Yeah I read it, and I totally agree! There is definitely a lot more that goes on behind the public view with celerities' personal lives. If you finished watching this video you will notice that I did say that we don't know the full story (and probably never will), so this is just the lesson we CAN learn as everyday people from the information that we DO know. This video is more about the psychology of narcissists rather than the gossips about Wang Leehom per se.

Thank you for the correction!

Haha thanks for the pin. Just a random comment, I have no offence taken to anyone 🙂🙂

@@dchan93 No problem! 😊 I pinned your comment because I really appreciate your correction and you brought up some great questions that other random viewers might also have when they come across this video! Really love it when I get diverse feedback on my videos. Take care and have a lovely day x

To guys like myself, this is actually a lesson as to what type of women NOT to marry--certainly not worth destroying your career.

Thank you for joining my live! Yeah narcissists are a pain to deal with but they can also be very sneaky

I was a little worried looking back at my own pattern of many 2-4 month relationships after hearing the 3 month pattern you mentioned. So I looked up the definition. Though I didn't think I was because I'm wrong a lot and take a lot of personal responsibility. Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration of other people and an excessive need for admiration. That was what I first found and YIKES!!! Yeah that wouldn't be fun to be around. I like the fact I was worried if I was a narcissist. No worries, probably just my ADHD =)

@@cre8gnr8nrg Haha yeah the fact that you are self-reflective already shows that you are not a high-grade narcissist. Everyone can be on the spectrum of narcissism and some can develop a disorder when others only show certain tendencies. I highly recommend Dr.Ramani's videos on KZfaq, I think she explains this issue the best!

@@coffeewithdee Thank you. Subbed and "I" will check her out. =) 'I' me me me meeee. lol

thank you!

yep, that's why it was even worse!

@@coffeewithdee Why? I have seen bigger age gaps work out.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj well exceptions don't make the rule

@@coffeewithdee I am not talking about exceptions, but my point is big(not too ridiculously big)age gaps can work out. 10 years is not that bad. Now if it is like 20 plus years then yes that is hard. It still depends on the couple. My uncle is 15 years older than my aunt and they are still together to this day. They are not the only case I have seen too.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj thank you for further explanation and your point is valid. It’s great that huge age gap worked out for your family and I hope more people can find their true love regardless of how old they are. It’s just not the point of my message. If you actually watched my video you would find that my point is that usually predators look for younger targets, in this case the face that they’re 10 years apart happens to fit this criteria. Not all relationships with huge age gap share this dynamic but lots of manipulative people tend to go after targets that are younger and easier to control.

Thank you for providing your insight Sophie. I’m so sorry you had those experiences dealing with narcs, it is utterly terrible. I personally don’t follow celebrities’ personal life too closely so with the information I have this is the best analysis I have for the situation. But I am very much aware that there are covert narcissists there and like you said, Jinglei could very much be one. Regardless of what goes on with the celebrities, I do hope that normal people can learn as much as they can from these cases to protect themselves from narcissistic harms.

@@coffeewithdee :) I don't follow celebrity stuff either but this case is intriguing for that reason. I see the same traits here, the way a smear campaign is launched on the spouse, which is often necessary because there is limited legal ground. The narc's aim is not to settle, they want destruction. They are the perpetual victim. Having gone through this process in America, her accusations simply cannot be true. Women are protected in divorce in the State of NY, it is a legal landmine for men. I like that in recent years, NPD has become more widely known and accepted. It is a mental illness, it ruins their victims. I like that you are trying to educate. I hope young women do see that the way she has conducted herself thus far will eventually ruin her. If she does not end up in jail for defamation, it's because Wang is being kind to the mother of his children. What she is doing on social media, such releasing his private mental health report, is completely illegal. None of this is legal, including parental alienation which she is obviously inflicting on her children. She hates Wang more than she loves her children. That's the classic narc.

@@kindlyignore Wonderful observation, thank you for providing this valuable perspective x I never would’ve approached the issue from this angle had you not pointed out to me! Thank you! And I agree, NPD is extremely harmful to those who are involved and more public attention & education should be given to the topic because prevention always works a million times better than treatments 🙏

Based on my personal experience (I have an extremely TOXIC NARCISSIST father), Lee is the NARCISSIST in this relationship, because she kept threatening to release more secrets to the media and never once did she consider her children's well being, yet on the other hand Wong is concerned about his children which he has mentioned many times whenever he speak up. Just FYI Lee has a lawyer boyfriend whom she has been dating for years and the guy has previously decided to propose to her and he never imagines Lee would ditch him to marry Wong. She's isn't at all that innocent, she lied about her academic qualifications and she majored in psychology actually, so I believed all that psychology report about Wong could have been made up by Lee.

Exactly right. She is the definitely the narc, and Leehom is the victim. She executed the smear campaign by the book: Accuse ex-partner immediately after divorce with every horrible thing imaginable, while providing zero evidence. Next step, prevent their children from seeing him and turn them against him. ALL for punishment. Narcs are cruel and vindictive.

Oh that's great of you to fully acknowledge yourself as a NARCISSIST! My dad doesn't cheat on my mum too but he being a TOXIC NARCISSIST has ruined this whole family dynamic with his ego and he being so self-absorbed, that inflated ego is so toxic to us children . If you know you are like that, please see a therapist, you guys are a living hell to us children and spouses.

well at least that's what Lee Jinglei showed in the diagnosis provided by their therapist. I don't know how they really are and nor do I care, this is just an example to explain dating narcissists in real life and the lessons we can learn.

@@coffeewithdee He may have problems but so does she. It takes 2 to tango.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj dear I really don’t disagree with you, it’s just that what you mentioned here really had nothing to do with my video. Lee jinglei could be a demon and it’ll still be irrelevant because this video only used them as an example to explain dating narcissistic people. If you want analysis on them, or videos about Lee jinglei as a person, please go somewhere else. My videos are not for you, and that’s okay! Everybody has different taste. Please have a good day x

@@coffeewithdee erm. How do we prove it is true from her essays?

Thank you for the feedback Alex! I'll make sure to improve my audio quality in my future videos x