Have you ever been afraid of letting yourself go? The ladies of 'The Real" share their real-life experiences, in this Girl Chat. Check it out, then join the conversation below in the comments.
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@manny14887 жыл бұрын
Women are so hard on themselves. Not wearing makeup, not being super thin, not getting your eyebrows/nails etc done is NOT letting yourself go. It's personal choice and we are not obliged to do these things. Be healthy, happy and hygienic and that's all that matters!
@daintyann17957 жыл бұрын
Manny insecure women
@marikboo7 жыл бұрын
Manny I was thinking the same thing. According to their standards I've been letting myself go my whole life.
@dianajorgeloyalones60837 жыл бұрын
Manny So True💯
@osimeon007 жыл бұрын
Lol. If women stopped doing those things, there wouldn't be any man to marry or procreate with. Be free and alone for the rest of your life. Lmao
@alexianicole72687 жыл бұрын
Amen
@gigglyfitzgirl7 жыл бұрын
I was super insecure at a size 0. Then at a size 10 I was still insecure. Went back to a size 6 and improved a bit because I changed my view a bit. If it's not my weight, it's my nose. If it's not my nose, it's my hair. That's when I realized I have to learn to love myself no matter what I look like cause I'll always find something to obsess over if I don't.
@leaderoftaehyungnation97667 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl PREACH 👏👏👏👏
@leaderoftaehyungnation97667 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl I just realised that when you don't write a shady comment, you don't get as many replies but I love this comment so much because it's so *TRUE*
@xxsasunaruyaoi13xx7 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl true
@gigglyfitzgirl7 жыл бұрын
Hadja kamagate Combination of getting sick, hormonal imbalances and being bedridden
@gigglyfitzgirl7 жыл бұрын
Eugene Lee Thank you! Yeah people don't pay attention to the more positive ones but there's nothing I can do about that lol
@elliecasta11457 жыл бұрын
Adrienne needs to have a baby and see the reality of that for herself. Hormones are no joke. And post partum depression is cruel to your mind. Some women have "let themselves go" while depressed. That year and a half that tamera mentioned is a reasonable time frame to get your mind stable again after having a child.
@tinytowz44717 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Castaneda I see what you mean; yet, no one NEEDS to have a baby, tho.
@jjtt8507 жыл бұрын
SHOTS FIRED !!! That "certain people" was Tamar Braxton ladies and gentlemen ( Real fans know Tamar was always trying to get Loni to stop wearing them beannies)
@chronicles60657 жыл бұрын
yup. I remember that because Tamar did not that specific beanie Loni used to wear, for the Christmas episode Tamar bought her a new up to date beanie.
@hidayakhalaf42717 жыл бұрын
Jay 2.0 omg I was just about to say she's talking about Tamar!
@alvinbriankyle7 жыл бұрын
Flawless shade
@romustlive7 жыл бұрын
🌴🌴🌴
@cnf23687 жыл бұрын
Yeah I remember that episode
@aminamousa7 жыл бұрын
Adrienne said: "a year and a half?!?!?!" to Tamera. YES ADRIENNE, let her take 10 years if she wants too lmao
@NappyLove415 жыл бұрын
She'll understand when she has kids. It takes a while for your body and mind to heal and adjust.
@maloumasereel9665 жыл бұрын
Amina Mousa Plus... your partner should love you for YOU! As long as I don’t let my personality “go”, it should be fine!
@WellthyAndYou7 жыл бұрын
Adrienne was so shocked that Tamara said a year and a half until she got her groove back. Just wait Adrienne until you have kids. Getting back into that groove can be really hard.
@2436golden5 жыл бұрын
Andreana W That's exactly what I was thinking, I cannot wait until Adrienne have a child. She has no idea how becoming a mom will change not only her life, but her body as well. Or how long it takes to find or redefine yourself after you have a child.
@pinkstaaa7 жыл бұрын
Ive been loving Loni's comments lately. She seems more honest and open to talk about things now as opposed to before.
@TheElsaAlvarado7 жыл бұрын
Tamera is a fantastic example of a GOOD mother who sacrifices all for her kids. It is normal to sacrifice a bit for your kids, so I am happy she is taking care of herself now that her kids are older.
@MsMoses-hs5cz7 жыл бұрын
I can't wait for Adrienne to have a child because she'll be able to relate to mothers. It's not easy Adrienne and I really hope you don't suffer from postpartum because that's real too! And it would most likely hit you because you look at vanity as a way to be. Plus you spent a long time just thinking of yourself. Your life changes in a heart beat and there ain't no going back.
@maric84237 жыл бұрын
Damn Tamera You're looking so fine girl 😍
@khodascope7 жыл бұрын
Mari C for real. It's that red, my god.
@oneilgerald7 жыл бұрын
Mari C It is DEFINITELY that red!
@jocelynr71747 жыл бұрын
She always be slaying
@reppinghana7 жыл бұрын
That Tamar shade that Loni threw though!
@chipotleobsessed7 жыл бұрын
reppinghana please explain
@chantelshernelle77227 жыл бұрын
@Chipotle from previous shows tamar always got onto loni for wearing those ugly beanies, she shady saying "certain people" cant tell her what to wear
@chipotleobsessed7 жыл бұрын
chantel shernelle ohh okay thank you!!
@chantelshernelle77227 жыл бұрын
lool ur welcome!!😂
@teri_p7 жыл бұрын
reppinghana shady boots, I felt it in trachea
@xxsasunaruyaoi13xx7 жыл бұрын
I let myself go all the time at the age of 22 and when I do dress up, people look shocked LOOOOOOL
@nicolevillafuerte49835 жыл бұрын
Hisoka Joka same right I go out with my pjs sometimes and I get stare bc of it lol
@mekaylasmith53074 жыл бұрын
this is me!!
@mariarendon30327 жыл бұрын
I let 'my self go' for 8yrs only because I was focused on my kids. Now that my youngest is 3 I'm in the best shape of my life and at my lowest weight and my children love to exercise with me. But I got majorly criticized for getting 'so fat' by my mother and sisters. My husband now looks at old pictures and says he does no remember me being that big lol
@usadrones7 жыл бұрын
Maria Rendon congrats on winning the battle to get back to you! There's nothing like falling in love with yourself all over again!
@almafigueroa78927 жыл бұрын
i sense some SHADE coming from Loni to Tamar
@danigal58047 жыл бұрын
Alma Figueroa yes. mmhhmm
@user-si6gs3ne8l7 жыл бұрын
Alma Figueroa throwing shade like it's sunny
@Charmedbykhy7 жыл бұрын
The only people who keep bringing Tamar up are you and other Tamar fans. She is no longer in the show get tf over it! Let her and other ladies on the The Real live damn!
@danigal58047 жыл бұрын
Khadiya S what! ?!? How is she not letting them live? A spades a spades. Calling someone out on something doesn't mean she's toting feelings for Tamar. Tamar always talked about Loni's travel beeni and that's the only person we know had a problem with Loni "letting go." So it's an observation, nothing with not letting them live.
@shantem927 жыл бұрын
Well if it was Tamar started it. I don't think it was Shade but it was a situation that happened and she just told her opinion!
@alec93587 жыл бұрын
Adrienne gurrrl....hope you don't eat your words...I use to always say the same "I'm not going to let go of myself after marriage and baby"..,but as soon as I had my precious baby nothing else matter but my child needs!!
@Fatima-rz9vt3 жыл бұрын
You matter too though...your husband matters... All you guys matter so take care of yourself first your husband will definitely appreciate that and so where your child because they will look up to that. But of course this comes with time no one is doing all this right after a baby.
@somebody75387 жыл бұрын
This conversation is really upsetting for me. I was in an abusive relationship for years and forced to wear ugly clothes, no makeup, no skincare products, no razor sometimes and I knew people were always judging me in public. Sometimes you really don't know what people are going through. I never let myself go on the inside.
@jenhampton16274 жыл бұрын
I wish for you to be surrounded by love inside and out. The very best for you and to you.
@MajesticMyronn7 жыл бұрын
To me just because someone has a little bit of weight on them doesn't mean they don't care for themselves or are "unhealthy" if they wanna lose weight... That's their business ! If they gain weight , it's THEIR business ! How about no matter what is going internally and externally in our bodies is important HOWEVER how about we just love ourselves no matter how we look
@29rare7 жыл бұрын
I read a book over getting my nails done. And I'd do that every single day. It's not important, to me, to look good or whatever. If my husband is home I don't care if I'm wearing sweats and a bun. Beauty fades people... I didn't get married for my husband or anyone else to expect me to look a certain way. I got married, because we love each other for our souls. That never fades.
@ashalissasmith72737 жыл бұрын
Yessss Tamera! I did exactly the same thing. When I frightened myself it was time to take action despite what other people were saying about binding bellies or i should have lost weight if I was breastfeeding etc.... meh... about a year after my last son was born I worked on me and all the weight fell off. I was smaller than I had ever been. Don't let society or men dictate these things to you ladies. My journey is on my fb page. I also had adrenal fatigue as well as hypertension and it all went!
@chanyisme7 жыл бұрын
Yep! You do go through A LOT mentally after having a baby. That's the part women don't tell you about.
@BeautifulDreamerK7 жыл бұрын
iloveu85 had no idea. You hear about post partum depression but now it's interesting to hear that you do go through this mentally after a baby. I feel we need to talk about this more! Thanks for sharing 😘
@cozychaos90217 жыл бұрын
I can't stop staring at Loni! Her makeup is sooo gorgeous!!
@Anaxo906 жыл бұрын
Tamera looks so good! That color is everything on her😍
@NinaCassiePour7 жыл бұрын
First the Tamar shade on wendys "I saw TIA", now this? SHOTS FIRED MOVE MOVE MOVE 😈😈
@101stylesiheart7 жыл бұрын
Well spoken Tamera...not everyone can and want to bounce back right away...we created life..can we chill for a minute?!! As for Adrienne, girl you havent even been married for 6 months so PLEASE come talk to us when ya'll have been together 5+ years and u have to run around babies all day trust me that gown will be LONG GONE!!!! no hate just the truth!
@genavievec7 жыл бұрын
Yup I hated when Tamar used to tell Loni to stop wearing her hat to the airport ! Soooo happy that lady is off this amazing show.
@monicabuzorubio77707 жыл бұрын
I caught that too! "certain people" aka Tamar!
@Mel__217 жыл бұрын
As a mom, A year & a half is right !
@8SeventeenForever7 жыл бұрын
Tamar reference at 3:10. In fact, I remember how annoyed Loni would look whenever Tamar referenced her beanies. You gotta let people be. Not everyone is or want to look glam 24/7 🙄
@taniahoque95257 жыл бұрын
I think Its not about letting go! its about whatever lesson learned in life! This is how we grow! Anybody with me?
@devon1994barnes5 жыл бұрын
Just because someone recommended the change doesn't mean you did it for them. It could simply mean you took good advice and realized sooner that you needed to do it "for yourself"
@emilybecerril43256 жыл бұрын
Giiiiiirl I hope this show is still on when Adrienne has kids and is married for 5 years. I haven’t let myself go after being with my husband for 6 years with two kids but I definitely notice I pay attention to other things instead of my appearance.
@lovespooh137 жыл бұрын
I loved the way tamera was talking and her hand communication haaaa
@joneywoney20347 жыл бұрын
my sister and i are in our twenties and i must say throughout my life i've never looked at my mother as letting herself go physically but mentally she did. we're fortunate enough that she didn't need to work so she stayed home with us and i appreciated that so much but now i wish she hadn't because shes at a point where shes kinda lost and i feel so bad. so now im determined to help her find her way like she did with me. no one should come down on a mother for letting herself go but i do think its important to have people in your life that can check you.
@DeniseF7 жыл бұрын
Tamera "i didn't shave..ANYWHERE" 😅
@LIZZyNIqUZZ107 жыл бұрын
Tamera's hair, outfit, and makeup looks soo on point👌
@Shalayah20107 жыл бұрын
I really don't see the issue with Tamera always talking about her kids and her husband. She just speaks to a those who can relate to her and that is all the moms out there. I don't see nothing wrong with that.
@beamerbenz5467 жыл бұрын
I'm actually going through that "let it go" period of time, but let me tell you how much more fun I'm having right now and how much more comfortable I feel. Theirs honestly nothing to worry about unless your really not letting yourself go too far. I ain't worried about it because I know I will get my groove sooner or later💁🏻.
@maggief18516 жыл бұрын
University made me let myself go in terms of style, hair and makeup but I 'm still healthy and workout.
@sandyboo27 жыл бұрын
Lmao I'm 24 and I don't give a damn about what people think. If I don't put on makeup or I don't dress up don't talk to me. Lol
@jolenehurtado13637 жыл бұрын
I feel like adrienne is always kinda judging moms a bit. Like when tamara said she found herself after a year and a half she thought it is too much, or she criticizes tamara when she says she's too tired to have sex. Like... don't judge something you know nothing about. Have a couple of kids and then talk. Having kids is incredibly exhausting and on top working, taking care of a home, husband... its crazy. Tamara time is pretty accurate for me, it also takes me about a year to get back in my groove.
@smartinez75617 жыл бұрын
Jolene Hurtado ik i stopped giving her the time of day since she said that spouses have to nice to our husbands cus thats why they leave to another women like TF u talking about if u not a wife dont talk about what we shud b doing bih stay in your lane this was before she was married
@erica-bm1ke7 жыл бұрын
OH SNAP LONIS SUBBING TAMAR. I hope Loni didnt think that would go unnoticed because Tamar use to say it alot lol we remember Loni!!! But on a serious note, your friends are suppose to tell you when you look a hot mess so loni should be happy someone was honest with her lol
@elishab45067 жыл бұрын
I agree with Toni, in part 2 of this segment, adrienne was basically like why ya aint tell me i was getting fat! lmao all of a sudden loni has a problem with tamar? Bye Loni, have several seats and get your life!!
@jasmontrell72367 жыл бұрын
thank you Tamara! I Love what she said about when you become a mother ooh my goodness thank you!
@1rkhachatryan7 жыл бұрын
Ya'll hush, literally every girl at that table has told Loni to burn that damn beanie. Jeanie straight up threw the thing away when Tamar wasn't even there lol.
@07sarida7 жыл бұрын
dude im 22 and couldnt give a rats about if im labeled as letting myself go. with the busy hectic lifestyle i live. i just wanna relax and be lazy. if im seen as letting myself then so be it.
@marywrenn52623 жыл бұрын
I stopped trying and was so miserable. My husband has loved me always and never pressured me in any way. I'm 44, have finally lost a lot of weight (still working on it) and he is happy because I'm happy. I feel like me again.
@smartinez75617 жыл бұрын
I dress comfortably at home my man dont mind it cus he do the same Adrienne exageratin tf i aint going to be all dressy at home i cook clean and look after my kids so Im bound to get dirty is easy for her cus she prob dont got to do any of that..But you besta believe that when he takes me out I dress up and put on my makeup and be leavin him breathless😱😊
@wendybendy94547 жыл бұрын
All these lady's have Great advice for different types people ...
@dimplepascua39217 жыл бұрын
Tamera gives me so much mommy feels. I'm at the stage of my life when I definitely have let myself go.
@Rehptawr7 жыл бұрын
Loni, I love ya but Ima have to disagree with you here. As someone with depression, and having many people in my life with depression I think it's important to be able to acknowledge when somebody has "let themselves go". Because when the person starts to look dingy, has un brushed hair, and looks like they haven't showered, it is a sign of depression. So when I ask my friends if they're letting them selves go its not me asking are you getting lazy its me asking are you okay? do you need help? What can I do? However I do enjoy the serious topics from time to time I think it's important to discuss them and bring light to them. :)
@tinytowz44717 жыл бұрын
Rehptawr Amen!
@gittihernandez34817 жыл бұрын
I think you have to have a balance in your life and it's so true what tamara said if your man loves you he will support you every step of the way so Adrienne don't stress enjoy this wonderful journey , life and embrace it I'm not saying let it go but don't stress about it ❤️
@akuaaso7 жыл бұрын
amen!! thank you Tamera!! I am 3 months post delivery, I am experiencing everything you just mentioned. I'm finding who I am again, I am a makeup artist and to tell you the truth is don't even remember the last time I wore makeup. went from 127lbs pre pregnancy to 155lbs post pregnancy. I am loving every bit of my life, and more so because I am finding who I am again. my baby is my priority (I've shaved btw 😂😂) but everything is else, 😏😏 my baby is so beautiful and I keep her so well kept that I tend to forget to keep myself up too. hope to get myself back again, hopefully it won't take a year and half though 😅
@tab01087 жыл бұрын
Lmao Tamar told Loni she was looking raggedy at the airport 😂😂😂
@miranehoussein7 жыл бұрын
Anybody catch that loni talked about her beanie that TAMAR always brought up 😂
@safucci7 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with Adrienne. Sometimes, you need to let go to realize there are more important things in life. You stop caring what people think of you and focus more what you think of yourself.
@stephaniec72166 жыл бұрын
Girl if I’m home alone I’m wearing whatever I want, forget a nighty! And if I’m just going to be in class all day, I’m wearing leggings and a sweat shirt 4 days a week 🤷🏻♀️ I put in the effort to look good on the weekend, maybe only Sundays. And that’s ok!!
@Globbertv7 жыл бұрын
I wish they would talk about other stuff going on in the world. They need to revamp the show, maybe go live?!?
@irenealvarez60947 жыл бұрын
Right!!, they keep on recycling topics i.e. talking about their personal lives all the damn time, did they ever talk about trump's & his sick administration ridiculous deeds, I was rooting for em when they debut, but it seems like they shouldn't have a talk show lol
@haychj85677 жыл бұрын
Irene ALVAREZ what are you talking about, that's the whole point of the show, most of us love when refer to their personal lives because it's relatable... It's why the shows called the Real.
@javiruiz7807 жыл бұрын
Yes they need to go live like Wendy Williams or the view
@minidocstv33397 жыл бұрын
BawdyVlogger I know that is not a pic of shanene miss that show lol, yes GREAT idea go live!
@mrsbts38827 жыл бұрын
They are going live this season. Guess they read your comment.
@cindychelsea7 жыл бұрын
As soon as Loni said 'Certain People' i came straight to the comments hahahahhaha
@tresarobinson95 жыл бұрын
I love Tam because she has such a "marathon" way of thinking. She doesn't do anything at the drop a dime & she meditates on what she does/say. This is the mindset of a wife. You can't be a long-term partner with a short-term thinking process
@mrsmincey97317 жыл бұрын
Tamera is so on point ,being married and having small children you will let your self go and not realize it #sameexperience but my husband is so supportive and loved me through it, you don't have time to be looking like the everybody else because it's a trend , you have to only do what you can and I always wear what I like not what's suppose to be in season or tending cause everything isn't for everybody , it erks me that everybody look alike because it's "fashion"
@magicalmoderntreasures51987 жыл бұрын
Agreed Loni! after 40 everything changes!
@bebeheart51287 жыл бұрын
I do think women feel pressured to keep themselves together and it sucks, especially after you have kids. A lot of people expect you to snap back like some other women four weeks but it doesn't work that way, at least for not all women.
@fatima44047 жыл бұрын
That Wendy interview triggered Loni. She's slyly been shading Tamar lately.
@simonemcmillion78626 жыл бұрын
Listennnnn.... (I know this is old...but...)A year and a half as Tamera said, is SUPER REALISTIC!! As a mom, a year FLIES BY!!! and (my opinion) you need that time to refocus, so I hear you girl!!
@maarveloouus7 жыл бұрын
I wish the comment section was actually about commenting on the subject of the video like opinions stories that we can or try to relate to ... they are really hard to find here.
@natashaphillips48067 жыл бұрын
Bap bap! Shots fired indeed. The moment Loni started talking about ppl being disapproving of her traveling attire, I had to pause the video and come straight to the comments section....😂😁
@TeamJones7 жыл бұрын
Love what Tamera said! It really is alot having a child.
@miriammatos53547 жыл бұрын
Loving Tamera's look !!! 😍
@amaltje12347 жыл бұрын
Decaying is forbidden for women, we must look perfect or we have failed. Not everyone wants to walk around like a show pony, women shouldn't be so hard on themselves. We have to be super moms, wives, housekeepers, having a career and looking perfect.
@Cr15ty1007 жыл бұрын
when she said one year and a half, I fully understood. (I've been there, but for other people who never had a child, it's just difficult to get it).
@lolamarie4417 жыл бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken. I usually don't agree with Tamera, but she struck a chord of unadulterated honesty
@EssentialBalance7777 жыл бұрын
I love these LADIES! ❤💞💞😩
@callmeshordieorshawty87737 жыл бұрын
Loni was talking about Tamar when she said something about the way she looks when she traveled but I love Loni
@eveaugustine81977 жыл бұрын
Love it , THE REAL KEEPS GETTING BETTER AND BETTER GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN THE REAL
@sparkle1derful7 жыл бұрын
America with their magazines and their standards and their beauty rules and their Donald trump 😒. Y'all can keep all that.
@johnjohn40487 жыл бұрын
i swear sometimes i don't even know when loni is serious or not from her being so sarcastic all the time lol
@candi78064 жыл бұрын
I love how Tamara said shes gonna do it for herself not for anyone ealse. Do it becuase its healthy for you. Not becuase you feel stressed into looking good for anyone.
@goooglia7 жыл бұрын
loni doesnt gaf anymore. no more brown liqor and bacon jokes. she more serious now
@KaliElaine7 жыл бұрын
so true. Let ppl find there groove again. I know i fell off but I'm getting my groove back on my own terms
@ImPerfectlyTwitta7 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! I KNEW I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE THAT CAUGHT THAT SHADE FROM LONI
@thompsonlatoya7 жыл бұрын
my "let it go" moment so far was wearing makeup. I👏don't👏care👏anymore. BUT before I would put it on just to grab one item from the store. It's crazy to think about it.
@linaluv2157 жыл бұрын
I wouldnt call my situation "letting yourself go" Im just not super high maintenance, I stay comfortable and chill, but I can look super GOODT with a T, when I need to (going out, events etc) Being comfortable in your own skin without all the add-ons aint letting yourself go.
@senoraantero28366 жыл бұрын
I let it all the way go.. nursing twins for the last 10 months is WORK! I have to worry about how good my girls look and less on what I look like .. oh well! I don’t have time and if people don’t like it then they can come to my house and clean, cook etc and see if they have time to work out, shower or put makeup on 😝
@alwaysandra51117 жыл бұрын
so funny this topic came up. I was losing myself once I had my first child. because she was my everything and I would always focus and her. and I let myself go. and I would wear my husband tees and my sweats 😂 and i realize that I need be like I was before. I'm with Tamera on this one.
@priscillasampayo67907 жыл бұрын
I'm seeing some negative comments about the time it takes to bounce back from having a baby. Post partum depression is real y'all. Just because you were able to bounce back faster, does not mean others are lazy or have let go. Emotionally, sometimes you can't bounce back without help. I had ppd after my first kid, a year later got pregnant again, and ppd carried on right through my pregnancy and after I had my second kid. My second kid is 1 year old and I'm just now finding my groove again. I hate it when women judge other women just because you had a different experience. And if haven't lived it, you won't be able to understand how hard it is to go thru that..
@roenaskates54855 жыл бұрын
I make sure I do not let myself go in front of my kids only!😤
@nw29727 жыл бұрын
Loni look like she should be in the back whippin up a meal with her chef dee lookin shirt lol
@AyyRalphy7 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOO I FUCKING DIED
@vanessapascual14107 жыл бұрын
Nw hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
@duckiie157 жыл бұрын
Putting my self TOGETHER is so rare these days y'all. I got work and school full time so my whole life has been letting go lmao!
@Averia897 жыл бұрын
When I'm unkempt, I literally don't recognize myself and I feel uncomfortable. I love keeping myself groomed, it just feels good.
@sbradshaw10047 жыл бұрын
Lol... I was just thinking how I need. "Mommy Makeover" after I had my son, my main focus was on him n not on me and I'm only 30!!!! I'm in dire need. Just today before watching this realized how much "I let myself go" and figured I have to somehow put it in my budget to get myself back together....
@parkerlion1567 жыл бұрын
Tamera's response was dope
@ciarafoster81382 жыл бұрын
Why did Adrienne say at the end “see that’s what I’m scared of” she’s scared of not ever finding the man who’s going to love her for her.
@taties1357 жыл бұрын
yess to tamera preaching about us mothers we need time to rejuvenate its takes time to make a child and it takes time to jump back 😙
@TiffanyRayneOfficial7 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I don't feel the need to impress someone. Of course as women, we don't always feel like doing all of those things all the time. For me, it's not letting yourself go if you feel comfortable that day wearing a t-shirt and sweats or a t-shirt and shorts. I'm not saying don't be presentable, but be comfortable.
@rivereve137 жыл бұрын
Loni threw shade at Tamar!! Oohhh it's about to go down!! Lol
@rightwhereyouleftme__7 жыл бұрын
i can already feel adrienne itching to say 'well i'm not going to let myself go, kids or no kids' like please... go have some kids and come back and tell us if you still feel the same. i have 2 and honestly i was so wrapped up in my baby (especially your first) for at least 6 months i didn't care about how i looked. i definitely wasn't about to strut around in lingerie. she is always on her high horse about this stuff and it bothers me.
@brendatovar34137 жыл бұрын
i automatically thought of tamar when loni talked about her beanie situation lol
@learning.growing.10176 жыл бұрын
Adrienne looks SO GORGEOUS in this episode...
@ammanyameba90407 жыл бұрын
When Loni spoke about "people" telling her not to wear her beanie, I was oooooooooooooooooo😯😯😯😯😯
@gmcmim17 жыл бұрын
Aside from Loni throwing shade at Tamar, this was an excellent discussion. Here is what I think. Regardless to whether you wear make up or not your skin needs to be taken care of. So does your hair. Weight comes and goes. And keep your clothes clean and hygiene up. Just think about when you were a little girl, you did not wear make up. At least not most of us. But wasn't your hair groomed? Weren't your clothes clean? It's no different once you become an adult. Not it's not about doing it for other people, aside from the fact that we dolivee in aasociety where appearances matter. We already know that. It is about your well being and your health at the end of the day. Take care people. You truly are a gift to this earth.
@jannaraphael19445 жыл бұрын
I let myself go while in a bad relationship and now it’s so hard to get myself back physically.