My husband has refused to get a job - 𝐇𝐄𝐋𝐏 𝐌𝐄! ( A question from Melissa B)
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3 жыл бұрынHey guys! So, Melissa from our Ling and Lamb Fam dropped a comment asking for us to address an issue she is currently facing in her relationship. We hope our advice and personal experience can help you and hubby… and as always, thanks for being a part of our Fam❤️
If you guys want us to address a relationship issue you are facing, just drop it in the comment with your name and location!
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*This is great for teens, men and women (consult with your doctor/dermatologist first as we are not doctors and only recommend from our personal experience)*
#LingandLamb #Relationship #Advice #Work
@darlinecalixte8677 3 жыл бұрын
You both are so inspiring! I wished I had the courage and focus to of followed my passion. But I am afraid at my age it may be a little too late. But I thin k, I will go for it anyway.
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Never too late, Darline. We believe in you and support you. God bless. Ling and Lamb 😘
@darlinecalixte8677 3 жыл бұрын
@@LingandLamb Thank You 🙏🏾❤
@shantigettys3484 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. With kids and life now. I'm scared that I don't have the focus I need to complete my goal.
@stephaniavertus3180 3 жыл бұрын
@@LingandLamb uuijiiikkkkkoo
@veestu9308 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I’m too old and don’t think I can pass the program. Or the entrance test. I want to prove it to myself so bad.
@rhapsodyofrealitiesai 2 жыл бұрын
My takeaway “No job is bigger than a job that puts food on the table for your family” - thank you Lamb for this quote
@emmatumusiime5837 2 жыл бұрын
Very sobering...adulting indeed
@sipiwemutemwa4733 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@shermzzunstoppable1304 3 жыл бұрын
I'm just imagining lamb as a home health AIDE. That patient would be the happiest patient.😂😂😂
@favouredwoman87 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 funny people are very good for this Aide patient, they need the happiness too
@queenvictory6916 3 жыл бұрын
Lots of laughter lol 😂
@hadijahamal1350 3 жыл бұрын
UN IMAGINABLE! LAUGHTERS AND HEALING SOONER!
@tommyhaukedalhansson2797 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed specialy for a person with bad appetite, the patient would start eating again in no time,
@emekaahamefule2211 3 жыл бұрын
This story really helped, but u know some jobs most especially in Africa and Nigeria to be precise, can't really cover ur Tfare for the whole month.Some ppl take them so they could just leave the house.
@morningstarsupportiveservi8726 3 жыл бұрын
If you are too big to do small things,then you will be too small to do big things...... Thanks Mum for making me realize this early in life.
@nonzimambeta3144 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that, amen!🙌🏾
@vaneese85 3 жыл бұрын
I agree so much with you guys. I came to America from Jamaica and my first. job was at a dollar store. I barely made ends meet but it was something. I moved across state from NY to New Jersey for a job at a clinic. I met 2 nurses. One a Nigerian and the other a Jamaican nurse. They both encouraged me to go to nursing school. Today I am a nurse and make decent money. I have my own house, car and I am comfortable. The bottom line is we have to start from nothing to get somewhere. I am so grateful for those two ladies to this day.
@nfj0108 3 жыл бұрын
You all are absolutely right with this advice Ling and Lamb. My Nigerian husband heard me listening to you all and made me start it over. He noticed that what Lamb was saying is the same way he felt and I was like Ling. I wanted him to focus on attaining his goals that he set for himself while I worked. I made enough money but he was determined to work and I became upset when he didn't listen to me. My husband is next to me co-signing everything Lamb is saying. He said that's a real husband. He is still talking about Lamb as I am ending my comment. You two people Rock!!!👏🏾👏🏾
@graftedinforever971 3 жыл бұрын
❤
@valmab1 3 жыл бұрын
Okay well sassaz
@nanvon937 3 жыл бұрын
❤💚💜💖
@gr8tone332 2 жыл бұрын
Honestky, am impressed with this couple
@adebanjoolayemi875 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a Nigerian man too, I just don’t feel comfortable living a life without working while my partner works, it’s make me less of a man, that’s my mentality though.
@Joshmirhez 3 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I'm commenting since been a subscriber. I don't know why but this feels more than just a KZfaq channel. First we get pranks, then "unnatural comedy", Food trips (a lot), family time and now a personal advisor? What more can you get... great content. Deserve all the love.
@redrubbies8598 2 жыл бұрын
What can I say they have been blessed to bless others!
@AZA4256 2 жыл бұрын
You are not alone
@monicamagoti8725 2 жыл бұрын
I like the way you match and your advice to others. 🎁.You make people laugh♥️🎏
@lenfantcheri159 2 жыл бұрын
Josh I wish I could like your comment 1000x ...100%agree ❤
@pipinm2214 2 жыл бұрын
I was watching them on Tiktok and didn't know they make such wonderful vidoes, now I am in love with them, God bless them.
@vekitten8322 3 жыл бұрын
My pastor always says, just because he has a beard doesn't mean he's a man, he could still be a boy.
@warriormaiden9829 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, my husband always says guys don't really grow up, they just get more expensive toys. XD Bless that man's heart, he's taken care of myself and both of our boys quite well, despite how dorky he can be at times. 😄
@4lifeEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Trueee😅😂😂
@nicmak1974 3 жыл бұрын
“Sometimes God will put you in certain positions to connect you to someone who will take you to the next level” I needed to hear this today so much. Thank you guys🙂
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
@yvonnemoore5513 3 жыл бұрын
May all things work out for you. God Bless.
@arethamorgan6613 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Used to work a psych unit, one of the workers took a liking to me. Through her, I was able start working in a clinic. A clinic which her daughter ran. Oh, and it also included some great benefits, along with $3.00 in pay.
@yetpraiser 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@brianw9944 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb preached a whole sermon with that line right there! A whole sermon and choir selection A and B and a standing ovation selection C. This is a good man right here, Lamb is! I pray my daughter finds someone like Lamb, whoever God has for her, may he have qualities like Lamb. Wow! I’m impressed, Ling. You found a for sure keeper. God did that just for you, sister. :) won’t He do it?!? Won’t He do it!! Blessings to y’all both.
@EdLife11 3 жыл бұрын
I am 39, I have never been out of work. I have worked as a cleaner, housekeeper, security, then I met a colleague who suggested I do a course and I now work for a government department. For me a job is a job, I don't care about titles. When I worked as a security, the salary was £40,000/annum but whenever I tell people, they say you are just a security. But it pays well at the time. Once you get out there, do something, from there you will find the right opportunity. Staying in door and playing PS5 won't get you anywhere.
@jimohmuradiff7861 3 жыл бұрын
Good talk !
@paulobot9481 3 жыл бұрын
Facts ,but why you hating on the ps5😭😭
@EdLife11 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulobot9481Just used it as an example. He might be working on the next big thing and not even playing games.
@realtalkwithphil 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@tonycannig5746 3 жыл бұрын
@@EdLife11... am sure Paul was just "playing" with you, after all, he is a Gamer !!
@ezehenry194 3 жыл бұрын
I truly enjoyed this video. Similar thing happened to me. My girl is European and I am Nigerian. I remember at a point I was unemployed, my woman was doing everything and even helping me pay back a loan I took while in Nigeria, I was super worried and I kept telling her I can never be okay watching her do those things all by herself. She kept telling me to calm down and pursue my dream but I told her I've lost passion for that dream, I just want to earn money and support her as well. I eventually got a certain job at a warehouse where I load and unload heavy boxes from 8pm to 8am, was hectic but I had to do it until other doors opened, not there yet but still hoping for better days.
@kimberlyharvey8876 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you are helping out and not standing on the side lines. As eventually a person will tire of pulling the load alone. I am just surprised this man refuses to work at this point. Very sad indeed.
@elsastuckman6052 2 жыл бұрын
Keep going, you will get there! Just stay focused 👍🏾🌞
@amazingtopics6894 2 жыл бұрын
You are on the right path. Everything big starts small. Good bless you.🙏
@TA-qm2jf 2 жыл бұрын
Pray that God opens the right door for you at the right time🙏🙏
@janellcrews6108 2 жыл бұрын
As a woman I'd like to say we do things for the people we love. It's really not a big deal for us as long as the people we help don't take advantage. We love knowing we can take care of the ones we love because we can be in the same boat. We never want the ones we love to lose sight of their dreams. Life goes to fast and as long as that dream is being worked on and not forgotten all is ok. Just don't forget what you wanted out of life.
@luandary 2 жыл бұрын
“...because when they pay me, I know how to save.” An important factor attached to working diligently even at a job we don’t like.
@samueljones9214 2 жыл бұрын
Lamb loves Ling so much he went behind her back to get a job and Ling is so supportive of Lamb ...Thats true love and loyalty
@genag4484 3 жыл бұрын
Great points Ling and Lamb. If Mr. B was single he would work to provide/take care of himself. Marriage is a partnership not a solo act.
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
SOO TRUE 🙏
@adefisayogloria5144 3 жыл бұрын
Yes oo
@GeeTeeUkah 3 жыл бұрын
Look, until your passion starts paying the bills, take it as a side hustle.
@taylormichael7776 3 жыл бұрын
Preach
@Eka5304 3 жыл бұрын
Fact
@WavyPK 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is underrated. This is straight up facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@thecareersignature4228 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@RedemptionzSon 3 жыл бұрын
This reply is everything. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@franklinchavez2358 3 жыл бұрын
I love this guy , this guy is a real man.
@stellasulwe 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb…we know that African Mothers Reset / Restore Factory Settings slap 👋! It comes with the Windows XP Start up and Shutdown sounds! 😂😂😂 On a more serious note, your counsel to Melissa is sound! Great job, A-Team!
@quietlionwhp2609 3 жыл бұрын
I got checked reading this, i have been there .... 😆 🤣 😂
@ruthaaron1735 3 жыл бұрын
i know that slap, when it comes it comes when u least expected it and after some minutes u here a ringing sound .
@multihublogistics5348 3 жыл бұрын
So the African Mothers slap is same allover AFRICA
@cynthiaWalker5226 3 жыл бұрын
I got pregnant at 18! I had my oldest son 3 days after I turned 19. The job that I have now, I have had for the last 21 years! It’s my 28th job because I have worked for 36 years to support my 2 sons. Yes they have their dads in their life, but I believe that we all need to have our own! The Bible says that a man who does not work does not eat!
@thoseabsarenotmine1002 3 жыл бұрын
So you have two kids??
@KETOInTheKitchenWithJasmine 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. True
@immanueldavids489 3 жыл бұрын
@ Fit pascal so that's your take away from what this aunty wrote 😂😂
@thoseabsarenotmine1002 3 жыл бұрын
@@immanueldavids489 🥳🥳🥳
@marysherrill2994 3 жыл бұрын
That is a LAW that I live by....." A man who don't work is a man who don't eat!
@AbelVarneyMcKing85 3 жыл бұрын
To the point guys, he doesn't love her because if he truly loves his wife he will do anything that comes his way to put food on the table. Because that's what good men do.
@barringtonmorris90 3 жыл бұрын
Nah fuck that. Its whats a Man does. Good or bad.
@jatashiejohnson8468 3 жыл бұрын
@@barringtonmorris90 That's what a boy...a manchild does.
@aliciacruz5957 3 жыл бұрын
Yes a real man would step up already and get a job, help his wife out, THEIR FAMILY. WTF IM REALLY SURPRISED SHE PUTS UP WITH IT. TO EACH HIS OWN.
@royalacity 3 жыл бұрын
That's what functioning adults do. TF.
@rebailey5599 2 жыл бұрын
Alot of foreighn men who get this 90 day visas ect always expect the woman to be rich n take carw of them because they are lazy even after they get approved for work ect refuse to get a job still..all because of laziness not saying all im saying some..help him find a job ect tell him to start a buinsess ect ladies stop taking care if these "men" it should be 50 50 to build your dreams
@christy9766 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Nigerians typically ...are beautiful orators...they explain with great detail and care...and I appreciate it so much. I love you two together.
@laurabobb2893 2 жыл бұрын
Please never stop with this forum. I am an educator. I see many men of many cultures doing this. You are truly an God send inspiration for men and women.Even though I am an American, I have travelled to Your country Lamb Fell in love with it.Yes your cultural society teaches men should work. # love Nigeria
@giftudofia8121 2 жыл бұрын
Nigeria loves you right back.
@kehindemonicaolurankinse8396 Жыл бұрын
Love you too. Thank you for loving us, Nigeria.
@maddmaxx6730 3 жыл бұрын
My wife is my biggest support and I love her, we both do whatever it takes to pay the bills and save for retirement.
@funkie0490 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb won't kill me with laughter 🤣😁😂 Mr Melissa B
@tokunbohodubanjo5301 3 жыл бұрын
He faced him squarely and addressed his message to the imaginary Mr Melissa B!🤣
@lannettesantanaslife8289 3 жыл бұрын
Those are man that live off of excuses, ive been married for almost 20 years, my husband got in trouble when he was young, mistakes happen and it has been hard for him to find a job in what he went to school for but has never given up. He has always found a way to provide for us, has never gone without a job, he went to school for jobs that should be paying him a lot of money, but they refuse to give him an opportunity based on something that happened over 17 years ago, yet he still provides for me and our children and never ever makes excuses. I think she should tell him either go work or go on your own because as long as he is comfortable, he will never get his butt up and work.
@josephinesobers7422 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree 💯
@stephanies2982 2 жыл бұрын
So true about God putting you in places to make connections & more money! I was working in a crappy daycare for 9 months and hated it so much that eventually had to put in my 2 weeks notice & quit. I was heartbroken only because I had become very close to the kids in my classroom. Two years later, 3 of those children & their families are the only people I work for. I get to make my own schedule, work based on reference, & take care of some new siblings that have come along in the privacy of mine and their homes. I love my job and the position I’m in now. When God closes one door, he opens the biggest and best doors! 🙌♥️
@stephanies2982 Жыл бұрын
@Oscar Thank you! Praying you will be successful one day too lol. ☺️
@CookingwithMs.D 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb has a lot of wisdom. He gave her good advice.
@wildsoulcobra342 3 жыл бұрын
earning a small amount is better than nothing, calculate all that time, you know how much you could achieve with that portion
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
SOO TRUE 🙏♥️
@imarim3749 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I did small gigs that brought small money, but eventually turned in oppurtunites that equal to big pay. Don't sleep small money if you keep a hustle that once small money starts to pile up especially if you invest it.
@GoScience123 3 жыл бұрын
yea idk why he dont wanna atleast work part time and go to community college or take some certification. not working and just staying at home depending on others gonna make u more depressed and make everyone whos helping you hate u.
@citizenofdaworld7582 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you for the advice
@j.n.8153 3 жыл бұрын
My husband completed writing his book because I supported him. Our spouse's can achieve when we support one another.
@ayishastewart8735 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad Lamb is working, because I was wondering how the hell he was gonna fund his fast food/takeout habit 😂😂😂
@charlesnyong5692 3 жыл бұрын
They are married does it matter whose money it is? As long as they have an agreement on how to spend it. It's cool in my opinion. Anyways no body know how they source their livelihood
@ayishastewart8735 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlesnyong5692 ugh it’s a joke 🙄😑which everyone apparently got but you. Please don’t @ me 😑
@pinkorganichorse 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayishastewart8735 didn't sound like a joke to me
@ayishastewart8735 3 жыл бұрын
@@pinkorganichorse don’t care what it sounds like to you
@jacquelynwilliams9988 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes
@nonjabulonxele4070 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb is an African to the core. A clap will bring all your senses back 🤣🤣🤣🥰♥️
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
SOO TRUE 🙏
@patomo2964 3 жыл бұрын
You mean the customized manual reset right. Lol
@josh.k.7279 3 жыл бұрын
@@patomo2964 yes the African reset mode😂😂😂
@nylnyl. 3 жыл бұрын
A " slap " you mean .... 😂
@superbweirdesttv9164 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah man Lamb got that right. You know here in Africa; parents don't to much use speeches for corrections. Lol😄
@Bravebeauty22 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb said it best, you do not know what God can do! I had to take a job as a cashier paying slightly over minimum wage after college, but applied to 100+ jobs while working there for 8 months. I met someone through family members that helped get me a job that was in a different field. However, I loved it and have moved on to get my master degree in that field. I am now in a great place. Sometimes you have to take what you can get and make the best of it.
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@kimberlyharvey8876 3 жыл бұрын
I did the same to provide for my family. I am so surprised they are still married. That is just not kosher and insane to me.
@Coolkem1 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes God gives you a small opportunity to test how you will handle a humble position, before opening bigger doors for you. The parable of the master giving talents to his servants is an excellent illustration. This has been my testimony as well. Be faithful in the little things and God will give you bigger things. Much love ❤️
@hazelanglin5907 2 жыл бұрын
Lamb has so much wisdom, a man needs to support his family
@FShexa 3 жыл бұрын
Forget! LAMB IS FULL OF WISDOM AND EXPERIENCE! I love him!
@AFO_AnalyRics 3 жыл бұрын
"Doing something big" is often one of the biggest distractions from the things that matter the most.
@AkosMusings 3 жыл бұрын
This is so freaking true, LORD!!
@Idahtv1 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@cassandra.a 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Working a "job" right now while going to school to get my degree to work a "career" feeling like a failure because other friends got their degrees awhile ago. But I am taking care of my family with my job. Thanks!
@User-gj3rk 2 жыл бұрын
Im in ur shoes too..dont worry..we will get there
@fhenlizhao5406 Жыл бұрын
Don’t get discouraged! The way someone told me is this “everyone will stand alone so it doesn’t matter as long as you’re constantly working on improving “ 😁. We will never have the same journey
@barakaabdullah7731 3 жыл бұрын
That's how it is with my husband and I right now. I'm in the army and was station away from new york city, our home. So when I moved to Fayetteville, NC my husband had to come along with me and leave his well paying job. He had better aspirations but his job in New York was good at helping him pave the way. But here in Fayetteville, minimum wage is 7.50 and my husband vowed not to do it because it was 4 times less than what he was making before. So he continued searching and found a better job working from home because we have a 19 month old now and he couldn't work during the time I work and we didn't want our baby at daycare. So now he's able to work from home part time and watch our baby.
@MastermindElizabeth 3 жыл бұрын
We grew up poor, my mom taught us, 1. Own a car you always have a home. If you have an apartment let the gas and all utilities go but electric, with a electric pan you can boil water, to bath cook n have lights. I have worked as a maid in a hotel, fastfood, so many low wage jobs, up to 3 at a time. I raised my baby n others like this. I can no longer work I lost my vision from aventis. It's been a battle to keep my vision. I have severe SLE lupus. My body is so broken but I will get up and work again if someone gave a chance.
@MastermindElizabeth 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry uveitis
@barringtonmorris90 3 жыл бұрын
Wtf?
@gabyzico669 3 жыл бұрын
@@barringtonmorris90 bro😂. This comment was depressing as hell
@barringtonmorris90 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabyzico669 facts. This is not the TLC network.
@tamekaharris3604 3 жыл бұрын
@@MastermindElizabeth God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@vincentbowers6747 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb is a gifted artist and a world renowned activist. He’s respected!!
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN🙏♥️
@kathryndupe7732 2 жыл бұрын
And God has given him a beautiful humble gift as wife. it's awesome
@melanienowlin6206 2 жыл бұрын
And humble enough to work ANY job to take care of wife and home. He is indeed an amazing man of integrity.
@aranriechristiana6902 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb really proved the Nigerian he is🤩 his hustle spirit is top notch and that put me to tears😢 having a man who caters for his home at all cost is a divine blessing. Indeed, Ling is blessed . Love you both ❤️
@lilianobi9731 3 жыл бұрын
Lamb!! Meek and mild Lamb!!. I just goggled you and saw the amazing work you were and still doing back home in Nigeria. Lamb might be a nick name but it just says you. Meek mild and humble Lamb!!. Ling!!! You are just an epitome of Womanhood. You are "Lambent, Inspiring, Natural and Graceful." I learn many new things anytime I watch both of you. Just natural. You are both filled with wisdom and impacting lives. May The Almighty keep you both. Amen!
@1kmphillips 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly, her husband might not even listen to a voice of reason on the issue if he’s waited five years to work! Praying that a miracle happens and that he softens his heart and develops a heart to take care of his family! A man who doesn’t work shouldn’t eat!
@calitomms22 3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@sophiacherrington6765 3 жыл бұрын
@@chriskewe4238 that true
@aliciacruz5957 3 жыл бұрын
Lazy and that right there is no respect for his wife, his family, HIS OWN SELF ESTEEM. It's not cute and it's not funny
@sylviamushinda6364 3 жыл бұрын
People are forgetting that they are you tubers and get paid it is not like he does not do anything completely
@pchin388 3 жыл бұрын
Laaaaammmmbbbb!!!!! YOU are such a humble, beautiful, respectful human being!!!🙏💞 God bless you & your precious wife, Ling🙏🙏🙏💞🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
@mariaaramos2512 3 жыл бұрын
My African brother! You keep sharing your wisdom!!!
@christineharmon2766 3 жыл бұрын
Such a good man. Such a good woman. Love when 2 good people find each other!! ( Ling, still hoping you can find me an older version of Lamb!)
@charmyni8847 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@christineharmon2766 3 жыл бұрын
@Charmyn I why are you laughing? I’m serious!
@adekunleomole 3 жыл бұрын
You should go to Facebook and add Nigerian old men as your friends. We know how to express love to our women
@christineharmon2766 3 жыл бұрын
@@adekunleomole yes but too many scammers! Ling has great taste and would trust her judgement.!
@adekunleomole 3 жыл бұрын
@@christineharmon2766 unfortunately, you're right. It's nice meeting you, I'm Adekunle. Can we become friends?
@mrsleehenny 3 жыл бұрын
I told my husband not to work as well but he did the same thing. Went out and worked. The worst part was they weren't paying him. Smh. But it was good to see the effort I guess. Men do what they have to at all times. Thanks for sharing guys. ❤️
@buxtonkudakwashe2003 3 жыл бұрын
True guys I was a Senior HR executive but due to the pandemic I lost my job it took me 6 months to get another job which I'm a bit struggling to support my family but as a man I had to take that job at a cloud Kitchen as dispatcher to put food on the table and roof over my head thank you guys for this it gives me hope that one of the days I will get back to my field as HR ,,,,and to MR B hope you will understand from the message of these two lovely Birds that it's not always easy and we always start from low going up high fro what we desire that's life lesson
@dranthony1882 3 жыл бұрын
All the best sir Your name looks like from around here, Zim
@buxtonkudakwashe2003 3 жыл бұрын
@@dranthony1882 yes Bro I'm from zim zvirisei
@dranthony1882 3 жыл бұрын
@@buxtonkudakwashe2003 Zvirinani bro.. aaah it's always nice kusangana nemaZimbo in random places like these.
@buxtonkudakwashe2003 3 жыл бұрын
@@dranthony1882 yes wangu tirimo just following and get some advise zvichiendeka are you in states?
@hamzakamara9034 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks also for sharing your experience and I shall use this mind set if ever the time comes.
@laurabobb9032 2 жыл бұрын
A real Man who honors his wife and his manhood. Men please listen to him. Sowing the right seed. As a women spiritually I love your mindset . Nigerian Prince you are.
@vimbaimush 3 жыл бұрын
Woww, I agree about the connection. That happened to my husband. He just went to a job for 2 weeks and met someone there who was only there for a week, and that was the connection. Things changed.
@logant378 3 жыл бұрын
I love watching these two together... They're grown up and know what it is to live a simple life❤️
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
SOO true🙏
@onucheclement9362 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣" how many is this my flesh" Lamb is a comedian. Lamb and Ling, thank you so much for this video. Laziness should never be encouraged.
@msreeree65 3 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your KZfaq account this morning while watching #shorts and I saw one of yours....enjoyed it and came on over to your page. I grew up under the stern teaching that as an adult...."man" that doesn't work....doesn't eat. This is biblical and applies to both males and females.
@Jewelkraft. 3 жыл бұрын
I was a sahm... For 4 years then i volunteer at a hospital walk in then my daughter school. Then a career opportunity came to me. I'm making more money today then ever before.... We all have gaps of unemployment and that's ok. But being productive is so great for the mind.
@roslinahbh 3 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes God put you in certain position bcos He needs to connect you to somebody that would take you to the next level." ~ awesome advice!! Love it! You two are so lovely!
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
YES I AGREE 🙏GOD is SOO GREAT🙏♥️
@dorrishaynes8349 3 жыл бұрын
If he is an able body he needs to be able to provide for himself and not live off his wife.
@Therealgiantslayer 3 жыл бұрын
I laughed unit I snorted when he said, “I went, and I cried it the toilet.” It got real at that point. It is so sweet how much they love each other.
@mcnstein646 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Same experience.
@christreadway623 3 жыл бұрын
I've always say the job don't make the man,the man makes the job i do any job for my kids. Making money is what it's all about
@tashinganyandoro6924 3 жыл бұрын
as a male person i feel like you should be one of the forces that shows a lady that you are up for anything to keep your HOUSE A HOME. be prepared to get out of comfy zone and scarifies. much love to all
@1handsmoke565 3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏿
@debrasalter3338 3 жыл бұрын
I still think you're missing your calling as life coaches. I love the advice you give. It's practical, logical and put in such a way as to get people to stop and pay close attention to what is being said and how it can apply to their own lives, their own situation. You guys rock!!! 🙏🕊️🕊️🕯️🌈
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks so much Debra. We love your feedback and thanks for watching ✨❤️
@debrasalter3338 3 жыл бұрын
@@LingandLamb Thank you!!! For all you share with us on here. I get excited whenever I see you've posted again. And thank you for taking the time to like and/or comment on my/our posts. ♥️🙏🕊️🕯️🌈
@roxannejob-bayne4169 3 жыл бұрын
I disagree. I think they're actually doing 'life coaching' freely through their videos while others earn a living through it. We appreciate you both.
@emekachizzy7731 2 жыл бұрын
Life coach! You guy’s are awesome!
@AmayaRue2360 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. And the fact that your life coaching has an intercultural flavour makes your target clientele even bigger because both both Americans and non Americans can relate
@KEYBEATZ 2 жыл бұрын
When I was out of work I did jobs in didn't want to do until I got the job that I really like! And pays really well
@Lifewideview 3 жыл бұрын
So spot on my Nigerian brother.. and i say it again for the umpteenth time.. God blessed you with a good wife. Both of you were excellent with your advice as if you have been married for 20 years.. The practical example you gave too added flesh to your submission. With a master degrees from Nigerian and also an oil and gas excutive..my first job here was with Home depot carrying boxes so i could relate. ♥️🙏🕊️🕯️🌈
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@kimberlyharvey8876 3 жыл бұрын
At least you choose to work and make a way. This individual has either given up or lost his ambitions. It’s tremendously sad to read .
@blueindigo7690 3 жыл бұрын
Damn. This man hit the powerball multi million lottery with this woman. She's incredible. A rarity.
@lisaphillips9991 3 жыл бұрын
No there are lots of women out there like her. Look beyond looks and focus on character....you'll find her..
@charmcharm2352 3 жыл бұрын
@@lisaphillips9991 yes! So true. Ling happens to be absolutely gorgeous and possesses all of the other attributes for a great find in a wife but there are many out there that are not being considered simply because of outward appearance who are every bit as good! I tell my single friends it's that man's lost who is not seeing your value just because you may not fit the trending "beauty" standard. So many men are losing out because of this.
@aliciacruz5957 3 жыл бұрын
Loves him but soon enough reality checks in
@blueindigo7690 3 жыл бұрын
@@lisaphillips9991 A lot of women like her? I don't think so. She checks off all of the boxes that WE want. From loyalty, attractiveness, being supportive, heart, class, femininity, pleasant to be around, brains, potential mother & temperament. It isn't that common at all to find one who is solid in all areas. As far as looks are concerned...this isn't necessarily true. Men are very visual...and we need to be physically attracted to our partners...just for the sake of chemistry & procreation. But many men could work with average. The problem is...women lacking in this area often don't make it up in other areas. They lack in so many other areas too. The real issue today is that most women have a warped idea of what a man & a relationship is supposed to look like. Their expectations are not based in reality. Have you ever heard the women who call in to Kevin Samuels? I'm not a Kevin Samuels fan...but his youtube channel does provide some insight into the minds of women. The most common thread of the women who call in is that all of them (ALL of them) demand a man who earns six figures. He must earn six figures before they will even talk to him. Meanwhile, she's average and has children (often by deadbeats & bums). This is despite the reality that men earning that much only make up 1-2% of available men (men of color especially). Many of these women get this warped view from watching too many Reality TV shows like Real Housewives of Atlanta...or any other similar programs (the list is endless). They internalize these shows and want to become the women that they see. Some even believe that they are the women they see on these shows. This is a demographic/community phenomenon....not isolated cases. This woman had very good parents...and a good father...and had a mix of boyfriends (various ethnicities) before Lamb. She benefited from her family structure and because she didn't buy into the RHOA b.s. My original commentary stands stronger than ever. This woman is a damn unicorn. She is a rare gem...and I am openly jealous of Lamb at this point...and I would tell him that to his face. 😁😂.
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
You’re very kind. Thank you for the love and support. I pray you find your “Ling” lol 🤪💕 -Ling
@marrygicho4050 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Mr Lamb ,its a matter of using commonsense. I didn't have goob education but am good I do small business and I thank the almighty GOD for being there for me.
@krystal4378 3 жыл бұрын
When my husband got paid from his first job in the us was the last time he allowed me to pay rent. He also doesn't want to stop working and has started delivering food on his days off. I have had to tell him to take the day off and take a nap. He says he needs to work hard to save money and pay for everything. (Yes I have a job as well so it isn't all on him)
@karenc.6450 3 жыл бұрын
I really love your channel, the fact that you are believers, and how you share your lives with others. Continue in your ministry.
@dstreet43 2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes 🙌
@viriacssa2003 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@calledbG 3 жыл бұрын
I so love Ling and Lamb from Trinidad 🇹🇹. This was filled with virtue. So precious
@ashleyaltman6502 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve worked since I was 15 years old and now 38. I just left my job 5 months ago that I had for 7 years and loved the job but needed a break for self care and other reasons but, my husband supported me and so thankful I did.
@ekaeteekop2545 Жыл бұрын
I just watched Lamb's documentary on his prison reform work in Nigeria. And I'm still stunned!! Lamb you are a special being. Keep being you. Then I watch this video and my respect for Ling just hit the roof! You both were made for each other....and for us!❤
@kimlee8768 3 жыл бұрын
As a single woman hoping for "Mr. Right" to come my way, I really appreciate these conversations. I am learning so much! In the case with Melissa B, I believe it's better to earn something than nothing at all. I agree with you both. Very good response Ling and Lamb! I really hope Melissa B's husband is open to this response and make a better effort....xoxo from Jamaica!
@sheliam.asiriuwa9868 3 жыл бұрын
My Nigerian husband is the same way. He's a true man. The struggle is real. How can two agree unless they walk together. LING AND LAMB you are truly a blessing to the young people around the world. Thank you for being such a influence...
@paulajones4260 3 жыл бұрын
I recently found you guys. Your energy is really positive. Just what the world needs.
@ed000 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I call maturity,teamwork and respect= Love @ Ling and Lamb
@calixbrown6709 3 жыл бұрын
Humble beginnings are steps for bigger things.
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN🙏
@allisonregis3106 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my IS IT WRITTEN ON MY FACE THAT I CARRY BOX I fell out my chair lol but I appreciate everything you both said it is the truth God always makes a way when there seems to be no way
@AmericanArgonaut 2 жыл бұрын
You two are touching on issues a lot of ppl are legitimately going thru… good to see.
@estheradegoke9577 3 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet and encouraging. Hard work pays off no matter what. Ling’s achievement of growing to manage the company where she works encourages me to do more at my workplace now. Thank you.
@truezladye1893 3 жыл бұрын
Most immigrants in the UK start with Care work or volunteering. Any job can lead to more opportunities or further education. Great discussion ❤🙏🏼
@Naijamomindiaspora 3 жыл бұрын
Care work in America is different from UK tbh.. 😭😂
@truezladye1893 3 жыл бұрын
@@Naijamomindiaspora Why, is it better or harder to work in America ?
@asanwa3126 3 жыл бұрын
@@Naijamomindiaspora Can you tell us the difference?
@asanwa3126 3 жыл бұрын
I started in retail. New Look. So stop generalizing.
@truezladye1893 3 жыл бұрын
@@asanwa3126 It's more of an observation then generalising, tbh noone really cares where or what people do.
@antoinettet-clarke4841 3 жыл бұрын
Preach brother I hope he’s listening
@cornellandries5325 3 жыл бұрын
Touching. I believe someone listening had a backhand moment. Thanks for the reminder.
@dearjnr9190 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know this side of Ling... I pray that the Lord would give me a wife who is passionate about my passions...
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN🙏
@lovethokafor7394 3 жыл бұрын
Amennnn
@funmilayoolaitan719 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@amalessi6809 3 жыл бұрын
Inshallah God will bless you with your determinations
@noobhunter2986 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@kevinkkirimii 3 жыл бұрын
Ling, I have mad respect for you, this is so encouraging, not many women will support a man's dream in such a financial situation.
@aliciacruz5957 3 жыл бұрын
Five years is way too long for him not to work and help her out. Im sorry. But NO. SMH
@moelaangela3534 2 жыл бұрын
I support mine 😭it's been 3 years now
@Tonyashani2 3 жыл бұрын
That was great advice from a man's stand point Lamb. Your blessing doesn't always come down a straight road, sometimes it comes thru a different route.
@gabyzico669 3 жыл бұрын
I am here with my 32 teeth showing like an idiot😁😁😁. I love you guys🙏🏾🙏🏾
@keneishagardener4923 2 жыл бұрын
You must be Jamaican lol
@dopegirldopegirlyeahthatsm5582 3 жыл бұрын
True supporter when she knows he is gifted with his craft but just having a small moment that will pass them bye that will take them in the direction they know they should be in. Well done 👏🏽🙌🏽
@darlenelane392 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN🙏♥️
@kingtosin1968 3 жыл бұрын
Currently doing the same here in Lagos Nigeria... Though not married but had to take the opportunity presented me to fend for myself and be able to support my siblings the little way I can ... Thanks for sharing your story, was really inspiring.. like we say in Yoruba " isè ni ogun isé"
@gsyl 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Ling & Lamb for sharing this video openly aside from M.B. I love it. The way you both took time to respond shows how much you genuinely care for others. May God bless your union in dumbfounding ways.
@sheldonconk9526 3 жыл бұрын
“How many is this my flesh” 😭😭😭. I really appreciate both of you.
@bfactality1797 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this because at this point I feel like walking away from a miserable job... but can't that's how bad this is, I have to provide for myself so I'm suffering through it until I can do better the nerve of this man. couldn't be me but it is two of my sisters, claiming disability but is healthier than all of sitting home doing nothing all day.
@binderjitsingh4207 3 жыл бұрын
You both are a real inspiration. As Lamb said no job is bigger than the job which provides food for yourself and family. We need to be patient while getting the dream job and keep working smarter to achieve the goals we want
@CliMilsTVunstoppable 2 жыл бұрын
I just love these 2. They are so real and practical and relatable. You guys deserve more
@fgouzaye 3 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful couple. I did watch quite a few interracial/intercultural couple videos and you guys are by far one of the best couple out there. You have no idea about the positive impact y'all having on broken families or couples that are struggling for that matter. You're really fun to watch.
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support and love!
@itskeraofficial 3 жыл бұрын
Ling and Lamb both made great points basically sometimes you have to crawl before you walk 👏🏽💪🏽 I hope Melissa takes the message to hubby and he steps up ❤️ God Bless you both Fav Couple ☺️💕
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl! ✨🙌🏼
@lindajeanetteusikpo7710 3 жыл бұрын
We must learn to drop the pride and become realistic. You Lamb my brother you are loaded with wisdom all glory to God. Ling you r a God sent. People need to learn handwork so that when the big job or the dream is not yet realized they can climb small step to get there. OMW I just love this two. Mr Melissa B better be listening.....
@britzel71 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing advice and I love that Lamb never loses focus on God's ability to guide him.
@Mzmeme8383 3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when he said his manna falling from heaven! 😂😂😂😂
@shawngriffith4138 3 жыл бұрын
I went through joblessness for 6 1/2 years. Ending up doing all kinds of things that were legal to provide for my family. It was not easy but I had to do something to suppliment my wifes' income.
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome, Shawn and we’re so glad to hear it. Responsibly is key 🔑
@tiffaynerichardson3709 2 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely beautiful! Thank you Ling and Lamb! Sharing your thoughts and experiences.
@roselindevi6249 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. You guys are awesome. Straight from the heart. God bless you and increase your blessings more and more.
@davidishola4973 3 жыл бұрын
Hi guys, I'm David, a subscriber from Nigeria, I came across your channel in March and yall have a source of laughter and heartwarm. Your chemistry just has something genuine, something that brings joy, a light to any darkness I may have had during the day, you are a pure joy to watch, long may it continue❤️
@LingandLamb 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, David. This mean a lot to us and we’re happy to have you be a part of the Ling and Lamb fam❤️ God bless -Ling and Lamb
@spring7970 3 жыл бұрын
I understand and respect your point of view Lamb. I was raised like that.
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