Let's answer your questions (because I'm snowed in) - money, bullying, moving on from youtube

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Күн бұрын

Timestamps are below so you can skip to the question you are interested in! I was snowed in and unable to get outdoors for a long time due to plummeting temperatures, so my options were limited. So, I thought I’d just sit down and do a little QnA, in hopes that it can offer a cozy evening and opportunity for us to connect. Please let me know what your New Years goals or dreams are. Hope you can grab a cup of tea and enjoy this chat. Warm Wishes
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4:40 what do you like to eat
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@catholicpeaces6257 Жыл бұрын

I hope you make videos and sprinkle the fairydust for a lifetime! Your videos soothe and inspire so many of your fairy followers!

@belindaknowles7440 Жыл бұрын

I agree!

@SassySue67 Жыл бұрын

My thought exactly, her videos are so calming.

@amybooth5458 Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@monicamcgahan Жыл бұрын

Agree!😊

@PrincessKladia Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said 🌲 🧚‍♂️ ❤

@trish3580 Жыл бұрын

A bit of an emotional rollercoaster I must admit. I was so glad to see you in my feed and then terrified to see mention of quitting youtube. I know others have said this - and I have too - there is no one like you on youtube - we've mentioned many times what makes you so special...you are the woman I wish I was at your age. Now at 60 I have many regrets and sadnesses as I have few years left and am "getting it" late in life- seeing you have "gotten it" at such a young age is so precious for me and it inspires me. I'll likely type more later but wanted to mention this as I quickly listened to the youtube answer and am now typing through tears...of gratitude. Wishing you all the very best.

@littlefairyland763 Жыл бұрын

Me too... Seeing her success in young age...admired how she Know what she really want to do in her young age. At her age i knew nothing. I don't know what kind life i love to live... I spent my salary for nothing... Now i regret all... And try from the zero point again... Feel so many fear of what would happen but a challenging too.

@amysimpson646 Жыл бұрын

Trish, I'm 54 and share your sentiment. Winter takes a toll on my depression but the last couple weeks have really been a battle. I feel like my time is nearing a end and I'm alone. Literally alone.

@loving_love_loving 2 күн бұрын

Dear Amy, you are not alone. I hug you and i love you. I pray for you. I am here with you. Im literally alone too. But we are not alone. You have me. I have you. I know you don't know me and i don't know you, but doesn't matter. I love you and send you embrace. Elena from Russia. ❤❤❤@@amysimpson646

@lifetogether4782 Жыл бұрын

You are like the best friend I always wish I had growing up. I, too, am an introvert and am introspective soul. I am sitting here today snuggled up with your book and it is enwrapping me in warmth and coziness. Please keep writing. Your style is absolutely beautiful!

@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын

I have dealt with bullies by looking after my body first, after I became vegan I lost a bit of weight and at 56 I started following fashion for the first time in years. I am on a budget but I treated myself to some nice clothes that fit me and look current. I make an effort to go out every day for a little walk to the park or to the shops, to do that I have to walk past the miserable bullies' house and I always have a serene smile on my face, at first I faked it, now I really feel it because I love walking and being in nature so it makes me happy. I try to find something good every day that makes me appreciate life, which is so fragile (my best friend died last year), even if it's just spending time with my cat or watching the birds eating from the garden feeders. I have become a positive person after being negative all my life despite the fact that the bullying continues (sadly I have no control over that). I hope 2023 will be a better year for everyone!

@v.m.8472 Жыл бұрын

I have the same situation. Why some people bully confuses me. I didn’t need to lose weight but gain it. Stress, allergies and stones in my gallbladder caused me to become skeletal. People made fun of the fact I looked ill. I am almost normal looking now and people respond better to me but I would rather enjoy my animals, my home, my family and my husband.

@madnessintomagic Жыл бұрын

Good for you!

@ellen823ful Жыл бұрын

Your bullies may be secretly jealous of you. What do you think 💭

@julies7427 Жыл бұрын

I left my last job as a cleaner in a care home five years ago. I had put up with toxic people trying to undermine me and my work. I have had this behaviour from young toward myself at school and work. I started to believe it was my fault and was an unlikable person. I decided that I couldn't work in mainstream employment with other people and became anxious about finances. Now I am cleaning for people in my village who appreciate me and are grateful for my help. I don't know why people bully , but I have come to the conclusion they are unhappy in their lives. Be what you are and sod the haters. From Uk

@madnessintomagic Жыл бұрын

@@Meirins Newsflash: Invalidation is a form of bullying. Way to go.

@TheCottageFairy Жыл бұрын

I reached my limit this week as our temperatures were so low that both my camera and I just couldn’t handle being outdoors, so while I was a bit limited I hope you enjoy this simpler video. Things are already warming up over here and I am outdoors again with my puppy, see you again very soon ❤ do use timestamps in the description to skip to specific sections If I didn’t answer a specific question, I may have in a previous QnA: 1. my first sit down chat: answering more personal questions kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n9-ZprNoz9rPnXU.html 2. Answering some questions on rural cottage life kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g7dxipmJxtTLZp8.html 3. More questions: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m7mPiqp_vMrMm5s.html Also, my Etsy shop has Re-opened! Yay! Thank you so so much for the support of my art! 🎉🎉🎉

@emiliasolis6141 Жыл бұрын

Hi paola espero te encuentres bien espero beas este tex me refiero al extremado clima,paola puedes poner fecha de tus audios porfabor DIOS te bendiga

@sajankarmakar4544 Жыл бұрын

Hi paola love from India , please make a video about your video making process , which camera , which lens and which software you use ,how you write your script . Thanks

@dkm6054 Жыл бұрын

I love this video. Your words and views on bullying and negative people resonate so strongly with me and your advice makes a lot of sense. So many times I've reacted to negativity with more negativity, and of course that doesn't make me feel better. I think you're absolutely right: the best thing you can do (especially for your own sanity) is to try to have courage to not let other people define you based on their own insecurities and counteract their energy with a generous or kind deed for someone else. Another quote that I feel applies to what you're saying: Let them misunderstand you.

@dra.veronica5048 Жыл бұрын

Ánimo con ese frío preciosa!

@lanaheroin623 Жыл бұрын

Take care ❤ we love you!

@ritagreene8376 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I wish I could double "like" you.

@strangetimez Жыл бұрын

Right? Her softness and kindness is one of a kind that our world needs so much! ... definitely a double,triple like on Paola's beautiful work

@bethfarley6969 Жыл бұрын

Loyal viewer-don’t change anything about yourself. Love the Q and A. Love your transparency. Happy New Year.

@govoryaschaya Жыл бұрын

"People's negative actions towards you often say a lot more about them than they do about you" - thank you for these words, Paola 🥰 that was healing 🥹

@debb9695 Жыл бұрын

Who could ever bully you. You are such a good soul. Many many Blessings.

@carolinehovannesjan7992 Жыл бұрын

Dear Paola, I wish you and your family a very cosy and beautiful time and a peaceful start of 2023. Lots of love!

@lw7948 Жыл бұрын

Your last point about returning hurtful comments with kindness toward others reminded me of a verse: "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Thank you for sitting with us and sharing your thoughts today!

@stephanied5460 Жыл бұрын

I was told by another woman that they saw me as someone who lives being my authentic self. I am in my 50s and honestly you care less what other people think the older you get. My authentic self is definitely fed by quiet time in nature, doing any kind of art or craft, photography, time with friends (mostly I have introvert friends who understand me) and living my faith. Even in my 50s I struggle with introversion where people feel hurt or rejected because I am often in my own little world. My goal for 2023 is to be better at reaching out to others so they know they are loved and appreciated.

@dianesavant2818 Жыл бұрын

You bring peace and healing to my life. For as long as your channel remains, I will consider myself blessed.

@cindy7702 Жыл бұрын

Just received your book.. I love it.. You are so very talented.. I love your simplicity of life in seeing beauty and kindness all around you. Thank you for showing us..

@thelittlebluefrog Жыл бұрын

Please don't stop making KZfaq videos. I just discovered this channel and it kind of saved me.

@maryanngulotta900 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I appreciated the end when you spoke on negative people. "Hurt people hurt people." Their negativity or unforgiveness speaks more about them than about you. That was freeing. I hope I can remember this as I continue my journey. It's so easy to allow others to rob us of joy, when we drink in their words.

@christinamoss8508 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this tea party format. Your videos bring me peace and contentment whether you are on a nature walk, cooking, or chatting with your fairy friends. Happy New Year, Paola and Luke🎉

@ed8329 Жыл бұрын

Paola, thank you for speaking about how it's ok to feel hurt when people are unkind. I can be hard on myself for not being more tough. But it really hurts my feelings when people are mean!

@whatbringsmepeace Жыл бұрын

My rabbit pictures, bookmarks and stickers arrived this week in Australia, Paola, and it made my heart so happy to open them. They're so beautiful. Over the last year while I've been watching your videos I've developed a rabbit theme at my house with cushions, figurines, wall art and now your lovely cards which sit on my coffee table to be admired every morning while I have my coffee and do journaling. Alice in Wonderland was always my favourite book, and rabbits are such non threatening animals (I'm scared of dogs) being surrounded by rabbits is very soothing. We're not allowed to have them as pets in Queensland because we don't have predators for them and they'd breed uncontrollably and ruin crops, so I can only imagine how lovely it was to have Mr Darcy in your life. Anyway, thank you for your lovely whimsical artworks which I have already had so much pleasure from. You are a very soothing influence on my life and I'm so grateful for that. Blessings to you and Luke for the new year. You deserve every good thing.

@wajban9773 10 ай бұрын

Very nice words

@mscatnipper2359 Жыл бұрын

Paola, I loved every minute of this winter time chat. The more I learn about you, the more I resonate with you. As an elderly woman who has gained wisdom through many difficult experiences and emotional/psychological/physical challenges, I feel confident in recognizing you as an old soul in a radiantly beautiful body. I look forward to being blessed by your continuing creativity in its many forms, and I am so thankful I found your channel.

@KLynn998 Жыл бұрын

As a fellow Sagittarius, I just adore your humble and very wise spirit❤

@ritagreene8376 Жыл бұрын

That was so sweet. My advice to people that do not like your channel to look elsewhere for something that they may like. We are here because we love you and enjoy our time with you. You are a blessing to our world. May 2023 be all you want it to be.

@julijajaramaz8127 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. Her videos are so relaxing

@joannewolfe5688 Жыл бұрын

I'm enjoying reading your book, which I gave myself for Christmas! It's lovely -- please be proud of creating it! Thank you for adding joy and sweetness to the world.

@andreaoloughlin3278 Жыл бұрын

I am still waiting for mine. Hasn't arrived here in Australia. Hope it comes soon. Xx

@themistermax Жыл бұрын

I gave my daughter a copy, she was so excited, even though she really didn't know Paola's channel. Working on that!

@Otaku_Nerds Жыл бұрын

This video randomly showed up in my feed today. I have been stressed this week. I have to say, this made my day so much better! 💖💖💖 Hope you have a lovely day! ☺️

@jennifernash9117 Жыл бұрын

Definitely go back and watch the other videos on this ladies channel (if you can). I found it randomly over two years ago and have followed ever since. Really good at helping restore peacefulness to my life. I see her weekly videos as a treat and a time to stop the stresses of my life and just be at peace. Hope you find peace too! ❤

@juliaperry5244 Жыл бұрын

Hugs to you

@pamwilliams6630 Жыл бұрын

I think her videos are so special b/c she only does once a week and not daily!!

@mariahalphen5520 Жыл бұрын

Welcome to the club. I love Paola's videos...she is such a wonderful soul. Definitely recommend you watch her previous videos....

@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын

Sometimes a random video can really change your life, for example I became plant-based after a vegan video popped onto my screen and it has led to amazing health (and weight loss), I actually bless the algorythm!

@happyvaper5748 Жыл бұрын

I happened upon your uploads a little while ago now Ma'am, and the more i followed your streams' the more they simply enveloped me in captivity in an awe inspiring way. Thank you so greatly for being the individual you are and sharing these moments with us all, as i believe they shower us with a jolt of delightful calmness which assists in grounding us. A sincere and very prosperous 2023 to both yourself and your husband Ma'am, and may your dreams and wishes for a better and kinder world all come to fruition. Peace and Love Ma'am.

@janmoore6340 Жыл бұрын

Paola I want to applaud your bravery. In my youth, I too hesitated voicing my thoughts and views. Life has hardened me to where I hesitate no longer. The Holy Spirit is restoring my sweetness once again. I pray for your continued strength in going out of your comfort zone. I appreciate your creative efforts. Love from Texas❤

@SkySpiral8 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your words on teaching. I left teaching after 7 years full-time (and 3 years in childcare) because we aren’t treated well or paid fairly and most importantly, it was impossible for me to achieve a healthy work-life balance. I admire teachers because I know what it’s like!

@ResetEDU Жыл бұрын

Came here to say the same thing. ❤️

@valdkynd Жыл бұрын

Love your honesty, integrity, kindness and loving presence, thank you so much for sharing beauty, truth and the magic of a simple everyday life with us. So much love from the UK xx

@melissar6365 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for commenting that if you don’t read often, you haven’t failed. As a single woman who works full time with an hour plus commute each way, manages a home and has aging parents that I see several times a week, I find it very hard to sit down and take time to read. If I do, I often fall asleep. I could listen to audio books, but I like the feel of holding a book and turning the pages. I buy books and have a draw full by my bed. I have the desire and it is a goal, but I get so irked at friends who say have you read this? What, you didn’t read that? Most of them don’t work, have been in books clubs, they have housekeepers, their children are grown etc… I have none of that (except I don’t have children). Our lifestyles are different, not better or worse, but different. I prefer music to unwind, or being artistic in some form. The way they made me feel for not reading the most hyped, trendy book was terrible and made me feel “less”. Mind you, I was an English major. I’m sure none of them read Shakespeare, Joyce or Chaucer. And, I’m pretty sure I could write a short story just as well as they can comprise a financial spreadsheet or prepare a 6 course meal. So, for all the “wish we could non-readers”, I thank you for the validation!

@katashley1031 Жыл бұрын

I need that reminder because I'm a reader and writer but my husband is a photographer and almost entirely visual. I know sometimes I tease him about not reading and I need to stop that. His way of experiencing the world and expressing himself or relaxing is every bit as wonderful and valid, and so is yours. :)

@chey.ennemueller Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh, I needed this too. And we share a similar experience! Also an English major lol best wishes! Hope you find the time!

@sitresjolie2343 Жыл бұрын

Hi, Melissa. Another English major here. I resisted buying an e-reader for years until one of my children gave me a Kindle. Now, I read more than ever because I keep Kindilyn (her name) in my purse and read at odd moments during the day. HTH. ❤️

@Iksvomid Жыл бұрын

I read this and it is as beautiful as any book I've ever read. Sometimes it isn't the book on the outside that counts but the book on the inside.

@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын

You might want to reconsider spending time with people who make you feel less (they're just advertising they're no happy with their lives). Don't be afraid to let them go if you feel unhappy after seeing them. It'll be a weight off your shoulders. Your life is valuable and good, you sound like a really lovely person that I would want to be friends with. Your "friends" lack kindness, you are open-hearted, artistic and supportive, please be nice to yourself too by distancing yourself from toxic people, even if that means having a smaller social circle. In my experience unkind people do not change and it's not worth having a frank conversation with them. I don't have a large social circle (by choice) but I am friendly with people when I'm out and about and these short conversations can also be fulfilling until you find new friends naturally or through a meet-up website or similar, if that is want you want. I hope you have a happy and healthy new year.

@Susan-om1en Жыл бұрын

I enjoy taking time to watch and listen to you. I love your beautiful artwork. Very wise approach on people who judge and bully. Thank you for sharing.

@hhl2296 Жыл бұрын

I agree! The part on bullying was so helpful! Thank you so much for being such an inspiration.

@jewelcopeland3374 Жыл бұрын

I love , and hope l will remember the saying : hurt people , hurt people . So true , that's why the bible tells us to love our enemies . The could actually become a friend some day , then you can understand they're pain and therefore , they're negativity .

@saltlife9495 Жыл бұрын

I have trouble falling asleep. But when I lay and watch your videos, it calms me enough so I am able to sleep like a baby. Thank you for being such a wonderful person in so many people's lives.

@michele8083 Жыл бұрын

Same with me !

@chloelanematentji3816 Ай бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂😂I just fall asleep so easily just by listening to her voice ❤❤❤❤

@kimmberlie573 Жыл бұрын

You capture the most stunning video. Your life looks so ascetically beautiful. Your voice is so soothing and warm. Your heart so kind and caring. Thanks so much for sharing what you do.

@patriciabryce6196 Жыл бұрын

So much wisdom from one so young! I've been watching your channel from the beginning and I love the way you are living into not just your artistry but your humanity. You challenge me to expand my own human reach. Thank you❣️

@maybee... Жыл бұрын

I love that phrase "hurt people hurt people" and it really does say more about the person than it says about you. Someone once said to me "you have to choose your battles", I choose to let things go, others will remember them more than they will remember you.

@hannahbrackett4067 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are my favorite to watch to relax, you have such a wonderful demeanor and your content is so inspiring!

@GabrielTucker721 Жыл бұрын

The Christmas decorations are beautiful. I’m looking forward to 2023 Cottage Fairy videos that mean a lot to you.

@EnfinLibreNM Жыл бұрын

"Hurt people hurt people". There's someone I know who constantly says mean and rude things to everyone. I was talking with her mother yesterday and that's something that I told her. But hurt people also need to just let go of their pain and their hurt or they'll just continue to live in their own pain. Thank you so much for this video. I've really enjoyed learning more about you and your life. I hope you have a wonderful New Year.

@cheri7384 Жыл бұрын

Oops...forgot something! Thank you for what you said about teachers. I taught for 40 1/2 years:)

@katharenchamberlain5721 Жыл бұрын

You’re a therapist and life coach to many; a soft place to land for legions of others.

@lindaconnelly7836 Жыл бұрын

You're very wise for someone so young.

@ildiko1vt Жыл бұрын

you are one of the most authentic young women out there speaking your truth so sensitively and beautifully! Your words and gentleness are much needed in our world! ♥

@paulaadams1765 Жыл бұрын

Paola, I bought your book at my local independent bookstore in Southern California. I enjoy your words of wisdom and uplifting spirit of making nature a part of who you are. Kindness, tolerance and respect for one another never gets old. I also love seeing your pets in your videos - they no doubt give you much joy and comfort as pets always do. Many blessings in 2023 to you, Luke and your families, and always.

@lindaayala6541 Жыл бұрын

Like Otaku nerd you showed up for the 1st time today in my KZfaq feed. It is uncanny how many things you addressed that are pertinent not only to me but my daughter who I think is close to you in age. Everything from bullying to book writing and everything in between! I subscribed and am sending my daughter the link. My son and I had a misunderstanding yesterday and he said things with a hurtful tone so your advice concerning that was particularly helpful for me. Thank you you for putting your uplifting positivity out into the world. It is just what I needed to hear. ❤️🙏🏼❤️

@jenniferkessener1111 Жыл бұрын

This felt like a lovely visit with you! Very cozy, and a pretty corner of your home. I enjoy everything you share, and look forward to what you have ahead.

@seedy6538 Жыл бұрын

I enjoy listening to audio books. I work in a creative job, and listen throughout the day. I grew up without TV and now enjoy spoken stories. 😁

@sarahjmorelli Жыл бұрын

I love the simple rustic beauty and wisdom of your channel.

@marypeach8 Жыл бұрын

You are such a delight…your loving kindness & creativity have meant so much to your viewers❣️Abundant blessings 🌺💜🌺

@elizabethwidlund3859 Жыл бұрын

My husband got me your book for Christmas, and I can't wait to start reading it!

@manoukvanhal Жыл бұрын

I had to pause the video to visit your etsy shop and immediately purchased something! Your art is amazing :)

@Sage555n Жыл бұрын

Paola, here's a prophetic message. You WILL have a new bunny! Hopefully, this year...Keep looking. You WILL find her soon. She's destined to be in your life and her name WILL be as unique as Mr. Darcy's name was...

@debika1 Жыл бұрын

Paola, The book: The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse By Charlie Mackesy is now made into a short 30min animated movie. It’s so super cute.🥰

@illyanclement_ Жыл бұрын

your videos are so serene, I always look forward to seeing a notification from your channel

@dandushlopez8606 Жыл бұрын

I'm following your videos for a while now and I just want to pop here to say thank you very much, for you - being who you are. You inspire me in so many ways and for that, I want to say once again - big big thank you... you are incredible... keep being you...

@Mandysfarm Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Especially your take on cyber bullies. I have had a lot on my channel over the last year and struggling with mental health makes it much harder to ignore them at times. But now I just ignore and delete the comment and try to let it go and not take it to heart as you say hurt people hurt others.

@lynnieley Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words about childcare providers. I have run a home daycare for 43 years! It’s been a lot of fun and a lot of work. ❤

@francescawollaston2227 Жыл бұрын

Dearest Paola, I must congratulate you on your latest book. It is absolutely wonderful. I took it on my honeymoon and in those quiet moments, I read it cover to cover and savoured every, single, wise and beautiful word. You have a knack of making me so calm, more mindful and more aware of my surroundings, than anyone else I know. I see you more as a beautiful sister than a blogger and am eternally grateful to have gotten to know you more, through your book and KZfaq videos. If only the world was full of Paola’s - what a truly magical world it would be. Thank you for you ❤️💐🌻🌺🎄

@kathykeough6598 Жыл бұрын

I loved, loved, loved this quiet lovely talk with you. Just listening to you is encouraging and hopeful. Thank you for sharing this intimate time with us....1.2 million of us...not to overwhelm!!

@desertrose128 Жыл бұрын

A friend gave me a book for Christmas that reminded me of you- " Garden Spells" can't wait to start it. All the best for the coming year, may all our dreams come true!

@janetclaireSays Жыл бұрын

Your home looks so cozy and this video was a very pleasant break in the day!

@bookscorpion Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet, gentle Mr. Darcy 💙 He was such a wonderful friend & will be missed!

@jennifersanders2456 Жыл бұрын

This videoeas very helpful to me. I love books. But beat myself up for not reading more. Thank you 🙏🏻

@mylolita 7 ай бұрын

Paola, you make us all aspire to be closer to our authentic self. I often close my eyes on a night, and to soothe myself, a vision of a cottage covered in snow in the woods always comes to mind. I know me, my husband and our three small children would potentially thrive somewhere like that. You inspire me! We live in a small town by the coast, in a beautiful house, so I can’t complain… but at 33, I feel like I need to stop compromising and trying to impress people who mean nothing too me and don’t mind me much back! Please keep on - you are so beautiful, and your life is fresh and gentle, just like you! Your baby is in for the best Mum and Dad and lifestyle EVER! X

@hilltopvt Жыл бұрын

I live in the country, next to the largest section of forest in my small town. We feel excited and lucky when we see a fox, cougar, deer, coyote, racoon etc - they are frightened of US, and avoid us as much as possible! A cozy little tea party with kind gentle wisdom - I feel so peaceful and happy after any of your videos 💝

@marciabyram6003 Жыл бұрын

Aww, I can't imagine anyone bulling you or your work. I'm sorry. I wish they would try to bully me instead! Ha, ha! Bring it on. 🤠👾 Like the clothes advice. It was so true. I love comfort and warmth and wear boots everyday because I own large livestock; mules. Happy New Year and here is to warmer weather! ☀🎉🥳🍷

@deidrespencer5467 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this delightful chat, Paola. It is just as enjoyable as your other videos. Stay warm & safe. Love from Australia 🙏 💞

@sweetstufff Жыл бұрын

I love your advice about bullying. Very wise words! Thank you! Have a happy New Year!

@SakshiSingh-oi8tg Жыл бұрын

This indeed felt like a warm tea party ☕️ . This community is so calming. It's more like a little ritual of mine to see your videos and, at the end, go through these comments, all posted by such kind people. You are winning in life. You are such a lovely person. I wish you the beautiful closure to this year and a wonderful start for the next ✨️

@livingitup9647 Жыл бұрын

Ahhhh… that was lovely! And I especially appreciated all you said about hate and bullying and how to rebalance oneself. It’s always helpful to listen to heart-centered people as they share their own wisdom. Your wisdom - particularly acquired at such a young age - is a wonderful gift to share, and helps to weave the fabric of the human collective… which we need now, perhaps more than ever❣️🙏🏻🌟💞

@gardnep 8 ай бұрын

So much sense and sensitivity in someone so young. Thanks for your journey. I have lost my wonderful kind and gentle fairy who guided and saved me through life. I am lost without her. Keep safe.

@jannimarys465 Жыл бұрын

This was a fun little Q & A. Your weekly videos are always a highlight of my week. Wishing you and Luke a wonderful 2023.

@jengonzalez8651 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely LOVE the sit down Q&A formats!!! Have a wonderfully blessed rest of the week! ❄️

@HooliganMomma Жыл бұрын

"Hurt people hurt people!" TRUE!! Thank you for this Q&A...I love it...love your channel...love you and all you share!! Happy New Year to you and your Husband!!! xo

@catherinepeng5028 Жыл бұрын

I love these more chatty videos! So great to hear more of your thoughts and experiences

@agnesrousset3705 Жыл бұрын

Happy New Year Paola, may it bring you loads of happiness and beautiful new projects. I am French and teaching English in a secondary school. I just love your videos, your voice and your accent. Listening to you After a long day's work is like a soothing balm so thank you ! Xx

@linda4th Жыл бұрын

Wishing you, Luke and the furbabies a Peaceful and Happy New Year xx.

@kattycastrillo6425 Жыл бұрын

I am happy to know that you are well, since there is so much risk with the weather over there. I hope you had a lovely Christmas

@giuliapariz Жыл бұрын

you are such an amazing person. your work is incredible, you’re so talented. i hope you have a great year 💗.

@nadjaehrsam5427 Жыл бұрын

Dear Paola, thank you so much for this video and your kind and oh so wise words. I followed you now for quite a while and am amazed to witness the growth I see and hear. Be blessed with all the best of heaven and earth, I appreciate you a lot. Nadja from Switzerland

@pearle3777 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video. Particularly, the last portion about bully’s and people who hurt you. Yes indeed, “ hurt people, hurt people “. I hope you continue to make videos! They are fun, and I feel like I catch up with an old friend every week. Happy New Year Paola!

@stargazer2533 Жыл бұрын

Wishing you a Happy New Year! I just love your videos and the quietness they bring. Wishing you all the best!

@Sage555n Жыл бұрын

Wow, Paola graced us with a 24 minute video! I can't remember a time she has done that since I found her channel. I wish Paola could do that more often for us.

@lunalucid Жыл бұрын

Awww, I was just thinking of Mr Darcy last week and hoping you were doing well on your first Christmas with him watching from the other side of the rainbow bridge. He sure had the most beautiful life with you! ❤️ It's been many years since my bunnies passed on and I still miss them and think of them around Christmas time (just like I think of other family members who have passed on).

@torilshusoghage7017 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are so relaxing and beautiful. So glad I found this channel. Wishing you and Luke all the best for the new year. Greetings from Norway.

@andeechristian9436 Жыл бұрын

Coming out of a cold spell in SE Wisconsin, stuck indoors, look forward to hearing from you. I pick up your book next week! Also, I work with people with disabilities who have difficulties reading physical books for whatever reason, and I try to encourage audiobooks. Looking out a window, or painting, or crafting, or meditation while listening to an audiobook can be just as enlightening as holding a book and reading.

@lisajonesmoore3853 Жыл бұрын

Feliz Navidad from Mexico, and a former Washingtonian! The Methow Valley was my absolute favorite getaway to reset my Soul. Thank you!

@mydailymuse Жыл бұрын

Your videos are so soothing and so inspiring to find ways to create a personal sacred rhythm in life. Thank you.

@cbeark Жыл бұрын

I read snow and rose and have to say, it has been one of the most magical book recommendations I have had in a long time. As well as the land of stone flowers, wow! That books skyrocketed in price and demand since you recommended it, glad I got it when it was affordable ^_^

@traceyhill7784 Жыл бұрын

Omg, cannot believe you didn't mention your wonderful book...nearly finished and the insight and feeling in the book are wonderful. Well done on such a lovely read x thank you

@estherroth7546 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Paola for inspiring us all with your gentleness, kindness and creativity. I've been blessed to be able to purchase your book and it will be treasured for years to come. Your videos have touched my soul so deeply and I am always looking forward to all your new content! They transport me to another, magical world. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. I pray you and your family have a wonderful and blessed holiday season ❤️

@justinewhite-hadley3138 Жыл бұрын

Being surrounded by trees feels like a big hug-THAT is the most perfect explanation of trees I've Ever heard! I couldn't agree more!! I grew up in a tree filled town, Grass Valley Ca then spent 7 yrs in Southern California. I got depressed. Literally. No season changes, perpetually sunny and warm, no snow barley any rain. I know live in the hills of the Napa Valley. It's just like my childhood town but smaller. I'm so glad you're surrounded by tree friends too! 💗

@tomas5376 Жыл бұрын

Enjoyed your tea party! You are really a special person who spreads love like fairy dust. I miss seeing your brother’s videos. Hopefully he returns. Feliz año nuevo🥂🍾🎗️🌞

@Selenesparkles Жыл бұрын

Reading the third book in the Shady Hollow Mystery series because of you. All three = wonderful! Thank you for the recommendation. Love your videos. Soul-soothing! I’ve also shared your videos on my blog. Just perfect! ❤

@susanclark8654 Жыл бұрын

I for one am very happy you make these videos. They are beautiful and encouraging and just put a smile on my face, especially when I'm having a bad day. I appreciate you. Many best wishes to you and Luke for the coming year!! P.S. I hope you get to keep your bookshop job, sounds a dream. I would spend my entire check on books to bring home!! :)

@sylviacardenas4890 Жыл бұрын

I love your videos, the best medicine for my anxiety.

@janestringer7225 Жыл бұрын

Dear Paolo, a lovely video, as all of your videos are. You give something that is so grounding, wise and calming in this frantic world. So much appreciated. Wishing you and Luke a very happy New Year from the UK. ❤

@betweenthesheets1100 Жыл бұрын

Your video was just what I needed! (I love all your videos, but this one spoke to me). I have been bullied in elementary school to high school constantly, and only found lifelong friends in college. The bullies would say hurtful things and on the worse days get physical (pull my hair, tear at my clothes, go through my backpack, bully me to copy my homework, look in the bathroom stall when I changed my clothes after PE to then laugh at me or make nasty comments etc) and it always boggled my mind why they did these things. It still does when I would think about it, and I agree hurt people hurt people, but also I accepted that there are vile, terrible, worthless people that walk this earth that want to bring you down to their level, and simply enjoy the misery of others. It does stay with me in some way, but at least it prepared me for when I discovered kind, friendly, genuine people that have become my friends, to treasure them as they are rare.

@lindasteinbrenner8065 Жыл бұрын

Yes! Exactly like a cozy tea party. Thank you so much. So enjoy when you answer questions in your videos. Love the others too! Be well. ❤

@HL-xz8zf Жыл бұрын

I love that your bunny was called Mr Darcy. My bunny was named Bingley and was a little black bunny. Sorry to hear that your bunny passed away. They are such sweet little creatures. ❤️⚘️