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@kailapowell5500 5 жыл бұрын

Usually I’m on the woman’s side but Tiffany does ENTIRELY TOO MUCH. Like oh my god calm down jeez

@camilleanselm7788 5 жыл бұрын

Kaila Powell Tiffany acting like this isn’t a competition 😒😒

@kailapowell5500 5 жыл бұрын

Bungie Baby she’s acting like they’re already in a relationship

@beautifulviptflame8985 5 жыл бұрын

Right on ladies!

@1jonbarnes1 5 жыл бұрын

@@kailapowell5500 like she got papers on him. Lol

@mandeelaw8410 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany has an air of self righteousness. She didn't apologize because she felt she was justified in her expression toward Alex.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

u right

@sy6127 5 жыл бұрын

True

@mwright0428 5 жыл бұрын

Girl her apology was a mess. It was definitely a “I’m sorry you fee that way” type thing.

@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany's' facial expression when Alexx said Ashlee was a light in his heart 😒🤣. That hurt her to THE CORE. I wish she would have bowed out gracefully like Shatava, but she felt that because she was his top pick from start that she couldn't be bumped down to #2. She's just doing the most and giving me a headache. Tiffany doesn't realize that SHE is the reason why Alexx changed his mind about her. It would have been the same result even if Ashlee wasn't in the picture.

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

I think she really thought Alexx would choose her the way MIke chose Shea.

@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 жыл бұрын

@@siantelove yup and her ego couldn't make her accept it when it didn't go that way.

@kdeloris2225 4 жыл бұрын

Tiffany dodged a bullet

@yolundarighteous937 5 жыл бұрын

Your insight and analysis transcend the show. I enjoy the show exponentially more coupled with your commentary! Thanks my brother!!!

@Monett50 5 жыл бұрын

That comment speaks for quite a few of us. Little black book so on point so insightful VERY helpful. Thank u thank you ty. I will you positive productive vibes..... Peace and blessings!

@yolundarighteous937 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Only positive vibes!!

@urbanchica 5 жыл бұрын

Chuuch

@sbalchan 5 жыл бұрын

I love Ashley!

@RellaSemmone 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany squared up for real. I think he wanted a lady and not a dude.

@frenchvanilla7109 5 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head. I don't know how any man would be attracted to this manly, controlling , hard behavior coming from a woman. It's highly unattractive. She is negative argumentative and ready to battle 24/7. 🤦🏼‍♀️

@zabrinatheteacher 4 жыл бұрын

Lol.

@Quoteablemoments 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany do you feel like Ashley CANT be all the things Alexx said about her- SHE IS!!!

@msjgs07 5 жыл бұрын

Alexx expression at the table showed that he was on edge and nervous about what tiffany would say.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Cause her mouth is too sharp. Too many daggers in her mouth

@msjgs07 5 жыл бұрын

I do wish alexx had a bit of awareness and sensitivity of others when he would gush all over and praise ashlee in front of other women. That would make any woman feel a certain way.

@msjgs07 5 жыл бұрын

@@LittleBlackBook91 yep. He had that same look when tiff went off on Aaron. He knew tiff had the power of words to tear Aaron apart.

@brooklynforever1990 5 жыл бұрын

Yup my face would be the same. Tiffany is exhausting 🤦

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

@@msjgs07 ooooh he knows what he is doing....notice he did it just before both women got nailed off the show. his love language i think too is physical touch n words of affirmation. thats how he shows love. so the words were actually him claiming

@camecaedwards6962 5 жыл бұрын

I still do not get it. Why was she upset for Alexx giving Ashley a complement and letting her know he sees her. I mean Alexx ran after Tiffany was with her most of the time trying to make things right and Ashley had little to no time. Ashley was not bitter she was so mature about it and understand she is not with the man yet. He is still figuring it out and she is waiting for him to claim her otherwise she respect that he and Tiffany also has a bond. Tiffany too strong and argue so much Alexx just can not deal with all that extra.

@michellej.462 5 жыл бұрын

I hate to think this way but for some reason I truly think they were intimate too soon. This may be the reason why she was so territorial.

@allyb5156 5 жыл бұрын

Yep Alex also said 'We moved too fast". That could only mean 1 or 2 things

@j.flaner8506 5 жыл бұрын

Yep, because why is she so UPSET. She thought that by bringing sex into the picture, she was going to hold him. WRONG GIRL! She played herself! He respects Ashley, and with good reason!

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

I think so too

@mperez1751 5 жыл бұрын

I actually just saw this now and made a comment saying the same thing!!! it wouldn't surprise me coming from Tiffany especially when she told Mike "don't nobody got to know" 🐸

@michellej.462 5 жыл бұрын

@@mperez1751 Oh yeah that's right she did say that to Mike. LMBO!

@feliciageorge9367 5 жыл бұрын

Ashley has been very clever. She did not force Alex to make a decision. She made Alex think about his intentions.

@dominickkohen9490 3 жыл бұрын

I realize I am quite off topic but do anybody know a good site to watch newly released series online?

@beautifulviptflame8985 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany comes off very Demanding! She appears to be Schooling Alex on how to be her Man as opposed to being interesting and learning Alex for himself!

@grennie46 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree, her a approach is that of a mother delegating, discipline and scolding her child/son. Instead of been present and enjoy the process of dating, she self sabatage herself in the end. The need need to find a therapist to assist her with self Love, compromised and temperament. Only then will she be open to finding love outside of herself

@phillygyrl34 4 жыл бұрын

I see so much of Tiffany in myself, which is why I am looking into therapy.

@kayklue3937 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany’s so scorned it’s kinda sad

@brooklynforever1990 5 жыл бұрын

"A painting is not finished after one stroke, it is finished after many strokes!" Little Black Book 2018

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Eyyyyyyy sis yesssss

@LexCATL 5 жыл бұрын

@@LittleBlackBook91 I feel like after each analysis of your video, you should get the video transcribed and go ahead AND put it up as a podcast (if you don't already). Anchor is a great way to post easy to a bunch of different podcast sites. Organize the transcripts, and slowly work on getting this Little Black Book together =)

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

@@LexCATL send me a link. Someone else said something like this aswell.... Im in need of direction

@LexCATL 5 жыл бұрын

@@LittleBlackBook91 play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=fm.anchor.android. Strip the audio from your videos. For me, i use Final Cut Pro. You have the option to export the whole video or audio only. Maybe add that extra step in your process, then upload to Anchor. Anchor sends it out to at least 5 different podcast platforms. Plus you can record voice commercials to get paid from different sponsors. Check it out!

@thexvault 5 жыл бұрын

Let’s be real. Tiffany doesn’t think Ashlee is pretty let alone even “on her level”. What she can’t see is that she’s gorgeous inside AND OUT!

@deer.1478 5 жыл бұрын

TheNanaGabbana, I agree Tiffany doesn't think Ashlee's on her level. Ashlee is cool, but I'm not convinced Alexx sees her as more than a very nice friend.

@rochelle1199 5 жыл бұрын

Ashlee is such a good woman

@bethb7877 5 жыл бұрын

I imagine she is very playful and fun and effective with the children she does her speech therapy with.

@feliciageorge9367 5 жыл бұрын

Ashlee is not mean spirited. She has a kindness that makes her more attractive. Keeping it real does not mean being mean or disrespectful. Even Shea soften up a little.

@camecaedwards6962 5 жыл бұрын

I think why Alexx saw Ashley was because they developed a friendship first. This friendship grew stronger was while Tiff was wilding out. Then they grew gradually to where they are now.

@lovefelix1566 5 жыл бұрын

True

@mizzmiami3242 5 жыл бұрын

The devil face came out of Tiffany when she’s like, “I ain’t no option!”

@Skippy2k33 5 жыл бұрын

In Atlanta, Halle Berry was an option.#DavidJustice Tiffany has to realize the dating dynamics of her city. The ratio is probably 15-20 black women for every 1 black man. Take away the gay ones now its about10. The A is full of educated sistahs who are extremely successful. Light skinned, dar skinned..it doesn't matter. She is in an area where the competition is steep.

@brooklynforever1990 5 жыл бұрын

I'm all for a woman having standards but to beat him over head with it, every single time 🙄. And for the most part she lacks self awareness. It wasn't Alex's fault he explored his options, hello it's a dating show🤦. Tiff has consistently been out of order. Ashley has been playing the game well. I didn't see at first, but you're right. She's been wise about guarding her 💋/heart.

@allyb5156 5 жыл бұрын

@Latoya M.I was wondering about her sign. Do you know what Alex sign is?

@sirabalde9322 5 жыл бұрын

@@allyb5156 I dont know why but Ive been sure he's a Gemini. Just not sure where I saw that!

@115dancingqueen 5 жыл бұрын

The problem with Tiffany is that she done had dick too early hence her claim and demands on Alex and his time. They moved too fast. Women don't behave like that unless they feel they've given up something.

@user-tr2qq6hh2t 5 жыл бұрын

well said

@ericalevene6394 5 жыл бұрын

Straight out of order at every single turn.

@IntentionalCr8tors 5 жыл бұрын

I love Ashlee! She is the bomb! Go girl!!

@Quoteablemoments 5 жыл бұрын

The reality of it is if your DATING a GROWN man you are competing with other women. Until y’all decide to be exclusive neither party can behave as if this is YOUR girlfriend/boyfriend.

@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 5 жыл бұрын

Yolanda Mcadoo EXACTLY!!!! Why don’t these silly women understand that??? If they are smart they are I’ll have options too! They should be dating other men (not sleeping with them) until she is in a relationship.

@Jaz31day 3 жыл бұрын

There’s no competition unless they choose to play that game.

@karynejoseph 5 жыл бұрын

You got us stalking our KZfaq notifications lol! I’m wondering if Alexx and Tiffany prematurely consummated their relationship. Her reaction is unreasonable. Alexx said they moved too fast, hmm? How did they move too fast? Tiffany’s energy isn’t very feminine. The way she challenges men is too much like a dude.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

I've intentionally not said that. But the possibility is so high. Cause the energy is unmatched

@michellej.462 5 жыл бұрын

I'm just now reading this comment after I wrote the same thing. So okay I'm not the only one who senses that "it" happened between those two. While she wanted to draw closer he backed off because of her being pushy for not calling her back.Afterwards her behavior towards him completely shifted pushing him further away.

@kendralove7639 5 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. No woman would act this way with their emotions.

@TheNaphisa03 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!! I thought the same thing! Both of them are dropping us all thr hints that they had sex early in the show.

@bee8562 5 жыл бұрын

I think that Mike and Shea's relationship put pressure on the other men. Mike knew what he wanted and it showed. Tiffany feels like she's of the same caliber as Shea and wants Alexx to fall in line and him not doing that is hurting her ego.

@Nita_Key 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany's energy is soooooo masculine. Most people could hold it together and front for at least a good month or two, but she's just so strong in her wrong, she can't even acknowledge that she has issues. She's not ready for love until she cleans all that up as Iyanla would say. I like Mike and Shea together, but I don't know if they'll last long term because of the baby thing. Angel wins the most desperate contestant award. She and Stormy should've left together after what Aaron said at that table. Then she said she doesn't know how Stormy handles rejection. If Stormy got rejected than so did you! Ugh she's a pretty bird. I'm done with her...and him.

@davise26 5 жыл бұрын

💯👏👏👏

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

I agree, I wish Angel & Stormie had walked out together & left Aaron sitting by himself stuttering out his lies all bug eyed lol

@sweetolives2467 5 жыл бұрын

Nita Key She needs an Iyanla fix my life.😩

@sweetolives2467 5 жыл бұрын

Nita Key Angel exhibits the characteristics of a pick me chick.

@SandiBestLife 4 жыл бұрын

So "strong in her wrong"......love that!!!💯

@SymoneTrust 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany is too pretty to be acting so masculine. I'm sure it may have served her when she was young, having to fight off jealous girls. It may even serve her in the corporate world. But I hope she learns to drop her defenses in relationships and receive love

@ms.ajones7168 5 жыл бұрын

Yes! I agree! Well said

@hamidahamida5950 5 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@Boyhead1973 5 жыл бұрын

Looks should have nothing to do with masculine or feminine energy. If she wasn't as "attractive" and acting 'masculine' - would that have been acceptable? Tiffany has a dating script that she refuses to let go. Compromise and actually listening and respecting what the other partner is saying is key. It can't be your way all.the.durn.time - and then refuse to accept culpability for your behavior/actions/words... being humble is core. Masculine or Feminine - doesn't matter.... be humble when the situation calls for it. Be strong when the situation calls for it. Being in tuned with how you're coming across is a learned behavior....*she's yet to learn it because she's probably been told that because of how she looks - that the way she acts is ok*!!!

@yaadapaah7851 4 жыл бұрын

Symone nobody’s jealous of Tiffany 🙄 and she ain’t that pretty.with that manly shoulders and strong jaw and small lips

@zabrinatheteacher 4 жыл бұрын

She seems to always be in that masculine energy due to experiences in the past. She needs to work on that as we all need to work on some things. None of us are perfect.

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

Ashlee's approach really inspired me. I wish I could teach more of the young women in my family to not rush into things sexually with a man. Even kissing. Her whole energy is just beautiful.

@denisemitchell8477 5 жыл бұрын

agree I am on a 5 month probation period works for me

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

as you have spoken may it come into existence in Jesus name

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏

@arleneg5443 5 жыл бұрын

I love your breakdowns!

@LuvNside 5 жыл бұрын

Her face when she said, I dont know if I want the lollipop or the bag of cotton candy LOL!!!! Im so weak lol, she is so beautiful and mean.

@SaWilliam 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany has such masculine energy. When she spoke to Tommy her speech was so analytical and absent of emotion. I agree w/ you. I think Alex and Tiff crosses that line, sexually. Her frustrations and expectations about communication and his compliments of Ashley tells me that. Snaps on the painting metaphor👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

@LexCATL 5 жыл бұрын

The way you're breaking these episodes down....Believe it or not, your reviews are helping me to add clarity to the things I thought I was losing my mind over in my past relationship. I knew I wasn't crazy. You've not laid claim to me as your "girlfriend," so why are you expecting me to act in accordance with what you want me to THINK this is??? I don't even know WHERE your thoughts are. I've experienced where I felt like I was boyfriend/girlfriend with a guy because we did all those things and even had the conversation that it's "just us," but we never had the conversation establishing, "This is what we are - boyfriend/girlfriend." I meet his family, but when it comes time to meet mine, suddenly, "We never said we were together like that." I tried to explain this to an ex that even though we've been spending all this time together, I DON'T KNOW WHAT WE ARE! You don't know what I'm doing, and I don't know what you're doing because that's none of my business until we establish where we stand. Maybe he was genuine in thinking we were exclusive. He assumed that because he was doing "boyfriend things," I was supposed to fall in line as a girlfriend and be more appreciative of him yet became angry with me when I wasn't doing what he wanted. (Your video explains so much to me.) Altogether, our whole relationship was just bad communication. Let him tell it, it's majority my fault =( . We both did wrong, but I'll take that hit for the two of us because I'd rather own up to my ish than be stuck blaming someone else for things I know I could have influenced better. (I don't know if anyone else will understand what I'm trying to say haha.)

@sewblue187 5 жыл бұрын

I swear I’m taking notes

@brooklynforever1990 5 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾Sis the best lessons in life are those we don't have to keep learning. So take that and don't repeat that pattern moving forward.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

You had the right idea. Until a man lays claim by his own lips and shows in action, you are NOT TO ASSUME. You had it right and you are not crazy. He didn't say it so you aren't it. Please do not take all the blame in this situation, in regards to status. Don't let the man heap that guilt on you. Remain strong and hold your head up. You are a queen and only a King will fully recognise this.

@vmodez 5 жыл бұрын

Sis💕

@leolad.4701 5 жыл бұрын

I wait for your commentary on Ready to Love just as much as the show itself!

@hodgemama 5 жыл бұрын

You are so on point. The woman in your life is lucky. You give me so much hope for the love God is preparing for me in the near future.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Love for this. There's no woman at the moment though. Single like pringle. But love manne

@camilleanselm7788 5 жыл бұрын

Hey my fav non singing KZfaqd, thanks for the review. Sending you blessings from 🇯🇲

@blessedthebest8972 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany think she the stuff. Run Alex

@thegrandoti00 5 жыл бұрын

As a man, how a woman behaves in a microcosm (relationship) is how she will behave in a macrocosm (marriage). In the embryonic/vetting stages of a relationship, one should always pay attention to your perspective mate's "conflict resolution" skills. If they consistently allow their emotions to override their calm logic & reason; if they are unempathetic to and dismissive of your perspective, they are telling you who they are, and they are giving you a preview of coming attractions. One must always remember that relationships/marriages are paradigms that exist to service the needs of TWO people, not just ONE.

@Monett50 5 жыл бұрын

Someone has been doing their study. HETEPU.

@thegrandoti00 5 жыл бұрын

@@Monett50I'm unfamiliar with the "HETEPU' reference, but's It's fundamental.

@Monett50 5 жыл бұрын

Ok... sorry it means peace and blessings .

@thegrandoti00 5 жыл бұрын

@@Monett50 How very kind of you. May every blessing attend you and yours.

@SA-nt9kl 5 жыл бұрын

True!

@kimbachapman9856 5 жыл бұрын

Like a dude lol she was jealous smh she is insecure! She thought he couldn’t possibly have feelings for A why not she thinks she is better! Ashlee said he was blessed with who ever he picks

@Cynrx 5 жыл бұрын

When I tell people that maturity is a choice, this guy right here is what I mean. He's 27 and has true insight into human behavior, and I can tell that he garnered this through observation, reflection and experience. Men (annnnd women) remain immature by choice. Life gives you enough experience and people around you to teach you. It's up to YOU to take in those lessons and grow! How is he at 27 more mature and self aware than a 34 yo man?! It's a choice!

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Eish hehe by the grace of God love for your comments. Real love. I think mindset is something that is garnished by upbringing too. Too many men are broken in relationship areas. I've always been conscious of action but I haven't always done what's right. So you 100 on choice. What governs my quickening in maturity Is As you said observation and God revealing things to me. I wanna say don't be too hard but your right ppl need to mature by choice.

@Cynrx 5 жыл бұрын

Little Black Book you’re right! Upbringing and allowing God to work in you is the difference. You’re absolutely right! God is working through you. Continue to pray and allow God to reveal your destiny. I’m practicing this too. Much love to you sir 🙌🏽.

@iAMtheYELLOWrose 5 жыл бұрын

The way Tiffany acting... she gave it up too fast or something. She is too aggressive.

@lomaxlomax5915 5 жыл бұрын

Been waiting on this, yes!!

@NinaAce 5 жыл бұрын

I was patiently waiting on this video

@prettiddimples09 5 жыл бұрын

Nina A Same here

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

We thank God....youtube uploading is trying to finish me

@bee8562 5 жыл бұрын

Your reviews on this show are f***ing awesome. It's so attractive. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

@nash211278 5 жыл бұрын

@sherrhondawilliams690 5 жыл бұрын

Sorry but Tiffany is not ready to Love. She haven't show Alex any love she's a Narcissist. She's dangerous and if Alex get with her he will know no peace

@justinejackson1409 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany is a GOON . Straight up 😩

@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx 5 жыл бұрын

Lol forreal

@Antilena 5 жыл бұрын

Tiff lost Alex a few weeks back and got him back without making any effort, she doesn't deserve such a beautiful soul. Ashley has a beautiful soul also and should have been the one a while back. Ashley, you are a good example for all women.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

he came back easy because tiffany was his type of women he goes for...she was number one that is why their arguments were heated...but toxicity is something as you grew wiser both women and men try to dodge.

@Antilena 5 жыл бұрын

@@LittleBlackBook91, I understood that, he said she was "Marriage Material" after his first date with her. I cannot believe that she lost that man, but I learnt a lot from her.

@Nash0303 5 жыл бұрын

You're dropping gems as usual.

@sashanoel167 5 жыл бұрын

I agree with your opinion so much but I think she is a woman burned once too often and she is very bitter. She talks like a woman who's given too much too soon and didn't get back what she expected. God help her.

@Sheesaqueen4u 5 жыл бұрын

I love your analogy of the persons who they are, most people don't see that. Also I'd like to add that this show put 40 + year old women with 30 + year old men why?, it is unevenly yoked and balanced just my two cents.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

It was such an unfair balance. We men are often behind the women in terms of maturity

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

I agree, a WHOLE lot of maturing occurs just in that one decade between the 30's & 40's

@ashleyfranklin7241 5 жыл бұрын

There were older men they weren't chosen

@Skippy2k33 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Talk about unbalanced scales. Melinda and Aaron? Shaunte and Alex? Why? The women were to strong for the brothers. Shea was strong too. Mike is just 5 years younger but somewhat mature. Suppose we'll just have to see what happens 🙂.

@frenchvanilla7109 5 жыл бұрын

So much wisdom and gems is being given in this video. 💎🏆🏆🏆🏆

@TheRealestRT 5 жыл бұрын

Ashley it’s a cool 😎 person! Wish I had a friend with that personality and confidence!

@Lifeofabossmom 5 жыл бұрын

The Realest RT Absolutely, she is pretty, fun and quirky love her spirit

@jasminebedrawin 5 жыл бұрын

Your observations are spot on!

@sewblue187 5 жыл бұрын

I’m soaking up all this good advice you speakin 👌🏾

@sharonjohns1686 5 жыл бұрын

You are wise. More than entertainment I've really learnt from these videos

@sharonjones2775 5 жыл бұрын

Ashley’s answer was so diplomatic!!! She’s so safe. She is so careful to take the high road, and not offend anyone, as far as Tiffany and Alex. Highly intelligent!!!

@Luvbengs1 5 жыл бұрын

Truth being told I think Alex is attracted to Ashley but on a friendship level

@deer.1478 5 жыл бұрын

Huli 1234 , I agree and think he still desires Tiffany. He's being nice to Ashlee because he values her as a person and as a friend.

@mariaria81 5 жыл бұрын

I freaking love your videos!! I have soo much to learn and so much growing to do!

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

By the grace of God I'm glad u getting something from it

@siantelove 5 жыл бұрын

I have so much compassion for Tiffany, I don't know why- I think it's because as a woman I can see that her behavior is pure hurt. Even the way she speaks about Alexx is aggressive, controlling, condescending & totally emasculating but she has no idea that she's coming across like that. It's interesting to watch- & you pegged it, a woman like this is going to need therapy & there's no shame in getting healing after going through some things. I really hope she learns from this, heals & finds love.

@thatgirl4567 5 жыл бұрын

As a married woman your views have helped me❤. Men want respect and women want love. I don't care how beautiful you are, no one wants an argumentative disrespectful woman! Tiffany is trippin! I think she slept with him! She is way too angry for this to be a dating game! Hopefully she watches herself and goes to counseling.

@smoovechi1 5 жыл бұрын

Alexx only chose Tiffany because she's light skinned. He thought she would be what he expected but she's not. He's trying so hard to find a reason to hope Tiffany comes around to his expectations. Alexx knows beautiful dark skinned Ashley is EVERYTHING he's looking for but he wants it in the light skinned Tiffany. Dark skinned guys are the biggest colorist in the black community.

@newjerseylove1373 5 жыл бұрын

Yesssss LAWD!!!!!

@d.olivieri90210 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my God I completely agree with you, I felt that Alex would only chose Tiffany because she's light skin!

@1jonbarnes1 5 жыл бұрын

But aren't Angel and Stormy light skinned and just as attractive as well? And more Level headed..!? Seems like if that was his main objective, he'd only date the light skinned ladies on the show.

@d.olivieri90210 5 жыл бұрын

@@1jonbarnes1 those ladies didn't dig Alex so that wasn't an option for him though

@smoovechi1 5 жыл бұрын

@@d.olivieri90210 thanks for your observation because Jon Barnes must not have been focused on what's happening.

@simplici-tstemple4567 5 жыл бұрын

i appreciate your commentary... most insightful one yet!

@Quoteablemoments 5 жыл бұрын

Boyyyy come on it’s hard to break your type!!!! I could tell Alexx is used to women he has to go back and forth with. I felt sorry for him at the cabin because I could tell he’s used to trying to prove himself. Alexx relationships can be so easy it’s ok to change your type!!! Tiffany thinks if your not choosing her your loosing cause ain’t nobody like her. Baby at the start of the show there was a room full of beautiful women in there on way. You no winner in this crowd. Not knocking her confidence in herself, but everything ain’t for everybody. Ashley is smart you can’t change men. Find one you like and you guys adjust for each other

@sherrhondawilliams690 5 жыл бұрын

I love Mike, he is a real man. I believe that him and Shea is going to have something if they don't let their pride get in the way.

@Chiyevo 5 жыл бұрын

Mike and Shea look good together but their personalities will clash. I expect them to break up. Shea wants to wear the trousers. She is also 44 she may not achieve giving Mike the kids he wants. I felt like Mike was enchanted by her looks beyond reasoning and that soon wears as reality sets in. He needed a younger woman.

@brooklynforever1990 5 жыл бұрын

I don't trust Mike too much yet. I'm still 😒 watching him

@fatimahelias1763 5 жыл бұрын

I watch the show and can't miss your captivating analysis! Good job bro. Your ability to read body language is out of this world! The way Tiffany disrespected Alex made me hurt for him.

@eggshell99 5 жыл бұрын

I think Tiffany is a bit masculine. I was wondering if she grew up mostly surrounded by men, especially when she squared up to Alex. However, I enjoyed it when she addressed Aaron, she’s the only person who had enough courage to do so.

@denisemitchell8477 5 жыл бұрын

agree

@ConcreteRose32 5 жыл бұрын

I really enjoy how you break things down and drop knowledge at the same d..mn time! Listening to Ashley talk about not kissing reminds me of something from the movie Pretty Woman and I never forgot it. When Julia Roberts was being taught by her mentor how to work the streets she said something like never kiss, its too emotional. And for us women its so true! Its like a key that unlocks our heart. That's if its done right. Think about it, if that kiss is horrible (like a Great dane lapping and slobbering all over yo face) (yuck just thinkin bout that visual) you be like uh nope that's not gone work! I can't speak for all women though. Good job on breakin things all the way down, gonna miss ya when the show is over. Then again maybe I'll just check out your channel in more depth and even subscribe. Take care

@heldertthelot7219 5 жыл бұрын

U was so savage in a great way lol THANKS.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Love sis. Gotta show love in all our reviews. Never point out to hurt, but to recorrext, improve and talk to someone.

@blessedthebest8972 5 жыл бұрын

Run to Ashley Alex run

@l.j.2917 5 жыл бұрын

This is really good! Great points!

@user-zx5xw4yw2e 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany ma'am.. Who do u think you're gonna attract

@youngthugs90 5 жыл бұрын

This is good advice for all the women out there.

@queen7123 5 жыл бұрын

That was a word if he has not said it you cannot be it! I was talking to a friend today at work and telling him that when I date a guy I tell him I'm cool with just being friends from the gate. he was playing devil's advocate and saying how it won't work in my favor or I can easily be manipulated. but what I have found is that when I say that guys usually let their guards down and I'm able to see the real them or their pursuit is more serious about me. I've haven't dated that much 2 years but moving forward this is something I will continue to do to weed the odd men out. Also I don't like the pressure. I had an experience where I lost a lot of weight and became very attractive. When I dated every guy would wanted to quickly bag me and I was so naive because I had never gotten that much attention or pursuit before. Now I'm more wiser and realize you have more power with the friend thing...in other words I make it clear your not just choosing me ...I get to choose you and if you can't be my friend first...you can't be my man

@bethb7877 5 жыл бұрын

Wow you just nailed it again this time about Tiffany....the critique in her voice and expressing no warmth and joy and kindness. Our hearts are the part of us that expresses love and joy and peace and kindness but Tiffany is all in her head with all her rules and regulations. It's cold and makes me feel like I'd want to run away from her if I were Alexx.

@bethb7877 5 жыл бұрын

P.S. This just made me think about a book I read called The Emotion Code and a big topic in it called "The Heartwall." Tiffany is how it looks when you have one. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qbmIfKt6q7yvgYE.html

@1jonbarnes1 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany and Aaron we're two of the go to examples, of dysfunctional dating in our community. I say our, because the show appears to be exclusively black participants. I can appreciate seeing it from an objective viewpoint. Because if we had to hear them just report about their experiences the fellas might believe Aaron and the ladies might believe Tiffany but since we get to see how each contributed to the madness, that helps us a lot before making a choice & choosing sides, based on gender.

@mariek2518 5 жыл бұрын

I think you should have your own t.v show you are entertaining and you have a realistic perception.

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

One day. We are working hard, may God open that door

@floridagator1765 5 жыл бұрын

Great analysis. I think Alexx did some strokin with Tiffany early in the game. She started catchin feelings. She is a little older than Alexx and was not as patient to see things thru. Remember she is a corporate business woman. She was conducting herself like a business person but like in business don't burn bridges. No-one wins.

@mariek2518 5 жыл бұрын

I dont know if Alexx likes Ashley that much ... The couple I REALLY like from the get is Mike and Shea

@audrecane1452 5 жыл бұрын

the painting was done after several strokes but it did not turn out to be a masterpiece....when she squared off with him she (Tiffany) appeared to be dudish...aint no man dealing with that...if youre having this much drama in the beginning what would happen later...she was never apologetic for her actions until he didn't come after her...mike set the bar which made them begin to see...ijs...excellent review @littlr black book once again

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Your right. Masculine energy was so much that it was overbearing to be honest. She squared up like she was in the hood. U right no man wants that.

@caramelandchocolate5195 5 жыл бұрын

I love Alex and Ashley .... I hated Tiffany with Alex.

@davise26 5 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure but I think they had sex and that maybe the reason she acting crazy. But again I could be wrong

@TotallyTammyXOXO 5 жыл бұрын

DEE DEE I read this elsewhere also. That would explain their dynamic. It was so intense so fast.

@SpecialKRNB 5 жыл бұрын

She's just upset because Alexx basically won't change the way he communicates in which all the other situations between them becomes distractions and arguments...(Let's just say I've #beentheredonethatnotgoingback) the raw insecurity in Tiffany... and not insecurity within herself but the relationship or dating relationship as a whole...(HIGHLY DOUBT SHE'S AN INSECURE PERSON.. I don't like when people make assumptions about others and their personal lives... just a quick overview based in the actual conversations in the show) so, my best advice for Tiffany is to just MOVE ON! he ain't it and he ain't it for NO WOMAN. NEITHER OF THESE MEN ARE their jobs alone is pretty self-explanatory. #thatswhatisee #thatsjustme

@lvanetten8508 5 жыл бұрын

Your reviews are sooo deep! The Ashley saying they are friends thing u r so right on the analysis👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 N u r right I also believe that Alex usually goes for women that look like Tiffany! U could tell she was his type on the surface. And he wanted her on the surface..She is disrespectful to this man!

@thetenthltr 5 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I think alexx needed to respond more aggressively. Some ppl don't know how to give criticism without being insulting - she views criticism as negative so her energy is in the dumps from jump.

@DB-bp3xf 5 жыл бұрын

Do u have any tips on how to stop going for the jugular and maintain ur cool in the heat of the argument

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Wow what a question. How long you got? Let me keep it short and precise. ( often time we go for the throt because we are hurt and we think the other person may not understand how much they hurt us, therefore we dish it right back. That is pride and fear working on your behalf in OUR emotions. 1a. Dont see the argument as winning and losing, but rather see it as opportunity to hash out difficult problems, and take interest in trying to find a solution. 1.Take a breath. Pause and analyse if your comment is coming from love or pain right now. 2.Remove your pride by asking, yourself how would you receive this comment your about to unleash. 3. Is too look at your past and realise your past affects your future. You must find the root for why you like going for the jugglar; is it control, pain, is it that you don't know any better, ill discipline, 4. If your a believer In Jesus i would say ask the Holy Spirit to begin a work in that area. Once you ask though get ready for the test. The test isnt about passing but about recognition that you were tested. And also that you learnt something from it. The recognition and review of learned experience is where you will see growth.

@DB-bp3xf 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@marywangari8974 5 жыл бұрын

Hurt people are hard to love

@marywangari8974 5 жыл бұрын

I like that if he has not said it .it not it

@sherrhondawilliams690 5 жыл бұрын

Angel don't need to be with Aaron because he is going to keep her stressed out with his bullshit.

@sharonjohns1686 5 жыл бұрын

You are deep bro. Consider being a dating or relationship coach

@emydan 5 жыл бұрын

On point as usual. I hop Tef. will see this and learn as well are .. you can't treat the man this way and ask you to be in his life for life.

@calvthomas6153 5 жыл бұрын

I hate to say it, but some men would find her behavior to be a challenge. Couple that with her traditionally “acceptable” looks and I would not be surprised if her and Alex reconnected after the show. I’ve seen this happen over and over in real life. He’ll be willing to put up with her horrible attitude ( at least for a time) just to have someone like her on his arm, which is unfortunate because I find Ashley quite adorable. She would definitely be the better choice. However, something in my gut tells me Ashley’s going to lose out. I hope I’m wrong. I liked seeing them together. Just my opinion of course.

@Life.Love.Locs. 5 жыл бұрын

Real talk!!!

@256ROBIE 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this analysis because that's exactly how I felt Tiffany, she's a beautiful woman with deep scars and needs to give herself time to really heal. Alexx and Mike have been the most real since day one especially Alexx, when Tiffany showed her 'man' side that's when he too said hmmm let me do as Tommy said and give other ladies a chance. Ashlee has been consistent with her interest and it has only been for Alexx. Bless their connection and bless everyone who found love and those still waiting for it. I'll follow you now hahaha

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Love sis, yeah tiffany is severely hurt and i understand that past relationships scar us. She wasn't in the right frame of mind as she thought she was. Wounds are often found in us until we are under pressure and wounds get touched. Alex made the right choice but im sure he had in mind to wife tiffany. Tiffany being rude and all of that at first probably created the affect of him wanting to be the one to unravel her hard exterior. Yet she didn't budge and unfortunately she had to go. love for joining the team

@wilderoyalty 5 жыл бұрын

😭 bruh I’ve been binge watching your videos you popped up in my dream last night 😭😭😭😭. Thanks sooo much on the wisdom .. I’m taking noteesssss 🙌🏾✍🏽

@LittleBlackBook91 5 жыл бұрын

Haha. Wait maybe God is tryna talk to you through the dream B.... What happened in the dream? I fact email me gentlemenextra@yahoo.co.uk or insta dm Littleblackbook91 God can reach us in different ways u know haha

@coopercooper6329 5 жыл бұрын

“There was no joy in her voice” I agree. That happens time to time in a relationship but a relationship can not just start off like that.

@nancyismyname 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany is very cantankerous. I didn’t like when she put her hand to her chin and asked “what do I have to be checked on? What do I have to change?!” It shows a lack of self-awareness. To me, it is very difficult to be in a relationship with someone who lacks self-awareness. She doesn’t even realize that she brings a sledgehammer to every conversation, even when a toothpick isn’t even required. When it comes to relationships, intimacy, building and discussing areas of concern, tact is involved. Choose and use the right tool. #SledgehammerTiffany

@HelloAliya 5 жыл бұрын

You always come with it. Love your commentary and content. Dropping straight gems.

@faithspeaks3043 5 жыл бұрын

She treats it like its a business!

@Aoneify 5 жыл бұрын

Great advice, laid it down for real! Friends until otherwise discussed.

@TheNaphisa03 5 жыл бұрын

I love you!!!!! So intelligent.

@user-tr2qq6hh2t 5 жыл бұрын

yes ashley is definitely clever, love your POV

@ilsmariepieternella4811 5 жыл бұрын

Wauww..deep and true comments. Like your reviews as alwaysss. Big hugs from Curaçao

@coilycurls7983 5 жыл бұрын

Waiting on the next notification like 👀👀👀

@karynejoseph 5 жыл бұрын

CoilyCurls79 Hahaha! Me too!

@aubreytaylor3247 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany believes she is the most attractive person there. She didn't really think Ashley had a chance.

@raisingrose1105 5 жыл бұрын

Tiffany has a wrong way of handling this, BUT, do you know that a man can act like he is the nicest person ever and still be a manipulator! This man has not apologized to her or acknowledged the fact that he backed off for whatever reason and left her out to dry and look crazy. She is defending herself against that. I saw him jump in to paint her as crazy, clingy and controlling and though he has seemed to be interested in her, he has never been interested enough to man up and acknowledge that he did do what she said and that she was not overreacting or lying. Yes it is exhausting, but she has proven eventhough though no one cares to see that you can give away your right fighting unwisely against a calm manipulator. If people believe you are innocent, you can just about paint someone in any negative way you want, noone will suspect. That is where Tiffany is wrong, you never fight to keep and prove yourself against a snake. Come on women, only we know those types of experiences. How is noone interested in seeing it from that point of view. Alexx has little to no interest in Ashley. If Tiffany is as bad as he say, why is it obvious that he still wants her. Its because he know that he has her feeling some type of way over him and he enjoys the back and forth. He never made a choice. He never put Ashley in number one, he just entertained her because he would not admit that he was wrong and that he had pulled away. So maybe he wanted a little space from Tiffany for whatever reason. If that is the case, be a man and tell her and do not paint her as crazy. Because guess what he got in the process of her defending herself. Exactly that!

@deer.1478 5 жыл бұрын

Taneisha Rose, I agree that he came off as a nice guy but there are more layers to him. He chose Ashlee because she is cool and he wanted to give her the victory on television, but he is clearly attracted to and intimidated by Tiffany. He was trying to break her down, but she wasn't having it. Tiffany doesn't appear interested in homey-lover-friend status. She demands being treated as his queen. She's attractive, so she knows she can get a man, but she doesn't just want any man, she wants her ideal man.

@Frwill126 3 жыл бұрын

I’m watching this after seeing what happened with Ashley and Tiffany and I think you are so right. The way he allowed his family to dismiss Ashlee and the way he treated her shows he never cared for her and he is not always the good guy he portrayed himself to be on the show.