Life Update ...

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11 ай бұрын

Hey guys, today is a long overdue life update about some tough stuff (family, IVF, upcoming trial ) and oh yeah, I guess I'm a Fashion Blogger now (Links in Description Below - click "more" to expland)!!!! 💕 xo's Tati
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@PrincessHeathaB 11 ай бұрын

I am 48 and we just adopted after years of our own fertility issues. I’m currently gazing at my 8 day old daughter and I’ve never been happier. I wish you all the luck on your journey however you decide to move forward. And you don’t owe anyone an explanation.

@tracie3 11 ай бұрын

That’s amazing! Congratulations on your sweet baby girl! ❤

@GypsyJRo 11 ай бұрын

Adoption is a whole other hard decision but I agree with you, it can be beautiful. I suffered with infertility for years and now I am at an amusement park with by 8 and 9 year old sons, through adoption, from birth (I was in the delivery room with our AMAZING birth mom) and they are biologically brothers too.

@LaynieLashes 11 ай бұрын

Congrats!!!

@lux.illuminaughty 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations! enjoy every sleepless minute!

@mommashawna707 11 ай бұрын

I know that excitement oh too well we got the news on Christmas Eve 27 years ago and when you bring that baby home and put them in their little bed that’s when you can breathe again and the excitement is so overwhelming. Congratulations!

@TimeBucks 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing with us,

@tdcu776 11 ай бұрын

Good

@Muhammadkamran265 11 ай бұрын

Good

@priyakhandare4951 11 ай бұрын

Nice

@ZainSajid-yw2qt 11 ай бұрын

Nice

@ZainSajid-yw2qt 11 ай бұрын

Nice

@juliavanhoose 11 ай бұрын

Everyone’s problems are different but I think that difficulty to accept that your future isn’t what you wanted or planned is something we all have and it’s very difficult to overcome. I believe you have to choose to face it and be proactive about finding joy despite things being different from what you expect and Tati is doing that and showing that it has good outcomes.

@amandamustain2868 11 ай бұрын

My husband and I were never able to have children. The constant questions really got next to me. Everything you said is EXACTLY how we felt. Last year, I ended up having a total hysterectomy and discovered that I would have never gotten pregnant naturally. I had some deformities that were never discovered. I guess God really had it in His plan for us to not have children. Now we have embraced being childless. We have a dog we spoil rotten now. Much love to y’all! ❤

@blacksootohmy 10 ай бұрын

I had a partial hysterectomy but already had a child and I was cool with having one. After 23 yrs of marriage to a cheating male crossdresser of a husband, divorced and I will never see my daughter again due to her being in a different country. But I met someone much younger than I who wants to take care of the rest of my days peacefully.

@l.fischer1737 9 ай бұрын

I’m sorry about the shock and betrayal from your cross-dressing ex, but is your daughter still with him? I hope that you get to see her again, and that she isn’t with him. Best to you, I’m glad that you are okay!

@theindigopapillon3495 9 ай бұрын

I always thought I would have children. Between not finding the right one and being diagnosed with PCOS, amongst other things, I also very likely would not have gotten pregnant either. I got a dog 7 years ago and like you is the receiver of all my motherly love!! Enjoy your doggo!

@user-jw4jr6pv6h 6 ай бұрын

I couldn't have children and those questions made me and my husband crazy. It was hard enough knowing I couldn't get pregnant but when people ask, I found it very upsetting. I feel your pain and you described exactly how I felt.

@sCASTRODesigns 11 ай бұрын

Oh Tati, you’re so open with your life. I wish you and James (and of course, Puka) all the best on the journey❤️

@carolefrank2234 11 ай бұрын

I had tears during your discussion about not getting pregnant. I’m almost 75 now, but I was in the same situation. I felt everything you do. I’m so sorry hon.

@jann3443 11 ай бұрын

@@carolefrank2234 Me too, Carole! I'm 73 and have 2 adopted children. When I was going thru tests and every month found out I wasn't pregnant, I became jealous of women who were, even my own sister-in-law. But I know now, with hindsight, had I become pregnant I would not have the beautiful adult children I have. God knew what He was doing I believe.

@nikkinoodle539 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing with us, Tati. As someone who has been facing fertility issues and has also chosen to not pursue IVF, it's so helpful to hear someone else say it. You are so loved and appreciated, lady! 💜

@maggiemae4585 9 ай бұрын

I resonate with this. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽

@bethanyd67 11 ай бұрын

As someone with reproductive issues, I’ve never understood how people think it’s so normal to ask people about their family planning😭 bless you for handling it with such grace💗 14:44

@Nikkka82 11 ай бұрын

U kidding right? Why in this world people are declaring their sessual preferences on a PARADE, but Q about baby planning puts you off? Hello?

@amandamustain2868 11 ай бұрын

@@Nikkka82with all due respect, if you’ve never dealt with fertility struggles you wouldn’t understand.

@cookieals6184 11 ай бұрын

@@Nikkka82 u should be able to separate something that someone DECLARES with his free will, from something he does NOT WANT to discuss with you who rudly ask about...

@Nikkka82 11 ай бұрын

@amandamustain2868 you are wrong, I'm on my 10 anniversary of unsuccessful planning.

@Sangeetha6785 11 ай бұрын

Agreed! I think it’s pretty crass to message a stranger and ask about something so delicate.

@christineo7930 11 ай бұрын

I’m 41 and just had my first baby girl Tati! Miracles happen! 💗💗💗

@twilit 11 ай бұрын

she said kindly don’t mention babies…

@louisemarriott1931 10 ай бұрын

She said kindly cease all communication. She meant stop asking about her private business. I don't think she'd mind at all if people wanted to leave a comment to share their own happiness

@Michelle-il2cf 11 ай бұрын

Its so so hard to want something so badly and be completely out of control in the outcome, my heart breaks for you, I know the pain intimately. Praying for you both ❤

@angelasagingessentials6338 11 ай бұрын

As someone with 10 years sobriety, a felon on my record from 17 years ago to a completely new person it is soooo extremely hard to not think about the I should’ve’s, could’ve’s and wish I would’ve’s!! I find gratitude in my growth, and that to me is so rewarding!! Every single person should always wanna have growth, in my opinion that is what I always strive to have!! I wish you everything in life you want to happen Tati!! The younger Tati looking at you from your vanity never imagined the growth that would happen, she’s proud of you ❤❤

@daphnieconnell9593 11 ай бұрын

We do recover love! 11 years myself and I feel this! So many would've should've could've but life is to dam short to beat yourself up moving forward and living life to the fullest is where it's at ! Life is to short and Flys by to dam fast ! Congrats on ur great success

@KatieBSewCrafty 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations on your sobriety! Definitely something to be super proud of.

@KS-wr4vv 11 ай бұрын

Amazing ! It’s crazy how we really are completely different people sober. You just can’t have regrets! Congratulations to you!

@jenndube1791 11 ай бұрын

Hi Tati! I love that you’re so open and willing to share your life with us. You’re a beautiful woman both inside and out! Sending you lots of love and continued support . 💕

@edwina9473 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so open about what is going on in your life, Tati! It must be such a strange feeling to talk about your private struggles publicly, but you did it with such grace! Thank you for inspiring me to keep some pictures of myself as a child around. I have always struggled with horrible self-talk, chronically really...and I'll try anything to think of myself even just a little better... I'm trying to purge the negative from my life each day and maybe asking myself if I would say those things to the little girl in the picture will help, it's worth a try! Thanks so much and I wish you all the luck in where ever this crazy but wonderful journey takes you!

@cassylow9418 11 ай бұрын

I'm glad you've asked people to stop asking about babies..... I've struggled with my own journey and have made the decision not to pursue it but the questions from others hurt a lot....... Whatever your journey is we wish you love and happiness 🥰❤️🤩

@Mari92313 11 ай бұрын

I’m sorry that people have hurt you for asking such personal questions. I don’t know why people have to ask these type of personal questions. If someone does not have children it does not give them the right to ask. I personally hate asking this and hate to hear other people be so nosy.

@20PINKluvr 10 ай бұрын

@@Mari92313old people often do because that is how "they make conversation". Same with them asking if we are dating anyone 🙄

@wends2110 11 ай бұрын

Not us crowning you a fashion blogger for how amazing this production, modeling and styling is! Yesssss Tati!

@ABCEggplant 11 ай бұрын

Right?!? Like, where's the modeling contract? She could sell everything on QVC. Quick couple shows over a few days, well all the things, be creative, make all the cash!

@brutalhonesty6742 11 ай бұрын

@@namantherockstarDon't beg to be noticed by strangers. You're only being taught to seek validation through others.

@holleysullivan2461 11 ай бұрын

Agree ❤❤❤

@jenlauren143 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your life with us throughout the years. So many ppl feel comfortable asking even though they know it’s an uncomfortable topic, and I’m sorry for that. You & your family are incredible people & I wish you all the best of luck with everything. ❤

@radarlover77 11 ай бұрын

I love these videos when you are so raw. You are beyond relatable on so many subjects and I appreciate that. I find myself able to refocus and regroup on my own battles. Thank you for the inspiration! Sending many blessings your way!!

@rachelm9925 11 ай бұрын

I do not normally comment. I don't think people understand the reality of how hard it can be unless they have been there. I was in that situation for such a long time, everywhere you go there are reminders. You are not alone and to air it publicly... Wow you are very strong ❤ I can't tell you how much admiration I have for you

@SimplyCheryl 11 ай бұрын

❤❤ have waited forever to hear about ivf. You deserve all that happiness in the world, whatever that might mean for you!!

@rocksanne58 11 ай бұрын

She's not getting IVF done.

@karjad 11 ай бұрын

I think how you talked about your process with family planning is a really good perspective and took a lot of courage to share! Praying for blessings, comfort, and strength in this season 🫶🏼

@theartofmomma9383 11 ай бұрын

I love this life update! You have just blossomed so much in the last couple years and I am here for it!! 🙌🏻

@mariaechaburu5690 11 ай бұрын

She’s right, we should NOT be asking each other when we will have kids. There’s lots of other questions it’s 2023.

@monim4428 11 ай бұрын

And some people just don't want to have kids, its my case and absolutely ok 😊

@thithi8793 11 ай бұрын

@gala9593 10 ай бұрын

Thats just dumb why not ? Of course u dont ask a total stranger but why would be so bad to ask just dont get it.

@20PINKluvr 10 ай бұрын

Im childfree as well and I get so annoyed when people ask me if I have kids or want them. I've never had a maternal instinct in my body and hated babies as a kid.

@anootnoot7192 Ай бұрын

⁠@@gala9593 some people are sensitive to the question for a number of reasons. in my case, i was diagnosed with a condition that usually comes with infertility issues, and the older i’m getting, the more i think kids are annoying. so yeah, when people ask if i’ll change my mind or if i’m going to consider, i get annoyed. either way, it’s really none of your business whether or not a person wants to have children. ask better questions. having children is not the center of the universe, nor is it life’s purpose.

@PenelopePeriwinkle 11 ай бұрын

Omg I love the pics of little you. Great idea. I’m in my 50s. Your grandma is right. I had my kids at 38 and 43. I’m so happy it happened when I was older. Makes you stay younger longer ❤

@marleebenn 11 ай бұрын

Totally agree with your view on the hardest part is getting over what you thought your life would look like. It’s like grief but also re-envisioning what your life could be

@BloodSweatandFears 11 ай бұрын

I was not able to conceive throughout my 20s, no birth control at all. All of a sudden at 32 I got pregnant with my first and now at 34 I’m having my second. Every woman’s body is different ❤ sending love and prayers to you and your family Tati ❤ 🙏

@lynettefinnigan9540 11 ай бұрын

Same, we had just gone on the wait list for IVF and suddenly..pregnant, miscarriage...pregnant, baby, pregnant, miscarriage, pregnant..baby... so I spent about 4yrs being pregnant but ended up with two healthy babies.❤

@thandinh2447 11 ай бұрын

@tridocao143 11 ай бұрын

@DeviIiciousAngel 4 ай бұрын

Omg sameeee, had my first at 32 and second at 34 ❤❤❤

@BloodSweatandFears 4 ай бұрын

@@DeviIiciousAngel 🥰🥰

@ambermullins6158 11 ай бұрын

LOVE a neutral eye look!!! 🩷 You handle everything with such poise and grace .. it's so appreciated! You're an amazing woman!! 😁

@SiriMor1980 11 ай бұрын

I absolutely understand the feeling of missing the train ❤ We went through years of trying, many rounds of IVF and were approved to be foster parents. Then disaster struck... IVF had triggered my undiagnosed endometriosis and it quickly went to stage 4 and spread like wildfire through my body. I went from healthy, functioning, being in talks of placement of baby girls (sisters) to one surgery after the other for the past 4 years. Now 5 years down the line I've lost my uterus and ovaries, my health is completely shot, there's inoperable endo that has completed destroyed my body where the function of my left leg is in jeopardy. I feel like we missed the train. 😢 The heartbreak of not being a mom will forever be in my heart. 💔 As I know you have endo, I absolutely get if that makes you hesitant of going down the IVF route. It's definitely a risk with endo, and there are unfortunately many like me with this outcome.

@fabiolacano6950 11 ай бұрын

My heart goes to you❤

@aprillovesjulio 11 ай бұрын

I am so sorry you went through all of that. My heart goes out to you and your hubby❤

@Cjean821 11 ай бұрын

Sending you love and blessings for all that you’ve endured. Keep strong 🤗

@odapunkt 11 ай бұрын

My greatest wish for the longest time was also to have a family, to be surrounded by life and hope for the future, and to be able to give someone the care that I never got. It feels weird when that longing expires and a brutal reality takes over. That being said, if you are able to let it go, something new and amazing will find you. I have a new magical life now, different from what I ever expected or wanted, and yet surprisingly better and deeper than any of it. Sending you prayers that you find your truest joy and purpose ❤ Much love!

@IloveGermany00 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I don't think enough women talk about how dangerous IVF can be for your health and mental well-being. Sending you lots of strength and I hope you can eventually fulfill your dream of having a family. ❤

@kS-yw6sg 11 ай бұрын

Prayers to you and James, Tati! My husband and I went through similar heartbreak too when wanting to start a family. I feel your pain, I too did not even think of infertility when wanting to start a family. No one I knew had ever been through anything like this so it was hard to process and deal with, felt so alone. I have faith that one day your family journey will come full circle No matter the path. 💚

@user-oo8kt1zp2r 11 ай бұрын

I'm so excited for you to do fashion and makeup! You are such a role model in many ways. I've done Ivf 5 times and throughout these years you have come on here and said the same things I feel, as you did today, its like you take the words out of my mouth. It's nice to hear someone say the things you think and feel. Wishing you the best with your new fashion blogging journey! You're so elegant and perfect for this!

@susanmorris-smith5509 11 ай бұрын

100% support you adding fashion to your show Tati!!! Truly appreciate how vulnerable you are here… be blessed young lady 💕🎶🎉🤗

@BBDD. 11 ай бұрын

I love the whole idea of “learn from your choices” vs “learn from your mistakes”. We make sooooooo many choices just in 24hrs and they affects every part of our being and not all of them are mistakes per say. My mindset is now to learn from my choices. Thanks Tat! 😘💚

@jennistone8740 11 ай бұрын

Tatiii 😩😩 you literally looked like Barbie trying on these clothes. You are so incredibly beautiful and all the pieces looked gorgeous on you ❤️

@suzieb4087 11 ай бұрын

I just wanted to say.. you’re literally the ONLY makeup influencer I watch regularly these days, and I love your content. Keep it up Tati!! ❤️

@mosoho 11 ай бұрын

I’m here for any and every single thing you want to share with us! Tati, I love the stage of life you’re in right now. ❤

@Sam-zy7vj 11 ай бұрын

I relate so much to every single thing you said! I also appreciate the advice because I’m working on seeing things from a better perspective too. You should be so proud of yourself for maintaining this outlook. Thank you for sharing ❤️

@ariadnaligorria4582 11 ай бұрын

Really happy to see you trying your best to live and love your life as it is. Keep going Tati, truly happy for you❤

@diversebeauty370 11 ай бұрын

I can’t even imagine being in your shoes with all you have going on over the last few years and being in the public eye. I am grateful you shared your personal side. I can’t speak for everyone, but for me it was well received. Sending you lots of positivity, love and prayers through all of the layers of your life. God has a plan ❤

@takishasage-freebeautyzone 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for letting us into your life a bit. I know it's not the easiest to be vulnerable on line. I pray that your trial goes well. I will pray for peace on your ttc journey.

@TomassonJakob 11 ай бұрын

I know LA wasn’t a good time for you, but the energy that you had during that time, is coming back and I love it. You’re getting more into fashion again and I love that for you. Much love 💕 keep your head high and can’t wait to see what the results of the trial will be! Praying for you ❤

@rachelgonzalez630 11 ай бұрын

You’re a breath of fresh air Tati. Forever wishing you the absolute best!!

@HelloKittyCuttie3 11 ай бұрын

I love when your share your life journey! I am struggling with infertility and it’s always comforting to hear you talk about it. I love that your taking charge of your health I’ve also been among non toxic lifestyle changes and love hearing that we are growing togther ❤ sending you all the love Tatti can’t wait for the next video

@kalishajnz 11 ай бұрын

I really loved the silk pants that flowed like a skirt. When I saw the price, I was like, "Wow", but then I saw the material and I understood. Plus, it's a timeless piece that can be in style for years. Please give us more fashion. 💜

@ziarabobzilla 11 ай бұрын

Yes, 100% agree. Many other KZfaqrs promote fast fashion.

@kristinapella 11 ай бұрын

I was like "gulp" 200 bucks for pants...

@anetehofmane 11 ай бұрын

What I really want to know is how they looknafter the first and fifth wash, does animal fur stick to it, etc. I don't like when influencers are doing the try on hauls of what they bought when clothes are in their best condition. I need to see how it looks after a few wears.

@TheAmyG 11 ай бұрын

@@anetehofmaneI bought lilysilk before and it fell apart after 3 wears; even with hand washing, not worth the high price tag.

@sarahglaze7988 11 ай бұрын

@@kristinapella right? As if those $219 pants aren't 4-5 bags worth of groceries from Walmart. Timeless or not; people are struggling to live. I love Tati but this was tone deaf.

@chelseahuntstrickland2286 11 ай бұрын

Another glass half full thought….. You are in a position to financially afford to fix your ceiling etc!!! That is such a blessing! I had a house fire and then a flood 2 months later. I’m still living in house while it falls apart around me bc I can’t afford to fix ANY of the damage! Love you and your content! It’s all going to be ok!! At least that’s what I’m telling myself

@wednesdayaddams7066 11 ай бұрын

You are right! Houses are so expensive. I am so sorry you are going through this and hope all goes well ❤

@michaelocampo9786 11 ай бұрын

I'm living for fashion blogger Tati! More of this content please! ♥

@vantruongthi9105 11 ай бұрын

@allisonhancockpresley6247 9 ай бұрын

My husband and I gave up TTC officially when I turned 39, after 12 years of trying everything short of IVF and a surrogate. It did bring me so much peace letting it go. We had our multi-rainbow nearly 2 years later completely out of the blue. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you guys. Lots of prayers for you.

@jessicaalsum 11 ай бұрын

Love the partnership!! I have definitely changed how I buy my clothes and I’m trying to buy quality pieces over cheap fast fashion so I’m so excited to check them out!

@nevraelisaveta7009 11 ай бұрын

Watching. I've been praying for you, and I've been so happy since you've been on KZfaq. It wasn't the same without you. I'm glad you reconnected with us too, an old subscriber, I can so relate to the baby thing... xo ❤

@peytonfamily9535 11 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for this video, Tati! I've been having a particularly rough couple of weeks and listening to you is so inspiring! What you've been through, your outlook, your bravery, the lessons you've learned, have really helped me to see things in a better perspective. I'm in a tough season of life with a lot of "whys" too, just feeling very confused and frustrated. Thank you for reminding me to strive to grow through trials and get out of the funk I've been sinking and feeling stuck in. Everytime you open up and share what you're going through and learn, it really helps me. I wish I could give you a big hug!!! Love you, Tati! God bless!💖💖💖

@ashleyann4154 11 ай бұрын

I love that you’re branching out into fashion! I loved the pieces you showed (especially the flowy pants). It was disappointing to see that when I went to the website it was way out of the every day woman’s price range and some things only have three sizes. I hope as you continue branching out that you can partner with more size inclusive and affordable brands!

@theneenscreen8887 11 ай бұрын

That’s so beautiful that you keep your childhood pics near by to remind yourself to have positive self talk. I like that. I’m def trying that.

@deboramobers 11 ай бұрын

My grandmother was thought to be infertile, she moved across the world for my grandfathers job. And then she got pregnant at 39, huge shock to everyone and no one believeded it at first!!! My aunt, same story but had to get her uterus removed and decided to not adopt. My aunt and uncle have the most amazing fulfilling life, both have amazing careers, traveled the literal whole world, saw so many cultures, they go on so many vacations. Life is amazing, you have to make it amazing with whatever cards you are dealt. Much love and admiration for you! ❤

@sirene8898 11 ай бұрын

Tati i think the best is still on its way for you i can feel it. Your inspiring us with your growth and i cant wait to see you continue on this journey. We love you and cant wait to see what your future brings.

@ginad2827 11 ай бұрын

Loving the Lilysilk clothing! Thanks for the life update, too. Happy for you that the litigation will soon be behind you.

@moniesmiles2647 11 ай бұрын

Tati please gives us updates about the trial when ever it's safe to! ❤

@ShellySavesTheDay 11 ай бұрын

Can’t wait for you to be in the peace glow. Sending you so many positive vibes ✨💕

@sydelperez15 11 ай бұрын

I love this channel more and more with time! Thank you for sharing these issues with such grace and candidly

@smiley27b 11 ай бұрын

Praying that all goes well & in your favor through trial! I totally understand not wanting to pursue IVF. Lots of love, Girlie! Love these chatty vids❤

@KatDavisonPhotography 11 ай бұрын

Hope you are thriving you beautiful human. Thank you taking along your life journey with you. 🙏🏼✨🤍 Sending good vibes.

@tracymay6702 11 ай бұрын

Tati is going through so much, but she is dealing with it really gracefully and looks like she is able to find joy. Proud of Tati, I can learn a lot from her.

@sofiajo5732 11 ай бұрын

love this new content!! all of it! the fashion, life update, tips and tricks ¡EVERYTHING! I'm here for it

@af3893 11 ай бұрын

Negative self talk is very hard to overcome. Thanks for this great tip on curbing that unhealthy pattern ❤

@EMILYHERRERA 11 ай бұрын

Omg, I was stuck in litigation from 2018-2022, & it's such an absolute nightmare. I understand the excitement of going to trial, and I hope it goes well for you. Being able to move past it is so huge.

@meganswem1554 11 ай бұрын

So much love to you Tati!! Thank you for sharing your heart with us! ❤️❤️❤️

@BrixHouseBooks 11 ай бұрын

I’m so obsessed with the closet set up I’m so here for this

@BrixHouseBooks 11 ай бұрын

Okay also I’m obsessed with the eyeshadow trick of not bringing it all the way out cause I literally was looking at my eyeshadow when I did that this morning and I was like this isn’t working for me anymore. So going to try this!

@RonaGalvan 11 ай бұрын

I’m turning 35 and in this season of my life, I’m really into neutral makeup one focusing on lighter everyday makeup with a focus on skin. If I want to look extra polished, I do a winged liner. Please post more videos about fashion. I would love to see your input and I loved all your choices with Lily silk. Can’t wait to see what you come up with!

@ginac9124 11 ай бұрын

Thank you. You didnt have to open up but thank you for opening up for the fans that has been with u since forever ♥️

@PerfectPinkiePants 11 ай бұрын

Yay for fashion content! And also thank you for the serious talk and for reminding us to be nice to ourselves. Having a hard time and feeling sad is normal, but it's also important to lift yourself up again after being in a funk for a while.

@SarahLeaf 11 ай бұрын

It makes me so so happy that you’re living out your creativity and not afraid to explore different avenues!! So inspiring and it’s making me think about what I can do for my channel😍 Keep up the great work sis♥️ lav youuuuuuus😘

@asiajadabrt2880 11 ай бұрын

I love the Fashion Update and Fashion Session! AMAZING 🎉 I truly enjoy all fashion, beautiful video!!! We ❤️ you, Tati!

@poisonivystar 11 ай бұрын

Love your life updates. You are just so honest and funny.

@Nightfawn555 11 ай бұрын

I didn't watched your videos in a whiiiiile, but I'm blown away by the fact that you are one of the few youtubers ,who is truly real and aging with grace and not running into surgery / fillers .I'm just baffled and all my respects is yours❤

@janelleodionu3631 11 ай бұрын

Why are you baffled lol. Tati is a naturally beautiful woman. She doesn't need fillers. She is still a young woman. Lol. She can wait another 10 to 15 years and then reconsider. ~

@lauraesposito2509 11 ай бұрын

You make me feel so energized and joyful with your positivity and grace… Tati you will always be number one! Love you❤

@janelandrews9150 11 ай бұрын

I love this! You’re so sweet to let us into your life! ❤ I love your style so excited to see it! 😍 would love to see your fashion dupes just like your makeup ones! You NEVER let me down with your recommendations! 👏🏻

@chelseareviews300 11 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your pain. ❤️❤️ You have so much goodness and joy ahead of you for your life.

@shannijones4587 11 ай бұрын

Reading the comments of every woman going through what Tati is going through has me in tears. May you all find peace and happiness. Sending all of you my love and warm thoughts. May God bless you all.

@AccountingDirect 11 ай бұрын

I am on my second round of IVF. It’s very hard when friends & family ask about it. You are not alone! Thanks for opening up.

@kelliintexas3575 11 ай бұрын

Same here. It's literally a grieving process. It's like a literal death. So so hard.

@AccountingDirect 11 ай бұрын

@@kelliintexas3575 Agreed!

@labelle716 11 ай бұрын

Praying for your miracle, thanks for all you do!

@aprilshowersmayflowers 11 ай бұрын

Tati thank you for sharing your story. I realized at around 35 that being a mom was not my path but like you, I started to envision my life in a different way. I now see that life without children can be just as fulfilling - travel, rescue animals, adopt - whatever your heart desires! Trust life and follow the path to happiness :)

@lb8141 11 ай бұрын

You were such a cute little girl ❤ Glad you are speaking to yourself in a loving way. We are own worst critics and can be so cruel to ourselves. I am going to do the same thing. Put my baby pictures up and make sure I speak to myself in a loving and kind way. Thanks so much for sharing ❤

@jstarASMR3103 11 ай бұрын

Been watching you since 2016, I always pop in for these life update videos. Love you girl🩷🥺

@norunnladstein4219 11 ай бұрын

Loving your different avenues! ❤️ Thanks for the life updates 💕

@FortuneTarantola 11 ай бұрын

I lost my dad to cancer in January and initially spiraled into bad habits just so I wouldn’t have to deal or feel the pain. I was so unhappy and decided in June that I would pour all the love my dad had for me into myself, mentally and physically. I feel the best I’ve ever felt physically and my mindset is much more peaceful. I am definitely in my glow up era too & have been treating myself to new clothes because I’m so proud of how far I’ve come. Life is what you make of it!! Thank you so much for sharing! I always say you’re my internet big sister & I wish you all the happiness in the world 🤍🤍

@Aly_2014 11 ай бұрын

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@FortuneTarantola 11 ай бұрын

@@Aly_2014 thank you 🫶🏼

@maureenolson9609 11 ай бұрын

So glad the trial is coming up, and you can put it behind you!

@thetrailwalkers 11 ай бұрын

I always love your chats Tati!! Goodluck on your kids journey 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@estefaniapalacio9951 11 ай бұрын

"you have to deal with it, you have to move forward" - yessss! love hearing from you and your positive outlook. young tati is looking at you from your mirror so proudly

@MsK_in_CA 11 ай бұрын

I can relate so much. I’ll be 44 later this year and have mourned the loss of ever becoming a Mom. In 2018 I was diagnosed with cancer and I’m currently fighting cancer for the 3rd time. Treatment has put me into premature menopause. We came to terms with our reality. Then in June, my treatment team said I was pregnant. Turns out it was a false positive (which is exceptionally rare.) But it brought back all the emotions that I thought I had worked through. However, my husband and I have decided we want to be Willy Wonka. We want to find those kids who are driven and passionate and pour into their lives. We plan to mentor them, help them with school (or other resources) and ultimately we plan to leave our modest estate to some kid who is currently a stranger.

@thelastnashie8811 11 ай бұрын

It’s so hard. I’m glad you’ve found your path. I’ve had three losses and basically given up at this point but I’m really struggling to accept it

@DnAMcD 11 ай бұрын

Praying for you that kick cancer's ass 🙏🏼

@alaynalynn5228 11 ай бұрын

❤Love

@jananir77 11 ай бұрын

Yayyayayayaayyyyyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉. Love the fashion content. I’ve been waiting for Tati to do flashing make and lifestyle all together! I’m so here for this.

@Bibliobelle_ 11 ай бұрын

Tati, you are so elegant, even through pain and that is inspiring to me. ❤❤❤

@hannahboone2211 11 ай бұрын

Honestly it's so amazing to see you with your sparkle and creativity back✨ we missed you and love to see you excited about new adventures!💕

@alejalongoria7002 11 ай бұрын

Yay!! I love hearing about the clothes! Her style is so up my alley!😍

@x3lea866 11 ай бұрын

I love you showing us more fashion stuff! You are so elegant and I’m 32 and have been wanting to grow up and elevate my wardrobe and it feels hard to find inspiration thats in that category!

@michellej5616 11 ай бұрын

Photos of little Tati are ADORABLE. Love to you and your personal family decisions are absolutely none of my business. Have a great time with your family visit!

@amylouisedyson 11 ай бұрын

Tati I for one love to see you so happy & enjoying life, me weekly tan off/exfoliate has been with you in the background for years. I look forward to your videos every week and I feel like I’ve watched you evolve into such an amazing person! I’m not sure how many other people on this platform can say how deeply connected we feel with you! Thankyou for sharing with us always! We love you and support you in whichever avenue life takes you in! Big love xxx

@betttylicious5521 11 ай бұрын

I loved the tip of having pictures of ourselves to remind us to be kind. Thank you!

@mollee_llama 11 ай бұрын

Yes. I actually had a full on cry session after that. Great advice.

@trishadickman169 11 ай бұрын

Had my first baby at 41 via IVF. Then got pregnant naturally at 42. Sending all the love and support

@cw5451 11 ай бұрын

That’s wonderful! 😊

@alissamcdonald5253 11 ай бұрын

Hi Tati! Proud of you for setting boundaries and putting your peace first 💗💗 ALSO I love the fashion partnership!! Excited to check out the website 😊

@Sarah_Spang 11 ай бұрын

Loved this update video, Tati. Praying for you and James that God blesses you with a baby 💖 love you and so glad to have you on KZfaq! Also, the messages video sounds like fun 😅

@alijohnson1904 11 ай бұрын

Hi Tati! I love the changes you are making! I recently switched from true crime podcast over to the Huberman Lab and other healthy living podcasts and started making small changes just like you and it’s made a world of difference in the way that I think and act throughout the day! I love seeing changes in real time and it gives me the confidence to keep going! Love this for both of us❤

@cassandrawinters 11 ай бұрын

I loved this video Tati 💝 I wish people wouldn't ask so much about fertility. Thank you for your honesty and I wish you all the love!

@rebekahpreveau1172 11 ай бұрын

It's so hard when people tell you just hang in there or it will happen!! when they don't know what you've already tried or are privately going through, even when it's with the kindest of intentions. I'm in the same boat and just giving it over to God. I hope he blesses you with peace and comfort throughout this process. You're doing great in how you're handling this on the internet! 😊