Sanjukta mam thats very nice if both the people helping each other and understanding. But in my opinion husband should not use wifes earning for mantaining family. Whatever as earn it is her own assets and if she try to help in mataining family from her account that it will be a charity. And charity is unacceptable for everyone.

I will help wife to reach her goal with full throtle but without expecting charity as because charity will make me feel uncomfortable

@@shaktiborah2928 no if a males salary is used as a facility for the family and everyone can ask for money from him the same way a female's salary should also be used the same way for house and even for the family members equality should be both ways not only for one side 😊😊

@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 bhavy mam my ego will hurt if i take single peny from my wife. whatever she earn its her own assets.

@@shaktiborah2928 now thats Ur male ego because my ego will never get hurt while I be taking money from my husband and same I would expect him to do after all money is to be spent

I want to know the essence of marriage as per your view?

@Pankaj Das nhi bhai sabki expectations hoti hai. Agar aap apni wife se expect krte ho kuch to wife ka bhi expect krna hak banta hai bro

After knowing to cook also some boys don't do anything after marriage...they expect their housewife to do everything as the husband is the earning person. With teaching work, we need to change their mentality.

@@shrithishetty4646 I think if you do something big in your life then no marriage is the best solution.kyu ki shadi karangi to responsibility to lene padrhegi Ager nahi le sakte to shadi mat karo. Or change your mantality kahe ti ha kya aap apni mantality change karengi.har baar men ko kyu mentality change karni padegi.

@@rafalodeaogo3032 shaadi ladke bhi krte hai to responsibility unko bhi leni hai...koi nai.bol raha ladkiya kuch nai krengr...baat mil baantke.karne ki hai!

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

Y can't men cook n take care of their clothes.. she should have been assertive when she was not working

Double dholki hote hai aise log !!!

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

@@shaminipushparaj5382 and what would be her contribution. If he was providing all the income y should should he do the house work as well.

@@kerriekupar6466 I didn't mean women shouldn't do household works..Atleast when she is sick..she can ask her husband to help in household chores..also she could have been part of decisions making and advice husband when make wrong choices...but most women don't do that..saying I don't earn I don't want comments on these...But eventually as their work, it becomes Hard to manage both family and household, it comes out in the form of frustration and when a hard earned money is not utilized properly they ask questions...which is later considered to be arrogance ..it's completely women fault if he case..she would have spoken her at being husband will not judge the wife..they'll not feel wife is arrogance...yes I do agree some women attitude changes after earning but not all..some just get frustrated of taking up everything

So cute....

You can at least clean the dishes or do sweeping and mopping. You should help him out in ways you can.

Wow how lucky u r I only raise my voice he beats me like animals

My too lucky Touchwood

and he unluckiest to have you

@@anuragsharma6471 That is for my husband to decide.. not you.. you can't decide for my husband .. he has his mind of his own .. you keep your mind where it requires ..no need to decide for him .. Thanks but no thanks

No matter how strong we males become...We are born from you females...You all give us birth...Females are the strongest...✊✊

Yes women should also start marrying husband of their equal... equal height, equal strength, equal salary and women should also pay equal bills of house also..women should marry husband who earns same salary ......women should not marry husband who is having more height than her or richer than her....only this way we can bring equality...

@@debayanpal3181 This made me cry 🥲thanks for the thoughtful comment in this country where crimes against women is out of control. Surely your mum must be proud of you 👍

@@pk417 konsa crime according to women commission of India 80% case of dowry are fake 70%+ rape cases are fake Ab plz eha pe victim card mat khelo

Ghanta

archana prathap at least you are honest😀

Don't be jealous. Working woman is also not capable enough to handle both. As you can see in the episode she handles only office. Working woman is compromise with her life, children and home. You are very lucky because you are free to do your own thing. Your husband is bound to give you financial support. But in case of working woman it is not. Working woman has not time for her children.

@@hamzashaikh2099 i disagree with you, working women makes time for her kids, she gives them undivided attention. Work is not only for financial reasons, it helps with personal development too.

That is because both are full-time jobs and one cannot do both without sacrificing something in the process. No wonder the family unit has been destroyed ever since the Women's "Liberation" Movement

@@deepikaravi637 why does family unit have to be managed only by women? It is "family" so everyone has to pitch in and make it work together

@Pankaj Das u said that we want so called "mota paisa kamane vala pati" 😂 no one wants that man if we can earn "mota paisa" ourselves why do we even need our husbands to be a rich doctor engineer or anything else. We just want a husband to be soft at heart know how to respect a woman should know how to cook and Even cook for us after all why only girls work inside and outside if we work both ways even he should be working both ways. That's solve.

@Pankaj Das it isnt my fault mister if u haven't seen gud girls or I must say gud ppl. And I don't understand why u makes always complain about ladies not doing household chores. I know many males who work at home and in house too and manage it very nicely they don't make their wives leave their job they even manage their children and family with their work they aren't against shorts o anything. Not everything is about divorce and fakeness u r toxic in nature I guess this u see fake and toxic things around u I have mostly seen gud man mad woman ur gud person and thus I feel that equality in rights and opportunity is normal may be for u a section or community sacrificing everything for other community from which u belong is normal (because u r selfish) but I don't care though I hope I don't get toxic ppl like u near me 🙏🙏🙏

@Pankaj Das and yeah taking care of ur child is not ur partners responsibility taking care of ur parents is not ur partners responsibility because even u don't take care of ur partners parents. And don't say that I do or I will do if I get married in future because I know that u aren't gonna live with them u arent gonna take care of them u arent gonna help them with everything from making food for them to listening to them at whatever time they need u so don't expect the same from ur partner u may get a gud partner who do all these for ur parents but if u arent gonna do this for her parents then don't expect at least and expect only if u are actually gonna live with her parents the way they want u to live

@Pankaj Das ok so first of all, I know u arent a woman urself and thus u may not know many facts it's totally ok but yeah knowing those facts from a woman would be better. A woman when gives birth to a baby takes leave as even she can't straightaway go for work just after her delivery and so she takes leaves for months and yeah a baby needs mother's milk for 6 months and mostly all mother's take 6months leave specially who opts for an operation delivery because their wounds takes time to heal. And I guess u don't know anything so I would suggest u a serial u can watch it on SonyLiv as it was a part of Sony Sab it doesn't come on the now but when I was small I used to watch it. Its name is Mrs. Tendulkar and I sway it is even better than Thappad or chappak. Watch it and u will get all ur answers regarding a child's upbringing and all because I feel that I can't cover up a whole thing in just a comment. And yeah totally a kid can get indulge in toxic friendship and can do bad deeds in scl for that education is needed but it isn't a mother's work to teach her baby everything and if it is then u have no right to call that baby urs because except giving that baby ur sperms what else u have done for that child? And now I am asking who will take care of the child when the wife is in office and then u will ask for a babysitter for ur child instead of leaving ur job otherwise u will expect ur wife to leave her job. Now I am asking how can u expect this from ur wife if u can't leave ur job for ur family? And yeah if u don't want to live in ur wife's house why should ur wife be living in ur house she should live with her parents na and take care of them and u and ur parents can live with them but no then ur ego will get hurt if she will.live with her parents in ur house won't her ego get hurt? I am asking here again if u can't leave ur house an ur parents for ur wife's parents then how can u expect the same from ur partner? U guys expect everything from ur wives in the patriarchy and khud tumse kuchh hona ni h 😒 Btw my views arent toxic as they r based on the principles of equality they can never be wrong but urs aren't based on it and thus I said them to be toxic. And yeah I hope u don't get a wife like me and I don't get any person like u. And yeah not all girls who avoid sindoor and wear shorts, drink or go to bar I wear shorts and I won't avoid sindoor but yeah I will only wear sindor if my husband wears it. But I don't drink and I am against drinkers irrespective of their gender.

@Pankaj Das ok so I read all the paras u wrote and I went to a point that I am not an extremist but u are definitely impartial and biased. See first of all if u r jobless IAM a dropper adn we haven't told this to any of our relatives because I know that they will make it such a big thing that I am not in a cllg and I left my cllg just within few months of joining it. And yeah that's true I have done that just because I know my capabilities and my ego definitely got crushed there and it definitely depressed me and so I went to find a cllg where ppl like me belongs to. But if I tell that to my relatives they would say the same things that ur relatives say to u. So it is equal in my family whether u r a boy or a girl if u couldn't find something till an age u r a failure and that's what I believe and thus I feel ashamed to say that I am a dropper and thus my biggest fear is to be unemployed and thus I am not gonna leave my job for anyone who comes in my life. Secondly I am not an only child of my parents but yeah we all are girls so we have been brought up with the principles of equality. We are too a conservative family my father is against shorts but when I am wearing it he can't do anything except watching it or screaming on me and if someone screams on me I can scream with more louder voice than him☺️. So yeah there is no one to take care of my parents after my marriage so I would rather live with my parents after marriage or I won't marry anyone and living in someone's house with my parents that will.totalky hurt my ego don't I have my own house to live with my parent that I need to live in someone else's house? Thirdly Acc to ur so called vaidas a wife should get sati after her husband dies are we following it nope. There are many things that shouldn't be done but are written in vaidas. I must tell u one thing here sindor na bhi lagaye to pati sach mein ni mar jayega and yeah talking about our sanskriti u said that Ur wife should be wearing saare or suit then what if ur wife says that u should be wearing kurta and pajama even outside home and should be fully covered with kurta dhoti only would u really do it nope then how can u expect ur wife to do all these things that u r not gonna do for her?? So yeah it isnt that I am living in a liberal world but it's u who are being too conservative about a woman and then u say that u arent extreme of any end huh🤷🏻‍♀️ I am not if I were at extreme ends I must have expected my husband to earn more than me make all the things for me in home Wear kurta pajama where as I can wear shorts living with my parents and making him a ghar jamai and making him leave his parents making him wear sindoor bad all that stuff that his mother would have asked me to wear. But I know the diff of imagination and practical world. I know expecting ur partner to be gud at things u can't do is wrong. And thus I would never ask for a husband having six figures salary if I don't earn it and if I am earning that much I will surely expect him to earn at least that much. I would never tell him to cook if I know I can't cook I would rather keep a maid to work at our home. I would never ask him to be ghar jamai I would rather ask him to leave his parents if I am leaving mine. I would never ask him to wear sindoor or traditional.clothes if I am not wearing that and if I am I would definitely ask him to do so and same for the other things. And yeah if ur thoughts doesn't meet with someone then u should not marry and these things should be cleared before marrying someone why to destroy someone's life talk to the person about these things before marrying.

Yea...

now a days husbands are not dependable on women that she will take his shirt out from wardrop, preparing breakfast, dinner etc etc.

Right khushi ye mard khud ko boss n wife ko bai ki tarah treat karte hai bloody man

@@shaktiborah2928 many boys are these cheap mentality ki ghar ka kabhi n khatam hone wala work ek woman ka hai

mata rani kuch gadho ko chod le sab apne se hi lete hai.

After my father passed away my mother worked very hard to bring me and sister upp ....but I always missed my mother's love ,I always wanted my mother to be with me everytime , during lunch time in school I used to look at other mothers feeding their kids and so on My personal opinion a women should work if the family doesn't have financial security , if you are working for identity then think about your kids , love can't match money I love my mom , without her we would have been on streets but I miss love from her , and I don't blame her ❤️

@@charanr8038 I am very sorry Yes you are correct

i really support u..

Ryt

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

Exactly

@FAIZA MALYAT does it matter? Won't u talk without knowing their identity, haan? Kyu gender dekh ke sochna padta h what to write?

The man can make his own damn food and take out his own bloody shirts!! Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, you're a doormat if you don't agree with that.

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

@@sameerkhan-vl2yk so if the husband can become arrogant so can women. The issue is husband can't digest that even wife is earning. N when wife start behaving like husband, divorce happens 🤣

Lvda

True

Yes

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

​@@sameerkhan-vl2yk it's shows about your thinking.. not all working women is arrogant some are it's there in their nature but they hide because they have to be dependent on someone...but in most of the case women get frustrated when they and also have to take care of the household and children all alone.. Who told rich man doesn't marry a career women...most of them marry a well educated women...who also become they business partner and shareholders who advice and share ideas about growth of the business get some knowledge

@@shaminipushparaj5382 whatever i said is true , You object to my comment because you are a woman, a liberal women.

Aur saath me aisi ladkiyon ko ((((ab)))) ye b sikhaya jata h ki tum job krogi to tum ghar ka kaam nhi krogi..... aur wo b shadi k baad koi b kaam nhi krna chahti....to prob dono side se hi h.....

@@Programmer_cum_Designer Kyu kre kaam?? Tum log bhi to krr skte ho... ghrr ka khrch jbb do logg utha rhe hai to ghrr ke kaam ka bhojh sirf ladkiyan Kyu uthye.... Change ur mamma's boys wali mentality...

@@prakritigupta5640 to mat kro kaam, koi force to kr hi nhi sakta aaj ki date me.... ye baat bas jab rishta kro to saamne b rakh diya kro quki baad me jab ye pta chlta h to boht der ho chuki hoti h, i hope samjh gye honge aap.... aur haan daddyzzz gal...apne bete ko banana biwizzz boyyyy👌👌👌

@@prakritigupta5640 aur jab do log utha rhe hote hn na to ladkiyo k pass choice hoti h ki wo ye responsiblty na bhi uthayein aur ek time aisa b aata h jab maternity period aata h tab kon chlata h ghar tab to husband b khana bna k khilate hn wives ko, isliye ladko k pass choice hi nhi h ki ghr me baithe wrna rashan paani kaise aayega aur ek ladki kabhi ye nhi chahegi ki jaise wo ek husband se expect krti h ki ghar me maid lgwa do.... long trip aur air trip krwa do..... shopping krwa do aur bas aram se ghr pr movie serial, kitty parties kr lo.....same reverse me b soch k dekho jra..... agr ye responsibility ladki pe daal di jaaye fir to pta nhi kaya mat hi aa jaye.... jabki aadmi to kahta h ki tujhe bahr ka koi kaam krne ki jrurt ni main hun na sab krne k liye... jabki biwi uski jagh kabhi nhi sochegi wo bas apne fayde k liye divide krne ki baat kregi quki uski ichha h bahr ka thoda sa kaam krne ki..... jab usse ghr wala ek side ka nhi hota tab itna kuchh rona dhona hota h, agr husband ka bhi krna pad gya to wo to koi mushkil hi kr paaye aur na hi koi ladki dekhna chahegi aisa.....ab conversation win krni h to koi haan b kah degi but ye sachai nhi h aur ek do aa bhi jaaye rich women to exception se kuchh nhi hota..... kudrat me men women k saath mixed gender b hote hn.....aur kai baar ladke me ladkiyo ki qualities aa jati hn and vice versa.... so agar baat rakha kro to saare end se soch kr rakho isilye ye jo femenism h na ye fail h..... isme equality nhi h bas gyno centric thoughts hn......

@@Programmer_cum_Designer pehle se Kya btana hai... Tum logon Mei khud smjh nhi h Kya ki peit sbke pass hota hai.. sbko bhookh lgti hai.. to sbko khana bhi to pkana hai... Aur rhi baat maternity leave ki to wo paid hota hai.. atleast achii companies Mei... Abb tum kisi mazdoor ki to baat nhi Kroge naa... Itni to aukaat nhi lgti hmari.... Aurr sirf leave tkk nhi.. bachee ki delivery ke baad bhi dono ki responsibility bnti hai bachaa palne ki.. abb tum bolo ki ye bhi shadi se pehle bta dena chahiya tha... Abee tumhe akll nhi h Kya ki jbb paida do logon ne Kiya h to sirf maa thodi palegi... diaper akele whi thodi change kregi.... Itni iq to kamzor nhi hoti purushon ki ki itni baat bhi uhne pehle btani pdee

@YogaYog 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 lol agr ek ladka apne income ko leke wife ko hamesha nicha dikha sakta hyn to wife kyu nehi dikha sakti??

YogaYog may be some girls are like that but not everyone...I keep seeing a lot of men generalizing and putting down entire women community which is not right..I have seen few men respecting women and supporting them in all aspects of their life...

Samir Das I have actually seen such men who taunt their wives everyday!!!

YogaYog I don’t think that we need to think that way..we cannot point out anyone’s life cuz only that person knows what’s happening with his or her life...pain is a pain for everyone ..girl or a boy!! Now a days all parents are trying to make their daughters also responsible to their family by giving them quality education so that she can also contribute to her family...but there are few men who don’t let their wife’s work inspite of she having a good qualification and on top of that taunt them everyday that he is the only bread winner of the family!! I am saying such men don’t have a right to taunt their wife’s...

YogaYog 🙂 agreed

He is a henpecked person

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

Marriage is based on the oppression of one gender over another. It's a power structure. There never was any point in marriage

@@syaorandoter123 humans descriminate with other animals Having logic and emotions. Without that no difference from Animals. Society and marriage Support healthy lifestyle upbringing children.mutual Understand help good foundation to future.

Iske liye apko apni family se baat karni chahiye....And be Positive Jitna Apni Life me Criticizm Sahoge utna Uper uthaoge because usme apko Pta Lagega ki kon apko Appreciate karta hai and kon apko Nicha dikhata hai and apna career kabhi na chhode..

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.

Aameen

Mere shohar bi aise aunderstand kare dono me aameen

aameen

vaibhav tiwari ammen ka math lab ya allah yasab kaboul farma

Chehra cover kiye bina ghar se bahar nhi nikalna chahiye na , aur saath me husband , father ya brother inme se ek hona jaruri hai . islam se hi sikha hun yaar

Bht jyada

@Pankaj Das Excuse me? Fake feminism? Let me tell you, you're a fake man! Coz if you were a real man you'd never think in the way you're thinking right now. A women who is your wife is a human too and she's got a life too. She's not your servant, okay? And what do you mean by 'taking care of her husband?' Are you a 5 year old kid sucking milk from the bottle to be taken care of? 😒

Pankaj Das absolutely right .... if man will get this kind of problem so there is no need of this kind of financial help from women.......

Shruti Pandya To meri achchi or Bahot hi Pari likhi gavar behno sadi ke bajaye live in relation me raho. Sex ka sex milega or ajadi bhi milegi.. chahe baad me vo banda free ka baby de jaye bagair baap ka jo apko wardrobe se shirt to kya gar se muh Bhi bahar nikalne ke kabil na rakhe.. Apko to Maje hen Maje....

Rich man dosen't marry a career women. all these happens in the poor and middle class families. when a women earns her own bread she becomes independent and arrogant. Rich people know this very well. where a middle class man sees it as second income. ''A TOXIC SECOND INCOME'' And as far as the poor and middle class are concerned, they get divorced later due to attitude of a women.