I can’t be the only one who finds it weird how people who love their natural curls so much search & actually select a video about straightening your hair only to comment about how terrible relaxing your hair is. Y’all are lame 😂 ANYHOO! My mum usually does mine for me, but with this damn quarantine I can’t fly home so I’m attempting to do it myself at home with the help of my bf lol
@rachel-ig9rw4 жыл бұрын
So true😂😂ppl can be such haters!!
@TheHeavenlyBuddy4 жыл бұрын
Oh god, I’m about to go to college next year and I’m worried that my mom won’t be willing to relax my hair for me anymore lmao 😂😭 Like I’m so scared of doing it myself but I know I can’t depend on my mom to do it for me all the time...
@monie9484 жыл бұрын
bc we want to c how the lost souls of ados hair is fairing. we are out of the creamy crack prison, and we are checking up on our sistahs who r still imprisoned.
@winterromg43734 жыл бұрын
monica webster girl bye
@blspaige3 жыл бұрын
@@monie948 isn't life about choices? Shouldn't we be supporting each others happiness as long as the decision isn't killing us? Why do people feel it has to be their way or no way?
@Itsqetsiyah4 жыл бұрын
I relaxed my hair after being natural for 3 years. I was sick and TIREDT.
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
honestly something i would do 😹💕
@moniquedesi4 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@jasminenicole0014 жыл бұрын
Same😭
@tareika25294 жыл бұрын
yodahchronicles lol same!! I shaved all my hair off 3 years ago and just recently I relaxed it. Most length I’ve retained in my life. I no longer have a wash day, it’s a wash hour!
@yaniquewest4554 жыл бұрын
I'm relaxing my hair in about a year when it gets longer. Simply CAN'T BE BOTHERED
@millennialbx88904 жыл бұрын
This is just me personally, but I got my first relaxer when I was maybe 4 (I’m 26 now) and I have also transitioned and went natural for 5 years. I’m relaxed again. Surprisingly, my hair was a lot healthier and grew a lot longer and stronger when relaxed. I think it’s because it requires a lot less maintenance and less “being in your hair” I think it’s important to just know your hair, personally. Some people thrive natural, some people thrive relaxed.
@jessicab3314 жыл бұрын
kyla woods that’s why there’s protective styling 😐.
@millennialbx88904 жыл бұрын
Jessica B. Exactly. To each their own. In my opinion it’s all just a hair trend, no different than wearing braids or a sew in. Let people have their hair the way they feel most comfortable and can manage the most effectively.
@elizabethmary24394 жыл бұрын
I don't really think it has anything to do with protective styling or not protecrive styling but more so the single knots & tangles that comes with being natural. Its the reason im going back to being relaxed. When your hair is straightened you don't have to worry about those things because there aren't any curls to wrap around each other creating single strand knots & excessive breakage. That's just my thoughts on it.
@toriblackaby22112 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethmary2439 I definitely agree. I’m considering relaxing for this reason. The knots and tangles can get really bad and I just feel like I’m ripping my hair out no matter how careful I am 🙁
@Wedeygist2 жыл бұрын
📠 facts
@insertnamehere91544 жыл бұрын
Ur mom did a great job of not overlapping the relaxer onto previously relaxed hair. She did better than most professional stylist I've seen on KZfaq.
@corinthia68184 жыл бұрын
Finally I found a KZfaqr that still perm their hair all the KZfaq pages I come across is only team natural but I still perm my hair so it’s nice to find videos I can relate to
@xxxxtodavier994 жыл бұрын
Check out hairlicious she still relaxes till date
@astoldbyaja30104 жыл бұрын
Love it I tried going natural for 3 years and once I started my job which is 12 hours I realized I had zero time to care for my curls. Also I did not feel beautiful with my curls and I grew to hate them. Being natural doesn’t always mean you’re going to just love how the hair looks. Relaxing my hair has never done harm to me. I’m sure people can go into depth about the damaging of my hair well whatever I keep it moisturizer and trimmed and taken care of and that works for me. Live your best life people.
@mimi-sb7ff4 жыл бұрын
For all the people that have something to say about this woman or any other woman relaxing their hair has some low lying mental issues. Why would anyone care that much about somebody else hair, just weird......
@breonnajohnson71054 жыл бұрын
Ive been natural my whole life, never had a relaxer, dye or anything.😫 But for some reason I love watching these relaxing videos. 🥰
@Thehustlewithyayaa Жыл бұрын
NATURAL HAIR IS NOT FOR EVERYONE! I AM GLAD WE CAN OPENLY TALK ABOUT THIS.
@godjesus1st7184 жыл бұрын
I always said id NEVER go back relaxed but these videos are very tempting
@MISS.SWANKY4 жыл бұрын
Weirdflower right !!!!
@444shleyyy4 жыл бұрын
Don’t sis. Please.
@lauriesamson4 жыл бұрын
Just flat iron it 😅
@14kgonza4 жыл бұрын
How is this tempting? Looks so damaged. I'd never go back. 6 years natural now and it's so much easier.
@vickifad9194 жыл бұрын
@@14kgonza that doesn't look damaged that is healthy lool works for some
@FayeInTheCity4 жыл бұрын
Are you coating your scalp with Vaseline for protection? I didn’t see that in the video. If you didn’t, you DEFINITELY should. It keeps your scalp from burning and the skin from breaking. And you can keep the relaxer in longer.
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
i use to do that when i was younger but got lazy with it over the past years, i’ll make sure to do that again next time!
@ogechianusi68093 жыл бұрын
Hair food works also really well
@zammy5423 жыл бұрын
How do you coat pls
@arandomloser91602 жыл бұрын
Can I use grease?
@Noodleay4 жыл бұрын
I like my natural hair but it’s too much work. I would spend hours twisting it before bed, loosing out on sleep. Then getting into a decent style before school was a lot of work and I’d go late soooooo many times. My mum decided it was best to relax my hair. Right now it’s not in its best state but with time and care, I hope my hair looks as nice as yours 😄
@jadelove18204 жыл бұрын
Princess May why not silk press 🌺
@Noodleay4 жыл бұрын
Savannah Rose I don’t want heat damage Silk press uses far too much heat
@l4vebot2294 жыл бұрын
Do what you think is the best for you !
@monie9484 жыл бұрын
you cld have just flat twisted/flat braided and wore extensions/add in hair.
@shannonmichelle14854 жыл бұрын
Girl natural hair is honestly like a whole nother job! I am seriously contemplating relaxing back hair I have been natural for close to 4 years now and honestly I'm VERY over it!!
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
i can imagine that 😭
@karinam67694 жыл бұрын
Hey girl I relax my hair too and it's long as eva!! You can have relaxed hair and it can be healthy, but some people don't understand that!! All you gotta do it take care of it just like natural hair💓 your hair looks cute btw!!
@hellohi39113 жыл бұрын
Relaxed doesn't damage hair???
@KShipsAnalysis2 жыл бұрын
@@hellohi3911 no. If you follow the new relaxer movement called healthy relaxed hair
@makaylar31164 жыл бұрын
I recently went natural and I still believe that their is nothing wrong with wanting to relax your hair the only reason I went natural is because I was tired of having to straighten all the time. Girl you are doing an a amazing job at representing the known naturals out their. You don’t have to explain your self to anybody.
@debbiecandice39594 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen a white woman apply a relaxer and boy I tell you , she did that thing 😂🤝
@venisewilliams18983 жыл бұрын
She is not white. She is a black woman with a brown skin.
@Kimxoxo22083 жыл бұрын
@@venisewilliams1898 it's her mom who put the relaxer on, its on her daughters (who is mixed) hair, but her mom is white and aplied :)
@venisewilliams18983 жыл бұрын
Ok. I just reread it. Thanks
@Innerbeauty4U23 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ashab68063 жыл бұрын
@@venisewilliams1898 she biracial not black
@ABCDEFG-um5td4 жыл бұрын
I don’t even relax, but i love this videos, they have such a cool vibe
@lydiahallman83524 жыл бұрын
I love your hair. 🖤I feel like being natural is a trend and end all be all for some people. Hair can be healthy in any state with the right care. I appreciate seeing someone with relaxed hair and how they care for it.
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
yea i’m all for natural hair and love seeing everyone embrace their hair, it’s just not for me right now. thank u love! 💕
@lydiahallman83524 жыл бұрын
I feel that, you’re welcome love🖤🖤
@bulelwashezi45404 жыл бұрын
It's weird that you just called natural hair a trend...like literally the natural state of a person's hair is not a trend. It's not for everyone and that's fine but like, trend? Nah sis. This ain't it.
@lydiahallman83524 жыл бұрын
Bambi x I called it a trend bc it’s wasn’t as common or talked about. Now it’s a must or you get hated on as black women. Everyone has to do or want the chop if you are a black women. If you wanted to take it as insult or weird that’s on you I only spread love🖤
@bulelwashezi45404 жыл бұрын
@@lydiahallman8352 you're fully aware of what you said, I'm not mad, just like if you're going to say a thing don't back out halfway through the door cause you got called out. Nobody said black women hate you for having straight hair. If that's your takeaway then you obviously feel some type of way about it.
@Ronelle__4 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO I hate the fact that I’m relaxed and I feel like I have to watch these videos in secret
@erickalachea34214 жыл бұрын
Ronelle T I feel that, except my hair is natural. It freakin sucks dude 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣
@socialtrash67424 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t be babes your hair is gorgeous any state it’s in ❤️
@KamoreeLove4 жыл бұрын
As a natural hair girl I love permed hair I hair of the person who is wearing it loves it as well 💕💕 don’t let these crazy nut naturals get to you
@dxnma4 жыл бұрын
Ive been natural for 3 years now and im relaxing my hair next week. Cause its not me and 4c hair . It’s stressful mehn. But some people make it work tho.💕 Buttt anytime i relax my hair, i always miss my natural hair 😂
@Candicedickinsonllc4 жыл бұрын
yaaaas that growth . It looks good girl. I also love your moms application technique . It’s so gentle
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
😊💕
@BronzyBina4 жыл бұрын
Girl! I applaud you for being brave enough to post this. People can be so mean (even the “accepting black beauty community”). Your hair is your business. So if you want to relax it, do it. You are a fellow black girl and I support you and so should every other girl. 💛💛 only love here.
@hunnybee_4 жыл бұрын
still blows my mind that people care so much about what’s on top of someone else’s head 🤦🏽♀️ 😩 i’ve had relaxed hair since i was 6 years old, i’m 21 now and i just went natural 5-ish months ago (against my WHOLE family’s opinions) and i couldn’t care less about if someone has relaxed hair or not. 🤷🏽♀️ i just came here to enjoy the video 😂 but, of course, i couldn’t help but scroll thru the comments 🙄 some people just can’t keep their rude and unnecessary opinions to themselves. keep doin you, girl. you’re gorgeous 👏🏽😩😍 ignore all them irrelevant naysayers. do what makes you happy and most confident! ♥️
@nyariesmith44854 жыл бұрын
I just relaxed my hair yesterday and I’ve done it myself since I was 13. I always dilute my relaxer with some kind of oil,Like a single ingredient Argan oil. About 2-3 tbsp. It slows the processing down so you have more time to work it also helps to protect the hair strands from so much damage.
@ynvg_eleya64323 жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@itzscorpiana19432 жыл бұрын
Ok 👍🏼
@amilovexx55784 жыл бұрын
I love watching relaxer videos. I find them so calming I wouldn’t do it myself ever again but there’s no need to insult someone for their own personal choices it’s their hair not yours
@MoMotivation03044 жыл бұрын
I am so ready to start relaxing my hair again!
@idaliarodriguez83244 жыл бұрын
So consistent! Your videos always give me such a chill/motivating vibe too. Glad I found your channel 🙌🏽
@alias60014 жыл бұрын
you sure your momma white?? lol, I’m just kidding! I love when white moms support their kids of color💕. My mom doesn’t know what the hell she is doing lol😂😂
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
haha yea my mom’s always been great with hair! even did my box braids when i was little 😊
@aaliyahjackson97344 жыл бұрын
@Ymane23 ! Mind your business, maybe when Lisa was young and didn't have the option to oppose but regardless that's her daughter, her choice what to do with HER daughter's hair. You really think her mom got with a black man and didn't expect her daughter to have afro textured hair? You bimbos really don't think. Lisa is old enough to make her own decisions at the end of the day.
@aaliyahjackson97344 жыл бұрын
Ymane23 ! Most black women hate themselves for a reason. Perhaps one is being ostracized for simply being😒We are made fun of for the natural features we posses until they become a trend amoungst everyone else. After plenty of struggles, how can some black women not feel self hated. Regardless, the only self hating person here is yourself. I bet you’re colorist too, you sound extremely ignorant and brain washed like the rest of these bimbos. Why did you feel entitled to say what you did? From an open- minded perspective you look insecure and weak. Anyway, have a blessed evening and educate yourself. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@aaliyahjackson97344 жыл бұрын
Ymane23 ! You’re literally wasting my time at this point😂
@martyyymarttt4 жыл бұрын
Ymane23 ! most black people hate themselves? Bitch don’t speak for us because of your own self hate. You probably bald headed and ashy stfu
@Kubulek174 жыл бұрын
If you’re looking for something to get you bone straight you should look into Japanese straightening/thermal reconditioning. It usually is much less damaging than a relaxer and gives much straighter sleeker results. The only drawbacks are the price and the fact that new growth is much harder to hide.
@TanaBoo14 жыл бұрын
Girl. I tried to go natural but it is honestly not for me. Ppl try and push you to be natural sooo bad but they don’t be the ones that have to take care of it. I love my slick hair when it’s freshly relaxed! It’s the freaking best!!! I’ve literally been getting my hair relaxed since I was about 8!! It’s no turning back now.. I’m relaxed and i’m proud.
@Princessdiary2020s4 жыл бұрын
I’m a natural girl and I’ve been for 6 years, but I love your videos and I mean if you choose to be relaxed then that’s your choice!
@divineserenity98214 жыл бұрын
Deep conditioning helped my natural hair become more manageable. I’m mid-back length now and the entire process is less time doing my hair than when I was relaxed because blow drying and straightening alone was a good 2 hour process😂 Natural hair routine: Shampoo and condition and detangle - 20 minutes Deep condition - 20 minutes Twist and curl (6-8 sections) - 20 mins Sleep overnight and take down in the morning Regardless, I’m happy you found something that works for YOU. Please be careful though, the ingredients in relaxers is more of a problem than using the relaxer. The chemicals in there cause migraines, hair thinning and scalp irritation, etc. Best of luck in your new hair journey❤️
@Koireblack4 жыл бұрын
I love that her hair still thick even though it’s relaxed I’m living for it
@DrRisk014 жыл бұрын
why is she so damn gorgeous? ;-; omg
@JS-th7ow4 жыл бұрын
I have 3c hair and I love the texture. But it just doesn’t suit my face. Straight hair looks a lot better on me. I want to relax my hair but I’m kinda scared
@naynayb2364 жыл бұрын
Relax it just use a mild😊
@jessii76424 жыл бұрын
Relax it mamas. As long as you continue to care for your hair while its relaxed you should be okay
@jadelove18204 жыл бұрын
J S silk press and buns🌺
@cece45704 жыл бұрын
everyone in the comments should honestly stop attacking the natural hair community. like tf? nobody even said anything negative and y'all just wanna be like "the natural hair community is so bad blah blah blah its their fault blah blah they bring other people down" like first of all nobody asked her to explain why she wants to relax her hair and for you all to blame a group of people for something she chose to say when it wasn't requested and it wasn't like people were pressuring her in the comments demanding an explanation 😂 I swear y'all love to divide us and belittle each other. stop bringing hate into the conversation when it wasn't there to begin with:/
@vickifad9194 жыл бұрын
But your forgetting the fact that so many natural hair people are the ones coming and saying its not healthy your hair iss damaged so you guys started this
@deesenuts87304 жыл бұрын
Vicki Fad you both are right. People start off blaming when no ones said anything, THIS time and sometime they do pop off first. Its a lot of pointing
@whatsonhermind17683 жыл бұрын
Good point
@whatsonhermind17683 жыл бұрын
Deese Nuts true
@jathzelynfortuna69434 жыл бұрын
You should try keratin or “cirugía capilar” it work the same as relaxer but it makes you hair stronger.
@idabjernemose4 жыл бұрын
Jathzelyn Fortuna doesnt keratin wash out after a few months?
@bulelwashezi45404 жыл бұрын
I've been avoiding relaxed hair for 4 years now, natural is a lot of work but I have type 4c hair so I don't need this level of damage in my life. I wish I could relax with zero damage and just be done with it, I swear I'm so lazy 😂
@07gabsrox4 жыл бұрын
blow your hair out
@mayram47704 жыл бұрын
So depending on ur hair type you’ll get a certain amount of heat damage? What about 3b 3c
@haedingoldsmith66074 жыл бұрын
You could get a curl loosening treatment. I know a lot of people with 4c hair type do it.
@Mini-rt8bm4 жыл бұрын
Blow you hair out once a month and style. It'll become easier. Trusttt. No need to relax. If you want a slicker look then heat train. Way safer than relaxing. But to each their own
@shannonmorris434 жыл бұрын
It’s how you take care of your hair. If you don’t take care of it, it’s going to be damaged relaxed or natural. I have 4c hair and i take better care of my hair relaxed. I always wore weave or braids with my natural hair i never really wore my hair out.
@blvckdork45504 жыл бұрын
Honestly you don’t have to explain what you do. I love watching people do whatever they feel comfortable with their hair. Either way you have your hair it can still your hair can still grow and it still be healthy. As a natural person I love seeing videos like this.
@dig4skullz4 жыл бұрын
Lisa, have you considered a Japanese relaxer? It's different than the traditional sodium hydroxide relaxer. I'm biracial too and have been using a Japanese relaxer for the past few years and my hair is silky, soft, smooth, and reaches all the way down to my butt :) It never burns when I get it done, but it does make your hair PIN straight. My hair won't hold a curl anymore, even when curled with a curling iron!
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
i’ll definitely look into it! 💋
@lolakroes74094 жыл бұрын
dig4skullz omg i was just about to comment this! Lisa: In Amstelveen heb je een salon waar ze dit doen (vgm enige in nederland) en ik kan uit ervaring spreken dat ie haar gewoon hetzelfde is als dat van een Aziatisch persoon, so silkyyy en t werkt ook op damaged (relaxed) hair. Het is wel een investering en de prijs word bepaald op de lengte van je haar maar je hoeft het maar 1x in de 6 maanden te doen. Als je natural hair zou hebben, en deze behandeling zou nemen zou het nog beter pakken en hoef je de stijltang bijna niet meer aan te raken. Just a tip if u are interested!
@niathomas93184 жыл бұрын
dig4skullz can I ask where you would buy this?
@dig4skullz4 жыл бұрын
@@niathomas9318 Oh, you should definitely not attempt a Japanese relaxer by yourself. It needs to be done by a professional in a salon. The most commonly used products are Yuko and Liscio though. I'm sure it can be ordered online, but you'd have to be VERY careful to ensure you don't get a fake product. Honestly, I'd just find a salon that does it and make sure the person you're seeing is certified and qualified.
@niathomas93184 жыл бұрын
dig4skullz oh ok thanks for the note. I will try
@clairemariviv4 жыл бұрын
My hair broke off after relaxing + blow drying + straightening ⚔️never again
@tiaraw8724 жыл бұрын
clairemariviv if your blow drying or straightening your hair EVERYDAY then yeah it will break off even if your natural you will get that same result..breakage
@whitneyayala954 жыл бұрын
I finally realized that relax hair need the same care natural hair need....you have to moisturize and seal your hair every day and put it up in protective styles.
@clairemariviv4 жыл бұрын
Tiara W It was all done at the salon. Hair need a break after relaxing. Iron straightening straight after relaxing is very damaging. She is SO lucky if it works for her.
@clairemariviv4 жыл бұрын
Whitney Ayala you’re spot on 👍🏽
@melanatedforever4 жыл бұрын
Same, I only had a lil on the top my head..😂
@goldencurls29974 жыл бұрын
I use to relax my hair. I’m so happy to be natural now I love my curls and my hair is so long and healthy now.
@paulinefonglyewquee13494 жыл бұрын
I have seen hair that is relaxed, hair is do long and healthy. Whether its relaxed or natural you have to care for your hair to get the same results.
@chingsinjani39634 жыл бұрын
I never understand such comments lmao.
@goldencurls29974 жыл бұрын
Taonga Sinjani I can explain it for you. I use to relax my hair but what I was doing wasn’t really growing my hair, but now I’m natural and what I do grows my hair.
@goldencurls29974 жыл бұрын
Pauline Fonglyewquee I’ve seen relaxed hair too! Lol
@chingsinjani39634 жыл бұрын
@@goldencurls2997 That's great! Honestly. What I don't get is why comment it on a video on relaxed hair... like; what is the point? It may have made more sense under a video about natural hair.. Its good you found something that works for you though.
@Elizmarte104 жыл бұрын
I swear my hair was 4C or probably 4B, was super hard to manage it as I remember. Then when I was 12 my mom decided to relax my hair. Now I’m 22 and it’s been 2 years and 3 months since I stopped relaxing my hair and I can say the texture of my hair had changed, now I just blow dry it after washing it and it’s good to go. Idk how the heck it happened, but my hair is not the same anymore. Btw I LOVE YOU GIRL. ♥️
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
thats so cool!! i’ve honestly never even seen my natural texture so whenever i’m ready to go natural that’ll definitely be a surprise haha💕 thank u love!
@ShootingStar4664 жыл бұрын
I noticed this too. Maybe its a result of relaxing for so long. But then again my Dad never relaxed and as he got older his hair got straighter. Maybe its like going back to a child as most babies hair is straighter and get coarser as they get pas toddler age, who knows!
@Babyluv_4 жыл бұрын
I think it's really cool that your mom is not black, yet she seems to be very familiar and comfortable with your hair texture.
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
yes she’s very educated and even knows how to braid etc, she used to do my box braids when i was little!
@Babyluv_4 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! I respect it.
@TheAMShowNetwork4 жыл бұрын
So glad I finally found a KZfaqr who is relaxed !
@Sasha_xo4 жыл бұрын
My mom has been relaxing my hair for years also I’m so scared to go to salon to get it done I don’t trust them lol
@JoBunny874 жыл бұрын
I don't either.
@panpita24784 жыл бұрын
My hair used not to grow. Then i started to do my own hair and now it’s completely different . Stay with your mom!
@sabyvahee8654 жыл бұрын
Okay, I just have to tell you, you have such a chill vibe. You seem really authentic, and not so pretentious. I love listening to you hahah and your skin care routine videos are simply the best. Please keep making such good Videos!! I straightened my hair for 4 years when I was 16. I had curls, and I didn't like it, and I didn't want to go out in them. Now I'm 22 and I've stopped straightening. I always make braids after a shower and go out like this. I dont feel comfy to go out with my curls.
@4IAMLARISSA4 жыл бұрын
For me I have my mom put my hair mini braids for about half a year. This helps me not have to manipulate my hair as much and it'll grow faster.
@TamaraTen4 жыл бұрын
so I've never taken care of my own hair before and now we're in lockdown and I can't go to the hair salon so gotta figure out how to do it myself... wish me luck 🤞🏽
@ashleyc45404 жыл бұрын
I used to texturize my hair and my mom always used the Mizani butter blend one, you should definitely look into it! They have some great after care products and normal hair care products that help with breakage👏🏽!! Their products are catered towards girls with textured hair and I loveee their stuff. Def recommend checking them out on ig @mizani
@adda45844 жыл бұрын
I’m natural but it’s nice to see some relaxed hair videos... wish there was more. Everybody has a preference 💕
@baroniquejulies65332 жыл бұрын
honestly watching this video and scroling through the coments has made me feel a little bit more at ease with my relaxed hair because i have always had insecurities about it thanks so much lisa onuoha
@ElizabethAkinyi4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I would definitely recommend a salon for hair relaxing. Great job on the tutorial 🙌🏿👸🏿💕💕💕
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
thank u💕
@REDSKINTYGUH114 жыл бұрын
I never go to the salon and my relaxers come out awesome. My problem comes in with tying my hair up at night or not wearing a bonnet as well as sweating in my sleep or even jagged nails that rip out hair.
@ElizabethAkinyi4 жыл бұрын
@@REDSKINTYGUH11 OMG, nails are the worst. I've lost a few strands due to jagged nails🙈 Have you ever tried sleeping with a silk scarf?
@REDSKINTYGUH114 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Akinyi Yes But I have a bad habit of not doing so.
@chicee1234 жыл бұрын
I'm natural and have been for ages and I'm not gonna lie it's deffo a struggle. I hate that relaxed girls always have to explain themselves :/ Your hair looks great!! it fits your style really well! And props to your mom for those cosmetology skills!
@lescolbert76728 ай бұрын
I like seeing someone apply the hair relaxer with a brush and letting it sit on your hair, rather than combing the relaxer through your hair after it applied, this seems like a less harsh process.
@lex-ov6wh4 жыл бұрын
i think its so crazy that people say their hair is more manageable relaxed. i have 3c/4a hair and my hair was so tangled and a nightmare to detangle and style when it was relaxed.happy for your results though!!
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
everyone’s hair is different! what works for u may not work for others
@sarahramirez73614 жыл бұрын
You can also try a “roller setting “ method instead of blow dry it, I’m relaxed too ✌🏽
@LisaOnuoha4 жыл бұрын
i don’t really like how that looks on me!!
@nari.y.4 жыл бұрын
Lisa Onuoha you can wrap it overnight and it’ll be straight after the rollers 💕
@KourtneyTiara4 жыл бұрын
Yes my issue i have too is the front always but the back is always healthy no matter what 😂
@Nozy_Otter4 жыл бұрын
Saaamme. When I was relaxed I struggled with that. I'm natural rn and it's still the same 😂 I legit don't know what the issue is
@ginalienn11124 жыл бұрын
Props to you girl! I would totally screw up my hair if I did my own relaxer. I let my hairdresser do them for me
@breezzyb89544 жыл бұрын
Girl you do not have to explain why you relax your hair it is perfectly fine is your hair your choice. Love you 💜
@pixiedust66304 жыл бұрын
I have relaxed hair but want to completely natural. I still love to watch your videos. Very relaxing
@onehallyu39254 жыл бұрын
I'm like u, like I've been relaxing since I'm 7 or like that, cuz my hair is really really REALLY hard to handle, i really lived your video♥️ new subscriber
@laurenmiller65024 жыл бұрын
100% recommend affirm relaxer kit, it’s boom! You should give it a try it will help.✨❤️
@clairemariviv4 жыл бұрын
Hi Lisa thank you for being yourself . It is a pleasure to watch you. I can’t watch you tubers anymore who shout when they speak just to show they are dynamic. They come through false.
@jessicawk4 жыл бұрын
I love your channel❤️and the fact that you have relaxed hair. There aren't many KZfaqrs with relaxed hair 😞
@Sinaylad4 жыл бұрын
I love the results omg your hair is getting really long!♥️ I stopped relaxing my hair around a year and a half ago, it’s really tempting but I feel better now. My hair broke off a lot since I relaxed+Box dyed it so I decided to stop relaxing it, and I stick to just dyeing it. What I do though, is an aminoacid treatment every now and then😋. It doesn’t last that long but it helps with the texture. I still have really short pieces in the front but I hope they grow some day🤦♀️💔
@StarGirl11Galaxy2 жыл бұрын
I've been using relaxers at home since forever lol. I love that ORS relaxer because it has actually been helping my hair grow. My hair is very thick and it doesn't cause damage, and it actually doesn't really irritate (burn).
@bjeffelizabeth4 жыл бұрын
your hair has grown a lot !!
@deborahneely37604 жыл бұрын
When I was younger before relaxing my hair my mom greased my scab with Vaseline to keep it from burning before she finish my whole head
@reaunasims4 жыл бұрын
I haven’t relaxed my hair in years but I’m so tempted to after watching this video 😩
@brookehenderson5254 жыл бұрын
I enjoy watching your video your hair came out looking good and shining 😊✨( happy healthy hair journey👑✨)
@Balderhash2 жыл бұрын
I've been natural for 6 years and I love hair relaxing videos.
@b.moyascko143 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lisa, just wanna say you look waaaay more beautiful without makeup
@meadowgailer56594 жыл бұрын
Whatever floats your boat. Going natural for me was liberating but I admit how less time consuming it is when your hair is straight.
@linzym.nunezc.12074 жыл бұрын
Doing a marathon of all of your videos and I'm beyond glad I found this one today, cause precisely TODAY I got my hair straightened by my mom over the same method. Its been a while since I've been using this tecnic but somehow lately I found myself feeling ashamed of it cause some people critized me. Ppl seems to always wanna tell you what to do, but you know what? Fuck them. Only you know what's best for you, I decided not to let ppl tell me how I should treat my hair, life's too short to please em all. In conclusion, this encourages me to do what I think is the best. (Sorry about my English)
@DeborahADuran-mw9dv4 жыл бұрын
If you leave the relaxer longer you will get straighter hair and won’t need to use the flat iron as much, therefore reducing the heat damage. I also recommend you to use a protein treatment, relaxed hair opens up hair cuticle, preventing the hair from locking up the hydration, protein treatment rebuild those cuticles, your hair will get stronger and healthier. 🤗
@lisamarie9876 Жыл бұрын
I always use the kids one and the one time I tried ORS my hair didn’t take to it at all. 😢😢 I’m going back to using the kids one because it made my hair really sleek. Great video sis !❤❤
@gabe33352 жыл бұрын
I was relaxed for so many years and my hair was healthy. I only went natural because I had never gotten a chance to have natural hair since I had it relaxed so young. It's only been a year since I've been natural and I LOVE my hair but it's honestly too much to manage because it's thick as well as the fact that products are SUPER expensive while in med school so I'm relaxing it today :)
@DajiaStar4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t go natural because my permed hair was damage, my hair was actually super healthy and pass my shoulders. But I was tired of being so high maintenance about it. It’s chemical in your hair, so you have to be careful because a short period of neglect could lead to a whole head of damage. As a natural I’m still learning, I transitioned in 2012. My hair is longer and more versatile and I don’t have to worry about rain, pool water, wrapping it every night, or even breakage. However all permed hair performs differently because of the type of natural hair. So whatever works go with it.
@tiffness270xJUDASx3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I've always had my mom or a hair stylist relax mine and it's been relaxed for as long as I can remember but due to many life style changes recently, I attempted to be natural... Not for me. I have way too much hair, it's never felt so unhealthy until now and I work way too much to give it the care it needs. Back to relaxed I go. Can't wait for it to look as nice as I used to have it, hardly even wear it down anymore cause I don't like how it looks. Guess it isn't for me and that's okay. Maybe if I ever have more time to care for natural hair, I'll try again 😋
@thewindsinger76874 жыл бұрын
Her skin is so sumptuous ✨
@kathleencarter68173 жыл бұрын
The quality of ZALA is UNREAL. I ordered platinum #60 24” for my wedding 💕💕💕👰🏼
@omarj8893 жыл бұрын
Your hair line is SO BEAUTIFUL
@Anita-pj1jx3 жыл бұрын
*ATTENTION ⚠️* HERE ARE SOME MISTAKES I MADE RELAXING MY HAIR WHICH I ENCOURAGE YOU NOT TO MAKE: 1. I didn't do enough research - before I got my very first relaxer, I genuinely believed that I could turn my 4C hair to 4A. That was a bit embarrassing 😂 2. I oiled my scalp every single day - My scalp was extremely greasy and developed product buildup overtime. This actually prevents growth, as too much oil in the scalp can mess up with your natural hair oil balance the more, which leads to fragile and damaged hair. 3. I brushed and played with my hair too much - I now go by this one policy: *The less hair you pull out, the more hair you'll have.* When your fingers touch your hair too much, they can actually steal away natural oils, leading to dry and fragile hair strands. And don't even get me started with brushing 😅. Brush your hair when you need to, not when you want to. And don't be too rough with your hair. 4. I washed my hair every week but eventually started putting less oil in my hair - Okay, I know I said that I overused my oils, but eventually I got lazy and stopped oiling my hair (which is just as bad). There is nothing wrong with washing your hair once a week, but shampoo and oils go hand in hand. Shampoo takes out the dirt and oils, you use oils to moisturize hair again. But oiling my scalp less caused a lot of dandruff build up and breakage overall. 5. I used heavy products - Unless you have high porosity natural hair, I don't advice heavy products use. Putting too many products and putting too much of one product falls in the same category. You really just need a shampoo, hydrating conditioner, deep moisture treatment, leave in, curling poo, and a strong oil. Everything else is really extras. 6. I didn't part my hair - Mostly because I didn't know how. However, this made my hair harder to deal with. If your don't learn to part your hair in some way (whether with your hand or with clips), relaxed hair then becomes hard to manage. You can always watch videos on youtube to teach you how! That's all!
@kierradrayton35993 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful!! And this video is sooo helpful since at the moment, I have to put my relaxer in myself.
@millymilly87434 жыл бұрын
love your honesty
@smiller06124 жыл бұрын
Your makeup and hair growth😍🥴
@giannacoleman10883 жыл бұрын
Woke up like this... because good hair days start with my zala tapes MMMHMMM!
@mariemalone78963 жыл бұрын
Hair goals like this can come true... if you have a zala clip in set!
@Amina_gaming10211 ай бұрын
Girl your sooo pretty 😻😻
@marvelamalone78144 жыл бұрын
Uuuummm can we get a tutorial on this makeup look cause girl 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@giasaleen24 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the coconut oil suggestion! I feel like breakage happens during the relaxer the most when your hair is dry and fragile.
@Eyleennnn4 жыл бұрын
FINALLY! Your hair looks so bomb, always asked myself how you do it 🤩
@jorjathompson91964 жыл бұрын
you’re result was beaaautiful💕 honestly I’m from the UK and I feel like this whole talk on natural hair being a cult or difficult or whatever😂I only really hear that type of talk (as in comments) in American videos like do the majority of black woman in America have relaxed hair or what?
@genevievetseka92094 жыл бұрын
thanks for the video, i really wanted to know how u make ur hair look so gorgeous...since i also relax my hair...ily❤❤❤
@iammikisoto4 жыл бұрын
It’s so healthy and you’re gorgeous! 😍❤️!
@sparklyplumbob4 жыл бұрын
THE VIDEO WEVE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR OMG
@Imane.sia124 жыл бұрын
Girlll je haar ziet er zo mooi en thick uit, love it
@mimio0084 жыл бұрын
Your mom doing your hair warmed my heart because my little niece also has a white mom and she's always asking questions and advice to care for her daughter's hair. She doesn't plan to relax her anytime soon, she's mostly asking about hair care products and braiding techniques.
@spaghetti61553 жыл бұрын
few seconds in and all i can say your makeup is BOMB