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Let's catch up with a coffee chat / get ready with me!
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Well hi there! My name is Jessica and I live in the midwest (Indiana specifically) with my family (my husband Tyler @tylertravelstv + my 2 daughters + our beagle Pinocchio). I share lifestyle & wholesome vlogs, makeup & beauty finds, amazon and target favorites, cute fashion items, grocery hauls, quick meal ideas, and a bit about my journey through my life so far in my Coffee Chats series. I also love Disney and host our podcast @DisneyvillePodcast with my hubby Tyler! I hope you’ll stick around the join the fam by subscribing. 🤍
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✨ T I M E S T A M P S
00:00 intro
00:24 updates
03:00 what does my work week look like?
04:23 fave easy healthy breakfast
05:31 motivation to dress “cute”
07:00 perfectionism video response
09:06 your 20s vs your 30s
10:55 my youtube friends + how often we talk
12:36 hair thoughts + what I want to do
14:18 podcast update
15:33 stress / burn out advice
18:22 something I learned during a difficult time
19:50 thoughts on future career
21:00 run disney experience
22:39 how to decide if you want to have kids
25:45 book chat
27:00 purpose in life
29:07 religion / spirituality chat
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@itsjessicabraun 2 ай бұрын

🎥 Watch more of my Coffee Chats here: kzfaq.info/sun/PLzVhGARzals09D67uMupaURk9SeY4nUgr&si=rr1bpyk0zqi_diw9 🎥 My perfectionism video: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hZqpgsSozLHNmH0.htmlsi=_SLtPVZQlwocSIJl 🎥 Tyler’s channel: www.youtube.com/@tylertravelstv 🎥 The europe vlogs: kzfaq.info/sun/PL6PKMDilWnjKnkyGODEZei-c0ZPwkkcrf&si=Eu8zH-QgfFXXhOhn 🎥 Our most recent books review (75 books!!): kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oMh0eLd6qbbYfGw.htmlsi=PTo4pKLzt0uWv2dl ✨ F O L L O W M E: ➙ IG: instagram.com/itsjessicabraun/ ➙ Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@itsjessicabraun ➙ FB: facebook.com/itsjessicabraun ✨ M Y A M A Z O N S T O R E F R O N T (affiliate link) ➙ amzn.to/2Ca7aed ✨ M A K E U P I U S E D: (affiliate links) ilia c beyond spf 40: howl.me/clLTeNZepNc elf halo glow filter: amzn.to/4c1g8KU loreal true match foundation (n2): loreal true match foundation dior concealer: howl.me/clLTgMZz0y2 maybelline tattoo studio brow gel (soft brown): amzn.to/3wKRv5a kosas clear brow gel: howl.me/clLThMieXM7 natasha denona glam palette: howl.me/clLTiaMVrPT sephora 12 hr eyeliner (tiramisu): howl.me/clLTiIkHJi5 loreal panorama mascara: amzn.to/433LvjO nars cream bronzer: howl.me/clLTjB7WZRU loreal true match blush (baby blossom): howl.me/clLTj4LtSPy smashbox halo glow palette (highlight): howl.me/clLTksI2uVQ lys triple fix powder: howl.me/clLTkUaofie winky lux cheeky rose liquid sculpt: howl.me/clLTlgsPti6 essence stay 8h lip liner in unforgettable: howl.me/clLTqH4cgkk tower 28 lip softie (watermelon kiwi): howl.me/clLTrtxsXOo ________ FTC disclaimer: This video is not sponsored. This post does contain affiliate/referral links, which means that if you purchase anything through these links, I may make a small commission #coffeechat #gettoknowme #chitchat

@trinitytrinity2026 2 ай бұрын

Jess, for your deep dive series I'd love a conversation solely about motherhood. I'm 23 with a toddler and pregnant and this life has been so amazing but sooooo difficult. I'd love to hear more about losing identity as a mother, marriage struggles, self image, and drive to do the things we used to love before motherhood. Love you girl!

@jessicamartin3995 2 ай бұрын

I literally shared the perfectionism on my fb feed 😄 and I never share on fb

@maggielucero224 2 ай бұрын

Please make one of your "getting real" videos on having kids, and wanting to have kids, but include Tyler please. I remember vividly something he said in a previous video on the topic kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j9lgrbeLvtHLpqM.htmlfeature=shared

@kellysites6164 2 ай бұрын

oh, sweet child...hahahah (I'm 57) The 30s and 40s were some of the very best of my life. Loved them. 50s are great too.

@jackivacha 2 ай бұрын

I am laughing also. I’ll be 52 on Thursday the 7th. My 40’s through now have been the best! Although some of my 30’s were omg so much fun!

@wendygricken3369 2 ай бұрын

My 30s and 40s were the best. In my 40s, I learned a lot more about myself even though this is an ongoing process. The wisdom, knowledge and inner-strength we built

@kathrynrichardson-pt5tk 2 ай бұрын

Just turned 58 and enjoy all the laughs of life!

@reginamitchell9532 2 ай бұрын

Same!

@ebonywilkes3589 Ай бұрын

Definitely but I’m striving to make my 50’s just as good as the others.

@kmampa Ай бұрын

Human Resources professional here-it is ABSOLUTELY illegal for employers to inquire about how employees spend personal days. It is also illegal to ask how they’re spending sick days, but they can require a doctor’s note excluding specific medical information. It is positively wild that we’re still having these kinds of issues today, which is one enormous reason why I got my Master of Public Administration this year. It’s time to be a voice for people and really make some positive change in this country. We have the potential for greatness-it’s time to live up to it! Btw, this passion came to me at the age of 30 so there is never a right or wrong time to live your dream. 😊

@09thowe 2 ай бұрын

One of my best friends once told me “trust your future self to handle whatever issue comes your way because you’ve handled everything life’s thrown at you so far” and that has stuck with me ever since. I definitely have anxiety and worry all the time about the future but there’s nothing present me can really do so I just really try to remind myself to trust myself bc I’ve made it so far!

@gigi2k326 2 ай бұрын

That seems like solid advice!

@GinaHarrisToo 2 ай бұрын

I have been following you for years. You have grown and evolved to be a wise, fun, clever, delightful woman. This video was amazing!

@shaeden77 2 ай бұрын

I’ve got news for you. Your 40’s are even a 1000 times better than your 30’s

@shawna.m 2 ай бұрын

Agree!!!

@chasitywilson2892 2 ай бұрын

Agree!! I was thinking to myself Ahhh sweet child, you are going to LOVE your 40’s! 😃

@prayersponytails6227 2 ай бұрын

That’s so encouraging to hear! I’m 35 and feel like life is so good now, how could it get any better. But then I think in my 40s my kids will be older and I won’t be in the tiny littles stage and my hubby and I will hopefully be able to go on more adventures together and with our older children.

@shaeden77 2 ай бұрын

@@prayersponytails6227 I have two teenage daughters, and I’ve truly enjoyed every single stage of their lives. This one is just as special as when they were little. In my 40’s I’ve noticed I’ve stopped caring as much what people think, and I’m suddenly ok with saying the word “no” in my life. It’s allowed me to be way more less stressed. The 30’s are better than your 20’s, but there’s a certain confidence with who YOU really are that happens in your 40’s. It’s easier to forgive your past failures and know those same failures have helped form the victories you have today.

@elizabethbryant5007 2 ай бұрын

50's are pretty good too. Each decade I level up I love myself more and more.

@danaj1649 2 ай бұрын

Im 46 and feel like my faith is ALIVE for the first time in my life. It really is a journey. I would love an entire video about your faith journey ❤❤

@sandybowers5085 2 ай бұрын

Me too 🙏🏼

@bggirl7676 2 ай бұрын

I would love that too 🙏🏻

@katiestevens6207 Ай бұрын

I'm 35 and have known Jesus my whole life but it wasn't until 8 months ago that I realized I never actually had a relationship with Him. My journey/walk with Him in 8 short months has been wild. I can't believe it took 30 years to begin my true walk and looking back I can't believe how little I knew. I feel most of us could agree this journey can be a roller-coaster and for me, so far it sure has been😅. So it's super comforting to hear from like minded folks!

@sandybowers5085 Ай бұрын

@@katiestevens6207 that’s so awesome 👏🏼 so happy for you 🙏🏼I’m 61 and still feel like I’m on a relationship journey with the Lord.

@katiestevens6207 Ай бұрын

@@sandybowers5085🙂thank you! That's amazing!! I imagine it just gets better and better ❤

@micheleberg4670 2 ай бұрын

I've been a teacher for almost 30 years and when I first started teaching I had a principal that would ask teachers what they were going to do on their personal days. One veteran teacher told him "It's called a personal day for a reason! When they call it a principal day I'll let you know!" LOL!!

@saigesola6489 2 ай бұрын

I was a social worker for over 10 years and finished my masters in mental health counseling at 39. I am now 41 so I am two years into being a therapist and I really feel like it’s been fulfilling.

@kaybedo28 2 ай бұрын

Clinical social workers can also do therapy! I’m so glad you are feeling fulfilled!

@kathrynbingham9404 2 ай бұрын

I will finish my Masters in Social Work in August (also at 39)! I am focused on removing maternal mental health barriers at the community level. It's been fulfilling so far and I can't wait until I'm done with school so I can fully focus on that purpose!

@kmampa Ай бұрын

I wanted to become a clinical mental health therapist, but life never presented the circumstances to make that happen for me. However, I just finished my Master of Public Administration, so I’m hoping to be able to advocate for people on the political and legislative level to improve mental and social health community-wide. I’m 31 and I’m hoping to use my young age, knowledge base, and heart for the community to the collective advantage. Anyone who has the grit to get through a graduate program, at whatever stage in life, should be incredibly proud of that achievement. It really is fulfilling! Congrats to all of you who are doing this!❤

@Michelle071 2 ай бұрын

Omg yes PLEASSSSSSE do a video about becoming a parent!! I would love to hear your deeper thoughts

@kelseybingham4741 2 ай бұрын

I’d love to hear some perspective on going from 1 to 2 kiddos!

@sGirlAtHeart 2 ай бұрын

Especially because I'm pretty sure Tyler didn't want kids in the beginning.

@lorichandler7151 2 ай бұрын

I'm 54 and you just made me cry...I have made it!! I'm raising my grandkids and it's tough but I wouldn't have it any other way 😢😊 I'm definitely interested in more mom content , you inspire me more than you know ❤

@sarrrahnicoleee 2 ай бұрын

Whew Jessica I needed this 😢 hearing “you got through every difficult moment in your life.” We just bought our 1st home, and despite having a home inspection, we have had nothing but trouble with the house. Plumbing issues, water damage, etc. I have cried more days in that house than not. It sucks that such a big accomplishment (and what should have been an exciting time in our lives) has been the center of stress and disappointment. But just like everything else I’ve been through, I’ll make it through.

@kellysites6164 2 ай бұрын

PS you are adorable, real, raw, vulnerable, and super humble and normal :) I appreciate you so much, in this world of loud loud loud chatter all around us.

@tiffanyrogersfeuer1914 2 ай бұрын

Jessie girl, I've been wanting to say that in your last several videos you've seemed so much more relaxed and at ease! So happy to see it :)

@nickyslifejourney192 2 ай бұрын

Oh my word sweetheart you had this lady in tears again.I struggle with being and staying in pjs all day as I have 2 serious and chronic illnesses LUPUS and FIBROMAYALGIA which causes sooooo much pain 24/7 as well as depretion. I have been fighting lupus since birth and fibro for 39 years. I do use medication that takes the edge off but oh boy I am at 59 now tired of it all. I feel mostly that I simply just cannot go on anymore. I do not tell anyone anymore as I realized they dont GET it and want to preach to me how to solve myself. Iys the loneliest place to be and illness to have. I love you and your amazing lil family and wait everyday for the two of you to post especially you darling. May God Bless you and keep you to be our safeplace everyday. Thank you sweet girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx😘😥😥💌🙏🏼🤗🤗🤗

@MHernandez012171 2 ай бұрын

I am 53, I look back at my 30s and say "oh sweet child!" haha!! But, you are so right. When I hit my 30s, I definitely felt like I had arrived at adulthood.

@emilydumont2869 2 ай бұрын

30s had wonderful life changing milestones (especially becoming a mother) but 40s feel great because I’m confident, peaceful, financially stable, professionally accomplished, my kids are still young but developing more independence and I am making time to nurture deeper relationships with my children and husband and other people who have a meaningful part of my life ❤️

@nestfulloflove 2 ай бұрын

I agree my 40’s so far have been so peaceful.

@TMCEH 2 ай бұрын

I agree. Tyler’s videos are so professional and impressive. The Alaskan cruise videos blew my mind.

@rachelcollins4923 2 ай бұрын

I agree. The Alaskan cruise is my favorite of Tyler’s travel videos. Vlogmas is my favorite over all

@courtneyfairbrother6299 2 ай бұрын

What a lovely speech about not having life all figured out and why that’s a good thing. I need to remind myself of that often. Thanks Jess!

@BethHartSmith 2 ай бұрын

On my third comment on this one video because this was just so thought provoking and real! You’re the best, Jess. The ultimate internet big-sis

@aceciul83 2 ай бұрын

oh sweet child! hold on for 40s, they're the best

@brookewillis5501 2 ай бұрын

I’m so happy you’re sharing your faith online! I’ve watched you for probably 6-7 years and it’s been amazing to watch you and your family grow in so many ways! Also I’m so sad you don’t love the Dior concealer! I LOVE it and the foundation!! They look so natural and skin-like!

@Shelly. 2 ай бұрын

I loved the way you answered all questions, especially the last one, so insightful and inspirational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us on here! ❤

@jomyers9523 2 ай бұрын

Oh you all have so much to look fore forward to, I’m 65 and love it. I find I’m a lot calmer about a lot of things because your priorities are different. You have lived through so much by this age. Wait till they hit school, you’re in for a totally different life, I hope you talk about it on your channel, as a parent that was a teacher. The girls will start having a life away from home. Plus they seem to grow up so much faster after they start school.

@alicepirola7077 2 ай бұрын

I am 62 yrs "oh sweet child"... So much of life has been lived at this point. So many milestones met and memories made Yes, I am taking things more in stride, however the stress of aging is also real. Much more learning to do. ❤

@alicepirola7077 2 ай бұрын

Jess, I love these real, raw, chats as you get ready. I am 62 and I STILL don't have it all figured out! But, God does. The older I get, the more I realize that, learning to listen to his still small voice, the promptings He sends us along the journey... Are what it's all about. You keep doing you honey. Sweet baby girl you are a couple years older than my daughter and I smile as I watch the two of you go through many of the same challenges and mommy things, raising toddlers. Now. If you really want to talk... Being a grandmother, I am a Mimi, is a whole another life journey. That one I was not prepared for at all. The love you feel for your grandchildren is explosions of everything you felt for your own child. It truly is a whole new roller coaster of emotions. Get ready get ready get ready😊❤🎉

@jessicabutler1015 2 ай бұрын

I am still new but I am so thankful for you! Tonight you made me cry and THANK YOU! I needed it!! 😢

@laminiticreaction8824 2 ай бұрын

I loooove these videos. You speak so well, and great advice. Makes me feel as a mother, and business owner. Not SO ALONE. The work, family has been soooooo hard! Shutting down, letting yourself feel and be human is so importance. Thank you so much for these videos.

@yohanagonzalez9063 2 ай бұрын

I did not now how much I needed this video until I watched it. Thank you for being so genuine ❤

@beccaleigh524 2 ай бұрын

LOVE how you handled the parenthood question. You answered it perfectly 🥰

@swissmiss9437 2 ай бұрын

I love your topics you choose on your real talks. Anything about life and your personal exeriences, testimonies and what you overcame is always so encouraging and uplifting❤❤❤God bless you richly🎉🎉🎉

@Sera-R 2 ай бұрын

The Europe vlogs were absolutely amazing!!! It was like watching a picturesque movie and it was adorable seeing GiGi at a younger age!!!

@melissaandreag 2 ай бұрын

I love your thoughts about purpose in life and how things are a journey and not supposed to look the same your whole life! ❤

@07tishtash 2 ай бұрын

Due in 5 weeks with first baby and would love your next chat to be about becoming a parent!

@jacquelinekennedy2543 2 ай бұрын

LOVING this series!! I also love seeing you come into your own when it comes to stating your opinion and how you live your life. I really do look up to you like a big sister (I’m 29) 🩷

@foreversabby 2 ай бұрын

These chats always feel like I’m hanging out with a sister 💕 thank you for always being so real and honest about life.

@jiggles7621 2 ай бұрын

Love your coffee chats! I am not religious/spiritual at all, but I like that you present it in a way that is general and respectful of all.

@ellej819 Ай бұрын

You have every right to choose what you believe. That being said, if no one has ever told you, for God so loved you that He gave His only Son Jesus, and if you will believe on Jesus as your Savior, then you shall receive with Him eternal life. Thank you for allowing me to share this with you. The love and grace of God in my life by receiving Jesus for myself have so filled my life with hope and fulfillment and peace that I want others to enjoy these gifts, as well. Again, thank you for graciously reading my message. Please know that it comes from a place of good will. I hope you have a good day. 😊

@awkwardbutterfly6102 2 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness the purpose of life and religion portion was honestly so helpful I never thought about it that way and you are so right! Thank you for this! ❤

@sharonsmith-dl8cs 2 ай бұрын

As always I loved to hear about your faith journey. Thx for sharing. Tell my mid 20’s daughter how much more confident the 30’s can be❤🎉

@kellianndecarlo 2 ай бұрын

Your comments about faith being a journey and less about rules and knowing everything really hit me. I love the way you thoughtfully share your faith.

@anncollard1742 2 ай бұрын

YES!!! So young and so wise❤

@maryannwasiulewski 2 ай бұрын

30's was alot more learning for me.. Upper 30's and now at 41 I am truly excepting and loving myself... Also forgiving my younger self..❤

@unapologeticallymj 2 ай бұрын

Research shows that about 30% of people regret having kids. I personally know a handful of people who wish they'd not had them. It's not like they don't love their kids, it's just that the impact and the sacrifices made meant that they never got to have the lives that they wanted. Then there's a lot of stress to do with childcare, finances, not having support from your spouse etc. My friend's marriage has fallen apart because of the stress that having a child with health problems put on her and her husband. People should definitely think carefully about how having a child fits into their life because for the most part it is the biggest responsibility you'll ever have. There's no turning back and your life will revolve around your kid for the next two decades and there are far too many kids out there who have been born to inadequate and dysfunctional parents

@shawnconover00 2 ай бұрын

Along with what you said about not having just 1 purpose in life, your purpose can change in every season and it doesn’t have to be this monumental thing.. for me right now it’s being a good wife & mom & helpful friend. Last year it was worship leading and only God knows that next year I could add on something completely new and what currently feels out of my element!! All that to say I think this is part of your purpose, I know that these talks are so inspiring and relatable for many! You are blessing a lot of people with your stories & knowledge! I’ve been here many years and I’ve been praying for your family and faith to flourish and it’s so cool to see that more and more come through in your videos💕🙏🏼

@Luvandblessings 2 ай бұрын

I love how you described faith and how it's a journey. That it isn't about all the other stuff it is about a relationship.

@ashleycloud459 2 ай бұрын

Loved this video so much. The quote you said "you got through every difficult moment in your life" is something that is so powerful and more people need to hear that. Evryone experiences pain or discomfort in their life and how they overcome the difficult moment is very empowering but to remember that they overcame is just as powerful. I also enjoyed the perfectionism video as well.

@pamelakachmar5724 2 ай бұрын

I've been a follower for a long time and all these lovely, intelligent, concise comments are so true. AND Tyler did do a spectacular job on the European videos. Finally. 😂 love you girl.

@LifestylewithLindsay 2 ай бұрын

I’m turning 30 in July and I’m seriously so excited. 🎉 Also, I’ve had a rough life, lots of trauma and whatnot, but I always remind myself “god will never give me more than I can handle” and it gives me so much comfort when I’m feeling beat down. ❤ Jess, I freaking love your channel and your videos. You’re such a light on this dark earth and I’m so thankful for you. 🩷

@simplyellenxo95 Ай бұрын

I just like how you are so open and honest…😊

@carimichelle 2 ай бұрын

Girrrl! The world needs more peoples like you! Lol ... I did not want your video to end, so very inspiring. Thank you! I had to quit sewing because I kept tearing up 😅 Hope you have a wonderful evening with your beautiful family ❤

@jenniferrose1350 2 ай бұрын

Yesssss please do a video on becoming a parent! ❤❤

@bobbichamberlain718 2 ай бұрын

❤️ bookish stuff. Looking forward to the blog.

@stiesiapaulina1292 Ай бұрын

Podcast about life??? 1000% yessss ❤

@hopemccullough344 2 ай бұрын

What a lovely video. Really needed this today. Thank you 🙏💗

@whitajeman 2 ай бұрын

I relate so much to the sentiment of "you got through all the hard things". Im 37 and a single Mom to a special needs kiddo. I have had to work so hard to get our life to this place of peace (its not perfect but we are doing so much better) and now its even better bc I was able to take all my years of my career to end up working along side my 2 sisters. Always growing and still facing challenges but I really feel the confidence of being comfortable in myself!

@wendyoldaker5177 2 ай бұрын

My forties are my favorite decade yet! It just keeps getting better!🥰

@prayersponytails6227 2 ай бұрын

That’s so encouraging to hear!

@addiejordan9809 Ай бұрын

You should absolutely focus an episode on parenting specifically being a new mom, growing into that role finding yourself again, postpartum depression/anxiety etc. you’re the reason I was brave enough to tell my doctor how much I was struggling and get therapy and medication. Not to be dramatic but you helped save my life ❤

@slr6027 2 ай бұрын

Man, I feel that about being split between being a SAHM and a working mom. I'm a full time+ attorney who works remote and I currently juggle sending my son to daycare 3 days per week and watching him at home (while working) the other 2 days. I don't want to give up my time with him OR the chance to advance in my career. I think the moral of the story is that being a mom in this day and age is HARD.

@Jessie-wk3ri 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for answering my question! I just discovered you and have been loving your videos!! Take Care!

@trudisheets7691 2 ай бұрын

Do it!!! I'm a fellow Irish girl and I'm wanting that same brunette red color!

@charlestoon3480 2 ай бұрын

Your life thoughts did give me some solace so thank you! I’m feeling COMPLETELY lost in life right now, I’m 44 and have had a full time job since I was 15 and now I’m a stay at home mom and just nothing feels certain it’s so different every day when I have always been regimented to a 60 hour work week. I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing.

@kwoot07 2 ай бұрын

I feel like I just had a great one-sided conversation with the older sister I never had 💛

@Hopethebrave 2 ай бұрын

Loved this! And would love to see a “becoming a parent” real talk episode! Currently in that stage and would love to hear your thoughts and advice! ❤

@ginachild3843 2 ай бұрын

I recently told a friend I never knew or even realized one of the best things about being a parent is having adult kids! I’ve enjoyed “most” all of it haha but this time of our relationships is so full ❤️. I also really appreciate your honesty about where you are on your faith journey 😊

@montieverett4983 2 ай бұрын

I’m an empty Nester. My kids are 41,38 and 20. I have had kids in my home for 40 years and absolutely loved it. I can tell you having other hobbies or groups to be involved with during this time has literally saved me -Bible studies I love to paint are things I look forward to. However, the empty nest syndrome is so real - it’s grieving - it’s getting through letting go of the life you had. I have experienced lots of changes in my life and this is one of the biggest. You have to trust God to show you the opportunities. You have to trust him with your heart whether it’s grieving or whether it’s being joyful. It’s not easy. But it’s growth. Jessica you are so insightful. I love hearing your ideas and girl you have more wisdom than you think you do. Trust yourself. You are making the world a better place.

@kcricket39 Ай бұрын

One of the best things that ever happened to me work-wise was getting a work cell phone. I know a lot of people hate the idea of two phones, but being able to turn that phone off and disconnect has been the best thing that I could do to keep myself from being burned out. My supervisor has my personal cell phone number if something really insane happens, but it's only been used twice in the 3.5 years since I got my work phone. I HIGHLY recommend everyone who can get a separate phone for work to do it!

@mjjamgotchian1598 Ай бұрын

Can I just say how comforting you are to listen to. I lost 2 of my dogs within 47 hours this week... and listening to you helps distract from my reality. Thank you

@Chelbsn 2 ай бұрын

I am so looking forward to seeing your upcoming vlog with your book content

@danyab1377 2 ай бұрын

I have been watching you since the beginning of your youtube career and I have to say it is refreshing to hear you be open about your religion:) I myself am not religious but I am always intrigued when others share their beliefs:) Also, you would look great as a redhead!🥰🔥

@tinaedwards8042 2 ай бұрын

I’ve watched the European videos on Tyler’s channel and he absolutely did do a great job. I got to see so many cool places that I would never have seen if he hadn’t done the videos.

@trinitytrinity2026 2 ай бұрын

My son just fell asleep and I warmed up my lunch. This couldn't have been better timing!

@giadaamarini4724 2 ай бұрын

I love what you’ve said about religion and faith. I’ve never felt closer to my faith and god since letting go of what I was told religion and faith looked like or should look like! ❤

@susanjeffries5108 Ай бұрын

When people started asking me when I was going to have a second child, they always said I would never regret having a second child so I should just go for it. I got a lot of pressure and it was super annoying but it also made me cry many nights thinking that I was terrible for not really wanting to take that step. My son has a pretty significant articulation disorder and it's taken years of speech therapy to get him where he is now, and we still have a way to go. In addition, I had HELLP syndrome when I was pregnant with him and had to be induced six weeks early because of how severe my illness was. I'm at super high risk for having something like that happen again, and my son and I both almost died last time. I really wanted to just focus on my son's development and happiness. Now my son is 10 and I can safely say that I am comfortable with my decision to just have one child. He is an absolutely wonderful kid and although there are times when I feel a little pang when I think about how he won't have a sibling, I remind myself that he has great friends and that our family is extremely happy and close. The decision about starting or expanding a family is incredibly personal and my advice for what it's worth is to not let yourself be bullied into making a decision you are leaning against. Definitely seek out advice and pray about it (if that's something you do) and at the end of the day make sure you're doing something you and your significant other are comfortable with. We all have our own paths to walk.

@jennygargano4762 Ай бұрын

I switched careers at 32 and did grad school (social work) during the pandemic to become a therapist and it was the best decision I ever made. I love my job and get so much fulfillment out of it!!! Highly recommend!!!

@erinhoyt1671 2 ай бұрын

Great video! I’m also a big fan of your Target shopping, vlogs, house stuff . . . And I love that you get dressed up for date night! Have you shopped at Evereve? It would be fun to see you do a styling session there. Different price point than Kohl’s (congrats on the sponsorship!) but I feel like you would get some cute stuff!

@jackivacha 2 ай бұрын

Your perfectionism video really got me thinking, too! I am an adult woman with adhd so I struggle with hyper focusing on my perfectionism. I can’t even put into words what it’s like to have a constant struggle in the neurodivergent brain. It can be so painful at times.

@JenniferSMoreau 2 ай бұрын

Yeah hit 45 going on 46 come September so funny! I'm learning to take each day as it comes, appreciate the ones around you because you never know how long they will be here, love yourself first!

@erin89f29 2 ай бұрын

Yessss to red hair! Me, my mom, and my 2 year old daughter have red hair (all natural). I think you’d love it and rock it. There’s something about being a red head (natural or not) that just sits well with the soul. And I wholeheartedly agree, Tyler’s videos are so well done; thorough, informative, interesting, entertaining and professional. I’ve been enjoying watching the Yurt videos so much!

@rosebud7233 2 ай бұрын

I can’t wait for the books vlog!

2 ай бұрын

Your advice on having kids is spot on 👍🏼

@sandybowers5085 2 ай бұрын

Awh Jessica🥰Talking about faith and spirituality!!! You are sooo great at explaining your thoughts on this subject. I’m 61 in April and a Nondenominational Christian who believes in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. I went to so many controlling, “do this not that churches!” My husband and I do our own private devotionals each day and prayers together for our family and friends. Thanks so much for sharing your journey so openly🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼I’ve been watching your videos for years. You are so inspiring!

@roseg1333 2 ай бұрын

But it’s not about rules and control it’s the opposite it’s about having the tools to help you on this journey to heaven.

@sandybowers5085 2 ай бұрын

@@roseg1333 I wholeheartedly agree with you ❤️

@sandybowers5085 2 ай бұрын

@@roseg1333 I wholeheartedly agree with you ❤️

@Marina_G. 2 ай бұрын

why do I feel so special that you answered my question about hair color 😂😂❤ i agree tho maybe you should try the reddish brown one day!! i think now a days its being called “ cowboy copper “ 😂

@user-ex9zq4jr4d 2 ай бұрын

I love your makeup and lifestyle blogs. And it's why i continue to watch the channel. Not crazy about the churchy or kid stuff so if you could label that in the video so it could be skipped, that would be nice. Alot of us aren't into those things. Or just do separate videos when you want to talk about those things so we can choose? Food foe thought.

@christyparker4715 2 ай бұрын

Watching this crying. You said all the right things about being tough. Thank you!! That was something unexpected I needed to hear. 🫶🏼

@nadiajuarez4763 2 ай бұрын

I’d love to hear you talk about mom guilt, the realities of parenthood not always being enjoyable or easy, how you’ve grown since becoming a parent. ❤

@amyr4944 2 ай бұрын

You’re absolutely right dear one, no one has everything figured out in life. We are all just doing our best. And I think you’re overthinking the book review video. You don’t need to follow someone else’s style or structure. People like hearing your thoughts on the books you’ve read the same way you do your reviews at the end of the year. You don’t need to change the way you do things. And like you said you could totally do it in a vlog, or you could even do it at the end of a favorites video. And that way if some aren’t interested in it they can move on. ♥️

@rachelcollins4923 2 ай бұрын

I am truly enjoying your getting real videos and how your channel has evolved over the years! You have a calming effect that helps me unwind thank you!

@HelloMoto_ 2 ай бұрын

Yesss do the copper!! I think it’ll look great on you

@womanofacertainage5892 2 ай бұрын

For me, here's how you know if you do or don't want kids: If you have the least doubt AT ALL, then DO NOT have children. It's more work than you can ever explain and more money, time, stress, etc. I have one child and wanted two, and no regrets, but I work with families who never wanted their kids and it's far too important a decision to have any doubt that you want to do it, in my opinion. To each their own -- but those are my thoughts.

@muchadoaboutliz 2 ай бұрын

I really love these type of sit down and chat videos that you do Jessica. You always have such thoughtful responses and well researched discussions in the getting real series! I’d be interested to see the video on becoming a parent, even though I personally have no interest in having biological kids 😅 But the answer about feeling like you can only have one life purpose really resonated with me. I’ve changed my career/focus in life so many times because that purpose can be expressed in so many ways. I’m mainly a storyteller, so when I was a kid I told stories through music. I told stories through theatre as an actor and director through college. I told stories as a news reporter right out of undergrad. And now I tell stories though athletes after getting my masters. Looking back it’s been very cool to see how many different ways I could focus on telling stories. And I love that now it’s more acceptable to make those changes in society too. Hopefully it gets to stay that way!

@kamillsap3155 Ай бұрын

First, BEST chat video you’ve done! I’m so happy you are where you are in your 30’s…I sure wasn’t! I thought my 40’s were fantastic….but THEN! My 50’s…OH SO GOOD! I made the decision to not have kids, and have no regrets…but I think you said it perfectly that if someone is going back and forth, they will not regret HAVING kids! That was perfectly said! Re Tyler’s Europe vlog, WOW! It was definitely Rick Steve’s quality! So well done….i could’ve listened and watch hours more of it! I look forward to the possibility of more of this type of vlog from Tyler’s channel! ❤️ Tho I’m much older than you, you were one of the first KZfaqrs I watched back in the day….you were still teaching, no kids, etc. You’re so genuine and precious! THANK YOU! 💕

@saraoviyach4839 2 ай бұрын

I’m a child and family therapist and work with ages 0-18. I got my degree online and it was easy to do because I went at my own pace. It’s a very rewarding job but can be very exhausting and burn out is real

@UnpurrfectRobyn 2 ай бұрын

Oh I used to dye my hair red and I loved it! Was often mistaken as a natural red head because it looked great on me...but it's A LOT of maintenenance. I gave it up after two kids because I just don't have the time/money it takes to maintain anymore. Now I'm just rocking my natural dirty blonde/bronde hair and just highlights updated 2-3x year. I do miss it at times, but yeah. Just a forewarning on the level of maintenance required for red hair! Edited to add: Another thing I think people need to think about when they are discussing whether or not to have children is what would you do if something doesn't go typically with the pregnancy or with your child's development? I say this coming from experience. Both of my boys are on the Autism spectrum. I never thought about what would happen if my child didn't develop typically before having kids. Thank goodness we were in a place for me to become a SAHM because there is zero way I could've managed working and getting my children to all of the different evaluations, therapies and appointments! I'm defintely not trying to scare anyone out of having kids, but I think neurodivergencies are so much more common than anyone talks about with new parents!

@littlemisswebb 2 ай бұрын

Would love a deep dive on your faith journey. I know it's such a personal thing, but I would love to hear more about that 😊

@RitaVernoy 2 ай бұрын

I’ve been loving Tyler’s vlogs!😊 Having children opens life up to so much future love. They grow up, marry, have children. It’s a joy to watch your adult children. And now, my oldest grand child is 18. Life is a beautiful gift. It’s amazing that we get to be part of the creation of an eternal soul.😊

@janreding9384 2 ай бұрын

Well from my 62 year old self when I was 35 I do believe that was my very favorite age. You are wise beyond your years and I absolutely adore you and your family. I try to keep you and your family in my prayers. Keep up the the awesome amazing job you're doing we all absolutely love you guys

@norman95885 2 ай бұрын

On the topic of having children, it's interesting, I am almost 54 years old and have never had children yet during my twenties and thirties I thought about it and by the time I was in my forties there was a panic that oh my gosh I'm probably never going to have children and it took me a while to realize that I don't think I ever really even wanted children. It was more of an idea of what I thought was expected of me by my parents, friends Society Etc. So probably the first question you want to ask is what are the reasons that you want a child and then of course hopefully it's for the right reasons ❤

@greatsmiles 2 ай бұрын

Having children isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. My sons are in their late twenties. One of them I’m lucky if I hear from him 2 times a year. The pain from that is excruciating!!! All I keep thinking is “is he alive”. I text him. Tell him I love him. He doesn’t reply. This has been going on for years. Much Love to all.

@norman95885 2 ай бұрын

@@greatsmiles I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope for you that he realizes someday soon how precious parents are and how blessed he is to have you💖

@greatsmiles 2 ай бұрын

@@norman95885 Thank you so very much! You are so kind.

@norman95885 2 ай бұрын

@@greatsmiles You're so very welcome!🥰

@ashleykelly7805 2 ай бұрын

I think that’s where I’m at right now, in my mid thirties and think about it every day but idk how to make up my mind.

@cassiegalbraith9089 2 ай бұрын

I’m 36 and have a newborn. My god, I can’t believe I ever went back and forth about this. I’m thankful I didn’t have children with my ex husband, that was a blessing and probably my body was telling me “NO!”. But now that I’m with a good man, this is by far the most exciting, fun, fulfilling, and beautiful time in my life by a mile. Gone are the feelings of wondering what to do next or those painful unsure feelings. It all makes sense now.

@christinefrazier 2 ай бұрын

I was one of those people on the fence about having kids... and kept pushing it further until I was 35. I don't regret it becoming a mom at all I was surprised how much I love it. I am grateful I was still able to have a child and have a supportive partner. I kept telling myself I can't travel anymore once I have kids or pursue my interests and it really affected me from wanting children but its not true that you cant pursue your interests as a mom it just looks really different and your priorities and sense of self really changes definitely for the better. I really enjoy watching you and Tyler travel with your family. Sure it's different to travel with children but I've taken my daughter so many places and she is only two 😊 now i look at it as i get to share my love for travel with her. I think an interesting real talk along with your parenthood topic would be pursuing your passions while having kids. It's cool tyler pursues his passion for travel nd you do youtube and makeup vids with 2 daughters! And yes the Europe videos were epic I was looking forward waking up every Saturday to watch the next episode so glad he did edit them!

@carielynn6647 2 ай бұрын

Catching you early today!! Yay! ❤😊

@meaganwilliams6826 2 ай бұрын

I’m so excited for the return of Disneyville! And I love all kinds of chatty, brain dump type podcasts, so you’d have a listener if you and Tyler ever started one like that!

@redneckgirl3326 2 ай бұрын

That's awesome that you're feeling more grounded and put the mom back in stay at home mom.

@alisanhankins8762 2 ай бұрын

On having kids - I feel like the clock started when our first was born. Before, we lived life and things happened but kids are like a daily morphing evolving thing that shows you time passing and it’s crazy! Just an observation lol not for or against but a fun and crazy thing we noticed is time seems to fly by now in a way that we weren’t tracking before. It’s so bittersweet watching them grow. Mine are 8 and 3! And also yes we struggled too with #2 and thought we couldn’t have anymore it was hard. ❤