Let's Talk About Anxiety in Today's World

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In this comprehensive video, Dr. K offers a thorough understanding of anxiety, its underlying causes, and invaluable strategies for effectively managing its impact on our lives.
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Anxiety, a prevalent and complex emotion, often affects individuals in various ways, impacting their mental and emotional well-being. Dr. K provides a comprehensive overview, delving into the intricate facets of anxiety, exploring its root causes, and shedding light on the diverse triggers that contribute to its manifestation.
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He starts by highlighting the alarming increase in anxiety in the modern world and how it affects people differently. He then goes on to explore how childhood experiences, the cardiovascular and autonomic nervous system, and gut bacteria can all contribute to the development of anxiety.
Dr. K's approach to anxiety management is refreshingly holistic, and he stresses the importance of addressing both the mental and physical aspects of the condition. He offers practical tips on how to manage anxiety, including learning how to tolerate negative emotions, setting healthy boundaries with others, and seeking professional help when needed. Overall, this video is a valuable resource for anyone looking to better understand anxiety and learn how to manage it effectively in their daily lives.
▼ Timestamps ▼
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00:25 - Who is this video for?
01:45 - What we know already about anxiety
04:07 - What is anxiety?
05:52 - Negative experiences in childhood
08:37 - Bringing anxiety from childhood to adulthood
11:36 - Medicating anxiety
15:05 - Gut health and how it influences anxiety
19:30 - Learning more about gut bacteria
22:15 - Creating a healthier mind
24:15 - Understand the effect of anxiety in the present
25:55 - Tolerating anxiety
29:00 - The beauty of detachment
31:38 - Developing a system to tackle anxiety
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@tayzonday Жыл бұрын

I’m forty and after four years of devoted talk therapy and psychiatric / recreational drug exploration, I’m still discovering how my anxiety was wired at age three.

@SirBojo4 Жыл бұрын

bro who tf are u

@petercollins1982 Жыл бұрын

Look up chocolate rain

@alainerookkitsunev5605 Жыл бұрын

I don't think i have any clear memories from that far back. It sounds quite terrifying that our lives can be affected so heavily by something that we have little or no recollection of...

@Thiago1337 Жыл бұрын

@@SirBojo4 HE'S THE CHOCOLATE RAIN GUY, HOW COME YOU DON'T KNOW HIM?????

@blazingstar9638 Жыл бұрын

You’ll get there Tay! Then you’ll have the wisdom to help others around you too ❤❤❤

@TopPigg Жыл бұрын

As soon as you said "when did I lean that I cannot *afford* to piss anyone off" I started tearing up. You're good at this.

@MikeZee118 7 ай бұрын

That hit like a train for me

@quyangstudioofficial9628 Ай бұрын

Oh my god I thought I was the only one who felt like that :((

@yevhenii8190 Жыл бұрын

Ah yes, a new Dr. K video on anxiety just as I’m getting overwhelmed by anxiety. Perfect timing, as always

@emmaokeefe7283 Жыл бұрын

Ruminococcus is named for the rumen in cows (part of a cow stomach) 🐮❤ What's cool is that we get the word "ruminate" from animals like cows/sheep which are called "ruminants" because they bring up partly digested grass back into their mouths to chew on. So when you keep chewing on/thinking about a thought you're ruminating on it, like cows with grass

@sadjuliy9469 Жыл бұрын

Geez, that's so cool

@quinndtxd Жыл бұрын

Etymology is wicked

@andeddoberubetto Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this information!

@zhiyako4032 11 ай бұрын

That's so cool, I thought only my language was like that. In kurdish, the word for ruminate is also the same word we use for cows and camels and such bringing partly digested food back into their mouths to chew on.

@flbbe1124 10 ай бұрын

@@zhiyako4032its like that in norwegian too:))

@thornor85 Жыл бұрын

I know exactly where my anxiety came from. My Mother was either highly anxious herself, or extremely paranoid. I couldn’t even go outside to play without her telling me about kidnappings, violent rape and murders, dog attacks, and allergic reactions that could happen every time you step foot out of the door. So when I finally got about thirty minutes outside; I was to worried about stranger danger, rapists and allergies to actually enjoy myself. Little wonder I am now extremely agoraphobic, sometimes I am to scared to check the mail for months. I remember when I was about ten I wanted to get some donuts from the local shop, and to my horror, she let me go in alone. I had my first panic attack then, I was convinced the clerks where going to abduct and torture me, so I left the shop and lied and said they where out of the donut I wanted. Life has been an ongoing story of entering unknown places, feeling like someone is going to harm me, and then running. I have managed my symptoms just enough to be a fucational member of society, but it’s exhausting.

@c0rkum Жыл бұрын

That sounds terrible and it sucks she didn’t have the foresight to know how that would affect you in your life. You know where it comes from and that it’s not “real” so I encourage you to keep pushing yourself

@thornor85 Жыл бұрын

@@c0rkum Thank you! Day by day I have to challenge myself, it’s never easy but I am slowly improving.

@dodopson3211 Жыл бұрын

Do uncomfortable things in comfortable settings or do comfortable things in uncomfortable settings. Don't do uncomfortable things in uncomfortable settings, for most people it's too much. Take the smallest possible step and repeat it until it no longer triggers the response, then take the next step. How does this look? For example phone calls are triggering for me, they used to be worse in the past. Uncomfortable thing in comfortable setting; only accept phone calls from my family (whom I adore)...progressed to calling my family (while at home). Next step; no longer being triggered at my work with in-house answering and making calls. Comfortable thing in uncomfortable setting; I really enjoy spending time with my coworkers, but I hate going to places I don't know yet. I went to dinner with my coworkers, told them ahead of time I would probably get lost, got lost, did trigger anxiety as I did end up being 10 minutes late. However my brain started realizing "it wasn't super bad, worst case scenario happened, your coworkers didn't hate you, you didn't die, we gucci" Now if I would have to call a stranger because I want to buy something from them it would be too big of a first step; as I am uncomfortable with the action of calling and I am uncomfortable with the setting of a stranger in a place I don't know.

@ReservedSpot Жыл бұрын

I know that this comment is late, but you might enjoy the movie “Beau is Afraid” it’s anxiety the movie

@JacobGrim 11 ай бұрын

I highly recommend getting firearms training and carrying a handgun, concealed or otherwise. If you can convince yourself that you can effectively protect yourself from those kinds of dangers, that worry might start going away or at least improving. Like, sure there's a slim chance you could get attacked or kidnapped in public, but if you can kill them in 2 seconds, you're not in danger and thus the fear should subside at least a bit I'm 19 and have the same kind of fears, although to a much much lesser degree compared to you. Simply carrying an ankle knife has made me feel so so much better and confident, because I feel confident that I can scare off threats and defend myself if I absolutely have to

@trevor3575 Жыл бұрын

I’ve watched so many videos, talked to so many counselors, listened to podcasts, read books about anxiety because I’ve experienced it since I was about 10. I’m 10 minutes into this video and I’ve learned more than anything else combined. I’ve never known where my anxiety came from. It’s like it suddenly appeared when I was a kid out of nowhere. But every example used here was my childhood. My dad owned two bars, he came home drunk nightly, usually angry. If I saw his car pulling up the driveway at night, I’d run to my room and pretend I was asleep. All throughout my teens was like that as well. My parents left every weekend to their cabin and would come home Sunday and berate me all day if the house wasn’t clean. I’d spend literally hours cleaning every Sunday morning praying they wouldn’t find the smallest thing wrong. They always did. They were not physically abusive people but that’s about the only good thing. I was mentally torn down and berated on a daily basis and I guess I never understood that’s most likely why I have such anxiety as an adult, why like he mentioned I’m afraid to talk to my boss, I’m afraid to question anyone in an authority position, it’s just all adding up. Thank you for this video

@life4god14 Жыл бұрын

We all have experienced the same from drk videos It's like he has given all he have

@Themurphyshow7 11 ай бұрын

Same same. Blessings

@lfleia 11 ай бұрын

I’m finding a lot of people in the childhood trauma videos that have all these same experiences; “It wasn’t that bad because I wasn’t hit, I wasn’t put in the ER and I was never taken away by CPS.” And when we’ve seen peers that DID, we minimize our exposure to that mental trauma even more. But your brain still processes it as trauma, and all those little things, persistently over time, adds up to the anxiety we have to work through today.

@joshmichaels269 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for writing exactly what I came here to write.

@karolinawww6834 8 ай бұрын

So sad to imagine any child to be treated like that

@Outlawsrevenge1020 Жыл бұрын

I'm 36, and I have struggled my entire life with worrying about literally everything. I also struggle with getting things done because I spend all of my time thinking about tasks I need to do and not just doing them. This was hugely helpful, thank you!!

@citrineforme Жыл бұрын

You might also have ADD, ADHD - inattentive type if you can't seem to get things done.

@donventura2116 Жыл бұрын

I've been doing a 1 2 3 count and then making small progress towards a task. There are days where I've planned out my whole work day and I still won't be willing to open my email inbox to start the day. So what I do is I set a small goal to open the inbox and after a 3 count I do something, anything, to get me closer to that goal. 1 2 3 place hand on mouse. 1 2 3 open browser. At a certain point I stop counting and I'll be able to work without any mental blocks. Last year I developed anxiety around my work too and my discipline and attention span was waning, probably not adhd just symptomatic. I had to recognize my procrastination had become habitual and I worked on finding ways to break the cycle of thoughts that said " I'll do that later". Currently I use the 1 2 3 way less and a few deep breaths are all I need to interrupt my thoughts and clear the mind for action. Hope this story brings you closer to improving your situation.

@eugeivashchenko758 11 ай бұрын

@@citrineforme I learned from my therapist that that's not necessarily the case. There's a lot of overlapping symptoms w/ ADD/ADHD and anxiety. The inability to focus is a big one. The mind is busy trying to work through bigger problems and there isn't much thinking room allocated to smaller details and more mundane things. A good way to know is if ADHD drugs calm you, it's ADHD, if it energizes you and gets you buzzing, then it's not.

@smiley_worth 8 ай бұрын

I relate so much with this

@davebryan8416 Жыл бұрын

My anxiety has a lot to do with my ego and worrying about how others will perceive me in even the smallest moments with strangers. I wish I could just obliterate my ego with psychedelics or something.

@corneliahanimann2173 Жыл бұрын

I think I have this problem too, but in different areas... Maybe we have to try figure out why we have an ego about certain things in the first place, because frankly when I see other people fail in the things I'm sensitive about, I could never be judgmental of that because I understand, but with myself I still somehow think I need to be above my human emotions...

@robocrab5811 Жыл бұрын

alcohol.

@craigfoulkes Жыл бұрын

@@robocrab5811 alcohol raises your anxiety when you sober up. Hangxiety, the anxiety you get to accompany your hangover.

@mattb9664 Жыл бұрын

Alcohol has Monday and Tuesday repercussions. Even if you don't drink on Sunday, the stomach spends all that time recreating a proper digestive environment. So even after the minor hangover passes, there will be frequent bathroom visits all day Monday into Tuesday morning.

@alvareo92 Жыл бұрын

Try microdosing psi-lo-cybin 🍄 some months ago I did very small amounts, like 0.06-0.08 every three days or so, it helped my mindset in being able to focus on the problems/situations at hand without trapping myself in my head so much

@BuckitOfSean Жыл бұрын

A video so nice I watched it twice, so here are my DIY chapters: 0:00 intro 0:58 HG coaching promo 1:43 historical and recent professional understandings of anxiety 4:08 what anxiety is and why it is 5:50 how our ability to judge threats gets messed up 9:25 transition to adulthood - why does anxiety remain? 11:40 physiological factors impacting anxiety and emotion 22:16 the mind, experience, and the control-the-world approach 26:34 tolerance-based solutions 28:23 self-observation and detachment-based solutions 32:20 summary

@ineedaname9164 Жыл бұрын

Is that a Motto Motto reference?

@BuckitOfSean Жыл бұрын

@I need a name sure, I guess! It's been a common rhyme since before Madagascar 2 came out. Or, at least I've heard it used in other cases.

@gakailyn9249 Жыл бұрын

I was diagnosed with GAD and social anxiety at age 11. I'm 28 now. I've been doing talk therapy almost my whole life, I've been on most anti-anxiety drugs and I did DBT. My anxiety has gotten way better and I contribute it to 2 major things. One, I noticed that it started calming down when I turned 24. I can't prove it, but I think something in my brain just changed once it was fully developed. Two, exposure and endurance. I used to not feel safe anywhere. I would have full blown panic attacks at the mall, school bathrooms, at work, while driving...for many years I tried to avoid my triggers, which was impossible because basically my trigger was existing. But I got older and avoiding things became less possible. I had no choice but to go to work and drive and shop, etcetera. So I just did, and I had my panic attacks, and I cried in dark corners, then I went back to whatever I was doing. After a while I'd feel the anxiety start to ramp up and I developed this attitude like 'so, this is what we're doing? Fine, let's get it over with.' and eventually the anxiety started to wane. Persistent, mindful acceptance and exposure, not trying to avoid my triggers but preparing myself for when they came. Now, I still have anxiety and it's unpleasant, but I haven't had a panic attacks in a few years and I'm better at recognizing and coping things.

@karolinawww6834 8 ай бұрын

Panic attacks really do go away after a while when you take them for what they are. Because of the pandemic I was able to avoid triggers while working from home. Quit smoking and felt better at first, but isolation makes it worse in the long run. I'm trying to get out there, got a new job that forces me to go out twice a week, but getting out of avoidance mode is not easy, even a small thing can set you off. I hope exposure and awareness will help me get back on the right track. All the best to you!

@NestPavel 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this, it is truly inspiring. I suffer from severe panic attacks and it led to life of avoidance. Hope one day I'll manage to build up the same courage.

@BlackDragon-tf6rv 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for this comment, i had a lot of anxiety last week because of exams, so i sat down, tried breathing and it eventually went away

@zbynekzapletal5514 Жыл бұрын

My anxiety was probably formed in elementary/middle school where i was getting bullied for how i looked, acted and spoke. It was years of bullying in and outside of school that now made me hyper vigilant about the way i look, speak and where my eyes are looking, what my hands are doing etc. I remember people pointing out that my socks were too high when i had them above my ankles (yes it was ridiculous) and pointing out any movement i made, to the point of observing the way i turned my head in class or raised my hand. My classmates were obsessed about pointing out anything about me that didn't sit right with them. Today that means a stranger passing on the other side of the road makes me feel like they're judging me or will talk shit about me to someone (yes it sounds stupid but it is what it is).

@bthomson 10 ай бұрын

Unreasonable fears are the hardest to conquer! Keep saying to yourself I'm ok and they are too busy to care about me. I find the idea that I am not important to " them" to be very enabling.

@armanashrafi4776 10 ай бұрын

Always tell yourself that, those days were in the past. Toxic people & situations are gone. It's a new day now. So, let go of the past and live in the present, work your best so that you can have a good future 😀🎉 nobody's harassing you now. so chill, relax, be confident, be happy 😎

@kamk27 9 ай бұрын

I was also bullied by my classmates however I came over it in college and university. But the school bully somehow hit me like a bus when I started working in a corporate environment and my boss started micromanaging me. I started losing hair and confidence and now working my way back up to be normal. I believe in myself and carry to beat and win /free me from myself...

@AugustusCheeser 8 ай бұрын

@@kamk27don't be afraid of your boss, respect them yeah, but remember they poop, pee, eat sugary food, wake up late and love cheese the way you do. Why are we afraid of people? I don't know, there's no reason to. They're powerful, yeah, so am I. So are we. We may not be as rich as them or educated as them but they know deep down they need us. They say they can replace us easily but good help is hard to come by nowadays, so we don't have any basis to fear them. My trick is always to treat my bosses or seniors like an old lady, you don't want to argue with them but you just be patient with them. Y'know? We're taught to be afraid of bosses and seniors but what's the point if it didn't get a problem solved?

@ernstthalmann4306 7 ай бұрын

I totally relate, hugs 🫂 🤗 😢 😔 💖 ❤️ 🫂

@maverickbonato8164 Жыл бұрын

Thought it was a meme that Dr. K always does videos on things related to what you're going through. 40 minutes ago I had a job interview and I was thinking to myself "damn Im hella anxious, whats up, I should be good with this sort of stuff", I see what y'all mean now xD

@Lipinki.luzyckie Жыл бұрын

Tbh it's just is a sign that those are massively common problems

@gayanime8981 Жыл бұрын

@@Lipinki.luzyckie i cant even do interviews T_T and it's too late at this point to start, guess I'll just start a small business to avoid that LMAO (/s)

@maverickbonato8164 Жыл бұрын

@@Lipinki.luzyckie Tru. In my case last time I was decently Anxious was 2 months ago at another job interview so it's not that common for me at least. Can't help but feel it's funny seeing the video happened minutes after I experienced a thing that happends once every couple of months lel

@chaoskitsu11 Жыл бұрын

Best of luck getting the job.

@maverickbonato8164 Жыл бұрын

@@chaoskitsu11 Thanks man 🫡

@FirstLast-yj1hp Жыл бұрын

Is it weird that I was diagnosed professionally with generalized anxiety but It got better by switching my mindset in thinking it was good for me because I used it as fuel to push myself... Now instead of it crippling me and thinking its horrible, now, since I changed my views on anxiety thinking its fuel, I ended up doing the things that I used to be scared of.

@Memento__Mori Жыл бұрын

That's awesome , you can do that with more negative emotions as well. Keep it. up 💪💪

@jjr553 Жыл бұрын

In many things this is a really good change and Skill to have but fear is nothing bad. It is absolutly mandatory to be afraid of some situations.

@alfinpovg6378 Жыл бұрын

@@xeojoex3713 lol makes sense i need to try thinking like this

@amerstain Жыл бұрын

Could you explain a vit if you don't mind? How do you see it as fuel when it's something that, well, clouds your mind?

@EMPANAO321 Жыл бұрын

@@amerstain I'm not him but I kinda relate, I would get veeeeery anxious if I didn't have any control over x situation, so what I did was just prepare as much as possible to that situation, for example I experienced physical abuse for a decade, so ofc I would get scared of people, so I put an overwhelming amount of effort to prepare myself to deal with people, hell I even got jacked bcs of this lol

@kklowd Жыл бұрын

I have a lot of trauma and anxiety. I once took some THC gummies and started laughing a lot at the stupidest things and I continued laughing at how stupid I was for laughing and it became like a chain effect. I don't laugh often or enjoy many things in life so I could immediately tell my body was releasing a lot of stress through laughing. I noticed my body would even try to hold back as I tried to let go by just laughing. A week later I took even more THC gummies and I completely let go by laughing as much as possible and started crying and bawling. I knew my pain was being masked by laughter and the whole ordeal was so cathartic.

@sereneseventeen4919 Жыл бұрын

Weed gives me anxiety. I prefer lsd.

@mercurymajesty Жыл бұрын

One thing that always fascinated me about anxiety is the parallel to excitement. The physical reaction is similar. Sometimes when my anxiety flares up I just convince myself I’m excited LOL.

@Jet7Wave Жыл бұрын

I'm been outright angry and devastated over how much I've missed in life and the mistakes I've made as a result of my anxiety. I even lost what I felt was the love of my life. This video clarified so much of it, I feel like I'm going to tear up.

@yasyasmarangoz3577 4 ай бұрын

oh no :(

@cruzalta1696 2 ай бұрын

How are you doing now?

@ZombieBacon13 Жыл бұрын

I think my anxiety spawned due to literally everyone in my close and extended family having severe anxiety. I've always had it and I just assume being around anxious people will make you generally anxious. I can't be mad at them though nobody really acknowledged anxiety as a thing, peopler were just "acting up" until pretty recently.

@chopi8072 8 ай бұрын

same here, getting the message from your caregivers that the world is a dangerous place does a lot against your mental health. You get the idea that you can’t trust yourself and other people which causes a real disconnect to yourself and your authenticity. Also my mother had problems with mental health and attempted suicide when I was 6, luckily came through and later when I was 13 admitted herself to the hospital again for some time. So I think that messed up my sense of trust a bit. There is probably also a genetic sensibility to developing anxiety because there is some mental illness family history on my mothers side but that’s minor. If I had a different childhood I’d not have those struggles even with my predisposition

@redicent Жыл бұрын

the book “what happened to you?” reflects a lot of what you say in this video, and its a good resource for anyone wanting to learn more about trauma’s effect on who you grow up to be

@thomasferrin Жыл бұрын

This is by far the best information I have ever received about anxiety, and I have seen a lot of therapists and done a lot of research!

@hanswoast7 Жыл бұрын

Same here, brother. It's a gift. Let's use it to improve :)

@caelcampbell5194 Жыл бұрын

This might be a strange request and an absurd place to make it, but this video sparked the thought. I'd love to see a future Dr. K video that looks into how food/diet affect our mood and psychology.

@austi Жыл бұрын

see his videos on ayurveda

@0ptimal Жыл бұрын

When I hear anxiety, first thing I think is food. Won't solve everyone's anxiety, but it will make a huge impact on a ton of people. The body/brain is a totally different entity when it's getting everything and only what it needs to function optimally.

@Oatmilk345 7 ай бұрын

@@0ptimalwhat foods are best?

@Cnith Жыл бұрын

This definitely makes sense. It's often just hard to stay cool and detached when the alarm bells of anxiety ring. As a social phobic, that has devolved into evasive personality disorder over the years, it's definitely my tolerance towards anxiety that needs to be worked on if I'm to get better. I also have a hard time figuring out where the border between my natural introversion and anxiety is. Part of my healing process seems to be to accept my introversion instead of beating myself up for not being better socially and wanting more of it than I do.

@chopi8072 8 ай бұрын

self compassion is very important, understanding where the anxiety came from and how it served you once as a survival mechanism is essential to have more compassion toward yourself. Nobody develops anxiety out of the blue. If you have a family history of anxiety genetics make you more sensitive to developing it but it’s the experiences you had that finally made you develop it

@MRBallSlapper-gy1lr Жыл бұрын

This is so interesting to me because, I started off my morning quite productive- but seemingly out of nowhere I started getting the butterflies in my stomach and the increased heart rate and I was anxious for some unknown reason. The explanation that processed foods can play a big part in your anxiety makes SO MUCH SENSE. I ate like a bunch of pizza rolls and it would make sense why all of a sudden I was feeling anxious when my body is reacting the way it is to something the body wasn't evolved for. LOL, really cool.

@literallyunfunny Жыл бұрын

I had serious generalized anxiety for my first 19 years or so before I got therapy I was receptive to, and after 4 years or so, I had nearly shed it altogether. I observed that internally, what would happen in my mind is that when I had anxiety about something, even though that thing went off without a hitch, rather than my mind taking away that nothing bad happened so there was no need for anxiety, it took away that nothing bad happened because I was anxious and alert. This reinforced the anxiety. It wasn't until after a very dangerous, undiagnosed manic episode that I got therapy and realized that, despite the walls and webbing of anxiety I built to protect myself from perceived threats, they were fundamentally incapable of protecting me from mania. I NEVER wanted something like that to happen to me again. That truth weakened the foundation of the anxiety, and primarily with cbt and meditation, I was able to pick away at it one piece at a time.

@lfleia 11 ай бұрын

When I started coaching on adhd after a late diagnosis (mid 30s) and started talking about my family life from childhood, I had this very viscerally upsetting story that I started explaining and it hit me right there how fucked up it was, 30 ish years later. My coach handed me off to a trauma therapist, and just a year with that has done more for me than a decade on antidepressants. It’s wild how much wiring happens early and then stays that way until you can have the presence of mind and understanding to try and undo and rewire it later. This is why I care more about how I am parenting my young child now than my job or anything else.

@JD.......... 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@ThatLandonSmith Жыл бұрын

Dear Dr. K, You continue to provide so much help to people you don’t even know. Last year my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me, I got fired from my job, and I became addicted to delta 8 and my depression spiraled into me being unemployed for over 6 months. 2022 was the worst year of my entire life. I’ve learned so much from you and your videos, I stumbled across you when I was looking to better understand my ADHD and how my brain works. Since then I better understand myself and how my brain works, I’ve improved my relationship with my mother, I’ve become a counselor for my friends and family, and this video in particular helped my friend, a relationship I let go for years, better understand his own brain and get him to admit the conspiracy theory’s he was entertaining was nothing but his anxiety making him believe non threats to be real. Thank you so much for all you do.

@mortalitydoesstuff8965 Жыл бұрын

My parents essentially raised me to be a paranoid man child. They simultaneously infantilized me up until my mid teens AND tried to live vicariously through my "potential" at a really young age, and then when that behavior made it so I never really learned how to do anything for myself and started to struggle they flipped the script and treated me like I was dumb, lazy, and worthless. That combined with a bunch of other factors gave me really bad depression and anxiety that were almost getting better right before the pandemic hit and then, well, the pandemic hit. I keep trying to explain to people that tell me to go to therapy that the only thing therapy is gonna do is keep me thinking about my problems and worsen my anxiety. I've realized that I'm literally form singular habits anymore because my brain just drops them into "the list" and the longer the list gets the more anxious I get until it's unsustainable. Instead I've been desperately trying to build a mesh of habits at the same time in order to finally control the inside instead of the outside. I'm taking my certification test to become a personal trainer on Monday, and I've been learning not just to cook and cook healthy stuff but to make the most out of every ingredient I buy. That feeds into the only anxiety I have that I perceive as useful which is that pandemic-fueled anxiety that turned me into a prepper, since my new knowledge gives me the ability to fix a piece of the problem on the inside while also giving me some control of the outside. For me, managing my anxiety is about turning it into a tool that I know when it's appropriate to deploy rather than letting it control me, and giving myself the knowledge and the skills to operate that tool. That mesh of habits I was talking about is more like a house of cards though, and has already fallen over multiple times, which only serves to worsen my anxiety because it makes me afraid I'll die long before I even get close to overcoming these issues. Maybe it's just me or maybe other people feel like this too, but it's just awful because you spend every waking second trying to fix your life and all that does is make it harder

@sashametaxa6512 6 ай бұрын

I feel that to the core. I’ve had anxiety for a long ass time for various reasons I’d rather not go into. But yea, I went to see my nurse practitioner the other day and he told me that “we need to fix your sleep schedule” and I started bawling my eyes out saying “if I have to do anything more than take a pill at night, I don’t think I can do it. There’s too many things to fix and I’m tired”. The “list of things to fix” is so real, pretty much the exact reason why I live on my notes app. Having ADHD isn’t helpful either cuz I have to *constantly* think about the list, just in case I forget something and everything goes to shit again. Yea, not a helpful post, but I hope that knowing that there’s someoen out there that understands what you’re going through will make u feel a bit better, cuz your comment certainly did that for me.

@user-bk1ye3rl1c 5 ай бұрын

That's the problem with the insufficient approach so many of us have been consistently exposed to, of always only trying to fix and never building a life we want instead.

@megabeetlejuicer96 Жыл бұрын

That meme of dr k living in our walls and knowing what we’re going through might be real, and it is making me anxious (pun intended)

@Hussain9077 Жыл бұрын

He is not living in our walls, but he is living in the physical dimension that you put your phone in

@JG-fj1rc Жыл бұрын

I spent the last few years living with anxiety without even realizing it. I use to love fishing, but was too 'anxious' to tow my boat to the ramp - what if a wheel falls off the trailer, what if I get stuck at sea etc. I'd get worried if my dog barked at something during the night - oh no what if it pisses off my neighbors and they throw poisoned meat over the fence. Thoughts like that which stopped me from living life. I thought it was just a normal part of getting older and being more responsible. Anyhow, I started taking Apigenin to help myself have deeper sleeps as it supports relaxation. But holy crap, it relaxed my mind and cleared the anxiety I never knew was there. I've been taking it for a week and have been fishing 4 out of the last 7 days! It feels like I have got my life back.

@kuroinokitsune Жыл бұрын

*Devil's advocate incoming* How is your dog? It's just...I remembered how one of mine was poisoned.

@DL-rl9bd 11 ай бұрын

I have those same type of ‘what if’ worries, and yes they stop me from living. I heard about apigenin on Andrew Huber man’s podcast. I may give that a try.

@TheMakki Жыл бұрын

I'm finding my biggest stressor of anxiety at this point is my knowledge of all these things and trying to CONTROL everything. I want desperately to min/max all the life hacks. Cold showers, sauna, sunlight, proper sleep, blue light at night, gut biome, calorie restrictions, working out, eating right etc etc. I'm at the point where I "know too much" and it gives me anxiety. I wish I could rewind some of the information I have. Ignorance is bliss. Just eat healthy, sleep well, and exercise.

@minecraftpe89 4 ай бұрын

This is real. I feel like I’m going down this path rn always researching and trying to find the why and prevent them bc I’m scared of developing or letting something grow but it is a large source of anxiety. Ignorance is bliss, I gotta stop researching and listening to other ppls stories because of how much confirmation bias and fear lie in them.

@Wineblood 5 ай бұрын

I thought I was just anxious, turns out my diet is crap, my gut biome is against me, and my heart is being worn out faster than it should. That knowledge will definitely make me less anxious.

@TylerandMoRoll Жыл бұрын

I’ve been dealing with anxiety so badly for so long. Thank you for making this video on it.

@ela1058 7 ай бұрын

1. digest the anxiety of your past 2. dont try to control other people, learn how to tolerate anxiety (exposure therapy, where you cannot do anything) SIT WITH IT, UNDERSTAND IT, my mind is saying... my body is feeling.... 3. watch out how you use behaviours to control anxiety --> try not to do it right away 4. detach,separation from ego, spiritual view on anxiety can be extremely beneficial samskara change your diet: less processed food, probiotics holistic approach

@keraywolfsong6111 Жыл бұрын

Great video, as always! It's interesting how sometimes I find myself sort of tackling the understanding of such theories on my own, but never quite grasping it until I watch one of your videos and somehow everything just clicks. I don't know how you manage to transmit this knowledge so clear, but I certainly feel like the content you post has much more of an underlying understanding of the subject and all the connections with other systems than anything else I've read so far. Thank you!

@albolvo 11 ай бұрын

Thank you. I'm 41 and ive always felt "highly aware" of my surroundings ad never knew why. It always made me feel uneasy and that it wasn't normal. Your video has given me great insight and a flood of memories that all make sense. Thank you.

@danny8807 10 ай бұрын

Man you’re such a amazing person for providing this and everything els for free, this video alone has helped me understand more about myself than countless self improvement videos/books. Thank you

@nerd26373 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honest opinions and insights. Keep up the good work.

@tracyzimmerman7912 Жыл бұрын

One of the best videos on anxiety I have ever seen Dr K.

@overgrownghost Жыл бұрын

As someone with a HIGH amount of anxiety to the point where it's crippling, this is telling me to get a therapist but I cannot afford one. It's a bit difficult to deal with, as I am unsure how to "sit with" my anxiety emotionally because my reaction to any anxiety-inducing situation is crying. I try not to as I hate crying, I hate people seeing me cry, and I hate feeling like crying I try to stop it but before I even realize my anxiety is getting unbearable, tears are coming out. I have been medicated in the past which lead to a permanent shake, but I was a minor when I was last treated, I feel horrible for not taking advantage of that help, as I cannot without so much fear now, it just leaks into needing help to help my anxiety that my anxiety tries to stop me from getting. It's hell. From throwing up trying to make appointments or just going out to talk with a friend, it makes you feel a bit helpless :(

@MrBmxer41 Жыл бұрын

If you cant afford therapy watch youtube videos like these try to educate yourself ass much ass possible and honestly try eating cleaner and just see if it does anything for you until you can afford to have one

@vadacris4095 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Dr. K, nice timing on the video. Just had therapy session today for anxiety. Appreciate your input on the subject. Take care everyone!

@arkarh1114 Жыл бұрын

You def changed my life for the better DR.K, mad love for you, true hero.

@spicyspacedragon756 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sincerely for this. This has fundamentally changed how I view my anxiety for the better.

@blazingstar9638 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for bringing up the heart and gut biome stuff here Doc! ❤🎉🏆

@shino4548 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this Dr. K. I am trying to improve my anxiety on my own and I appreciate you and your videos!

@ThePrimeTimer100 Жыл бұрын

This spoke to me so much, 10 minutes in and I’m crying because I don’t feel at fault anymore for why I overthink so hard😢 You’re the best Dr.K ❤

@itskristinawithak 11 ай бұрын

Dr. K, you helped break down the way I process my emotions and thank you for putting into words the frustration I’ve had with myself for not proactively working on my anxiety!!😭🙏🏻

@pam3423 11 ай бұрын

I usually don't comment on much but I have to say you are excellent. Everything you say is so on point, I think you can help a lot of people just by posting these videos. Good for you for providing this free VERY important information.

@andiralosh2173 Жыл бұрын

I learn something significant and rooting in every video that you make. Thank you for the deep understanding you share 💮

@meegs699 9 ай бұрын

Doc, you’re inspiring me to go back to school after realizing my passion to help my other fellow humans. You’re a beacon of love, thank you.

@Tabasa05 Жыл бұрын

Not even ten minutes in and I'm sobbing. Brilliant and on the head as always, Dr. K

@will_hunt Жыл бұрын

This is such a well-constructed and easy to follow video. Thanks for making it and thanks for making it free!

@airbag504 Жыл бұрын

holy moly having watched this feels so beneficial to my journey. what a incredibly insightful, compassionate, and holistic explanation!! this unfortunately resonated too much with my current life state. each day is getting better, though, and now i have a better understanding of what the heck is going on in my nervous system. the domino analogy reallly put that slippery slope into perspective. thank you thank you thank you!!!!

@hanswoast7 Жыл бұрын

Holy cow! After many years, this is the first explanation that makes sense and takes everything into account. Thanks a lot!

@legend0r Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Dr. K and all involved in this channel. This is very helpful for my personal battle with anxiety❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

@ryanreyes3085 8 ай бұрын

This has been so eye opening. Thank you so much.

@joshmichaels269 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. It's helped radically improve my mindset. Pinpointing the cause of these issues like you have is the only way I've been able to start correcting my problems. Thank you thank you thank you!

@grossidealist 10 ай бұрын

This is one the the best videos that you have ever created. I’m really happy with the information you shared here. I am going to be able to help a lot of people with the information I’m capturing from this video.

@Maurisblessed Жыл бұрын

thank you for helping out on my journey in becoming a healthier and wiser person you have one great influence pillar into my life I am glad to be apart of this community.

@frankies.4500 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your positive contribution to the internet. This information is very helpful.

@harle8513 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Dr K. for presenting this topic. I don't know why, but hearing out loud that trying to control the situation and analyze every possible outcome is way too overwhelming to me. Tears and tightening in my chest just after hearing those words are quite worrisome. The next therapy session will be quite interesting.

@cosmic.clover 6 ай бұрын

Thank you. I'm overwhelmed with emotion. All I can say is thank you so so so much for this video.

@BurningheartofSILVER Жыл бұрын

This is so eye opening, and immensely helpful! I almost wanna cry. I’ve been diagnosed with GAD and MDD since 2018, but I’ve only ever really focused on the Depression part of my diagnosis. If I’m being 100% honest, I thought they got the anxiety diagnosis wrong. I’ve never had a panic attack nor had my anxiety ever really reached a high level like that, but that was only because I spend like 70% of my time either overthinking things or just straight up avoiding situations that may stress me out. Man, I have so many thoughts going through my head because of this revelation, but I can’t get them out right. Time to dig up my journal and do some processing! ✊🏽

@Meechy37 Жыл бұрын

Working through treatment of a severe panic disorder right now. Daily panic attacks is so debilitating. I'm a full time college student and work full time. Really happy to see this video coming out now.

@smalik4854 8 ай бұрын

Doctor I am so thankful for this channel. Really, thank you so much!

@AyaneBKing Жыл бұрын

As someone with social anxiety and life basically on hold forever, I wanted to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude for your incredible videos Dr. K .🧡 Yesterday I watched your video on "How to Stop Being a Doormat," and it was absolutely mind-blowing. The impact it had on me was profound. For the first time ever, I was able to say no to meeting someone I care for, without worrying about whether they would still like me or not. It felt incredibly freeing, and I owe that to you and your insightful teachings. I have a playlist of your videos now! Your generosity, brilliance, intelligence, and compassion are truly one of a kind. Your videos not only help me personally, but they have also sparked a great interest in your field. Thank you for all that you do. It is so comforting and empowering to feel understood.

@ShinyStar611 Жыл бұрын

"life basically on hold forever" is the perfect description :/

@AyaneBKing Жыл бұрын

@@ShinyStar611 Yes, right? 🧡 At 35, I find it challenging to find meaning and do something with my life. Time seems to fly by, yet I mostly sit at home. For many years now. I look self-confident, so others think I am joking when I express my struggles. My hands can shake severely when I meet someone new, so I don’t. Of course, I know that the reason for my struggles is my traumatic experiences. People have hurt me, and I didn't do anything wrong. Nonetheless, I find it difficult to cope. However, I’ve found solace in watching Dr. K's videos recently. He is a lifesaver! He helps us break free from the cages that we’ve created for ourselves. It's reassuring to know that one isn't alone In this. I listen to Dr. K every day now, especially before bedtime. I hope that you can find the strength to overcome your struggles🧡. I think this is a great place to start !!

@NicholasUntrecht0521 Жыл бұрын

I have never so strongly felt like a KZfaq video, let alone a video about mental health, was made exactly for me. I was blown away with how much I resonated with so many things said in this video. I've only recently started on this path to really understand why I am the way that I am, and I feel like this is only going to help me moving forward. Thanks Dr. K!

@Ryan78336 11 ай бұрын

That’s very relatable. In my spiral, if I’m told to just not worry about it,even though the person might tell me why and give me ample evidence that worrying is not necessary, I will still worry because that is what I have learned to do, that is how I’m adapted to cope. Yes I’m working on it, but this is ongoing.

@parzival123 Жыл бұрын

Dr K helps me a lot about my anxiety. I cant thank him enough.

@soapylulu Жыл бұрын

This was so helpful. As someone who didn't have anxiety until I was forty after a series of car accidents I can see how what your explaining applies to me too.

@adamszilagyi8254 11 ай бұрын

This lecture reshaped a lot how I understand my anxiety. Without a properly helpful environment, this is just getting worse, and worse. I am looking forward to my upcoming days, how I could understand my anxiety for my studies and upcoming tasks. Thanks Dr. K.!

@Kas_Styles-Akuma Жыл бұрын

Omg this! It reminded me of how I visualize anxiety as I'm in the middle of an empty room with many wide open doors on every wall. Everywhere you look there is just a whole bunch of doors that are wide open. Each door is either an excuse, question or some sort of rebuttal. My thoughts is that I don't want any of those to even be thought of let alone spoken out to me so I think of ways to word what I need/want to make people (normally my family) to not use any of those and just say yes to me when I need them too. Also, when I'm on offense I use a lot of questions like: "What makes you think that?" "How can I do that?" By asking questions like that it forces them to do the mental work instead of me. Normally they just give up after a while and do the thing (whatever I didn't want to do) themselves. It works very well when done correctly.

@myfunkyspace Жыл бұрын

Spot on with the video, thanks again for the ressources and the knowledge. It gives me direction now.

@robotunicorn6462 Жыл бұрын

Watched this video in chunks and journaled about it. It was hard to digest because firstly, this fits me perfectly. And secondly, I am very stuck in the anxiety cycle and didn't know what to do about it. This video could not have come at a better time! I also deal with digestive issues so I'm also going to work on eating healthier. Thank you!

@treesart6914 Жыл бұрын

This is the best description of the experience of GAD that I have seen. At the moment I am completely stuck in anxiety. It is good to be reminded of healthy solutions. What's funny is that the story about the gut bacteria and the exercise and diet is the same story that I've heard about rheumatoid arthritis which I also have. So, I conclude that I should make an effort to get back to the diet and exercise routine to improve both my ailments. Great.

@mdel310 Жыл бұрын

I can see how physiological responses can create anxiety. When I was doing keto and multi-day fasting, my heart rate would elevate from not eating and increased adrenaline so I couldn't sleep. That was an easy fix I just needed to eat, the mental aspect is definitely harder. I worry about silly things like if my parents have enough in retirement and place that burden on myself unnecessary. I definitely have a problem trusting/relying on other people because of my experiences in childhood where I always had to fend for myself, but it never occurred to me to be a little introspective about it. Ill have to implement some of these tips to see if I can change the way I think, especially detachment. I also wanted to add that I chuckled a bit at the end of the video when you were describing how anxiety is like an out of control rollercoaster and eating bad food and not working out, that's happened to me so many times periodically and I could never understand why I couldnt stick to my healthy routines for long times, I feel attacked lol😅

@annx7538 Жыл бұрын

i don't know where i would be without Dr. K, thanks a lot

@janeofthewaters Жыл бұрын

This was such a helpful video, thanks Dr. K! I would love to hear you discuss health anxiety as well, especially in the wake of the pandemic.

@elyaequestus1409 Жыл бұрын

When you first linked anxiety with overthinking, I struggled to relate it to my own situation. As a child, I would experience so much stress from family issues, instable family life and bullying that I would just straight up check out/dissasociate/black out/shut down. When I would come home from school, the only thing that I would be capable of doing was sitting in front of the television because I was in such a high stress state of mind that I was unable to socialize. I realize that things got better when I was able to formulate my high stress experiences into words and that I could then express these words. It took a specialist in autism + a year of therapy to see that my anxiety wells up from 2 springs: - a traumatic event when I asked an innocent question regarding an argument between my mom and my uncle after which the argument exploded. My mom got into a crying fit/panic attack and my uncle ignored us and walked out. This taught me that making social mistakes is dangerous and can lead to harm. - I grew up in an environment that felt very chaotic and demanding. This taught me that I cant solve my problems and I also cant navigate them due to poor insight. These two springs actually reinforced each other meaning that I felt completely and utterly crippled to actually take action. When I addressed the second part, where I shut down when the demands get to high with my therapist, we made a list with triggers and then she gave me an exposure exercise. I have been doing this for about a month and I realize it now becomes a lot easier to do stuff. This anxiety, which I call 'The Terror', is actually a lot less now. The other vid you have on anxiety where you roleplayed with Sidekick, showed me the importance of focussing on max 3 things. Seeing how much I juggled and ruminated, it is ok to drop stuff and let others sort their mess out. it is ok to just focus on my own wellness and if others can ride on these tailwinds, good for them. But I dont need to fix their lives/manage their anxiety.

@Vinderglim 6 ай бұрын

Ive learned so many new things about my body and my mind thanks to your videos and im truly thankful that you provided me with all of this knowledge. thank you very much dr k you are changing my life for the better and i hope u will only continue to provide peope with meaningful content like this in the future

@resurgam_jsc Жыл бұрын

I had one experience as a toddler, just one, where I saw my dad leaving for work around dawn. It was a little dark outside but I was with my mom watching him leave the driveway in his old car through the window of our front door. He did this every morning just as routine since work was relatively far away... but for some reason, I was crying and frightened that he was leaving us forever. I don't know why. That moment of time stays in my memories as something traumatic. Even though I'm working on recognizing it these days, even today I still struggle with the anxiety and fear that a loved one could abandon me. Makes me wonder just how one regular everyday occurrence can affect growth.

@ShonjiPowerOf2 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you said we known our thinking isn't helping but can't help it. Though honestly the problem is sometimes it does work, to push you to freak out and accomplish stuff but now doing that chore is associated with panic. Lose, lose really

@gabe3134 Жыл бұрын

I’m currently in therapy. Only about 3 sessions in, I don’t feel like I’ve gotten much out of it. But something about this video really made it click for me. The science makes it make sense

@davidmacias1382 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I now have a better understanding of my anxiety and what can be done about it.

@reneenyberg4832 Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness this was beyond helpful for me. Thank you for this.

@mariomeza3514 Жыл бұрын

My GAD (general anxiety disorder) came from two parts of my childhood, being heavily bullied, and also going through really high amounts of stress when I was young starting from the first grade.

@ashenfox238 Жыл бұрын

When you talked about control, I had to stop for a moment and think about myself. I have a problem with semi-perfectionism that I think caused me to develop a fear of failure. Or maybe it actually was the fear of failure that caused me to develop perfectionism... It helped me a lot in the past to motivate me to become a better person and to take control over my life. But now the brain, by trying to protect me, is completely destroying my ability to do anything that has even a slight chance of evoking negative emotions. It cripples my ability to do creative things that I really really want to do and causes me to have strong emotions when I am not doing well in games. I stopped playing competitive games like csgo or lol, because whenever I mess up even slightly, I feel crippling disappointment towards myself. That even happens when it's completely out of my control and is not my fault and I have those completely unrealistic expectations that 'I should be able to do 1vs5', "I should be able to carry my entire team", "I should not fail". In a way my recipe for success would be to gain control over the situation I have no control over (by trying to be better at the game, but in a toxic way). Now I see that avoiding those situations will not help me. I always thought that if I don't have panic attacks, I can't have anxiety. Now I think I might actually have it in some form, though it's more internal and hidden. I will need to take a closer look at my past to see how I got in this situation. Thank you for this information-packed video, it helps a lot!

@ludovicesmanne6810 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for describing this topic so well! 10years of therapy didn’t help me understand this so well!

@taylerrenee9710 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for creating this channel! I have been waiting my whole life for this topic! Lol

@jessiebunny4757 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Dr. K! :)

@nftplugofficial 3 ай бұрын

This was unbelievably helpful, in a short amount of time 🔥 You’re a legend Dr K

@LarsDahlin Жыл бұрын

Thanks! This video gave me really a better undstanding about anxiety.

@suhailballim4159 9 ай бұрын

This was such a great explanation to Anxiety. I am surprised to see that it's not just medication but physical changes that are needed to find solutions to it.

@Ancient-Wisdom-For-All 8 ай бұрын

This is the first time I listen to a video about anxiety that makes a lot of sense. I been suffering from anxiety for the past year and a half and it turned my whole world upside down, now I am a little better but still have episodes of weird crap and this video encompassed different aspect that could be the cause of anxiety like heart, brain, gut health, ego, spirituality etc which is a very very interesting. Thank you so much. I’ve tried everything including meditation, exercise frequently, CBT, hypnotherapy amongst other things, but never all of these things at once with one practitioner that understands the disorder and suggest solutions accordingly. I will checkout your channel for more info but I would love if you could be more specific in ways of treatment or reducing symptoms? It is sometimes difficult talking about personal issues but I guess journaling would do. Stay safe folks and if there’s one advice that I would give to anyone to prevent these kind of issues, is to never keep problems to yourself or be afraid to voice your opinions. This causes the emotional turmoil of overthinking which then could cause anxiety and panic. Whatever is in your head, let it out 😊😊

@magicmoneymakerrr 7 ай бұрын

Just WOW .. The level of detail and education in this video blew me away .. THANK YOU DR. K 💖

@Yuvraj. Жыл бұрын

This video cut through me like a knife. I’ve experienced all of these things… without knowing I had this… I’ve since resolved it and gotten better using the exact steps dr k laid out, but completely through trial and error.

@MiamoryHJ Жыл бұрын

I always thought to myself I don’t have anxiety like many others, but listening to your video I realized that I have that same behavior. It’s funny that the other day mom asked me why are you thinking about it over and over and I told her that I need to think all the possible scenarios to prepare 😂and by the end of the video honestly tears started dropping. Hopefully I’ll be able to exercise the techniques you mentioned and properly heal! Thank you

@michaelflores3767 Жыл бұрын

Great information. You really have a concise way of explaining things. I def need to share this.

@faevoryn6578 6 ай бұрын

Wow, you just completely explained my whole life. Now I'm raising teens, and obviously they are not something I can control, and I am going insane with anxiety. I don't know if this has something to do with my ego or if it's something else. I don't want to fail them. It's hard to let go. It's hard to detach. It's hard to stop feeling responsible for their happiness and wellbeing. I love how this video talks about the many ways to work on anxiety -- body, mind, origin. LOL -- I have to "control" my anxiety -- yeah, I'm good at trying to control. Thanks for the overview. It's helpful. You're doing great work. Thanks for helping my gamer kid. Much love.

@TopPigg Жыл бұрын

Saving this to rewatch multiple times in the future.

@Alexandra-Rex Жыл бұрын

It has been very interesting as I have gotten older to think about how I am and have been, especially in relation to other people, and then also think about my childhood and teen years and what I went through then and start to connect the dots from then to now and learn some about why I am how I am, do what I do or react how I do now. The anxiety remains though, as well as the depression. Pretty sure that will never go away.