Let's Catch Up!! Post-Breakup Healing Process, Spirituality and London

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hi friends, welcome to this rambly lil video where I chat about where I am in my post-breakup journey, the power of creative expression to help process feelings, my current relationship to spirituality and exciting life updates like going to Coachella (!!). as always, this community has been such a point of inspiration and connection for me in this rocky few months and i'm sending the biggest hugs through the internet!! thank you for being in this lil corner of the internet 💌
Timestamps:
00:00 welcome!! lil intro
1:00 1: Hosting a Creative Night: Using Painful Feelings as Inspiration
3:23 Where I am in my Breakup Process (reading you my piece)
14:16 2: My Relationship to Spirituality
15:10 being offered my dream job -- and declining it
15:27 Anam Cara book by John O'Donohue
16:14 Tarot Cards as a Tool for Self-Reflection
19:05 3: Coachella
20:52 Feeling Alone and Missing my Ex: The Fluctuating Healing Process
23:11 Finding Peace Within
Music:
Music by Breathing Piano - The Quiet Creek - thmatc.co/?l=F2FC63E4
Music by HAI KU - If It Must Be So - thmatc.co/?l=8B7FDDFA
✨ CONTACT ME ✨
Business Enquiries: unjadedjade@sixteenth.co
Instagram - @unjadedjade
TikTok: @unjadedjade
🌞 MORE 🌞
Casual Magic of the Day: i cleaned my whole apartment and it feels so FRESH! tidy space, tidy mind ;)
Song of the Day:
Currently Reading:
What are YOU grateful for today?
FAQ:
How old are you? ~ 24
Where are you from? ~ The UK! Near London.
Where did you go to university? ~ Minerva Schools at KGI
One of the best decisions you ever made? ~ Taking a gap year!
if no one has told you today, you are enough. 💛

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@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

hiiiiii friends!! let's catch up like we're on facetime

@joaodotcodes Ай бұрын

Well, thats facetiming a lot of people!! Hah

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

@@joaodotcodes hahaha I love that whenever I meet you guys in person it feels so seamless to get to know you!!

@Ahhbove_ Ай бұрын

Jade keep living✨

@rhythmicelegance4670 Ай бұрын

Ralph Smart says in his videos he’s Facetiming his audience from out in nature ☀️😎

@goodie6636 Ай бұрын

Hi Jade, I love that you want to engage in relationship with spirituality.. I believe the only, best and peaceful way to is to come to Jesus Christ. You're a sweet soul and Jesus has made a way for you and everyone to be their best self and also have a wholesome loving relationship with Him. I hope you reflect on this and also study and seek to know Jesus as well ❤

@mahima_queen Ай бұрын

2:15 oh my god i misheard it as something elseeee and i was like whaaaaa

@MelHamilton-Brown Ай бұрын

Me too lol

@user-ut7rw4gm3b Ай бұрын

I genuinely can’t understand what she’s actually saying hahahah

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

hahahaa wait this is so funny, it's pizza and SNACKS gurl

@icephoenix1932 Ай бұрын

Nah but what did she really say??

@yasminagomez8969 Ай бұрын

Sameee

@kevmoon3920 Ай бұрын

Jadeeeee you neeed to make a video about EVERYTHING about friendships: how to make friends, how to grow friendship, how to let go. You inspire me so much ilyyy❤❤

@RikkeGade Ай бұрын

She already did one video on friendships :) kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sKtiiZOC0LymqZc.html

@nancyl5941 Ай бұрын

You have SUCH a gift with words Jade. That written piece was mind blowing, vulnerable, and gorgeously articulated. Keep journaling!! And keep them documented!! Thank you so much yet again ❤💎

@islamaunder7015 Ай бұрын

I was reunited with my favourite word recently, "sonder", which means: "The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passing in the street, has a life as complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it." I think we can all find strength and community in our collective yet individual struggles ❤ Always reminds me of the power of kindness.

@palesaramurunzi5035 Ай бұрын

there’s a cafe I really love in Cape Town South Africa with that name 🥹

@rimshahmaryam1377 Ай бұрын

Jadeeee your voice, it is so therapeutic, your gifts of creativity are truly flowing, your energy a blessing

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

bless you, thank you for sending *your* gorgeous energy my way

@tora3584 Ай бұрын

9:25 "i craved my independent 16-year-old self, hidden safely in her books, heart untouched and whole." JADEEEEE PLS THIS MADE ME TEAR UP😭i am seven months post-breakup and also a year since discovering that i too, am queer (nonbinary & aroace!). with the help of medication and determination, i have found myself now, at 23, feeling drawn to the things i devoured prior to romantic relationships and even technology, like reading again, going to the library, the desire to volunteer at places. i had to let the leech as you put it, drain me, and it still is, but i think it's almost done. thank you for being so vulnerable. sending you so much love💎

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

🥺🥺🥺 wow, thank you for sharing

@hamnahjujara3035 Ай бұрын

that piece had me sobbing, crying and it felt like someone was speaking my heart out!!!!!!!!!!!!!i love you jade. we got this

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

@innocentthing4423 Ай бұрын

Can I just say it is amazing that you wrote that in an hour, you express your thoughts do beautifullyy, my diary is just full of 'lols and whatevs' 😂 also it felt like listening to my own life, being 16 driven and independent and then 22/23 in a loving relationship but feeling trapped

@ahteshamahmad9410 Ай бұрын

In the realms of beauty, she shines like a star, Her radiance surpassing, near and far. Her eyes, like pools of celestial light, Draw hearts closer, igniting love's might. 🧿❤

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

gahhh thank you for being here and for your lovely words!! 💌

@ahteshamahmad9410 Ай бұрын

@@UnJadedJade thanks to you jade for being with me supporting through your videos. 🧿❤

@freeda9971 Ай бұрын

💎 As a person who has English as a second language, omg, your writing is stunning. I love that as a British, you use various vocabulary and use the language in such a beautiful way. I saw your story about John O'Donohue's interview on his book Beauty and immediately listened to it. It touched me so much when I needed it most. I bought Anam Cara and Beauty. I really can't wait to start reading them. Thank you for inspiring us in the most authentic way, Jade. ❤

@meghnaprakash6991 Ай бұрын

Truly! In the most authentic, uplifting way. Your writing gave me goosebumps!

@sarah.93.30 Ай бұрын

Hi Jade, I have to say that's as the most honest and transparent I have seen anyone be online and I truly appreciate it. Im a 30 year old Irish gal about to move to London in September for a 2 year MSc in Physiotherapy. I first truly experienced the loneliness of London last summer during an internship, and I am feeling very nervous and apprehensive about moving there again to experience the loneliness all over again. Isn't it astounding that in a city packed full of people, we feel the loneliness! Anyway thank you for your honesty in your videos. It's so refreshing and just what I needed to hear today. Stay safe and well. Perhaps il bump into you on the pearly streets of London ☺💕

@rittv5005 Ай бұрын

Agreed, love your authenticity Jade! Such a great quality, making you relatable :)

@naomi-jh8nj Ай бұрын

This entire rude awakening from hyper-independence and the hurts that come with living, really living, in touch with your needs and feeling and all, I relate to it entirely. It is extremely humbling, extremely painful as someone who's been nearly identical to you as a teenager. Thank you for sharing this. It made me feel connected, especially being surrounded by people who never seemed to have this jarring curve ❤💎

@maneskinnnnn7190 Ай бұрын

he richness of life does not come from being alone FOR YOU, but for some prefer being alone, always remember you are speaking from your own perspective, your opinions and perspectives are not facts, for me i am happiest when single, i have been in many relationships, very happy ones where i was so in love. however for me and many women proabably older than you, we prefer to be single, i dont even have friends but i am so happy, with me my cats, my art. studies have proven single childless women are the happiest and healthiest demographic. however society conditions women that we need men to be happy, this is false

@Izzyyyyy66 25 күн бұрын

Hey Jade! I'm only 16 right now, but whilst watching this video I got the urge to put down a comment for the first time - it actually makes me a bit nervous. But I just wanted to say that watching your emotionally frank and humane videos really help during the stressful time of taking GCSEs right now. You inspired me to be self-compassionate and you allowed me to acknowledge the importance of honouring my emotions! So thanks sm! :)

@eleanorwellman5024 Ай бұрын

I moved alone to Australia at the beginning of this year and the homesickness has really been hitting me lately. I was literally writing yesterday about how it's so hard sometimes to be an adult and be expected to always pick yourself up. Some days you're thriving but others you just want a hug and to be safe with people who know you. Thank you for being so vulnerable, just opening up and talking about these kinds of experiences can bring a lot of comfort. Sending lots of love from down under!! 💎🩵✨️

@zazajf Ай бұрын

I'm also in Australia! Although I've lived here my whole life. Which state are you in, if you don't mind sharing?

@liahlow1435 Ай бұрын

When you said that the leech might be reborn as well I cried. You were so nice to a dark part.

@clara-mb1vu Ай бұрын

your ring is so so lovely. it compliments your eyes in the prettiest way!

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

eeeep thank you so much!! my mum got it for me for my birthday and i love it so much

@haleyboyd1012 Ай бұрын

The way you’re true to your emotions during this period in your life is so inspiring to me. Having recently broken up with a serious partner, I often feel that parasite within me as well. Thank you for your vulnerability. ❤️

@amyryan535 Ай бұрын

“Is iomaí bláth a chuireann óige di” is an old Irish seanfhocail (proverb) that my Irish teacher gave me before leaving school 2 years ago and one I often think of. It roughly translates to “There are many layers to youth”. I am currently in a similar situation to you Jade, battling between being independent and dependent. To me, this proverb reminds me that we can be both, and that that’s ok!🦋☘️

@-argent42vb Ай бұрын

Hi Jade!! I've just seen this video and I felt the need to write. I've been following you for a while and having discovered this little corner of the internet is one of the most healing and beautiful things that has happened to me this year. You know, we live in a society that wants us to believe that living fast, following new trends and doing what the majority does without even reflecting about it... is the right thing to do. If you want to act differently, just to be original and yourself is very frustrating sometimes. My intuition tells me not to be like that, but then I ask myself, "Am I the only one who doesn't want to follow the mass?". Then I see your videos, and I see this beautiful person you are and I just feel so happy because it proves that I am not alone and that there is people like me, who think like me and want to show their true selves to the world, not a mold that the masses have created. Jade, you're a VITAMIN PERSON, you make others feel better because you radiate positive energy, but most importantly because you are unique. You have helped me so much these last few months. I feel more conscious and spiritual, not afraid of embracing and loving my authentic self. I still can't believe how brave you were in sharing this with the world. It's amazing. And this channel is art, you are art. We love you, Jade💜🌻🦋 PS: your smile has healing powers, don't ever stop smiling!💎🥰

@vasudhamukherjee2590 Ай бұрын

jade!!! your piece was so so beautiful. you are so good at articualting your pain. as someone who has experienced something very similar recently, i relate to you on such a spiritual level. i just wanted to come on here and i say i am so proud of you. it takes so much strength and courage to take the step that you did. i also find it so crazy that someone living on the other side of the world somehow so perfectly encapsulates all of my fears about adulthood. so much love and power to you jade. you make me feel less alone in this arduous journey.

@user-rd1lr6fk6x Ай бұрын

Jade, your videos feel like a warm safe hug. I feel so seen, so human. I appreciate you being so vulnerable with us more than anything, creating this wonderful lovely welcoming corner of the internet. This is a safe space that i hope we can all come to when we need that sense of comfort and encouragement. We are never alone in what we are going through . We are so proud of you. You are a gem 💎!

@ASMRfleur Ай бұрын

💎 Aarrgghh sweet Jade. You just.... inspire me deeply. As a 24 year old -in her post burnout, heartbreak and spiritual era I resonate to your content so much. Your realness, rawness and your vulnerability in sharing these bits of yourself are so valuable. You've mentioned before how you feel the internet needs more realness (agreed) and I feel like you're a prime example of being the change you want to see (slay). As someone who creates content too (on a VERY different scale and a different genre) I often overthink too on what to share, how to share that etc., how things are being perceived and if I'll be understood. But you're a beautiful reminder to me on how this intimacy can bring so much connection. Honestly.. can we just exchange digital friendship bracelets, sit on a bed in dim lighting (salt lamps & fairy lights) with hot tea, read tarot cards, philosophise about life, meditate and share our feelings?

@amekaweston5472 Ай бұрын

💎 Aww your content looks so cool! 🧡

@viktorgrezu7874 Ай бұрын

JADE you are truly a blessing 💎 You deserve a comment section that feels like home because you genuinely inspire each and every one of us.

@carolinavillanueva9350 Ай бұрын

Hi Jade. Thank you, first of all, for opening up to us. You are a true inspiration for out generation, an make the internet feel like a safe space, and not such a draining place. I am going through a tough growing up process (according to my psychologist) and it's so hard. I feel seen by you, and I love watching your videos. Would love to hug you right now. Thank you for everything, our jewell ;) 💎

@wintergirl8101 Ай бұрын

💎i've been seeing you on youtube since last 5 years, i've seen all of those journeys via this small corner of internet, and i feel like i myself went through soo many phases and glow ups and glow downs all these years, but however the times were, i always kept coming back to you, and this place. Kinda felt like i grew up with you..all along this journey. And i just wanna say this that you always makes me strive to become the better and most authentic version of myself. I never go empty handed from any of your video you make. Thanks for being one of my most unjaded casual magic of all time on this internet!!🌻

@user-ww2tb7et4o Ай бұрын

Jade, you beautiful, kind soul!! You are a light in the world!! Thank you for sharing the deepest parts of you. You have no idea how many people you help unconsciously… sending you so much love❤

@malenafelici8475 Ай бұрын

Jade, a huge thank you for always being so open and the most gorgeous representation of honesty and vulnerability. You can't even imagine how healing and relieving is to hear your thoughts and reflections. Please keep doing what you are doing, because you are doing it amazingly. A big hug from Argentina!💎

@kaciesjourney Ай бұрын

I don’t usually comment on anything but you are such a beautiful and special person and I’m sure you know that but it needs to be said! This channel is my safe space and I’m learning that whatever happens in life everything will be okay. Thank you for sharing your journey of life 💕

@bristeeleenabasu Ай бұрын

jade, to see you embrace the process makes me loves u more, you're doing an amazing job !! loads of love ❤

@fareehabadar922 Ай бұрын

These are my favourite kinds of videos from you jade! I love your honesty, it makes me feel so heard and understood. I've learnt how to sit with my uncomfortable emotions and find beauty in the fact that life is never constant. Thank you

@victoriavonvoigt5768 Ай бұрын

Jade, you are THE gem, you have no idea how much i needed this! 💎 It's crazy, because i'm on a long car ride rn (not driving myself) and i was feeling the post-breakup blues so intensely, and then my thoughts moved on to "i wonder how Jade is coping" and next thing i know, i get the notification for the most relatable video...! Thank you ❤️

@aparajitaprabhu1947 Ай бұрын

💎I absolutely adored this video Jade… the vulnerability you give us Jade, like we’re your close friends, is so honouring And I just feel so deeply connected to you, and learning with you…. The whole section on spirituality and how you are entering this phase of your life is so eye-opening and just enhances my creative juices ten-fold, just purely by how the topics you bring up just expand my perspective… I just feel like anything is possible when I see you Jade💎

@teenagegirl43 Ай бұрын

Your writing is beautiful and felt really relatable in a way that made me feel both sad and happy simultaneously. Thanks for your vulnerability, I think you touched a lot of people in a positive way 💕

@heatherstanley8227 Ай бұрын

💎 hi Jade! This is such a beautiful video (I’m obsessed with your writing!), thank you for being so genuine & open. I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, so while I can’t relate to the roller coaster of going through a breakup, I can relate to the struggle of wanting to be simultaneously independent-to care for yourself-and to be cared for. I think your content really has a way of helping people feel connected through these types of shared experiences, and I hope reading the comments helps you feel less alone too 🫶🏻

@ameliek5668 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your radical vulnerability, watching your videos is so healing in so many ways, every time. Thank you Jade

@amila1084 Ай бұрын

💎dear jade, thank you so so so much for what you're doing. you know, every time i watch your video i tear up, but those are tears from sheer happiness and solace from seeing how strongly you react to everything that comes your way and how you stay positive no matter what happens. you've taught me so many things awww. sending you rays of warm sunshine🥺💗☀

@krishaparmar7364 Ай бұрын

Jade your timing is soo good! I was just having a bad day , i totally lost all my motivation to keep going....... feeling very low today for some reason! .......but then you posted this video , i needed to hear this! You inspire me soo much ! 💗✨

@christiebecerril8113 Ай бұрын

You are a diamond, healing is a long and not straightforward process but you are a queen and you will get through. Wishing for you to experience your new rebirth with so much joy and happiness

@user-kq9ge2fd3t Ай бұрын

Hi Jade, I was waiting for your new video and can’t wait to watch it! ❤️ You helped me through a life changing journey the last few months and my little journal is full of quotes that you said. Your videos mean a lot. 🦋

@lucielenoble2795 Ай бұрын

This video is so precious to me Jade. Your courage to just be you, to show authenticity and vunerability on social media is something so precious to me. Really you are such a kind and lovely human 💕 Send you lots of love and let's go spirituality!! 💎💎💎!! PS: I recently read your book which I believe is indeed the best study guide I could have ever needed because of how great it was written. I wish every student would read it because of how amazing it really is. They would learn so much. Thank you for writting it!!

@mikalajones8911 Ай бұрын

that blue crystal is beautiful !! your willingness to open up to yourself and the internet about this time in your life is a true gift 💎 thank you for being here :)

@Artandnatureloveeee Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. My breakup is 2 years ago and I still am not over it. Thank you so much for sharing. It helped me so much to accept my own feelings more. When I broke up I feel like a lot of people were like “yes but you are young …” “yes but you have your whole life before you …” “yes but but but …” I feel like partly why my healing process is taking so long is that I have the expectation that it should be ok by now. Which it is not. Actually I’m kind of proud that it’s taking so long, because it shows that I took this serious and it’s not as easy as everyone says. Actually kind of proud of myself

@morganlahm9381 Ай бұрын

Hey! You may not hear this a lot, but how you feel is valid. Break ups are super hard, and to be honest, we can't control how we feel for someone else. It just happens. I bet you are doing great things for yourself and trying your best! I personally broke up with someone who I knew I loved more than they loved me. It's been 5 months. Today is her birthday and it really sucks not to be with her. I think you have a wonderful perspective on how you feel, and I fear I may not be over this for a long time as well. I know I took my relationship very seriously for sure as well. Getting over a relationship that meant so much to you is so hard. I hope this can get easier for both of us.

@Vitoria-rv7bx Ай бұрын

Hi Jade! As always, such a beautiful video! The piece you read was mind-blowingly beautiful. It was raw, it was beautifully written, it contained bits and pieces of normal life layered with deep emotions and reflections. It was absolute art. I think it could even maybe deserve a whole video of its own. It was truly, truly beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing it!

@hannahstobart5377 Ай бұрын

Had a little cry listening to this - this is EXACTLY how i felt two years ago when i had a break up and it gives me comfort knowing that this is how the healing process is for other people too! the leech analogy is so relatable 💎💎💎

@kierabelson4021 Ай бұрын

💎 jadeeeee thank you so much for sharing these parts of your life with us!!! every time i watch one of your videos i feel so seen :)) i currently dealing with a question of spirituality and faith, but as a stem girlie it feels so counterintuitive to lean into that! it’s so nice to hear that we don’t have to pick one or the other but that whatever makes us happiest is the best choice

@NaoNao-vx7ps 28 күн бұрын

I recently broke up with my boyfriend for similar reasons. He is an incredible person (emphasis on incredible) but this part of me kept getting louder and louder. I am having difficulties trying to not regret my choice to leave this person but to move forward and your video helped me put words on so many emotions. Thank you so much jade 💎

@anasagebiel3647 Ай бұрын

Jade!!!! Every upload you do makes me absolutely swell with excitement and I am just so thankful for your insight and reflection and vulnerability on this lil corner on the internet ❤ I’ll be in London at the end of June and it makes me so happy to know I’ll temporarily share a city with you! I’m about to enter my 20s and it’s so enlightening to hear your reflections on growing pains of this period of life 🦋✨💎sending you so much love!!

@inesgil6103 Ай бұрын

💎 Jade, is so heart warming and at the same time refreshing, like swimming in the sea during a hot day, to be able to share in your vulnerability and this phase of your life💎 I've know about your channel for years now, but since the major focus of your content was academical, I'd always feel triggered to watch it, cause I've been having procrastination issues during my doctorate😖 But in this phase of your life, as you reconnect with yourself from the ground up, I'm grateful to witness it. I'm reconnecting with my spiritual side as well (trying to find a tarot deck cause the one I made and loved a few years back is starting to crumble😅), and tap into my inner child and higher self, learning about the flow of energy of the universe and all that good stuff so I can Manifest the life of my dreams and be content with my life in every phase❤️✨ Hope this phase and growth serves your better purpose❤️ the rain may make us long for the sun but without it there would be no flowers❤️ Love from Portugal ❤️💎

@melvegter4989 Ай бұрын

The fact that your videos have timestamps makes me so happy for no reason. I never skip any parts of the video but their presence makes me happy

@daviddidusca654 Ай бұрын

It's refreshing to see authenticity and vulnerability on yt. Keep staying true to yourself, Jade 💎

@Health.Nutrition_Dana Ай бұрын

Omg Jade you don’t know how much I needed to watch and see this video I’m going through the same same thing. I had this calling to break up with my ex because I was so stuck and stressed in life and the relationship was not going anywhere and things started to fall apart as expected. I went on long journey of healing and after a while I have visited family and I felt better as soon as i started living alone the blues were crazy and I blamed my self for feeling sad and I started regretting the decision again and felt so alone and I thought I’m not normal and something is wrong with me but after seeing this video I cried and cried feeling so relieved and supported. Thank you Jade and I’m sending you so much love 💎❤❤❤❤

@malavikaps5015 Ай бұрын

you are a gem💎im going through a similar experience and this feels so validating, im in tears. the pain truly feels neverending.

@tillyrobins8656 Ай бұрын

Your voice is the most gentle and soothing voice on social media. And I will forever be grateful to be able to watch your videos. ♥️

@Ladybird-rw4fv Ай бұрын

I am amazed by your authenticity and you inspire me to come to terms with my identity it feels so hard to be yourself in the uncertainty of social life there are so many things to keep up with everyday and you just feel somewhat broken thank you Jade I am sending you all my love to you now❤

@olivercoulthard5468 26 күн бұрын

That piece was beautifully written and straight from your soul. Thank you for daring to be so vulnerable in the harsh times we live in 💎

@nelliako 6 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this! It takes so much courage to be a real human on the Internet. I’m so grateful I discovered your channel when I was 16 - I moved countries (Russia to Spain) and didn’t know how to study in the new system. You helped me so much with your tips back then. Now I’m in London, 24 as well, went through very very tough times (loneliness, severe financial difficulties, depression etc) both in Spain and the UK and now found peace here in a crazy always moving London. There is truly so much power in how things change in life, especially how our perspectives on what it means to be here as a human being change as well. You are wonderful and thank you again for sharing your life with us. I just want to send you lots of love from the very depth of my heart❤️

@gabrielapegas6407 Ай бұрын

Jane, I'm so grateful for your videos. Sometimes, when I had a bad day or when my anxiety is kicking in, I just come here and listen to you and feel like myself again. Just like a little catch up with a person that I truly respect :) Everything is going to be fine, you're strong enough, we all are ❤💎

@tanjaranja8311 Ай бұрын

🪬🧿 Thank you Jade for being your authentic, vulnerable self! It inspires me everytime I watch your videos. You're a beautiful human being! ❤ Love from the Netherlands (from Friesland!)

@mellismacka Ай бұрын

Thank you for opening up and charing Jade. It felt so special to listen to your inner thoughts and feelings 💎

@emelieolsson3198 Ай бұрын

Hi Jade! It really does feel like I am catching up with my friend when I watch your videos. I loved listening to your writing, the way you use words, it was so beautiful and powerful.❤ It also brought me so many thoughts on my on life and dealing with both break-ups and loneliness. 💎💎❤

@1111sm.. Ай бұрын

Jade..we are in this together..I love ur authenticity..been following you for so long and so proud of how far you've came..sending you soo much love❤

@aniutaecolife8349 Ай бұрын

Oh Jade ♾️ the heart takes time to heal … and the triggers are everywhere and the good moments just replaying … what a great catch up with YOU ! ♥️loads of love and 💎💎💎

@ophelia3658 Ай бұрын

Thank u for sharing your journey with us my cutie Jade. You're glowing and I love you so much💕✨ You're a gem! 💎

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

no YOU're a gem!! you're always the cutest, thank you ily

@emiliaa.g Ай бұрын

hi jade🦋 thank you for your honesty and willingness to share your thoughts and feelings so vulnerably - your words were beautiful and the leech metaphor was brilliant. you‘re such an inspiration to me and remind me to be kind to myself. sending you so much love and patience and good energy

@annemijnriezebos3523 Ай бұрын

💎Wow! This is just an amazing video, it really feels like we are sharing life updates through FaceTime. Thank you for sharing Jade! The words at the end made me almost cry. As I'm now less than a month living on my on for university I understand certain feelings you are going through. The loneliness is sometimes unbearable but this little corner of the internet and your past videos have made me sit in de moment en take the time to feel all the feelings life throws at me right now. Thank you for being here💙

@dodosanddontdonts7032 Ай бұрын

I watched your breakup video 2 months ago when I was stressed about my relationship for similar reasons to yours and agonising about how/when to end it. Your video really helped me process my own feelings, because sometimes subtle intuitions that you're being stifled and not quite being able to be yourself any longer are difficult to properly honour as valid so it was really helpful to see someone else bring those to the surface. Now I'm 2 weeks post-breakup and despite the pain feeling proud that I stayed true to how I was really feeling instead of dismissing my internal compass. Just wanted to say thank you for being so brave and vulnerable, because it helped me find a way through this difficult moment in my own life

@KSiquot Ай бұрын

This is so real! Thank you for sharing the truth about feeling lonely and thinking of your ex in those moments, while still being sure that your break up was necessary and that you are on the best path for your well-being! I am going through something very similar. Sending you lots of love

@im_just_vidu 8 күн бұрын

I'm feeling honored watching these videos cuz Jade trusted us enough to read her journal out loud for us. I'm rooting for you & I hope you'll feel better soon.

@Rowena_101 Ай бұрын

Jade, you write so beautifully! I have been trying to journal, and I will admit the way I write is super different. But I loved listening to you. I have been watching you for about a year now, last year I was doing my a-levels, and I would watch your videos on study tips, and now I enjoy watching and just learning more about you. I am also almost 6 months post-break up, and surprisingly the "leech" sometimes still fights back. At the start of my break up, it fought so hard, that I wrote texts but would always stop myself from sending them, because I knew that I would have to deal with the pain all over again. Know that you are doing well! Keep your head up high, and enjoy life. As you said, you set your own expectations!! 💎

@rachelanne5997 Ай бұрын

Please publish this into a BOOK!!! Omg. Seriously Jade...

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

🥹🥹🥹

@meganhughesyt Ай бұрын

Jade you're a ray a sunshine. You've been through a difficult time but it sounds like you're coming out stronger 💕

@aurorahughes2696 29 күн бұрын

Ahhh Jade! I could say so much but I’ll try to keep it concise. I feel so connected to you and your experiences, especially in the this phase of life. You’re going through a major breakup after a multi year relationship at the same time as me. I feel like a mirror to your experiences, it’s very similar to what I have been going through. You write so beautifully and so eloquently about everything I have been feeling. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. I feel seen and known. “I am biting back” ❤💎

@KrslnP Ай бұрын

As someone who lives in London, same age as you and someone who sees themselves as similar to you, I want you to know how strong you are❤️ I love how you embrace your vulnerability and there’s tremendous beauty and strength in accepting it and growing from it. We are all proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@RikkeGade Ай бұрын

I bet you're a really nice person too💜💛💜

@KrslnP Ай бұрын

@@RikkeGade ❤️

@laurasanchez8364 Ай бұрын

Thank you for opening yourself to us, it means a lot! I hope all of us can overcome whatever we're going through! stay strong jade

@lenaahmed1895 Ай бұрын

Hi Jade, That piece you wrote and read..... I'm almost in tears right nowww.... Can relate to the feelings of a semi fresh heartbreak 😭

@chelseydixon3917 Ай бұрын

Theres something so beautiful and pure about raw spoken poetry ❤️

@elenawatkiss6354 Ай бұрын

In a world that is go go go and everyone in their own bubble with busyness of their own lives, consumerism, distractions your videos are such a lovely break from that. I am going through my own spiritual journey after dealing with anxiety/panic which was wake up call from my own distractions and busyness. It was message from my body telling me I needed to stop and I needed desparately to pay attention to myself in very intimate and real way, which meant facing my difficult and uncomfortable emotions. Your videos are such blessing because this journey can feel so isolating especially in western society, you show me that I am not alone. 💎

@7BillionReasons Ай бұрын

The part about craving your 16 year old independent self, heart untouched, safely in her books- felt that one back when I walked away from a tough relationship many years ago.

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

@belle5653 Ай бұрын

Gosh Jade, hearing you read your journal was so emotional and confronting but so beautifully written and cathartic. I’m dealing with so many big emotions as I’m going to university in September, and I’m not ready to leave school or my friends or my support system here. It’s so hard to process but you have made it so much easier. Now I’m off to find a journal, and buy some tarot cards. Love you! 💗 💎

@crunchygreeny Ай бұрын

I am currently on a gap year and I always used to place my own self worth in my grades, my logic and my own professional development. the pursuit of romance felt useless to me. just like you, I got three a stars at A Level and placed a lot of value in my own educational pursuits. over the course of this gap year, its like ive finally managed to come into contact with my emotional side, and ive started to appreciate the importance of having people around. watching your videos is so refreshing and I relate to you so much :) keep inspiring people Jade

@pp_nikola Ай бұрын

💎💎💎💎 u r my literal teacher and mentor and therapist and just a girl whose honesty and openness i adore sm !

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

gahhhh thank u thank u 🥺

@wangxiao2019 Ай бұрын

💎💎💎 I've been here since before your graduation journey and at that time i was graduating from high school, i graduated years later than most of my friends, they were already in their university era and i feel so behind in life ashamed and also that was when my depression started to worsen. After finishing high school i should have started university but i didn't, i spent a whole year rooting in bed speak to no one and processing a break up that I realised I never truly processed. It was devastating, it still feels like that most days Thank you for being you and creating this space ❤

@philippascholz4666 Ай бұрын

💎Love the raw honesty! I am not going through the exact same, but its a sort of break up with a lifestyle and community. Sending you a hug! 💎

@camillaalesi8955 Ай бұрын

What you just read was one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard ❤️

@katieclark401 Ай бұрын

Wow, thank you so much for sharing you post breakup written piece. That was truly something special. Your use of language is so skilful but accessible, you truly have a gift!

@ciaraoshea7246 Ай бұрын

Jade showing off her crystals and tarot book is so cute and wholesome 🥰 spiritual girl era is here!! 💖✨💎 P.s. this is my favorite type of content of urs everrr

@janjajanja2134 Ай бұрын

Your videos are like a warm hug everyone needs🥺🥰 Love you❤

@leila_axo Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing ur writing w us! The way you encapsulate ur words are so beautiful🌸✨I feel so seen! Ur videos feel like such a comforting & safe space to go to when I’m feeling down💗💗

@marferrer24 Ай бұрын

Your videos are like a warm hug💕

@katherinedare Ай бұрын

Wow, Jade. Your writing is beautiful and really transports the listener into what you're feeling. Great work

@sarahoglesby8381 Ай бұрын

You are such a beautiful writer Jade, and thank you for sharing this, it will be relatable for so many people 💌

@khyatiyadav9456 Ай бұрын

💎💎💎💎💎this video was so wholesome. The way you read your journal was amazing. I could feel every emotion through your words. It could be hard to put these things out in public but it is helpful for so Many people who are going through the same phase in their lives. I wish you all the happiness in the world. Thanks for putting out this video❤

@Radmilalala Ай бұрын

I’m in awe of you Jade. In many ways we are on a similar journey. I admire your capacity to listen to yourself and act on it. I’m turning 27 this week and you’re an inspiration to me 🩷✨

@laurenkatearya Ай бұрын

You are incredible sweet Jade💎 You are helping me so so much on my own healing journey towards the light from the darkness of something different yet pain is pain and we are alchemists. Sending love and hugs and friendship kisses from across the sea in Ireland xxx

@Carmen_JC Ай бұрын

I really love these videos... It feels like I'm with my best friend talking about life with a coffee. It feels good to hear such a warm and spiritual person talking about how well life is going and how happy she is. One often gets tired of hearing only negative things or how bad someone is doing at their job. Right now I'm in what I guess is my mid-20s crisis; I am 23 years old and soon I am going to start a new stage in my life, I have totally changed as a person (in a good way), and I am no longer who I was 3 years ago. It's a little scary to start a new stage with a totally new self. You know, lately I feel like I have nothing left to live and that my life will soon be over (not in a su*cidal way). I think about our end in life a lot lately, but I hope it goes away with time. If I ever travel to London, I hope we meet and enjoy a coffee together. Thank you very much for your beautiful energy ❤

@JoB822 Ай бұрын

2:15 am I hearing that right?? 😭

@UnJadedJade Ай бұрын

bruh i said pizza and snacks 😭

@joaodotcodes Ай бұрын

Hmmmm… yeah i had to replay that too. Of course you can have that thing with others but still with people you dont know anything about…

@EggyEggPie Ай бұрын

LMAO i didn't even notice how that sounded-

@anetasvrcinova5782 Ай бұрын

Hahaha same I had to replay that 😂😂😂

@angelatanganagba8273 Ай бұрын

@@UnJadedJade OMG I WAS SHOCKED 😭

@sophiiia0054 Ай бұрын

I appreciate you so much Jade you are such an inspiration for me and I just want you to know how strong and beautiful you are🙏🏻💕

@suzanachowdhury3243 Ай бұрын

If your journal was a book I literally would have read the entire thing in one sitting. I think your heart is as beautiful as your words. Love your contents.