's incredibly unkind, infantlising and condensing. Above all, it's selfish.

I have always theorized this for years but like the comment-er above me I also agree it’s 90% NOT mean spirited. I believe this is all done subconsciously so yes while on the surface they may tell themselves they’re being fake nice because of pity but like I said before it also eliminates competition.

Most women are already beautiful. If there are women that have this toxic thinking you described it must be a minority

@@av3ngers17 "Most women are already beautiful."

Being skinny is neutral imo, cause girls wont feel disgust to be with you and lick your body, but they wont think its hot either

I had a similar experience

Being skinny for a guy is definitely more attractive then being overweight. Sure muscular is ideal but a handsome man with a skinny body or muscular one is the ideal. An overweight man is never handsome as fat makes the face more neotonous. So his attractiveness is hidden in a way. I'm a gay dude so that is my perspectiveabout it. Women don't want a fat man either, they just are not vocal about it as many women struggle with their own weight and don't wanna be seen as hypoctited.

What ethnicity are you from. You're like top 1% in your country.

@@rohansol I'm Pashtun

@@zunaslogic4128 Do you live India. Then you're like 0.1%. If Pakistan then maybe be 1.25%. I bet you look sooo pretty. You should do something great with your looks. 🥰

Please marry a handsome man. It will bless your kids forever.

@@rohansolwow, classic indian 😂 missed her point completely

Just came back from the Discord. I wish I was shocked, but unsurprisingly it is filled with Neo-nazis, Aryan superiorists and 6/10 white boys calling themselves “Chads” it’s basically an escaped 4-Chan forum, don’t go.

AI will replace you

You’re an abnormal human then. Acne is unattractive to most of us

THIS

So am I not as attractive as I thinks, since I received lots of unprovoked compliments from people on my looks? Genuinely someone answer :(

@@celestial6101 Depends if someone is really gorgeous and stunning I've seen comments on social media like "wish I looked like this" or if it's on Pinterest they would ask for the person's username to look them up and they say the person's beautiful Sometimes people do compliment beautiful people obviously, but people do lie to make someone feels better... You have to read into the lines to know if they're saying it to make you feel better or to just compliment you. You shouldn't care too much anyway, you have your own worth that is set apart from those things and you feel insecure about looks you can always do a couple of things to look better, i hope you're doing well ❤️

@@celestial6101 Also if it's in real life rather than online has more chance of it being true.. people just don't compliments other people out of the blue in real life if they don't think it is true

Indeed

Lose it first.

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Hundred percent, you don’t know how attractive you are till you lose weight. People can turn to a whole different person when they lose weight