life’s been kinda rough. here’s how I’m coping :)

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Victoria Lim

Victoria Lim

Күн бұрын

Hey! Have been dealing with some heavier emotions lately: confusion, loneliness, frustration, guilt. I know, 'tis simply a part of life -- some weeks will be better than others -- but what really helps me is to 1) have a space to talk about it (be it with others, or myself e.g. by journaling) and process why I'm feeling what I'm feeling, and 2) do things that take me away from my worries and remind me that I am more than any sole identity that I carry (e.g. as a worker, as a daughter, as a friend, etc). What you see in the video is something that I always do (i.e. self diagnose that I'm feeling low and doing something to help me feel better, like going to the farm). Don't know why I was suddenly inspired to make my this week's preoccupations into a video, but I hope you find some comfort in it somehow :)
By the way, if you're in Singapore, come visit us on our farm ‪@groundupinitiative‬ ! It's a beautiful space, a beautiful community, and it's a lovely place to spend a day if you ever need some space away from the busy-ness of life :) Hope to see you there one day!
🌿 t i m e s t a m p s 🌿
0:00 Come with me to the farm!
0:54 Chillin in the river
1:47 The importance of happy places
2:34 Dealing with heavy emotions
4:00 On work stress
4:46 On feeling out of balance
5:43 On loneliness
7:16 Existential questions (as usual)
8:07 Gratitude time :)
8:51 Passionfruit plucking
10:08 What I love about our farm, GUI (ground-up initiative)
11:17 Sending hugs
🌿 c o n n e c t w m e 🌿
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🌿 a b o u t m e 🌿
Hello there, I’m Vic, and I make content on post-grad life, adulting, self-care and personal growth. Come with me as we explore what finding balance, staying inspired, and living a meaningful and fulfilling life means to us x
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@DDthesecond
@DDthesecond Жыл бұрын
Really empathise with you here. The negative feelings can all come to you at once and it can spiral out of control , especially when you feel lonely and you’re an introvert. I’m finishing my PhD too and I feel the same things, just feeling adrift and heavy. Hope you can keep finding these moments of happiness or at least peace of mind
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
Ahhh I understand. ending one phase of life brings a whole wave of emotions that can be hard to untangle. felt the same when I graduated college… Yet I hope you take a moment to celebrate your accomplishment too (PhD is no small feat)! 😊 we’ll figure things out :)
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
If you're in Singapore, come visit us on our farm @groundupinitiative (find us on IG, on telegram, on KZfaq too)! It's a beautiful space, a beautiful community, and it's a lovely place to spend a day if you ever need some space away from the busy-ness of life :) Hope to see you there one day!
@maylam8877
@maylam8877 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so honest with your emotions online, it helps makes me feel less alone. Honestly, in these past few months I’ve felt so powerless or any will to do any task. I just felt I’m incapable of doing them or just became so fearful of the difficulties the future holds that I don’t want to face it. It’s like I felt paralyzed and used the internet to numb myself from all these thoughts. But once reality hits a rush of negativity swarm inside my head and I don’t know how to deal with it. I would like to end in a happy note by saying I’ve resolved this, but I’m still under this mess.
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
Hey May, sorry to hear things are tough :( Messes & where we are going often aren't resolved in the short term and take time to untangle, so be patient with yourself. We can't predict what the future will hold but let's try our best to live fully in the present, yeah? I hope you manage to find activities/places/people that can bring you peace and joy in the meantime
@sherissagounden4403
@sherissagounden4403 Жыл бұрын
I have never related more to someone I've never met, you are so real and so incredibly authentic. I love how you accept yourself and the understanding you have about what brings you peace and joy. I am deeply inspired by you. Thank you for sharing this, truly. Recently moved to another country on my own and its been the most confronting and lonely experience of my life but there are moments of deep solitude too, wish to visit Singapore one day.
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
💜 moving away someplace new alone is so hard. I hope you are settling in well, and I’m sure you will find people who will feel like home in no time! You’re so strong, and I’m v happy to hear that this video gave you some comfort no matter how small :) sending hugs!
@JulianLee26
@JulianLee26 Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing vic! 🙏 i'm going through a little bit of a tough time too. :') watching your video was a nice break from my job hunt and it's inspiring to see you taking care of yourself. i hope things get better for you and see you around! 😌
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
Julian! Was so nice to see you at GUI this Saturday and I’m happy to see you’re becoming a BK lead ☺️☺️ wishing you all the best always and see you again soon!
@user-im3rc8il9y
@user-im3rc8il9y Жыл бұрын
Thank you for spending your time to plan (maybe), film, edit and put this video up. I have the YT algorithm and the universe to thank when your videos came up 😊 Your videos about enjoying your own company and relationships have lifted me up heaps, made me feel like I’m not the only one struggling and given me some practical guidance! Then this video reminded me that life is always ups and downs and it’s what we do to create ‘our’ own situations with what we learn, do and experience to make it our life. Thank you for being authentic and speak your truth. It’s very uplifting to hear even though things were tough but you chose to focus on picking yourself up, constantly deconstructing your thoughts, emotions and patterns. Love your energy and I hope through all of these experience, you are leaning even more in your intuition/inner authority and be at peace with yourself even more ❤
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
This is one of the sweetest comments I’ve received in a long while. Thank you so much for your kind words and I’m so happy to hear some things have resonated w you 💜 sometimes feels strange to put in so much effort into sharing my feelings up online but receiving messages like yours makes it worthwhile :’) sending hugs !
@user-im3rc8il9y
@user-im3rc8il9y Жыл бұрын
@@victorialim You're more than welcome, lovely! What strange to you is courage, sense of self and an act of service to people like myself. So please keep being you, and if that means making more YT videos then that's a blessing for the rest us! :P Hugs back! :D
@sababatamanna9226
@sababatamanna9226 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! I am going through a very difficult time of my life. I am trying to be patient with myself everyday. But it has been really tough for me. I am grateful to my mother who is always there to listen to me. Thank you for sharing❤️
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
My mother is one of my biggest pillars of support too -- definitely something to be grateful for. Hope things start to look up for you soon!
@TeekhiValley
@TeekhiValley Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! 🙏🙌
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching :))😊
@shrimigaurav4635
@shrimigaurav4635 Жыл бұрын
This channel is so underrated 🥺
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
🥹 thank you!!
@Delhitwins
@Delhitwins Жыл бұрын
how you handle your problems so smoothly watching you gives me a lot of courage 😇
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
💕
@lumieredice485
@lumieredice485 Жыл бұрын
What book were you reading?
@victorialim
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
it's my journal :)
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