DID I Make the Right Decision? Hard Choices For A Woman Alone

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Жыл бұрын

Did I Make The Right Decision..can we talk? How to make tough choices and be happy with our decision...how can a woman do this if she is standing alone?...when everybody around you is telling you one thing...but you are longing for something else? What are we to do?
I had a week of wondering about how people make huge decisions....Hal and I traveled to car dealerships and Appliance stores...and we took a look at some of the things I may have to buy....and we both had sticker shock! I have to buy a new refrigerator and boy did we have fun looking at the selection! Those French Door refrigerators!!! Oh my goodness!
Sometimes in your darkest hour, our true road in life is revealed to us...and we begin a brand new life with a new purpose. I share with you one of the toughest decisions I ever had to make in 2017...and I had no support because what I was doing was against all odds that I could make it. But I did it anyway. I want to share my story with you tonight.
Was there ever a time in your life you made a decision and you stood alone?
Please know I love you and appreciate you
and please have a fabulous happy new safe week!!!
See you all next week!
Love always!
Susan & Desi
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@suelee6951 Жыл бұрын

You encourage me every week! I will be living by myself for the first time in my life (I am 55 and going thru divorce), and I am so scared... but watching you live your life gives me hope 😊

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

Alright Sue!!! we need a group hug here!!! we love you and you got this!!!! You will love it!!!! FREEDOM!!!!

@Chris-fv3pk Жыл бұрын

I went through the same thing. Then my son came home to get married and or coarse he is over sea now. Living alone, working full time to just get by. Now my Mom just passed away. Was planning on moving back to be near her. I didn’t get to. Now I don’t know what to do. Just feel lost.

@teresahudson977 Жыл бұрын

Women are so much stronger then they think they are. You will be fine. If I can't figure something out I pray, call one of my sons ,then I check google. Those are my blessings.

@chermoody Жыл бұрын

It's gets a little easier everyday. When you need strength, just come here. We have you're back, a shoulder to cry on and an ear that will listen as long as you need. Welcome to the sisterhood 💜🌹

@SB-ft4mr Жыл бұрын

Alone now for almost 2 years at the age of 62. Getting stronger every day. Enjoying living alone more than I would have thought. Take it day by day to keep a calm confidence and peace within yourself. You can do this!

@terri4353 Жыл бұрын

My mom divorced my cheating father when we were 2,3, and 6. He left her with $32 in the bank. She bought 2 lamps and started her life over. A new state. A new career as a paralegal. Three kids through college. A home of her own at 55. 5 grandchildren, 2 great grandchildren. She died when she was 97. She picked herself up and kept going. My inspiration. My hero. A beautiful strong woman.

@Lifetalk849 Жыл бұрын

Terri, Your mom was a warrior. You've got her genes. You're blessed!!!

@mariabolt3881 Жыл бұрын

Now That's COURAGE! That's Determination. What a LADY!

@JirinaHosala 5 ай бұрын

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@bettybird2227 Жыл бұрын

Two years ago at age 72 after 30 years in an abusive marriage I got the courage to leave. I walked out with the clothes on my back, moving across country, loosing everything, but saving my life. Because I hid the truth my supporters are few. I am still healing from years of trauma. I was blessed to find you just before last Christmas. You gave me the best advise to decorate my humble little apartment with thrift store finds because I deserved to have nice things to begin building my nest. Your videos give me hope that it’s never too late - we’re never too old - to see our dreams come true. Congratulations on this next exciting step on your journey.

@patriciarussell756 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations! Proud of you! It will be ok You have earned a blessed new life! 💕

@AngelicaGraceSolii Жыл бұрын

Wishing you blessings on your journey!

@janice3309 Жыл бұрын

So proud of you!! You are an inspiration by sharing your story❤

@jillyoung1282 Жыл бұрын

Good for you. Not an easy move to take. You are courageous. Happy to hear you settled and are happy now. ❤

@barbarascura7288 Жыл бұрын

I'm so very happy for you it took tons of courage to do what you have done. Now think of all you going to be doing tomorrow and living today don't think about the past keep God in your heart and he will never steer you wrong. God's blessings to you

@susannovak8263 Жыл бұрын

When I was very small, I told my mom and dad that I wanted to be a doctor when I grew up. This was back in the 1950s when it was OK to be a nurse or a teacher, but not a doctor. I got my bachelor of science degree in undergrad, despite being urged to get a BA and become a teacher. They thought I was aiming too high and didn’t want to see me fail. I was accepted to medical school and eventually became a cardiothoracic surgeon. My dream!

@redsloane9905 Жыл бұрын

AWESOME! At 21 I was told I was too old for nursing school. I believed it. In my mid thirties was laid off, took the severance, worked 3 PT jobs and got my BA then a year later, accepted for my MA. Been a practicing psychotherapist ever since! 😊

@nextchapter4013 Жыл бұрын

🎉❤

@blahblah1438 Жыл бұрын

Wow. That is inspiring

@MerryAnne2598 Жыл бұрын

Good for you! In my family NO ONE had gone to college and I had 54 first cousins! I became an RN at 38! Later got my BSN. My kids and grandkids all have college degrees. And I loved being a nurse.

@trishdaniel6196 Жыл бұрын

Susan, you are my inspiration!!! I'm about to be 72 years old, and I had all but given up on life until I found you!! You have made me believe in my dreams again, when I thought they had left me forever. I'm about to go through heart surgery, I'm not scared, I just want it over with, so I may start to live a new life with laughter again!! Thank you so much for giving me the courage to do so......

@Melissabella Жыл бұрын

Live your best life! Wishing you a speedy recovery.

@cherylthepearl4085 Жыл бұрын

Prayers for great outcome and moving on to laughs and life. 🙏

@juanitadempsey7037 Жыл бұрын

I turn 72 this August. I had a heart attack (3 stents )last January, then kidney failure due to an allergic reaction to statins and then I had a mini stroke. I live alone in a retirement community as I’m a widow of 20 years now . I pray your heart surgery will be successful and that you’ll recover quickly. Please keep us posted dear. Stella

@lindavernon8051 Жыл бұрын

I’ll be thinking of you. What a great attitude you have. You will get through it with flying colors. Sending you much love!!!

@rebeccaasher9124 Жыл бұрын

A word of encouragement I’d received several years ago…Joel Osteen said, “there is a reason the rear view mirror is so small. Stop looking into it, it’s the past. The windshield is the future, a much bigger picture.” Move forward Susan with God’s blessings!😊

@frannygrace2191 Жыл бұрын

My husband recently went into a care home and for the first time I am living alone (except for a little dog) and I am loving it. I am finally becoming myself again after almost 40 years of being married to a verbally abusive controlling man. I am so excited to get up every day and just be myself. Thank you for your wonderful videos, I, too, hope to have a house of my own someday.

@sandykish9608 Жыл бұрын

So glad you made it to the other side..It’s never to late to be happy, and follow your dreams..blessings to you and your sweet pup..❤

@franzone70 Жыл бұрын

I know the feeling. I was also married for 40 years to a verbally abusive controlling man. I loved him but don't think he loved me as much. Now I'm 70 years old and making my own choices living my own life. and I'm finally at peace.

@mariabolt3881 Жыл бұрын

May you enjoy every moment of your freedom. ☺️

@zfirewife Жыл бұрын

At the age of 68, I find myself living with my daughter and her family. I left my husband (he’s my second). We were married for 18 years and he is the love of my life. We laughed, traveled, and had so much fun. The man I fell in love with, though, doesn’t exist. I found out that for all of those years he was cheating while I was at work. Bringing the women to our home. I feel so lonely. I feel like I can never trust anyone. But your videos give me hope. Hope that I can forge a new life for myself.

@WigsGlam Жыл бұрын

I've been divorced now for 13 years and yes, I'm still standing alone with no support from loved ones. And I thank you for your videos that lift me up seems to come it always the right time.

@animalrescuegeek Жыл бұрын

Just know that even though there are those of us that have never met we care and support you. Standing alone is tough. Know that you are loved and important to us. Hugs from Sue in Michigan.

@wildhorses6817 Жыл бұрын

We Support you. I divorced 7 years ago, everyone has abandoned me. I have no children. I am at Peace and that is important to me. 🎶

@gwenhatcher7542 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@sherrywright6634 Жыл бұрын

Never too old to follow your dreams! My grandmother did not learn to drive until she was 50 and went to college in her 60's. She died at 99 1/2 years old. She was a strong woman! I believe we can achieve anything we set our mind to do! So proud of you for all you have accomplished! Keep up all you do to encourage other women.

@animalrescuegeek Жыл бұрын

When my sister graduated from college there was a woman that was 82 years old that was graduating along with her grand daughter. It was so inspring. I would have loved to met your grandmotther! Amazing woman.- Sue in Michigan

@annenichols8649 Жыл бұрын

I’m so proud for you and Desi! ❤️ I have been divorced for 10 years after 42 years of marriage and 5 years ago I bought a house at 74 years old. And have never regretted it…so happy for y’all…🥰🥰🥰

@kimlinford3484 Жыл бұрын

you are an inspiration too!!! congratulations!

@OlgaSmirnova1 Жыл бұрын

You are proud of divorcing your husband! You women are insane!!! Good luck with living a miserable life! The only reason a woman should be alone is because the husband died!

@Vyanak 7 ай бұрын

I had immigrated to USA after bad divorce and never look back.. I still single , but supporting myself and other family members, financial stability came to me through education, that's was a key..

@divonnejackson9345 Жыл бұрын

Hi Susan, in 1998 at 38 years old, I was a single parent of an 8 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. I left Detroit and moved to Raleigh, NC. I was a songwriter with no family encouragement. When I got to NC I found a family, although unrelated, they supported my dream emotionally and financially! I recorded 2 CDs, sang for Dr. Maya Angelou and wrote and performed 2 stage productions of my inspirational music. After 18 years I moved back to Detroit to help take care of our Mom. After she passed I took care of my sister for 4 years until she passed. Now I have my own piece of heaven, an apartment overlooking Downtown Detroit, close to my children and grandchildren. I am 63 and so proud that I followed my passion, 700 miles away from everyone I knew. I thank God for leading me to fulfill a lifelong dream!

@Elizabeth-arb22 Жыл бұрын

Wow, Divonne Jackson, your story is touching! Your accomplishments are quite impressive, but what really touched my heart was that though you had no family encouragement to follow your dream, you moved back to Detroit to support your mom and your sister. As my mother used to say, "Someday you'll have extra stars in your crown!" 💗 Hugs to you, from Elizabeth

@brenyule Жыл бұрын

Fabulous story!❤

@thebeautyofautumn9381 Жыл бұрын

What an inspirations story. God truly blessed you!

@divonnejackson9345 Жыл бұрын

@@Elizabeth-arb22 ... Wow... Thank you so much for your comment. ❤️ When I read your name I burst into tears. My Mom's name was Elizabeth. ✨❤️✨

@divonnejackson9345 Жыл бұрын

@@brenyule thank you so much! ❤️

@lizzie_59 Жыл бұрын

I've been divorced for 22 years. I've had to learn to make decisions on my own. I bought a house at 50, I've bought cars, new and used. I'm 63 will be 64 this July. I am so glad for the lessons that I have learned along the way. I appreciate your videos. Thank you for sharing.

@catwrangla9027 Жыл бұрын

After I purchased my house in 2017 (after having had a foreclosure in 2004), I bought a sign that says 'It's never too late to live happily ever after'. Most people associate that saying with getting married/Cinderella, but to me it means whatever dream I have, it's never too late.

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

This made me tear up.....you are beautiful...it never is too late for anything!!!

@debbih0813 Жыл бұрын

I love that sign! And need one of those too!!!❤

@annanorth7997 Жыл бұрын

This was was beautiful and inspiring. I loved reading the comments from the lovely ladies that follow you. I stood alone going to college at age 49. Even though I was an excellent student, my parents refused to pay for college after I completed high school. I was too naive to understand about student loans and grants, so I went to work as a secretary. Thirty years later, I finished college with a 4.0 while working full-time time and caring for my family, with a minimal amount of support. But I did it!!!

@tinac945 Жыл бұрын

@Anna North What a beautiful testimonial of how you followed your dreams and became a successful single mother, and career woman! Keep doing what you're doing... 😊

@erinneill9350 Жыл бұрын

Anna I understand the effort you put in to some degree although I was younger and single. I did all my degrees one after the other at night while I taught school during the day. It took 13 years. Then someone said to me that I shouldn't call myself "Dr" even though I ended with a PhD. I asked her why and she said it was vanity. I wonder what she was doing all those 13 years while I was going to uni two nights a week and studying and doing assignments then research every night and on weekends as well as preparing lessons and marking children's work.

@karendegraaf1146 Жыл бұрын

You are an inspiration!

@laurievanzon2126 Жыл бұрын

That is so awesome!

@louiseparisotto3630 Жыл бұрын

@@tinac945 Congratulations Tina! YOU are an inspiration to many and some you likely don't even know :)

@charleekimball6551 Жыл бұрын

At age 41, I decided to go to nursing school. It caused a divorce. I had no income and lived on credit cards for a year. I lost custody of my son to his dad. I had been successful at selling real estate. Yet, the thought of what I was doing excited me so much and seemed so right. I retired from nursing in 2018. Was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling things I have done in my life. My son is grown and we are very close. I met the most loving, supportive man and we have been married 28 years. I did not give in to people's opinions, or even the threat of divorce. "I took a road less traveled and it made all the difference" came from a poem that was always my favorite. For me, that has been so true.

@gail2297 Жыл бұрын

The biggest decision I made in my life was to move forward in life after my precious husband died. By moving forward, I mean totally trusting God to lead me on my grief journey. I had a loving family who were there for me, but they had their own lives to live. I needed to interact with people who had been where I was and understood what I was going through. God put those wonderful people in my path and then He led me to help others in need. Shortly after my husband passed away, I remember sitting out on a beautiful day with my Bible in my lap and saying, "God, you're going to have to help me understand this because I just don't." All of a sudden a butterfly came up and circled very closely around me and then fluttered away. I was in awe of it happening and the peace that passes all understanding came upon me. I have felt that peace from time to time over the years.

@BarbaraBristol-hj6xs Жыл бұрын

When I married my Mike, he was a widower with 8 kids, including a baby girl, and everyone thought I was crazy. But I loved him so much, and I’m so glad I followed my heart. We had 20 beautiful years together before God suddenly took him home. ❤. I’d do it all over again. He was the best. 10:49 pm

@linatziamihas402 Жыл бұрын

My worst decisions were made every time I listened to someone advising me to do something that I really didn’t want to do for “my own good”. I know they meant well but I wish I had listened to my heart. Now, at 69, I know better. They can talk to the wall, I’m doing exactly what I want. I too want to buy my own house., and will. You are my inspiration!! Thank you!! ❤️❤️

@marlowehardy4499 Жыл бұрын

I’m almost 68, your videos touch on so many aspects of my life. My husband passed 12 years ago. We were happy for the 30 years we shared. Like you I want a little house where my grandkids can help me bake cookies and be silly! Enjoy your new home and your family!

@kateg7298 Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful comment. I hope that you get your little house x

@tweetybird4347 Жыл бұрын

Me too! ❤

@lissac67 Жыл бұрын

6-7 years ago I knew my marriage would eventually end as he was a narcissist. I went back to school to finish my degree, and started a whole new career because I knew I was going to have to support myself and my son. I went it alone. Once I told friends I was getting a divorce, they were supportive. But I decided I also wanted to buy him out of hte hosue and keep it, where my son was born and grew up. It was still my home. I did it, I bought the house and am still here. I am getting ready to sell in a year or so. But I planned it all out, left an emotionally abusive husband and bought my house. It's tight and I need to make more income, but I have no doubt I will find a good position in time. After everything I already did. But going through much of that, I felt I did it alone. But here I am. and here you are!! Thank you for inspiring me! I am so very happy for you and Desi.

@karendegraaf1146 Жыл бұрын

Good for you! Wishing you the best!

@lissac67 Жыл бұрын

@@MsMarshall12 Yes, I did. I also went through a program for healing codependancy and narcassitic abuse. It is very important to have some sort of professional support when going through it. If not, you can end up attracting the same type again. I learned so much about myself.

@lissac67 Жыл бұрын

@@karendegraaf1146 Thank you!

@jeanneewaseck6635 Жыл бұрын

Oh, Susan. My heart wants to live by the ocean BUT all the practical people in my life are here, in Virginny, and don't I need to stay here ...? I'm listening to this and it is going right to my heart, and my slumbering soul, and I'm going to come back to this one. Thanks a million, girlfriend!!!

@tennysoneffie6943 Жыл бұрын

You are a warrior Susan. You give so many of us older women hope and inspiration. I recently had some work done in my living room and all I could hear from my friends was, “You spent 9000 euro on bookcases!! What did you do that for??” I simply replied, “ For my books”. People can be very careless with their words and opinions. I found you about five years ago and one of the first things I noticed about your content was that it was never rude or hurtful, your words were well chosen. As for Desi, well, he’s the star of the show. I think we are all looking forward to ‘the big move’. This time you will have 100 thousand people supporting you. You won’t be making the journey alone.

@theresetaylor7207 Жыл бұрын

Omg I absolutely love my books and can fully understand your bookcase purchase. I bet your books look amazing on it xx

@tennysoneffie6943 Жыл бұрын

@@theresetaylor7207 Thank you Teresa. I believe we are never alone when we have a good book to keep us company

@MsJOrtiz Жыл бұрын

I am so proud of you. I am a 45 yr old single mother and I stand alone. Although I am a school Principal and make plenty of money, the school system makes cuts each year thus my career is not the most stable. Your passion has helped you survive and thrive. Keep genuinely smiling. Thank you for your heartfelt and inspiring videos. Much love and respect. We see you.

@mariabolt3881 Жыл бұрын

Madam, you have University Degree/Degrees! Therefore the intelligence to think forward and around! How can you make a side hustle from your tutoring privately? Set up a little business from a passion? Or even sell things on ebay vlearing out the attic or things bought thrifting and antiqing. Chin up! Possibilities for you, endless!

@terrytt2932 Жыл бұрын

Having someone tell you "you'll never......" is all I needed! When I got pregnant and married at 16 my grandmother supported me completely. My mother did her best to do so but she was actually the reason I probably got pregnant to begin with, you know, escape. But when my brother-in-law said "HA, you'll never even finish high school" I was even more determined. Not only did I finish, I finished in 3 years with the unwavering help from my "Nana". Never say never to me! Thank you once more for another incredibly meaningful Saturday night conversation with Susan and Desi!! 💖

@SRAshley100 Жыл бұрын

Susan I am not sure when I found you, 3 or 4 years ago. I know when I found you and started watching your videos I was shocked you didn’t have more followers. You were wonderful and still are and I am thrilled so many others have found you! This channel is one I have never missed watching since I found you and i am so glad you made the hard decision to follow your heart! ❤

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

You mean the world to me...your kindness towards me and Desi I can't ever forget...its funny how close we grow..even though we have not met each other... it's like was feel like family and we keep rolling along...and loving it!!! Happy Sunday!!!

@catmama54 Жыл бұрын

You’re helping me to accept what’s happening in my life and that my life won’t end when my husband passes and that I have to move on. I will sell my home and move to another state near my sister and even though 68 I’m going to try and enjoy life for as long as I’m here 💕

@kateg7298 Жыл бұрын

My mother in law is 81. She lost her husband 8 years ago and we thought she would follow him out of heartbreak. She learned to find a little joy in each day and I hope that you will too. She's flying from Tulsa to Galveston on the 29th and my husband is taking her to the Final Four Basketball game. She's a fan. When you have a dream of yours happen, I'll be right here cheering for you. Lots of love, Kate x

@catmama54 Жыл бұрын

@@kateg7298 Thsnk you so very much for sharing about your MIL, God bless her. Thank you for your kindness💕❤️

@buffycat4641 Жыл бұрын

Cherish every day of every year. I will be 79 in June, and wow to me 68 sounds like a wonderful age, but so does 79.

@karendegraaf1146 Жыл бұрын

Safe and happy travels to you!

@catmama54 Жыл бұрын

@@buffycat4641 Thank you so very very much.

@evelyn7881 Жыл бұрын

I "met" Susan during quarantine at the height of the Covid pandemic. I was feeling isolated and semi- retired as a nurse, working part-time. I was trying to decide on whether or not to downsize. Susan, you helped me decide and the courage to execute my decision for myself by myself. I'm now in the process of doing just that. Thanks for displaying your courage to all of us Susan. I posted last week when you shared your accomplishments with us out here. You're never know what good you do for us . Thanks.

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

I just love you....!!!!! In the end, we do the right thing...and we always will.

@williesmom3863 Жыл бұрын

You've hit on so many things I've had on my mind. After a 36 year marriage, I am trying to figure out who I am and what to do with my life. I am almost 62. I am desperately trying to find joy and create a life. I am so very happy for you and Desi. I cannot wait to see the video of his first run in the back yard. So much love to you both.

@laurelvance5533 Жыл бұрын

I'm right where you are but a 44 year marriage and 71 years old. I've wasted far too much time. Best wishes for a wonderful, joyous future.

@lindavernon8051 Жыл бұрын

Been there done that! I’m telling you from the bottom of my heart, the BEST is yet to come!!

@SB-ft4mr Жыл бұрын

I’m right there with you…62 and just about two years out of a long term marriage. Who am I, what do I want, how do I fill my time? Have made a lot of progress over the last year and have days where I feel joy and look forward to the positive possibilities in the future!! All the best to you!

@BedfordFalls7 Жыл бұрын

Hi Susan, you never fail to inspire me. I loved what you were saying about our decisions at age 65. I'm 65 now and on June 1st will be sixty six. After twenty abusive depressing years of this marriage I finally am going to set myself free. I'm so tired of being tired and depressed over this situation. Time to go. I have an anxiety disorder that I have been doing good with, but it can at anytime get to you, I don't drive, and there isn't much support. I have two old dogs and one yorkie who is now eight. They are my kids. Like you said people wonder why do you want a house. They all mention shoveling snow. I said I love a backyard for me and my dogs. I want a little house with a white picket fence and a fireplace inside. That is my happiness and I'm going to go for it! xo to your darling Desi, and Thank You for being here Susan.

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

This made me cry... you sound so wonderful and strong...that's all I ever wanted was a little fence and a fireplace inside...I bought a 2 bedroom that is small unless I finish the basement...too small for a family but just right for me and Desi. I am home...just thinking about decorating my little place makes me feel like I am going home to my house there. No yelling, no drama...no anxiety.....just peace and such a good rich life.

@manycats9943 Жыл бұрын

Best of luck to you Melinda. You can do it! I know it will be hard, but you have a new life ahead of you and you will be so glad that you left the abuse behind. Keep moving forward one day at a time into your new future!

@BedfordFalls7 Жыл бұрын

@@manycats9943 Thank you so much for your kind words and support! Hugs

@BedfordFalls7 Жыл бұрын

@@LittlePoet Thanks Susan, you sound like me with the dreams of the little house. I actually prefer a little home. I have a nine room place now and it feels empty and cold. My situation left this a house not a home. You're right. No yelling no drama but Peace!!

@gingershaffer2547 Жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you that you have the courage now to step out and put yourself first. When all the smoke clears, there you will be with your little house, your doggies and the wonderful feeling of knowing you are safe and sound and no one else can hurt you. You can do this! So many of us have been right where you are and it seems overwhelming, and it is at the moment, but just you wait... That peace and tranquility will come! I think you finally maybe understand how valuable you are. You are going to make it girl!

@1957cah Жыл бұрын

Please don’t ever let anything wipe that smile off of your face. Love your visits each week!!

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much...it was a rough week...but it all ended just great!!!! Thank you for letting me talk...

@suzanneolson9488 Жыл бұрын

Susan, I been a follower since 2020. I am your age and have had many of the same things you’ve been through. Bad divorce, single mom, lost relationships that broke my heart. Had depression and anxiety, but I didn’t stop moving and loving myself. I learned how to make it on my own. All by myself. I learned to love who I am by being the best person I could be everyday I kept moving. I love being alone most of the time. I feel love has passed me by and I have accepted that. ❤

@heidibee501 Жыл бұрын

I love how attentive Desi is when his mom asks him a question. She has his undivided attention.

@susannautterback6815 Жыл бұрын

A major decision for me was going to college…veterinary medicine. Everyone was telling me not to do it but it was my passion. Expensive, not an easy curriculum but out of 30 students I was one of nine that graduated. The pay was low and long hours even with my degree…I didn’t care. Now I’m retired and looking back I did follow my dream and my passion for animals..the main thing that happened is the fact I followed through and crossed the finish line💙

@carolannogle8785 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words .

@viviennemeurs247 Жыл бұрын

Susan, I’m a fairly new subscriber, and blown away by all the beautiful comments you receive ❤. All my life I worried about what others thought, and trying to please people, and by doing that, I wasn’t pleasing myself or making myself happy. Much to my family’s and friends shock, at 60 I decided I was now pleasing myself and moved 3,500 klms to a new State, to seek the tropical lifestyle I had always craved. I now have several properties, I have a rescue cat, and I foster children. Each time I fly “home”, I see the same people, leading the same boring and miserable lives, saying they wish they had the courage to do what I did. Instead of being scared to take a risk, I now see it as an exciting challenge. Follow your dreams and much love from Australia.

@marymclean33 Жыл бұрын

Thank you - thank you - thank you!

@kaymurray4851 Жыл бұрын

I hope we continue seeing Hal in your videos after you move, he’s such a wonderful friend and so funny. I can’t wait for the move. What wonderful upcoming video content!

@christinesleight6599 Жыл бұрын

Susan, you and Desie literally bring the sunshine, hope and encouragement to live bravely into my silent home every Sunday. I draw strength and belief in myself from your wonderful videos. I lost my husband to cancer at the age of 65. We had been a couple for 50 years, learning, working and making plans for our retirement together. Facing the future as a single old woman terrified me, and grief, together with exhaustion, robbed me of the will to carry on. I had to find a way, though, for my children, grandchildren and cat, all of whom needed me to regain my strength. Four years on I feel proud of myself for persevering and making the best of my time alone. I have made changes in my home and garden, to reduce the work needed, added a healing garden room, and last summer I went on my first ever holiday alone. Please keep doing what you do so well on your channel, and I wish you both happiness in your new house and garden. ❤

@franzone70 Жыл бұрын

I look forward to your video's every week. You are so encouraging to all of us single, widowed, divorced woman that think their lives are over. You have proven that sometimes our lives can just begin at 60 or 70! I can't wait to see how you decorate your new home and watch Desi run in his own backyard. I have had to make lots of choices in the last ten years on my own, but for every decision I make , for every choice I make I feel a little stronger, a little happier. Last year I had to buy a car, first time ever I bought a car on my own and I love it. One more baby step and I'm 70.

@andreajennings8023 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. Many blessings .

@acwrite32 Жыл бұрын

You are so refreshing! I am 70 and I still have dreams too! My decisions are not as easy anymore because of things people say! Thank you for your inspiration! Oh gosh, becoming a singe mother of an 8 year old daughter in my 30's was such a life experience. I made the decision, in spite of my family's wishes, to stay living in the city where my daughter had started elementary school. I did not want to uproot her. I did not know anyone. My husband at the time, left for his next assignment in the military. I was alone. I got out of our mobile home, walked to each neighbor's house, knocked, looking for two babysitter's for my daughter, for the times that she might get sick and I had to work, and for after school care. By gosh, I met two very nice women who cared for her. One of them is one of my best friends to this day ... 38 years later. It was the best decision I made alone.

@kcampbell867 Жыл бұрын

This is probably one of if not the most powerful post of anyone’s that I have ever listened to! And I’m going to listen to it again, God only knows how many times! Your passion, oh my God!I may be staring 76 years of age in the face, yet with love, all things are possible! I think God for you in my life!❤

@tonihendrix6652 Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@bettybird2227 Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness sweet, sweet Susan. Do you see what you have done here? The support, love, prayers, and genuine concern from this group of cheerleaders is beyond anything I have ever experienced in my 74 years. And all because you have remained transparent and created a safe and affirming channel. God bless you! ❤

@craftysenora1840 Жыл бұрын

I stood alone when I decided that I was going to have some of my writings published. I was surprised when no one shared my excitement and passion for publication of stories of my childhood. I finally did get published about 3 or 4 times, and that has been the greatest thing I have ever done because it was my decision to get this done. Publication of my stories was important to me. Now, I want to write about older women who have to start over for whatever reason. I have not been able to do serious writing since my husband died in 2019. I know I will find my voice again on my own. My husband was my writing champion, but I seem to have lost my voice and my passion for writing, but it will come once again. Your enthusiasm is contagious, Susan. Your videos are like a breath of fresh air and that makes me smile. You go, girl!

@Lifetalk849 Жыл бұрын

Dear Paula, I think it's AWESOME that you published your life stories!!! One of my most precious books is one that my uncle published several years before his death. The things that he was able to overcome continue to inspire me and my cousins. I hope that you have chances to share your stories with others, especially family.

@mkp8942 Жыл бұрын

You made the right decision to buy a home. I’m proud of you. Be happy in your new place with your grandkids! The most precious people in a woman’s life👍🏻

@nancystinger7393 Жыл бұрын

I am over the moon happy for you and Desi. The journey as we get older and can be frightening and those of us by ourselves I am single just turned 70. I lived about 400 miles from my only son. It made me sad to be so far away from my only child. I was able to move to LA where I rented several rooms over the course of four years. I knew I desperately needed my own place and I kept thinking how am I going to do this. The dream to be near my son was so powerful that I promised myself not to give up. Fast forward I am now in affordable housing and have my wonderful apartment, and most important close to my son I feel when we are given such a strong prompting we must follow it because that’s how we see the miracles and blessings unfold. I know God made this all possible and my never giving up. We are deserving our dreams no matter what our age but even more so as we get older. If not now when!!! Honor your courage and dreams and also your grandchildren and children see just how remarkable you are . As we are proud of them they too can be proud of us and find their strength through us.❤️🌈

@dianestangeland8601 Жыл бұрын

Susan, may I say congratulations again? You are truly an inspiration. Your videos are awesome. I am a retired 72 year old professional portrait photographer which was a passion until I had to deal breast cancer twice. I have never done video. Watching you video capture the scenery exactly the way I like to see nature. I am going to dust off my nikons and learn how to do video capture for me. You have inspired me to change up my home decor. You have inspired me to improve my skin, oh it has never looked this good. And I so look forward to the next video, because I need the inspiration I get from you. Oh I forgot, I am now dressing up better! Thank you, Susan🎉❤😊

@Cindy-bee Жыл бұрын

My moment of standing alone came when I stood in the bathroom looking in the mirror and made my decision to leave my marriage. We had two beautiful children, a boy and a girl. I had not been happy for a long time. It was like a lightbulb went off. Of course you can manage on your own. My friends felt I was crazy because they thought we were the perfect couple. It was far from the truth. I have never looked back even in the tough times. That was 27 years ago. I never remarried never regretted my decision. I am 69 retired and living my best life in a tiny cottage by the lake. I love it. Susan you enjoy your little house and don't let anyone take the joy away from you and Desi.

@tonihendrix6652 Жыл бұрын

Dear precious friend, You just keep getting better and better! And I think every time, “Well, she can’t top that one…she just nailed it…she just hit it out of the park!” And, then, every week you do it AGAIN❤ I was glued to every word. Your standing alone has been my story. The latest big standing alone decision was to make my “reverse pioneer woman move” from Oregon back East. All.by.myself. With everyone asking why, what, where, how and have you lost your mind? Honestly, I thought maybe I had, but I just knew I had to. Ten years later…I am so glad I did and I haven’t looked back! I’m 77 years old and as happy as if I had sense 😂 I have lovely friends who’ve become family, a lovely home, a great church, and a Heavenly Father who keeps His promises to take care of me! Sweet Susan, I send you hugs and I pray for you. You are a strong woman of faith and you are loving on people. That’s God’s work…keep moving forward and don’t look back! I love you so dearly and thank you for being here. I love having you in my life, Toni

@wandamartin774 Жыл бұрын

You are a brave women too Toni. ❤

@tonihendrix6652 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Wanda!

@tinac945 Жыл бұрын

@Toni, how beautifully spoken! I love how you followed your dreams and you're as happy as "if you had sense!" 😂 What a beautiful way to live life. ❤ Maybe next, you can write a book about it... 😮 God Bless you for following the voice of the Lord, leading you on your journey! 🎉

@tonihendrix6652 Жыл бұрын

@@tinac945 You just made my day, Tina! Thank you and God bless you and keep you until we meet!

@tammydietschweiler7852 Жыл бұрын

You give me hope at 62, I’m not healthy but I still keep striving for a better life. I had, a want to stress was a friend who told me, if I had your life and health I wouldn’t want to live. Well I don’t speak to her any longer. Life is precious and everyday is different, some better than others. Another friend told me to write a book! Take care everyone and never give up!❤

@ivonnevermeer3600 Жыл бұрын

Why do you make me cry every week with tears of joy ? Some times I feel a little sad and than you come along and you say something that touches my heart, thank you for that and making me feel happy again. You are so right this community is so special, filled with love and understanding. Have a nice week dear Susan and Desi 🥰

@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch Жыл бұрын

I am so happy you followed your heart and made YT videos!! I love our Saturday night visits!! You inspire me, weekly!! 💚🌷 You are so beautiful and Desi is adorable!!! I love Hal now, too! 😊🌞

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

I love Hal too!!!!

@mid-westernandee8675 Жыл бұрын

My Husband now ex left me after 21 years of marriage two days after Christmas via a text message.. Somedays I think I am going to be ok and others I am really depressed. This was 15 months ago and I wish the pain would go away .. I love your content and you have helped me more than you can ever know. You have such a beautiful soul ❤

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

You are so kind and thank you so much for your comment...!!! Happy new week! xo Susan & Desi

@kaitlinmeadows6273 Жыл бұрын

In the midst of all your pain and heartache, in all your stories of struggle and starting over, you find so much humor and grace to share with us! Your videos have uplifted, comforted, educated, and inspired your thousands of devoted friends to live lives of hope and dreams and new possibilities! Thank you with all my heart for sharing your beautiful soul!

@lindaparker7199 Жыл бұрын

Going from eight years and starting completely over to buying your own home, all on your own, is amazing. And a BIG thing. Ya did good!

@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts Жыл бұрын

That is so true. Why do they think when we’re older that we can’t buy a house or move to another state. Or start a business? Or even get a dog, lol❤ my husband got sick in 2006 and died in 2014. So I basically ran the household alone. I am on my own now with my dog Otis and when I decide to sell my townhouse and move into a house with the yard for my dog. I am 72 right now. Believe me no one’s going to stop me.❤❤ I call them dream busters…😮 I know we would like some support on whatever we do, but we don’t need it. Thank you for everything. Blessings to you and Desi on your new home.❤❤ you will do absolutely marvelous darling😊

@jeanniedibble907 Жыл бұрын

A graphic designer gave me a sweet little calligraphy quote that said”I PLAN TO LIVE FOREVER, SO FAR SO GOOD”❤️ Buying a home provides a new and spirited mindset 🌻 Lots of new energy and excitement awaits!!

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

that is beautiful....when we are interested in life.... that's 98% of our will to live each day to the fullest no matter what our circumstances.....life does find a way..way beyond our own doorstep...

@sheilaenglish9738 Жыл бұрын

I was married and divorced by my late twenties and have stood alone since then. Decisions to buy a house and go back to grad school were mine alone. I would have liked the financial advantages of having a partner when I was younger but at 70 I am mortgage free and living comfortably because of choices I made as an independent woman. Glad to have lived at a time when this was possible!

@katenickels617 Жыл бұрын

Love your videos. I have stood alone my entire life and yes my family thought I was crazy. But I have really enjoyed my life. Now at 71, I have been diagnosed with advanced COPD (never smoked). I am trying to look at this as my next challenge - it is scary but I am working hard to enjoy life as long as I can.

@cherylthepearl4085 Жыл бұрын

Prayers it can be under control and good life ahead. 🙏

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

Oh you are such an inspiration.....I take such comfort in your words! I am wishing you the very best of health and they are making new stress all the time to help to breathe....Love to you always, Susan & Dez

@katenickels617 Жыл бұрын

@@LittlePoet thank you - you inspire me every day.

@patriciarussell756 Жыл бұрын

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@CarmellaNYC Жыл бұрын

I'm 60 and have terrible Lung problems. There are meds out their. Good diet and try not to get stressed. You can lead a good and full life. Wishing you all the best and remain positive and visualize yourself healthy x

@bellacottages6106 Жыл бұрын

I love your videos, I just bought my house and I am 68 year old and bought it last year and I love every moment knowing that we can share happy moments with family and friends and it's a house all of your own, I have been alone for 10 years with no support but looking back I can say I made it and no matter what age it's going to be your home and not a rent place that is never your own, I'm so happy for you and so proud that you listen to your heart, can't wait for your next video, love you and Desi, God bless you always.

@jacquelinedonoghue2135 Жыл бұрын

Oh how proud of you would your mother and grandfather be Susan. You’ve come such a long way and turned your life around. This next part of your journey is so deserved through all your perseverance and hard work. Good luck to you and Desi….he so deserves it too. I was 14 when I met my husband who was 16 and my narcissistic parents needed me at their beck and call and didn’t want me to date a boy and get serious because it would take me away from looking after the younger sibling and things at home, but we managed to continue our relationship despite every obstacle they through up and we celebrate our golden wedding anniversary this September. We knew it was right even at that young age. Thanks again Susan for another wonderful video 🌸

@kateg7298 Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful comment. I'd never thought of that, but they're probably proud and thrilled for Susan. x

@jacquelinedonoghue2135 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kate xx

@debraquesnelle7278 Жыл бұрын

Being 60 my family thought me volunteering at a local hospice 1/2 day per week would be too hard on me, l worked also. It was so fullfilling and l learned very important life lessons. I paid my Mom's wonderful palliative care forward. It meant so much to me.

@mariecardone3641 Жыл бұрын

I’m new to your channel. I’m so happy for you both. I’m 67 and I sometimes feel lost. You have given me encouragement and for that I thank you. Yes, I have cried watching your videos because I see all the missed opportunities in my life , all because I was afraid to take that risk. I thank you for all your encouragement and look forward each week to visit with you and sweet Desi❤

@anne3067 Жыл бұрын

But Marie, you will know, the more you watch Susan’s videos, it’s not too late! You can still follow your dreams!

@mariecardone3641 Жыл бұрын

@@anne3067 Thank you😊

@janice3309 Жыл бұрын

Hi Desi My name is Emmie and I live in NY. I am a Shih-poo that watches you and your Mom all the time. My Mom and I live in a small home and I have a great yard. I know this is your first yard and you will love it!! I will be watching future videos for your ears blowing in the wind and how you navigate the doggie door...don't be nervous the door is wonderful once you get use to it. Mom and I are so happy for you and your Mom. Remember to take all your toys because in a yard there is lots of play space. I'll be watching and loving you having fun!!

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

I am loving this so much!!!!! This is Susan and I read Desi every word you pawed!!!! We are sending you love and pets for all the great advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Susan & Desi

@elizabethsad8023 Жыл бұрын

Just wonderful 🤗🐾🐾🤗🐾🐾💕💕💕

@debmarrett212 Жыл бұрын

While my family didn't understand some of my choices, they always found a way to support me...especially my mom. I'm sure it was because her own mother and siblings didn't understand why she would divorce. It was 1968. Good women weren't divorced. For quite a few years they couldn't understand the severity of abuse she (and my sister & I) were going through. Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!

@andreeabelciu6081 Жыл бұрын

I am younger, not divorced, with kids still at home, but in a new country, doing school for the last 5 years so I can really change my life and my kids future. Every day I feel like I know I am going to make it but at the same time I am in the pit of despair thinking how I left a life behind me at 45 and moved to a new country with a suitcase. Every day I am facing all my past, all the teachings and realizing what was I being thought: to be submissive, glad with what you have, not complaining, and to work and endure all in the name of what? I am clearly searching for me, for my true self, and women like you just turn the light on to help us see which way to go. The tenacity, and the will power not to give up and to do what you want are remarkable. You are so positive, and encouraging that I have no choice but to keep going. Thank and I wish all the best for you and Desi. Enjoy your new life, you worked hard and you deserve it!!!🏡

@lindachristie6060 Жыл бұрын

You made the right decision and you will love your new home with Desi! The joy you get from your grandchildren giving you hugs will be the best feeling in the world. You are a beautiful, caring person and you deserve this wonderful new life. I will follow you wherever you are just please don’t stop your videos. Sending love to you and Desi! ❤

@jodabney4358 Жыл бұрын

I really get upset when someone doesnt agree...I'm old enough to know what I want and... my stars I'm now in a place that I really don't have to account to anyone...I want my dream

@dianebalausiak6561 Жыл бұрын

My son was good at basketball. He said mom, I want to be involved in basketball in some way but I know dad, who I was separated from, will tell me, not to waste my time because that won't go anywhere. I told my son. Don't ever let someone tell you what you can and cannot do. If it's your passion, you go for it because people do make it against the odds but you'll never know unless you try. In the end, he chose a different career but I'll be damned if I was going to discourage that young man. In life you try, you fall, you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and like the song says you Keep on keeping on.

@sarahkyle9457 Жыл бұрын

I found a wall hanging that said “ don’t start your today with broken pieces of yesterday “ I bought it quickly and took a picture of it so my iPhone has it where I can see it and be reminded of it every time I fall back into the past . Just had to share

@lesliepeterson2806 Жыл бұрын

Today I am missing my Mom so deeply and I watched your video and it made my heart stronger and mind clearer and faith abounds. I am just now taking a much needed break from hard nursing work, and yes, it is crazy for me to do this though I must. I am standing alone. Each day, I see beauty that I never have seen and my mind and thoughts and weary body is unwinding from long, stressful work. THANK YOU for you, your inspiration, you joy, your encouragement and your beautiful presence! [From Cape Cod, MA!]

@brenyule Жыл бұрын

Can’t wait for the walk through and seeing Desi in his new space for the first time! Your decorating journey will be fun too ❤❤❤

@barbaradobson9298 Жыл бұрын

I loved your video on the lady photographer who has passed. I can’t recall her name now but the details of her life and art I still think about. You have great talent and are extremely talented. Please keep up the videos. Love that Desi will have his yard to romp in because his Mom has tenacity, diligence and real grit. You’re an inspiration to all of us here. You’re greatly loved, Susan… you and your sidekicks Hal & Desi.

@treasuremuch9185 Жыл бұрын

Vivian Maier is the photographer. Look on KZfaq for a documentary, and written biography. I've seen it, such a fascinating story. Even when she was scraping by she made sure to have enough for film, even though she didn't develop many rolls then she stored them and that's how we came to know about her. When someone bought her storage unit contents and developed what was in the rolls. She also had many developed before her senior years.

@Samantha-wu5vn Жыл бұрын

I turned 70 in January and have been taking care of my mom with Alzheimer's. She lives with me and trying to fix her up a cute room and redo her bathroom with safety features. I feel like I have no life for myself but feel so guilty if I would even consider a nursing home. I get no help from family and do it all alone. She is so sweet and a blessing. I just need to find some joy within myself. I have no energy and feel worthless. Your channel gives me hope and inspiration. Now to get off my pity party and make positive decisions that will affect me and bring out some joy for my mom also. I just need to put one foot in front of the other. Thank you for your encouragement. ❤❤❤❤

@glorialush9598 Жыл бұрын

I think of my grandmother and grandfather who came to the U.S. on a ship from Sweden. How brave they were! It was a life changing decision. You are an inspiration to your followers including me! I cannot wait to hear more about your adventure.

@marvapemberton5733 Жыл бұрын

Little Poet, this was one of your best videos. I think that you are doing a great thing buying a little house for you and Dezi. Continue to stand tall and be an inspiration for women. I moved from Ohio to Texas to be near my daughter and her family and ,I was told that I could not do this,But I did and I know that I made the right decision. I'm so happy now, so thanks again.

@juliasummers3 Жыл бұрын

I am 59 and I have a very large home I bought when I was 40 years old by myself as a single woman and mom. I had someone say to me that it is such a shame that a family with children don't live in my house who could really use it and still have years to raise kids in this beautiful home. I guess I don't deserve to own a home I worked for because I don't have 40 more years to live and I can't have children? I'm not worth a nice home and yard because I'm older and a woman alone? I responded by saying that I won't feel bad or guilty because I worked hard and spent decades to buy my dream home because I deserve it more because I worked for it all alone and I earned the right to be happy and enjoy my harvest. ❤ and my dream home.

@nextchapter4013 Жыл бұрын

Sooooo happy for you and Desi. Change is hard but it grows you so much. At 36, I was divorced, a single mom and terrified of the changes I was faced to make. But, 15-1/2 years of on and off break-up and totally heartbroken, I knew things would never be the same, so I faced the storm and pushed through to the rainbow on the other side. Four years later, life began again. Now, it’s 33 years later, life is better than I could have imagined and I too, got my little Cape Cod. ❤

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

You are so kind and thank you so much for your comment...!!! Happy new week! xo Susan & Desi

@nextchapter4013 Жыл бұрын

@@LittlePoet Happy Monday! Thank you. Can’t wait to watch your new journey unfold.🙏🏻♥️

@susannacohen5239 Жыл бұрын

Your words of wisdom are priceless. So many people are feeling blessed by your channel. Blessings to you sweet lady.

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! You are so lovely and so kind...you left my heart!!! Happy new week! xo Susan & Desi

@bluesash10 Жыл бұрын

Oh, Susan, it makes me SO happy to see you so joyful, even finishing with a song! It's just contagious! Thank you for inspiring me when my soul feels like it can't go any further. I'm at that place you mentioned... I'm at a crossroads. I have the privilege of taking care of my mom, but I'm alone and stagnant, watching my life go by at 50. I can't complain though; I've had some big dreams come true. I've also had some big ones die... like becoming a mother. Now, my most cherished passions have perished. I keep trying to hold it all together because I don't want to lose anything else. I fear I'm too weak now to gain much new. Still, your video today reminded me of when I was young. When I didn't believe the people that said "no", when Marlee Matlin won... when I thought the impossible could be done... Thank you for showing me we can go on. Thank you, dear friend. Hug Desi for me, ok? PS: You looked radiant today! I'll come back next week. 🧡🐶🏡

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

Oh I am saying my best prayer for you! Crossraods....time to catch your breath and pick your path and making walking shoes....God give us two pair...:)

@bluesash10 Жыл бұрын

@@LittlePoet Amen! Aww, sweetheart, thank you. Praying for you too.😘

@cremebrulee4759 Жыл бұрын

Hal is a treasure, and Desi is so precious. I don't know if I ever made a decision and had no support. My sisters have both supported me. I am so glad that your dreams are coming true. I would love to buy a house, but can't really afford the upkeep. It makes me wonder how you traveled from having nothing to where you are now. I suppose that's really not my business, and maybe you have talked about it in the past, and I missed it. Congratulations on all that you have accomplished. You have been through a lot. You are a very sweet woman, and it is good to see you so happy. 💗

@lindareddoch1844 Жыл бұрын

It's so freeing to be independent and able to buy your own place. It took hard work and determination. You'll never know how much you have helped me through my only relative my daughter's death and then I got cancer 6 weeks later, probably from eating poorly, couple of extra glasses of wine and depression. No relatives, only grandchildren and a terrible son-in-law who won't let me see my grandchildren. I am so much like you. Everyone considers me to be kind and thoughtful and looking out for the good of everyone around me. I'm on the road to health and happiness look, mostly from my Spiritual Church teachings, your inspiration on KZfaq. We would be best friends if we knew each other just like sisters

@lindareddoch1844 Жыл бұрын

I was born to love beauty in the world whether it's fashion, nature and the beauty field. I ended up being a nurse because I was a divorced mother, I needed stability but the beauty field was my baby

@dianahodnicki6612 Жыл бұрын

Great rendition of Movin on Up. My Dear you are brimming with happiness and excitement on what the future may bring. God Bless you for sharing your life, good and bad with us. Know that this 62 year old gal appreciates the effort you put forth each week💐💐💐

@1218kimber Жыл бұрын

I’ve gotten to where I don’t tell people much. I’ve found they just want me to settle, or they don’t have confidence in me for much, honestly. So I talk to God about things, asking Him if He would want me to pursue whatever it is.

@brendanyhus5973 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your house! I will be anxious to see it and share your journey of decorating, etc. About a year and a half ago, I reached out to a man I knew long ago. He and I had both lost our spouses. It all started with a snail mail letter - yes, handwritten by me. The letter was received and responded to. I had reconnected with someone who genuinely related to experiences I was going through. We became friends who texted, then friends who talked on the phone and then friends who saw each other in person…despite a 900 mile distance between us. Family and friends were pretty skeptical when I announced that we were in a relationship. “How is that going to work?” was a common question. But, I dreamed it could work and that he and I had something really special. We saw each other as often as we could (and we found ourselves making that trip frequently). Friendship turned into love. On February 12, 2023, he proposed and I said YES! He will be moving from Texas to South Dakota in August. No one gave our relationship a chance, but us. Gosh, I am so glad I sent that letter!

@lisab8818 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing. Your story reminds me of my mother. A year after my father died (after 54 happy years of marriage) she dated and fell in love again. People judged her. But she was happy. She is 91 now and still enjoys a happy life.

@andreabenson2491 Жыл бұрын

I made a decision to buy a little house 4 and a half years ago....the place was a disaster but I believed I could rebuild (I watched a lot of HGTV) .... Obstacles crossed my path at first, once I got through those I hired a contractor and redid the inside of my little house - it was a lot - when it was finished I bought myself a beautiful moonstone ring - it was a gift to myself because I did it, I didn't realize what a huge undertaking it was - it symbolizes girl power, new beginnings, strength and light to brighten the path toward my journey! Everyday I'm grateful, I love this place, I made my home here and continue to do things to make it my own🏠❤️I wish you much happiness in your little home too!👍👏😊

@LittlePoet Жыл бұрын

OH I Love this!! It reminds me of Under the Tuscan SUn!!! I am sure I will have those moments too where i am moving...lots of Oh what have I done moments....followed by love and happiness that is boundless...the wind never blows so cold again hen you truly find you forever home....xxoo Susan & Dez

@artemisappollo1491 Жыл бұрын

It's so nice to see you so happy😊 this one made me laugh and feel better😊 I am at a crossroads right now ( really just trying to survive at the moment), I am still trying to come to terms with my mom's death & then my daughters father passed away unexpectedly ..I have been doing a lot of talking & praying 🙏 because you can't keep everything bottled up😢 Your videos are so real and you seem like such a loving person that it helps to watch you * especially since you have been so happy and blessed😊

@cynthiaduquette7423 Жыл бұрын

What a metamorphosis you have gone through. It’s been enjoyable to see this process for you and Desi. You have been brave and inspiring. Best to you both.

@loribreese-darling8636 Жыл бұрын

14 years ago I decided to divorce my husband of 21 years. I had been a stay at home mom for all those years and just started back to work 9 months before I moved out..I was scared shitless and only had the support of ONE friend at the time..no one else, not even my family. I just knew I had to do this or I would continue to die inside. Hardest decision I have EVER made, but best decision that shaped my life in ways I never dreamt possible. I'm self sufficient, taking care of myself by myself. It's so empowering when you don't need the help of others and can make it on your own. So they say the things that scare you the most, do those!! You're probably on the right path...I just recently found your channel and have fallen in love with your sweet, gentle spirit. Thank you for following your dreams, while inspiring more people than you could possibly imagine. Love and light beautiful soul!❤✌️

@loiswalling4711 Жыл бұрын

I’m 64 and just now downsizing from home to apt. My man died almost 3 yrs ago now. So, I’ve finally made this decision and action takes place this weekend

@Melissabella Жыл бұрын

You and Desi deserve a home with a back yard! Desi will have so much fun. So will you, Susan!

@LS-um3zq Жыл бұрын

Oh, Oh, Oh!! I know why the burner goes up and down!!! It's a safety feature. If you forget you have a pot on the stove, it can sense when the level is dropping and after a certain point, will turn itself off. I have it on my stove. Haven't had to test it yet though ;)

@nancyhelgeson9934 Жыл бұрын

As a healthy 70 yr old woman who is aging alone, some of the decisions I am making are about who to list on my medical directive, how I want to be remembered, and end-of-life decisions, etc. You are blessed to have a family and grandchildren. Your choices are yours. I have been successful in many ways, and contributed to others' lives. Support hasn't been in my life much at any time. It was somewhat dramatic for you. Who cares who thinks we are nuts. :)

@lebasi47453 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video, Susan. I have stood alone and made those difficult decisions all my life. I know exactly what you mean, the feeling of not being sure if what you doing is right, the feeling of being uncomfortable is just unbearable sometimes. Of course, this only relates to the big decisions. Decisions hard to do as an adult; Divorce, closing a business after 14 years of operation, relocating from west to east, pursuing a Ph.D. at 52 years of age, filing bankruptcy to keep the family in the house, undisturbed... at the moment is hard, uncomfortable, hurtful, emotional, etc, but once we overcome the difficulties, we come to the other side, stronger and confident. I am glad you are sharing your story. Everyone has a story to tell never feel short of sharing. Question: how do people make money on a youtube channel?

@gingershaffer2547 Жыл бұрын

Well I believe you!!!!! And through these years I've seen you push and push and make your dreams happen. It has really blown me away to see all that you have accomplished in such a short time. My hardest decision to make was when I decided it was time for me to stand on my own Even though everyone said I shouldn't do it, was when I moved from a Texas where I had grown up to a brand new state where I had never been before, Colorado! I wanted to get away from my past and start a new life and I've done it. People thought I was crazy but the drive in me was so strong. I couldn't stop it if I had wanted to. It was one of the best things that ever happened to me. This "little tub" needed to learn to stand on its own bottom. I'm at another crossroads now but I just have to pick myself up, dust myself off and start all over again! It's always overwhelming to put 1 ft in front of the other to get started but the journey is where the growth is. The best to you, my wonderful friend. You are such an inspiration to me. I can't wait to see the video of Desi running around his backyard🎉❤

@BrendaHouston_ Жыл бұрын

I found your channel in 2016. I had just went through a divorce, started massage therapy school and cut all my hair off in a pixie. I’d never had short hair before. I’d never felt so lost. Massage therapy school put the fire back in me. I was 40 and I was the oldest in my class but I drove an hour and 20 minutes each way for 6 months. I did that. I never went to college because I became a wife at 19 and a mother at 20. For the first time I had accomplished something I could be proud of. I would watch your videos every week and you gave me hope for the future. I admired your smile and how pretty you made your little apartment with Cooper. Now I’m at another crossroads and you inspire me again. I’m having to phase out of massage therapy probably because my ribs have been popping out under my scapula and I have been so depressed. I dream of having my own home and Susan I am so happy for you. There’s a saying that a pastor friend of mine says, “The rest of my life is the best of my life”. He’s in his mid 70’s and he gets on Facebook everyday and encourages everyone to say it with him. The rest of my life is the best of my life. When people ask you why you’re buying a house at this stage of your life you tell them that! Because the rest of your life is the best of your life. That’s why.

@cynthiaventresca7697 Жыл бұрын

That was beautiful, thank you for sharing I will remember that mantra! Peace to your heart. ❤

@claudiamendezporter3816 Жыл бұрын

At 19, I made the decision to follow my dreams. Forty years later, I do not regret it. My dad was a doctor, I had a beautiful home, my mom was an incredible person, wife, homemaker and mother. But I wanted to find myself. I did the correct thing for myself. Today I run my own business, I have two loving daughters, a husband that is my best friend, but most importantly, I found me, and respect me for following my instincts and my dreams.

@sandraperry8769 Жыл бұрын

Well, if this wasn’t one of my favorite videos Susan! I love listening to how you make your life a full life. How’ll you take chances and move towards your happiness. Such A Strong Lady. I am so very proud of your hard efforts and I know You and Desi will be Blessed with A Happy Journey together. I shall be back every week so Please Be There ❤

@Elizabeth-arb22 Жыл бұрын

Susan and Desi, your video this week was so touching and powerful. I certainly don't think you're being dramatic. Your accomplishments are really important, and well-deserved! Being enthusiastic and excited about the good things you have to look forward to -- because of your own work and passion -- is something you richly deserve! I am SO happy for you and Desi! I can hardly wait to see your slow-mo video of Desi running around his new back yard, with the wonderful music playing in the background. When you were telling him about his doggie door, I could have sworn he understood you. Love to you both, Susan and Desi 💗💗

@stephanielang8168 Жыл бұрын

"Crazy idea... don't you LOVE those?" That's my favorite quote from UNDER THE TUSCAN SUN. She just got divorced, feels lost & alone, went on a trip alone to Italy, felt a crazy feeling about buying an old rundown home in the countryside in a country where she doesn't' know anyone or speak the language and by the end she has everything she had hoped for - in a different way than she thought. She's not over 60 but it still inspires me because I see how weak & vulnerable she is yet still has hope - a little green shoot of hope like in the Spring.

@kindred1113 Жыл бұрын

Sues, we don't give us enough credit, but we are something else! Dreams do come true when we don't give up and we trust in the Lord. You so deserve that house because you exist. Nothing to do we age. Dreams are free my dear lady.........I know you and Desis will be so happy in your new castle! Cannot wait to see it and enjoy it with you............many blessings.......HUGS...MINDY

@vicki1120 Жыл бұрын

Susan, I'm so happy and excited for you and Desi! I can hardly wait to see you decorate your new house and watch Desi run free in his backyard! I always look forward to your videos. Thank you for being you!